Indian American Wedding: A Hindu ceremony explained
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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
- This video clip highlights the key wedding ceremonies at a Hindu wedding. It does not follow typical tradition and was scripted with a couple of objectives family agreed on. We researched quite a bit of cultural history. We found a great book titled "Hindu Wedding: The Guide" by Dr. A. V. Srinivasan. We selected what made sense to us from this book as well as other resources. Happy to share further information! All comments are appreciated. The story of this couple is published in the book titled The Sixth Grade Wedding Planners. It is available on Amazon.
How beautiful to see both culture bonding together....congratulations to both bride n bridegroom
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With all negative reviews I personally want to congratulate the beautiful couple may they have a wonderful marriage and some beautiful children.i love the groom family
Thanks! Yes, some people cannot figure out the whys of the rituals and the origins and history of culture & traditions. We tried to shade some light.
@@JeevanChitravlog There is no wrong or right information here. Since you have certain views, you find problems when someone is not aligned with your views. Please be kind and considerate of how others may interpret information.
@saroj kumar sahu It seems that you are still stuck in the past and unwilling to adopt. A marriage is about love between two people.
Wish you a very Happy marriage life...
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Still respecting Indian culture 🙏🏻hats off guys
I have read a few comments, and would like to say please change your attitude towards marriage. Marriage is a union of two soul, it's meant to celebrate the bond of love. Rituals are secondary and we don't need to follow it in a rigid way. If someone loves to get married in a traditional way, then it's fine. But you can't just say that this marriage ceremony has no charm. I appreciate this kind of marriage ceremony because of its simplicity, modesty and a sense of purity which it conveys. It's devoid of any kind of hustle and bustle. There is no fake showiness, everything seems to be so natural. This kind of ceremony should be promoted and we should wholeheartedly accept it.
We appreciate your thoughtful and loving comment.
@@ArvindAmin Can You Remove The Hate Comments On This Video Its A Beautiful Wedding I Was Almost In Tears
@@haileeraestout5567 OK. I removed a couple of negative comments from ignorant people. Let me know if you still find anything out of line.
After a long time, I did see a wedding where the significance of rituals in explained so well, making the ceremony more meaningful than just symbolic rituals and useless flamboyance. This video just prevented marriage from being commoditized as an industry, maintaining the sanctity of marriage.
Glad to see you appreciated this approach. Rituals have to be meaningful and relevant to our times.
@@ArvindAmin sai ap ki nazar mey koi ladka hai bahar vedesah mey to batiey ga
Very true.
There are lot's of videos on you tube where indian "HINDU" girls tied a knot with " GORA CHAMDI".😮😮😮😮
Sure. But, there many more examples across the global of bi-racial marriages. The racial and cultural boundaries are slowly melting...humans have the same DNA origin!!!
Although they don't follow all the rituals of Hindu....but marriage means getting together of souls...here it seems a sweet and simple marriage...respecting eachother culture...all ladies in Indian traditional dress...👌👌happy married life to couple
Well said. We appreciate your loving comments and blessings.
Congratulations to both of you. May God bless you abundantly!
Hello I am a marriage celebrant from Sydney 👍🏿 the ceremony was so beautiful 😍; here in Australia 🇦🇺 we will include legal side also legal vows but v nice ceremony hats off to the celebrant when you are in western culture it’s important to have inclusiveness hence some you from Subcontinent will not understand this 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Simple but beautiful wedding ceremony performed in USA. God's grace, love and blessings be always with the newly married couple as well as the members of the family and also the friends in and abroad.
And wish you all a very "Merry Christmas and Happy New Year" in advance to all of you and other friends.
With best wishes and prayer,
Thanks a lot,
We appreciate the kind words. Thanks!
Love to all .. Great Indian culture .. Looking fantastic foriegner
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It's not hindu marriage ceremony but you be happy couple ,god bless.
OK. If that is your opinion. But, where do you find definitive information about what is Hindu marriage? Happy to read up if you send me a link or a document.
@@ArvindAmin q
GENUINE PLEASURE TO SAW THEM...GOD PLEASE REALISE MY ONE WEDDING ( EXCESS LOVE ).
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@@ArvindAmin YOUR WELCOME DEAR
I Love India , and love Sri Sathya Sai Baba....
Sathya , Daharma , Shanti ,Prema.......Ahimsa
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Those white people looked really beautiful in the Indian outfits.
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Beautiful wedding your daughter and thank you for sharing video.
Sure. Glad you liked it. Thanks for the feedback.
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In India intercaste marriage is not allowed, and here international marriage is being accepted
Wow! Nice alias. You mean accepted!
