Black, White or Brown: All Expats Are Welcomed in Mexico

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
  • Black Americans like Tayler Ava Friar have found Mexico to be a more accepting country than many parts of the United States. Tayler talks about her experience living in Mexico as a Black woman. And she's also an art historian, so she shares a little bit about Afro-Mexican history in this video.
    Check out Tayler's TEDX talk: • How to affirm black vo...
    And Casa Elm's RUclips channel ‪@CasaELM‬
    Mexicans have a very accepting culture - it's one of the reasons many Americans are moving south.
    Even though Mexico has a history of forced migration of African American slaves, the country outlawed slavery in 1837, nearly 30 years before the United States. And there are many accounts of slaves escaping slavery by crossing south into Mexico.
    Check out the Yarbro's video on Afro-Mexicans: • Mexico's Blackest City
    As you may know, I struggle with using the word expat. But for the title of this video, I started with foreigners, but that didn't imply living in Mexico. And the word "immigrant" is commonly used with people moving north (especially when combined with the word Mexico,) so for SEO purposes, I chose "expat." Thanks for understanding.
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Комментарии • 252

  • @rosalindhb
    @rosalindhb 11 месяцев назад +49

    Thank you for this. As a black woman considering retirement in Mexico, this was very helpful. Please have more guess like her. I love her attitude and her creativeness. Her settlement echoes other stories from other black people that Mexico is very welcoming.
    I live currently in Texas and racism continues to be a issue here and across America. I just want to go somewhere where I am a person and "color".

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +13

      I'm glad you commented. I've heard mostly great things from Black people in Mexico. It's not perfect by any means, but the US is becoming a hostile place for anyone who isn't a white, Christian man. Mexican culture is a breath of fresh air!

    • @alaskanwhiskey
      @alaskanwhiskey 11 месяцев назад

      First step is to stop calling yourself black as that is a misnomer. You are copper colored like the penny. Only your hair, eyebrows are black. You need to do your genealogy via paperwork to find out you se truely indigenous to this United States. I live in Mexico and have two years now and know the truth about us. If I came from Africa why is ZERO of my ancestry go back there and stay in the usa and my tree has 99 percent of those who were reclassified from Indian to mulatto, black, black indian, colored, negro, afro-american, african-American? Makes no sense does it? That's why you need to do your research. We need to stop allowing others to tell us what we truely aren't.

    • @pablovazquezpiquet1769
      @pablovazquezpiquet1769 10 месяцев назад

      Merida hay.comunidad expatriada afro

    • @mexican-americanpatriot721
      @mexican-americanpatriot721 8 месяцев назад

      Our white old President Biden is a fool

  • @Nola1176
    @Nola1176 11 месяцев назад +36

    EXCELLENT! As a black woman, this warms my heart. I've been planning to retire to Mexico. I still have at least about 8 years before pulling the trigger. But building community is the most important to me and I have been visiting with that in mind. This is a great episode. Thank you so much.

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +3

      Thank you for watching! In researching for this video, I found that there are a couple parts of Mexico with larger Black expat communities: Merida and Playa del Carmen were two on the list, but there were a bunch more. And there are smaller Black communities in most Mexican destinations.

    • @retrodesignworkshop9429
      @retrodesignworkshop9429 11 месяцев назад +2

      If you integrate in some way to the locals you are not required any special community, or you are gonna forget you have a especial community.

    • @Nola1176
      @Nola1176 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@retrodesignworkshop9429 I definitely have connected with locals as well but just like the US when Mexicans find communities of other Mexicans, finding the black expat community is equally important for support and culture. I'm not choosing one over the other.

    • @retrodesignworkshop9429
      @retrodesignworkshop9429 11 месяцев назад

      When I lived in the United States 30 years ago I lived in the Mexican bubble, certainly. However, I found it very curious to see neighborhoods with people very similar to each other, as if they were all relatives.@@Nola1176

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +5

      @retrodesignworkshop9429 I agree with Nola. When you're an immigrant in a country, it's important to integrate with the locals, but also to connect with other immigrants like yourself. This is pretty common in the US. There are historically Irish, Chinese, Polish, etc. neighborhoods because people like to have some familiarity - and those people help them connect with their new home.

  • @gregorriusadolphus2729
    @gregorriusadolphus2729 8 месяцев назад +21

    As an African-American male, I've had the same experience travelling through Mexico...the people are warm and friendly and I have been embraced...I've made awesome friends there (I haven't moved there yet-I live in Texas and travel to Mexico City quite often). Unfortunately, as she has noted, I've only experienced off-color (pun intended LOL) behavior and remarks while meeting other white Americans while travelling.

    • @petep5207
      @petep5207 8 месяцев назад +2

      Did it happen in Chicago, on a sub-zero night--around 2 AM--while you were on your way to grab a sandwich at Subway?

    • @swallacegray2013
      @swallacegray2013 12 дней назад

      The truth is the truth why are u on defense​@@petep5207?

  • @cindyk3076
    @cindyk3076 11 месяцев назад +15

    This was another wonderful interview, Tayler is the perfect person because she is a historian and has so many facts! I'm very happy for her that she has found a freedom in MX that she will not be able to find in the U.S. and a wonderful community. Thank you for this, Brighton.

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +2

      I was so glad to hook up with Tayler and get this interview. We had a heck of a time connecting - but Tayler made it happen!

