The 2nd story pissed me off more than the 1st story did. We have a man in the 2nd story who was all about “his” son just to find out he’s biologically not his father. That didn’t matter to him & is still going to be his father. I absolutely respect him & have high praise for him on that regard. As far as her, she’s wrong as all hell. She knew from the beginning & she dragged this along. She doesn’t deserve him at all
It pisses me off that these women straight up lie for months/years and let the guy become attached to kid just so that they can manipulate them into staying when they find out the truth.
I hate how he’s staying bc she cheats the kid if he leaves not will forget he stays the child will remember him and he got no rights when she leaves bc she will whenever the ex comes back she’s gone and he got no rights and how do she love him when the WHOLE RELATIONSHIP WAS A LIE and same for him how can he love her she’s fake she’s using the kid to keep him I love u he calls u dad she’s manipulating him so hard and he stays haha she’s been lying this whole time she’s been cheating u think she won’t leave him when she find better bc she’s using him she don’t live u if she cheats she will leave him and he will lose this child forever and the kid will wonder were dad is and be confused and hurt all bc of her and men need see this
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I disagree. He was probably telling the truth. Who really knows what's going on. If they behave like this when cameras are on what the F are they like when there are no cameras?
@@mrsdiaz7712 true. The mom could be trife for all we know.Especially with her talking about she's young and she should be able to go out and do whatever she wants. Not with three kids you can't go out and do whatever you want just because you are young. Your first priority is to your kids not you trying to go out and party..smh..
The woman who used and abused that loving man is heartless. She knew that she was conning him into being a father, yet she gave her ex the precious experience of being at the birth and baby shower?!
I really don't think she dose . love him still. She is only using him, and she is probably cheating around with the other guy still. Women that lie about something so serious about that what else is she lying about. If I was him I would wash my hands from her all together.
The woman in the 2nd story is the worst kind of woman. She knew he wasn’t the dad but wanted someone to use as a caregiver. She waited 2 yrs so he would be fully emotionally invested. She’s a liar and a manipulator and she doesn’t deserve happiness.
Actually, she is not the worst kind of woman in the second story because women are always right. Sometimes, they are wrong, but women make mistakes, but women can always be right then men are men will sometimes be right but men can sometimes be wrong it's a two way street
Way to go to all the Brothers/Uncles out there for being a Real Man for standing up and taking care of your Sisters and there children that’s what we need to see 👏 Thank You to you All 💋 🤗 Joel the Brother your Amazing
They never met each other since their stories are different, but you are right that these two guests do deserve each other. This is the first time I have seen a comment where two guests from different stories would deserve each other.
The realization on her face that the Father of her children will abandon them all the moment she is gone (willfully accidental, or natural causes)...So sad and distressing...
So if he treated you like this…why would you go back and have a THIRD child with him??? He showed you who he was during your 2nd child. So idk what to say.
Because she's mentally unstable and has abandonment issues because she grew up in the system and she was trying to have a family because she has nobody it's pretty obvious but I don't know maybe no one else took us psychology class in high school maybe that was just me
Second story.What a lying,user that woman is.She shouldn’t have brought Jojo on tv to tell him devastating news.She can’t be trusted to do the right thing,ever.
Agreed, her apologies were so empty. She’s only doing that bc the real dads a bumb! She’s sorry! Id leave her ass quick! She’s only being w him out of convenience, if the other guy had his shit together she’d of been gone. She’s using him bc he works hard, stepped up & isa great dad but out of false pretenses bc he thought it was his kid.
The second story is sad she doesn't love him and she cheated on him and had a baby with a another man . He should split up her and she lied saying his father of their child and it not true. She just use him to support her and her child because he good guy and had a job.The real father his deadbeat doesn't want to support his child. She should be single mum and get a job and support her own child on her own. He deserves to be with good women better than ex girlfriend.
A man wants to send your kids to foster home and you can still see yourself with him? I’m confused on why it wasn’t just a dna test who cares about the relationship
She’s an idiot. Everyone talking about “He’s a jerk, he’s a this or that…..” YEAH, he is. But she knew that and still had three kids with him anyway. Isn’t that selfish on her part? I waited to have kids till I met a man who was kind, selfless, responsible and respectful, because I knew that whoever I picked, that was going to affect my children for the rest of their lives. They only get one daddy, so he better be a good one. Women keep giving kids to these clowns so they see no reason to change. She even said he was a “controlling abuser”, so then why have kids with him? She has a family she can go stay with, I’d never see him again after the DNA test if I were her.
The man was never going to send the kids to foster care he was just threatening that so that she would immediately turn around and come back he just wants to control her life it's not about giving up his kids to foster care it's about him trying to control her that's why he's trying to spin it like she abandoned them when all she did was leave them with their dad for a couple of hours or tried to at least
Why did she stay and put her kids in that situation? I don't want to hear " because I love him " or I'm gonna puke !! 1st.story." Take out my baby"? He wanted her to abort her son and she wants to be with a Monster like that ?! I feel so bad for these kids and all kids that have to deal with the selfishness of their parents. I Wouldn't want to have anything to do with someone who wanted me to End my pregnancy!! And someday when that when that little boy sees this video and knows that his dad didn't even want him to exist, I can't even imagine !! She needs to start thinking of her kids Not herself!
