John Mulaney Talks About His (Ex) Wife

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  • Опубликовано: 30 сен 2021
  • Supercut of John Mulaney talking about his (now ex) wife, Anna Marie Tendler
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  • @Jah_LEASE_yah
    @Jah_LEASE_yah 2 года назад +4214

    The jokes about not wanting a baby hit different when you learn he had a baby with Olivia Munn minutes after his divorce. 😳

    • @robzs8388
      @robzs8388 2 года назад +36

      tbf if I had a chance to lock down Olivia Munn i would absolutely do it regardless of whatever

    • @cloudXXLV
      @cloudXXLV 2 года назад +409

      I mean, Mulaney and his wife had been separated for 6 months already. To be honest, Mulaney and Munn might have just been dating and had an accidental pregnancy

    • @CoachRudi1
      @CoachRudi1 2 года назад +217

      And when we now discover the date of the baby’s birth was NOVEMBER 24, 2021- oops

    • @belleslovinit3848
      @belleslovinit3848 2 года назад +178

      @@cloudXXLV separated while he was supposed to be in rehab lol

    • @ShibaDoggie939
      @ShibaDoggie939 2 года назад +322

      @@cloudXXLV they had the baby in Nov but he was still with his ex wife when it was conceived..... So....

  • @captainrexofthe501st9
    @captainrexofthe501st9 2 года назад +2466

    I guess he can get that Best Buy rewards card now

    • @sarah3796
      @sarah3796 2 года назад +46

      “You’re never gonna get that Best Buy rewards card!!”

    • @gggooding
      @gggooding 2 года назад +7

      Tbf, I kinda think Olivia Munn would react the same way.

    • @lonewolfe2502
      @lonewolfe2502 2 года назад +3

      😂

    • @maddoxdriscoll168
      @maddoxdriscoll168 Год назад +1

      He looks like Sid from Ice Age

  • @FranMSK
    @FranMSK 2 года назад +3984

    I'm sure he did love her. It's sad for everyone involved, but celebrities don't just exist to please us. They fall out of love, just like everyone else.

    • @fineanddanya
      @fineanddanya  2 года назад +254

      You’re right it’s heartbreaking to watch

    • @liitbro
      @liitbro 2 года назад +49

      No. He’s a disgusting man and the public needs to know what people they are supporting. I used to enjoy his comedy but I would never watch them again because of that.

    • @rosariopereira729
      @rosariopereira729 2 года назад +80

      @@liitbro why is he disgusting?

    • @geodude247
      @geodude247 2 года назад +55

      What exactly has he done that's disgusting?

    • @itzchi11y83
      @itzchi11y83 2 года назад +52

      @@geodude247 I could be wrong but im pretty sure HE broke up with HER after he was brought into rehab. But I havent seen anything on why he is disgusting other than his addictions

  • @nakatominocalamari2969
    @nakatominocalamari2969 2 года назад +4430

    "How do I know when I'm with you that it's the real you?"
    "You don't."
    I don't know if this bit aged like fine wine or milk.

    • @TheKrazysexykool
      @TheKrazysexykool 2 года назад +134

      Milk

    • @duhuh7370
      @duhuh7370 2 года назад +203

      Fine wine. The accuracy was painful to watch but goddamn did it turn out to be true

    • @marmarbinx3458
      @marmarbinx3458 2 года назад +66

      Or maybe like something we can't accurately describe because it isn't our own personal life. But what do I know?

    • @GuerillaWelder
      @GuerillaWelder 2 года назад +4

      @@marmarbinx3458 you know what we all know which is nothing lol none of us know what TF is going on but hey

    • @desislavakonduzova9796
      @desislavakonduzova9796 2 года назад +29

      Totally milk. And it gets sourer with every second

  • @boobooismine1
    @boobooismine1 2 года назад +662

    You woke up and chose violence with this video, huh..

  • @smitra5901
    @smitra5901 2 года назад +3232

    I honestly thought they were so much in love. This news was such a shocker to me. And he went from not wanting kids to having a baby straight out of rehab with a new woman. Gosh! Can't even think about what Anna felt seeing it all happen.

    • @gonavy5607
      @gonavy5607 2 года назад +217

      I am pretty sure he did not impregnate the new gf on purpose.

    • @sadem1045
      @sadem1045 2 года назад +176

      Maybe he changed his mind about having kids and that was one of the reasons they broke up - we don't know. That's why my dad got divorced from his first wife.

