Yes! me too, sis Lee Hokaj!! I thought I'm too slow to notice, but thank God for your sharing! I am not crazy! And I'm not alone either! Thank You, JESUS!! God bless you!
When he said shape shift I screamed! That's what I've experienced. I call them chameleons. They wear costumes, they lie, they switch it up, deflect. It's a nightmare trying to have a civil conversation with these demons.
April Mack yes they do sis. They say the craziest things. One of the first pastors I met with a Jezebel spirit, mentioned to me, after telling him God was moving me out of the church and he finding out that I had been to three churches in 18 months(all on assignment from God 1 King 18:12) "that I n the Holy Spirit were schizophrenic" jumping from church to church!!" My heart hurt n I felt a stirring going on inside my stomach and up it came out rebuking him. This pastor is 6'3" and I'm 5'6" so it looked funny me rebuking him but he immediately sat on a nearby chair and his lips scrounged up and his eyes kept shifting back n forth. I was a babe in my prophetic walk n didn't realize that Holy Spirit had bound that spirit up for coming against it. I wish I had commanded it to come out. That pastor won't have anything to do with me. Definitely a learning experience
April Mack so scary .. with Asbergers females at least .. it gets confused but they are sensitive and hate hurting people .. I keep looking inside me and observing Narcissist ways that I didn't see . Aspi people can definitely be Narcissistic but much of the social issue I have is that I come off weird more so I'm almost cleared there .. I stay alone alot now , I don't want to represent this Narcissist behavior .. I take Methylfolate 😍.. GUESS WHAT . it helped us my husband and I with autism and it's still waking the brain to reality. We fought to find wellness . My daughter beat us up and yes she had it . I did and repented .. it took me feeling deep rejection over and over and I came Against many for about 5 mos .. different alter eagos . Gosh it was demons just wanting me to be in affective in every step I take .as I've walked away from family to wellness because in my core I knew I was off not ok but my spirit was determined to find my voice and tell on myself and reach In and face the music .. it'll hurt you bad to see it . But then you can address it , our parents that ignored us 🤔..she did me a favour leaving me by myself because I didn't watch her behavior like my sisters. My sisters are very stuck .very much they manifest on a regular basis . I pray Methylfolate can help everyone ..
Just subscribed. I love this. I've been battling this spirit everywhere. Work, home, friends and family. This is God letting me know there's deliverance because I asked him for it. I am convinced in my heart ❤️ that if you ask the Lord for something that lines up with what his plan and purpose is he will help you. I bind up the spirit of Jezebel working in my life and through people in my life in the mighty name of Jesus. But the Bible says my people are destroyed because of lack of knowledge. Thank Apostle for the knowledge. Amen 🙏🏾❤️
Every bit of this is truth. Had this last night. Sometimes You forget how bondage feels when you are free. The levels you have to go in your mind to deal w/them is unreal. You are literally physically tired when it’s over. It’s so unnecessary. God, i thank you for true peace. It is PRICELESS!!
God bless you but that sounds like a cop-out. I am dealing with it now and it is a spirit it is not the person I married it is a spirit that manipulates her or him and the people who will side as they will speak to anyone who will give them an ear to speak to. When I stood before the Lord and said for better or Worse richer poorer till death do us part there was not a clause or a condition that said except if they develop a jezebel or a controlling spirit. With God all things are possible and Jesus said except for adultery you should not divorce and even then he said Moses gave you a certificate of divorce because your hearts were hard if my wife committed adultery and was repentant I would take her back because God has forgiven us of playing the Harlot the infidel the adulterer to him so many times and so many ways that who are we not to forgive. Now you cannot forgive if there is no repentance but they literally have to leave you or the Bible commands that you stay with them and by your light shining they and your children become sanctified. Don't argue with me I'm just the newspaper boy who has tried to be the best Berean I study the word to show myself approved of God a Workman rightly dividing the word of Truth for 35 years so I take his word very seriously and would never abandon my spouse except far physical abuse because that is against the law............... PERIOD!
No matter how often I listen to these teachings, I always learn something. Your and Dixie's teachings are always so on point and they have helped me greatly over ths years. Thank you! God bless you. ❤
I thank God I ran across your videos. My God I have been married to a narcissist wife for 20 years and everything you've been saying fits 100 percent my situation. I am a minister with a prophetic ministry and I know that this relationship has affected my mental health. The grace of God has covered me and kept me sane. I feel like I have awakened out of a 20 year coma. I now know exactly what I'm dealing with and how to deal with it. Thank you so much man of God for your courage and wisdom to share this information
Wow❗Thank you ; I know what i have to do now that im overwhealmed & exhausted physically and emotionally ,I wish I had known how to deal with this many yrs ago. This subject of narccissism reminds me of a psychotic killer only they dont kill their victims they just continue to torture them , untill you finally realize they are your enemy
They also can be in a conversation and act ok about whatever it is and then later they shape shift and are angry about something that was said and you are left blind sided.
This is spot on! I eventually became ill with very elevated blood pressure from dealing with the narc's drama, accusations and circular conversations. And he thought I would marry him after dealing with it so many times.