THANK YOU!!!! I am so sick of seeing all of the comments that are “oh poor pitiful woman. She deserves better”. First of all, not one person watching this show(other than her family) knows any of these people so we don’t know what type person any of them are. There are MANY people in this world who don’t deserve to have children. I get so angry about people acting like idiots over people who try to be honest about what would truly be best for their kids. Yet when people keep their children and abuse them or worse, people turn around and judge them for not giving them to someone else like another family member or FOSTER CARE! The way it sounds by the way they all three are behaving, those kids would be better off being cared for by people who can better care for them financially and more importantly, emotionally
She said it was because she grew up in the system and she wanted to have a family for her children it wasn't because oh I love him I mean it was literally in the segment did you watch it?
Not entirely, but you are correct that the foster care system does need fixing. It’s always best to do background checks and have bad people be banned from adopting children.
That Joel is a piece of work who doesn’t deserve to have three beautiful children and an equally beautiful wife. She’s stunning and I’m sure will find a better life with someone who respects her as a mum and a woman ❤
@@christianbitz-nielsen5462 he scammed her asked her to be in a relationship with him after they started chatting on WhatsApp she started sending the bitcoin to him
1. She is a strong lady. Hope she left him. Her brother is a beter man then him. Sometimes it's beter for the kid's that thy parents don't stay together.
My ex was abusive and everytime I tried to work he’d call me saying he was going to leave his kids alone if I didn’t come home it was awful I’m so glad I got out of that
Second story: WTFFFFF shes a piece of work.... inviting your side man to the baby shower and being there at the birth of you child?? Then LYING to your bf about being the dad... ugh. Some people
Yall notice in the 2nd story how the woman was manipulating jojo? She said from the jump she wasnt attracted to him and also indicated that she only pinned it on jojo because the other guy treated her like jojo is supposed to. Like the no good woman she is. If im jojo im bouncing completely out of her and pookie's kid's lives. She doesnt respect him and if he stayed, he will regret it.
It's pretty obvious why she waited so long to tell George he's not the father. She wanted him to get attached to the little boy so he wouldn't leave her. If she told him in the beginning he could have made the decision to not be with her and If he left she wouldn't have his upport anymore and would probably have to get a job. It's really shitty she took away his right to choose.
I know the pain that middle child has gone through, my mother did the same thing with my stepdaughter, piled on all the gifts expensive and many at birthdays and Christmas except for her. The first Christmas this happened we never went back again, just the look of hurt in a little girl's face broke my heart, and there's nothing you can do to make that moment of rejection go away. That woman needs to give him supervised visits only!!!
TBH I’m glad he admitted his kids are better in foster care. Dads like him end up neglecting and abusing the kids they can’t handle. He obvious doesn’t have care of patience so I wouldn’t trust my kids with him alone ever again. We hear too many horror stories these days
Then he needs to leave. Foster Care is not a safe choice. I grew up in the system and there's no way a real mother who grew up that way would ever even think about putting her children through that hell. Those children have a mother that loves them. A Foster Care suggestion is him being abusive and controlling
the kids would not be better off in foster care if there are other parents that will care for them. foster care is NOT a better option, and its sad that people act like it is.
I think its so cruel to bring the person you're supposed to love on national TV to make a confession that he's not the dad. Its heart breaking. That little boy needs a better mummy. George is a great man and presumably a wonderful father.
I wish the security would keep the women away from the men while they are trying to process something that hurtful and big. It’s not fair. Men like to handle shit on their own. Not be suffocated by the same woman that’s causing him the pain.
Steve I lost all three of my brothers. This gentleman here reminded me of my brothers I miss them so much they always were. They are protecting me when they were alive God I wish him this young lady’s brother all the blessings that God has to offer any man my prayers and my heart will always be for the brother.
Ofcourse they don't want to be the father unless he agreed and planned it. Its the women's fault for not being on birth control and or trying to baby trap the man. It's probably what the second woman did and the real father smartly took off and let this pathetic s*mp think he was the father
What the girl in the second half did was calculated. She waited for him to bond with the son first and THEN tried to convince him to stay because they didn't have both parents?? You can even see her smiling while he's distraught. Disgusting.
Run George! Vanessa is out for herself. She lies. Aiden's dad will be always in the picture George. Don't be fooled. Aiden has a daddy, and it isn't you George.
I really wish men would stop stepping up to raise another man’s kids especially ones convinced through infidelity and you are lead on to believe you are the biological father . All that “ Im still dad” stuff sounds good on tv but you still gotta go the rest of your life knowing that the person you thought gave you the best thing in the world a child lied and gave birth to another man’s kid. Men you have the right to leave and live your life and make a family that’s yours where your children look like you and grow up to look like you , you have the right to build your own instead of taking care of someone else’s . Damn the woman she made that choice when she laid down with another man and when the child gets older and ask you why you left just tell them to ask their mother what she did to flip yours and the child’s life upside down. She even admits that she allowed the other man to sign the birth certificate and admitted that you were her second choice , if that man would’ve stuck around you would’ve been left high and dry and she wouldn’t have cared cuz she had her family
She did not and still does not love him, he was the better choice, as the provider to raised the man who got the sweets child, if you were still going to stay with her, from the time she told you that she did not loose the birth certificate, you should have told her goodbye. She will continue to lie to you. Let the father take care of his responsibities.