    • @constantreader7944
      @constantreader7944 2 года назад +104

      @@sadem1045 Doubtful. It's almost always the guy who doesn't want kids, and the woman who decides to go along with it. Also, I gotta restate this. No way he got Olivia pregnant on purpose. Come on. They're already broken up.

    • @sadem1045
      @sadem1045 2 года назад +81

      @@constantreader7944 I'd like the statistics, please. The source as well.

    • @constantreader7944
      @constantreader7944 2 года назад +19

      @@sadem1045 You can google as well as I can. I just don't believe for a moment he got Olivia Munn pregnant on purpose. Do you? Doesn't anybody? Therefore I have proven my case.

  • @phosphenevision
    @phosphenevision 2 года назад +1612

    The interview where he was on about his "real self" and his wife asking about it is such a red flag in retrospect

    • @p4uli30
      @p4uli30 2 года назад +91

      yeah now its weird watching that part

    • @mermaiddiyartist8119
      @mermaiddiyartist8119 2 года назад +10

      Yep

    • @NYD666
      @NYD666 2 года назад +33

      @a person except he has a drug problem. It's a bit different

    • @anicerain1704
      @anicerain1704 2 года назад +1

      True

    • @h3ck774
      @h3ck774 2 года назад +55

      I mean it was a punchline to his joke I can pretty much guarantee that's not how the conversation went down also talk show bits are scripted

  • @justayoutuber1906
    @justayoutuber1906 2 года назад +739

    Getting another woman pregnant while you are still married is kind of low class.

    • @shakira4223
      @shakira4223 2 года назад +110

      Fr, and the fact that he was once cheated on by his gf during a long distance relationship, he must've known how it must feel to the other nd how wrong it is.

    • @aguywithalotofopinions412
      @aguywithalotofopinions412 2 года назад +139

      Yeah doctors really don’t recommend starting relationships right out of rehab because it’s really easy to make stupid decisions

    • @eugenechege1621
      @eugenechege1621 2 года назад

      Lol online and real life are different realities it seems

    • @mattmammone2338
      @mattmammone2338 2 года назад +3

      I agree, though addiction can screw up the best of us.

    • @tordyclark
      @tordyclark 2 года назад +8

      Too many "kind ofs" in that sentance.

  • @MeghanBean
    @MeghanBean 2 года назад +2254

    I need her to rebound with Timothee Chalamet

    • @nomenome856
      @nomenome856 2 года назад +55

      Alright, who do we tweet at and what hashtag do we use?

    • @zeinaalsherif7794
      @zeinaalsherif7794 2 года назад +11

      Lmao

    • @l.salevi
      @l.salevi 2 года назад +16

      I can get on board with this

    • @henriettakanya8605
      @henriettakanya8605 2 года назад

      Yas she must get that D!! Hope she does. I love mulaney but c'mon

    • @dianapevtsov
      @dianapevtsov 2 года назад +33

      If that'll stop everyone from griping, then great. I always had kind of a queasy feeling about Anna & John. Every single anecdote he ever told about her was about her needling him, chipping at his self esteem with tiny slights and comments, and his courtly way he'd publicly declare his fondness for her always just felt like a) a people-pleaser, and b) someone speaking in their own interpersonal best interests. Of course he was going to say he loves his wife, he wasn't allowed NOT to. So yes, if Anna & Chalamet get together, good for them, but none of this is any of our business. We should regard all of them like we're in the era John's voice sounds like it comes from, in the 1930s, way back before we knew everything about celebs' personal lives.

  • @dra2521
    @dra2521 2 года назад +455

    Remember y'all, no matter how much you think you know a celebrity, you don't

    • @willowoodz
      @willowoodz 2 года назад +5

      truth 👏🏽

    • @p4uli30
      @p4uli30 2 года назад +32

      or anyone to be honest... not everybody shares every part of their lives so sometimes we assume things

    • @Nadiesalevivo
      @Nadiesalevivo 2 года назад +1

      @@p4uli30 People assume all the time.

    • @Nadiesalevivo
      @Nadiesalevivo 2 года назад

      @@p4uli30 and it's a disgrace.

    • @p4uli30
      @p4uli30 2 года назад

      @@Nadiesalevivo yup

  • @PlantMusicLife
    @PlantMusicLife 2 года назад +1477

    Bill Hader’s face says everything you need to know about the state of their marriage 😂😭

    • @Mandrake591
      @Mandrake591 2 года назад +80

      I think he was joking......

    • @penny4chz
      @penny4chz 2 года назад +47

      I thought the same 😆. Friends always know.

