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@@Lenastar23 yeah, I looked it up. Suppose I shouldn't have bothered you about it. I'm a INFJ man and it's like being a cursed gem lol. I definitely wanna learn more about the enneagram
I’m getting more and more accustomed to the “loner” aspect of it as I do realize that….for a lot of people, I simply don’t resonate with them or vibe with their character enough to open up fully and be the light that I am..and then there are the people that experience light but take it for granted 🤷🏾♀️ so there’s that.
I create happy places in my head where I can recreate events or problems in my life and can add people and places and then try to figure out how I can solve something.
OMG! So true! All of it. I always said they broke the mold when they made me . Learning about my personality type truly was epic. It still gets old when I'm told I'm strange and who remembers the things you do? You're not normal. I love when people come back to me and say I should've listened to you. I just live my life day by day after I look at every possible outcome of said day😂
I have had all of these experiences. At age 55 I embraced my intuitions and visions and unique creativity to pursue my epic novel and epic tv series which has been life changing and will be world changing
Wow I used to try to explain what it feels like for me telling those close to me that it feels like I have no skin. I have panic attacks in loud noisy restaurants as the cacophony of minds drowns me. It feels like a thousand cuts!
People seems to tend to mostly ignore my advice and then when they come to me later on again I tell them because I am annoyed at them "I told you so" simply because I am a bit angry at them. I need to stop doing this.
Most of the time, when people "ask for advice", what they are looking for is someone who will agree with their conclusions and desires, so that if it goes wrong, they have someone to blame.
Ever since I was wee little girl I could only handle a certain amount of stimuli....when I would reach my limit I would retreat to a more quite environment....like my room, with the door shut....lol.
I get overstimulated in groups and just need calm and I feel like I need to grow with these personality traits and learn to become more fearless with some- thank you for pointing them out for me
I'm reluctant to give advice twice, if someone turns around and asks someone else, then follows that person's advice. But I get a bit of satisfaction out of seeing my prediction as being correct. That gives me validation, not because someone was wrong.
The worst part of it for me is that my family doesn’t like it when I give advice on anything as I’m being a “know it all” which I never have that attitude when offering advice, so I have to sit there when I know something bad is gonna happen and just watch it unfold
⚖️ : in all fairness; certain humans seek out knowledgeable minds to gain valuable information, but not seeking friendship. It's best for the I N F J to remain alone.
Was odd in my Psychology class and said, "looks like I'm INFJ" and professor came to me to look at results. He wanted my interview and I felt famous. Didn't know then, but it was because infj are rare and he was still getting PHD. He wanted to talk
That's about right. When you don't want to be an INFJ it's a good sign you more than likely are one. Tuff lessons in life find their way to you to experience and overcome to help others. I never wanted to deal with this in the first place. Before you know it, it's time to recharge the batteries. People get to be an energy taxing source.
These presentations are useful. Took many years for me to learn, understand, and utilize the power of my intuitions. Weren't a lot of guides out there to help sort this out. Not many people grasp the challenge of accepting as 'real' what feels like an unconscious, mysterious, and almost illogical process. Even I would sometimes wonder how the heck I came to know things. (Also, doesn't help when you're young and get feedback like - "oh, that sounds weird".)
I always thought there was something wrong with me. A comment about me being "intense" from a colleague who didn't seem to like me for this took me by surprise. You mean, there are people who didn't like you even when you didn't offend them?? But now I know. They do them, I do me. And oh yes, I love eating alone.
Leaning more that this is me , when you said justice I knew it was. I'm an Empath already/H.S.P. I always felt strange I'm 57 now and only found out at 51 how emotionally abused from my alcoholic Borderline mother I was. I didn't even know what a Narc was ,Empath H.S.P. and only in the last month learning about i.n.s.j. a stranger asked me if I was one. I'm an introvert and have 2 friends had to lose the rest when I found it was all of them fucking up my peace.
dont know if I am an INFJ, but suspect that I may be. I know that I am an introvert and that I am more sensitive than most people. I've alwys felt like an outsider and that for some reason that I just didnt fit it, that I was NOT accepted. I've noticed that in almost every job I've had that they did NOT like me when I first started working there, but did not want me to leave when I quit and found another job. That, I put up with a lot of garbage, but when I reach my limit and make a decision, NOTHING will change my mind. It's like, it's too late now to say you're sorry. I'm done, I'm finished. I used to try and be a people pleaser, hoping people would like me. But, eventually discovered that that doesnt work and stopped trying. Decided to be myself and they can take it or leave it. In my high school year book, several people wrote, you're strange. or you're weird, or you're different than most people. And, I had a frriend who told me many years ago that my biggest problem is that I think too much, over analyze everything. His mother told me that people would allways take advantage of me because I think with my heart and not my head. Sadly, that was pretty much true and has turned me into an angry bitter person.