They don't do it for the POS mother who doesn't deserve to have the help in raising the child they do it for the child who believe that they were their father this whole time because not only was that man deceived with that child was also deceived that's why they do it do I think it's fair no what I do it I don't know cuz I'm a woman so that's something I don't think I'll ever have to do with in any capacity
My daddy is not my “biological father” he had a vasectomy before I was conceived and he knew I wasn’t his, but he was there for my mom through everything. He brought me home on his birthday and said that was the best gift he could ever have. I am now 31, and he has never treated me differently than my brother and sister. I also have a little brother who is now 21 and he has done the same with him. Both mine and my little brothers biological fathers gave my mother money for an abortion and told her after she said she would not do it they told her that we would never amount to what our older siblings are. Eventually our bio’s wanted to be in our life and my brother’s father I guess was okay. He certainly didn’t treat him like his older child, but my bio father? Oh he beat me, put a pillow over my face to see how long it would take before I passed out. He would get me drunk and I pass out so he could have friends over to party and forced me to brush the toilet with my personal toothbrush that I used. He got so enraged one time that he beat me and my stepsister with a belt buckle and tried to keep me away from my momma and daddy for 2 weeks. Those bruises were still very visible when my daddy came and got me cuz he just said fuck you im coming to get my baby girl and they seen the bruises when I went to change clothes and cops were called immediately and cps was involved the very next day. I would do anything for that man. He is truly an amazing father and I am very blessed to have him.
About 5 years ago my son sat and opened up a $5 slime kit ,1 gift ..while his cousions had several gifts around them that included tablets and shit ! I get that anger 💯! This was a year before covid hit, regardless of that i wouldn't put my son in that heartbreaking situation again
Her apologies are so empty! She’s only using him bc he’s a hard worker & great dad. If the other guy had his shit together she wouldn’t even be w Jojo. She acts like he’s supposed to just get over it, he’s a good guy but id leave her in a heartbeat, she can’t be trusted w all the lies she told to cover up the big one. Shes only w him out of convenience. She don’t sound genuine when she says i love you or I’m sorry. All empty!
Kuddos to the Dad in the second story, I really hope he and his son live a good and healthy life as for the mom however I hope she always feels like she's stepping on a lego whenever she walks and never gets used to it. WTF is going through her head thinking of admitting to a confessing on live television, if she really did love him as she says she does, she should've pulled him to the side and said it in private. smh
Gotta love how these women can lie to a man about being the father and then when they tell them the truth, they have the audacity to say "I'm sorry" like no. That's not "I'm sorry" what you did can't be fixed by that. A man was excited to be a dad, and clearly supported him thinking it was his son, and you, for a long period of time, knew he wasn't the father but didn't tell him at any time. It's disgusting. I've seen stories of men paying for their children only to find out that they were raising another man's son, and it destroys them. It's terrible that this keeps happening. At least he still cares about that little boy even if it might not be his.
I have 6 brothers, 2 step sisters and an adopted sister. I love them all equally. I genuinely don't love any over the other. You make your own family, dna doesn't mean a damn thing to me. If you're my family, you're my family.
The second woman is descipable even the way she tried to emotionally blackmail him in to staying after what she did. The woman is very lucky to have him but I would have left that person if they done that to me. I would stay for the child but forget her. This woman forced him in to that family …. How could you not tell someone about something that big. Oh this guy stepped up thinking that it was his child because he was there and supporting us! It makes me so angry 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
It's absolutely heartbreaking that a dad treats one of his kids like this 😢 he treats all the kids like it , he's not ready to be a father, he doesn't want to be father, he's lazy , he's an idiot! Imagine your kids asking you one day 'dad why did you try and give us away " Him : I was lazy and irresponsible and didn't want to bother with you anymore I don't understand why the second woman couldn't have told him this at home and not on TV ! She basically used him because he was paying for her child! She's absolutely horrible to do this to him on TV and humiliate him this way She doesn't love him ! She just used him , if she loved him she wouldn't do this !
George you are a good man. This woman took advantage of you obviously for your $ while she was still screwing around with the real father of her son. If I were you I'd walk away! She's disrespectful and a liar. If she can carry this lie on for almost 2 years; she will lie to you about anything. You deserve so much better!!
You are a wonderful woman and deserve a real man that will treat you will respect and put his family before anything and that is not him at all !! Just continue to be a great mom and not worry about him especially after the way he acted on the show I wouldn’t be surprised if he decides to sign his rights always, children deserve a dad who is their all the time and wants to be their , you can’t force anyone to grow up and take responsibility for their actions!! He has no one to blame for his unhappiness but himself!!
That first story I can related to my youngest daughter get mistreated by her father family especially her grandpa and they brainwashed her father also because he already got a son by another woman and they treat his son way better than my daughter but at the end of the day I don’t call them or anything the only person that helps me is my mom and I’m so thankful 💯🙏🏾
From the moment I was born my dad has always treated me different from my older sister. There is no doubt in the world that I'm not his daughter...I mean I look and act a lot, if not exactly like him in some cases... But when my dad was a kid, his dad neglected him and favoured his first born/ my dads older brother. And he's carried that trait on to his own kin and it is life destroying for the child who has to experience that sort of neglect. I was around the same age as this poor kid when I realised my dad was doing exactly this and it effected me as a kid and still does 20 years later. He still continues to do it now and it hurts just as much as when he did it when I was an infant. Its a painful wound to have - knowing that no matter what you do, you're never going to be loved or given the same affection or appreciation compared to your other sibling(s). And no matter how much they try later in life to possibly fix what they're done, the damage is already done......I just hope this kid will be okay and not have to go through this x
I, like everyone else, am sadly watching this show … because as humans- we are drawn to drama and disfunction! Steve is a good guy who wants to help people who are horrible to each other or one abuses the other or one cheats on the other. In cases like this- it’s a no win situation. So many women don’t feel they deserve better…and that makes it a no win! Unless you get help for the partner who is treated badly- they will never have the life they deserve.
