He Does This After Girlfriend Tries to Leave Him
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- Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024
- On February 21st, 2024, officers were dispatched to a neighborhood in response to a reported domestic dispute. Witnesses reported seeing a young male assaulting a young female, aggressively breaking her vehicle's windows and slashing her tires. This is footage of the events that followed.
There’s an epidemic of “tough guys” who immediately start whining for their mommies the second cuffs come out. Wild
never had a dad that popped them in the mouth when they acted all tough.
Nothing about that guy looks tough, he'll be passed around for a carton of smokes.
TELL IT!!!! Speak ittttt and say it loud for those in the back 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
dude, I came here to say that. What is going on?!
I’ve been bouncing since I was 18 and I can confirm about 9/10 of them will scream their heads off to intimidate you but the moment you put your hands on them they start crying and end up calling the cops. Sometimes if you’re lucky you get to see the dumb look on their face when the officers they called on you handcuff them instead.😂
He’s not suicidal. It’s a threat he uses to people that love him to get his way.
Right on!!
I had a brother-in-law that would pull that crap on my sister. Unfortunately she believed him for a long time. I'm so glad she got away from him but it took years. I knew that he wouldn't, he loved himself too much.
An ex of mine used to use that tactic to manipulate me into staying with him. I was very young, so I fell for it for years. Sucks when we have to learn about abuse firsthand in order to know what red flags even look like.
It's manipulative.
My mother used to do that to us kids. She'd threaten to self-cancel and then lock herself in her bedroom. Our little sis would go absolutely mental. I was old enough to see the bogus manipulation for what it was (plus, after all the beatings, I kinda didn't care), but little sis was too young. She still has problems because of it.
Ladies. If your abuser threatens to kill himself if you leave….Fkn leave.
Damn right!
It's no loss!
ive had 2 ex's pull that shit with me. with the first one i stuck it out WAY longer than i should have. with the second one, i was a little older and dealt with that shit long enough with the first guy and finally i told the second one that if he was gonna do it, he would have done it without telling me and to go the fuck back on to his momma's house. both of those assholes are still walking this earth, both still full of shit from what ive heard lol. some of these adults need to grow the hell up, be by their selves, get some help and not drag people into their crazy bs.
I had an ex do that to me. I said, "It doesn't matter if I leave, if you kill yourself, or if you kill me...the outcome will be the same: I'll be free of you."
It is called manipulation and it is a form of psychological abuse. No one is responsible for keeping another person alive.
The ones who say they’ll k themselves usually never do.
Sweet girl, if you do not get away from this monster, he will kill you. You will not survive him. You have a whole lifetime of life and love ahead of you. Run and never look back.
PREACH
The monster screamed for his mother when he was chased by the officer.😂
Honey, he's going to kill you if you stay with him. Please stay away from him. You deserve so much better.
Dr needs to rethink that inhaler. Too much rage.
Thank you.
I pray she stays away from that P O S 😢
She’s a classic victim, always comes back for more
@@Will-fu3ppbecause she's just as bad..
You understand the girl isn’t the one who posted the video.
If your boyfriend, girlfriend or whatever raises their hand to you in anger, at ANY time, they aren’t your soulmate. Move on ASAP.
Some people love the drama and the violence and love being a victim. Thats why they stay and keep going back. It makes them feel wanted or whatever fcked up reasoning in their head.
@@honchojefe5611some people maybe but not everyone and unless you've ever been in a violent relationship, you have no clue how the abusers mentally and verbally abuse someone to the point of the victim thinking there is no way out.
It's easy to say that, leave asap but it's not even that simple. Having been there myself, I can tell you leaving seems easy but it isn't. The verbal , mental and physical abuse is so extreme that you think you deserve someone like that. I had a boyfriend who would threaten suicide when i left so i would feel bad and go back because I couldn't live with myself if he actually did take his own life. I felt like it would be my fault as twisted as that sounds. He finally did go through with it and it was devastating because I was alone when it happened and had to cut him down, try cpr and then in the process call 911. I don't wish that on anyone. I know now that he was sick in the head and that it was never my fault.
@@allyforester46n2 it is that easy. To a normal person. Underlying mental issues are why you would stay. My sister has made bad choice after bad choice thru her life. She’s in her 60’s and paying for it the hard way. Divorced 4 times and poor.
@@philipwilliams7947 stop victim blaming and maybe hold the abusers accountable so none of this garbage would even happen in the first place.
I love that the cop called him an idiot
I love what the cop says from @11:31 lmao
It was the first thing I said when he took off running 😂
the irony is that they are probably both Tromp supporters
Perp “Where am I?” Cop: “planet earth” 😆
Oh man ME TOO! 😂 I also love how in the last few vids ive watched on here, when the perp or suspect or gigantic pile of SHIT--w.e. u wanna call them, says some total BULLSHIT, like when they 1st handcuffed him and hes all "where am i, what happened, i blacked out?" the editing, like, zooms in and focuses on the cops facial expressions bc theyre so funny. Like, when this loser said that, the one cop was like "no you didnt" and said the planet earth bit, while the other cop makes this super exaggerated scrunched up face, as if hes saying "the fuck??? Nah, you lying your ass off kid." 😂😂😂
I wish i knew how to say it in a shorter, more simpler way, but oh well lol. Thats the only good bit abt this one. Usually theres a bit of humor in these videos bc the people in trouble are so stupid or so delusional or such terrible actors, and this pricks no different, but its just not funny bc he beat the shit outta that poor girl so many times. I fucking hate people like this. Like, yeah, you had it rough growing up, and thats horrible, but u still know right from wrong--sometimes, even more so than the average person youve been thru so much. But this little twerp literally beat her car up til it was likely totalled, and then did the same thing to her so viciously, and then as soon as the cops come he cries about needing his mommy and his inhaler and all of this BULLSHIT. Like, he didnt need an inhaler while he was wailing (whaling? Idk lol sry) on her and her property and stabbing thick ass rubber tires and shit. Then he proceeds to blame the whole thing on her, while he looks like he doesnt have a SCRATCH ON HIM except for what he did to himself while beating up the car and running from the cops. I especially love when he LIES and says she bit him, and "the bite was so hard it hurt so bad--worse than everything else." But then when the cop says "ok where at?" He says "idk, ull have to ask her." WHAT?! U stupid idiot! Its YOUR body, and if it was REAL and hurt like u claimed, then youd fucking KNOW where it was at! Its a WOUND not a fucking doodle from a marker! I know a lot of couples fight each other, like regularly, like once the first hit happens they both just go crazy on each other, but i dont believe a word he said abt her fighting him back, and that exchange just sealed it for me. And then after he goes all out on her and breaks her apart physically, then he goes for her emotionally. Every time she tries to leave he starts crying "im gonna kill myself! U cant leave me, ill kill myself and it'll basically be u murdering me!" And lays on the guilt bc he KNOWS she cares and it just paralyzes her.