    • @natgonzza
      @natgonzza 2 года назад +55

      @@Mandrake591 "entre broma y broma la verdad se asoma" - Every latina lady ever

    • @popeye697
      @popeye697 2 года назад +7

      @@Mandrake591 he was obviously joking

    • @alexperkins8433
      @alexperkins8433 Год назад +13

      @@natgonzza TOTally.....which is why she is now his EX

  • @rachelno9229
    @rachelno9229 2 года назад +852

    My father is one of the best in his field. His staff love him. But his alcoholism ruined all of his personal relationships including ours. Addiction is very powerful.

    • @dizzymisslizzy4569
      @dizzymisslizzy4569 2 года назад +20

      same with my father

    • @ShaunHensley
      @ShaunHensley 2 года назад +6

      In fairness, he had to deal with a harpy of a wife

    • @ShaunHensley
      @ShaunHensley 2 года назад

      @@Megasaurusify All wives are harpy trash

    • @caseohsdookie
      @caseohsdookie 2 года назад +17

      @@ShaunHensley no? she seemed great

    • @goldrush18x
      @goldrush18x Год назад +12

      @@caseohsdookie imo she didn’t come across very nice or supportive when it came to john. not saying she’s an inherently mean person but more of a strong, bossy personality type that may not have meshed well with his personality. as you can see in the video he often played negative moments with her off as mere jokes but that kind of stuff can stay with you and wear on your self esteem after a while.

  • @MaddyBlu9724
    @MaddyBlu9724 2 года назад +586

    Im largely not emotionally invested in this whole thing, but the "how do I know Im with the real you?" thing hits really hard in retrospect haha. Especially since Anna was obviously shocked and distraught by the divorce.

    • @asponon
      @asponon Год назад

      How do you know?

    • @MaddyBlu9724
      @MaddyBlu9724 Год назад +4

      @Cowsheep 1234 She made a public statement right afterwards saying she was shocked and heartbroken. It wasn't a big secret lol.

    • @asponon
      @asponon Год назад

      @@MaddyBlu9724 I meant the cheating you insinuated

    • @MaddyBlu9724
      @MaddyBlu9724 Год назад +2

      @Cowsheep 1234 What? Dude, I have no idea how you decided I "insinuated" that.

    • @asponon
      @asponon Год назад

      @@MaddyBlu9724 no you decided to yourself then wrote the comment and acted like you didn’t

  • @snc9035
    @snc9035 2 года назад +33

    Why does it feel like I got married, divorced and then watched my ex have a child with another woman over the span of 4 minutes and 12 seconds

  • @bef9612
    @bef9612 2 года назад +124

    maybe Tendler can seek out Chalamet :)

    • @canna8676
      @canna8676 2 года назад +4

      THIS!!

    • @lifeofriley8160
      @lifeofriley8160 2 года назад +2

      That would just be 🥰

    • @edinburghredneck
      @edinburghredneck 2 года назад +1

      Yeah, umm…the word is that he prefers the company of men. Sorry Anna.

    • @bef9612
      @bef9612 2 года назад

      @@edinburghredneck Did he announce it? I don't really follow too much celebrity gossip.

    • @thesecondringbearer
      @thesecondringbearer 2 года назад +1

      @@bef9612 No, and he dated Johnny Depp’s daughter, so this is probably not true.

  • @lilsneepsnorp4951
    @lilsneepsnorp4951 2 года назад +81

    I’m so tired of everyone picking sides in this divorce of absolute strangers and they both seem so nice and I wish the best for both of them.

  • @holitinne
    @holitinne 2 года назад +78

    “Some things are worth leaving your wife for.”
    -Best Buy Rewards Card

  • @mariekastler5391
    @mariekastler5391 2 года назад +189

    There are reasons why people are encouraged not to couple up in the first year of recovery...
    Hope they can use their humor and big brains to coparent their daughter with love.

    • @princessrachel988561
      @princessrachel988561 2 года назад +8

      It was a boy

    • @mikeg8276
      @mikeg8276 2 года назад +24

      I mean, he was _already_ coupled up. He _doubled_ up and got the mistress pregnant, which isn’t advisable in any situation

    • @alexperkins8433
      @alexperkins8433 Год назад

      @@princessrachel988561 lol

    • @joanbernsten3960
      @joanbernsten3960 Год назад +2

      ​@Mike G In his September 2021 interview he said and this is a quote "I went to rehab in September, I got out in October, I moved out of my home from my ex-wife. Then in the spring I went to Los Angeles and met and started to date a wonderful woman named Olivia." He didn't cheat, still probably not great that he already has a partner... And before you get confused he went to rehab in both September (for a month) and December (for three months).