  • @terrylarsen7711
    @terrylarsen7711 11 месяцев назад +10

    Well done, Brighton. So glad you gave me the opportunity to listen to Taylor. So many interesting observations on Mexico. Like Taylor, from the minute I got her, I have felt safe, welcomed, and so very blessed to be able to live in such a wonderful place with my amazing Mexican neighbors. Great video. Thanks🏆

  • @yoni-in-BHAM
    @yoni-in-BHAM 4 месяца назад +4

    I lived in Playas de Tijuana some years ago and was pleasantly surprised at how well I was treated there - and in the other areas I've visited as well! As a Black woman in Mexico, I didn't have to deal with the micro-aggressions, nor was I followed around in stores! The biggest thing that I noticed was how I wasn't bothered while taking my nightly walks for exercise!
    Except for that one time when a white van pulled up next to me and the driver asked me something in Spanish. I tried to respond - in my practically non-existent Spanish, lol! Then he said "Puerto Rican?" I told him "no" and then they just suddenly sped off real fast! It wasn't till I got home that I realized that they were probably looking for illegals and thought that perhaps I was one of them - maybe.
    Anyway, I got along pretty well there and the companies that I delt with helped me with setting up my utility and cable payments, etc...
    They were very patient and kind to me, which as a Black autistic woman was very helpful and appreciated! ♥️🇺🇲🇲🇽

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  4 месяца назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your story!

    • @yoni-in-BHAM
      @yoni-in-BHAM 4 месяца назад

      ​@@AlmostRetiredinMexico No problem! 👍
      The only reason I'm no longer in Mexico today is because of the beautiful Pacific Northwest - where I currently reside - British Columbia, and Alaska, these places are in my soul!
      But I do love and miss Mexico and taking trips back to Mexico is in the cards in the near future! 👍

  • @akken2112
    @akken2112 11 месяцев назад +19

    It's interesting that she said the only issue she had with race while in Mexico came from white Americans. I've heard the same thing from African American men in Costa Rica.

    • @TheMohnyc
      @TheMohnyc 22 дня назад

      Imagine saying the opposite.

    • @akken2112
      @akken2112 22 дня назад

      @@TheMohnyc I would not be surprised if Mexicans said the only problems, they have from visitors are with North Americans who identify as white.

  • @lazarocedeno5270
    @lazarocedeno5270 7 месяцев назад +5

    Thanks so much for your video. Very important info.

  • @angelsmusic5550
    @angelsmusic5550 11 месяцев назад +6

    I enjoyed watchin Taylors 'story in San Miguel de Allende thanks for sharing ...love from B.C. Canada!

  • @acajudi100
    @acajudi100 9 месяцев назад +5

    I am a brown USA citizen, and have been coming to Mexico, mainly Acapulco, since 1962 at age 20. I am 81 now, and have
    retired to Queretaro in 2021 at 79. I deal with locals, and I do speak Spanish as a second language since age 14.

    • @alannahprestaynofbraavos5759
      @alannahprestaynofbraavos5759 4 месяца назад

      I often wonder what it would be like for brown USA citizens in Mexico. How are we seen in Mexico by Mexicans? What are the interactions like with white Americans? Just curious.

  • @timcampbell6008
    @timcampbell6008 8 месяцев назад +5

    I met a mixed-race couple from the US in Mexico and they asked me about racism in Canada. I said yes we had racism among the stupid but they were generally more polite about it. In Cuba, the official story is there is no racism but you often see darker-skinned people in lower-status jobs, and talking to a few Cubans there definitely seemed to be racist attitudes which I will not share here. I befriended an American who had befriended a Huichol native family. I asked them if they minded that a lot of Mexicans looked down on them. Their answer was no, they were the chosen people. Sadly a lot of people need someone to look down on to feel good about themselves. I wish it did not exist.

  • @sylvianewell9486
    @sylvianewell9486 9 месяцев назад +5

    I loved Taylor's insight and am looking forward to her TED talk. Great interview!!

  • @melaniesmith3954
    @melaniesmith3954 11 месяцев назад +7

    Taylor is a beam of light.

  • @ezequielbarraza6340
    @ezequielbarraza6340 7 месяцев назад +3

    Great video and Great guest.... Thank you for promoting my country....

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you for watching and for your appreciation! It means a lot to me that I could showcase your country in a positive light.

  • @Grzesmo
    @Grzesmo 7 месяцев назад +5

    Not expats, you guys are immigrants, or is there El Instituto National de Expats? And just curious, are you trying to learn Spanish and talk to Mexicans in Spanish?

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  7 месяцев назад

      Can you give me the definition of expat and then explain why it doesn’t apply?
      There is no Instituto National de Foreigners, but that doesn’t mean we aren’t foreigners.
      I agree that immigrant also describes us.
      We both speak beginners Spanish and are learning more.

  • @jimmackin8976
    @jimmackin8976 11 месяцев назад +13

    First! Viva a Mexico

  • @visulino
    @visulino 8 месяцев назад +4

    There is an Italian TV show (RAI) which is the most popular in the country, Un Professore. The main character is Alessandro Gassmann, whose mother died in San Miguel de Allende in July 2023. She was a retired French actress named Juliette Mayniel. I couldn't find any recent picture of her in San Miguel de Allende, though people say she was well-known in the town.

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  8 месяцев назад

      Thanks for sharing! I was only in SMA for a few days, so I didn't hear about Juliette.

  • @AthenaCargill98175
    @AthenaCargill98175 10 месяцев назад +9

    Thank you for this video I'm planning on moving to Mexico one day I'm tired of living in the US and not having motivation or finding myself I'm a black woman who wants to move to another country and fit in and feel comfortable and safe as well

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  9 месяцев назад

      I hope you can make the move to Mexico soon! It's a wonderful place to live.

    • @Blackmambaaa69
      @Blackmambaaa69 8 месяцев назад +1

      I’m feeling the same way.

    • @constancew7
      @constancew7 8 месяцев назад

      I've been here for a short while so far but I love it! Come!

    • @constancew7
      @constancew7 8 месяцев назад

      @@Blackmambaaa69 Come on out. You will love it!

    • @petep5207
      @petep5207 8 месяцев назад

      Just curious, why don't you feel safe in the U.S.?