God im so sorry, i got off on a rant there but as a victim of this exact situation at that young age too, i feel very strongly about little, abusive, bully ass pricks like him. He should be locked up FOREVER. Bc this aint something that hes gonna work on to fix or grow out of. Its just gonna get worse. And one of these days hell bring a child into the world and that child and its mother will be forever bound to him and hell kill them emotionally and possibly all the way, too. Its sickening.
The man that saved her deserves so much credit. Thank you to that guy for stepping in.
This woman needs some major self healing to understand that being your bf's punching bag is NOT OK in the least.
She needs a gun and a conceal carry permit
She doesn’t believe she can do better.
@@christinaoh7022 Sad, because you can tell, even with the swelling and black eye, she is a nice looking girl. Thankfully, she has not gotten pregnant. She has a good chance to straighten out her life and leave him in the dust. She just has to want it.
She has to find her support, strength, & self worth, but it's very hard when you've had it verbally, emotionally, & physically knocked out of you. Then, hopefully she doesn't jump right into another DV relationship. I'm still trying to recoup from all of mine. I REALLY hope she can find her way to healing, peace, & self love ❤️
She knows what being with him in tales. Maybe shell wisen up and stay away from him.
The neighbor that pulled him off her gives me faith in humanity. I’ve seen so many instances where NOBODY steps in and helps someone who clearly needs help.
Absolutely.. brovo to the fella in the blue shirt... I would be proud to have him living near me or just someone passing by...we need more real men and fewer 3 year olds in grown bodies calling for momma...same goes for the immature females... there's been several generations of children ruined by bleeding-heart enablers who either abused or neglected the children they have..many giving free range to doctors misdiagnosing and over prescribing meds which set the children up for failure by giving them an excuse for their continuing behavior and dependency on drugs... there's a mountain of blame to spread around but ultimately it's up to each individual to accept adulthood and admit their choices are what shapes their lives..not the choices of others...
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A lot of people these days want to avoid a lawsuit. It's the same reason people don't stop assaulters in New York, if you injure the person they will sue you into the poverty & progressive lawyers & DA's enable it.
As a brother of five sister's glad I wasn't anywhere near there because that young kid would have found out what 6'3 230 would have done and I would have been in cuff's with bloody fist 100% worth tho.
I hear you but Domestic Violence is the MOST dangerous situation for cops, so it is twice as dangerous for a civilian to try and interfere. My cousin was shot (survived) by a dude at a party when he tried to stop the dude from hitting his girlfriend. People get killed trying to help...that is the world we live in.
@@PauloHernandezXDFortunately a lot of states have Good Samaritan laws that protect people who chose to help.
His Mom stayed with an abuser and her child became one.
Leaving doesn't just save you.
Very good point
I wouldn't be surprised if the victim's mom is an abuse victim as well. She seemed... unwell.
This is why mother's should not coddle their son's.
I wouldn't be telling my son I love him after he beet another woman
The cycle of abuse… sad this happens far too often. Goes hand in hand with SA
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Hearing the suspect try to demonize the victim makes me ill.
I had to skip his load of BS. Styrofoam plates?! Typical DARVO maneuver. Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. It is especially vile when done to you by a loved one. I was a victim of this and had to go No Contact to survive and protect myself and my family. My advice to anyone experiencing gaslighting like this (even if it is not physical), is RUN. Get out of there ASAP and do not look back. If you stay they may not physically hurt you but they will slowly kill you through the emotional and psychological torture.
I sincerely hope that poor girl got some support to start to heal, be it therapy or something else. And I hope that boy got consequences severe enough to scare him into never behaving like this again. As a mother of sons this behavior sickens me and his parents should be ashamed of the person they raised (of course, he is culpable for his actions as an adult).
Edited for a couple typos 😊 stay safe, everyone!
Coward
If you're 21 with no teeth, it's time to lay off the drugs.
Wow. I have to take medication who break my teeth.
I have lung disease and he seems to have lung problems as well. That could be very well steroids or other meds
Calm down girl the kid admitted to doing drugs in the video@mirjamweibel9678
@@joketsu100 and? Maybe he uses 1 in time a Months we don’t know. Because of that don’t break teeth. Or I had unfortunately also an addiction problem and that happened after my teeth broke because of meds and after I was in coma and 30 years on steroids. I lost my self worth and had houreoundous pain. Began to take pain meds from doctor and and got addicted and swichted then to dru** a lot are first addicted to morphine, pain meds or even fentanyl from the doctor becasue of pain and then get addicted to it and then switch to h. Fentanyl. It can be also the other way around that he lost first teeth and got then addicted
@@joketsu100 my comment got deleted
I love the cop telling this POS that’s it’s weird he’s yelling for his Mom cuz he’s 21….
I was dying about that lol
I particularly enjoyed him saying he's pissing himself 😂
I had a friend whose 20 yo son lives with her and was home schooled by her, has never had a friend in meat space/real life..EVER, hasn't gotten his HS diploma, has never worked a day in his life and has never had to do a chore or cook his own food or wash his own clothes. Essentially, she has done a great disservice to him by infantilizing him. And I can totally see him calling for mommy if he got in trouble.