@@ArvindAmin yes I mean accepted
Beutiful...feeling ecstatic every time I watch this video. Congrats and happy married life
Thanks!!! Glad you liked and enjoyed the video.
God mads as in different colors and tride ,so we can be in our tride, so we don't go against God,Will , love has no rules, but God love is Everlasting.
what's a tride? AND whats a mads as..... Good explanation thank you for the video post!!
Come to India to know how really a hindu wedding ceremony is 😁
I was born and raised in India. We know what is a traditional Hindu wedding is like. Please read the description. This is not your traditional ceremony. Open your minds for new ideas and new tradition!
@@ArvindAmin I Love This Kind Of Tradition Its Really Different And PLEASE Remove The Negativity In The Comment Section
Your marriage life
Always happyness.
Simple&elegant. Perfectly Indo-American.
Thanks! We appreciate the compliments.
Beautiful, awesome wedding ceremony. Wish the couple and the families happy and prosperous life.
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pls dont give wrong information on hindu marriage. pls dont use and dont insult hindu marriages. but good luck to new couple.
Alright, we take your word for it that our information may be incorrect. Now, let me know what is the correct Hindu marriage? Please share any web link or document you know which defines correct Hindu marriage.
Such a simple n green marriage
In India Purohith(Brahmin) never explain meaning of the chanting as they Utter in Sanskrit during a Hindu Wedding, u have witnessed a simple & well explained Wedding, may God bless the couple with all the happiness in their life
Here are Purohiths that they can explain each words meaning
but it's all matter for money...and time
I heard that it is 16days time span they can do that programme who has that much both money time and interest..any how things are running with core system
Beautiful song choice, beautiful ceremony, wish the stunning couple a happy wedded life, many they have a fruitful marriage and many kids ✨🙂👌❤️
Hii I'm raju I'm from Indian this is my WhatsApp number 00919502635655 message me
VERY NICE WEDDING CEREMONY. CONGRATULATIONS.
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May God Bless both of
Super
Beautiful couple , i like it
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Half video went by but could not see the bride’s face
True, same thought
What about Mangalsutra which is an essential part of Hindu marriage?
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Well, we decided to skip Mangalsutra. It is equivalent to rings in western culture. Nothing is essential in marriage except love for each other. Note that we performed only "Key" rituals which had noteworthy vows and words of commitment.
Arvind Amin ... thanks for your response. Nice function.
@@ssrwarrier Sure. Glad you liked it.
Where is sindur and mangalsutra?? This marriage is incomplete without these two. This is not marriage without sindur and mangalsutra... According to our religion. I was waiting for those moments come.
Thanks for the comments! There is no hard requirements of any of those rituals. Every ritual should have a meaning for the couple and the family. Please pay attention to the reference of the book in the summary above. I should remind you that Hinduism is a way of life and not a religion.
@@ArvindAmin in hinduism , we need to have sindur and mangalsutra ritual. This is one of the most imp ritual. I do not know which book you refer and why that man left significance of these rituals. I felt incomplete when i watched this. But if the couple is happy, marriage and no marriage does not play big part. But i can not imagine my marriage without these two rituals. And i was litrlly waiting for the groom to fill her hair with sindur and tie the mangalsutra. Thats why i commented.
@@pritiprerna4706 I understand your sentiments. I am making the point about "requirements". Do you know when and who started those rituals? And why they should be required for marriage to be complete? Please realize rituals and traditions can be changed over time just as they were initiated at some point in the past as a change to previous tradition.
@@ArvindAmin I guess you never lived in India that's why you do not have much attachment to these rituals. I have. Moreover everyone has own perception and feelings. I felt this marriage incomplete without these two rituals. May Bhagwan bless them with love and prosperity forever!
@@ArvindAmin please read this article. m.timesofindia.com/life-style/relationships/revealed-the-science-behind-popular-hindu-marriage-rituals/photostory/61546798.cms
I m not in my home right now. Otherwise I would have sent you the significance of these rituals direct from our Vedas . We have those in our house
This is american type of hindu marry..mix...catholik..hindu comb...😂😂
No, it is not a mix. We had a separate American wedding. See the second video on this channel. The wedding in the video is not a typical Hindu wedding. It is different than most people are used to. But, there is always a first. Perhaps, the Hindu wedding you approve of was first a few years back. Open your minds and ask "why" on rituals and ceremonies before making a judgement on others. There is no "the" way of a Hindu wedding.
I love how the groom respects the bride and her cultural practices.
No pomp, no glamour. If solemnisation of marriage is something important then the same is what we see here.
Indeed, this is what we focused on. Rituals and traditions should be meaningful and relevant to the times. We avoided the trap of following things without understanding. Thanks.
@@ArvindAmin Good Morning from India. Much appreciated Sir.
