1:34 1) Don't make decisions out of desperation 1:48 2) Those who are doing 'the best' are people taking action 2:32 3) Unforgiveness is only hurting you 2:58 4) Don't take everything personally 3:43 5) Feelings are not facts 4:53 6) Invest in yourself 7:53 7) Saying 'no' is okay and necessary 8:53 8) Ask yourself why you're doing something 9:56 9) Community doesn't just happen, it's cultivated 10:54 10) Be careful with loans 11:24 11) Enjoy your current season in life instead of wishing for the next one 12:15 12) Don't stick with something only because you 'already invested so much' in it 13:03 13) His Grace covers your sins 14:30 14) Life is hard for everyone 15:37 15) You don't owe anyone an explanation for your decisions 16:52 16) Don't pretend to be someone you're not to impress others 18:06 17) Learn to pick and choose your battles 19:39 18) Your health/body is not invincible 20:40 19) There is power in prayer 21:44 20) Your parents/loved ones aren't here forever, cherish them
I'm 17 , not sure I'm qualified enough to say this but I learnt this the hard way so I wanna share it , "Don't give up on something you want to do in life because it takes time , because time will pass anyway"
Somethings I wish I had known sooner are that boundaries are healthy, Love is an action not an emotion, my body is a sacred vessel for the Holy Spirit - not a tool for manipulation, and most importantly that I AM FULLY KNOWN - CHOSEN AND LOVED BY GOD!!!
I love it about unforgiveness ... In my mother tongue (Hungarian), the word angry means "full with poison", and that just expresses so well that I'm poisoned by anger...
I'm a "secular"/agnostic girl in her 20s but this one was actually sooo helpful and sooo good! I really needed this video haha! Thank you, Tori & Chad ❤️
Thank you guys so much! I’m 20 and these tips are so helpful. I’ve definitely fallen short with comparing my season with others, but God in His grace has been patient with me!
As a 24 year old married woman for 6 months I encpurage you to read Debi Pearl book about being a wife, it really made a difference in my Look at marriage
this was so much funn!! Thank you for sharing!💜🤩 I haven’t even reached 20 yet…but I hope I’ll keep in mind that life is just a sweet journey with God-I hope I’ll always enjoy the adventure with Him no matter the season!🥰
Next year I turn 20, it's so crazy to think about how fast life is going for me right now, almost done with college. It's been really great learning from you guys, you guys are encouraging me to restart my RUclips channel for Christian-based conversations for my generation. Thanks, ya'll :)
I truly believe the Lord has blessed me with you guys in my life! Everything Tori says just hits home every time, I turned 25 this year and hope to take everything you guys said and implement that in my life! Thank you , blessings to you all💕
Bonus video for the win. Just got done preaching in NYC and now headed to the airport to get home. Love all 3 of you. Have a wonderful and blessed week.
I love love loved this vid! I turned 20 this year ! a lesson I am learning at the moment is guarding my heart and finding boundaries within my personal life but also with my serving life in church. Would love a Pt2!!!!!!! love you guys and appreciate these vids ♡
Thanks guys for sharing your wisdom!! A lot that you said I wish I knew before. One thing that I've learned is don't let your past define who you are, because, things change all the time and you have the right to make the changes you want in your life.
This is so great! Thanks for sharing Tori and Chad!😊 I would say one of the things I wish I could've realized sooner is the truth that I can trust God's heart and leading completely in my life.❤He really does know what's best for me better than what I think is best for myself. His heart towards me is always for my good! When He asks me to trust him, it's because He has something good for me and He will always lead and guide me into the best things He has planned for me.✝
Listening to your podcast and watching your videos is one of the most calming things for me. So thankful that I found a big brother and sister in you guys💕. Love from Jamaica 🇯🇲
Yes! ✨ I’m 26 and my husband 29, expecting our first baby March 1 ☁️ We have a good amount of money saved so we’ve been looking into purchasing our first home. Our apartment is a 2-bedroom townhome that is affordable and just fine. Why are we in a rush to move? 🤔 Houses are so expensive in this market! We’ve decided to wait until prices go down and when we actually need the extra space 💗
I was so encouraged by this video, thanks so much you guys!!❤️ Something I wish I knew earlier was that God IS trustworthy and that I truly do not have to worry and be anxious about ANYTHING. It took me so many stressful days, too many to count, and tears to finally start understanding that and living that out in my life.