It’s not weird at all… she was doing the same thing. He’s 21 not 31
I dont know for america but in europe its totally usual for 21yo to live with parents and guys usually get married between age of 25-30 that is when they change house. I dont see it as weird for him to call his mother
Ma’am he is actively trying to kill you. Not himself.
Glory amen!!! YOU said it PERFECTLY!!!
Exactly!
@@BellaBlayne Yep Saying things like that is only one form of many tactics, abusers will use to manipulate and control their vics.
Handsome fella in the blue shirt needs to be recognized - good job for stepping in bro. The world needs more dudes like you. Peace
I bet you the officer was so relieved he didn’t have to jump another fence.
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Yup with 50 lbs of extra stuff they have to carry I don't blame him.
50 lbs of stuff plush 150 lbs overweight. Not healthy!!
I found myself trying to help him like when you feed a baby 😂
I could not do it so no judgement from me!
That girl is going to end up dead if she doesn’t get away from him.
Hopefully she realizes she needs to grow a spine and leave him
It isn't just this time. She needs to make sure she doesn't go for this type of dude ever AGAIN! Hopefully she don't got a pattern cause if she ends up with another dude like this one then the problem won't just be them.
She'll be begging his forgiveness soon.
She’s going to be another Gabby Patito .
I hope she will be able to clean up and leave him behind
He's lying through his tooth
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He's not suicidal. He's manipulative. Stay away from him and warn everyone that you know.
He look too good, so he think, he is a gift for women and can have, what he want without consequences! 😢
Man, thats one hell of a neighbor to have. Good on him.
Assaults his girlfriend, runs from the cops, 21, and wants his mommy. Sad as F for a tough guy.
Usual suspects 😅
Ricky, you're just mad because you have to pay for 4 $100 dates before a woman will even shake your hand and women will just hop in bed with this dude on sight lol. Keep coping as you hug your anime pillow.
@@Aouf1 looks like the usual European American … you have a vision impairment ?
And he blames her for being violent.
Don't forget he peed his pants too
“She started threatening she was going to leave me.”
That is NOT a threat. You don’t get to be violent because someone says they don’t want to be in a relationship with you.
People are weak when it comes to relationships. Stop being sad about someone breaking up with you. Be grateful you aren't tied down anymore.
Oh BOO HOO!
@@djsteviemac01 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That’s how it was raised
@@justin5318Spoken like someone who has never been in a meaningful relationship, sounds more like an observation from a lonely incel whose never been in one than actual first hand experience. It's normal to be sad when someone breaks up with you, if you aren't then clearly you didn't care about them to begin with..
He said it...."I watched my step father beat my mother". He made the choice to continue that sad and sick cycle of violence.
Shoutout to the female officer for being so kind.
And also that man who pulled him off of her!
Yeah, I wanted to make sure this comment was down here. This officer deserves massive kudos, her questioning was really gentle, calm, and handled well.
Seriously!!! She was amazing.
I don't like cops but same she was kind during this hard situation.
That is exactly why female officers are needed.
That neighbor was a bad ass and he should be proud of himself for not just standing by and watching
Yeah I wanna know more about him. It's not often a 3rd party physically steps in against an aggressive capable physical male. I wonder if he has any mma training or possible military experience.
Badass would’ve made the kid look worse then the girl
My dad told me a similar story of him seeing a man hit a woman and he said he didn’t act on that time but he told the guy, “I’m the 4th hitter on the team and next time I see you lay a hand on her both your knees’ll be out of the park”😂😂 It was someone my dad was close too and the dude never hit her again
@@DJ42487Probably was, dude was built like a brick
@@DJ42487why would he have mma trading
He’s 21 and already missing half his teeth, addicted to drugs, has multiple felonies and misdemeanors and multiple sc attempts? Jesus.
The mother clearly states that they adopted him when he was older and already had an extensive criminal history long before he got to them.
He likely had a very hard childhood.
Crazy to be saying anything about the adoptive mother, who was probably the only person who ever actually gave a damn about the kid.
His behavior clearly isn’t her fault.
@@Free420Lovethat was the mother of the girl, no?
@@namenl2205 lol NO. That was his adoptive mother. It’s VERY clear if you actually listen to the conversation she is having. She talks about how they took him in later in life, long after he’d already racked up quite a criminal record, talks about how he has tried kill himself numerous times, that he JUST got out of a facility for making an attempt like days before this incident, and talks about how she repeatedly told the girl to stay away from him, because he is too unstable and shouldn’t be in a relationship, but she wouldn’t listen.
That mom has done everything she can for that kid; his behavior and what he does to others isn’t her fault, and he’s an adult now, she can try to intervene, but she can’t stop him from doing what he’s intent on doing.
It honestly sounds like he has serious trauma from his early life, and probably needs to be in a full-time care facility until he can decide to take his medications and start attending therapy, etc. on his own. He IS an active danger to himself and others, unfortunately.
These cases are so heartbreaking for the people that take in older kids. There’s just not a lot you can do for them at that point, no matter how much love you give & how hard you try, especially with such serious behavioral issues.
These comments are being ridiculously judgmental and harsh on a woman that did something I promise you NONE of these people with all their judgement ever would have done for a kid in need of help like this.
@@Free420Loveand this is why perspective is everything! Thank you for this!
What’s sc attempts?
“they’re both just as bad” absolutely not. look at him and then look at her. period.
She likes the attention. She’ll be back with him, it always happens that way. She needs a monster in her life so she can be the damsel in distress.
@@arynrowland862 or when you’re used to abuse that’s all you think you deserve. so.
FULL BLOWN INCEL ALERT!
@@arynrowland862you’re sick in the head.
@@arynrowland862wtf is wrong with you
Kudos to the neighbor who pulled him off of her!
EDIT: I don’t know if her home life is messed up or something else is going on, but sadly, I don’t think she understands that he won’t stop his abuse - he has no impulse control - and she doesn’t appear to see the GIANT red flags. He’s going to end up removing her from the census.