  • @jaimemoreno5739
    @jaimemoreno5739 7 месяцев назад +4

    Me alegra como mexicano saber qué hay gente linda de otros países que les guste nuestra tierra bienvenida te comparto que en Coahuila hay colonias de gente linda de color como tu que son gente muy buena 😊❤❤

  • @dhobby7771
    @dhobby7771 11 месяцев назад +6

    I too enjoy this wonderful country and it's people. ATB from sunny Cancun! 😎

  • @lindylee1139
    @lindylee1139 11 месяцев назад +8

    Omg this is my dream to split my time between Paris and Mexico!

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +1

      This is an amazing split of locations! I could finally get some use out of 3 years of high school French lessons! Why didn't I take Spanish? Hmmm...

  • @JourneywithMAMAZURI-hb8nr
    @JourneywithMAMAZURI-hb8nr 11 месяцев назад +3

    It’s amazing that you did this segment. I’m reading South to Freedom.

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад

      Thank you! And thanks for sharing that book title. I just found an interview with the author: ruclips.net/video/C54tN67fEnA/видео.htmlsi=QxVznevESshYFsKW

  • @andreabalanzariogutierrez6767
    @andreabalanzariogutierrez6767 11 месяцев назад +20

    Just a bit of advice: in México we really don´t care about skin color or tones. You´re welcome whoecer your are. The key it what you talk about: México is a great place to live...

    • @mikeyrose4183
      @mikeyrose4183 9 месяцев назад

      You see bro. . . when evil satan decides 🇺🇸👹 to invade you morrrons, I will not help you people. How can you be welcoming to your enemy? Havent you fkn learned from past history?

    • @Rbhawk3rd
      @Rbhawk3rd 9 месяцев назад +3

      I live in Mexico. I love it here. To say they don't care about color or skin tone is a stretch. Americans are treated well but the colorism in Mexico is the same amongst each other as every other Latin country. It's evident

    • @mayonesa6610
      @mayonesa6610 9 месяцев назад

      Americans are so obsessed with race it’s so annoying. As a Mexican living in united states dealing with woke Americans it’s so annoying. And then I see them moving to Mexico with the Same mentality no thank you. Mexicans don’t want that.

    • @pedroantonioF5
      @pedroantonioF5 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@Rbhawk3rdExactly, what they do not say is that many Mexicans discriminate against the indigenous communities of the country, for example here in Chihuahua there are many Tarahumara women who sell their products, clothes, bracelets etc, just to bring some money to their humble homes, and many times I had to see how many people were bothered even just by their presence, they shouted at them to leave, many times they even stole their merchandise made with their own hands, it gives me a lot of anger, but it is something that makes me ashamed of my Mexico, they treat foreigners better than their own people 😔

    • @FreeToBe_Me
      @FreeToBe_Me 8 месяцев назад +1

      Colorism/racism is very evident in Latin American media (telenovelas/magazines) and among those who hold power (elected officials/the wealthy). Having said that, Black Americans are generally exempt (unlike afro-Latinos and Haitian migrants) and have a much more welcoming experience. There is privilege that comes with that blue passport.

  • @irenemassey6292
    @irenemassey6292 11 месяцев назад +5

    The best thing no worrying about Mexicans , we welcome everyone,no worries about the others

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +2

      This is so true! Mexican culture is very accepting of everyone. I'll have an LGBTQ specific video coming out soon. Mexicans just don't seem to get too worried about other people's business.

    • @ricardo_cn
      @ricardo_cn 10 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@AlmostRetiredinMexicoIndeed. The motto we have is "Live and let it live"

  • @nickyingtavorn5491
    @nickyingtavorn5491 9 месяцев назад +4

    I like the way you said Black, White or Brown all are welcome to Mexico by the way I am yellow stand for Asian and I plan to go live in Mexico I love Mexico and Mexican foods beautiful country

  • @mwiebe2663
    @mwiebe2663 11 месяцев назад +4

    This was a great video. I really enjoyed it.

  • @GardenBreezeProductions
    @GardenBreezeProductions 10 месяцев назад +3

    Wow 👌 👏. Impressive! Thank you for this opportunity to learn. I'm moving to Belize from Canada and hopefully I will have an opportunity to visit. Very interesting 👌

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  10 месяцев назад

      Best of luck in Belize. I’ve never been, but it’s in my list :-)

  • @joaniedaniel9889
    @joaniedaniel9889 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for always posting such positive information.😊

  • @BecomingMexican
    @BecomingMexican 3 дня назад

    As a historian you’re going to love the chipotle podcast Rocio has an episode discussing the city of Puebla’s black heritage. She also has a lot of amazing episodes about Mexican gastronomy

  • @user-mg4fk2zx6r
    @user-mg4fk2zx6r 2 месяца назад +1

    Hi, I am from the Berkeley Ca. I am happy I get a chance to hear your story ❤

  • @victorbrack
    @victorbrack 3 месяца назад +1

    Hello guys!! I love your video. But as a Mexican I must tell you something really important.
    Referring to U.S. nationals living abroad as "expats" rather than "immigrants" can be problematic and fails to acknowledge important realities. The term "illegal immigrant" is often used to describe people who reside in a country without official authorization, and while this term carries significant stigma and legal implications, it is important to recognize that many U.S. nationals living abroad may also fall into this category. They often live in foreign countries without proper visas or work permits, benefiting from local infrastructure and services without paying taxes or contributing to the local economy.
    At the end of the day, these individuals are indeed immigrants, as they have left their home country in search of a better life elsewhere. This pursuit of improved living conditions, economic opportunities, or personal experiences is fundamentally the same motivation that drives many other immigrants around the world, including those from Mexico.
    Mexicans IN MEXICO are particularly politically aware and sensitive to patronizing attitudes that often accompany the term "expat." The implication that US citizens are different from or superior to other immigrants is not only inaccurate but also offensive. Mexicans abhor such double standards and expect a fair acknowledgment of the realities of migration.
    It is crucial for U.S. nationals, even those with good intentions, to recognize these dynamics if they wish to be accepted and interact meaningfully with Mexicans. Acknowledging that they are immigrants who should respect local laws and contribute fairly to society is a step toward genuine integration and mutual respect. This awareness and humility can foster better relationships and greater acceptance within their host communities.
    PS. By the way, many Mexicans avoid the word "American", we use the word US citizen. For Mexicans America is a whole continent.