This is a great teaching I have a wife that struggles with the Jezebel Spirit and it is so difficult to live with she continually twists all of our conversations and tries to always make me feel guilty and overtime you feel like a child even though you are a full-grown man taking care of the family and supporting the family I pray for deliverance for not only myself but everybody else that is struggling with a spouse that has this Jezebel Spirit
Thankful thank you my friend I have come to the realization that that is what I need to do she is just always angry and always negative for a while I forgot my light in this world thank you for responding have you been through a break up
I could write my own book. My mom is everything you are talking about and I’m 62 and she has brought torment to me my entire life! She is in stage 4 cancer and is meaner, and more controlling than ever! When you said they have a laundry list ....ha!!! Yes!!! I went to lunch with her, she’s in a wheel chair, the cancer has brought her to a 80 lb weight loss, you would think the conversation would be loving, kind, and thoughtful at this stage of life. To my shock, she went back 45 years out of nowhere she says “I know God says not to bring up the past”. And then she went on to bring up her version of something I did that disgusted her and followed it up by saying, “and I was not proud of you!” I felt my face turn red. I felt instant shame, embarrassment as she and her husband sat glaring at me on the other side of the table. I’ve spent my life trying to win her love and approval. “Honor your mother and father” but I have not seen her since. That was almost a year ago. That was it for me! I am now saving myself. Because she herself is a CANCER! I can’t take one more second. It was my breaking point and I can’t look at the evil, hidden behind her or hear “I’m so favored by God” comments again. That is not GOD! That is pure evil! Thank you for helping me to gain my sanity back and stay away! I’m sorry it has to be this way. I always imagined I would be with her during her last stage of life. But she has not once called and apologized for the words spoken at that lunch. In 11 months she has not even text me and asked ... why are you not speaking to me? Did I hurt you somehow? Not a word! that followed by 61 years prior of hate and distain for me. I’ve never been given an apology in my lifetime. So what am I losing? I’m gaining peace of mind and freedom! The sickest part of the entire thing is how she believes she is the closest thing to God and uses faith as a weapon. If you confront her, well your just a tool from the devil. She will not repent. I can’t do another second if it. You help us understand this sick cycle many of us have been stuck in. Let’s get off the narc hamster wheel and Run for your life people. 😂
I believe when people become Narcissists it's a series beforehand of rejecting God and finally God hands them over to their reprobate minds. That's why the only way they can ever change is the power of God but unfortunately many refuse to humble themselves like Saul.
Good point. However, the narcissist put in our lives is no accident. I've concluded at the very least I've been chastised by God for my sins by narcissist. Even though I was equipped with certain attributes like empathy, remorse , fully aware of right and wrong etc I still sinned. That left the door open for spirits like narcissism. Excuse my grammar, but its quite an ass whipping. Especially when you know better.
You truely understand the caricature's of these narcissistic Jezebel's. Your describing my adult daughter, that I finally had to put a strong boundry from her. She's been very abusive to me for years!! I still pray for her.🙏
Is it common for narcs when engaging in conversation to constantly speak negatively of other people. I try to steer the conversation to a positive level and then they get annoyed if I don’t side with them in their devaluing of others. Can they ever talk about anything other than putting people down?
Marie Gibbons I’ve experienced this, I’ve noticed when they feel out of control of something they will speak negatively about brothers and sisters to brothers and sisters. And if it isn’t that, a common is flattery. The Holy Spirit discernment will reveal to you.
My Goodness this is my mama. Pray for me people please. Every thing you said in this video is what I have to go through with my mom. You can't tell my mom that she is wrong, she will curse you and many family members were effected by it including me mamy times. One time when I was a kid my mom was fighting with my dad over money blaming my dad that he took it, she forced him to swear on my hands. Three days later I broke my arm in three places and the elbow was badly damaged. Doctors almost cut it off. But it got saved thank God. One time my sister took my dad side cuz he was right, I heard my mom cursing my sister for her husband to beat the crap out of her, a week later my sister got into big fight with her husband and he did beat her so bad that he almost killed her. Thank you for this video it is an eye opener I was prying fiew days ago for an answer how I can help my mom cuz what ever she is doing is not right. If she wants you to hate someone well you better do it or she will be sending everything bad that she Can, and when it happens she loves to come to the rescue. Thank you again for this info my prayer is answered. Lots of love and God Bless you.
Lee Rdee - Thats a really helpful and valuable observation you made there! Thank you! And you are right about it. The advantage of that tactic seems to be that it's immediately you who has to explain or answer or defend yourself and that puts you on the back-foot right away...
So true. Every casual conversation can turn into a discussion real quick. And all discussions/ argues have lose ends. Those lose ends are taking a lot of space up in your mind. It builds up, like it's stuck up there untill it's solved. But it won't. And then there comes a new discussion before you know it. Nothing can be solved with those people.
I unfortunately have a daughter who fits this pattern of behavior but she also has MS and is living back home and has nowhere to go. Her children have just started talking to her again ☹️. But this video has given me new insight and let me know I’m not alone... Thank you for sharing this!
I've really been enjoying your videos. This video is awesome. I'm currently dealing with a Jezebel mother. I was just telling my wife today that I'm done playing defense. Time for offense now. Thank you
Thank you for fighting this fight! I cannot tell you how this has impacted me. This spirit has had an influence over my whole life and if feel like I have reached the end of it. Bless you for taking this stand.
The problem I've had was it was used to enter into or engage me in something to gain more information that really had nothing to do with "how're you doing" and then the information I gave was used to their own advantage.
Oh WOW! I have been going through this recently with a friend who has been ministering to me for several years on FB. She was not like this in the beginning, or maybe I was just ignorant until now, as I have only recently in the past couple of weeks been studying about all this! She has been getting extreme in her response if I attempt to ask any questions in private conversation without her accusing me and twisting it all around. She has been making me feel like its all me just accusing me of, then the confusion and doubt sets in! It's almost like she sets me up... She knows the Word of God so well and seems to have it in her heart. She has been accusing others of being self-righteous, narcissistic people, that have hardened their hearts toward her. I just stumbled upon this vid tonite! I am just trying to step back gently and praying for her and this whole situation. Thank you!
I lost confidence in myself to hear from the Lord..these people are evil..I need this book how do we get it? This is what's happened to me..I have serious health issues. ..prayers
They can create a conflict even in subjects you both agree on! There will be a huge problem out of nowhere over the smallest things....Not solvable with huge efforts in decades!
i've walked away from the toxic people. Please keep me in prayer... my Narc daughter is keeping my grand daughter (6 yrs) from me. My grand daughter and I have a very close relationship. I haven't seen her since January...my daughter has moved and I don't know where (she has been associating with her father). My daughter is 28 yrs. I raised her in a christian home! The last time I talked to her on the phone (January) I mentioned the bible. she said she "Don't give a D___ about the bible." My ex narc husband has always tried to separate us. I am saved and he is not. I am just so heart broken over my grand daughter. I would take her to church. she would stay on some weekends. I made sure our conversations were about Jesus. ...But my daughter put an abrupt stop to that. I heard from another family member that my daughter told my grand baby that I WAS ON PUNISHMENT. !!! so my daughter cares less about me but why would you tell that to a 6 yr old. I pray that we are reunited soon....I don't want time to pass
I strong-armed the Jezebel I know by being like Cyrus and holding fast and furious to my rights as a child of God and refusing to yield to her games until she was shoved out the window, not literally lol but metaphorically. In the end she had a complete psychotic break and now she's extremely sick and weak. I don't wish bad health on anyone but the years of rage caught up with her and the final blow was when I quit playing the games and others in my family followed my lead and she HATED me because she lost all control. She even had a tantrum and said "I cant compete with Jesus!!" Because everyone was ignoring her tricks and praising Jesus in spite of her. For a person to say that you know they are possessed with Jezebel.