Yep, when you see it so many times it can be hard to feel any sympathy.
Unfortunately it could be any number of things it's usually lack of attention well if this is what it takes to get attention I'm in it to win it
The problem is, is I think she may come from an abusive household. The boy's mother was more upset than the girl's mother about the whole situation and he'd not even her biological child but adopted.
I’ve been there, she thinks if she loves him enough….she can save him. The suicidal crap is a manipulation tactic. God help her, he WILL change, he will get worse.
Don't blame the victim. She did try to leave him. But,, if you're in an abusive situation, it's hard to see your way out, especially if physical violence is involved. Most abusers also gaslight their victims. They are adept at picking out their victims. And, he learned all of this from his father. He's just continuing the cycle.
A 21 little boy who pees his pants and does drugs and hits his girl, NOT much of a winner , she needs to stay away , DONT go back to him, next time he could kill her , someone that wants to commit suicide doesn't tell anyone that just do it , he's just telling her that to keep her around for a punching bag , he's tried it 9 times and still telling her that , hope she stays away from this abuser
I just hope she learns to value herself and see a future that is more fulfilling. 🙏❤️
Calls for mommy....
@@jennayoung99 let's not forget mommy
Don't forget lying and calling for his mommy...
She won't! Sad 😔 😟 🙁 😥
His mom is insane. Her hugging him, crying like that when they took him away in the ambulance. Talking about "so many ppl love you!" Like ma'am your son is abusive. Stop coddling that freak. And this girl needs to stop with the "on and off" relationship because one of these days he's going to end up killing her. No one should ever leave your face looking like that
Moms love their kids even when they know they’re wrong. Maybe this is her way of showing love and support in an effort to see he needs to change.
@@nycatlady2314dont be delusional.. look at every serial killers mom's. They are utterly obsessed with defending their crazy sons, this is the results of emotional incest
4:15 His mom said she told her to leave him many times because he isn't changing. She isn't coddling or enabling any of this at all.
Why do I smell a peanut allergy too? He has asthma but jumped fences like a ninja! Disgusted.
@@Redbeardian to me it sounds again more like her defending her son. Like “well I told her to leave him multiple times!” Like your son literally left this girls face inflated. The girls mother wasn’t even crying looking at her daughter like this so that was odd to me too but I guess they’ve been down this road so many times before that they’re just tired of all this shit. But I’m sorry the fact that he’s crying for his mommy the minute he’s getting arrested tells me she’s let him get away with bad shit all his life 🤷🏽♀️
This guy will kill her if he gets out of jail and if she gets back with him. Time to stay as far away as possible from this abuser. It is the most dangerous time for the victim when they want to break up. This is the most crucial time to be vigilant, protective of yourself, and get away. Be aware of the cycle of abuse and know what your plan is before you try to leave. Having a safety plan and a secure plan when leaving an abusive relationship is a non-negotiable. This is the time when abusers become the most enraged. They believe they own the victim and can become more violent to the point of killing.
that's her fault . she continues to be with him. some people love the abu$#
He is utterly disgusting. Painting her as the aggressor and himself a "string bean", while the only marks he has is from running from police
so is she! she’s a liar and admitted to biting and hitting too 🤷🏻♀️ what’s good for the goose is good for the gander
@@mfi-cf7spself defense is a thing. If he's beating the crud out of her, she's quite right to hit back.
@@mfi-cf7sp Tell us you don't know anything about Reactive Abuse without telling us....
@@mfi-cf7sp you would too if somebody was beating on you....
@@mfi-cf7spyou have a constitutional right to defend your life, wellbeing, and property. This is exactly why cops always find out who the aggressor in any DV incident is.
Important difference between “My life is ruined” and “I ruined my life”.
most of them blame the cops for ruining their lives 🙄
It’s never their own fault they do the shit they do.
There's also a victim card played when they say "I ruined your life" too. I was r@ped and before they cuffed him in court and asked if he had anything to say, he told me he's sorry that he probably ruined my life. But also played the victim card before sentence saying HIS life was ruined. It's all gross.
Not really
He's not suicidal. He just uses that as an excuse to control her and use her as a punching bag. She needs to develop some self esteem and get the hell away from this jerk. If not, things will just get worse.
Facts
But he's hot
They'll never totally separate from each other. They subconsciously get what they feel they need from each other.
It's true. I had a young man staying with me that turned to drugs and played the suicide card as well if he didn't get money from me. Eventually got a protection order and life is so much better.
@surpriseimblack get your eyes checked
That guy's brain is already fried at 21.
May he get what he deserves in prison.
Sadly, he probably won’t…
Prison? Wake up dude... If he continues this kind of bulls*** he'll end up there. I think he deserves prison for laying his hands on his girlfriend, but sadly he's just getting jail time for this. "Mommy, mommy" Lol simp little f*****
Damn right
Oh he will… trust me… as this was recorded in February, he may have already gotten what he gave her a few different times now. Once the other inmates find out what he did… they’re gonna make him curse the day he was born.
IF HE EVER Goes too Prison. He Keeps getting Let OFF His Well Deserved Charges⁉️
What’s Wrong With Our JUSTICE SYSTEM‼️
He should have been charged with aggravated assault, kidnapping and false imprisonment.
I bet his Mommy won't let that happen to her precious Lil Muffin Man... Nope. She isn't going to do Shit about it. She's probably going to tell them that he is trying to be a good boy. He's had a really rough life and h tries Soo hard to do everything right, he's doesn't need to go to Jail for doing nothing at all. He wasn't doing anything wrong. He's a good boy...
Yeah.... Right...
@@walterritter3409if u watched the video, you would see that his mom condemned his actions, and told the gf repeatedly to leave him. Clearly mommy wanted nothing to do with him. Pay attention next time.
