SECRETS REVEALED: SPOT GOOD AND EVIL IN RELATIONSHIPS |Psych Crash Course
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- Опубликовано: 4 июл 2024
- Relationships can easily turn evil if things do not work out.
Family relationships can turn evil from the moment there is a family disagreement, envy or jealousy, or favortism.
Relationships, as you know, are complicated and they can become even more complicated when a person appears to be on the "dark side" and is engaging in behaviors that would be characterized as evil.
In the case of good and evil, there is certainly an existence of this concept and sadly, in relationships that have gone wrong, that reality is further realized.
In this video, I discuss the clinical and psychological concept of good vs evil in relationships.
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#trauma #TOXICRELATIONSHIPS
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
1:30 dark Triad vs dark empath
2:36 psychopath
3:21 machiavellianism
4:05 3 important problems with the dark personality
5:16 angelic and "light" personalities
6:30 humanism
7:00 faith in humanity
7:25 kantianism
8:36 what this kind of evil looks like
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Mentioned In The Video:
1. The Dark Triad of personality: Narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy
psycnet.apa.org/record/2002-1...
2. The psychology of evil (Psychologist Philip Zimbardo) Ted Talk www.ted.com/talks/philip_zimb...
3. Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy Archive Concept of evil plato.stanford.edu/entries/co...
4. Naming Evil: Dark Triad, Tetrad, Malignant Narcissism
www.psychologytoday.com/us/bl...
5. Theology Of Evil: Definition, Viewpoints, Why It Matters
justdisciple.com/theology-of-....
6. Positive psychology (psychology of good) www.health.harvard.edu/topics...
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I’ve been around a lot of evil, it’s refreshing to see a therapist acknowledge its existence
You’ve quickly become my fave RUclips therapist!!!! You’re so grounded & clear, I love it! 😍💙 Thank you for contributing to my sanity 😂& healing🥰
❤🤗 Aww you're so kind!! Thank you. That's humbling to hear. I need a dose of sanity from time to time and I certainly get that from all of you here!
Glad to have you on the channel!
@@TherapistTamaraHillIt’s true!!!!!!!! Bless you!!!!! 😇🙏💗
Excellent. People who can't put feelings and emotions together definitely don't have a conscience because they can't. They will make selfish choices and keep secrets rationalizing these behaviors that I. Doing will not affect who I am claiming to be. To them, everyone lies and keeps secrets. Their definition of love is misconstrued. They might apologize when their evil nature is seen but they have no clue how to behave and be unselfish in the future. Even with therapy
That struck accord too thank you for mentioning that inability to link, thoughts, feelings, and actions together. That’s huge in my experience.
💕💖 Sending big, sparkly squishes of love and healing out to all the fellow big feelers, and extra loving empaths out there. Empaths on their em-Paths headed toward healing, balance and sustained happiness. ✨ we're in this together! I love you. 💖🫂
Thank you for always educating, empowering, and being used as an instrument of healing.
You're welcome! And thank you for this kind comment.
It’s a silent rage you sense in these ppl omg! This is so educational their need to exploit people is unjustified
Got it😎👍✨✨✨ thank you again
You’re welcome 😊 Thanks for always watching.!
Feel your content!!!💯
You're so kind! Thank you! Glad this is helpful 😊
I'm leaving this video with a heart full of positivity. Thanks!
Thank you too!
Let me stay tuned to this one. I can already hear the genuine passion in Tamara's voice. Few of the traits heard fit the description of 3 past girlfriends, as well as a close relative.😬 Here we go😒
I think a lot of people fit the descriptions in this video but it's really hard to see it in the moment or while we are with them. And I think this video is just touching the surface.
