To Anyone Going Through A Breakup

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  • Опубликовано: 21 авг 2024
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  • @joeykidney
    @joeykidney  2 года назад +1675

    Thank you everyone for watching, if this advice helped at all, can you like the video? It really helps me

    • @dolly_8869
      @dolly_8869 2 года назад +5

      Thank you Joey.

    • @dolly_8869
      @dolly_8869 2 года назад +1

      ❤️

    • @LibraButton
      @LibraButton 2 года назад

      This helped tremendously, thank you

    • @wurmie
      @wurmie 2 года назад

      thank you for making this video joey

    • @yunggchina
      @yunggchina 2 года назад

      Thank you ❤️

  • @amurphy4004
    @amurphy4004 Год назад +6858

    It's not them leaving that hurts, it's the memories that follow.

    • @aegufm4531
      @aegufm4531 Год назад +147

      Exactly that. I didnt even know how to put this into words but you described how i feel too.
      Hang in there, im sure it is gonna be okay

    • @amurphy4004
      @amurphy4004 Год назад +13

      @AeguFM thank you friend, you too.

    • @aegufm4531
      @aegufm4531 Год назад +8

      @@amurphy4004 thanks appreciate it :)

    • @williamlu2423
      @williamlu2423 Год назад +2

      😥

    • @kaspervalentin7018
      @kaspervalentin7018 Год назад +39

      And the memories we have to forget... :(

  • @morghanprice.
    @morghanprice. 2 года назад +15229

    I lost myself trying to hold onto someone who didn’t care about losing me.

    • @kimberlyjames1591
      @kimberlyjames1591 2 года назад

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Sam who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Sam always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 года назад

      Dear I will introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer from POLAND who restored my broken relationship, he can bring your ex back just fine he's a very good man

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 года назад

      Wh'atsapp him now

    • @kala9912
      @kala9912 2 года назад +89

      Exactly

    • @WholeHeartily
      @WholeHeartily 2 года назад +61

      Same

  • @Liquidish
    @Liquidish 8 месяцев назад +1802

    There is another type of break up no one talks about. It is when both of you care, but both of you cannot get close enough, but you still try till one party gives up. It is a sense that everything could have been fixed but lack of ability to express yourself fully leads to eventual coldness and end of relationship. You get nothing except emptiness and uncovered feelings. Like death of a small tree, which could have become big oak but didn't become one. Nothing but sadness looking at such situations.

    • @cocinasvizcaya4792
      @cocinasvizcaya4792 6 месяцев назад +109

      Just happened to me i feel so broken right now

    • @juepaul691
      @juepaul691 6 месяцев назад +62

      It happened to me 4 days back ! I know we both love and care for each other but we just couldn’t stand each other

    • @baggycamera4825
      @baggycamera4825 6 месяцев назад +13

      Same four days ago. 💔

    • @lingshyanchong3184
      @lingshyanchong3184 6 месяцев назад +32

      happened to me 3 days ago. im just glad to know im not alone

    • @ulgenkarabulut2893
      @ulgenkarabulut2893 6 месяцев назад +32

      Same here, a month has passed. Still in contact. No hope of recovery or getting back together. We will see each other for the last time, a couple of days later, before I turn in for military service. Her choice. Our loss.
      For those who are out there, going through a similar situation: Stay true. Let it flow. Don’t fight it, embrace it. Let it hurt. God knows you have earned it.

  • @Therealplotski
    @Therealplotski 7 месяцев назад +155

    Remembering how she’d look in my eyes and smile at me brings me a pain worse than death

    • @LorenzoASR1927
      @LorenzoASR1927 Месяц назад +8

      i feel you brother, same here, hope you will heal

    • @lazy.daisy777
      @lazy.daisy777 Месяц назад +3

      i hope your doing better. I feel the same way about him right now.

    • @msdreamliner787
      @msdreamliner787 27 дней назад

      Are you better now?

    • @agnesmotshepe1494
      @agnesmotshepe1494 10 дней назад

      😢

    • @stringofspades2
      @stringofspades2 10 дней назад

      and this is me right now. He loved me so much and i loved him, but it never worked

  • @NayanTopic
    @NayanTopic 2 года назад +5463

    Hugs to everyone who are dealing with breakups

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 года назад

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 года назад

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 года назад

      ✛2347030894892(☉。☉)!!!

    • @Hex111
      @Hex111 Год назад +7

      Ty

    • @anomaly_101
      @anomaly_101 Год назад +23

      I really do wish I could have a hug right now. That’s all I want.
      My gf I feel like is about to break up with me. She’s getting fed up with me. Other things contributed too
      But she’s helped me so much in the 6 months that I know her. She used to like me a lot. And it’s hurting so much that she just wants me gone now

  • @commondirtbagz7130
    @commondirtbagz7130 Год назад +5177

    I think the worst part of a breakup to me is knowing you’re healing just to potentially have it happen again.

    • @scannner7499
      @scannner7499 Год назад +64

      It happened twice this year to me.Damn

    • @commondirtbagz7130
      @commondirtbagz7130 Год назад +10

      @@scannner7499 what happened if you mind me asking?

    • @tigerexo6577
      @tigerexo6577 Год назад +52

      @@scannner7499 damn same bruh….. I had 2 relationships this year and both of them ended up in breakup. 😢especially this recent breakup, it hurts the most.

    • @commondirtbagz7130
      @commondirtbagz7130 Год назад +34

      @@tigerexo6577 we’ll find the right person man. Unfortunately most of life is just waiting for the good parts in life.

    • @androidgamerxxx
      @androidgamerxxx Год назад +46

      Going through it right now. Hurts like hell. But hey, I will rise again. We will rise again.

  • @hananjnn
    @hananjnn 3 месяца назад +58

    four years down the drain. grieving for someone who's still alive knowing they're doing well without you is exhausting; but at the same time it's the pain that keeps me alive. it's the only piece of him left on me. he was the one, i feel like i'm being sawed in half

    • @noway5529
      @noway5529 19 дней назад +2

      In the same boat, it sucks cause I know that they deserve to be happy without me too

    • @jellymoonbun
      @jellymoonbun 10 дней назад +2

      This is me rn as well. I hope it gets better soon, i feel like i'm suffocating

    • @stringofspades2
      @stringofspades2 10 дней назад +1

      @@jellymoonbunsame. it’s the worst feeling ever

    • @signalinternet5934
      @signalinternet5934 8 дней назад

      @@jellymoonbun i got the tattoo of her name now

    • @ilovebread_hcw
      @ilovebread_hcw 4 дня назад

      same situation, dw you're not alone :)

  • @originali_t
    @originali_t 20 дней назад +15

    This break up makes me not want to love again..

    • @vofcoffins1038
      @vofcoffins1038 День назад

      Give yourself as much time and soace as you need bro. I hear you, it sucks but try treat yourself with love and understanding ❤️

  • @KawaiiCat2
    @KawaiiCat2 2 года назад +3089

    The hardest thing about a breakup is the fact you are with them and a routine forms and now you have to live without that routine. Without them in it

    • @utsachakraborty4379
      @utsachakraborty4379 Год назад +11

      Truee!!

    • @thattenorsax7453
      @thattenorsax7453 Год назад +102

      Exactly right! That’s how I feel right now, expecting him to text me every morning and night and now it’s like uh??? Or like stuff that he did at school yk.

    • @canvas_125
      @canvas_125 Год назад +109

      Yes! I lived with mine for 10 months…I used to love my loneliness until he changed my mind, but now that he’s gone, this loneliness is different and harder. When you got so used to their warmth and affection…

    • @Deku2698
      @Deku2698 Год назад +38

      We lived together for 5 years.. I got together with her when I was a kid with 17. Now I am nearly 25 and have to live without that person. It’s unbearable.

    • @namzer0
      @namzer0 Год назад +1

      yeah...

  • @salt.8989
    @salt.8989 11 месяцев назад +1794

    "Break-ups heart so much because you envisioned your entire life with someone else to the point where you have lost who you are without them." This is so true 😭

    • @IhuomaChinonso
      @IhuomaChinonso 11 месяцев назад +13

      Have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but i could not let him go, so i had to do all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.i wish you seek his help too..

    • @Alex-zu4lj
      @Alex-zu4lj 6 месяцев назад +2

      Hey I just had this happen to me like 2 h ago but I really want her back

    • @SonnyXsophiexx
      @SonnyXsophiexx 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@Alex-zu4ljsame 💔💔

    • @Alex-zu4lj
      @Alex-zu4lj 5 месяцев назад

      @@SonnyXsophiexx she is now trying to get my best friend and so now I'm getting her cousin 😠

    • @SonnyXsophiexx
      @SonnyXsophiexx 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@Alex-zu4lj that sucks dude

  • @agg6097
    @agg6097 7 месяцев назад +265

    I’m sitting in my truck listening to this video again after my second break up. Hurts so bad I feel my chest getting heavy. I loved her and she just left me without any hesitation. I know with time I will get better but it’s only been two weeks. I will comeback to this comment once I’ve completely healed. I wish everyone going through a breakup will find their true love this year as I will.