@@russellkasprzyk4934 What are you referring to when you asked me if I had indeed watched it? That's weird. I wouldn't have been able to make the comment on it that I had. Besides, aren't you an entire week late for the ride? I made the comment on the video specifically for the entire narrative of it. Now, how many times in the past have you yourself watched, viewed, or have actually witnessed something like this or very similar in nature happening right before your own eyes? What's the usual norm for something like this? Mommy dearest comes to the rescue. Sure, Mommy dearest will of course say anything and just about everything she can do do nothing more than damage control. And seriously, that's it. Her sweet little Muffin Man is definitely going to be placing a phone call directly to her, informing her of the amount of her Sweet little Muffin Man's bail amount, she's going to post that bail bond, and in doing so she can sleep much longer knowing that she doesn't have to do anything about it until the neighborhood starts complaining non-stop about her dear Sweet little Muffin Man's behavior towards others in the generalized area. You personally see this happening throughout this entire Country, it's becoming a "Catch and release" judicial system in this Country. That has got to stop. Here's a much better reason as to her reluctance for actually doing something about her Son's obviously misguided adventures. The very next time they throw him in Jail? Refuse to do anything that might help your Sweet little Muffin Man. Don't answer the phone when he attempts to contact you on his bail bond amount, don't accept the charges on your phone when he tries to contact you from (Hopefully) the State Department of Corrections, cease all contact with him. Then, maybe, just maybe he will come to his senses, and Granny there can be drama free...
Yes. I most certainly had viewed the video. Where you perhaps viewing a completely different video, or is there someone you might know that behaves in the very same way?
@@walterritter3409I ain’t reading all that but the mother clearly states in the video that he has all sorts of felonies and is a danger idk why you so pressed when you’re the one who’s wrong
Ohhh his pretty boy little ass is going to do just fine in prison....
" I keep telling her to leave, she doesn't listen"...Spoken like a mom who NEVER held her son accountable for anything in his entire life. Class act victim blaming
That was my exs Mom. Enabled and excused everything he did smh
Yep. And at the end of the video, she's bawling on him and telling him how much he's loved. What on earth is there to love about him?
@@tracyvegantv7515 Hi. It’s a very sad psychological cycle of abuse. I hope she gets help.
@@Tangerineskies22 Hi. Sadly it was my ex’s mom, too, back when I was around 19-20. She hated me for no reason while her son hit on me, took my money, wrecked my car, etc. I was so sick over it, but thinking it was love at the same time, that I was literally stopping at red lights to throw up outside of my car. I finally went and got help. And one day it clicked and I was DONE and over it.
Unbelievable. Way to go mom. You know you’re a big part of the problem, right?
The cop struggling to climb the fence 😂
Hahahahaha. I was looking for this.. Dude couldn't hop a waist level fence... Twice.. Had to put his dick on the bar! 😂😂😂😂
I didn’t see him struggling!! Can YOU jump over a fence??? Doubt it.
@@teraoldham1398that shit easy asf especially when you get a running start bruh them fences weren’t tall at all
@theoficialarmvni you gotta remember that they are geared up and that is extra weight and awkward. If he was just in street clothes it would definitely be easy. Just saying!! He definitely had a time doing and it did look funny AF.😂
Daughter is beaten to a pulp and her mother shows up and lights up a cigarette and is scrolling her phone, then chatting up the mom of the punk who beat the crap out of her daughter. What the actual f. 🤬🤬🤬
I seen that too. Walked away from her daughter telling the story of last nights abuse (that she didn’t know about) to go talk to dirtbags mom.
Where do you think the gf learned to take abuse from?
I bet she also stopped warning her not to touch the hot stove after the 50th time too 😅
She’s a grown adult if she wanna keep going back to the man that abused her let her
@@4.6vickywtf is wrong with you? You seem to love to see people fail. I hate victim blamers like you
Mom hugging him like he is 5yrs old and fell.
Mom = Enabler
He's adopted
@@RealOne-gg8hnWhat’s that gotta do with the fact his Mom is an enabler? It’s still his mom so…
that is why he is the way he is.
A mothers love is unconditional and unwavering even if that child is in the wrong
@@jayghoul7301 real 'love' by her would be holding him accountable for his actions, not coddling him like a child.
21 yrs old crying for mommie.
All women beaters do. Not a man bone in his body.
He has biceps of a girl
His mommy keeps showing up, that's why he keeps whining for her. Smh
And he said he peed n himself too.
it's pathetic
That neighbor deserves an award! I hope the victim finds healing and self-worth 🙏🏼
Just like an abuser to blame the victim. What a pathetic excuse for a human. Saying she antagonized him. Omg.
they are both disgusting
Cop: “I thought you were just screaming for your Mom”
Douche: “Yeah I was screaming for my Mom”
Cop: “That’s kinda weird to do”
Douche: “What do you mean?”
Cop: “You’re 21”
I loved that because you can tell they wanted to make fun of this kid so badly but they have to keep it professional 😂😂
he's mentally a toddler. I am pretty sure he wasn't told "NO" ever. Too many mothers don't understand how to actually love. They just give in to their weakness and call it love... some kids are just rotten, they need too much work. he's mentally not even close to 21. look at how he talks to the cop, that's how little kids talk
@@Garbologist They don't keep it so professional with minorities
at 11:31 haha
😂😂😂😂
That girl needs a hug before millions of questions
I agree..
LORD have mercy her face 😔🙏
She needs a lot of therapy. For her to date a guy like that. She's got problems and even more so now with ptsd from that shit
She needs therapy and a father figure to help her get a grip on reality. The guys own mother told her to leave him on multiple occasions as she refuses to listen. She’s got her own issues.
It just takes one hit to know that your life is now on a continuum of escalating violence. Get away now. File charges and find a shelter.
I was in an abusive relationship years ago. I called a friend as I was under a table. 911 was called and they got there just as he engaged a shell in shotgun! I still here the sound of the that sound. The friend that saved my life is now my husband of 24 years!❤
You were banging the “freind” the whole time no wonder your ex was so angry
Still goin strong?
chambered
@@TheBlackBowser_Stronger than ever!😊
Amazing! So proud of you for getting out of that abusive relationship. ❤ Many blessings to you and your husband. 🙏 Stay safe
Girl, leave that town forget all of those people and start a new life
His mom did absolutely nothing for that girl but blame her. He's tried 9 times? NO HE HASN'T.,he's doing it for attention. Everything was about him. Narcissists don't do themselves in. Moms a big part of the problem.