But do they know what they are doing.. because sometimes they seem to not even realise what they do. Like family. And I see them trigger people, but some seem like they dont know what they cause. I also saw people who seemed to enjoy the hurting. Some like family members seem to love you, but like you say conversations seem so toxic. I just ask myself do they hate me or love me or both. :/
Wow...you are right on! I have gotten migraines just approaching the area "he" is in...and having any conversation...is quite impossible. Thank you for your time and insight!
These types can scream words. Even scream merry Christmas. The anger just keeps elevating for some reason. Even though they live a gravy train lifestyle.
So controlling! It took my daughter 5 years to get away from her boyfriend/husband married for 2 months the judge annulled it as she was heavily brain washed. Everything you are saying here is so true! Many many times she was left at stores humiliated, she couldn’t go anywhere with him without a scene he had to have complete control☹️ What I am wondering is how long about does it take for a narcissist to quit stalking, it’s been 2 years now and shes about to get married and he’s still stalking her and now her fiancé too. We all have restraining orders against him, Is this normal? She is spirit filled and doing awesome, great to have my daughter back! Thank you Jesus!!
I think my husband may have this narcissist spirit of Jezebel. Is it possible for them to be delivered or healed, or is this a hopeless relationship? He is a believer, but I don't think he had ever considered that he may have a personality disorder. How do I get delivered from whatever is wrong with me that I let him into my life? I know that Christ lives in me and I have authotity over sstan.
ok, the funny thing- when i met my narc, i couldn’t member his face surely. So i had to draw it, so it ll be imprinted in my head more firmly. HIS FACE IS ALL THE TIME DIFFERENT
This video made me cry. The pain doesn't come out in words for me like you did here. Thank you for helping me communicate and understand more of the nightmare.
True again. He is the best person in the world.... i am a host of nasty names plus. Yes. Physically the stress of it constantly is actually killing me physically.
Ah!! 30 years into that life....”the ride to church in hell !” Doors locked, on the highway, trapped with the man with the list to discuss !!!!! I avoided conversations at home so the plan was ...she is trapped in the car ...pounce !!! I can chuckle now because I am free !!!
Yes, if I were to treat her as an idol or as all knowledgeable like how she acts or perceives herself to be. There would be no more conflict. But never get to the root of the problem. She never, NEVER, does anything wrong. I feel the game in these conversations. Its exhausting and started to affect me physically.
Brilliant. I identified, understood and explained this for 30 years thinking it was an intelligence issue. Recently I learned about the Jezebel spirit. It's not about a person just needing your help to grow.
What if you and your spouse are both effected by the jezebel spirit ? It's like it's jumping from one person to the other. You can't just away from each other like that. What to do then?
What you teach is real. I was married to a narcissistic Jezebel for 25yrs. I wrote a book about it. "Fire in the Rain" by Wanda Perry. Knowledge is power. Keep doing what God has called you to do and be blessed.
I have heard these conversations called 'word salad' I got so so tired of these conversations with my ex I stopped talking, which provided my ex MIL narc fuel to accuse me.
God bless you, teacher-Robert! As April Mack commenting down there, I said too, "That's it!" I have a same one just like that. It's my bio. mother. I used to think of her as a "great actress", but she is seriously changing & never admit she is. Real life "chameleon-shape shift mother"! Make sense now!
I BOUGHT YOUR BOOK, BRILLIANT BOOK.... I BOUGHT FEW AND IM GIVING THEM AWAY, GLORY TO CHRIST.... THANK YOU BROTHER, ....CAN I PUT THIS VIDEO IN MY CHANNEL PLEASE OBVIOUSLY GIVING U CREDIT.....
Still praying for breakthrough and power of the Holy Spirit to exorcise this spirit out of my wife and children... I can't take this insanity anymore... in Jesus name, please save me from this... I repent for allowing it in the the first place
I would like to ask, do Jezebels copy others words, and visions? My sister and my husband both, steal my words and use them as though my words belong to them? Do Jezebel do this? I think I have PTSD, from Narcissistic abuser. I have been told, the physical abuse was brought on me by my actions? Can you explain some of my questions? I am going to overcome, I'm seeing a counselor , thank you for your time and video
Yes!!!! Mine does this. He has stolen my own vocabulary regarding mental health and personality disorders and has now flipped the script and uses the terms on me!!! He/they (the other narcs in my life) refuse to be held accountable for anything. Everything is my fault. Fingers are pointed at me, the script is flipped on me and others are told I have mental health issues. Just for trying to stand up for myself and be heard. Sound familiar to anyone???
But what if the Narc is hoovering you for months then out of nowhere they contact you to see how you are. Wouldn't it be normal for the victim to react that way? I could also see the victim behaving this way too.
I told mine if he would start paying half the bills I could get my meds and replace my clothes. He said if I have to do that I can get on my own get my own place. I’ve been gone for over a yr
absolutely 100% true. In my family, a few "friends" and churches. I am learning how to deal with it now, praise God. It is tragic how many churches and Christian counselors refuse to look at this issue, blame you for not being loving like you are supposed to be, you are judgmental, and siddown while I tell you what God says about judging others.
you are helping alot i have to fix up my jezebel ..narc wife. myself since my pastor cant rid my wife of the jezebel thanks a billion for the great vids
Wow I just ended a 2 year romantic relationship with a NPD/Jezebel. I would ask her how her day was going? She would get upset with me always asking the same question. Very critical spirit. Walking on eggshells and very moody. She would always tell me she's the Queen and you need to please me.
Good thing u got out!! Im just finding out and studying about all this. I in a 30 yr marriage Disabled and NO FAMILY!! SO PLEASE PRAY FOR ME!! God Bless Everyone!
Omg. I've been there. Also one night, I complimented my brothers' wife on dinner. He jumped up, turning beet red, threw his chair across the room and be rated me for complimenting her. Scared me. That was before I knew what a narcissist was. He said the most evil things to everyone. I'm glad he's been no longer with us. Everyone in the family feared him.