    • @kriiii
      @kriiii 7 месяцев назад +8

      Stay strong brother....
      Try the path of spirituality it will help you to overcome this situation..
      I hope you'll be fine soon 😊

    • @MultiHumphreys
      @MultiHumphreys 7 месяцев назад +7

      At two weeks myself right now. Feels like an eternity. In 4 years I’ve never gone so long without their voice or touch

    • @explicitjoshh6757
      @explicitjoshh6757 7 месяцев назад

      I’m 21 I was with my fucking soul mate for 2 years when one night after. Work she went to a bar to get drinks with a “coworker” didint tell me shit told me she was going home next day didn’t come home till 12 and she sits me down to tell me she slept with another man she wasn’t even fucking crying bro what the fuck my birthday was on the 8th I can’t believe this we lived together and all bro she doesn’t give a fuck man I’m so fucking lost I feel like I’m drowning I just feel like I will never fucking heal I put all my eggs in her fucking basket bro I really did I thought we were gonna get married we were so fucking good idk where it went wrong I want her to fucking pay for it and I know god will do his work but at the same time I don’t want nothing to happen to her because I truly loved her like no one before I’m first real relationship man I wanted this shit for the rest of my life and just like that it’s all over and all she has to say was she was drunk she’s sorry

    • @riazijabar5296
      @riazijabar5296 6 месяцев назад +1

      Updates

    • @IsaiahTheAnimator
      @IsaiahTheAnimator 5 месяцев назад

      Same brother

  • @AnitaJason-s4d
    @AnitaJason-s4d 10 дней назад +69

    Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here...

    • @Adakataba
      @Adakataba 10 дней назад +1

      It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

    • @AnitaJason-s4d
      @AnitaJason-s4d 10 дней назад

      Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

    • @Adakataba
      @Adakataba 10 дней назад

      His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @Adakataba
      @Adakataba 10 дней назад

      he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

    • @AnitaJason-s4d
      @AnitaJason-s4d 10 дней назад

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
      Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

  • @vampire8650
    @vampire8650 Год назад +1502

    What hurts the most is meeting someone who changed u into who u are today, yet you cared the world for them but they didn't bother losing you.

    • @snaggeer2090
      @snaggeer2090 9 месяцев назад +5

      Exactly this

    • @umangsawkar2379
      @umangsawkar2379 9 месяцев назад +16

      got my heartbroken last night and I feel this. it's like a hard punch in the gut.

    • @tcamvs4019
      @tcamvs4019 9 месяцев назад +5

      My heart got broken almost 2 months ago...it's so hard and I though I was doing better but all of it just came and punch me in the gut. She moved on 5days after I broke up with her, I just wanted a break cause we moved to fast and there were some things I tried to work through with her but in the end I realized she didn't love me the same way even though when I told her I wanted to marry her in the future she said yes....maybe that's what hurts more is cause I could see my future with her and I truly loved her 🥺🥺 and then she went and had adult fun time with another woman not even a week after she said we could try again.💔💔

    • @armani9861
      @armani9861 9 месяцев назад

      you can accept that and more if you love her.@@tcamvs4019

    • @KevinLockettTV
      @KevinLockettTV 8 месяцев назад +8

      It's been about a month and it's crazy because it feels like she doesn't miss me at all.

  • @Good-Morning-Media
    @Good-Morning-Media 2 года назад +3303

    When he said “I’ll see you when you go through your next breakup” first time I laughed in a while…

    • @nicetomeetya6775
      @nicetomeetya6775 2 года назад +84

      lmao i was like no shit i ain't ever gonna fall in love again

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 года назад

      Dear I will introduce you to the same Spiritualist who restored my broken relationship, he can bring your ex back just fine he's good.

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 года назад

      What'sapp him;

    • @ameliatheexotics3926
      @ameliatheexotics3926 2 года назад +11

      I was already questioning what on heart I’ve learned from those past minutes and then he literally killed me with with the worst possible thing he could say to give me any sense of progress and feeling confused to hell .. but .. I’m gonna give it the benefit of the doubt that it was all planed … or not .. im just raising an eyebrow for 5 minutes so he deserves this content interaction but LIKE WHYYYY LMAO

    • @annmarie6870
      @annmarie6870 2 года назад +1

      And that’s when I’ll be back and watch this RUclips video

  • @katiet9448
    @katiet9448 4 месяца назад +114

    i’m 2 years late but i’m watching this bc i literally cannot stop crying

    • @janalikesdaisies
      @janalikesdaisies Месяц назад +11

      two months passed since you wrote this comment, but i hope you are doing better now - im sending you lots of hugs

    • @katiet9448
      @katiet9448 Месяц назад +12

      @@janalikesdaisies Thank you :) you’re very sweet. I’m much happier now, im lucky to have great people around me that helped me through it

    • @Willyy013
      @Willyy013 Месяц назад +10

      Im at day 1 of it right now and seing this gave me a little tiny hope

    • @katiet9448
      @katiet9448 Месяц назад +3

      @@Willyy013 awww i’m sorry love, i promise you it will get better and you’ll soon realize what you deserve

    • @UnderSky_onk24
      @UnderSky_onk24 Месяц назад +3

      I just broke up with my girlfriend yesterday and I'm literally crying right now, what an unbelievable sad day it was....

  • @Tommy-Eagle-USA
    @Tommy-Eagle-USA 4 месяца назад +29

    Don't chase someone who isn't looking for you.

  • @junipereffe
    @junipereffe 2 года назад +3739

    2 year relationship gone, 4 year friendship vanished. broken up 3 days before my birthday. I've been dealing with heavy stuff like death in the family and just mental health problems and it just caused our relationship to break because she didn't really want to work through our problems after a while. Never thought it would turn out this way, im beyond heartbroken. Its upsetting knowing how easy it could be fixed too.
    I hope everyone scrolling the comments find themselves, and find peace. I hope I will be able to.

    • @richelledeguzman7453
      @richelledeguzman7453 2 года назад +90

      We broke up days ago. Yoy are not alone. Let's fight this battle

    • @georgepanagiotou8673
      @georgepanagiotou8673 2 года назад +23

      I feel u brother.. I’m in the same spot as u hang in there.

    • @junipereffe
      @junipereffe 2 года назад +13

      @@georgepanagiotou8673 Its rough i know but we will be able to get through this! Just remember your best is more than good enough and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.

    • @junipereffe
      @junipereffe 2 года назад +18

      @@georgepanagiotou8673 im afraid thats how ill be in the future, since she was my first relationship and basically first everything. Im really stuck on everything we did together and it just sucks it had to end so badly since I still have feelings for her. You'll find someone amazing out there, and im proud of you for making it so far after something so hard. I recently got out of my relationship which made me make the comment.

    • @junipereffe
      @junipereffe 2 года назад +6

      @@georgepanagiotou8673 you are very kind. i wish you the very best and if you ever need to vent this little comment section will always be here hopefully :) treat yourself nicely, because healing is a difficult process for everyone. take care 💗

  • @sxshha
    @sxshha 2 года назад +1397

    when you trust a person too much, you either get a person for life or a lesson for life🙃

  • @lameart2041
    @lameart2041 4 месяца назад +60

    I got dumped last night.
    I told him to do what he wants and what he thinks is best for him , I won’t beg him nor will I do anything to stop him. And he chose to leave, he said he doesn’t love me the same anymore, he said he lied to me that he really loved me a lot (just 2 hours ago).
    I said okay go if that’s what you want, I’ve begged you the last time you wanted to leave and I gave you 1 month to love me again but if you still don’t feel anything and is this suffocated you can leave.
    And that was it, he left.
    This morning I despised him and hated him for all the false promises he made but right now in the evening, I miss him and can’t stopped crying.
    Never in my life have I thought this man that fought so much to get me would let me go through this hell.

    • @happycreature3993
      @happycreature3993 2 месяца назад +3

      same. it's been 4 months to me

    • @Timothee_022
      @Timothee_022 Месяц назад +5

      Heyy !! I have exactly the same story as yours . My ex broke up with me about a month ago
      This guy worshipped me . He did so much for me . We talked for about 8 months before he proposed to me and we were great together. We had fun , we connected emotionally . It was great . He was very mature and loving even after 9 months of the relationship . During disagreements He often stressed how great we were together and how he sees us settling together. He wouldn't let any small misunderstanding or flaw end something as perfect as what we have. I felt blessed to have someone like him . I treasured hum and both of us made each other feel in love .
      After all this, he broke up with No concrete reason . He made me go through hell without a care . I too held my head high and didn't beg or anything . I did make an effort for him to speak his heart to me , to try and understand him but he said he didn't love me anymore and doesn't wanna stay .
      I was left in a complete state of disbelief. I respected him too much to think he could do something like this to me .
      How r u doing ?? Please lemme know if u learned something from your experience that u wanna share !!

    • @Americanpatriot-zo2tk
      @Americanpatriot-zo2tk Месяц назад +6

      You’ll find somebody better. Somebody that won’t be like that.