  • @lml656
    @lml656 2 года назад +59

    The dead look on his face when he talks about his knew relationship with Olivia...

    • @yolenda_loves_to_sing
      @yolenda_loves_to_sing Год назад +12

      He said she is wonderful and incredible and stuff, but there is no happiness in his eyes...

  • @KbBeaute
    @KbBeaute 2 года назад +77

    To think, the man who loved real housewives for its seemingly ridiculous drama, became the drama himself.

  • @iliasVoolgaris
    @iliasVoolgaris 2 года назад +61

    The directing in this video is brutal

  • @bonzupippinpaddleoxacoppil484
    @bonzupippinpaddleoxacoppil484 2 года назад +139

    John may get Munn, but now Anna can get Timothee Chalamet.

  • @SheilaR.08
    @SheilaR.08 2 года назад +51

    His real estate agent turned out to be Nostradamus.

  • @JSJSpeaks
    @JSJSpeaks 2 года назад +290

    This broke my heart! He had a lot of sadness which he put a smile over. May his recovery continue long in life. 💜

    • @CoachRudi1
      @CoachRudi1 2 года назад +24

      I agree-a lot of sadness he put a smile over- I think he has unresolved issues with his Dad - and even in that Seth Meyers interview, Seth was so amazing and supportive yet I felt like John was, as you say, putting a smile over, but deep down there is NO WAY he doesn’t know how much his unfortunate actions HURT ANNA and i am not convinced he’s fully dealt with that reality yet

  • @abbyzeo6180
    @abbyzeo6180 2 года назад +411

    i love john as a celebrity but y’all have to internalize that just because somebody comes across as charming and bubbly and fun and likeable when it’s their job to do so, does not necessarily mean they’re always like that. i’m not gonna say john is a bad person, because he’s a human being who’s surely seen his fair share of pain and struggle through his life, but i’m also not gonna say he’s a good one because none of us truly know him personally. it’s unfair of us to butt our head into the personal business of a celebrity like that

    • @dizzymisslizzy4569
      @dizzymisslizzy4569 2 года назад +32

      @@tangocat670 we dont know anything about his relationship. he’s in recovery and made some bad choices. that doesnt make him a bad person

    • @alyssapinon9670
      @alyssapinon9670 2 года назад +4

      Yeah this is a lesson my high school self (who had the biggest crush on John for his charming on screen personality) had to learn

    • @ShaunHensley
      @ShaunHensley 2 года назад

      @@tangocat670 for all you know his wife was an insufferable b

    • @HappyLeigh
      @HappyLeigh Год назад

      When you sell your soul to the devil for wealth and fame this is the consequences you pay. Hope he gets help and turns his life around.

    • @richards1708
      @richards1708 Год назад +2

      I think the problem here is that this stuff is deliberately made public. So people will talk about it. It's like when Will Smith mentioned he is in an open relationship, people will talk about it. Maybe keep that stuff private?

  • @JNJ1014
    @JNJ1014 2 года назад +353

    From the age of 18-25 my behavior w/women bordered on sociopathy. I was constantly unfaithful, verbally abusive, utterly self-centered, etc. Worse still, I was a high-functioning alcoholic/junkie. I got sober 5 years ago & as a man in my early 30s, I can't imagine acting that way w/someone I cared about.
    I say this bc I deal w/the same sickness as Mulaney but I can't fathom discarding my wife so casually. This is a person who built a life w/you, supported you through your addiction struggles, loved you & (likely) gave up on having children w/the promise of being w/you. That's legit sociopath behavior & I hope Jon gets financially DECIMATED in divorce proceedings.
    I have zero empathy for John bc if there's ONE thing you learn in sobriety it's "the world does not revolve around you". I hope for the kid's sake John stays sober but goddamn it doesn't look good.

    • @devonbogdan8527
      @devonbogdan8527 2 года назад +83

      Your comment was therapeutic as someone who is going through something similar as Anna

    • @JNJ1014
      @JNJ1014 2 года назад +21

      @@devonbogdan8527 I'm sorry that's happening to you but I'm glad my comment helped some small amount ❤️
      You don't need someone like that in your life, there is someone better coming your way in short order 🙂

    • @JNJ1014
      @JNJ1014 2 года назад +27

      @@mbrammy7 You should stop ASAP, if only bc you'll probably end up getting sober at some point & the guilt you're going to carry for your actions is HEAVY. Trust me, not a day goes by I don't have to consciously stop beating myself for cheating on a dozen+ wonderful girls who did nothing wrong but love a junkie alcoholic serial killer.