I am pretty sure the medications he is on is contributing factor. We are way overmedicating in this country. Mental Health is this generations bell bottoms. Funny thing when they made "Mental Health" a big part of the education system and the government started paying people to be mentally ill we have had a huge increase in supposed mental illness.
This immediately reminded me of a line from one of my favorite songs, Kill4Me by Marilyn Manson: Sideways for attention, longways for results
It took me a while to realize what he meant, but yeah, 9 failed "attempts" seems far more likely to be attention seeking behavior rather than real attempts at offing yourself.
Thought it was her mum!
How is mom the problem? She told the girl to leave him. The girl refuses.
@@1voiceCriesOut Great job victim blaming the girl. Yes the mom is the problem., Shes enabling this clown to continually act with 0 consequences. Hes only in the neighborhood because the mom allows it. When hes being arrested and haulked off shes affirming his shitty behavior by HUGGING HIM and telling him everyone loves him. When a dog bites do you pet it and say good boy? Shes trying to pin what happened on the victim by saying she told her to leave ..... advice that she herself hasnt taken.
Get rid of that dude. He will drag you and your self confidence down the drain.
Any man that says he'll kill himself. If you leave is not a man and at your first opportunity, you need to leave. What he does when you're gone Is not your fault? Nor your responsibility.
Punks like him will never hurt themselves.
Yes, he's just trying to manipulate her. Talk about insecure!!!
Anybody who says that! Men, women.... Even if you have a friend that's saying it to you it's abusive and so nasty, manipulative. Ugh
That’s exactly what my dad said when my mom tried to leave. We kids were forced to stand in the hallway and say “No dad, we don’t want you to kill yourself. We’ll stay.”
Fuckin’ sucked.
My ex was like this. Terrifying abuser
This guy beat the hell out this girl in front of his mother's house and mom acts like its all the girl's fault??? So disgusting. Thank goodness that neighbor was there.
@AnRey18 The mother isn't acting like it's the girlfriends fault. She knows it's his stupid son. She's been trying to get the girlfriend to leave but she obviously won't! This is on the girlfriend. 3 years of this? Ridiculous and pathetic.
The Meth in her system is a still strong
@@FrankieCo-lm3pw the cycle of domestic violence isn't easy to leave. Telling the girl to leave doesn't help her. Meet me in a domestic violence relationship is one of the most dangerous time. He had the audacity to beat the hell out of girl in front of his mother's house. I don't think she does think her son is stupid. I don't think I heard her once in that video verbally reprimand him for what he did.
she never blamed her? she’s actually more on her side than her own mom seems to be
You know it wasn’t the first time he beat her at his mom’s house.
He’s trying to sound so innocent… it’s gross
Fr "My life is over.." oh boohoo.
It makes me sick listening to these demented people try to wingle and worm there way out of what they did. You did it now deal with the mess you punk
HE CALLED HER VIOLENT lol he's a monster
Really pissed me off. Making himself out to be the victim and since he couldn’t get out of his charges, he was gonna try and take her down with him. I’ve never gotten so mad that I was about to get physically sick from one of these videos before, but this one sure did it.
The cop face when he said “he blacked out” 😂😂
She bit him on the left shoulder while he was driving? Sure dude. That's why she has a swolen face and you don't have any marks.
She must be a spider monkey to climb over him and bite his left shoulder while he was driving. Hes a total nutcase.
Exactly! Where did she bite you. Looks around I'm not sure ask her she'd know. Nah Dude, she never bit you or you'd be sure to show the cops.
Honestly, I hope she sees the video of her boyfriend’s statement. The way he blatantly lies and throws her under the bus is truly disgusting. It actually makes me sick. It just might be enough for her to finally dump him for good.
If you watched and listened to the video, the gf admitted that she did bite him around the shoulder area, on her own when the officer asked her if she struck or smacked her bf at all.
I have been married for almost 30years and I can truly say that my husband has never raised his voice or his hand to me. Now I am not saying that we have been sprinkles and rainbows. We have went through some DARK times but it was handled as adults not with violence. Hitting and abuse of any kind is NOT OK...
Same here! I've been with my husband almost 20 years and he's an amazing man, especially to put up with my BS. Lol Its sad these girls but up with little boys who put hands on them.
Me too. 31 yrs. I think we have raised our voices a time or two though, let’s get real! However - we made an agreement to do the following:
Do not threaten divorce at the slightest issue. It ruins trust and security.
No name calling.
And three - stay on topic when there is an issue.
@@Purpaderps
Why are you demeaning yourself?
Your BS?
And he's amazing because he doesn't hit you?????????
Why do women do this to themselves???
You're allowed to do anything you want as long as you're not lying, cheating or hurting others.
I find your comment very disturbing.
#supersimp
@@abelis644 I never said he's amazing because he doesn't hit me 🤣 I just said he's amazing. And yes my BS, everyone has some. Nice trying to make this something it's not. Lol
On & off for 3 years???? Girl, at this point if he wanna off himself, LET HIM. Better him than u.
Well spoken.
They both are substance abusers toxic he's a physical abuser and she takes it 3 years off and on and at first speaking of maybe having a concussion how she blacked out once then tryna refuse going to the ER to be checked unfortunately this isn't over she's gonna go back
nah fr, and even if he does. That’s not your fault at all
This cop needs to attend Sgt. Angle's fence jumping course.
You probably don’t understand how hot it is here when you’re running with 40lbs of gear on, while talking on a radio and trying to point a taser. You just sit in your chair in the air conditioning and make comments.
@@Scratchingforcash You probably don't get the joke. It's actually a nested joke within a joke, and you likely don't get either.
This thing is irredeemable. Says she attacked him first, bit him but he has no visible injuries.
As for his enabling mother ...😡
He’s a psychopath. A really really messed up one.WTH
Typical abuser who ALWAYS blames their abusive action on the victims that caused or forced them to do what they do.