    • @lameart2041
      @lameart2041 Месяц назад

      @@Timothee_022 hi its going to be about 3 months now and I'm doing really well, i don't love him as much as i loved him before. I miss him though but I've come to accept that not all people are meant to stay in our lives, some people that hurt us are blessing in disguise, they're not bad people but they played the role that was given to them by universe and left after finishing their job. I don't despise him but im so grateful to him as he treated me with love and respect the 2 years we dated, the ending wasnt that great but it was a very necessary leason for me, ive learned alot in these 3 months, Ive learned how to let things go with the flow without whining how its not how i wanted it to be. Changes are inevetable and so are things that are meant to happen, whats meant to happen will happen no matter what ,so we have only two choices either be miserable when it happens or either accept it and be at peace. we havent talked ever since the breakup and i hope we never ever talk in the future and i hope we never cross paths again because his role in my life has ended and its time to meet new people.

    • @khusheer8826
      @khusheer8826 Месяц назад +4

      It’s the same for all men. Somehow they have this hold on their emotions to the point where it’s easy leaving your loved one rather than fight or make efforts. My ex apologised for this one mistake he kept on making and I believed his words every time he said he wouldn’t do it. And the last time I confronted him about it when he made that mistake again he told me that somehow it was my fault because of one thing I did years back that he’s still not over. So the only reason he kept doing that thing was because he was still mad at me. But here’s the thing he also apologised for no reason. All that promises of changing didn’t mean a thing. Double faced much. That’s when I realised he has changed he’s not the same anymore,he would be happy to let me go. I had begged him from the past 1-2 years to make efforts and give us a chance, all this to realise that he would actually be happy without me and that’s what he wanted. Broke me tbh but I made that decision for him. I let him go. He never tried to get back ever since and I feel like I made the right decision. Hurts like hell but I’m pulling myself up. So the lesson is I don’t trust men (not in a bad way) no matter how vulnerable they show themselves to be they’re much stronger than that. They can love you today and hate you tomorrow that just how it works

  • @FiveProdd
    @FiveProdd 9 месяцев назад +39

    Hi Joey, I went from shock, to sadness, to anger, to feeling nothing. I feel empty. I can’t get out of bed. I can’t eat. I can barely type this. But your video helped me a lot. I can understand my body and I am finally - just barely - moving on.

    • @user-qt9zb1ty2m
      @user-qt9zb1ty2m 9 месяцев назад +1

      I feel the same . And its been 4 months

    • @Thelastprophett
      @Thelastprophett 26 дней назад

      I'm sure you're so much more better ❤

  • @prithvirajdj
    @prithvirajdj 10 месяцев назад +619

    I didn't expect myself to be here. It's fine.

    • @Gracielouisex
      @Gracielouisex 6 месяцев назад +6

      Do you feel better now that it’s been a few months x

    • @nerinelva7075
      @nerinelva7075 6 месяцев назад

      I just broke up yesterday,im doing fine..cuz everthing happen for a reason..hope u doing fine too!​@@Gracielouisex

    • @gurnoorshoker78
      @gurnoorshoker78 4 месяца назад +2

      @@Gracielouisexhbu?

    • @muraahh
      @muraahh 2 месяца назад

      ​@@gurnoorshoker78 hbu?

    • @NicoWaifu
      @NicoWaifu Месяц назад

      @@muraahhhbu?

  • @kevinkev9996
    @kevinkev9996 2 года назад +1966

    I was in a ten year relationship that ended three weeks ago. This is the most difficult thing I have ever dealt with.

    • @martharobert8213
      @martharobert8213 2 года назад

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

    • @11lvr11
      @11lvr11 2 года назад +86

      absolutely the same here..its day second and i'm in hell, i live alone in our apartment now and every inch reminds me of him

    • @dystephiary
      @dystephiary 2 года назад +55

      I feel you. Mine was seven and ended three months ago. I still feel like I died

    • @partykrew666
      @partykrew666 2 года назад +54

      I'm so fucking sorry man. I can't even imagine the pain you're in. I hope you have a merciful and speedy recovery.

    • @rebeccat9626
      @rebeccat9626 2 года назад +22

      It’s so true. It’s essentially like losing a loved one: not being able to see or talk to each other anymore…

  • @NaeK188
    @NaeK188 9 месяцев назад +4

    I don’t believe in breakups. I’m not built for modern dating. I will take accountability, work on my issues, hear my love out, and treat their hearts as gentle as my own. I’m not perfect. Ego and pride has no place in love but humility does…why can’t I find someone who reciprocates that? I can’t deal with this heartbreak…

  • @kafelejohn3625
    @kafelejohn3625 2 месяца назад +6

    Lost my first loved one. I feel myself tearing up writing this message with the flood of memories. I never felt like I have with her. I miss her so much. I want to come back here when I’m healed too

  • @kennysmith3399
    @kennysmith3399 2 года назад +2443

    This shit hurts like hell. I have my days where I’m doing well and then she pops up in my mind and my emotions go back to square one. I cannot take this feeling of hurt and anguish. I’m clueless as to why things happened the way that they did

    • @thecircle.2563
      @thecircle.2563 2 года назад +107

      Same here. He just ended things and sometimes I'm doing great but some days like today I just feel like crying.

    • @chantilychua399
      @chantilychua399 2 года назад +1

      Same

    • @filoboyryan
      @filoboyryan 2 года назад +66

      She’s on my mind first thing in the morning, and I remember she’s with someone else already after a week. Hurts.

    • @kennysmith3399
      @kennysmith3399 2 года назад +41

      @@filoboyryan I promise you brother, things will get better with time. It will still bother you, but not as much. Use this time to focus on you. Better yourself for yourself. That’ll make you feel so much better I promise. For me it’s still a bit fresh so I go through the emotions from time to time, but I don’t sulk in it anymore. This was your sign to do better and grow. Just do it, as Shia Labeouf would say

    • @filoboyryan
      @filoboyryan 2 года назад +5

      @@kennysmith3399 thanks brother we’ll get through this 🤞🏽

  • @lovethedarkrp
    @lovethedarkrp 11 месяцев назад +1391

    I just lost my first ever relationship two days ago. Felt like death, I thought I'd pass away, but I didn't. It was necessary because we weren't right for each other and now I'm learning to look back and smile at the joy they allowed me to have.

    • @asmitasinha4549
      @asmitasinha4549 10 месяцев назад +1

      😢😢😢😢

    • @Hanovlogsss101
      @Hanovlogsss101 10 месяцев назад +4

      Sending hugs😢❤

    • @Ririmetiri
      @Ririmetiri 10 месяцев назад +22

      This happened to me yesterday. I ended my first ever relationship because since the beginning I saw that he didn't care for me and he pushed me to end our things. And the worst thing is that when I told him that I want to end things w him he said "ok" bcause apparently as he told me there did exist times that he didn't feel anything abt me. I really wish you have healed and I wish I'll get over it soon

    • @EB-sw4gb
      @EB-sw4gb 10 месяцев назад +18

      I'm in the same boat. My ex is leaving because he feels like he needs to figure himself out outside of the relationship and truly consider what he wants. We might get back together, we might not, but we're gonna try to be friends because we truly support and care for eachother and click well. I know that may not be your situation exactly, but I can resonate with your feelings. Life is a long, long time, and all the joy and pain we feel is what it's all about. Keep going. Things will be okay.

    • @rsal4214
      @rsal4214 10 месяцев назад

      Hey just wanted to share my story. I left my ex about a month ago. This because our futures just dont align. I love her with all my heart and i know she does the same. I would love to be friends with her but i just do not see a way in where we could just be friends. This is why we went into no contact even though it is one of the most painful things i have gad to endure in life. I wish you the best and i hope you guys will find eachother again.@@EB-sw4gb

  • @highplainsdrifter699
    @highplainsdrifter699 19 дней назад +3

    Attachment is the root cause of all suffering. Stay stoic

  • @ChrisFocusRS
    @ChrisFocusRS 6 месяцев назад +18

    my first long term relationship, over a year of making the impossible possible, defying the odds that couldn’t be defied.
    my heart is shattered. i feel like a mindless zombie with no motivation. i’m on autopilot mode barely computing until i get home in my bed and everything reminds me of her.
    i’m lost, i feel so broken.
    i wouldn’t wish this pain upon my worst enemy.

  • @luguy8347
    @luguy8347 2 года назад +2499

    I feel that it’s like a death. And, the stages of grief are hard work.

    • @christophermclaughlin5650
      @christophermclaughlin5650 2 года назад +143

      But like a death that haunts you wondering where you might see them next, wondering who they’re with and where they are now. Never getting to see someone again is sometimes less difficult than wondering who you’ll see them with 😔at least with death you can kinda make peace with it, it’s final and you work through your grief without all the constant worry of bumping into them or wondering where they are

    • @Eve17705
      @Eve17705 2 года назад +4

      I’m here to listen if you feel like sharing

    • @christophermclaughlin5650
      @christophermclaughlin5650 2 года назад +4

      @@Eve17705 thanks a lot :) that’s kind

    • @joeykidney
      @joeykidney  2 года назад +123

      And they will always be hard work, but that doesn't mean that you aren't strong enough to get through it

    • @fractionsoflife
      @fractionsoflife 2 года назад

      @@christophermclaughlin5650 Have you ever lost someone to death?