  • @Wilfredos_
    @Wilfredos_ 11 месяцев назад +7

    WOW!, WOW!, WOW!, what an interesting story, what an interesting life. ThankYOU for bringing her story to us!

  • @lucian_73
    @lucian_73 8 месяцев назад +4

    Love this video. I got my passport and been figuring out what country I am ready to move to. I only get $1400 a month social security disability and I need to be close enough to the states so I can still go to a close VA clinic to get my meds and close to the states. Is Puerto Vallarta good? I want to live like locals. Not tourist. I want to go February and visit a week to see and then get ready to move. Anyone that could tell me anything that would help the research I would love that. 😀😀😀

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  8 месяцев назад +4

      You'll need additional income or savings to be able to get residency in Mexico. Puerto Vallarta is great with lots of flights to the US. And you can live in a local neighborhood. Check this video: ruclips.net/video/9C4eLaO276g/видео.html

    • @lucian_73
      @lucian_73 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@AlmostRetiredinMexico I will look at this right now. Thank you!

  • @MadeNCda
    @MadeNCda 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you Brighton for this lovely interview w Tayler. She is very enchanting and I will look further in to her org and share your video w friends, both black and not. I am lvg for Yucatan on the 4th and look frwd to being back in Mexico after being away for 2 yrs. 😊

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks for sharing the video! And congrats on your return to Mexico!

  • @retrodesignworkshop9429
    @retrodesignworkshop9429 11 месяцев назад +11

    I am Mexican and I don't understand why Americans like social bubbles. In Mexico we do not have any type of special racial community. If you visit Chinatown in Mexico you can't distinguish which one is Chinese descendant or not. We mixture very easy. In the history of Mexico there are very important characters who are of African mix, such as Morelos himself or the first Mexican president Guadalupe Victoria. In fact, let me tell you, I am quite whity and sometimes I receive some disapproval for that. In fact, it is very likely that we are going to have a woman in the presidency of Mexico. When women get married, they do not change their surname to that of their husband. In some social aspects, I think we are more advanced than other countries.

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +2

      I agree that Mexico is more advanced than the US in many ways. That's one reason I love it. I just read up on the naming convention and I like it even more now! I didn't know that Mexican women didn't change their names when they got married!

    • @retrodesignworkshop9429
      @retrodesignworkshop9429 11 месяцев назад +2

      I am excited by the idea that we can learn a lot from each other.@@AlmostRetiredinMexico

    • @retrodesignworkshop9429
      @retrodesignworkshop9429 11 месяцев назад

      Some time ago they did change the last name, and then it was optional, and now it is very rare for them to change. It produces a lot of confusion when it comes to proving the possession of any property.
      One culture influences the other. For example: I have cousins in the United States who dress up as Catrinas on Halloween, but it is not a tradition to dress up on the Day of the Dead, but there is an influence from the holiday of Halloween. And children enjoy it a lot, so on the Day of the Dead they are dressing up as Freddy Krueger. I don't like it but it's okay. Ha ha ha ha ha.@@AlmostRetiredinMexico

    • @alaskanwhiskey
      @alaskanwhiskey 11 месяцев назад +2

      We are not africans bro. We are the indigenous people of the United States and have been reclassified from mulatto, colored, negro, black, African-American, and black indian. None of my geneology goes back to Africa and we are of the reddish copper colored skin tone compared to the bluish hue of the African people and their soil. We are two different types of people. Martin Luther King created the Indian Civil Rights bill and not the "black" Civil right Bill as black means no origin same with African-american. Malcolm X said we were "aboriginals of this land" and not black also but is not here today because of those words. American indian is all I mark on documents because its in 100 percent of my family tree and I live in the mexican caribbean and they are doing the same with called the indigenous mexicans "afro-mexicans" it's a complete lie on our people for too long and this is why geneology and exposing the truth is important. I will also be meeting up with a true Mayan historian this week to put up a video 🗣 we are the true indigenous people of this continent

    • @alaskanwhiskey
      @alaskanwhiskey 11 месяцев назад +1

      Also note native Americans and American Indians are NOT the same. We are two different types of people as they derive from Mongolia and central Asia. We were always here and there are paintings, murals, and statues people are buying of us in Europe openly to this day! So people know who we TRUELY are!

  • @judithgrace9850
    @judithgrace9850 11 месяцев назад +5

    There are brown Mexicans. I am a brown American living in Queretaro
    Since 2021.

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +1

      I just love Querétaro. It's still at the top of my list for "places I would like to live if we sold our place in La Paz."

    • @1EQUALS-INFINITY
      @1EQUALS-INFINITY 11 месяцев назад

      Where are you at? I live in El Marques. I hope you are part of our group Queretaro Expats, we have people from all over the world and we have get together. You are welcome to join.

    • @ChocolateAristocrat
      @ChocolateAristocrat 11 месяцев назад

      I would love to visit…is there a “info/welcome” community I can connect with? Recently enjoyed time in Playa but still looking. Thanks in advance!

