S2 Ep71: Does Healing from Maternal Narcissism Mean Becoming More Tolerant to Abuse?
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- Do you measure your healing progress in terms how able you are to manage your mother’s abusive behaviour?
Do you feel you should be able to be functioning and adjusted to an abusive and dysfunctional relationship?
In this episode I share the 4 phases of the journey of healing from maternal narcissism and what "Managing" truly means.
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My mum said to me, after she was told she had two weeks to live, that the reason she treated me the way she did was because she was treated that way. It was 2008 when her heart stopped and flat lined to her next journey, but I am finding, through repression work, that her comment becomes more bizarre. She was 61. Yes, less tolerant. And I have a boss who is basically my mother, I feel jumpy around him and he does not heed any boundaries, so I am an abused child around him.
I've never understood how someone could endure that pain and then turn around and do it to their own child. 😞
That's more than I got from my mother, but I think in her case, she was in deep denial about her approaching death. But I do remember her often moaning about how awful her mother was. I knew better, though, than to point out that she was doing the very same things to me as her mother did to her. The last day I spoke to her, 1 day before she slipped into a coma and 3 days before she passed, she came close to admitting that she was wrong in how she treated me, but couldn't quite do it.
I needed to hear this today! Thank you. That's exactly what happened to me. I actually became LESS tolerant of abuse and now I am starting to become less reactive to it so that it doesn't control me anymore.
This was very substantive for me. My mother was both codependent and narcissistic throughout me life. She's actually in the last stage in her life. She's developed Dementia and her mask has totally slipped off, I was her Scapegoat. Interestingly enough, even though she treated my siblings differently and more favorably, they are no where to be found. I am the one that has been here to protect and comfort her in the last days of her life. I was with a man for 23 years whom was also very abusive and narcissistic I now know that I tolerated his behavior because, this is what I was accustomed to. He passed in 2021 so I was actually rescued. When my mother does pass I will have closure as I took care of her even though she did not take care of me.
Thank you 🌌
Very helpful. So pleased to have found your podcast. All the best to you
Cara Matilde, sono felicissima di averti trovata qui su RUclips. Io ho la vita (e quella di mio figlio) distrutta dal narcisismo, l'egoismo, la tossicità, l'ignoranza, l'indifferenza, il sarcasmo, l'infantilismo, i capricci, la caparbietà e l'abuso psicologico da parte della mia famiglia. Sono fuggita lasciando la famiglia dall'altra parte del pianeta. Ma l'abuso non si è fermato
Very good podcast! I really liked the way you presented the material with examples and tricks to overcome certain situations.
Thank you💖
Why must we tolerate it at all?
Honestly, I sometimes have moments in which I regret not telling my mother to go f*** herself for the terrible way she treated me when I was too young and too dependent on her.
Great advice Thank You
@matilde crocini stop dancing around it and never invite her back to your home. The cleaning thing is so degrading, you didn't overreact. It was the same for me. The only solution is to cut off completely from this controlling hating individual. Don't second guess yourself