  • @ytfwudd399
    @ytfwudd399 Год назад +1139

    Lost my first love literally hours ago. “I will be with you for the rest of my life” is the dumpiest promise I could have ever believed.
    Edit: I really appreciate all the people leaving their experiences with breakup down below in the reply section. Its comforting to know that at least you’re not the only going through all the pain. Its been a year since Ive posted this comment and so far I’ve been doing well (tried new things like pursuing my hobbies etc.) To all the people going through their breakup, i just want to say that you are not alone. We are all strangers from across the world yet we are going through the same thing as you are. Its going to be tough for sure. Its been a year+ since my breakup and i still think about her all the time, reminiscing about all the wonderful moments we had together. But eventually it will get better and your wounds will heal. Stay strong yall.

    • @kaldoriastory8011
      @kaldoriastory8011 Год назад +48

      Same just happened to me, about an hour ago, I hope that you’re doing better now, and I’ll be able to get where you are without ending myself. Strength and hope to you

    • @jacobbeaumont6854
      @jacobbeaumont6854 Год назад +13

      12 hours ago man not easy. BUT IT ALWAYS GETS BETTER

    • @fyessssss
      @fyessssss Год назад +6

      9 hours for me 😔

    • @kay9_
      @kay9_ Год назад +39

      2 days ago. I cant cope. We've been going for over 3 years and i dont think il ever find another girl like her again. Im 20, she was my first love.. i dont even want to live anymore

    • @swordfucker69420
      @swordfucker69420 Год назад +6

      Same what a load of BS well I was the one who said that but she left anyway

  • @savindirupasinghe7989
    @savindirupasinghe7989 4 месяца назад +6

    My first ever relationship is broken now. I imagined everyday with him, my future, my family, my life... he was in every aspect of my future. But things weren't aligning with us. He had different goals than mine. I tried to fix with his, and I succeeded, but he never adjusted mine. I was under suffocation, and I realized I should leave him for the best of both of us. I still miss him soo freaking much, I cry every time I remember him, I can't eat, I can't focus on my work. I feel lost everywhere. A part of me has gone and vanished. I just can't hold this pain. We tried to fix but never a success. I believe the universe has better plans for me and him. I wish him all the very best!

  • @jj_3149
    @jj_3149 7 месяцев назад +5

    He’s so special to me and I did a lot of things for the first time thanks to him so I think I won’t be able to forget him and the beautiful memories we made together. It’s the memories that drive me crazy. I think they’re gonna haunt me forever. When I look at the photos, I instantly get miserable and depressed. I hope time will help me heal.

  • @hrzwoods
    @hrzwoods Год назад +332

    lost my first ever love today. i feel like ive genuinely lost a part of myself, sick to my stomach and can’t eat. i miss him so much

    • @Sadlythatsme
      @Sadlythatsme 11 месяцев назад +30

      I’m feeling the exact same. My girlfriend recently broke up with me so suddenly. I’m terrified and lost. I have nobody to talk to and I just really need someone to talk to. I’m struggling so freaking much it hurts, it hurts like hell

    • @itzmishi8527
      @itzmishi8527 6 месяцев назад +8

      @@Sadlythatsme5 months later, how are you doing my friend?

    • @nathanmugisho1254
      @nathanmugisho1254 6 месяцев назад +6

      Hope you’re feeling better today

    • @Lauren-zy4vf
      @Lauren-zy4vf 5 месяцев назад +4

      How are you now

    • @Chris84844
      @Chris84844 5 месяцев назад +17

      My girlfriend and I just broke up now, we were together for 2 years and lived together for just over a year, it hurts so much, I don’t know what to do with myself, I have no one to talk too, I can barely move, I’m so in shock and broken. We did absolutely everything together, we planned our future together and now it’s all just gone, i don’t know what to do with myself 💔

  • @ponzopa
    @ponzopa 2 года назад +934

    okay but why do i feel like i’m never gonna love someone as strong ever again

    • @ponzopa
      @ponzopa 2 года назад +144

      now im dating someone else. not the same at all. even tho it sounds corny af she ain’t giving me that same special feeling.
      and now if i break up w her she’s gon feel the same as me till she does the same to someone else till we all fucked.
      if you’re in a happy relationship hold on to that shit as hard as you can. you’re truly blessed

    • @kimberlyhudson3653
      @kimberlyhudson3653 2 года назад +2

      Do you need help? To fix. your broken relationship?

    • @kimberlyhudson3653
      @kimberlyhudson3653 2 года назад

      He helped me not quite long. and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's

    • @kimberlyhudson3653
      @kimberlyhudson3653 2 года назад +1

      Wha'tsapp.......zzzz....

    • @baileec8789
      @baileec8789 2 года назад +2

      how long have you been in your current relationship?

  • @CharlesCinco5
    @CharlesCinco5 8 месяцев назад +7

    It's been 2 weeks since my ex and I mutually agreed to part ways. It was honestly the most beautiful breakup I've experienced as we still cried for each other knowing that there is a real loss and having to face that its also what's right...
    Still doesn't make it easier..

  • @chadallen276
    @chadallen276 3 месяца назад +1

    I hurt soooo bad. My life was uprooted within a single moment. She was my entire world, and when she left, my soul never came back into me. It's been a month, and she is all I can think of.

  • @glitchmaster_xx
    @glitchmaster_xx Год назад +388

    The worst part of a breakup that it doesn't come from a normal person, it comes from a close special person to us.

  • @ShawnMoore-vi1fj
    @ShawnMoore-vi1fj Год назад +395

    what gets me is that i know there just moving on without me so easily. while im stuck here dealing with the pain.

    • @imissme8313
      @imissme8313 Год назад +6

      Update how are you

    • @korosu8424
      @korosu8424 Год назад +9

      I feel this! The best I can do is put her out of my mind but it's hard

    • @carllobidica1352
      @carllobidica1352 Год назад +9

      I feel u man she literally just say that dont you ever communicate with me and my family ever again about 3 hours ago im just 17 but it still hurts a lot i didn't know that a person can feel this much pain over to a text they just say.

    • @ShawnMoore-vi1fj
      @ShawnMoore-vi1fj Год назад +13

      @@imissme8313 Sorry for late response, I’m pretty better, doing things like hiking or making new hobbies helps alot.

    • @ShawnMoore-vi1fj
      @ShawnMoore-vi1fj Год назад +2

      @@carllobidica1352 I feel you. It will get better with time bro i promise

  • @Skiiewalker
    @Skiiewalker 2 месяца назад +3

    the sun doesn’t shine like it used to

  • @Simrandeepbabouria
    @Simrandeepbabouria 4 месяца назад +6

    He said that I keep bringing up the same things (financial struggle) and he did tell multiple times that he didn't like to hear it, I did bring it up yesterday and today he broke up with me.
    I just wanted him to acknowledge my issues and tell me that we will get over it, it will be fine.
    I would have done everything else on my own.

    • @umangbhardwaj5580
      @umangbhardwaj5580 3 месяца назад +1

      I know it hurts to have just one expectation out of love, to be heard and seen for who we are, and that too not being met. Know this, i am telling you, you'll get over this obstacle in your finances, you'll find a way out, you always have had. As for love, be that love for yourself which you wanted him to be, shower yourself with acceptance, validation and assurance. Hang on, life has yet much to offer, you are worthy 💗

  • @RohitKamath
    @RohitKamath 2 года назад +565

    To anyone who is experiencing a bad breakup, hang in there! Don't lose faith in love. There is someone out there, Yes you thought you were gonna marry them, have kids, start a family with them and all these fantasies came crashing down. Maybe you're feeling lost ; lost because that one person whom you talked to everyday is now gone, but HANG IN THERE MY FRIEND. THIS WORLD HAS SO MUCH MORE TO GIVE YOU!

    • @kaia7484
      @kaia7484 Год назад +7

      Thx man means a lot and those who are recommending people who can help to bringup ex.. Wtf is wrong with u... She left me saying Iam just a looser.. After even if she come how can I go back normal... How can i trust her.. Iam gonna try to go out more as possible...its getting harder staying at home.. Thx for all people who are trying help

    • @RohitKamath
      @RohitKamath Год назад +2

      @@kaia7484 stay strong brah! 🙌🏾

    • @SilverVibes
      @SilverVibes Год назад +5

      The world's given me hell so far and the one time I found love it was lost. I want nothing more in this horrible, evil place.

    • @LuizFreelances
      @LuizFreelances Год назад

      This means alot man, thank you. It's Hard.

    • @kurtpunchesthings2411
      @kurtpunchesthings2411 Год назад +1

      I've never had a relationship so thus no breakup how I would react simply depends on how long we were together if we were married I gotta be honest would probably throw myself under a truck or off a bridge

  • @blessybinnypaul2020
    @blessybinnypaul2020 11 месяцев назад +270

    "Just because you are familiar with the pain of a heartbreak, doesn't mean that you are prepared to face it"

  • @dredamaine5921
    @dredamaine5921 19 часов назад

    I went through three stages in mine.
    1. Trauma and pain in loss, pleading for us to work it out as she left with no remorse.
    2. Realizing my love for her is drifting when i didnt want them to. Asking for closure and being rejected in even getting that.
    3. The realization after she admitted she pretended to love me in our final year until I lost value to her. That got me over her and now i finally have picked myself back up.
    Everyones steps to recovery are different but time helps alot. 1 month and 19 days later I am back on my feet finally.