  • @juancarlosbaezpozos9353
    @juancarlosbaezpozos9353 9 месяцев назад +5

    My point of view as a Mexican is that white people and black people perceive themselves differently at all times and that permeates their minds and hearts sometimes in a negative way. Here we do not have communities of brown people or white people and I think you should not, although I understand that it is something you grew up with. It seems to me that when you form these communities it is to feel that strength where each individual does not exclude the other because they see themselves the same within the group and it gives them that feeling of "he or she cannot discriminate against me because we are both equal and we have been through for the same". If you think about it for a moment, it's sad. There is a part where she says, "Black Voices" but couldn't it just be "Voices" that share the same problems? That difference is in yourselves and as long as you do not get it out of there, you will not be able to perceive yourself as you are: equal to all of us. Awesome video and thanks for sharing.

    • @fdm2155
      @fdm2155 8 месяцев назад +3

      Yes, it could just be Voices, and if someone else wants to create that project, I'd certainly love to support it. However, that doesn't diminish the value or need for Black Voices or Female Voices or Muslim Voices or Whatever Voices to come together in particular ways that are different from what will be seen in a more heterogeneous group. Most of us belong to a variety of groups simultaneously, right? Nationality, gender, age, religion, profession, hobbies, sports... Also I really enjoy learning about these distinct communities and their experiences.

    • @FreeToBe_Me
      @FreeToBe_Me 8 месяцев назад +2

      People who preach the “i don’t see color” mindset miss out on so much. Why do you need everyone to be the same? It’s clear the subject makes them uncomfortable. That discomfort is something to sit with and reflect upon. Diversity among the human species is something to be embraced not denied.

    • @petep5207
      @petep5207 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@FreeToBe_Me Because the people who complain about racism are often the most racist ones themselves. This hypocrisy also happens with gender.

  • @geraldarnoult
    @geraldarnoult 7 месяцев назад +3

    Its not strange, becouse of the distorted image giving by U.S. hype about Mexico, there's whole town in Mexico that are white and rubio, but they don't call themselves black, brown. yellow or white, JUST MEXICANS

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  7 месяцев назад +1

      Actually it’s more about life in America. Not so much about US views of Mexicans. Those views skew lots of other things tho…

  • @beverlyb6391
    @beverlyb6391 11 месяцев назад +1

    Really appreciate you. What a great and inspiring guest.

  • @triciawilliams1093
    @triciawilliams1093 11 месяцев назад +5

    I’m just curious why are the Mexicans people are running and Americans are moving there ??

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +13

      10 Million Mexicans live in the US, out of a population of 127 Million. 8 Million US citizens live in Mexico out of 330M total. The Mexicans move north to earn better wages. The Americans move south to live a less expensive, more simple life.

    • @nala3038
      @nala3038 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@AlmostRetiredinMexicovery well said!

    • @ricardo_cn
      @ricardo_cn 10 месяцев назад +5

      I have to say that nowadays the mexicans are less to move to the USA but people from South America and Central America The mexicans are going there are mostly to study now more mexicans are going to Europe. I am one of them since I live in the UK

    • @christinet6336
      @christinet6336 8 месяцев назад +4

      You have a point. One common factor I always look at in non-Caucasian countries is the color make up of the educated classes. In Mexico, I don’t often see darker skinned Mexicans, or indigenous Mexicans, with positions of power in business, government, education, etc. That’s a fair sign of what is most likely going on in real life in the country. Also, black Americans, who travel abroad are often treated better than the original Black people or darker skinned indigenous peoples of the area. I’ve been to Western Europe several times in my life and have been treated exceptionally well compared to how I get treated in my own country. Lol. African-Americans in particular, have a unique culture and have created much in pop culture and art that the world emulates. So when Black Americans travel worldwide, our creativity, and artistic talent precedes us, and we are often more welcomed.

    • @petep5207
      @petep5207 8 месяцев назад

      @@christinet6336 Why do you think you are treated differently in your own country?

  • @fdm2155
    @fdm2155 8 месяцев назад +1

    Love it. SMA is on my list of places to check out on my next visit to Mexico. I'm well aware of Michelle's Casa Elm, her RUclips channel etc. Nice to see her get a shoutout here.

  • @Driver2724
    @Driver2724 9 месяцев назад +3

    Can I retire with 1000 dollars per month I am black man. Simple life old man

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  9 месяцев назад +1

      You could afford to live in Mexico on $1000 a month, probably not in one of the expat-heavy towns like San Miguel de Allende as they are more expensive. The trouble would be getting your residency visa. Mexico wants to see $50,000 in the bank/retirement accounts to get residency.

    • @Driver2724
      @Driver2724 9 месяцев назад

      @@AlmostRetiredinMexico I am American citizen can I make it in and out going to Laredo in back to Mexico just to use touristy Visa living like that for a long time??

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  9 месяцев назад

      @@Driver2724 You can try. I believe it's getting less easy to do as they are computerizing the immigration records and if they see a pattern, then can deny you entry, or give you just 7 days in the country. But there are still a lot of Americans doing this.

  • @happyinparadise7812
    @happyinparadise7812 9 месяцев назад +3

    All must assimilate. Learn espanol. More abd more the locals are starting to resent American people. Inflation is being blamed on the Gobermnt of usa. Hence the resentment.. Has this discussion today at a Pemex with the attendants. Be aware.

  • @gabrielgarciasalinas1519
    @gabrielgarciasalinas1519 17 дней назад

    I only hope you continue to feel welcomed in my country, and bring along more African Americans to live in Mexico. The US is nothing without blacks and Afroamerican culture, and Mexico will always receive you with open arms. God bless you.