So where is he getting money for drugs?. He doesn’t seem like the kind of guy who goes to work each day.
If this guy is out of jail the judicial system failed. He is 100 % a threat to society.
you would be surprised how light dv sentences are . it is sad
if you need more reason why the judicial system is a failure, just look at how many years child predators often get.
the one i fucking knew just got released... didn't even spend a year in custody.
I applaud the man that intervened!
Thank god for that bystander who intervened!
The mother is a big part of the problem. She has enabled him.
I don’t know the mom very clearly seems to have had talks with him and tried to get him to change, but I don’t blame her for being upset right now and still telling him that she loves them because that’s a weird relationship between a parent and a kid
@@oogatz1917 I don't now Mom either, but everything screams "her baby can do no wrong".
The mom stayed in an abusive situation!!! Big wonder her kid turned into an abuser
@@rodkoehler Did you watch a different video?
She ADOPTED him, sometimes no matter how you bring a child up their DNA takes over, it's known as nature over nurture, the mum said look at his biological life before we adopted him. He is a covert narcissist
“Where am I? I blacked out” “no you didn’t 🙄” LMAO
Lol!!!! 🤣😆 Ikr
He will be someone's girlfriend in prison and rightfully so
🤞
Yeah, those teeth missing are a valuable asset in prison
He will definitely be someone's punk in prison
I have a feeling he might enjoy jail.
@@dkstojentinhave you ever experienced it? As a woman, I had a partner that did oral with no teeth and it didn't last long because gums are sharp!
I'm a grown man over here weeping with tears, that ain't right man. Lord, I ask you bless her with everything that was taken from her x100. I pray for full recovery physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually and financially in JESUS mighty name, Amen.
That guy is gonna end up killing that girl. She needs to leave and not look back.
I said the exact same thing
She doesn't seem to want to listen to reason.
She is probably too terrified of leaving him, most victims of abuse are.
My sister was murdered by her boyfriend who committed terrible acts of domestic violence against her for years. I hope this young woman finds a way to keep herself safe and the resources to recover from such horrible abuse. That bystander likely saved her life.
I’m so sorry. It must have been so difficult for your family.
My girlfriend was murdered by her husband. He blew her head off with a rifle. He had been threatening her for the previous few weeks. We told her to get away, but he caught her by surprise.
I am so sorry for your loss
I'm so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you, your family, and friends. I can't imagine how difficult it is to see cases like this. I hope that monster is spending the rest of his life in a very small cell alone, even better if he's waiting for authorities to delete him from this world. Sending thoughts of strength, courage, healing, and peace.
So sorry for your loss.❤
He really is a COMPLETE WASTE of space
too bad he can't succeed in his narcissistic fake 'attempts'
Oh my, I feel her pain. It’s tough to leave an abuser. I know first hand. My high school “sweetheart” aka POS was exactly like this dandy. I finally left him after 3 years, he kidnapped me a month later, he had made a copy of my car keys that I wasn’t aware of. I got in my car at 5:30 am for work and there he was in my passenger seat with my pistol pointed at me telling me to get in. My car had limo tint so I wasn’t able to see him in the car until it was too late. He held me at gunpoint (right at my head) for 8-9 hours. Thank god I knew how to talk him down or I would be dead. He stalked me for the next ten years or so. People always asked me why I wouldn’t get a restraining order against him, well that’s simple, that would be signing my death certificate 🤷🏼♀️ I now live with PTSD. I don’t go out after dark, someone has to walk me to my car if it’s dark out. It’s changed me forever, I’ll never be who I was supposed to be because of an abusive idiot. I hope the girl leaves him and never looks back!!! Dealing with a dude like that she’ll have to watch her back for a long time!!! Sad!!!!
He was so grateful to her for dropping the charges that literally the same day that he went to court he beats the crap out of her.. yeah... I don't see this guy changing 🙄
Oh I had a boyfriend like this, emotionally abusive, violent, threatened to kill himself, to shoot my mom, a pathological liar. This dude is putting on such an act for the cops. He's dangerous, one step away from stabbing _her_ instead of a tyre.
My ex wife was like that.
He is a liar but not a convincing one. And you’re so right about how dangerous he is.
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
My ex was like this too. He tried to off himself so many times bc I wanted to leave. He tried to hang himself infront of our friends 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 his friends said vee please take him back please! Begging me and all that 🤦🏻♀️ oh I’m not friends with all them anymore either 😊
That little punk belongs in prison, they’ll take care of him if his mama doesn’t.
Can you say Butt F@&*ed Beyond Belief? By God, I can.
The chickens come home to roost=KARMA
his mom already would have if she was ever going to. you saw how much of an enabler she was. that's why he immediately called out for her.
3 years together, multiple assaults and she keeps dropping charges on him. man, this chick is slow af..
Unfortunately that's not usually works with abusers the abused will drop the charges because it's a cycle and he's picked his victim wisely.
She most likely has low self-esteem, and he uses this to his advantage.
He probably has her convinced that he is the best that she can get.
She has low self esteem
The man who came to her rescue is an angel. God bless him!!
Im a retired FF/Paramedic and can say the most dangerous and most volatile situations we come across are domestics, they are also the saddest and most infuriating.
I used to have very bad anemia when I was drinking heavily, so I would bruise really easily. I had to go to hospital once and the emts that came to transport me were so genuinely concerned that I was in a DA situation- their concern for my well-being really touched me. They wanted to make sure I was safe.
@@nnygem we really do love and care for those we are sent to help, I, as did my colleagues, took CA/SA/DV/DA VERY seriously and quite personal
@@psinclairjr I appreciate that greatly
This is horrible. This girl isn't dumb at all. This is how powerful abuse really is.
I mean the girl is lost, clueless, and blind to a lot in her life to the point it all led her to be with a toothless unstable guy on and off for 3 years. No one in their right mind would date let alone be in a loop with a guy like that for years. Hope it's a wake up call for her. And that guy idk seems hopeless.
it seems like she doesn't have a good relationship with her mother either so she might of thought her only option is to stay with this awful man. its very sad and i hope she hasn't gotten back with him
Thank you. There are commenters acting as if she can be rational and just leave him once she “realizes” how abusive he is.