  • @charlottearnstein
    @charlottearnstein 4 дня назад

    It's comforting that I'm not the only one going through this.

  • @nidhikuril4475
    @nidhikuril4475 2 года назад +214

    It’s been 3 months and I still cry everyday before going to bed.

    • @user-ip5vu8om8n
      @user-ip5vu8om8n Год назад +45

      it’s almost been a year for you, how are you feeling now?

  • @FM-oc7ol
    @FM-oc7ol 11 месяцев назад +76

    What hurts more is knowing they're not broken as you are about it all. Kinda makes you wonder if everything really meant as much to them as it did to u. And that thought is poisonous

    • @IhuomaChinonso
      @IhuomaChinonso 11 месяцев назад

      Have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but i could not let him go, so i had to do all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.i wish you seek his help too..

    • @chet_irl
      @chet_irl 2 месяца назад

      @@IhuomaChinonsodude what

  • @user-ke3se1vi8o
    @user-ke3se1vi8o 8 дней назад

    The worst part of betrayal is
    it never comes from enemy

  • @julianhadley4301
    @julianhadley4301 3 месяца назад +1

    I am an alcoholic. My girlfriend of 7 months, the love of my life gave me an ultimatum. Stop drinking or it’s over. I made it 2 months sober, then slipped up and somehow convinced myself i could get a drink for that night. She showed up at my place and caught me drinking. She said “i thought we would have more time before it was over”. The most heart breaking thing i have ever experienced. Her knowing i would fail and was just waiting for it. This was yesterday. I have never hated myself more. I ruined the best thing in my life.

  • @cal3bj917
    @cal3bj917 Год назад +418

    I’ve sent her every paragraph I can think of, I have no more words to type. It just hurts because it seemed like something we could fix so easily, but I ended up losing the person I’ve loved the most in my whole life over something we could have talked out

    • @MaciEszti20
      @MaciEszti20 Год назад +40

      Hi , same happened with me a few days ago, he broke up with me out of nowhere , a few days before the break up he said he love me so much and things like that then we had a problem i tried to work on it he vanished then 1 day later he said he want to break up because the little things accumulated in him and he just close everything saying he love me and hug me and then breaking up

    • @Thecharmedonee
      @Thecharmedonee Год назад +6

      Heal save your dignity and heal learn from this and love to love another day god bless

    • @Jobeatzdaproducer
      @Jobeatzdaproducer Год назад +10

      Bro I kno how it feels,I just lost my girl over stupidness😭😭

    • @danien2411
      @danien2411 Год назад +23

      Same 😔 I was making mistakes I didn’t realise I was doing, our communication just fell apart, and I had a miscarriage and just turned into someone who wasn’t me, I regret all the things I said and the times I acted out. I’m on day 11 and this morning I was absolute wreck

    • @Jobeatzdaproducer
      @Jobeatzdaproducer Год назад +5

      @@danien2411 hold on hun,you are not alone...And things will get better in time,I know it hurts but it will be over

  • @abbysdiary8734
    @abbysdiary8734 2 года назад +590

    I broke up with my ex 5 months ago after being together for 2 years and I’m still crying because I love him but things just weren’t working out. I hope everyone going through a breakup finds peace

    • @ericaroundtheworld
      @ericaroundtheworld 2 года назад +8

      I can't find peace at all

    • @abbysdiary8734
      @abbysdiary8734 2 года назад +45

      @@ericaroundtheworld Its been 3 months since I posted that and I can say that I feel significantly better. I'm at peace with the breakup and though I still think about him, its not was often. I know it may seem like you won't find peace but with time, you will

    • @trueone3093
      @trueone3093 2 года назад +17

      Your the one who dumped him so why were u crying. You women blind side us and prepare yourselves mentally months before y’all leave us and where the ones that are left crushed
      .But hopefully u find peace

    • @abbysdiary8734
      @abbysdiary8734 2 года назад +42

      @@trueone3093 just because I dumped him doesn’t mean I emotionally prepared for it. I was still in love with him when I broke up with him and I told him that. Don’t you think that maybe I broke up with him because he wasn’t treating me right? Just because your ex blindsided you doesn’t mean that’s the case for everyone.

    • @trueone3093
      @trueone3093 2 года назад +3

      @@abbysdiary8734 …. Yeah I kno but as guys we don’t be knowing that we just be assuming that you females are own to something else… thanks it’s good to hear a female point of view…. I wasn’t trying to sound rude or anything but Did you find your peace

  • @miemiecutie
    @miemiecutie 2 месяца назад +2

    grief is the proof of love is real

  • @Thesuvivor24
    @Thesuvivor24 8 месяцев назад +3

    One lesson i learned from a very long relationship full of betrayal and lies is that no matter how much you care about someone, understand that the world doesnt revolve only around then.
    I know many of us, want to support and be always there for the person we love.
    This is what love does and is right.
    But never forget to sometimes think on yourself and do things for yourself and because you want a change for yourself and be the best version of yourself.

  • @loganbergeron8866
    @loganbergeron8866 Год назад +438

    Completely out of the blue, it’s insane to feel this amount of pain in my chest. I cannot believe humans are able to feel this pain, she was the one and I hope the universe makes the right decision
    Edit: it has been 5 months nearly 6 months since the breakup. I feel much better about the whole idea now. A few months back i deleted all photos and all messages, i would be lying if i said i didn't get sad when i thought about her still. Still not ready to have another relationship. I guess this is the time to grind fellas

    • @preslolee1575
      @preslolee1575 Год назад +9

      It’s truly unbearable

    • @UnfilteredEmotion
      @UnfilteredEmotion Год назад +17

      I'm with you bro, how is it going ? It's been 4 days for me and I'm suffering so much

    • @yestrech
      @yestrech Год назад +4

      @@UnfilteredEmotion how's it going? 10 days for me

    • @imissme8313
      @imissme8313 Год назад +1

      @@UnfilteredEmotion update ?

    • @gamenotfound9376
      @gamenotfound9376 Год назад +3

      how is it going now? 3 months passed and I am now into this shitty feeling.

  • @hellboy656
    @hellboy656 Год назад +262

    Everybody has their own hardest part of a break up, but for me its missing what we just once were...and how amazing it was.
    .and its like youll try to do whatever you can to go back to that and its almost impossible

    • @banca7576
      @banca7576 7 месяцев назад

      this.

    • @SanAndreasMediaDepart
      @SanAndreasMediaDepart 7 месяцев назад

      @@banca7576 i hope you're okay

    • @Lherme
      @Lherme 6 месяцев назад

      same

    • @boombaybay1697
      @boombaybay1697 5 месяцев назад +4

      Fr, the time i spent with her the smile and comfort she always gave me i cant ever forget

    • @ssophiastars.
      @ssophiastars. 3 месяца назад

      i know.

  • @htethtet5056
    @htethtet5056 3 месяца назад +1

    Last 2 years, I was here and watched your video to get over someone whom I've been with for 5 years.
    After 2 years, currently I came here again. But not the same person, different one who abruptly left me.
    You know I wish I could never learn to trust anyone again.

  • @pac5213
    @pac5213 5 дней назад

    worst part is not being able to cry and not eating and its just endless pain and misery

  • @FETFAZIDIS
    @FETFAZIDIS Год назад +440

    She lost all feelings for me basically overnight. Just because of one small mistake. It hurts

    • @Iamj4red
      @Iamj4red Год назад +114

      Then she wasn't the one. "When you're in love, you just don't throw it Away. You work it out"

    • @FETFAZIDIS
      @FETFAZIDIS Год назад +16

      @@Iamj4red She literally came crawling back today.

    • @Alexandre-rv7vj
      @Alexandre-rv7vj Год назад +12

      @@FETFAZIDIS Brrrruuuuuuuuuuuuh

    • @thisiskindacrap13
      @thisiskindacrap13 Год назад +6

      ​@@FETFAZIDIS damn dude, how are things rn for you two?

    • @FETFAZIDIS
      @FETFAZIDIS Год назад +44

      @@thisiskindacrap13 Sadly not so good at the moment. We both are kinda stressed out because of work and other private stuff so if we're lucky we can see each other maybe once in a week. Feels like we are slowly drifting away and it hurts. I just hope it gets better...
      Sorry for the long text but it somehow feels good to just right it down.

  • @KyleAdler
    @KyleAdler 2 года назад +571

    Working through a divorce with my highschool sweetheart right now. To say it hurts would be a massive understatement. Looking back though, I'm grateful for everything that has happened. All the fun times, the memories, and the moments we've shared. I've had relationships before but she was my first love. I was so sure that she'd be the one holding my hand when we're old and grey. But you know, shit happens. Despite all that though, I hold no resentment towards her. She taught me how to love and what it feels like to be loved. She was there for my darkest days and she was right there beside me for my best. I'll miss her greatly and I wish her all the best.

    • @rodrigocarvalho5468
      @rodrigocarvalho5468 2 года назад +18

      Praying for you to be strong enough to overcome whatever heavy feelings you might feel 🙏

    • @unearthlybeing9894
      @unearthlybeing9894 2 года назад +14

      🥺🥺🥺 you’re so strong I commend you 🤝

    • @lombo0075
      @lombo0075 2 года назад +10

      Just hold your head up buddy , i know it hurts and im with you,your comnent helped me a bit right now...