    • @KN-hg2nv
      @KN-hg2nv 2 года назад +39

      THIS.
      I get the whole deal with people saying he hes a human being and doesnt exist for our entertainment. but hes the one whos saying these things left and right and even used his relationship for stand up. also trust me, I would judge a non celebrity just as hard.

    • @rubyrayne8
      @rubyrayne8 2 года назад +33

      @@JNJ1014 I thought Anna didn’t want children? The woman doesn’t always “give up” having children, sometimes we don’t want them.
      Also we don’t know that he carelessly discarded her. He might have very carefully told her it wasn’t working out. I don’t know why people think they know what happened in a relationship between two ppl they don’t know and have never met. I feel awful for Anna. I love her recent art and I’ll continue to support both of them. As a human, I know how hard it is to just survive sometimes. Life is beautiful. And life is suffering.
      I’m also a addict and never was sociopathic or treated people like you mentioned above. I fucked up plenty of times sure. I make mistakes. But I didn’t treat ppl badly. We are all different. We all have our path. And piling on only creates more suffering.
      I’m glad you are clean and doing well.

  • @beatnik50s
    @beatnik50s 2 года назад +111

    Bill Hader's face says it all.

  • @feelthejoy
    @feelthejoy 2 года назад +55

    As the kids say: “this hits different.”

  • @alicianemitz6642
    @alicianemitz6642 2 года назад +698

    I think John is hilarious and love his comedy, but I still feel like he did his ex really dirty. And I feel for her.

    • @wa6488
      @wa6488 2 года назад +2

      What did he do to his ex?

    • @marcostruelle3310
      @marcostruelle3310 2 года назад +60

      When mulaney divorced his wife, it was reported quickly that he was in a relationship with olivia munn. Soon after, munn was pregnant. Apparently, the ex-wife was blind-sided by all of this. The separation, divorce, mulaney’s rehab all don’t align to favourably suggest that the divorce was amicable and whenever anna is interviewed, she admits that she is very uncomfortable (more uncomfortable than usual divorces). There may be alleged cheating and home wrecking. Munn also has a weird reputation with married guys.

    • @alexperkins8433
      @alexperkins8433 Год назад +14

      @@marcostruelle3310 I heard that Munn was....inappropriate with him at his WEDDING....idk if its true but i heard that awhile back.....ugh.

    • @alexperkins8433
      @alexperkins8433 Год назад +24

      i find that munn putting her kid/new love life all over media to be disgusting af under the circumstances...seriously - she got what she wanted/to flaunt it on tv show after tv show is beyond insensitive . feel SO sorry for his ex.

    • @CrystalLynn1988
      @CrystalLynn1988 Год назад +20

      ​@@alexperkins8433Munn even wrote in her book she was trying to break up John and his wife. She is a disgusting homewrecker.

  • @jakobbenjamin2098
    @jakobbenjamin2098 Год назад +169

    Hader's reaction is so genuine, funny and foreshadowing....

  • @centigradz2centigradz289
    @centigradz2centigradz289 2 года назад +289

    I feel bad for the ex. Seems like she was present at his worst. I'm surprised she stayed that long. But u never know if he was hiding it well. Seth mentioned how they did an intervention at his worst. SNL is a toxic environment. Once someone starts drugs there is no stopping. Relapse is very quick after recovery. Most times nothing really triggers the relapse. It's more the addictive nature of the drug.

    • @leahsmith4310
      @leahsmith4310 2 года назад +17

      Surprised she stayed this long? It just all depends on the person, and we weren't there so I don't feel it's right to blame one or the other.
      I suffer from horrible anxiety and depression, suffered a sexual assault, but my husband was my rock. He stood by me through the mood swings, the outbursts and the suicidal thoughts. He always asks if there's anything he can do or if I just need him to listen.
      I don't blame her for leaving and I don't blame him for his addiction I. The grand scheme, they just didnt work.

    • @snowpoler
      @snowpoler 2 года назад +15

      I feel bad for both of them, clearly they couldn't give eachother the support they needed. And addiction really is not a joke, nor are the people who are addicted to any form of substance.
      I don't think he deserves to be shit on just as she doesn't deserve to be shit on for this situation. I'm sure they both have valid reasons as to how one made the other unhappy. I hope they go happily on separate ways.

    • @dana102083
      @dana102083 2 года назад

      Id say its inappropriate coping of life stressors big and small.