That’s not how abusive relationships work. Any emotional connection is exploited and all insecurities are preyed upon until what is logical changes and the victim thinks nothing of themselves, and is so desperate for compassion that they crave their abusive partner’s tender moments. It’s literally beating a mindset into them.
Those are NOT Meth teeth. Those were in fact knocked out 100%.
Why do all the abusers immediately start saying that their girlfriend is the aggressor.
They're bitches
Because they are weak sociopaths.
It's an abuse tactic known as gaslighting
Its either that or admit what they did. I dont expect low lifes like this to be truthful.
DARVO - Deny, Attack, Reverse victim and offender. Classic tactic.
The nerve of this POS. Hearing him cry for his mom makes my blood boil. He took control of her car and then destroyed the thing?? I hope the justice system does right by her….but we know it won’t. Hopefully the inmates will take care of him.
To mom - this is NOT the girl’s fault! Your SON is the problem!
In Canada it’s not up to the victim to press charges. It’s up to the police, that way they don’t get away with this.
Its that way in my state in U.S.
That's how it is in every US state. When it comes to domestic violence, the state DA is in charge of who gets what charges. Not the victim.
It's the same way in the US.
That way the abuser can't blame the victim for pressing charges.
The victim has no say in charges being pressed, because the state automatically picks up the charges, even if the victim doesn't want them to.
When someone is called on a domestic in my state, the police are required to jail at least one of them. This stems from the cops leaving the scene once and the guy killed the girl.
In Canada the police are useless and will often not even visit the scene of a reported crime. They will generally only press charges when they have 100% solid evidence. Its no better in Canada, worse if anything
If this girl doesn’t leave she will not make it, this will escalate until she can no longer leave
Her head looks so swollen. Girl RUN.
That’s what I thought. She might have a concussion
Their both high and fighting over dope. His got mom's money , and she's got a car. Dopes gone , no more money. My guess is she is going to get more without him . 2s company and 3 is a crowd.
@@jakesarms8996 they're **
That female cop was using every ounce of self control to not send all the suspects teeth down his throat while he was blaming the victim.
He has no teeth 😂😂
@@drewwhy5541Lol, I was just gonna write the same thing.
Tooth**
Nah she stayed as calm as she did because she imagined him being passed around in jail.
Girl if you don't get rid of this guy after all this, then people will stop helping you and turn their backs. My mom was abused by my dad and kept taking him back while we were kids and after we left home she finally left him, after we had been traumatized as children. We blame her as much as much as him.
You think this is the first time he's done this to her? Girls dig guys like this. They leave the "boring, nice guys" on 'read' and go for these winners.
The Proud Boys need to step in
That's horrifying that you would blame your mother for being abused.
@@cigarettesandredlips You have to be joking
@@cigarettesandredlipsTroll??
This poor girl. Gosh I hope she heals and gets the help she needs. He said his “life is ruined”?! Let’s talk about hers… the years of therapy and trauma she has to work through.
He watched his step dad beat his mother and says he doesn’t want to be like him yet is doing the same thing he did. What a joke.
@user-hi5eh3xi7z well its his fault. he made the choice to beat the shit out of his girlfriend
@user-hi5eh3xi7zyou’re a dweeb
@user-hi5eh3xi7zDon't blame the dudes who beat women? Need mental help bud?
@user-hi5eh3xi7zwtf? What do you mean by that he beat her…
@user-hi5eh3xi7z so it’s ok abusing women? Your sick in the head
Girl grow up, go to school and get a job and never let a punk put hands on you.
But not the guy putting hands on her. This is why these part time basement dweller d@ds can still be crap🚩
Dude! You beat the Brakes off her! Shame on you! Take him to jail and lock him Up!
He needs a little more than locked up, he needs to feel what she felt! Just so you know, it's "brakes".
@@StevenG222 😊 Thank you.
Autocorrect has been unkind to me
@@aprilstandridge1413 no problem, I just didn't want you to think I was being a grammar troll!
he's lying to make him look good, I believe her over him any day...she has marks on her face and he doesn't have any on him, I hope she stays away from him and never turns back
Want's his mommy after beating his girlfriend ? Congrats "MOM"...
Omg her poor face 😢 baby girl if ur reading the comments it’s not worth it… that’s not love… someone who actually cares and love you wouldn’t harm the person they “claim” they love 😞
And you can't change him!
@@kimberlymcgee907 facts!
Is her face swollen from him hitting her???!! Omg, girl, please run and don't look back!!!
Yep. It's swollen from being beaten.
She’s totally guna drop the charges
If a person can speak in complete sentences without struggling to breathe, they are not having an asthma attack. That’s pure manipulation.
This is so true. People who are truly having a bad asthma attack can barely whisper.
Similar to the “I CAINT BREEEEEEEATHE!!!!!” x57 that is now a common tactic.
@@Constabruity If you’re referring to George Floyd, I’m not down for that.
@@ValC-vn5vllol ok
@@Constabruitywell obviously he didn’t mean literally. he meant he was having trouble breathing and then he later passed away. idk why u think this is comprable or appropriate to even say u weirdo..
That girl better leave and STAY gone. No “I love him” bull crap. She’s gonna end up dead, no doubt. She has to move FAR away and have NO communication at all. They ALWAYS promise to change and this guy beat her up the same day he promised to change. He is a dangerous woman beater and he will NEVER change.
That is such a disappointing mother. She blamed that poor girl for her being there, inside of her career criminal abusive son.
i dont really think she is blaming her, sounds like shes telling the cops the truth bluntly, that she tried to tell her not to be with her son because he is dangerous & she knows it. he is adopted, which also sometimes comes with a plethora of issues & some being violent, and the parents can only do so much (from someone with adopted family members)
Guy: “Where am I?”
Officer: “Looks like you are on planet earth”