    • @ErikHansenDrums
      @ErikHansenDrums 2 года назад +3

      This was 2 months ago and I hope you're doing much better and still improving every day.
      I'm going through something extremely similar to what you wrote, just yesterday my high-school sweetheart of 10 years left me. It's going to be an uphill battle.

    • @exclusivelytay4114
      @exclusivelytay4114 2 года назад

      Tips on How to heal after a break
      ruclips.net/video/waXyTNWMNZE/видео.html

  • @Lifeofayoungman
    @Lifeofayoungman 7 месяцев назад +3

    I lost my girlfriend, she fought for me so hard. I couldn’t give what she needed. I want to focus on myself and finish the last year of my football career and college. It hurts, we made so many memories.
    But I will be forever grateful for the endless laughs, cry’s, argument’s, and adventures we had.
    I walked away because it wasn’t fair for her to give me her whole heart, only when my heart was half in.
    I love you Micah, and always will.

  • @DorienMayaJohnson
    @DorienMayaJohnson 2 месяца назад +1

    Writing this from our shared account. I do not wish this type of pain on anyone. My only advice, please, if you have a good one. Hold on to them, love and cherish them, value their morals, and never treat them like anyone else. Love them as the individual. Show them off, travel the world. Never take any moment for granted. I am unsure what my future holds as I feel my purpose in this lifetime is diminshed. But I will continue to swim.

  • @1997PROx
    @1997PROx Год назад +274

    Reading everyone’s story makes me feel like we are all connected. Going through a break up is something I’m not used too and knowing she would be the one till death hurts that she is gone. To anyone dealing with this right now I hope you heal beautifully. However long it takes we take it day by day.

    • @chihienbui4635
      @chihienbui4635 Год назад

      It’s strange that pp criticise me for not handling a break up well bc i do not have experience on that.
      Wth? Am i supposed to break up many times in my life to know that?
      Is living a happy live my fault this time?
      Wth?
      Wth?

    • @Clarkbrown-ju9lh
      @Clarkbrown-ju9lh Год назад

      “One day you're going to remember me and how much I loved you… then you're gonna hate yourself for letting me go

  • @Harry-po7cw
    @Harry-po7cw Год назад +55

    Just knowing that they are moving on so easily without you has got to be the worst thing about a breakup. You are sat here suffering while in the back of your mind, you know they aren’t.

    • @grandpa5628
      @grandpa5628 6 месяцев назад +2

      yeah man she breaks up with me Saturday and at school Monday she is laughing with all her friends and by the next week she is talking to another man laughing and engaging the same way she did with me 3-4 months prior

  • @juniorairlinepilot5672
    @juniorairlinepilot5672 3 месяца назад +3

    After 10 years I was left after coming home from work … i how is my world not ending when it was my whole world?

  • @MonaAlHmood
    @MonaAlHmood 8 месяцев назад +4

    Although it's been two years since I moved forward from my past relationship, yet lately I feel his presence with every breeze and the tangible things he told me! He was the kindest and wholehearted person I ever got to know and I'm not sure if I have the capacity to love again! Praying all goodness and blessings to dwell in his heart and life wherever he maybe

  • @kuwaitcityroyvlogvd4316
    @kuwaitcityroyvlogvd4316 11 месяцев назад +1054

    Elowen Rasmusovs impact on the lives of those shes helped through breakups is a testament to her skill as a psychotherapist. She has truly made a positive difference.

  • @kara6753
    @kara6753 Год назад +281

    I lost the love of my life yesterday, I thought he'd be my future husband, thinking about him with someone else while I still love him hurts...this pain is unbearable

    • @marinamaievska700
      @marinamaievska700 Год назад +15

      I understand. Same feelings 😭🫂

    • @Theterriblechief
      @Theterriblechief 11 месяцев назад +18

      I ended my relationship on 1st of Sept, i was going to marry her, but she had inappropriate relationship with the other guy, its really hurt and its killing me

    • @FaythZed
      @FaythZed 11 месяцев назад +2

      Same. You'll be okay!

    • @chidiebereekechukwu4332
      @chidiebereekechukwu4332 11 месяцев назад +5

      I am just crying

    • @viro_4145
      @viro_4145 11 месяцев назад

      I lost the love of my life before 4h ...

  • @TrentAlexanderArnold66LFC
    @TrentAlexanderArnold66LFC 8 месяцев назад +4

    I’ve just lost my whole world. We wasn’t toxic or hated each other we had a lot of bickers for the past month or two and we had chats to sort everything and it never did but the pain about loosing her is that bad I know that we could fix it. I seen her yesterday to collect my stuff and we cuddled and cried and I gave her her Christmas presents I just want her back I love her so much

  • @Killerneon64
    @Killerneon64 Месяц назад +3

    The most selfish thing is being mad at someone for breaking up with you because they can’t control how they feel in a relationship. If they are not happy anymore then that’s it. It doesn’t mean it’s your fault, peoples feelings can change doesn’t mean it always will but it happens sometimes it’s just human nature. Don’t cling on to them because you don’t want them to hurt you want what is best for them.

  • @Williamsay_
    @Williamsay_ Год назад +401

    It’s been 1 year since I’ve first time saw this video, at that time I thought my life was finished.
    I first wanna thank you Joey, theses 3 min have helped me so much.
    For everyone going through this, trust time, be grateful that relationship made you realised that he/she wasn’t « the one » and ofc take care of yourself.
    You are strong, We are strong.

    • @Me-rd7po
      @Me-rd7po Год назад +8

      i still feel like they were the one. and if only i acted right. it's been 1 year now and i still think about him from time to time. i still reject every guy that comes my way cause i just will never love them as much as i loved him. i hate how he moved on so easily from me tho.

    • @luc8254
      @luc8254 Год назад +5

      ​@@Me-rd7poabout the same happened to me. I'm a guy tho. Took me years to get better after she broke up with me, I HATED the fact she moved on like I was nothing while I was in so much pain...

    • @malintheng9050
      @malintheng9050 10 месяцев назад +2

      It been 10 months i still think he is the one I reject other i can not love other guy then him just keep me pain everyday

  • @patrickkarrow
    @patrickkarrow 2 года назад +248

    Broke up with my girlfriend two weeks ago… hardest thing ever. We both loved each other but we were on different paths. It was so hard to say goodbye to her. Thank you for this. I really needed this.

    • @patrickkarrow
      @patrickkarrow 2 года назад +2

      @@kingdomofanimosity2684 feeling a lot better now. It takes time to get better. Don’t hold in your pain, it only makes it harder.

    • @patrickkarrow
      @patrickkarrow 2 года назад +1

      @@kingdomofanimosity2684 take it one day at a time dude.

    • @patrickkarrow
      @patrickkarrow 2 года назад +1

      @@kingdomofanimosity2684 yeah man, I know that feeling too well. Work on yourself, you got this!

    • @Bigpapa830
      @Bigpapa830 2 года назад +4

      I feel you man I just broke up with my girlfriend today because she was always too busy to call or hang out during the summer and we are going two different colleges so I know for a fact she would just not have enough time to talk to me which is just not how a relationship should work. On the bright side we ended on better terms and became closer in friends

    • @sauvage9764
      @sauvage9764 Год назад +6

      I had a similar experience, today though. Sometimes it's even harder when you still love each other and have no reason to hate the other person :( I hope you're doing okay now

  • @justkyle5537
    @justkyle5537 9 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you, joey kidney, this was the first ever break up i had and the first ever in my life, the first girl that confessed to me, she first said she had commitment issues so she said it wont work between us and insisted being freinds instead, i begged for her to not do so considering she was my first and the first girl that confessed to me, but still din't get her love, i was thinking if she dint like me anymore and lately shes avoiding me since, yesterday i am experienced the worst day and now she build it up more by breaking up with me, i now know how it feels to experience a breakup..thank you, joe kidney, i'll keep smiling for myself and for her and move on.

  • @ExplosiveTrees
    @ExplosiveTrees 2 месяца назад +2

    Been with her for 3 years. We grew together, and she was my first everything. I really thought I never thought we would break up. I know it’s not the end of the world but I’ll just miss seeing her and embracing her all the time. Good luck to everyone else going through this.

  • @gregsong2286
    @gregsong2286 2 года назад +104

    My heart is broken, my whole soul is . I've lost. I've lost in school, I've lost in family, I've lost in love, I've lost in everything. I guess now I know what an idiot I was for simply believing someone telling me that they loved me.

  • @misha6751
    @misha6751 2 года назад +562

    You know that feeling when you miss them when you hear the songs you two used to sing together...... sometimes you couldn't listen to the song because it hurts too much......I guess I had a long way to go ahead but we are humans and we are still learning.....thnx, Joey, your videos always help me feel I am not alone.