  • @davebaker489
    @davebaker489 11 месяцев назад +11

    It's amazing and too damn bad, that outgoing intelligent attractive women of colour need to leave the U S A to grow their craft to new levels. You Go Gurl. You find some amazing subjects and people Mr. B. Here in Nova Scotia we were instrumental in some portions of the underground railroad. Funny thing though... so few seem to know it anymore. Those that were once slaves were instrumental in the founding of N S. If you follow Oak island an EX slave was once the wealthiest person in NS. Ban the weapons of death and promote the weapons of imagination and history AKA books. P n D

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks for sharing Dave. Knowledge is power (and that's a big reason for the book banning going on in the US - it's easy to keep control by keeping the population uneducated.)

    • @davebaker489
      @davebaker489 11 месяцев назад

      Yes... And the Hitler and Mussolini types knew all too well that was how to control the people. A good example is Kentucky. Some of the least educated folk in the U S A. Not because they are born stupid but because they are kept uneducated. @@AlmostRetiredinMexico

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +1

      @davebaker489 Kentucky is a great example! And now Florida is going that direction. Anyone who thinks banning books is a good thing must be uneducated, and they must want future generations to be the same.

    • @davidsebastianelli1326
      @davidsebastianelli1326 11 месяцев назад

      @@AlmostRetiredinMexicoWhen discussing education I have to point out to religious friends that as the myth goes, it was their god that originally banned the book of knowledge in the garden of Eden. Also I kind of enjoy pointing out that the buybull lacks any truly "white" people in it's writings. (Is worshiping a picture of a blond blue eyed Jesus heresy?)

    • @anotherabeer4341
      @anotherabeer4341 11 месяцев назад

      Everyone I know who has ever lived in Canada has told me it’s much more racist than the USA.

  • @odapty
    @odapty 7 месяцев назад +1

    Incredible beautiful this interview
    I love San Miguel

  • @carlosvega-ev2ie
    @carlosvega-ev2ie 8 месяцев назад +3

    im mexican, i think im in love of her

  • @BPe-ie9je
    @BPe-ie9je 11 месяцев назад +2

    Brighton and Tayler, what is the cost of living in San Miguel de Allende ??? Brighton in comparison ??? tks in advance (I'm an artist.....)

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +2

      I hope Tayler will answer here too. But my feeling is that it's a little more expensive than a place like La Paz where I live. But it seemed much more expensive that nearby Querétaro. But it's still about 50% less than living in the US on the west coast. I hope that helps.

    • @BPe-ie9je
      @BPe-ie9je 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@AlmostRetiredinMexico My daughter lives in Forestville. My grandson went to U in Eugene. Very expensive. Good to give comparison w Quertitaro. tks. I hear also very GRINGO. Very english speaking. That dilutes the culture. The architecture is lovely. The 'arts' are a draw '.

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +1

      @BPe-ie9je San Miguel is much more "gringo" than Querétaro. But Querétaro has a good deal of foreigners too. Queretaro felt more "real" to me. San Miguel is also a tourist destination for people from CDMX. So it feels more touristy, even if there weren't people from the US around.

    • @BPe-ie9je
      @BPe-ie9je 11 месяцев назад

      @@AlmostRetiredinMexico How do you compare it to LaPaz?

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +1

      @@BPe-ie9je Cost wise, SMA is more expensive than La Paz. Other than that, they aren't really comparable. Weather, architecture, size, arts, etc are all very different.

  • @pedrovazquez1937
    @pedrovazquez1937 9 месяцев назад +2

    We have afromexicans in coahuila they came from the usa and starlight en coahuila

  • @jeffokriya3389
    @jeffokriya3389 9 месяцев назад +7

    AMLO is to credit for all these humanistic efforts, such as recognizing the black Mexican community. Viva AMLO . . Viva Mexico !

    • @msprodchess
      @msprodchess 7 месяцев назад +1

      Mexico has been one of the best countries to live, ever. Viva Mexico siempre, sin propaganda política

  • @jj-bp3fr
    @jj-bp3fr 10 месяцев назад +4

    Blacks are rare in México, never seen one there, aside from US citizen blacks. Most blacks died centuries ago after being brought by the spanish due to weather amd other issues. I learned it in history class in a mexican school, so didn't nt make it up.

    • @alannahprestaynofbraavos5759
      @alannahprestaynofbraavos5759 4 месяца назад +1

      There is an entire afrodesciendentes population in Mexico - mostly on the Caribbean side.

    • @jj-bp3fr
      @jj-bp3fr 4 месяца назад +1

      @@alannahprestaynofbraavos5759 no, not really. Not enough to consider a huge population at all. Never seen them.

    • @Official_MarianoLopez
      @Official_MarianoLopez Месяц назад

      @@jj-bp3frYes they are lol. They are in guerreo and small areas of Mexico. It a small group but they are indeed afro mexicans lol

  • @ibelieveinjesuschrist8911
    @ibelieveinjesuschrist8911 11 месяцев назад +2

    wow!!

  • @swallacegray2013
    @swallacegray2013 9 месяцев назад +1

    I have watched videos similar to this, and people have pretty much the same views about Mexico, how nice it is to live there, I plan on visiting for vacation in the future, but I am baffled on the Mexican migration situation going on right now in the US, why are there so many leaving to come here to the US, I'm in Chicago, and there are thousands here, it's now cold outside & will get even more cold with snow soon, why leave warm Mexico to sleep on the ground, get handouts, crime in my city of Chicago is horrible, etc. I'm lost on this...

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  9 месяцев назад +4

      I'm guessing most of the migrants in Chicago aren't from Mexico. Venezuelans make up a huge portion, along with many central American nations. Mexicans are the largest group of immigrants living in the US and thus, incoming Mexicans have a lot of support so they don't end up in shelters. And Mexico's economy is doing great right now.
      That all said, wages are much higher in the US, and a young Mexican has the choice of making $20 a day doing construction in Mexico, or trying to get to the US to make $200 a day.