First woman, get rid of this man He is a waste of SPACE Lady you are pretty, get some self-esteem, get a job, education, and have your families support, get rid of this man FOREVER
Jojo. What a man. You could see the devastation on his face, but the determination to stay that little boys father was greater. I hope she realises what she has with him.
Both of these POS don't care about no one but themselves. The 2nd story was just heartbreaking. She wanted to build with the missing father that's why he was there until she gave birth and signed the BC but something made him run away. And she just used the other guy by tricking him into thinking he was the biological father for her own selfish reasons "MONEY"! Now he has an unbreakable bond with this child. She was cold hearted and manipulative this entire time. I don't think she was ever going to tell him the truth. I think someone told her to tell him cause she is still playing head games with his heart when she asked him if he loves her. She really peed me off with that question. As for the 1st story WHO TF CARES! I can't feel love for anyone who mistreats my kids! It's a wrap with that MF! Not sorry! 💯
(2nd story) that girl was WRONG for that. She should have told him at home a long time ago not on national TV. At least we all know the type of person she is. Not right.
That woman in the first story is absolutely beautiful and seems like a amazing mother and girlfriend that dude will never score a woman like that again, he should have put a ring on that finger and been a great husband and father, I’d treat her like a diamond if she was my woman
Poor Jojo...but he is real man...he decided to continue to sees him as his son. I would not trust her at all....she lied for 2yrs. She didnot tell him probaby because she wanted to see if Jojo could provide for both. She was horrible to him. He deserves better part er.
The 2nd story pissed me off more than the 1st story did. We have a man in the 2nd story who was all about “his” son just to find out he’s biologically not his father. That didn’t matter to him & is still going to be his father. I absolutely respect him & have high praise for him on that regard. As far as her, she’s wrong as all hell. She knew from the beginning & she dragged this along. She doesn’t deserve him at all
100% agree
It pisses me off that these women straight up lie for months/years and let the guy become attached to kid just so that they can manipulate them into staying when they find out the truth.
I hate how he’s staying bc she cheats the kid if he leaves not will forget he stays the child will remember him and he got no rights when she leaves bc she will whenever the ex comes back she’s gone and he got no rights and how do she love him when the WHOLE RELATIONSHIP WAS A LIE and same for him how can he love her she’s fake she’s using the kid to keep him I love u he calls u dad she’s manipulating him so hard and he stays haha she’s been lying this whole time she’s been cheating u think she won’t leave him when she find better bc she’s using him she don’t live u if she cheats she will leave him and he will lose this child forever and the kid will wonder were dad is and be confused and hurt all bc of her and men need see this
Definitely! That was a coldhearted thing to do.
She was using him for his money and stability. It's obvious.
We all grow older and he’s going to regret what he did to his children. Kids never forget who loved them and took care of them.
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My heart breaks for the guy in the second story. The guy in the first story is a jerk for saying that the kids being better in foster care
Who knows, It could be the truth. We don’t know ANY of these people
I disagree. He was probably telling the truth. Who really knows what's going on. If they behave like this when cameras are on what the F are they like when there are no cameras?
@@WallStreetWill86 true true
everyone mad he wanted to put them in foster care imagine if he would of hurt them then ya would said why didn’t he give them up before hurting them
@@mrsdiaz7712 true. The mom could be trife for all we know.Especially with her talking about she's young and she should be able to go out and do whatever she wants. Not with three kids you can't go out and do whatever you want just because you are young. Your first priority is to your kids not you trying to go out and party..smh..
The woman who used and abused that loving man is heartless. She knew that she was conning him into being a father, yet she gave her ex the precious experience of being at the birth and baby shower?!
The second story. The woman says that she has deep love for JoJo and yet she kept lying to him. That is NOT Love!!!
I really don't think she dose . love him still. She is only using him, and she is probably cheating around with the other guy still. Women that lie about something so serious about that what else is she lying about. If I was him I would wash my hands from her all together.
That is deceit to the VERY CORE!
The woman in the 2nd story is the worst kind of woman. She knew he wasn’t the dad but wanted someone to use as a caregiver. She waited 2 yrs so he would be fully emotionally invested. She’s a liar and a manipulator and she doesn’t deserve happiness.
This is why men are going MGTOW .
She waited so he would be attached to that child premeditated
I don't understand her either. Tell him the truth from the start or keep your mouth shut. What's the point of telling him this?? She's a jerk 😮
She found someone she thought was a sucker that she could use. Terrible.
Actually, she is not the worst kind of woman in the second story because women are always right. Sometimes, they are wrong, but women make mistakes, but women can always be right then men are men will sometimes be right but men can sometimes be wrong it's a two way street
I have grandchildren that aren't of my blood but I claim them anyway. They are treated no different from the others.
Same! Exactly the same!
@@salinahalls1974 Right!!!!!!
My Grandson isn't part of my blood but that little boy IS my grandson 100%. Grandma has been there since his first breath. He's my heart.
yea you treat them all the same you beat up on all of then without exception
I have kids that not my blood, but they are my kids and I would take a bullet for all my kids.
Imagine those poor kid's watching this back when older and seeing there own dad saying they would be better off in foster care.. shocking 😔
The kids are going to be hurt by what their father is. Hopefully, the would be on a right path.
Let's hope to goodness they don't. Better that she leaves him and she meets a REAL MAN who will take them on with absolute love.
We don’t know any of these people. Who knows, maybe they would be better off in foster care.
I always think about that with old Jerry Springer episodes. smh, sad
@@armurph1102 nobody is better off in foster care. The state is not a mother or father. Kids are 10 times more likely to be abused in foster care.