I have a nephew like that. He thinks he tell me how keep my place when he lost his place and now has live my sister. I have cats and have litter box they can use and sometimes it smells of cat. I have one dog ,she is blind and it 12 years old. She is small. I am always having to clean. I pay the rent. Yet he thinks he has right to chew at me. I told him I didn't want to hear it. They are very demanding.
Hi my name is Toby and I am a lead pastor. I love your teachings! I have a question you said not to let anyone control you and I am in full agreement can you explain in more detail about authority when it’s controlling and when it’s not and how we should follow authority. As a leader one of the things that I have noticed in the breakdown of society and is coming into the church is I’m my own person and nobody’s going to tell me what to do and a lot of this is steeped in offense and independence. Blessings brother!
Oh my gosh, this is my husband. I'm at yet another point of being at a loss. Just last night I had to go through this with him. And it's always worse when he drinks. He keeps saying he's quitting. He said he wasn't going to even yesterday, but he drank a whole bottle of red wine. He's a master twister of words and uses things I've told him from my past relationships against me. He doesn't think he's controlling me. He thinks he's a strong godly man. He said last week that he gave his drinking to God. He hasn't found a good enough church, a powerful presence of His church, he says. Constant roller coaster. We have a 2 yr old together. That's why he stays he says. Ha. He doesn't realize the patience and everything he's put me through and everything I've tried to do for him, to help him and put up with his moods. He says it's me.
What if he has seemingly perfect relationships with family and friends? He has been described to me as the ‘most humble person ever’ by two or three others. I have anger issues and can be pushy and it seems sometimes like everyone else things I am the one with the issue and it makes me wonder if that’s true, am I having high narc tendencies? But he is different when ppl aren’t around and it’s just us two, he is usually distant and cold, when we argue it goes on for hours, he switches between ignoring me and wanting to be intimate, sometimes I can’t help but feel he’s jealous when I am giving our child attention, he also doesn’t give her much attention. He doesn’t seem to like when I’m in a really good mood. I am pretty sure he’s narcissistic but then he is so ‘perfect’ to everyone else as far as I can see that I go back and forth with this opinion. I have prayed for him, I won’t give up praying but I will leave.
My father was a pastor and had a narcissistic spirit and after I confronted him respectfully and with love. He flipped the script and made my life hell 😢
I listen to you and thinking... how can another person know exactly what I’ve experienced. I went through Every thing you mentioned with a narcissist. Literally Every Thing. The worst is watching them go around and destroy ur character or humiliate u in public. I cut that cord but I’m still in healing. I have flashbacks, remember the unkind words or behaviours and sometimes dreams of her. I can honestly say that it leaves you some kind of trauma or ptsd. But I know that Jesus is healing my me too.
i had a child with a jezebel. things got so toxic, that the only way peace could be achieved, is if connections with the child had to be severed. not intentionally though. the jezebel made it so where she was a packaged deal with my child. "if you want a relationship with the kid, you will do as i say when i say". now i have to wait until the child is 18 when he is no longer under his jezebel mother.
Ican you’ve brought back so many memories with conversations with my ex covert narc girlfriend. When we parted her face contorted the mask slipped and there was the jezabel spirit her face went to a blank and morphed back with seconds above her head I saw the word harlot. I spoke to a lad recently who s narc girlfriend got out of control . He said her face contorted and her face went to a blank and then morphed into 30 to 40 faces men and women and then back to its orginal. Another lad walked into the narcs girlfriends bedroom . She was stood in front of a full length mirror . In the reflection was the spirit of jezabel. Ican it’s amazing that it can control facial features. I personally believe now the narc discards invade it gets cast out by some one. I enjoyed you book many thanks ican.
You have provided me with answers I have been searching for years! I am not crazy!
Yes! me too, sis Lee Hokaj!! I thought I'm too slow to notice, but thank God for your sharing! I am not crazy! And I'm not alone either! Thank You, JESUS!! God bless you!
No you are not crazy, the one that i was married to almost succeded in taking me there. But For GOD'S MERCY.
No you are not crazy, you suffer from narc bonding, cognitive dissonance and being discarded, no contact. Count you blessings.
Mark 3: They will try to call you crazy. But you will see in this text, that they even said the same things about Christ. 🙏🏾
No you are not crazy. Stay strong and prayerful.
When he said shape shift I screamed! That's what I've experienced. I call them chameleons. They wear costumes, they lie, they switch it up, deflect. It's a nightmare trying to have a civil conversation with these demons.
April Mack yes they do sis. They say the craziest things. One of the first pastors I met with a Jezebel spirit, mentioned to me, after telling him God was moving me out of the church and he finding out that I had been to three churches in 18 months(all on assignment from God 1 King 18:12) "that I n the Holy Spirit were schizophrenic" jumping from church to church!!" My heart hurt n I felt a stirring going on inside my stomach and up it came out rebuking him. This pastor is 6'3" and I'm 5'6" so it looked funny me rebuking him but he immediately sat on a nearby chair and his lips scrounged up and his eyes kept shifting back n forth. I was a babe in my prophetic walk n didn't realize that Holy Spirit had bound that spirit up for coming against it. I wish I had commanded it to come out. That pastor won't have anything to do with me. Definitely a learning experience
April Mack I agree
April Mack yes I've seen it in action this weekend and with in family
April Mack in a sense they are chameleons.
April Mack so scary .. with Asbergers females at least .. it gets confused but they are sensitive and hate hurting people .. I keep looking inside me and observing Narcissist ways that I didn't see . Aspi people can definitely be Narcissistic but much of the social issue I have is that I come off weird more so I'm almost cleared there .. I stay alone alot now , I don't want to represent this Narcissist behavior .. I take Methylfolate 😍.. GUESS WHAT . it helped us my husband and I with autism and it's still waking the brain to reality. We fought to find wellness . My daughter beat us up and yes she had it . I did and repented .. it took me feeling deep rejection over and over and I came Against many for about 5 mos .. different alter eagos . Gosh it was demons just wanting me to be in affective in every step I take .as I've walked away from family to wellness because in my core I knew I was off not ok but my spirit was determined to find my voice and tell on myself and reach In and face the music .. it'll hurt you bad to see it . But then you can address it , our parents that ignored us 🤔..she did me a favour leaving me by myself because I didn't watch her behavior like my sisters. My sisters are very stuck .very much they manifest on a regular basis . I pray Methylfolate can help everyone ..