    • @sabycute8
      @sabycute8 2 года назад +1

      Youre so right

    • @beingakhiL
      @beingakhiL 2 года назад

      In logon ki bakwas pr mat believe karo
      Bheek mein mile pyar ka kya karogi

    • @mikioni
      @mikioni 2 года назад +1

      😭😭😭😭

    • @exclusivelytay4114
      @exclusivelytay4114 2 года назад

      Tips on How to heal after a break
      ruclips.net/video/waXyTNWMNZE/видео.html

    • @exclusivelytay4114
      @exclusivelytay4114 2 года назад +1

      Yes I couldn’t play so many songs 😭🤣

  • @henryvaladez665
    @henryvaladez665 4 месяца назад +1

    it hurts knowing you lost a best friend through it all

  • @-retr0_rav3n57
    @-retr0_rav3n57 5 дней назад +1

    I got broken up with a day before our 9 months, we were super close and it hurt really bad. It especially hurt to know that it ended because of life, he needed time to go off to college and spend time with family so it hurts to know that he still has feelings but we can’t do anything about it. He was very open to being friends and I’m grateful for that because I don’t think I could handle losing him entirely as he is such a good person but I’m just hoping he comes back after he figures himself out. I won’t get my hopes up, he just feels like the right person and I’ve seen so many signs that lead me to that conclusion. And in that time I won’t stop myself from any opportunities but I will keep a place in my heart for him whether it gets reunited or not

  • @user-ml3is7rb9j
    @user-ml3is7rb9j 11 месяцев назад +482

    Elowen Rasmusov is a compassionate psychotherapist who has guided countless individuals through the challenging journey of a breakup, providing invaluable support along the way.

  • @Grandmasfavorit
    @Grandmasfavorit Месяц назад +3

    Four days ago my girlfriend cheated on me and then broke up with me, this has helped me a bit and made me think and I really appreciate it

    • @MenziNcube-e1f
      @MenziNcube-e1f 29 дней назад

      Wow...this happened to me a few days ago... found out my girlfriend was cheating on me ...I am still devastated but Im also appreciative because it actually helps with moving on

    • @Grandmasfavorit
      @Grandmasfavorit 29 дней назад

      @@MenziNcube-e1f I'm sorry man, you'll get through it

  • @xpr0249
    @xpr0249 5 месяцев назад +2

    I lost my first love yesterday, she was so special because she was the first person that really gave me the feeling of love and she was the first person to ever feel real love from. She went from the most important thing to kind of a stranger in a day. It feels so strange, she’s just a person now, not my girlfriend anymore. I cried like never before and I still do watching this. It hurts so much

  • @kazzeproduction7305
    @kazzeproduction7305 11 месяцев назад +1008

    Its no surprise that Elowen Rasmusov is a sought-after psychotherapist for breakup counseling. Her expertise and kindness are truly exceptional.

  • @bigananikagiso6413
    @bigananikagiso6413 2 года назад +43

    Next breakup? I just never want to get into a relationship again

    • @lindabryan6854
      @lindabryan6854 2 года назад

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    • @lindabryan6854
      @lindabryan6854 2 года назад

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    • @bigananikagiso6413
      @bigananikagiso6413 2 года назад +1

      @@lindabryan6854 like I said, I dont want a relationship

  • @michaelstephan3981
    @michaelstephan3981 3 месяца назад +1

    My girlfriend called me last night, asking to go to my room so we could talk, the second she started to cry, I knew what was coming, I told her I knew what she was gonna say and all she could come up with was I’m sorry. She told me the reason she felt like she needed to end things is because she couldn’t feel what I was feeling for her, she felt different about me everyday and everyday I felt closer and closer to her. We had so many funny moments and amazing times together I never wanna forget but must move on past her to make new ones. I have never felt such pain yet I’ve been broken up with many times before. I need to move on and to do so I feel terrible to her. I want to text her and I want to talk it out but she said that wouldn’t be an option for us. I hate thinking others go through this exact same pain everyday. Keep pushing on and I wish you all well and to find the right one for you

  • @freyathejack
    @freyathejack 4 месяца назад +3

    My wife just left me. Been together 6 years. This was the only person who truly cared about me...God I wish she'd take me back. I was an idiot, had become This toxic person lately and she is the sweetest women I've ever known - caring, loving, beautiful and all that. I'd do anything to get her back...I feel like my soul left my body - empty.

  • @tialammers9551
    @tialammers9551 Год назад +101

    I lost myself, I lost my way in understanding who I am as a person. I truly deeply felt so connected with this person. Knowing I am not alone makes the situation more easeful. Thank you for this and hopefully this pain can change into something more beautiful.

    • @DaenaMichelle
      @DaenaMichelle Год назад +2

      Let's try to change this pain into something more beautiful, as you say, I like that
      It's hard not to think "Why bother anymore" after things like this happen, really... thoughts like yours are appreciated

    • @tialammers9551
      @tialammers9551 Год назад

      @@DaenaMichelle i am glad thank you and keep loving yourself !!

    • @BitcoinLifeToday
      @BitcoinLifeToday 11 месяцев назад +1

      How are you holding up now? I lost myself too. And I have to find myself again and get trough life. I'm lucky that I have support that I can talk to. But it is still a super hard process.

    • @tialammers9551
      @tialammers9551 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@BitcoinLifeToday I am doing a lot better than I was. I’m happy that you had people to be there for you. Now I have learned a lot within myself that everything happens for a reason in life. People come and go and that’s how we learn. The pain was the hardest and it still hurts. But I make sure I surround myself with those who give me the same amount of energy I give to them. At the end of the day you are all that matters. Focus on self love and there you will flourish I hope you are doing okay! Stay strong and you got this

    • @BitcoinLifeToday
      @BitcoinLifeToday 11 месяцев назад +2

      @tialammers9551 This is a beautiful reply! I'm glad you're doing better! Keep up! You can do this, and so can everyone else. It will hurt, but we will heal enough some day!

  • @musicwithyatharth1223
    @musicwithyatharth1223 11 месяцев назад +952

    Elowen Rasmusovs dedication to her clients well-being is evident in the transformation Ive witnessed in those who sought her help after a breakup.

  • @ColinBrunnemer77
    @ColinBrunnemer77 2 месяца назад +1

    If you’re in the deepest pain of your life, and YOU’RE the one who broke up with them. I feel for you. People don’t understand. This pain is so deep…

  • @mikeoxsmal69
    @mikeoxsmal69 7 месяцев назад +2

    We both cared but we couldn't make it work, at least she loved me enough to be kind about it

  • @usmanbaloch5118
    @usmanbaloch5118 11 месяцев назад +997

    Elowen Rasmusovs ability to create a safe space for healing is remarkable. She has a gift for helping people rediscover their strength after a breakup.

  • @wrightcarl1181
    @wrightcarl1181 Год назад +107

    It's that constant wonder about whether or not they ever think about you still. Those quiet moments when you wake up in the middle of the night are the toughest. That aching sadness. I guess we'll all look on this one day and wonder what we were sad about about. Hopefully so, stay strong 💪
    - Update, it does get easier, still some darker days but not as bad. Keep strong people, time heals

    • @kairah4776
      @kairah4776 Год назад +3

      Hopefully. I need that to be true❤

    • @MrCraftkeks
      @MrCraftkeks 11 месяцев назад

      thank you

    • @alejandrozepeda1439
      @alejandrozepeda1439 9 месяцев назад

      Thank you

    • @truestrength-oz5kk
      @truestrength-oz5kk 4 месяца назад +1

      Do you.think.your ex will.ever think about you even as years go by ?.im in a new relationship and yet i sometimes get flashbacks of memories of my ex and me and i feel guilty about it

  • @aubin7785
    @aubin7785 7 месяцев назад +2

    Ive lost my first ever relationship 6 hours ago, i kinda expected it the Past months were filled with me being paranoid and fearing losing her and her stopping to care about me. It was weird she texted me back Like every 3 days but when i was with her she was so caring and loving and told me Everything that happend recently. Then i was the happiest but when i got home she Never answered texts and i feared losing her so much again. I told this to my two bestfriends and they helped me be „prepared“ for the time i was going to loose her so that now that it Happend i dont beg on my knees again to continue but can try to move on. So now i am feeling just empty i am weirdly not really sad i hope it stays that way its better than the times i cried so much because i feared i might lose her idk weird.
    The worst part about this whole thing is how she did it, in the past i made her promise that if it would ever going to end we would meet one last time and disscuse it and end it in a good way but now she just wrote me a lifeless, emotionless short text insulting me because i cried over her and telling me (exactly like that) „i am sorry and whatever“.
    she hurt me and lied to me so many tmes in the past why do i still love her i hate it. Atleast i got my friends theyre just really wonderful people i am glad to have them help me

  • @velun2533
    @velun2533 4 месяца назад +2

    I just got broken up with the first relationship ive ever had, it was 2 years of telling eachother everyday how much we love eachother and how we want to get married and have kids. What hurts most is my memories going to prom with her or her going out of her way for me and having those moments that just feel magical. She left me and said she wants to talk in a month but i told her it would be torture for me. She cried and told me she loves me and hugged me before i left. I know in a month i dont believe she would stay true and get back with me. It just hurts so much and i feel so empty without her. I gave her everything, all my firsts.

  • @iamwoody22
    @iamwoody22 Год назад +158

    Day 2 after the breakup of my 11 year relationship to my childhood sweetheart, her decision to end the relationship hit me out of the blue, i tried to save it but it felt wrong loving someone who has 'clocked out'. I feel numb and have struggled to sleep and eat. Im hoping in time i will heal, to anyone going through a similar situation i wish you all the best you will get through it. Hard life lessons always make you stronger, keep going.