@@TherapistTamaraHill @10:58 "Instrumental Aggression" is mentioned. I'm finally admitting I was actually a victim/survivor from such people. Tamara goes in supremely well in this discussion. My antennas are currently up on high again this season. I've learned to talk less and or stay quiet when encountering these particular individual(s), until I'm able to fully separate from them. Lately, I've had to minimize my naturally talkative, humorous and charismatic self around them. Tamara, I'm curious to know if maybe our western world suffers critically more from lower frequencies (bad vibrations? I was studying to learn many are vitamin D deficient. I'll go further to say after the pandemic matters have gotten worse in our environment (domestically and socially.) Not to sound overly cynical or pessimistic. I love life and people, and just pray we can learn of Jesus and live life more like him. A prime example of living and staying healthy. Greatest commandment is to love God, second is we love and treat each other with respect, equal to how we'd love our own self. Thanks for this video.
This is well said: "I've learned to talk less and or stay quiet when encountering these particular individual(s), until I'm able to fully separate from them. "
This is a lesson I am still learning as I age and encounter new situations that requires this wisdom. In fact, I think Godly wisdom is needed to navigate the waters here. As you point out, you may have to "change" temporarily, not defy who you are necessarily, until you can be out from among them. I've learned this is either for minutes, hours, weeks, to days. I think that's why evil personalities are so tirning to most people. It takes a lot to survive them.
This is also well said: " I love life and people, and just pray we can learn of Jesus and live life more like him."
And if the world cannot find and maintain spiritual harmony, I do believe there is an ultimate end to evil.
Thanks for this comment!
Amen. Your topic and comment replies fitted oh so perfectly well, to enjoin with my music practice so far this weekend.🎶🎶 Keeping my spirit in tune, along with my instruments, is vital necessary for "spiritual harmony. There before the grace of God, go us and others as us. 😄 I'll scour your channel for more educational videos!!!✔✔✔✔
Yes, I have encountered such people...some of which I call family, sad but true!🤔💔
Dark empath is an oxymoron. You might as well call them a "sunny psycho". It's all cognitive empathy which is the definition of a passive aggressive narcissist. You described most of the 9 traits of a narc or Bpd.
I will be talking about overlapping symptoms of personality disorders soon -- the overlap between narcissism and BPD or narcissism and avoidant personality.
Hi there it's been a while ..glad to see you are still making videos. ❤
Can you do a video on healing from a past toxic/abusive relationship and family issues. I've been so sad and angry lately and my emotions and thoughts keep me stuck in the past. Would love insight on this kind of thing ..thanks for all you do!
Sometimes I think that Psychogist are basically good but hasn't healed all my trauma. I was a counselor for severely dustrubed clients such as teens.dark empath ...sociopaths all the same they only care about their own needs . Most narcs are easier to read because they let u know they don't care .psychopaths pretend to care ...untill they kill.u😅
That first sentence is relateable for so many people who seek the help of psychology.
On a serious note, believe it or not, there is good and evil in the field itself, as you know. We have narcissists and sociopaths who attain great power and status to teach, educate, and treat. But is their heart in it for the greater good? No. While the field of psychology is almost as big and complex as the world and includes experts and workers from various walks of life, it is very clear at a professional conference, in an office, or in academia what the ultimate goals of that professional is. And sometimes the evil is shown through their own biases, prejudices, research topics, political parties, etc.
But thankfully, the field seems overpopulated with good people in some areas.
This is a good topic, because besides all of my problems my neighbour bullied me in the common garden, plus I feel like he wants to ruin my relationship with my mother (even more) So he maybe evil, or just stupid? He also always ask for money.
I'm sorry to hear this.
He could be both of those things!
Now there is a reparation that should be made on the side of the building, because this year is extremely rainy in Hungary, and walls are soaking. I found somebody who took a look and said a price. Not very cheap, but prices should go to the mental hospital, because they are crazy anyway. Instead of him calling someone else or discussing the price with us, he started to complaining about me to my mother. 🤣 She is communicating with him now, because it happened earlier that I wanted to jump out to the window because he and his wife said things to me that I didn't feel safe or calm at home anymore. I still don't but I am somehow alive. When I'll have the money, I'll move. Until that I have to fight and protect myself, I'm really fed up that I always have to suffer from people who are not in a right headspace and I'm a "good" target, because I'm a woman and I'm alone.