You guys!!!! I love this!!!! I love that you really went there and talked about what is REAL! You hit the nail on the head, you talked about real life and real life problems and situations! No one has a perfect life and no one should try to pretend like they do or expect one! We should just make the best of what the good Lord gives us! Praise be to God!
This is such a nice surprise to have a video of you guys today!! Thank you, and i will be taking notes of the video! Sending love to all three of you, God bless💗
Was here earlier, a few minutes ago and no new video, so imagine my joy at this pleasant surprise of a video. 😊❤️ Would definitely want a part 2 to this video.
I’m 21, and I wish I would’ve known that God is my sole provider, not my parents or my job or anyone/anything else. The only person I can depend on for everything 100% of the time is Jesus
ahhhh I've missed you guysss I feel like it's been forever. Loveeee thiss. What Tori said about how God sees me and what Chad said about being different to different people hitss hard. I struggled with feeling like I had to be someway to people for them to like me.
Starting off the bat Tori says "1. Do not make decision out of desperation," to me personally I worry about financially to invest but overall I am more focused on class I am in college and I feel I have no time for it and the fact it scares me. Any helpful comments? God bless you both and baby boy, I love you guys there is always something I take away from your videos and laughter :) I will keep praying for you guys!!!
There was a phase in my life where people from all kinds of MLM’s started reaching out to me. I learned, the energy I was putting into those things, I could have put into myself and my passions. I felt so much comfort in focusing on what was around me. My school, my community, my health. So much weight was taken off my shoulders after I gave myself the freedom to focus more on my well being and passion projects rather than worrying about money. Money can be made in many ways. Hope this helps and makes sense. You’ll figure it out ❤
@@Trinnajk Thank you so much! I definitely am doing the things that I am passionate. Especially right now as I am majoring in architecture in my third year. I think many times when I want to celebrate with family or friends I feel guilty and rarly do I celebrate or go on little vacations with friends when I do get the chance. I always return not regretting that I got to spend the time with friends and family.
I wish I would've rather taken more time to decide what I wanted to study and even when I wanted to study. It would've saved a lot of money and now I am working full time and struggling to start doing what I actually want to do. Thanks for the video, I am still young though at least
You both are always such a blessing. The wisdom you guys speak is truly the fruit of everything you both do behind closed doors. Thank you for your obedience in all of the content you guys post, truly!
love upside!! told my sister about it and to use your code too! im in NC and they don't really have grocery stores near me on upside, but its great for gas.
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1:34 1) Don't make decisions out of desperation
1:48 2) Those who are doing 'the best' are people taking action
2:32 3) Unforgiveness is only hurting you
2:58 4) Don't take everything personally
3:43 5) Feelings are not facts
4:53 6) Invest in yourself
7:53 7) Saying 'no' is okay and necessary
8:53 8) Ask yourself why you're doing something
9:56 9) Community doesn't just happen, it's cultivated
10:54 10) Be careful with loans
11:24 11) Enjoy your current season in life instead of wishing for the next one
12:15 12) Don't stick with something only because you 'already invested so much' in it
13:03 13) His Grace covers your sins
14:30 14) Life is hard for everyone
15:37 15) You don't owe anyone an explanation for your decisions
16:52 16) Don't pretend to be someone you're not to impress others
18:06 17) Learn to pick and choose your battles
19:39 18) Your health/body is not invincible
20:40 19) There is power in prayer
21:44 20) Your parents/loved ones aren't here forever, cherish them
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Also, how about the random post date? haha we are finding freedom by not living bound by the YT algorithm and just posting the content we believe in!
Love surprise videos ❤
❤️
Yessss you go 🙌🏼🙌🏼
I love a Sunday video! None of my favourite subscribers post on Sunday and it's the one day of the week that I have a bit more time to watch lol
aww that is nice to think about!!!