Wow you guys did an amazing job.wonderfull
Thanks. We tried to make it meaningful and interesting for all of us.
@@thejaspoojary6545 Not sure what you are saying. Please write in proper language. Thanks.
All I can say is that this is more like Indianised version of traditional Christian wedding , but still I give my best wishes to the married couple
Thanks! Good comparison try. However, in reality, it is a simplified Hindu wedding with core rituals performed in English. We did have a separate Christian version of the wedding the following day which also was modified. Check out the second video we have posted.
@@ArvindAmin is the bride your daughter?
@@samsinha3550 If you listened to the video carefully and read the description you will get answers to your questions. This shows most of the negative comments are made without paying careful attention to the video post.
@@ArvindAmin my comment is inquisitive but not negative in any context, if you found anything disparaging I'm sorry for that
@@samsinha3550 Yes, I do realize that. I was referring to others. I appreciate the response. Thanks.
I like this no extravagant marriage.I really appreciate this.
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So disgusting to see that indian-hindus are commenting disgust & their tiny mentalities...here, under such an beautiful wedding! What is so un-hindu or un-indian in this? Such an amazing couple!
Ps) This is how my parents were married(mixing both cultures) tho there were grand mandaps & havan kunds & had many folks..my mom is of indian descent!
&im more hindu than those "Hindu lectutrers" lecturing here abt hindu traditions!
Please Dont Insult The Indo Americans
Beautiful wedding, congratulations 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💖
Wow ..very beautiful happy married life ..they different culture an country ..proud of two families
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Very good married and difficult culture in the successful marriage
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Supper marriage of lovely couple and relatives are also very charming God bless you all;
Thanks for your wishes and kind words.
@@ArvindAmin I enjoyed your video very much sir your welcome
@@AMANDEEPSINGH-kj9kx Glad to hear that. Thanks again!
🤔🤨😙😏😣😯😤😳🤓
What a beautiful setting FOR the wedding
I have always been interested in different cultures so this is great.
Beautiful
Nice wedding
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Very beautiful wedding.
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love you darling.....
A nice and simple marrage
It's too lovely ♥️♥️♥️
I also wanna do that in future😍🥰
Thanks! Let us know if we can help.
God bless them but this marriage is incomplete without sindur and mangalsutra.
Thanks. See my response earlier.
@Ronaldo Christiano Thanks for making the case!
@Ronaldo Christiano Absolutely! This is a typical issue in the arranged marriages.
Your name suggests me everything. 😊
@@pritiprerna4706 I am not clear. Which name?
Happy marriage life brother very nice......
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Indian are very pretty
Sure, they are!
Yeh fhirangi Indian dress mein ek dam zhakaasssssss lag rahe 😎😎😎
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@@ArvindAmin always welcome
I like how they separate the white and brown
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White and black ,not brown
I congratulate the couple from core of my heart. Btw, something is missing like "Nagin Dance" 🤣🤣🤣
Thanks! We decided to limit the amount of time to rituals and ceremonies and had separate programs for Garba, Raas and other popular Bollywood/Hollywood ance. Please check out the other video related to this wedding on the same channel.
Hindu culture is beautiful
I am also from India , but this is alarming situation😂😂, another sanskari indian " SUPUTRI" slipped away from our hand😂😂 only from firangi. It's not about love 😅😅😅😅it is something else "oo laa laaaaaaaaa....."
No pandit indian wedding.. short & sweet!!
Who defines a Pandit? We do, right? It is about sincere vows after all!
@Vamshee Goud Concur!
Nice simple marriage namma oorula marriage panna pala masama thungama mandaiyai pichukanum
Lovely.....
Glad you liked it. Thanks.
Que linda la novia ,muy fino se ve todo ,very beautiful weeding❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Nice
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modern Indian wedding, nice
Nice comments using "modern". Thanks!
Why cant we see her face
Watch the video, please! You will see it very clearly.
Great Indian marriage sistem..i love very much
Glad you liked the system. Thanks!
Beautiful wedding 👌👌
Hii I'm raju I'm from Indian this is my WhatsApp number 00919502635655 message me
Lot of love both of you.
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Very simple and extraordinarily marriage occasion.👌👌
Glad you liked it. Thanks!
You're most welcome Arvindbhai.🙏🙏
Beautiful!
So beautiful
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It is not a Hindu ceremony.they change it according to there convenience.
Thanks for your comments. Yes, we modified it to serve our objectives to celebrate the culture as well as public commitment of marriage vows. Please ask why we do certain rituals and ceremonies and not follow it just because it is an old tradition.
And ? Important thing is their love for each other. Go shove your opinion up your shit hole.