From your description you might me an INFJ or INFP. Or even something else. As an INFJ you would be interested in things applying to all humans especially things like death and the origin of human. You could imagine yourself being an author, but your poetry would always naturally float to these topics. As INFP you could also be an author but rather expressing a variety of human conditions. You could find a test online, just don’t go to the very generic one.
As a teen I was able to do the things that my friends were unable to. So they always came to me with issues. As a college student i was able to avoid certain ppl, and situations that other students couldn't see. Yes you get frustrated with ppl fail to take your advice. I'm an adult who isolated myself from ppl to study the bible for hours. Now I'm a INFJ on steroids. I truly believe INFJ are chosen above all others. And THIS makes INFJ so mysterious to all ppl; even science is curious about them.
I get that. A lot of the Myers Briggs nonsense actually resonates with me in a really extreme way, which I associate with having done about 8 years in solitary confinement before I was 23
I've had that happen to me before as well. My boss asked my opinion on something and I layed it all out (to the best of my ability). To which he didn't believe it and chose to overcompensate (were not really supposed to do that. Try to get as close as possible). With the end of the night with 7 times the product needed so it was all wasted, and proceeded to blame me since "I'm in charge of making it". Idk... it was just funny because my prediction was accurate to the dot.
No one asks advice most people think they already know everything. Love the role people do not want to h 👂 it . Seems like the woman get to give advice not the male 👁 NFJ’s
It be neat if it turned into a West Side Story dance and song at the grocery store. Though I don't want to get beat up by those fuck%ng gang members....Apologize for punctuation, Josh
it's your fault if you're getting upset because you had expectations that you didn't communicate before giving people advice. obviously nobody reasonable would agree to accept advice under the condition that the advice must be taken. If you are frustrated you need to refine your ability to communicate and do some internal work to stop making those types of assumptions. People are receptive to genuine advice. If you're only giving advice because you want them to do things your way, people will naturally resist that. If you actually cared to help them, sometimes people need to be guided to realizations in a healthy way that isn't you pretending to be a therapist when you don't fully understand yourself to begin with yet. That's a requirement before you're able to effectively help others, otherwise you're actually hurting people by encouraging them to incorporate possibly incorrect ideas into their beliefs
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The first time I heard the description of infj I was completely taken aback. I always thought that there was something wrong with me
if you havent gotten into enneagram yet, please do. its another level
@@Lenastar23 what is that?
@@YungCrackaJack its a different typing method than MBTI or Big 5- it can piggy back on MBTI for example I am INFJ but enneagram 4w5
@@Lenastar23 yeah, I looked it up. Suppose I shouldn't have bothered you about it. I'm a INFJ man and it's like being a cursed gem lol. I definitely wanna learn more about the enneagram
The same here
I’m getting more and more accustomed to the “loner” aspect of it as I do realize that….for a lot of people, I simply don’t resonate with them or vibe with their character enough to open up fully and be the light that I am..and then there are the people that experience light but take it for granted 🤷🏾♀️ so there’s that.
Friend: do you have plans this weekend?
Me: yes... watch anime, chill, eat, and stay at home.
Soooooo misunderstood. But love being an infj jfor sure!! I can entertain myself in my head for hours 👍 lol
I create happy places in my head where I can recreate events or problems in my life and can add people and places and then try to figure out how I can solve something.
Me too
This is the realist sentence out of the whole of the comment section.
OMG! So true! All of it. I always said they broke the mold when they made me . Learning about my personality type truly was epic. It still gets old when I'm told I'm strange and who remembers the things you do? You're not normal. I love when people come back to me and say I should've listened to you. I just live my life day by day after I look at every possible outcome of said day😂
I have had all of these experiences. At age 55 I embraced my intuitions and visions and unique creativity to pursue my epic novel and epic tv series which has been life changing and will be world changing
Wow I used to try to explain what it feels like for me telling those close to me that it feels like I have no skin. I have panic attacks in loud noisy restaurants as the cacophony of minds drowns me. It feels like a thousand cuts!