Man, my heart breaks for poor Jojo and for the kids of the first two. I sure hope he stayed in that little boys life. He’s gonna need a decent parent.
Way to go to all the Brothers/Uncles out there for being a Real Man for standing up and taking care of your Sisters and there children that’s what we need to see 👏 Thank You to you All 💋 🤗 Joel the Brother your Amazing
As someone who experienced trauma in foster care, his whole "they'll have a better chance in foster care" schtick made my blood boil.
He knows he's such an idiot...he told the truth if it's him taking care of the kids.
I never experienced foster care and I'm sorry to you. 😭
Joel (1st story) and Vanessa (2nd story) def deserve each other
They never met each other since their stories are different, but you are right that these two guests do deserve each other.
This is the first time I have seen a comment where two guests from different stories would deserve each other.
I know right because they're Losers
The realization on her face that the Father of her children will abandon them all the moment she is gone (willfully accidental, or natural causes)...So sad and distressing...
Nahh idc ANY man says “don’t leave me alone with your kid” he’s getting kicked to the curb bye 👋
19:01 Joel's DNA test results
20:01 Melissa's lie detector test results
21:33 Joel's lie detector test results
31:42 Vanessa's confession
doing gods work
@@Footymorayo omg I died laughing
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I am in tears for the 2nd story. I hope Aiden still has Jojo in his life.
Hell no, I hope not. Jojo needs to be with a woman who loves him for him and have his own blood child.
Raising a other man’s child is a fools errand
So if he treated you like this…why would you go back and have a THIRD child with him??? He showed you who he was during your 2nd child. So idk what to say.
Because she's mentally unstable and has abandonment issues because she grew up in the system and she was trying to have a family because she has nobody it's pretty obvious but I don't know maybe no one else took us psychology class in high school maybe that was just me
She thought he would change, as usual. Young and dumb. We've all made mistakes.
Second story.What a lying,user that woman is.She shouldn’t have brought Jojo on tv to tell him devastating news.She can’t be trusted to do the right thing,ever.
agreed she did this to make him look like a bitch and karma will find her
She's a diety bihhh...she just used him cause the real father is a bum
Agreed, her apologies were so empty. She’s only doing that bc the real dads a bumb! She’s sorry! Id leave her ass quick! She’s only being w him out of convenience, if the other guy had his shit together she’d of been gone. She’s using him bc he works hard, stepped up & isa great dad but out of false pretenses bc he thought it was his kid.
Ikr ? Like what the fuck is she thinking
The second story is sad she doesn't love him and she cheated on him and had a baby with a another man . He should split up her and she lied saying his father of their child and it not true. She just use him to support her and her child because he good guy and had a job.The real father his deadbeat doesn't want to support his child. She should be single mum and get a job and support her own child on her own. He deserves to be with good women better than ex girlfriend.
That last guy George deserves the world what a sweet loving guy I hope he gets all that he deserves..that little boy deserves a good daddy
Leave him. There is no way I would stay with someone who treats my children bad.
A man wants to send your kids to foster home and you can still see yourself with him? I’m confused on why it wasn’t just a dna test who cares about the relationship
Leave him. He looks like a bobo
She’s an idiot. Everyone talking about “He’s a jerk, he’s a this or that…..” YEAH, he is. But she knew that and still had three kids with him anyway. Isn’t that selfish on her part? I waited to have kids till I met a man who was kind, selfless, responsible and respectful, because I knew that whoever I picked, that was going to affect my children for the rest of their lives. They only get one daddy, so he
better be a good one. Women keep giving kids to these clowns so they see no reason to change. She even said he was a “controlling abuser”, so then why have kids with him? She has a family she can go stay with, I’d never see him again after the DNA test if I were her.
Exactly !
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The man was never going to send the kids to foster care he was just threatening that so that she would immediately turn around and come back he just wants to control her life it's not about giving up his kids to foster care it's about him trying to control her that's why he's trying to spin it like she abandoned them when all she did was leave them with their dad for a couple of hours or tried to at least
Why did she stay and put her kids in that situation? I don't want to hear " because I love him " or I'm gonna puke !! 1st.story." Take out my baby"? He wanted her to abort her son and she wants to be with a Monster like that ?! I feel so bad for these kids and all kids that have to deal with the selfishness of their parents. I Wouldn't want to have anything to do with someone who wanted me to End my pregnancy!! And someday when that when that little boy sees this video and knows that his dad didn't even want him to exist, I can't even imagine !! She needs to start thinking of her kids Not herself!
So it's the mother fault tht the father is s selfish coward POS? Wild take
@@CringeyGames she wasn’t being blamed,for what he is.Just for putting up with what he is.
THANK YOU!!!! I am so sick of seeing all of the comments that are “oh poor pitiful woman. She deserves better”. First of all, not one person watching this show(other than her family) knows any of these people so we don’t know what type person any of them are. There are MANY people in this world who don’t deserve to have children. I get so angry about people acting like idiots over people who try to be honest about what would truly be best for their kids. Yet when people keep their children and abuse them or worse, people turn around and judge them for not giving them to someone else like another family member or FOSTER CARE! The way it sounds by the way they all three are behaving, those kids would be better off being cared for by people who can better care for them financially and more importantly, emotionally
She said it was because she grew up in the system and she wanted to have a family for her children it wasn't because oh I love him I mean it was literally in the segment did you watch it?
Wow! Second story. She was making a fool of him all this time. She is pinning the baby on him.
The second story breaks my heart... She keeps following him knowing she hurt him
What a great brother.