    • @samanthaowens7241
      @samanthaowens7241 Год назад +9

      I'm 35 and on week 2 we were together for 11 years as well with no children then out of the blue he says he's moving out no explanation no nothing . I was in such a state of shock all last week but it didnt take long for the shock to wear off and then suddenly realize im 35 and alone now all that work wasted and thought of starting all over with some one new seem so impossible and daunting. The pain is so raw I cry myself to sleep most nights I can't eat I can't sleep only go home when I absolutely have to its so hard being there in that house some hours are better then others but right now it feels like I'll never have peace again

    • @iamwoody22
      @iamwoody22 Год назад +4

      @@samanthaowens7241 That sounds awful Samantha. The first month is very hard, your whole life has been turned upside down and like me it seems that you were blindsided.
      However, I can say now that at 3 months I feel much better, so hang in there it does get better trust me, you might not think it at this moment in time, but you'll look back and see your improvement.
      You haven't wasted time, someone, somewhere, whatever you believe in was really looking out for you, you don't need someone who cleary doesn't respect you in your life, so they removed themselves.
      I promise you, you will find peace, once you rebuild your life, and find someone (if thats what you want) you'll thank him for setting you free. The best gift is now your freedom, its up to you how you use it.
      Dont worry about your age, your still young and don't rush it, good things take time, make sure your properly healed first. Once, you can be indifferent to your ex you'll no your ready.
      Keep going your doing great.
      Dan.

    • @Ichigo-gp9vq
      @Ichigo-gp9vq Год назад +2

      Hey, is it weird that I'm feeling my life has no meaning now? She left me out of the blue this morning without telling a good reason. Last night we talked nicely, she even said she loves me and that she doesnt want me to disappear.
      I keep checking my phone every 5 minutes to see if she texted me back. She actually blocked me from all our socials and completely off contact. It's night and I absolutely cannot sleep.

    • @gabrielrivera5758
      @gabrielrivera5758 Год назад +1

      ​@@Ichigo-gp9vq its not weird but the reason is because you have made that girl your life purpose and that's where you messed up. find a new purpose and pursue that your purpose should never be a person

    • @iamwoody22
      @iamwoody22 Год назад +6

      @@Ichigo-gp9vq It's not werid at all, I felt pretty simular the first month or so. You will go into shock, i.e. out the blue, not sleeping eating etc. This is because we evolved in tight social groups and thus brekaing up with someone is like being thrown out of your tribe, you now have to survive by yourself. However, you'll likely have close friends and family so try and reconnect with them. My breakup has led to me improving my relationship with friends and family.
      Your life has plenty of meaning, like me you put your ex on a pedestal and thus she was the meaning of your life, you likely had your own purpose before you met her, so try and regain it, but it does take time. Once, you start to live your life for yourself, you'll actually thank you ex for dumping you, that may seem strange now, but sometimes its a wake up call that you need, everything else in your life will improve and in time youll be ready to meet your next partner, if thats what you want.
      I can remember the same out of the blue feeling, but again many people are very poor communicators and wont really tell you the honest truth. You in time will realise that you dont actually need a reason, judge people by their actions, and her action is that she has left you, you don't leave people you love.
      Honestly, as hard as it is, if you dont need contact i.e. you have kids, then go no contact and remove any pictures etc for your room or phone. Its very hard because you'll be craving her attention like a drug addict, but its the only way you'll get over her. Also all the stuff about her still loving you and wanting to be friends is total bullshit, I'm sorry to be harsh but women will say this just to be nice, or to keep you as a backup plan. Again I'd advisd you to go no contact, if you want to be friends in the future once your recovered, then so be it, but right now just cut her out.
      I hope this helps bud, please just give yourself some time, don't make rash decsions, as your emotions will be running high and that can led to recklessness. It really does get better, I promise you in 3 months time you'll look back and be proud of where you are. Keep going your doing great, life has some nuch in store for you.
      Dan.

  • @santjevana8279
    @santjevana8279 2 года назад +258

    "One partner loses who they are and become dependent to the other. And once that weight becomes to heavy, someone has to break."
    This is exactly what happened between us. Thank you for the wise words.❤

    • @lolitkanovel6415
      @lolitkanovel6415 Год назад

      😭

    • @santjevana8279
      @santjevana8279 Год назад +1

      Update: looking back at this relationship, It was actually very toxic and I'm glad it ended. I just didn't realize that when I was in love.

  • @veterxiph526
    @veterxiph526 Месяц назад +1

    Just as somebody said ten days ago, for me now it is true: "second break up, second time watching this"... that part caught me by surprise because you basically predicted the future when you said "I'll see you when you go through your next breakup." You were right. This is such a good, real, accurate, and self-aware video.
    Also, I noticed that you wisely avoided the often misguided male tendency to give advice to people going through hard times. Instead, you wisely just empathized with them, giving them what could be considered non-advice when your only suggestion was to "just keep swimming". Very, very good.
    Also, I like the part where you said "if you wanted cookie-cutter advice, you would've gone to your Mom, but you came to the internet instead. And the internet is like life, it just wants your money, just like a bad relationship." Brilliant. Great work.
    And you were spot on about how it feels like the world stops spinning when going through a bad breakup and losing someone you love.

  • @lisa-dj3tf
    @lisa-dj3tf 8 месяцев назад +1

    Breaking up isnt the end of life its a chance at focusing on upfrading urself and knowing your worth

  • @Nikki_1427
    @Nikki_1427 Год назад +124

    Day 6: I’m so broken inside, I can’t eat, sleep or even think! It’s almost like I’m walking around my apartment lost and afraid. I feel so hopeless. I can’t stop crying! 5 years with you and 6 days without you 😢idk what to do anymore!

    • @ChillyCholo_
      @ChillyCholo_ Год назад +11

      You wallow in the pain and choose to keep moving. That’s what I’m doing on my day 6 as well.

    • @oliviahurner1343
      @oliviahurner1343 Год назад +9

      Day 6 as well, hope you are taking it day by day and finding peace little by little, the pain will eventually disappear and then thats where all the fun begins. You are not alone, there is light at the end of the tunnel for us

    • @Nikki_1427
      @Nikki_1427 Год назад +1

      @@ChillyCholo_ thank you. I really appreciate your comment! I’m here if you need to chat!

    • @Nikki_1427
      @Nikki_1427 Год назад +1

      @@oliviahurner1343 I’m sorry you also are going through that! I’m here if you need to talk

    • @ritik2028
      @ritik2028 Год назад +5

      i chased a girl so much that i destroyed my academics in engineering now starting all over again with a new life in pursuit of becoming a pilot...i hope u get over it...take care missy ;-)

  • @gamu7690
    @gamu7690 2 года назад +59

    She broke up with me yesterday. There wasn’t a single doubt in my mind that she wasn’t the one. I was so happy and content, I never doubted her to stop loving me for a second. I feel utterly broken and alone, everything that I thought I knew has been turned upside-down. I don’t know anything. I miss her so much, and sadly enough I would take her back in a heartbeat. I feel like I’ll never stop loving her. I want to hate her because that would be so much easier, but I can’t. I love her so much. I’ve decided to write once a day to express my emotions on a page. Hope it helps. Thank you RUclips comments for being my venting dump

    • @thespiritual355
      @thespiritual355 2 года назад

      I recommend you to a great man who can help you manifest whatever you wanna manifest🥰🥰

    • @thespiritual355
      @thespiritual355 2 года назад

      He helped me bring back my ex permanently few days ago, without any delay, after six(6) years of separation🥰🥰

    • @trippydonna2400
      @trippydonna2400 Год назад +4

      Hang in there man. It’s gonna hurt and cry it all out. There’s no time limit to heal, you are only human. You’ll hurt and feel and go on. Even though it feels like your world has lost its meaning. Believe me, you are just shedding a new skin

    • @bala-tik6505
      @bala-tik6505 Год назад +3

      My boyfriend broke up with me less than a week ago and I feel the same way. I love him so much but I wish I could hate him so I could move on dreaming about finding somebody else. All I can do is think about how special it was for me. We split up in the spirit of friendship and a possible comeback in the future, so a part of me is still waiting for his distraught call to make up and try again. I hope you're doing better now.

    • @lucebastid6531
      @lucebastid6531 Год назад +2

      I know how you feel, and i hope you are better now. One thing that i have learned is that now that i love myself and i have confidence, things are less painful when i have breakups or a broken heart.It doesn't mean it does not hurt like hell sometimes, but you will heal, slowly and love might be painful, it is also a beautiful feeling :) it's not your fault and i am sure you will find a love in you, and maybe who knows, someone else soon

  • @matthewmeyers5387
    @matthewmeyers5387 6 месяцев назад +2

    I’m 16 and going through my first break up. I knew it wasn’t going to end in marriage but it still really sucks. This video helped a little, thank you

  • @HarjotSinghphotography
    @HarjotSinghphotography 6 месяцев назад +1

    Your 2nd breakup hurts a lot more than your first, because you heal after your first breakup and starts to love life again, everything looks so beautiful, the misconceptions you made about humans you made in your last breakup finally fades. And you starts to trust again and then it happens again 💔