Director Reacts - 'Lonely' (RM)
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I dedicate this song to myself because even though I’m married with 4 children, have a career and earn a pretty good living, I’m fu$&@ng lonely. You’re right. You can be surrounded with people and material stuff but still feel lonely. I’m not depressed. I’m freaking lonely.
I hear you. I feel your pain. Would you consider talking to a professional therapist? I understand the stigma. I was the first to seek help in my family's ly. Best decision I ever made. My first session I was so embarrassed. My therapist took all my stigma concerns away. She said. It's simple...talk therapy is like going to school. Except you are the Only student. You learn new things about yourself. New skills, new ideas, new choices, new anything and everything. She went on to explain. Our parents did not have the knowledge or skills or communication to teach us all we need to know on our life's journey. So. That's why this kind of schoooing is great! It's your choice. Just be open to it. Throughout my years I've made the choice to get counseling. My dad died. I went into a deep clinical depression. I found a great female doctor who diagnosed me and said you need some meds and some counseling and you'll be fine. 40 years later I'm still on meds. I found out my body doesn't make enough serotonin. And from time to time when faced with other big life challenges...I find a good therapist to talk it out. And that's what I wanted to point out. It's so important to find someone you can "click" with. And luckily, I have had the best therapists. Just keep looking until you find the right one for you. I have been alone a lot in my life. And I've had times surrounded by lots of people and felt lonely. So I get it. But now I rarely feel that. I wish the best on your life's journey. I am proud of you for sharing your truth. Continue on with that courage and bravery. Your Truth will set you free.
@@ideagirl Thank you for the advice. I’ve been told I need to talk to a professional. I tried it but it’s so darn expensive. My therapist charged $250 for 45 min session. And she wants to see me twice a week. 😳 I make a decent living but I also have a lot of bills 😩
This is so dang relatable but I’ve only two kids but spend lots of time around people but yeah feel this song so much.
@@ayy_yo6619 I understand the expense. Luckily, I had a corporate job and great insurance that paid for it. My first therapist was marvelous. I still remember life changing things she said to me. But there's hope. 3 times I had no money. I decided to back to college at age 50. I needed some therapy. Enrolled...they had free therapy for students. I had The Best therapist. Then when it was summer...not in college...At the Marraige and Family Institute department...part if the Psychology department... they had grad students getting ready to graduate. They had to have many hours with clients before they could graduate. You did not have to be a student to see them. Anyone in the community could come in for help. And best of all you paid with in reference to your income. I paid $3 a session. Everyone had a professor who was mentoring them and monitoring them. I did meet alone with the grad student. But they explained we were being filmed...the camera was hidden so no one freaked out. And I actually forgot after awhile. But the professor would meet with the grad student and watch the session to coach them what they did right or wrong. Again, I lucked out. My grad student was an A+ therapist to be. Later after being laid off from a corporate job. I got on Medicaid. My city health center had a mental health department and my medicaid paid for all my therapy. Again, I had a wonderful therapist. How about this idea? Do you go to church? Maybe they could refer you to someone there on staff who is qualified or a church member who is qualified and licensed that would do it for free. Or ask a friend to pay for it. Or there are new great online therapists who do Zoom sessions. Some of them will do it at reduced rates. I just know...somewhere out there...someone can help you and can help you. I will pray for you. I will pray for your miracle angel to come find you and help you. One time when I was down and out and very lonely, but not depressed I shouted to God...I am lonely...I need a friend. (My best friend and other friends dropped me at the apartments where I lived because I reported they were smoking on the property. It was a NO smoking property and I moved there specifically because I have asthma and get migraines from smoke.) Anyway, about an hour after that a got a knock at my door. Two ladies were there and said...we are going to a new church in the area and we wanted to invite you to church. And we wanted to know if you needed any prayers. I asked for the prayer. I never went to their church, but I befriended one if the ladies and she talked with me. Prayed with me and became a good friend! I am NOT kidding. Someone,a atranger, knocked at my front door and we became friends. And I wasn't lonely or sad anymore. And I made friends with others at the Apts after that. One of my good friends was 80 years old! So you never know. I can be your friend. But I don't have any other social media. But I could if you need me. Or somehow we could email. Let me know how I can help.