Amazing
The froster care is a broken system shame on this guy he is a horrible person and denieing your child you don’t deserve to be a father to any child
Not entirely, but you are correct that the foster care system does need fixing. It’s always best to do background checks and have bad people be banned from adopting children.
The scary thing, though is he’s probably been this way for a long time yet she chose to have a second and third child with him
That Joel is a piece of work who doesn’t deserve to have three beautiful children and an equally beautiful wife. She’s stunning and I’m sure will find a better life with someone who respects her as a mum and a woman ❤
Hello Jo Hughes, how are you doing?
@@martinswells1987 your a SCAMMER you stole my grandmothers money!!!
@@inyasheesh9544 What a heck did I fucking know you or your grandmother i wish I can get hold of you and sue you for that.
@@inyasheesh9544 What are you serious when?
@@christianbitz-nielsen5462 he scammed her asked her to be in a relationship with him after they started chatting on WhatsApp she started sending the bitcoin to him
1. She is a strong lady. Hope she left him. Her brother is a beter man then him. Sometimes it's beter for the kid's that thy parents don't stay together.
Melissa please take your kids and get as far away from him as possible. Some times kids are actually better off without both parents around.
One brilliant parent like that young woman, is far better than two bad parents.
My ex was abusive and everytime I tried to work he’d call me saying he was going to leave his kids alone if I didn’t come home it was awful I’m so glad I got out of that
Second story: WTFFFFF
shes a piece of work.... inviting your side man to the baby shower and being there at the birth of you child?? Then LYING to your bf about being the dad... ugh. Some people
Wow. That was for real the most beautiful reaction of a real MAN.
He truly is a wonderful person who has deserved the best.
Yes yes yes! And lying manipulative user Vanessa is not the best.
Made me tear up.
Joel deserves to be taught a lesson, that he will be sorry or he can face disgrace.
The second woman really upset me. Not only because of the secret but because she wouldn't give him space. He needed a few minutes, back up a little.
Yall notice in the 2nd story how the woman was manipulating jojo? She said from the jump she wasnt attracted to him and also indicated that she only pinned it on jojo because the other guy treated her like jojo is supposed to. Like the no good woman she is. If im jojo im bouncing completely out of her and pookie's kid's lives. She doesnt respect him and if he stayed, he will regret it.
That first girl is amazing - and very, very beautiful ❤️😍❤️ And I have to give kudos to her brother for being such and wonderful brother 🙏❤️🌹
“You stepped up to the plate and I like that” smh 🤦🏾♀️
You gave me money and supported me and I like that.
It's pretty obvious why she waited so long to tell George he's not the father. She wanted him to get attached to the little boy so he wouldn't leave her. If she told him in the beginning he could have made the decision to not be with her and If he left she wouldn't have his upport anymore and would probably have to get a job. It's really shitty she took away his right to choose.
I know the pain that middle child has gone through, my mother did the same thing with my stepdaughter, piled on all the gifts expensive and many at birthdays and Christmas except for her. The first Christmas this happened we never went back again, just the look of hurt in a little girl's face broke my heart, and there's nothing you can do to make that moment of rejection go away. That woman needs to give him supervised visits only!!!
I would love a man like Jojo, he’s the definition of a real man
He’s probably never going to trust another partner as long as he lives
TBH I’m glad he admitted his kids are better in foster care. Dads like him end up neglecting and abusing the kids they can’t handle. He obvious doesn’t have care of patience so I wouldn’t trust my kids with him alone ever again. We hear too many horror stories these days
Then he needs to leave. Foster Care is not a safe choice. I grew up in the system and there's no way a real mother who grew up that way would ever even think about putting her children through that hell. Those children have a mother that loves them. A Foster Care suggestion is him being abusive and controlling
the kids would not be better off in foster care if there are other parents that will care for them. foster care is NOT a better option, and its sad that people act like it is.
“The truth had to come out sooner or later” man that had me lmao.
WoW poor poor George, my heart ♥ felt him him bad. I hope wheather he stays with her, or not. I wish him all the luck in the world.
I think its so cruel to bring the person you're supposed to love on national TV to make a confession that he's not the dad. Its heart breaking. That little boy needs a better mummy. George is a great man and presumably a wonderful father.
This woman is a bold face liar. Hope she meets Karma one day.
I wish the security would keep the women away from the men while they are trying to process something that hurtful and big. It’s not fair. Men like to handle shit on their own. Not be suffocated by the same woman that’s causing him the pain.
Steve I lost all three of my brothers. This gentleman here reminded me of my brothers I miss them so much they always were. They are protecting me when they were alive God I wish him this young lady’s brother all the blessings that God has to offer any man my prayers and my heart will always be for the brother.
Some men don’t want the responsibility of being a father. They just want the name.
Ofcourse they don't want to be the father unless he agreed and planned it. Its the women's fault for not being on birth control and or trying to baby trap the man. It's probably what the second woman did and the real father smartly took off and let this pathetic s*mp think he was the father
True some women too
What the girl in the second half did was calculated. She waited for him to bond with the son first and THEN tried to convince him to stay because they didn't have both parents?? You can even see her smiling while he's distraught. Disgusting.
thought i was da only one who seen just wow
Trifling that's what she is
Her flat tone when she’s saying “I love you, I love you” girl, you don’t love him, he’s only a convenience for her..
Run George! Vanessa is out for herself. She lies. Aiden's dad will be always in the picture George. Don't be fooled. Aiden has a daddy, and it isn't you George.