    • @torrestorrestorres488
      @torrestorrestorres488 9 месяцев назад

      You sound as ignorant as white folks in the US, most of these people that are crossing over the US boarder are not from Mexico. Though they cross through Mexico from other countries to get to the US. That doesn't make them Mexican.

    • @ricardoannieguevara7292
      @ricardoannieguevara7292 9 месяцев назад +3

      People from Mexico stop coming to the US since 2013, those migrants are from South America the majority from Venezuela.

    • @gachasis2704
      @gachasis2704 8 месяцев назад +3

      The caravan migration to the US are not Mexican. People from Venezuela, Cuba, Haiti and from everywhere else. Mexico also has a migration problem.

    • @swallacegray2013
      @swallacegray2013 8 месяцев назад

      Thanks for clarifying that!

  • @andreabalanzariogutierrez6767
    @andreabalanzariogutierrez6767 11 месяцев назад +2

    Lovely talk. You´re welcome to enjoy our country...

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much - I love your attitude and your openness to share your country!

    • @andreabalanzariogutierrez6767
      @andreabalanzariogutierrez6767 11 месяцев назад

      @@AlmostRetiredinMexico Sure. It´s our's to respect, preserve and enjoy. I´m currently researching the infinite mexican cuisines.

    • @andreabalanzariogutierrez6767
      @andreabalanzariogutierrez6767 11 месяцев назад

      @@AlmostRetiredinMexico If you feel mexicana, it´s our place and our culture to love and enjoy...feel free to be mexicana. It´s a great feeling.

  • @SaraUsnzsa
    @SaraUsnzsa 11 месяцев назад +1

    How people get gloupal Citizenship?

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад

      The UN may have the info you're looking for: www.un.org/en/academic-impact/global-citizenship

  • @happyinparadise7812
    @happyinparadise7812 9 месяцев назад +2

    Immigrants!! Immigrants! Please.

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  9 месяцев назад +1

      I try to use all language now to describe Americans living in Mexico: immigrants, expats, foreigners. All are accurate and some people prefer one over the other.

    • @happyinparadise7812
      @happyinparadise7812 9 месяцев назад

      @AlmostRetiredinMexico My wife is 6th generation Yucateca. Alm her family uses the term Gringos. Not in public though.

  • @Onejunior73
    @Onejunior73 9 месяцев назад +1

    Greyhound don’t even come 20pc close to does Mexican buses 🚌

  • @cynthiashields5341
    @cynthiashields5341 4 месяца назад +1

    Great Video, very inspirational, its encouraging me more to Mexico. I dont like the direction the US is headed, especially with republicans

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  4 месяца назад +1

      I totally agree! Mexico is a nice alternative to the crap going on up north.

  • @WALKINGPHONE
    @WALKINGPHONE 17 дней назад

    “Expat” is and beautiful ufemism for immigrant

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  16 дней назад

      Only if you believe that word "immigrant" implies something negative.

    • @WALKINGPHONE
      @WALKINGPHONE 16 дней назад

      @@AlmostRetiredinMexico It's not about believing ... it's about the definition of the dictionary, everything else is imagination. And the definition says
      “Inmigrant: a person living in a country other than that of his or her birth”
      And the definición to inmigration says
      Inmigration: the process of moving to a new country or region with the intention of staying and living there.
      Nothing more and nothing less
      So… People like the one in the video and others in the same situation are immigrants…
      “Expats” is an eufemism… period

    • @WALKINGPHONE
      @WALKINGPHONE 16 дней назад

      @@AlmostRetiredinMexico It's not a matter of belief, that's subjective, it's a matter of what the dictionary says.
      and the dictionary says:
      Immigrant: person who moves to a different country than the one was born in to settle and live
      So, the person in the video and anyone else in the same situation are immigrants according to the dictionary, everything else is imagination and the word "expat" is just a euphemism for "immigrant" and that´s it

  • @abdiaspablo7130
    @abdiaspablo7130 9 месяцев назад +1

    My favorite ❤️ color

  • @FreeToBe_Me
    @FreeToBe_Me 2 месяца назад

    “I am not Black.” Says the white guy. 😂 Great interview! 😁

  • @mikedenham5882
    @mikedenham5882 11 месяцев назад +4

    It’s the color of money that makes them so friendly

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +7

      They seem to be nice to everyone - I don’t think it’s a money thing. It’s a culture thing.

    • @mwiebe2663
      @mwiebe2663 11 месяцев назад +6

      My daughter has grown up spending a lot of time visiting family in Mexico (her dad / my husband is Mexican) so she knows Mexican culture pretty well. Earlier this year she and her boyfriend spent a week at a resort in the Riviera Maya, then in August they spent a week at a resort in the Dominican Republic. She found the people in the DR weren’t nearly as friendly as in Mexico, even though “the colour of money” was the same.

    • @mikedenham5882
      @mikedenham5882 11 месяцев назад +3

      Or the opposite is true as I found while in Cuba, they resent gringos for having money. I’m really tired of hearing how friendly people in other countries are! They are either begging, stealing or scamming.

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +3

      @@mikedenham5882 or they are just genuinely happy people. Their lives are more simple, they experience less stress, they are more connected to their family… there are many things other than money that lead to happiness.

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +5

      @@mwiebe2663 thanks for sharing this. I see more smiles and laughter in Mexico compared to the US. The attitude is different. You don’t hear about road-rage in Mexico!

  • @Mexican01o101
    @Mexican01o101 9 месяцев назад +5

    Says who? We the Mexicans never said you could just come and settle in our country!? Im sorry but you guys can’t openly invite others here… be thankful were allowing you here!

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  9 месяцев назад

      Well, your government has given plenty of foreigners permanent visas to settle in Mexico. I'm thankful for that - and for all the welcoming Mexican people I have met.