@@ayy_yo6619 can we message on discord? I haven't been on discord in awhile. Are their private dm's available? I would have to learn how. Let me know.
This whole album but this song in particular hits so strong. Wise words on this.
i feel this song!! namjoon, you are amazing! 💜
Love to hear your thoughts, Captain, as always. Thanks for all you do to keep the loneliness at bay for so many of us during this journey of life. I hope you also know and sense that we are here for you! 💜
"My entire identity was being homesick, lonely..... I needed to put my brain and my heart into smth positive. I needed to feel like I was connected with someone. Even though thar relationship wasn't real, I needed it to survive" - those words SPOKE to me.
My most beloved song from the album ❤
This feels like a dreamy song. Joonie won our hearts by baring his own. 💜✨✨
This is one of my favorite songs on the album...
This song also just struck me so much and I feel Joonie's loneliness resonating to my own feelings too..
I'm pretty sure the guys date, but just can't tell anyone because of the stalker fans. Or at least have little flings. I hope that once they're done with military service, they can have real serious relationships...
One of my favs from Indigo!!!! Love it love ir. Amazing reaction Roscoe!
Thank you for sharing ur story and Great Reaction 💜🦋💜
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My song ㅠㅡㅠ
Edit : 🤡 I just did it again, just realised I paused and said that only to look at the screen and see me at the bottom of the chat saying lonely is my song. 🤡
Edit 2 : Wouldn't be surprised if you were completely right about backing music feeling fuller in the daydream but not at the end, it makes complete sense.
RM is not married and never has been. BTS worked 360 days out of the year. I believe them when they say they didn't have time to date. And ...very important...per their contract they could not date. I do hope now that they are on a break and have freedom RM will date. But in past interviews they all have said at what age they wanted to marry. They all mentioned a year after the completion of their military service. They all have known they had to put their life on hold for BTS and then military service. It's a choice they made. So I believe RM when he says he's lonely. He is so desperately lonely. He can't wait until he can date freely. But here is the deal. They all had first loves. But they have not dated or even had female friends for over 10 years. They will have to practice dating. They will even have to learn how to have females as friends. Rushing into a marriage would not be smart. They have no life experiences or life skills to even be in a relationship. Will they learn? Of course. RM is ready now. He doesn't want to be lonely. In fact, he already wants to have a family. Roscoe doesn't know that RM already bought his first child their first pair of shoes. But we know. The shoes are so very cute. RM proudly displays them in his office. RM's lyrics are unsettling and heartfelt. We do know what you've been through. What you have suffered. The pain and torture. We so wish you a loving companion so you don't have to be alone or lonely any more. We know you won't be lonely all your life. Special prayers for you as you continue on your life's journey. God will answer your prayer.
he's almost 30 and he has never date anyone for 10 years in BTS. Yes. 100% true ... proven by me.
btw we have no information about what is written in their contracts, especially the details about "no dating". Stop spreading rumors
p.s. english is not my language, sorry for possible mistakes
Please, of course he dated somebody, is so clear in the lyrics. He is a 30 years old man, do you really think he hasn't dated for more than 10 years? Come on
bruh, you really think a handome famous millionaire whos wanted by millions of women globally has not dated for over a decade? Really? No matter how hard people work you do realize that successful men always find a way to date right?
You could be right. Question? So which one of those few days off did he date?
Louise. It's none of my business. You are right. However, they signed iron clad contracts. It's just my opinion. I don't know anything. But it seems to me RM the leader would not do anything against the rules. He would want to set a good example. Know this. In my heart of hearts I hope I'm wrong. I hope they all had relationships. I hope they all had outside friends. I hope they dated. I hope they fell in love. I do wish they've had a secret hidden life. But my gut tells me they didn't. From what they've said. Out of their own mouths. Any kpop member has been kicked out of their group for breaking the strict rules. So. Again. Understand. I hope they got to be human. I really do. And I'm a curious person. I hope someday they tell us. So really. I'm on your side.