Being hyper sensitive and an INFJ, I know exactly what that feels like. Crowded spaces? No thanks.
@@woodruffmd I feel you🙏🙏
Well I'm 66 years old and well there are so many experiences over my lifetime for one thing the school system did like my living in my own head.
People seems to tend to mostly ignore my advice and then when they come to me later on again I tell them because I am annoyed at them "I told you so" simply because I am a bit angry at them. I need to stop doing this.
Most of the time, when people "ask for advice", what they are looking for is someone who will agree with their conclusions and desires, so that if it goes wrong, they have someone to blame.
Ever since I was wee little girl I could only handle a certain amount of stimuli....when I would reach my limit I would retreat to a more quite environment....like my room, with the door shut....lol.
Friends group, nah..more like inner circle of maybe who I'm around most.
@rhinoculousaurus that's true! Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and for leaving a comment 👍🏻🙂
Wow I'm impressed with just how accurate this really is.
I get overstimulated in groups and just need calm and I feel like I need to grow with these personality traits and learn to become more fearless with some- thank you for pointing them out for me
I'm reluctant to give advice twice, if someone turns around and asks someone else, then follows that person's advice. But I get a bit of satisfaction out of seeing my prediction as being correct. That gives me validation, not because someone was wrong.
The worst part of it for me is that my family doesn’t like it when I give advice on anything as I’m being a “know it all” which I never have that attitude when offering advice, so I have to sit there when I know something bad is gonna happen and just watch it unfold
Definitely infj my whole life. Rather stay home then go out. Rather be alone most of the time. Not keen in social environment.
Oh yeah! Can relate to this.
⚖️ : in all fairness; certain humans seek
out knowledgeable minds to gain
valuable information, but not
seeking friendship. It's best for the
I N F J to remain alone.
Ab"soul"utely spot on in regards to all of the above
Was odd in my Psychology class and said, "looks like I'm INFJ" and professor came to me to look at results. He wanted my interview and I felt famous. Didn't know then, but it was because infj are rare and he was still getting PHD. He wanted to talk
Whenever I ignore my intuition, it’s right. But whenever I listen to it, it’s wrong. I’m meant to be INFJ 😖
It’s sort of the same with me except, when it’s directed towards other people it’s freakishly almost always right, but on my own life it never works 😂
That's about right. When you don't want to be an INFJ it's a good sign you more than likely are one. Tuff lessons in life find their way to you to experience and overcome to help others. I never wanted to deal with this in the first place. Before you know it, it's time to recharge the batteries. People get to be an energy taxing source.
These presentations are useful. Took many years for me to learn, understand, and utilize the power of my intuitions. Weren't a lot of guides out there to help sort this out. Not many people grasp the challenge of accepting as 'real' what feels like an unconscious, mysterious, and almost illogical process. Even I would sometimes wonder how the heck I came to know things. (Also, doesn't help when you're young and get feedback like - "oh, that sounds weird".)
As a Therapist I’ve gotton every job I’ve applied for. #8
I always thought there was something wrong with me. A comment about me being "intense" from a colleague who didn't seem to like me for this took me by surprise. You mean, there are people who didn't like you even when you didn't offend them?? But now I know. They do them, I do me. And oh yes, I love eating alone.
Quoted a conversation my ex had with her mother, i hadn't been around to hear, back to her.
Leaning more that this is me , when you said justice I knew it was. I'm an Empath already/H.S.P. I always felt strange I'm 57 now and only found out at 51 how emotionally abused from my alcoholic Borderline mother I was. I didn't even know what a Narc was ,Empath H.S.P. and only in the last month learning about i.n.s.j. a stranger asked me if I was one. I'm an introvert and have 2 friends had to lose the rest when I found it was all of them fucking up my peace.
dont know if I am an INFJ, but suspect that I may be. I know that I am an introvert and that I am more sensitive than most people. I've alwys felt like an outsider and that for some reason that I just didnt fit it, that I was NOT accepted. I've noticed that in almost every job I've had that they did NOT like me when I first started working there, but did not want me to leave when I quit and found another job. That, I put up with a lot of garbage, but when I reach my limit and make a decision, NOTHING will change my mind. It's like, it's too late now to say you're sorry. I'm done, I'm finished. I used to try and be a people pleaser, hoping people would like me. But, eventually discovered that that doesnt work and stopped trying. Decided to be myself and they can take it or leave it. In my high school year book, several people wrote, you're strange. or you're weird, or you're different than most people. And, I had a frriend who told me many years ago that my biggest problem is that I think too much, over analyze everything. His mother told me that people would allways take advantage of me because I think with my heart and not my head. Sadly, that was pretty much true and has turned me into an angry bitter person.