Just subscribed. I love this. I've been battling this spirit everywhere. Work, home, friends and family. This is God letting me know there's deliverance because I asked him for it. I am convinced in my heart ❤️ that if you ask the Lord for something that lines up with what his plan and purpose is he will help you. I bind up the spirit of Jezebel working in my life and through people in my life in the mighty name of Jesus. But the Bible says my people are destroyed because of lack of knowledge. Thank Apostle for the knowledge. Amen 🙏🏾❤️
Amen🙏🙏
Me too. God has had me against this 5hing in churches but I never recognised it in my marriage
Every bit of this is truth. Had this last night. Sometimes You forget how bondage feels when you are free. The levels you have to go in your mind to deal w/them is unreal. You are literally physically tired when it’s over. It’s so unnecessary. God, i thank you for true peace. It is PRICELESS!!
YES! They will drive you crazy if you don't get away from them. It's so toxic! Thank you so much for this teaching. #Clarity
I swear they are the most irritating and destructive force I had to experience. Thank god I'm divorced from IT!
Pretz 5 Going though that divorce in my life and I have 2 kids with him and married to him 20 years.
God bless you but that sounds like a cop-out. I am dealing with it now and it is a spirit it is not the person I married it is a spirit that manipulates her or him and the people who will side as they will speak to anyone who will give them an ear to speak to. When I stood before the Lord and said for better or Worse richer poorer till death do us part there was not a clause or a condition that said except if they develop a jezebel or a controlling spirit. With God all things are possible and Jesus said except for adultery you should not divorce and even then he said Moses gave you a certificate of divorce because your hearts were hard if my wife committed adultery and was repentant I would take her back because God has forgiven us of playing the Harlot the infidel the adulterer to him so many times and so many ways that who are we not to forgive. Now you cannot forgive if there is no repentance but they literally have to leave you or the Bible commands that you stay with them and by your light shining they and your children become sanctified. Don't argue with me I'm just the newspaper boy who has tried to be the best Berean I study the word to show myself approved of God a Workman rightly dividing the word of Truth for 35 years so I take his word very seriously and would never abandon my spouse except far physical abuse because that is against the law............... PERIOD!
You nailed it Brother! Thank you for sharing this clarity! Glory to God!
No matter how often I listen to these teachings, I always learn something. Your and Dixie's teachings are always so on point and they have helped me greatly over ths years. Thank you! God bless you. ❤
I thank God I ran across your videos. My God I have been married to a narcissist wife for 20 years and everything you've been saying fits 100 percent my situation. I am a minister with a prophetic ministry and I know that this relationship has affected my mental health. The grace of God has covered me and kept me sane. I feel like I have awakened out of a 20 year coma. I now know exactly what I'm dealing with and how to deal with it. Thank you so much man of God for your courage and wisdom to share this information
So nice to know we are not alone. Thank you for taking the time to educate and lift us up...to give us the tools to rise up from this kind of spirit🙏☺
Wow❗Thank you ;
I know what i have to do now that im overwhealmed & exhausted physically and emotionally ,I wish I had known how to deal with this many yrs ago. This subject of narccissism reminds me of a psychotic killer only they dont kill their victims they just continue to torture them , untill you finally realize they are your enemy
They also can be in a conversation and act ok about whatever it is and then later they shape shift and are angry about something that was said and you are left blind sided.
This is spot on! I eventually became ill with very elevated blood pressure from dealing with the narc's drama, accusations and circular conversations. And he thought I would marry him after dealing with it so many times.
This is a great teaching I have a wife that struggles with the Jezebel Spirit and it is so difficult to live with
she continually twists all of our conversations and tries to always make me feel guilty and overtime you feel like a child even though you are a full-grown man taking care of the family and supporting the family
I pray for deliverance for not only myself but everybody else that is struggling with a spouse that has this Jezebel Spirit
Run
Thankful thank you my friend I have come to the realization that that is what I need to do she is just always angry and always negative for a while I forgot my light in this world thank you for responding have you been through a break up
@@Smith-Machiner dont run! FAST AND PRAY WARFARE, this Demon must be attacked without remorse through weapons of god
I could write my own book. My mom is everything you are talking about and I’m 62 and she has brought torment to me my entire life! She is in stage 4 cancer and is meaner, and more controlling than ever! When you said they have a laundry list ....ha!!! Yes!!! I went to lunch with her, she’s in a wheel chair, the cancer has brought her to a 80 lb weight loss, you would think the conversation would be loving, kind, and thoughtful at this stage of life. To my shock, she went back 45 years out of nowhere she says “I know God says not to bring up the past”. And then she went on to bring up her version of something I did that disgusted her and followed it up by saying, “and I was not proud of you!” I felt my face turn red. I felt instant shame, embarrassment as she and her husband sat glaring at me on the other side of the table. I’ve spent my life trying to win her love and approval. “Honor your mother and father” but I have not seen her since. That was almost a year ago. That was it for me! I am now saving myself. Because she herself is a CANCER! I can’t take one more second. It was my breaking point and I can’t look at the evil, hidden behind her or hear “I’m so favored by God” comments again. That is not GOD! That is pure evil! Thank you for helping me to gain my sanity back and stay away! I’m sorry it has to be this way. I always imagined I would be with her during her last stage of life. But she has not once called and apologized for the words spoken at that lunch. In 11 months she has not even text me and asked ... why are you not speaking to me? Did I hurt you somehow? Not a word! that followed by 61 years prior of hate and distain for me. I’ve never been given an apology in my lifetime. So what am I losing? I’m gaining peace of mind and freedom! The sickest part of the entire thing is how she believes she is the closest thing to God and uses faith as a weapon. If you confront her, well your just a tool from the devil. She will not repent. I can’t do another second if it. You help us understand this sick cycle many of us have been stuck in. Let’s get off the narc hamster wheel and Run for your life people. 😂
I believe when people become Narcissists it's a series beforehand of rejecting God and finally God hands them over to their reprobate minds. That's why the only way they can ever change is the power of God but unfortunately many refuse to humble themselves like Saul.