I really wish men would stop stepping up to raise another man’s kids especially ones convinced through infidelity and you are lead on to believe you are the biological father . All that “ Im still dad” stuff sounds good on tv but you still gotta go the rest of your life knowing that the person you thought gave you the best thing in the world a child lied and gave birth to another man’s kid. Men you have the right to leave and live your life and make a family that’s yours where your children look like you and grow up to look like you , you have the right to build your own instead of taking care of someone else’s . Damn the woman she made that choice when she laid down with another man and when the child gets older and ask you why you left just tell them to ask their mother what she did to flip yours and the child’s life upside down. She even admits that she allowed the other man to sign the birth certificate and admitted that you were her second choice , if that man would’ve stuck around you would’ve been left high and dry and she wouldn’t have cared cuz she had her family
She did not and still does not love him, he was the better choice, as the provider to raised the man who got the sweets child, if you were still going to stay with her, from the time she told you that she did not loose the birth certificate, you should have told her goodbye. She will continue to lie to you. Let the father take care of his responsibities.
They don't do it for the POS mother who doesn't deserve to have the help in raising the child they do it for the child who believe that they were their father this whole time because not only was that man deceived with that child was also deceived that's why they do it do I think it's fair no what I do it I don't know cuz I'm a woman so that's something I don't think I'll ever have to do with in any capacity
My daddy is not my “biological father” he had a vasectomy before I was conceived and he knew I wasn’t his, but he was there for my mom through everything. He brought me home on his birthday and said that was the best gift he could ever have. I am now 31, and he has never treated me differently than my brother and sister. I also have a little brother who is now 21 and he has done the same with him. Both mine and my little brothers biological fathers gave my mother money for an abortion and told her after she said she would not do it they told her that we would never amount to what our older siblings are. Eventually our bio’s wanted to be in our life and my brother’s father I guess was okay. He certainly didn’t treat him like his older child, but my bio father? Oh he beat me, put a pillow over my face to see how long it would take before I passed out. He would get me drunk and I pass out so he could have friends over to party and forced me to brush the toilet with my personal toothbrush that I used. He got so enraged one time that he beat me and my stepsister with a belt buckle and tried to keep me away from my momma and daddy for 2 weeks. Those bruises were still very visible when my daddy came and got me cuz he just said fuck you im coming to get my baby girl and they seen the bruises when I went to change clothes and cops were called immediately and cps was involved the very next day. I would do anything for that man. He is truly an amazing father and I am very blessed to have him.
This woman needs to wake up !! He's horrid . She needs to leave him permanently
The way the security guard pushed the dude back so the woman could get her two cents in.....#respect
Your kids come first lady you need to leave that man boy sorry
About 5 years ago my son sat and opened up a $5 slime kit ,1 gift ..while his cousions had several gifts around them that included tablets and shit ! I get that anger 💯! This was a year before covid hit, regardless of that i wouldn't put my son in that heartbreaking situation again
Her apologies are so empty! She’s only using him bc he’s a hard worker & great dad. If the other guy had his shit together she wouldn’t even be w Jojo. She acts like he’s supposed to just get over it, he’s a good guy but id leave her in a heartbeat, she can’t be trusted w all the lies she told to cover up the big one. Shes only w him out of convenience. She don’t sound genuine when she says i love you or I’m sorry. All empty!
Kuddos to the Dad in the second story, I really hope he and his son live a good and healthy life as for the mom however I hope she always feels like she's stepping on a lego whenever she walks and never gets used to it. WTF is going through her head thinking of admitting to a confessing on live television, if she really did love him as she says she does, she should've pulled him to the side and said it in private. smh
Its really sad when people deny their own kid. Really cruel.
People, who deny their children despite being biologically theirs, don’t deserve to be parents.
With how deceitful people are you never know if the kids you’re until you have a test
Some people are just selfish and deserve to be put in their place.
I just love STEVE'S show, it really helps. Why? the truth always & forever set us all (free.)
Now that’s a father! Good for you you😊man. You been here that’s your son no matter what
Gotta love how these women can lie to a man about being the father and then when they tell them the truth, they have the audacity to say "I'm sorry" like no. That's not "I'm sorry" what you did can't be fixed by that. A man was excited to be a dad, and clearly supported him thinking it was his son, and you, for a long period of time, knew he wasn't the father but didn't tell him at any time. It's disgusting. I've seen stories of men paying for their children only to find out that they were raising another man's son, and it destroys them. It's terrible that this keeps happening. At least he still cares about that little boy even if it might not be his.
Staying in a toxic relationship for the kids and trying to stay a family is just ignorant!!
I hope that first guy is in prison for not only cheating on her but giving the kids away. I hope Bubba's treating him good
Now he has nothing to say. He is such a fool. He is a cheater that’s why he felt she was cheating. He is a waste of human life. Shameful.
I have 6 brothers, 2 step sisters and an adopted sister. I love them all equally. I genuinely don't love any over the other. You make your own family, dna doesn't mean a damn thing to me. If you're my family, you're my family.
Steve needs to start ripping these women like he does the men seriously
What type of father doesn't want to be in his kids lives at the man in the second story was willing to do that
Any Child deserves love
The second woman is descipable even the way she tried to emotionally blackmail him in to staying after what she did. The woman is very lucky to have him but I would have left that person if they done that to me. I would stay for the child but forget her. This woman forced him in to that family …. How could you not tell someone about something that big. Oh this guy stepped up thinking that it was his child because he was there and supporting us! It makes me so angry 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
The first guy’s statue poker face when he was proven wrong. Wow
What a creep that man is and when they say that middle child is his, he looks at the pic and says nothing, not even a smile with love
If she wants to do whatever as she please then she should face the consequences by herself.