From your description you might me an INFJ or INFP. Or even something else. As an INFJ you would be interested in things applying to all humans especially things like death and the origin of human. You could imagine yourself being an author, but your poetry would always naturally float to these topics. As INFP you could also be an author but rather expressing a variety of human conditions. You could find a test online, just don’t go to the very generic one.
Yes I am more sensitive, more roots equals more fruits.
Yes I am aninfj I have never fit in anywhere it is like I am in a world of my own
Spot on for me! Thank you!
As a teen I was able to do the things that my friends were unable to. So they always came to me with issues.
As a college student i was able to avoid certain ppl, and situations that other students couldn't see. Yes you get frustrated with ppl fail to take your advice.
I'm an adult who isolated myself from ppl to study the bible for hours. Now I'm a INFJ on steroids.
I truly believe INFJ are chosen above all others. And THIS makes INFJ so mysterious to all ppl; even science is curious about them.
I get that. A lot of the Myers Briggs nonsense actually resonates with me in a really extreme way, which I associate with having done about 8 years in solitary confinement before I was 23
Loneliness & Miss-Understanding Are Nw Soo Familiar/Comfortable😊 For Me...
I've had my counsel be ignored then the person comes back and blames me for things happening like I said it would. They accused me of causing it.
I've had that happen to me before as well. My boss asked my opinion on something and I layed it all out (to the best of my ability). To which he didn't believe it and chose to overcompensate (were not really supposed to do that. Try to get as close as possible). With the end of the night with 7 times the product needed so it was all wasted, and proceeded to blame me since "I'm in charge of making it". Idk... it was just funny because my prediction was accurate to the dot.
Yes so true I don’t give advice anymore people like that only wanted you too agree with them. People preject it’s a no win situation
Thank you, so much, for this video!!!!
Lol - I have definitely said “I told you so,” a few too many times, but literally that’s when people learn to hear me out.
Haha, I don't like saying I told you so though, I tend to give a sly smile 🙂
@@pappajoe487 I shout it from the rooftops! LOL (Probably my Sag-cusp Cap rising playing into this aspect of my personality)
@@GarrickPinon it just happens so much, I get tired of saying it hahaha
Thank you 🙏
This is the best description that I have ever seen. Thank you.
100% accurate 😁
@Jackie Kay Thank you so much! I really appreciate you taking the time to watch and for leaving a comment 🙂👍🏻
@@SuccessForBreakfast - Credit where credit is due. This was spot on, thanks 😊
@Jackie Kay you're very welcome 🙌🏻😁
If this is accurate, I’m sooooo INFJ…
No one asks advice most people think they already know everything. Love the role people do not want to h 👂 it . Seems like the woman get to give advice not the male 👁 NFJ’s
It be neat if it turned into a West Side Story dance and song at the grocery store. Though I don't want to get beat up by those fuck%ng gang members....Apologize for punctuation, Josh
May I talk about a few things? From our standpoint?
it's your fault if you're getting upset because you had expectations that you didn't communicate before giving people advice. obviously nobody reasonable would agree to accept advice under the condition that the advice must be taken. If you are frustrated you need to refine your ability to communicate and do some internal work to stop making those types of assumptions. People are receptive to genuine advice. If you're only giving advice because you want them to do things your way, people will naturally resist that. If you actually cared to help them, sometimes people need to be guided to realizations in a healthy way that isn't you pretending to be a therapist when you don't fully understand yourself to begin with yet. That's a requirement before you're able to effectively help others, otherwise you're actually hurting people by encouraging them to incorporate possibly incorrect ideas into their beliefs
you ask we did it🤣🤣🤣
Here’s a question for all those that believe that they are a true INFJ: “What does a TRUE INFJ think about Elon Musk?”
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