    • @CourtneyPfetzer
      @CourtneyPfetzer 2 года назад +8

      If you listen to his material, he started abusing substances WAY before SNL!!!! He was barely a teenager. Poor guy has had a lifetime of struggle. He wasn't happy during lockdown & couldn't take not being productive & having a work routine. Educate yourself before you speak ppl

    • @gammagames1413
      @gammagames1413 Год назад +2

      "I'm surprised she stayed that long."
      I could be wrong but I'm pretty sure he divorced her.

  • @prasad19139413
    @prasad19139413 2 года назад +60

    Gotta appreciate the editing here 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @kim06sweet
    @kim06sweet 2 года назад +336

    I think the hardest part of accepting this was that the girl was Olivia Munn. The girl who wanted John regardless that he was then in a happy marriage. Plus, her being problematic didn't help

    • @kelseycoca
      @kelseycoca 2 года назад +49

      he wasn't in a happy marriage bc people in happy marriages don't have affairs, I don't blame her for the affair, he was the married man but she is known to mess around with married guys

    • @kcr7371
      @kcr7371 2 года назад +3

      Sorry maybe I'm just reading this wrong, but wdym by 'the girl was Olivia munn'?

    • @tangocat670
      @tangocat670 2 года назад +4

      @@kcr7371 the mistress and his new gf is olivia

    • @tangocat670
      @tangocat670 2 года назад +84

      @@kelseycoca when the guy u messing with is in a public monogamous relationship, any normal human with enough emotional intelligence would feel guilt. Obviously he has most of the blame and he's a pos, but she's not free of guilt

    • @kelseycoca
      @kelseycoca 2 года назад +19

      @@tangocat670 I agree, she isn't free of guilt but it's not like you can force a married man to mess around

  • @Songbird3592
    @Songbird3592 2 года назад +23

    The way this video is arranged is so good but so sad😢

  • @kyrahart1547
    @kyrahart1547 2 года назад +47

    he had a baby with Olivia Munn FOUR months after they divorced… so 😳

    • @oliviarose3787
      @oliviarose3787 2 года назад +15

      After the divorce was made public not necessary when they decided to end things

    • @udubeats4543
      @udubeats4543 Год назад +1

      Divorces take a long time, 6 months minimum a year on average

    • @GiselleKlara
      @GiselleKlara Год назад +2

      and he was in rehab for two of those months

  • @sherchez3293
    @sherchez3293 2 года назад +72

    That was some damn good editing. Don't know one bit about his personal life, but I think I do now.

  • @SE-gs6gd
    @SE-gs6gd 2 года назад +97

    He has a lot of his own personal demons to slay. There’s no way anyone can be in a successful relationship especially a marriage with another person without resolving their own issues first. You have to be solid first and good with yourself before you pull another person into your life. Loving someone only goes so far.

    • @rakimhinds6388
      @rakimhinds6388 2 года назад +3

      I think dealing with your shit before having kids is a bit of a fake ideal. I’ve never seen it lol…especially nowadays, with how expensive it is to care for yourself, not to mention therapy. You either like the person your with and want kids or you don’t.

    • @azul4904
      @azul4904 Год назад +2

      @@rakimhinds6388 i mean, what you’re saying is true, but generational trauma is still so prevalent. when ppl talk about sorting their issues before having children is usually cause they’ve first hand felt what having unavailable parents does to your mind. it’s so hard dealing with that later in life. so trying to be a healthy parent is at least a good way to start, even if you’ll never be “fully healed” from all your issues and scars.

  • @OuchingTigerLimpingDragon
    @OuchingTigerLimpingDragon 11 месяцев назад +5

    That was a very interesting montage. You could really feel the tone of the relationship shifting as time went on and by how he talked about things.