My stalker also returned. I reported what he's doing to the police after the first set of stalking but they refused my report.
In Hungary police doesn't really care about women's safety. Just in domestic violence which is not my case one or two women die every week. (plus who knows how many children an dogs also) All of the cases could be prevented.
❤❤❤❤❤❤love your content and channel!!!!
Thank you so much, for your always clear explanations!
You're very welcome! Thank you! Glad to hear this.
Great message /lesson. 💯
I appreciate that! Thank you. Glad this was helpful!
So glad to find your channel Thank you.
Thank you. You're welcome and welcome to the channel!
Thanks for sharing, so greatful for you
You are so welcome!! And thank you for watching.
Hello Tamara. I live in Australia. I am suffering right now. I have only just found you. I find it hard to believe you are a real person who has so so much understanding as to what MY life is right now. You touch on every thing that is affecting my life and has shaped my life for 6 decades. I wish so much that I could have help. Only I know that I have estranged from my family. It has only been a decision I have made less than a month ago. My family does not know that this is my decision. I have not been contacted by any of them since I made this decision and this only compounds my feelings of making the right decision because they have not reached out to me. When I think about it though, it has been less and less likely that they reach out to me first. What do you do when your own family show they don’t care? I am the scapegoat. Both parents are emotionally immature. Both sisters were wanted.
Hi there from the country I long to travel to!
I'm sorry to hear you are struggling. 😔 This can be so difficult but not impossible to heal from.
Your family may never care about you, sadly. OR perhaps they will change and show you that they made a terrible mistake with you. Sometimes there is redeeming power. Othertimes, not so much. Stay strong. It's a battle.
Hello miss Tamara I would like to say I came across some of your videos and I had to subscribe to your videos
Thank you!! And welcome to the channel. :)
🎯 SPOT ON 🎯💯🏆❤️.✨
Hello, Tamara and community, I wanted to ask your opinion on the topic of self-entitlement.
There are experiments that show how people being more selfish after they've been told that they are more skilled.
Do you think this was an actual result, or the researchers ignored the deviations?
I've read about such studies in different places, here's a quote:
"One variation on this game shows that believing one is more skilled leads to more selfish behaviour. In research at Beijing Normal University, participants played a fake game of skill before making offers in the ultimatum game. Players who were (falsely) led to believe they had ‘won’ claimed more for themselves than those who did not play the skill game."
"Just having the idea of skill in mind makes people more tolerant of unequal outcomes."
Thank you. Can you make a video about covert narcissists? Pls.
Yes! Absolutely. I just put it on the list. Stay tuned!
Hi, would you be able to or interested in covering instances of therapy abuse? Or cases in which the recommended therapies(CBT, DBT, CAT, Exposure Therapy etc...) for treatment of trauma/ptsd/cptsd might actually do more harm and retraumatize victims?
Thank you.
Yes sadistic people are very dangerous individuals they’ll do anything cruel to get a reaction
I have a question I ADHD anxiety and stress and I been going tho a lot of spiritual attacks and me being a good guy well I been going tho some things in my life that I would like to talk and elaborate with if you can help me on some subjects and topics on
Can you make a video about vulnerable dark triad specifically not just the dark triad?
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@@TherapistTamaraHill Save Ukraine ❤️
Please do a video on gang stalking an Ti...😮
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Why use ‘Africa’ as an example of poverty? Isn't there poverty right here in the United States? I am one of your followers and that comment was disappointing. I stopped listening after that sweeping generalization.
The only reason I am addressing this comment is because there is bound to be someone else who thinks this way.
You're talking about 6:36 - humanistic traits. I think you overinterpreted this statement. To mention Africa is to say that some people strive to be humanitarians globally and people who are missionaries travel to Africa, travel overseas to share and give.
Here's a prime example of this: ruclips.net/video/NLFyh3UL788/видео.htmlsi=if3Am35G82XMS3uo.
I hope this makes sense.