Datepsych - Bringing Data to the Sex Wars
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- Опубликовано: 1 июн 2024
- We speak about “sexual market value” and the distribution of attractiveness across men and women, incels, divorce statistics, divorce likelihood, hybristophilia or the female attraction to violent men, the dual mating hypothesis, the reliability of self-reported data, and much more.
Alexander is a graduate student in Behavioral and Cognitive Neuroscience and he blogs at datepsychology.com and in outlets like Aporia magazine. 
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So the lesson is be hot and 20, even as a guy. Got it.
Hearing Alex explain the psychological pressure females feel to have sex early in a relationship in order to secure a commitment was eye opening. It's something I've seen but somehow haven't managed to make this connection. Most body counts girls have comes from this dynamic. From women making this grave error when seeking monogamy
Been told this by women too, that they don't want sex just cause but they feel they have to do it or else they lose the "relationship" even without any real pressure from the man
And then - for no reason at all - the divorce rates skyrocketed. But people agreed it was for the best and it was unsolvable, so they must not be wrong? No-fault divorce literally incentivizes people to avoid working with each other on tough issues. If you view marriage as something you can get out of instead of a partnership you have to work through (or be “miserable forever”) then that will obviously change outcomes
I will have to check this out; always nice to see the Chadistician get more reach.
Yo mr stardusk 🦍
@@JoakimfromAnka Greetings Lord Joakim.
Ayyy stardusk! Living legend
Much nicer than expected
And too depressing to listen to. Though that might just be the topic.
Nah he also make a lot of assumption and give half explanation for a lot of stuff. Some places are good but mostly below average
I do not think this man offers any explanations for the stats he is citing or what may be the root causes for those figures. for example, he says that men win custody when they fight for it, but he never mentions the fact that those who fight are precisely those whose lawyers advise them to because the case is a slum dunk in the first place. Source: The Lead Attorney. Many other such gaps in his formulations.
15:50 This is the important part, Data driven cope is the only cope that matters, this is a curative against the Black Pill for the average incel.
30:00 Aaaaand fumble, he makes a good point about the unreliability of the statistics (same applies to SA statistics) but can't salvage anything from it and tries to find refuge in follow up questionaires that have the same problems. 31:40 these are good attempts to salvage but especially with the DV that's often just a lie to gain sole custody. 32:50 All the cope earlier just to admit the initial premise lol.
39:00 Two Words Brendan Fraser, the courts can and will make up any excuse based on a period of earnings no matter how brief to have a good tax chattel slave. 39:05 Yeah because the rich and smart know better than to get married, Y'know the entire "Divorce is down because Marriage is down" point? If a man knows he's going to get milked he'll only go through with it because he has no milk or he's brain dead which again probably means no milk. 39:30 Finally a good point but Russian Roulette, you might or might not get fucked over and the whole emphasis on full amount is a mislead and ironically brushes up against an earlier cope. Blood from a stone, those men are being asked to pay more than they have and so are being drenched from what little they do.
40:38 "They're not gonna take anything from you cause there's nothing to take" may all our infant children be as blissfully ignorant as this grown man who can't connect his own dots together. 42:50 And here we are assuming men leave willingly not kicked out, combine and compare with earlier stats when getting to the whole contentious divorce paradigm where it is assumed that both involved have the neurological disorders but earlier it was pointed out that one is more common in Women.
All in all a decent effort but the blindspots build up and connecting the dots reveals a lot of problems.
1:03:00 Ok this is solid, Alpha Fucks Beta Bux disproven but Monkey Branching is real.
This podcast/data was surpisingly White Pilling, to the point I'm concerned it's actually just a Blue Pill 😂
Seeing that most people struggle with dating in the same ways I do makes sense logically, but it's not something I ever really considered
Modern marriage is an unconsciable contract without any legal consideration for men no matter how much you try to spin the data otherwise. Marriage has been a dead institution since the 1970s with no-fault divorce, the Pill, feminism, and women's "liberation" all playing key roles.
I think thatbitbgoes beyond attractiveness; it is presentment. Physical appearance is partly genetic presentment on a gross level, but also social, spiritual, moral and subtle genetic traits in terms of behaviour and intelligence that is signaled in comlkext arrangements by what can be over all termed presentment. That is why so many beautiful people are actually quite ugly on a mating level, because they subtly present a dark soul and can not help but to.
They garnish your wages for alimony and child support. It doesn’t matter if you have a low net worth. This guy is incredibly disingenuous. I’m getting a weird predatory vibe from this shtick
Yeah, there's definitely something creepy about him. He's willingly ignoring things that even a moderately redpill guy shpuld know of. Gettimg glowie vibes tbh.
Rather "blue" pilled take, but interesting.
I don't understand
47:00 or thereabouts, disappointing but not surprising. If you decided to pursue a professional degree don't do what I did and fall for the "get your education first" meme, lads
As a Christian it's really depressing to see how many of these issues would be resolved if people simply adopted Christian principles toward sexuality.
Christian principles, if taken seriously, would result in extinction. Christianity is anti-sex and anti-life, in its most fundamentalist form. I think what you are describing as Christian sexuality is just monogamy and the nuclear family, and I agree with those concepts
Exactly. People should get married in their late teens or early 20s
People come first from them the culture and morals, see Dutton
"There is NOTHING wrong with women by definition"
- JB Peterson -
One just needs to look at his own daughter for a counterexample.
What did she do?
@@leaticiabalson5230 She divorced her husband after having a child with him and started enjoying the benefits of being JBP's daughter, including flying out to Romania to "hang with" Andrew Tate.
talk about beating around the bush, "men don't have a lot of money to lose in divorce" oh great, I guess I can stop worrying about it then. this guy's a joke.
Exactly.
He might be a joke but at least he puts in the work to argue through data, I can respect that even if I can see the flaws in his argument. Puts him leagues above his peers if nothing else
@@cyberninjazero5659 you mean that hes above the hordes of cheap redpill channels that rely on red meat? Yeah sure.
Ive seen plenty of red pill that concentrate constantly on studies and statistics, it gets a little gay after a time.
@@acuerdoxNo I meant he's far above most bluepillers who just whine about Much Soggy Knees!. He barely ranks amongst even the lower middle tier of Redpill content
Redpill and bluepill content are both nauseating. White pills for everyone!
Mostly, men just need to stop thinking through and about their dicks so much.
I don't agree a lot of stuff. He also making a lot assumption just like black pill communities
Now interview Rian Stone
This guy actually thinks Gigachad is a real person
The guy in the meme pic is, the pic was doctored a bit but the info of the real guy it's based on is out there
What clownery...