  • @CoachRudi1
    @CoachRudi1 2 года назад +602

    I love John Mulaney's work, always have and I probably always will. Although I have never met Mr. Mulaney "in real life," he is, and has made himself, very relatable over the years. And while a performance on stage is exactly that, a performance, I think it's safe to say there's enough reality in John's performances that cause several fans/ followers/supporters to feel they are allowed to have a response or reaction (despite some who will comment that it's not normal or healthy to have a "parasocial interaction" with the "stars" (he's a normal human being like any of the rest of us, just happens to be more famous and well known, but he's still a human being, living life) and as both a fan and a fellow human being, I want what is best for him. I want that for everyone, including myself. Life's not easy. It is a struggle.
    The part that's hard for me to watch, even though "it's not my personal business" (it was exposed publicly, and persons in public positions, receive public feedback, it happens) I am saddened that others ended up hurt namely, his wife, yep- Anna IS still legally his wife.
    For those who don’t believe she was hurt in the process, LOOK at her artwork. The photography of Anna Marie Tendler is talent and success in its own rite. I hope she sells all of her work and I hope she receives all of the awards and accolades that work of her level should receive. Study "Dinner in March" and "A Room that Was" from her series titled Images in the First House and tell me that your mind and brain and heart and soul are not affected.
    As I study Anna's work, I see a level of talent and skill and artistry that is on the same level as John, but in her own area of expertise and as I think of them and the 11year history they had, as a team (they dated well over four years before they married) I saw them as an unstoppable couple with power together that was still in the stages of being fully unleashed.
    I'm saddened because the pandemic triggered a relapse for John, it triggered a lot for a lot of us. The year sucked, no doubt about it.
    And while I understand “things go the way things go” sometimes, I can't help but think and wonder, if O.M. had NOT ended up carrying John's offspring, if more time could have passed for John, without the distraction of DATING someone new RIGHT outta rehab, maybe, just maybe at Step 9 of his 12 Steps, when it was time for making amends, his amends with his lovely and talented Wife who he had at once adored and held dearly, that his bonds with her could have been remembered and reawakened and been re-exposed (for I fully believe they are all STILL there, beneath the surface, and John could have been rejoined and reunited in relationship with a woman that I believes he shares a more compatible union with and I believe he was meant to be with- but it seems now, we may never know.

    • @fineanddanya
      @fineanddanya  2 года назад +85

      Your comment is the most thoughtful. Thank you.

    • @CoachRudi1
      @CoachRudi1 2 года назад +41

      @@fineanddanya and truly, thank you for all of the work and time that you dedicated to create this contemplative compilation- the use of the blackouts, on either end, along with the emphasis on the transition lines, “You Don’t!!” “…something happens” and the final line struck thoughts -not only about how well we know others, but causes us to question how deeply we are willing to go to examine the depths of ourselves- thank you for creating something that did that for/to me.

    • @fineanddanya
      @fineanddanya  2 года назад +25

      @@CoachRudi1 oh my word thank you for noticing all of that 🙏

    • @mikatheperson
      @mikatheperson 2 года назад +21

      Very nice reflexion, I wholeheartedly agree with you. I haven’t heard of John Mulaney for some time now and I’m very shocked by what’s been happening. I just hope everyone involved will turn out okay :(

    • @higiniomartinez6971
      @higiniomartinez6971 2 года назад +4

      2 much text 🤠

  • @Costerella7
    @Costerella7 2 года назад +290

    I understand people fall out of love. And I myself used to LOVE John mulaney and his comedy. Every Friday me and my family would sit down to watch his shows and laugh. But what he did to Anna truly broke what respect I had for him. I hope she can find someone new and better than him 💖

    • @vdussaut9182
      @vdussaut9182 2 года назад +47

      💯. And may it please be Timothée Chalamet.

    • @chachatheone1
      @chachatheone1 2 года назад +4

      @@vdussaut9182 yeaaaaah

    • @dizzymisslizzy4569
      @dizzymisslizzy4569 2 года назад +34

      we rly dont know anything about their relationship or what happened

    • @goldrush18x
      @goldrush18x Год назад

      It’s giving parasocial weirdo

  • @charlesbronson2926
    @charlesbronson2926 2 года назад +387

    It’s almost as if things change with the passing of time, and stand-up isn’t always factual statements.

  • @bronsonrodriguez3310
    @bronsonrodriguez3310 2 года назад +15

    I now see why the way he is. He’s a broken person like most of us and I just hope he gets through life the best way he can.

  • @veronicam2006
    @veronicam2006 2 года назад +30

    It’s a sad situation but this video was excellently made

  • @FuzzyDereck
    @FuzzyDereck 2 года назад +63

    They should give Oscars for supercuts like this. 👏👏 Bravo. Well done!

  • @cassandra2887
    @cassandra2887 2 года назад +44

    That ending 😢

  • @audreybringgold6217
    @audreybringgold6217 Год назад +5

    Addiction puts huge strains on families. Addicts are not themselves when they are high. They can be mean, they can be explosive or broody and detached. It is hard enough to keep a marriage hwalthy without that added challenge. I can absolutely imagine a situation where a once loving and great relationship ends amid an addicts relapse.