Good point. However, the narcissist put in our lives is no accident. I've concluded at the very least I've been chastised by God for my sins by narcissist. Even though I was equipped with certain attributes like empathy, remorse , fully aware of right and wrong etc I still sinned. That left the door open for spirits like narcissism. Excuse my grammar, but its quite an ass whipping. Especially when you know better.
I called it a "loop of insanity".
You truely understand the caricature's of these narcissistic Jezebel's. Your describing my adult daughter, that I finally had to put a strong boundry from her. She's been very abusive to me for years!! I still pray for her.🙏
Is it common for narcs when engaging in conversation to constantly speak negatively of other people. I try to steer the conversation to a positive level and then they get annoyed if I don’t side with them in their devaluing of others. Can they ever talk about anything other than putting people down?
Marie Gibbons
I’ve experienced this, I’ve noticed when they feel out of control of something they will speak negatively about brothers and sisters to brothers and sisters. And if it isn’t that, a common is flattery. The Holy Spirit discernment will reveal to you.
My Goodness this is my mama. Pray for me people please. Every thing you said in this video is what I have to go through with my mom.
You can't tell my mom that she is wrong, she will curse you and many family members were effected by it including me mamy times. One time when I was a kid my mom was fighting with my dad over money blaming my dad that he took it, she forced him to swear on my hands. Three days later I broke my arm in three places and the elbow was badly damaged. Doctors almost cut it off. But it got saved thank God.
One time my sister took my dad side cuz he was right, I heard my mom cursing my sister for her husband to beat the crap out of her, a week later my sister got into big fight with her husband and he did beat her so bad that he almost killed her.
Thank you for this video it is an eye opener I was prying fiew days ago for an answer how I can help my mom cuz what ever she is doing is not right. If she wants you to hate someone well you better do it or she will be sending everything bad that she Can, and when it happens she loves to come to the rescue. Thank you again for this info my prayer is answered. Lots of love and God Bless you.
Red flag. They converse with questions and they respond with questions.
That is the clue....
Lee Rdee - Thats a really helpful and valuable observation you made there!
Thank you! And you are right about it.
The advantage of that tactic seems to be that it's immediately you who has to explain or answer or defend yourself and that puts you on the back-foot right away...
Sounds like a lawyer
Amen
So true. Every casual conversation can turn into a discussion real quick. And all discussions/ argues have lose ends. Those lose ends are taking a lot of space up in your mind. It builds up, like it's stuck up there untill it's solved. But it won't. And then there comes a new discussion before you know it. Nothing can be solved with those people.
Lee Rdee Great observation thank you❤️
wow i loved this and really has opened my eyes. and yes no one should be controlled by anyone. thank you
I unfortunately have a daughter who fits this pattern of behavior but she also has MS and is living back home and has nowhere to go. Her children have just started talking to her again ☹️. But this video has given me new insight and let me know I’m not alone... Thank you for sharing this!
This word was for me! Right on time, this is exactly what I am dealing with everything you talked about right on point.
Wow, you nailed it. Cant have conversations because they always turn it around and never take blame.
I've really been enjoying your videos. This video is awesome. I'm currently dealing with a Jezebel mother. I was just telling my wife today that I'm done playing defense. Time for offense now. Thank you
Finally getting clarity on this black cloud of control that has followed me around my entire life
Thank you for fighting this fight! I cannot tell you how this has impacted me. This spirit has had an influence over my whole life and if feel like I have reached the end of it. Bless you for taking this stand.
Great teaching! Thank you for all you do! God bless.
The problem I've had was it was used to enter into or engage me in something to gain more information that really had nothing to do with "how're you doing" and then the information I gave was used to their own advantage.
Oh WOW! I have been going through this recently with a friend who has been ministering to me for several years on FB. She was not like this in the beginning, or maybe I was just ignorant until now, as I have only recently in the past couple of weeks been studying about all this! She has been getting extreme in her response if I attempt to ask any questions in private conversation without her accusing me and twisting it all around. She has been making me feel like its all me just accusing me of, then the confusion and doubt sets in! It's almost like she sets me up... She knows the Word of God so well and seems to have it in her heart. She has been accusing others of being self-righteous, narcissistic people, that have hardened their hearts toward her. I just stumbled upon this vid tonite! I am just trying to step back gently and praying for her and this whole situation. Thank you!
I lost confidence in myself to hear from the Lord..these people are evil..I need this book how do we get it? This is what's happened to me..I have serious health issues. ..prayers
Go vegan! ❤️ watch Dr sebi sister. he has videos on RUclips bless his heart.
Can you please turn up the volume on your videos, It is difficult to hear you. Thanks.
Thank you so much, you are a blessing, your message is really helping us, we need the support and direction, moving on to your next video.
They can create a conflict even in subjects you both agree on!
There will be a huge problem out of nowhere over the smallest things....Not solvable with huge efforts in decades!
i've walked away from the toxic people. Please keep me in prayer... my Narc daughter is keeping my grand daughter (6 yrs) from me. My grand daughter and I have a very close relationship. I haven't seen her since January...my daughter has moved and I don't know where (she has been associating with her father). My daughter is 28 yrs. I raised her in a christian home! The last time I talked to her on the phone (January) I mentioned the bible.
she said she "Don't give a D___ about the bible." My ex narc husband has always tried to separate us. I am saved and he is not. I am just so heart broken over my grand daughter. I would take her to church. she would stay on some weekends. I made sure our conversations were about Jesus. ...But my daughter put an abrupt stop to that.
I heard from another family member that my daughter told my grand baby that I WAS ON PUNISHMENT. !!! so my daughter cares less about me but why would you tell that to a 6 yr old. I pray that we are reunited soon....I don't want time to pass
PeaceCobbler my daughter doing that too.
I know your story all so well. My mother and my only child-daughter, I haven't had a relationship with her 22 years because of my narcissist mother.
I pray that things are better for you all in Jesus name.