A wonderful example of …
unconditional LOVE ✨💕✨
my kids come b4 anything or anybody my kids are my life to all mothers n fathers please put ur kids first
Guys like this don't change, don't waste your time girl ❤
Why is there no law against baby trapping a man? It is one of the most horrible crimes someone can commit.
What a great guy, I'd be overjoyed for a daughter of mine to be with such a guy.
He deserves better.
I raised my 2 boys by myself, my ex has mental issues... not her fault, best 15 years of my life....
It's absolutely heartbreaking that a dad treats one of his kids like this 😢 he treats all the kids like it , he's not ready to be a father, he doesn't want to be father, he's lazy , he's an idiot!
Imagine your kids asking you one day 'dad why did you try and give us away "
Him : I was lazy and irresponsible and didn't want to bother with you anymore
I don't understand why the second woman couldn't have told him this at home and not on TV ! She basically used him because he was paying for her child! She's absolutely horrible to do this to him on TV and humiliate him this way
She doesn't love him ! She just used him , if she loved him she wouldn't do this !
One loving parent is better than two fighting parents any day
❤ 100 percent
George you are a good man. This woman took advantage of you obviously for your $ while she was still screwing around with the real father of her son. If I were you I'd walk away! She's disrespectful and a liar. If she can carry this lie on for almost 2 years; she will lie to you about anything. You deserve so much better!!
You are a wonderful woman and deserve a real man that will treat you will respect and put his family before anything and that is not him at all !! Just continue to be a great mom and not worry about him especially after the way he acted on the show I wouldn’t be surprised if he decides to sign his rights always, children deserve a dad who is their all the time and wants to be their , you can’t force anyone to grow up and take responsibility for their actions!! He has no one to blame for his unhappiness but himself!!
That first story I can related to my youngest daughter get mistreated by her father family especially her grandpa and they brainwashed her father also because he already got a son by another woman and they treat his son way better than my daughter but at the end of the day I don’t call them or anything the only person that helps me is my mom and I’m so thankful 💯🙏🏾
From the moment I was born my dad has always treated me different from my older sister. There is no doubt in the world that I'm not his daughter...I mean I look and act a lot, if not exactly like him in some cases...
But when my dad was a kid, his dad neglected him and favoured his first born/ my dads older brother. And he's carried that trait on to his own kin and it is life destroying for the child who has to experience that sort of neglect.
I was around the same age as this poor kid when I realised my dad was doing exactly this and it effected me as a kid and still does 20 years later. He still continues to do it now and it hurts just as much as when he did it when I was an infant.
Its a painful wound to have - knowing that no matter what you do, you're never going to be loved or given the same affection or appreciation compared to your other sibling(s). And no matter how much they try later in life to possibly fix what they're done, the damage is already done......I just hope this kid will be okay and not have to go through this x
I, like everyone else, am sadly watching this show … because as humans- we are drawn to drama and disfunction! Steve is a good guy who wants to help people who are horrible to each other or one abuses the other or one cheats on the other. In cases like this- it’s a no win situation. So many women don’t feel they deserve better…and that makes it a no win! Unless you get help for the partner who is treated badly- they will never have the life they deserve.
First man, WOMAN, get rid of this man
He should never have been a FATHER
I’m sure if she was upfront he would have taken him as his own
First woman, get rid of this man
He is a waste of SPACE
Lady you are pretty, get some self-esteem, get a job, education, and have your families support, get rid of this man FOREVER
I hope the first story goes well & that she does leave him & the kids are better off without him around his got no passion or happiness.
Jojo. What a man. You could see the devastation on his face, but the determination to stay that little boys father was greater. I hope she realises what she has with him.
That’s a suckers view. Jojo should run. She got in that mess that ain’t jojo responsibility
Both of these POS don't care about no one but themselves. The 2nd story was just heartbreaking. She wanted to build with the missing father that's why he was there until she gave birth and signed the BC but something made him run away. And she just used the other guy by tricking him into thinking he was the biological father for her own selfish reasons "MONEY"! Now he has an unbreakable bond with this child. She was cold hearted and manipulative this entire time. I don't think she was ever going to tell him the truth. I think someone told her to tell him cause she is still playing head games with his heart when she asked him if he loves her. She really peed me off with that question. As for the 1st story WHO TF CARES! I can't feel love for anyone who mistreats my kids! It's a wrap with that MF! Not sorry! 💯
I’m the middle kid and my parents are divorced and they still show so much love my mom and dad show all three of us the same kind of love.
(2nd story) that girl was WRONG for that. She should have told him at home a long time ago not on national TV. At least we all know the type of person she is. Not right.
Shoutout to Nosey for the classics 🙌.
That woman in the first story is absolutely beautiful and seems like a amazing mother and girlfriend that dude will never score a woman like that again, he should have put a ring on that finger and been a great husband and father, I’d treat her like a diamond if she was my woman
She don't know how to do her wifely duties and wants to be our partying
steve im from the uk and we love the way you say....SHOCKING....
i feel that she can do better without him its a good man out there looking 4 a good woman
I love the brother from the first story. We need more like him
Poor Jojo...but he is real man...he decided to continue to sees him as his son. I would not trust her at all....she lied for 2yrs. She didnot tell him probaby because she wanted to see if Jojo could provide for both. She was horrible to him. He deserves better part er.
Relationships can either be the greatest blessing to come into a person's life or it can be the biggest curse. There are NO in-betweens! 😢😮😢😮