I'm 17 , not sure I'm qualified enough to say this but I learnt this the hard way so I wanna share it , "Don't give up on something you want to do in life because it takes time , because time will pass anyway"
Amen! We get better with practice, and practice takes time. Enjoy the waiting and the process 🌟
"you can be pressed but you're not CRUSHED"
This is so powerful!
also another one of my favs haha
Started to sing Changing by Pauline Zoe Park once they said that. The Word is powerful, took me to worship❤️
Somethings I wish I had known sooner are that boundaries are healthy, Love is an action not an emotion, my body is a sacred vessel for the Holy Spirit - not a tool for manipulation, and most importantly that I AM FULLY KNOWN - CHOSEN AND LOVED BY GOD!!!
"it's okay to not stay in that unhealthy relationship, learn to let go" thank youu so much.
that was one of my favs!
Can we have a part 2 pleaseeee🥺
if you want one!!
@@ToriAndChad we all want it hehe
@@ToriAndChad def
yes!
We just welcomed our little miracle boy into the world 2 weeks ago. I wish more than ever that there was a "slow down button". 💙
I love it about unforgiveness ... In my mother tongue (Hungarian), the word angry means "full with poison", and that just expresses so well that I'm poisoned by anger...
Truth is truth even if few believe it!
I'm a "secular"/agnostic girl in her 20s but this one was actually sooo helpful and sooo good! I really needed this video haha! Thank you, Tori & Chad ❤️
Jesus loves you❤️🙏🏾
hope you commit to God one day
Thank you guys so much! I’m 20 and these tips are so helpful. I’ve definitely fallen short with comparing my season with others, but God in His grace has been patient with me!
Awww thank you for taking the time to watch and let us know!!
Yes part 2 let’s gooooo!! I’m 21 and newly married, so I love these. I need all the wisdom I can get 🙏🏼
As a 24 year old married woman for 6 months I encpurage you to read Debi Pearl book about being a wife, it really made a difference in my Look at marriage
@@emiliapietrzyk9656 I will look it up!! Thanks!
Wow, congratulations ! 😇❤️
as a 20 year old these were awesome things to hear and think about!
I definitely wanna see a part with all the funny ones!😂
hahah that would be fun to make!!
15 is the bestt 🤗I keep my fingers crossed for Yr family development!🤰🎉❤
I would really love you to do a video about praying strategically! What it means, how you do it etc.
this was so much funn!! Thank you for sharing!💜🤩 I haven’t even reached 20 yet…but I hope I’ll keep in mind that life is just a sweet journey with God-I hope I’ll always enjoy the adventure with Him no matter the season!🥰
Part 2 please!!!!! And maybe up to part 10
hahaha
I’m about to turn 20 next week so this was literally ✨perfect✨ timing
Next year I turn 20, it's so crazy to think about how fast life is going for me right now, almost done with college. It's been really great learning from you guys, you guys are encouraging me to restart my RUclips channel for Christian-based conversations for my generation. Thanks, ya'll :)
I truly believe the Lord has blessed me with you guys in my life! Everything Tori says just hits home every time, I turned 25 this year and hope to take everything you guys said and implement that in my life! Thank you , blessings to you all💕
"There is power in prayer", Amen!! So true!
So much truth! Thanks sooo much!!!
Love y’all! I’ve been using the cash app for a few months and I’ve already made 40 bucks! Love it!!!
feelings are not fact!! This one hits.
Let's gooooo
Bonus video for the win. Just got done preaching in NYC and now headed to the airport to get home. Love all 3 of you. Have a wonderful and blessed week.
Fly safely my man! We love yall!
Congratulations 🎈🎊🍾🎉 on 133k subscribers.
Thank you!
Can you guys do a video about grieving and how to pray for the person we lost and how to cope according the bible. 🙏💗
I love love loved this vid! I turned 20 this year ! a lesson I am learning at the moment is guarding my heart and finding boundaries within my personal life but also with my serving life in church. Would love a Pt2!!!!!!! love you guys and appreciate these vids ♡
Thanks guys for sharing your wisdom!! A lot that you said I wish I knew before. One thing that I've learned is don't let your past define who you are, because, things change all the time and you have the right to make the changes you want in your life.