I strong-armed the Jezebel I know by being like Cyrus and holding fast and furious to my rights as a child of God and refusing to yield to her games until she was shoved out the window, not literally lol but metaphorically. In the end she had a complete psychotic break and now she's extremely sick and weak. I don't wish bad health on anyone but the years of rage caught up with her and the final blow was when I quit playing the games and others in my family followed my lead and she HATED me because she lost all control. She even had a tantrum and said "I cant compete with Jesus!!" Because everyone was ignoring her tricks and praising Jesus in spite of her. For a person to say that you know they are possessed with Jezebel.
But do they know what they are doing.. because sometimes they seem to not even realise what they do. Like family. And I see them trigger people, but some seem like they dont know what they cause. I also saw people who seemed to enjoy the hurting. Some like family members seem to love you, but like you say conversations seem so toxic. I just ask myself do they hate me or love me or both. :/
Wow...you are right on! I have gotten migraines just approaching the area "he" is in...and having any conversation...is quite impossible. Thank you for your time and insight!
Oh my goodness you couldn't be any more on point. I feel like I've been losing my mind lately. Thank you for your insight and knowledge.
These types can scream words. Even scream merry Christmas. The anger just keeps elevating for some reason. Even though they live a gravy train lifestyle.
So controlling!
It took my daughter 5 years to get away from her boyfriend/husband married for 2 months the judge annulled it as she was heavily brain washed. Everything you are saying here is so true! Many many times she was left at stores humiliated, she couldn’t go anywhere with him without a scene he had to have complete control☹️
What I am wondering is how long about does it take for a narcissist to quit stalking, it’s been 2 years now and shes about to get married and he’s still stalking her and now her fiancé too. We all have restraining orders against him, Is this normal?
She is spirit filled and doing awesome, great to have my daughter back! Thank you Jesus!!
this hit me right in my soul where I needed it most. thank you for getting this info out - blessings back at ya
I think my husband may have this narcissist spirit of Jezebel. Is it possible for them to be delivered or healed, or is this a hopeless relationship? He is a believer, but I don't think he had ever considered that he may have a personality disorder. How do I get delivered from whatever is wrong with me that I let him into my life? I know that Christ lives in me and I have authotity over sstan.
ok, the funny thing- when i met my narc, i couldn’t member his face surely. So i had to draw it, so it ll be imprinted in my head more firmly. HIS FACE IS ALL THE TIME DIFFERENT
Abuse amnesia as well?)
This video made me cry. The pain doesn't come out in words for me like you did here. Thank you for helping me communicate and understand more of the nightmare.
True again. He is the best person in the world.... i am a host of nasty names plus.
Yes. Physically the stress of it constantly is actually killing me physically.
Ah!! 30 years into that life....”the ride to church in hell !” Doors locked, on the highway, trapped with the man with the list to discuss !!!!! I avoided conversations at home so the plan was ...she is trapped in the car ...pounce !!! I can chuckle now because I am free !!!
Brother you know what you are talking about.wow this has ministered to me..wow
Yes, if I were to treat her as an idol or as all knowledgeable like how she acts or perceives herself to be. There would be no more conflict. But never get to the root of the problem. She never, NEVER, does anything wrong. I feel the game in these conversations. Its exhausting and started to affect me physically.
Holy moly this is good stuff! I heard a lot from a friend that studies this but wow i got so much more listening to you. Thank you!
Thank you. Because everything you are saying is very true.They will do exactly as you say. The jezebel spirit is the center of the narcississit being.
these people make lots of effort to keep away others, they only inspire rejection
Brilliant. I identified, understood and explained this for 30 years thinking it was an intelligence issue. Recently I learned about the Jezebel spirit. It's not about a person just needing your help to grow.
You know a LOT about narcissists. I am impressed.
What if you and your spouse are both effected by the jezebel spirit ? It's like it's jumping from one person to the other. You can't just away from each other like that. What to do then?
This is to good. God seriously guided me by finding Robert Summer's. Thank you!
Yes I love he breaks it down in a spiritual perspective.
YOUR VIDEOS ARE SO SO TRUTHFUL THANK YOU FOR BOTH OF YOU, GLORY TO CHRIST
Yes! Correct... constantly defending myself!
Yes! They Absolutely shapeshift!
Thanks Robert God Bless you!
What you teach is real. I was married to a narcissistic Jezebel for 25yrs. I wrote a book about it. "Fire in the Rain" by Wanda Perry. Knowledge is power. Keep doing what God has called you to do and be blessed.
Amen this is so true I'm a witness to this
Thank you for your videos this helps me understand my mom who has a narcissistic jezebel traits
Ucgh! Why does this sound so familiar. One sentence turns into World War 3
I have heard these conversations called 'word salad' I got so so tired of these conversations with my ex I stopped talking, which provided my ex MIL narc fuel to accuse me.
Heather Jonker, Really!
God bless you, teacher-Robert! As April Mack commenting down there, I said too, "That's it!" I have a same one just like that. It's my bio. mother. I used to think of her as a "great actress", but she is seriously changing & never admit she is. Real life "chameleon-shape shift mother"! Make sense now!
CUT!!!!!!! NO CONTACT EVEN IF THEY ARE YOUR SIBLING!!!!
Great video! Thank you.
I’ve been praying for you and I have an appointment with you and I’m so greatful to God
thank you! thank you! Grateful for your message.
I BOUGHT YOUR BOOK, BRILLIANT BOOK.... I BOUGHT FEW AND IM GIVING THEM AWAY, GLORY TO CHRIST.... THANK YOU BROTHER, ....CAN I PUT THIS VIDEO IN MY CHANNEL PLEASE OBVIOUSLY GIVING U CREDIT.....
Still praying for breakthrough and power of the Holy Spirit to exorcise this spirit out of my wife and children... I can't take this insanity anymore... in Jesus name, please save me from this... I repent for allowing it in the the first place
In Jesus's Name.. Aman..
I would like to ask, do Jezebels copy others words, and visions? My sister and my husband both, steal my words and use them as though my words belong to them?
Do Jezebel do this?
I think I have PTSD, from Narcissistic abuser. I have been told, the physical abuse was brought on me by my actions? Can you explain some of my questions?
I am going to overcome, I'm seeing a counselor , thank you for your time and video
Yes they do.
Omg! Thank u for asking this question! I experience this on a daily basis and always thought i was crazy. Ure not alone on that one, sis
Yes!!!! Mine does this. He has stolen my own vocabulary regarding mental health and personality disorders and has now flipped the script and uses the terms on me!!!