@@4youreyesonly884 They love each other, that does not mean turning things around in their own way. And talking to a stranger in such a way is a reflection of their upbringing.So relax and be calm and learn how to talk to others.Thank You very much.
@@mithileshkumargupta4946 who cares about your opinion ?!!! no one
@@4youreyesonly884 If it doesn't, then why would you come here to respond to my opinion? HaHaHa
Awesome 😍😍
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Simple and nice marriage. God bless the couple
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Nice Jodi...and.parmote Hindu culture and Hinduism in America.j Jai Shree ram.jai Shree Krishna...one day whole... world accept Hinduism....
Thanks. However, we are not promoting any religion. We are simply sharing a different way to celebrate multiple cultures.
It’s a cliff notes of a Hindu Wedding
Yup! You can say that. Thanks!
Prime example of why you shouldn't have kids at a wedding.
Very nice
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that is short cut I take place when a Hindu marry in another religion
Hindus don't believe on conversion like Christans and islams do
Beautiful wedding and great video! Thank you for sharing ❤️ Quick question: What song is playing at the beginning when the groom is walking in, please?
Here is a link of the original movie song:
ruclips.net/video/Cu3QpWEfqgg/видео.html
Song - Tenu Leke Film - Salaam-E-Ishq Singer - Sonu Nigam, Mahalakshmi Iyer Lyricist - Sameer Music
Bhiya jitne bhi gyani aur sunder betiyon ko gora logon ke saath denga toh hume desi ladki kahan se milega
Indo- US Bonding with short indian culture, kher Dil milne chahiye bas💓💓
Thanks for your comment!
Wow. What a western version of Indian marriage. 😂😂. Jugadi shaadi, pandit, agni. 🤣🤣🤣. Good way to make gora dulha realize meaning of each step.🤣. So he won't mess up in future. Its a great subsitute of traditional marriage. Liked the way groom and his family giving respect to Indian tradition. 😍🤩.
Curious to know what was the menu? Lol. Fusion or pure Indian. 🤣
Appreciate the comments. We had an Indian menu and celebration with Garba/Raas on the first day. On the second day, we had an American multi-cuisine menu and traditional reception, dance, etc. We had a global culture theme for the wedding.
Possibly steak and apple pie.
Nice and happy married life
This is at best a Bollywood sangeeth.
Thanks! Glad you liked it.
Can see the face of family members well. Why not the bride
Yes, you can see brides face also. Please watch it again carefully all the way.
traditional Hindu wedding is the best n it takes at least three hours to do everything with a Pundit, this is more of a rushed christian wedding, in a Hindu wedding rituals are performed so change the thumbnail
Where have you seen historic documentation of what is a Hindu wedding? Wedding ceremonies have evolved over thousands of years. They change and should be changed for the culture we adopt. BTW, we had a separate western wedding the day after. We are posting this video soon.
@@MrTorrence69 Sure. I will check out the other video. But, that misses my point.
@@MrTorrence69 There is nothing to steal. How about sharing and adopting? You may not realize that the Hindu culture is not original. You should read up some history about the Sindu/Indu/Hindu human migration over 5000 years back. Note that the Harrapan civilization has been lost and we cannot even interpret the traces of language they used on the tablets found by archaeologists.
Gay man devilz reject469 , this is not a Christian wedding .
Geeta from Mauritius best wishes for the couple
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Amazing dream wedding
Thanks for your kind words!
Ladka-ladki, dono Ko chahiye tha ki seedhe church me jakar anguthi badalkar shadi kar lete. Hindu reetee-rivaj se shadi karne ke nam par kam se dharm ka to majak nahi banate. Kahin se, kisi bhi tarah se ye shadi nahi lag Raha tha.
Sach Bola...
There are no rules and requirements for getting married in any religion. Can you find me such a book with a page number that says something like your claim? Everything is a kind of tradition that someone started. We are started our own!
Very good video
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God bless you
Love each other
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Beautiful video love from india🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳💟
Glad you liked the video! Thanks for your comment.
Beautiful wedding God bless the couple
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Happy marriage life
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Congratulations both of you
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Nice video
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Nice wedding 👌👌👌
Thanks! Glad you enjoyed it.
Beautiful
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Indian marriage are you kidding?
No kidding! We did not say "Indian", but "Indian American". You need to pay attention to details and read the description carefully. Also, please don't be stuck in the past.
I am getting married in April and also looking to have a non traditional ceremony as I'm marrying an American. What type of candle did you use in the center during the saat phere? I like how it's larger than a normal candle flame.
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@@JeevanChitravlog There are no saat phere. It is four phere and seven steps (saptapadi). These are not religious rituals! It seems like you have issues with how others decide on their marriage ceremonies. Before you question others, you should learn to question your own understanding.