This is so great! Thanks for sharing Tori and Chad!😊
I would say one of the things I wish I could've realized sooner is the truth that I can trust God's heart and leading completely in my life.❤He really does know what's best for me better than what I think is best for myself. His heart towards me is always for my good! When He asks me to trust him, it's because He has something good for me and He will always lead and guide me into the best things He has planned for me.✝
Yay! What a nice surprise this random video🙌🏼
aww hey there WilJ!
This is really good. Especially the people pleasing one
Listening to your podcast and watching your videos is one of the most calming things for me. So thankful that I found a big brother and sister in you guys💕. Love from Jamaica 🇯🇲
Something I wish i knew was that in trying to please those around you, you only end up hurting yourself.
PART 2 PLEASE 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
The Masters Fam is an awesome 😎 RUclips channel name for sure.
THank you!
@@ToriAndChad np 😉 Tori and Chad.
12, 18 & 19 are THE best** Don't hold on longer than you should to mistakes just because you've been holding on for long**
Yes! ✨ I’m 26 and my husband 29, expecting our first baby March 1 ☁️ We have a good amount of money saved so we’ve been looking into purchasing our first home. Our apartment is a 2-bedroom townhome that is affordable and just fine. Why are we in a rush to move? 🤔 Houses are so expensive in this market! We’ve decided to wait until prices go down and when we actually need the extra space 💗
I was so encouraged by this video, thanks so much you guys!!❤️
Something I wish I knew earlier was that God IS trustworthy and that I truly do not have to worry and be anxious about ANYTHING. It took me so many stressful days, too many to count, and tears to finally start understanding that and living that out in my life.
You guys!!!! I love this!!!! I love that you really went there and talked about what is REAL! You hit the nail on the head, you talked about real life and real life problems and situations! No one has a perfect life and no one should try to pretend like they do or expect one! We should just make the best of what the good Lord gives us! Praise be to God!
Wow, SO good! Please do Round 2!
This are great points you're making. many of them i also had to learn the hard way during my late 20ies.
This is such a nice surprise to have a video of you guys today!! Thank you, and i will be taking notes of the video! Sending love to all three of you, God bless💗
love you, Luana!
I absolutely enjoyed this video and I love you guys so much. I'd love a part 2 to this please 😍
Was here earlier, a few minutes ago and no new video, so imagine my joy at this pleasant surprise of a video. 😊❤️
Would definitely want a part 2 to this video.
awww hi there!!
So so so much wisdom!!! Please do part two so so good!!!
feelings are not facts is the one i gotta learn the most tbh ☹️
hahah it's real!
This video is sooo full of usefull information!! 💞💞
I just wanna take notes and erote everything down 🍀🍀
Feelings can be great indicators but should never be dictators 👍
you guys are like my internet Godparents. thank you for this 💕
I’m 21, and I wish I would’ve known that God is my sole provider, not my parents or my job or anyone/anything else. The only person I can depend on for everything 100% of the time is Jesus
Long time my Masters famo!! 💐
awww hi there!!!
Can you please make a video about prayer strategies? ❤
So good to have people talk about this when your actually in your early 20’s! Thank you! 🥹🫶🏻
so good!! would love a follow-up on how to do some of these...
ahhhh I've missed you guysss I feel like it's been forever. Loveeee thiss. What Tori said about how God sees me and what Chad said about being different to different people hitss hard. I struggled with feeling like I had to be someway to people for them to like me.
This video took me by surprise. So good to see y'all upload
awww we were just thankful to get a video out!
LOVE this video!! One of my favs!
Id love a part 2!!! Cause this video is very relatable & inspiring 😊
This was so great friends! I'm 20 and this was so helpful :)
Never been this early...excited for this random vlog
hahah let's go!!!
Saying no is a credit of time
Saying yes is a responsibility
You guys haven't even started with listing the 20 and I already want a Part 2 please 😁
Love you guys!