    • @Mexican01o101
      @Mexican01o101 9 месяцев назад

      @@AlmostRetiredinMexico you’re one of the lucky few & we are aware of what our government is doing…. You still have no right to openly invite others for RUclips view$. How would you feel if I made a video where I tell Venezuelas how to cheat the asylum system to come into the United States.

    • @shiroumxm2052
      @shiroumxm2052 9 месяцев назад +1

      well, they have 12 millions of ilegal mexicans living in USA and i said ILEGAL.. most american are here legally

    • @user-he4xb9fd5x
      @user-he4xb9fd5x 9 месяцев назад +1

      Sorry you feel that way ,but you do not speak for all Mexicans .

    • @Mexican01o101
      @Mexican01o101 9 месяцев назад

      We only smile at you because of the value of your currency…

  • @angelhernandez1438
    @angelhernandez1438 8 месяцев назад +3

    No, not welcome

  • @jansmith3158
    @jansmith3158 11 месяцев назад +2

    I think people need to step back from race and realize that the majority of times that someone is rude to you it's not about you or the color of your skin...it's about that person either being a bad apple or is having a bad day. If someone doesnt like you it's not about your skin color it's about your personality.....that's ok if someone does not like you there are 7.3 billion people on this planet and not everyone is going to like you or having anything in common with you...and the same with you toward others you are not going to like everyone you meet. And, that's ok.
    The government politicans & media are constantly dividing citizens into groups: race, age, gender, politcal side etc WHY do they divide citizens? because then they can control ALL citizens. It's called "Divide and conquer" look up. It's a military tactic. In this case the govt/media want full control over citizens by getting the citizens to hate each other. DO NOT LET THEM DO THIS...be kind to everyone. And, most importantly stop talking about race. See everyone as equals...but, make sure you remember trust is earned. make sure for your safety that you make people earn your trust when you first meet them.
    watch "D..r Fuellmich grand jury day 1" = he explains why the govt & media divide us so the can herd the sheep in the direction they want us to go in = all about power & control over citizens.
    pls write down & Pass on this vids. it's a shocking vid how the govt/media is manipulating ALL citizens. take care

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад +7

      I don't doubt we are being manipulated by the government and media, but to suggest that racism doesn't exist in the US is laughable.
      I'd love it if we treated each other equally, but the reality is that for hundreds of years, Black people in the US have been and continue to be discriminated against. And now politicians on the right are trying to erase that history and claim that we are all equal. Erasing this history of racism in the US is in itself, a racist action.
      When Black people are killed by the police at the same rate as white people, then we can talk about calling it even and seeing past the color of someone's skin.

    • @davebaker489
      @davebaker489 11 месяцев назад

      For centuries we have discriminated against people Not because they were black, white red, yellow or brown. All it took was to be different. Religion, Wealth, Accent, Skin tone etc. We like or discriminate based on anything perceived as different or the same. Hiding history is just to risk repeating it later.

    • @taylerfriar9095
      @taylerfriar9095 11 месяцев назад +4

      I find this to be a really dangerous perspective. And more likely to be adopted by those who don’t face these aggressions.
      Big thanks to Brighton for being a really great advocate and platform for me to speak about life in Mexico!

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  11 месяцев назад

      @@taylerfriar9095 Thanks for jumping in Tayler!

    • @bornfree6503
      @bornfree6503 11 месяцев назад +2

      No...Some people are just racist. Please, don't make a comment like this again.

  • @magtovi
    @magtovi 27 дней назад

    They're called immigrants.
    Nothing wrong with that.

  • @CJ-xg6ii
    @CJ-xg6ii 8 месяцев назад

  • @apedradasygarrotazos.yunaq6068
    @apedradasygarrotazos.yunaq6068 7 месяцев назад

    🥰🥰🥰

  • @analauragutierrez7697
    @analauragutierrez7697 10 месяцев назад +4

    Hi here we dont pay attention to Skin color please dont bring those thoughts to Mexico

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  10 месяцев назад

      Yes- as Tyler said, the only racism she’s encountered in Mexico has been from estadounidenses.

    • @FreeToBe_Me
      @FreeToBe_Me 8 месяцев назад

      Those thoughts already exist in Mexico, sadly. Colorism is a huge problem in Mexico. Maybe help in finding a solution rather than deny the problem?

    • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
      @AlmostRetiredinMexico  8 месяцев назад

      @@FreeToBe_Me I agree. Colorism is a problem in Mexico. It's just that for African Americans, it's less of a problem in Mexico compared to the US. When it comes to native vs Spanish skin color, I understand that can be a problem, but it's something that's hard for a foreigner to see and understand (but I don't deny it.)

    • @petep5207
      @petep5207 8 месяцев назад

      @@FreeToBe_Me - The solution is, move to Africa. Sometimes, it really IS that simple.

    • @crystalgarcia2143
      @crystalgarcia2143 8 месяцев назад

      Just by stop talking about each other coler would be a good start, Just address each other by the name

  • @joebetancourt4513
    @joebetancourt4513 11 месяцев назад +4

    YOUR IMMIGRANTS

    • @nala3038
      @nala3038 11 месяцев назад

      👎👎

    • @davebaker489
      @davebaker489 11 месяцев назад

      By that statement do you mean I have immigrants ? Or You are immigrants or You're immigrants ? Or ?

    • @prettybrwneyez7757
      @prettybrwneyez7757 10 месяцев назад

      @@davebaker489excellent answer 😂

    • @mysticheart4685
      @mysticheart4685 9 месяцев назад +1

      . She left out the part where we helped save Black peoples from slavery. Africa offered free land if African Americans moved to Africa but most rather live in a Latin country. That’s colonialism working .

  • @salgadoc26
    @salgadoc26 9 месяцев назад +2

    It's funny cose. Hollywood people every time actors come the first time to mexico they get in love whit the country. Is beultifull people