He/they (the other narcs in my life) refuse to be held accountable for anything. Everything is my fault. Fingers are pointed at me, the script is flipped on me and others are told I have mental health issues. Just for trying to stand up for myself and be heard.
Sound familiar to anyone???
But what if the Narc is hoovering you for months then out of nowhere they contact you to see how you are. Wouldn't it be normal for the victim to react that way? I could also see the victim behaving this way too.
God bless you for the video ! You hit the nail on the head with this video
Thank you for speaking for us trapped under this spirit. Jesus is my strength. Keep our eyes on Jesus. Amen.
I told mine if he would start paying half the bills I could get my meds and replace my clothes. He said if I have to do that I can get on my own get my own place. I’ve been gone for over a yr
Arline Robertson, Really!
absolutely 100% true. In my family, a few "friends" and churches. I am learning how to deal with it now, praise God. It is tragic how many churches and Christian counselors refuse to look at this issue, blame you for not being loving like you are supposed to be, you are judgmental, and siddown while I tell you what God says about judging others.
I have gone to the person three times to try and work it out. They ended up screaming in my face. I said nobody has ever talked to me like that. Crazy
Yup; they never listen
you are helping alot i have to fix up my jezebel ..narc wife. myself since my pastor cant rid my wife of the jezebel
thanks a billion for the great vids
Wow I just ended a 2 year romantic relationship with a NPD/Jezebel. I would ask her how her day was going? She would get upset with me always asking the same question. Very critical spirit. Walking on eggshells and very moody. She would always tell me she's the Queen and you need to please me.
Good thing u got out!! Im just finding out and studying about all this. I in a 30 yr marriage Disabled and NO FAMILY!! SO PLEASE PRAY FOR ME!! God Bless Everyone!
Omg. I've been there.
Also one night, I complimented my brothers' wife on dinner. He jumped up, turning beet red, threw his chair across the room and be rated me for complimenting her. Scared me. That was before I knew what a narcissist was. He said the most evil things to everyone. I'm glad he's been no longer with us. Everyone in the family feared him.
I have a nephew like that. He thinks he tell me how keep my place when he lost his place and now has live my sister. I have cats and have litter box they can use and sometimes it smells of cat. I have one dog ,she is blind and it 12 years old. She is small. I am always having to clean. I pay the rent. Yet he thinks he has right to chew at me. I told him I didn't want to hear it. They are very demanding.
They always play the game, but is there anyway to interact with them where we can we stay in control and safe?
Thank you, this is so valuable to me!
Tanya Kruse,Is a great video 😊🤙
Hi my name is Toby and I am a lead pastor. I love your teachings! I have a question you said not to let anyone control you and I am in full agreement can you explain in more detail about authority when it’s controlling and when it’s not and how we should follow authority. As a leader one of the things that I have noticed in the breakdown of society and is coming into the church is I’m my own person and nobody’s going to tell me what to do and a lot of this is steeped in offense and independence. Blessings brother!
No other word for these individuals but evil.
Oh my gosh, this is my husband. I'm at yet another point of being at a loss. Just last night I had to go through this with him. And it's always worse when he drinks. He keeps saying he's quitting. He said he wasn't going to even yesterday, but he drank a whole bottle of red wine. He's a master twister of words and uses things I've told him from my past relationships against me. He doesn't think he's controlling me. He thinks he's a strong godly man. He said last week that he gave his drinking to God. He hasn't found a good enough church, a powerful presence of His church, he says. Constant roller coaster. We have a 2 yr old together. That's why he stays he says. Ha. He doesn't realize the patience and everything he's put me through and everything I've tried to do for him, to help him and put up with his moods. He says it's me.
Thank you for understanding!!!!!!!!
Amen
What if he has seemingly perfect relationships with family and friends? He has been described to me as the ‘most humble person ever’ by two or three others. I have anger issues and can be pushy and it seems sometimes like everyone else things I am the one with the issue and it makes me wonder if that’s true, am I having high narc tendencies? But he is different when ppl aren’t around and it’s just us two, he is usually distant and cold, when we argue it goes on for hours, he switches between ignoring me and wanting to be intimate, sometimes I can’t help but feel he’s jealous when I am giving our child attention, he also doesn’t give her much attention. He doesn’t seem to like when I’m in a really good mood. I am pretty sure he’s narcissistic but then he is so ‘perfect’ to everyone else as far as I can see that I go back and forth with this opinion. I have prayed for him, I won’t give up praying but I will leave.
And they're very observant, especially of their victims, in addition to being psychic.
How to deal with a coworker that has this jezebel spirit?
I knew it!!!!! I’ve watched and experienced “shape shifting “ and thought I was going mad!! They are so ugly !!! 😱
My father was a pastor and had a narcissistic spirit and after I confronted him respectfully and with love. He flipped the script and made my life hell 😢
Thank you so much.. 🙏
I listen to you and thinking... how can another person know exactly what I’ve experienced. I went through Every thing you mentioned with a narcissist. Literally Every Thing. The worst is watching them go around and destroy ur character or humiliate u in public. I cut that cord but I’m still in healing. I have flashbacks, remember the unkind words or behaviours and sometimes dreams of her. I can honestly say that it leaves you some kind of trauma or ptsd. But I know that Jesus is healing my me too.
i had a child with a jezebel. things got so toxic, that the only way peace could be achieved, is if connections with the child had to be severed. not intentionally though. the jezebel made it so where she was a packaged deal with my child. "if you want a relationship with the kid, you will do as i say when i say".
now i have to wait until the child is 18 when he is no longer under his jezebel mother.
Ican you’ve brought back so many memories with conversations with my ex covert narc girlfriend. When we parted her face contorted the mask slipped and there was the jezabel spirit her face went to a blank and morphed back with seconds above her head I saw the word harlot. I spoke to a lad recently who s narc girlfriend got out of control . He said her face contorted and her face went to a blank and then morphed into 30 to 40 faces men and women and then back to its orginal. Another lad walked into the narcs girlfriends bedroom . She was stood in front of a full length mirror . In the reflection was the spirit of jezabel. Ican it’s amazing that it can control facial features. I personally believe now the narc discards invade it gets cast out by some one. I enjoyed you book many thanks ican.
This is so real.
Thank you for this God bless you Sir