I think one thing I wish I knew sooner was I can't change people , only God can so trying to do so only frustrates me.
Starting off the bat Tori says "1. Do not make decision out of desperation," to me personally I worry about financially to invest but overall I am more focused on class I am in college and I feel I have no time for it and the fact it scares me. Any helpful comments? God bless you both and baby boy, I love you guys there is always something I take away from your videos and laughter :) I will keep praying for you guys!!!
There was a phase in my life where people from all kinds of MLM’s started reaching out to me. I learned, the energy I was putting into those things, I could have put into myself and my passions. I felt so much comfort in focusing on what was around me. My school, my community, my health. So much weight was taken off my shoulders after I gave myself the freedom to focus more on my well being and passion projects rather than worrying about money. Money can be made in many ways.
Hope this helps and makes sense. You’ll figure it out ❤
@@Trinnajk Thank you so much! I definitely am doing the things that I am passionate. Especially right now as I am majoring in architecture in my third year. I think many times when I want to celebrate with family or friends I feel guilty and rarly do I celebrate or go on little vacations with friends when I do get the chance. I always return not regretting that I got to spend the time with friends and family.
Something I wish I knew sooner: a lot of the time, the way people treat you has got more to do with them than it does with you.
I wish I would've rather taken more time to decide what I wanted to study and even when I wanted to study. It would've saved a lot of money and now I am working full time and struggling to start doing what I actually want to do.
Thanks for the video, I am still young though at least
I turn 20 in nine days so this is timed perfectly!
So good!! Please do a part 2 🙌🏼
As a 19 year old, just finishing up in high school and about to enter the real world, Thankyou for this!🫶🏼🤍 I truly do value yalls advice!!
awww thanks for letting us know!!
I loved this video. I’m in my late 20s and I feel like I learnt most of this lessons later than I would want to. Great job guys!
This was so good i love when people give specific examples about things and you guys crushed it so thanks and part 2 would be awesome!
TORI AND CHAD! I have an idea for a chad and tori chat series. CHATOR!
Fam this is dripping in wisdom! Things that I have to keep in my mind forever. Thank you so much for the video. God bless you 🥰
I know that I will learn from this cuz I'm still young
Thanks for the video 🥰🥰
Not every person would do this, again thank you 🥰🥰
Aww thanks for showing up!!
You both are always such a blessing. The wisdom you guys speak is truly the fruit of everything you both do behind closed doors. Thank you for your obedience in all of the content you guys post, truly!
This was so great! I feel like writing each point out and journaling how I can apply them to my life. Thank you guys! ❤
this was great! thanks for this! also yes part 2!!!
Love love loveddddd this
aww that means the world!
loved this! would love to see the funny ones too😄
I loved this!
Yeyyyy! I love these surprise videos ❤
aww yay! We hope to do more surprise videos as we get closer to having the baby!
Please do a part 2!! This was so helpful 😊❤️
i took so many notes! love this and you guys. always learning so much and really needed to hear this Jesus knew!
Yep I think a funny lighter hearted version I think would be a good one to do
Can you guys please do a video on prayer strategies
we can! Not sure when, but I know this is absolutely on our list!!
Part 2 please 😍😍😍
Loved this video guys ❤❤❤❤ 😊 appreciate you both 😊
I really loved this! Would love a part 2🤍
love upside!! told my sister about it and to use your code too! im in NC and they don't really have grocery stores near me on upside, but its great for gas.
@Chad Can you do a video on how you go about leading and doing finances?
Hi MastersFam! Please do not fall for these spam/scam comments. We will NEVER ask you to send money or for your banking information etc… The only messages from us are the ones with a checkmark by our name… Report any spam comments you see! Sorry this is a reality but YT does not do a lot to stop these spam/scam accounts…
You can be pressed but you’re not crushed😊
Thank you so much for sharing this with us, it was really helpful for me. We want part two pleaseee
love all of these tips so much...I learn so much from you two! please do a part 2!
love thisss, about to hit my 20s, would love more advice ❤
aww yay!!