  • @timothymathewson8094
    @timothymathewson8094 10 месяцев назад +2

    Aren't you the lucky one to be publicly forgiven because you're so special. Continue to enjoy life

  • @TheMJ5779
    @TheMJ5779 Год назад +8

    The line about “the real you” couldn’t be more relatable and frustrating

  • @sandella11
    @sandella11 2 года назад +206

    And this is life.....totally unpredictable....and, speaking for myself (soon to be 74 yrs old), nothing has worked out the way I planned. Still....even at this old age. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’ve never dealt with alcohol or drug issue (had a husband who was usually out of control and after 7 yrs and two little girls...after trying to help him for 2 years), but I’m kind of an expert on schizophrenia (yes..my ex had it all...and I never knew it) and people who over indulge in alcohol.
    This is life. In my next life....hopefully....I’ll be unmarried and caring for unwanted animals at a sanctuary. No kids...tho I adore mine and my 5 grandkids (all grown up adults now). I just prefer non humans to most adult humans. Too much drama and causes a drain on my already pretty low energy level (from caring for so many beings ... both human and non human... this time around, in this lifetime).
    Not sure why my life has been so chaotic, stressful and full of sorrow.....but, I’ve come to realize I was looking elsewhere for what has been inside me all along: strength, compassion, empathy, love, joy, peace and common sense.

    • @juliakay6204
      @juliakay6204 2 года назад +12

      Thanks for saying this. I can relate. As for drugs, I did develop a dependency for a while and it was all rooted in trauma and trying to escape pain. Drug use destroys a lot of things and people who are addicts are very unhappy people. As for children, They are grown and I love so much and will never regret having them, but my babies are gone and I will miss them everyday for the rest of my life. And things did not work out the way I’d hoped when I had them. They are beautiful people but i would love to rewrite those years. If I’d known there would be this much pain when they grew up and are no longer the children they once were I may have decided not to have children. I know not everyone goes thru this, but I do. As for animals, I foster and advocate for them as well as care for my menagerie. These sweet babies never grow up or change and get me through my most difficult days.

    • @herenow4550
      @herenow4550 2 года назад +11

      I'm turning 32 soon and I just found my 4th kitten on the streets living on an island I moved to 2 years ago. My life looks like it's heading in the direction of giving my energy to animals and the environment. People have drained me as well. I appreciate your honest outlook on your life and I hope you are finding some peace these days.

    • @sandella11
      @sandella11 2 года назад +14

      @@herenow4550 Awwwwwwww. There’s nothing like that first look of trust in a stray kitten’s (or cat’s) eyes. In my opinion. I love non humans. I love a few humans....but not many. Since I was a child I connected with my grandfather and his ability to hide (and care for) stray dogs in his big tool shed (we had two dogs inside house and my mom would have flipped). Never told my mom. She liked animals, but not like me and my grandfather. I’ve lost so many tho....it hurts a lot. It’s like losing a child (I lost my youngest daughter to heart issues almost 10 yrs ago...she was young...a vet tech....loved animals also).
      It seems worth it tho. It’s not the quantity of life that matters....I think it’s the quality of life that matters. My dad died when I was inky 16 yrs old (heart issues too). Why I’m still here, I have no idea. 🤷🏼‍♀️
      I’ve taken in two stray cats (they’ve been inside now for many years...both showed up different times....the one who showed up almost 5 yrs ago was diagnosed with feline leukemia.... had to get two vaccines for Maya...the cat who was here 3 years before Zuzu showed up). I adore them...they tolerate each other.
      Also I’ve been feeding 13 feral cats for the past 9 yrs. I have huuuge cat shelters in my little back yard area. They’ve survived almost 10 winters. Only lost one...to cancer....last summer.😢
      Sorry...I’m rambling. I’m glad you’re helping our non human pals out. They have no voice to speak up for themselves. Most humans, in my opinion, won’t shut up. Sorry for the chatty ramble, but I’m human. 😊. Good luck with your kitties! Thx for taking them in. 💖🥰

    • @Rambutan.
      @Rambutan. 2 года назад +3

      @@juliakay6204 Thank you for sharing this and being honest about your experiences.
      I'm sorry things turned out this way for you.
      I hope you can find peace and joy.

    • @thesingerintheshower
      @thesingerintheshower 2 года назад +4

      Let me start by saying that I wish you well and I thank you for sharing. However, I think it's awful to say that you don't want children when you already have them. I don't say this to hurt you, but I think you should consider that it may hurt your children or grandchildren to hear that. If not yours, then maybe for someone else in a similar situation who reads this, think about that. I know that it would hurt me to hear my mom or parent saying those words. It would make me feel like I was a mistake.
      I do wish you well and I empathize with feeling drained. I hope that I wasn't too hard on you. It sounds like you need a recovery of your own from the traumatic events that took place in your life. Please take care of yourself and take all the time that you need to heal in THIS life.

  • @marielpare8290
    @marielpare8290 2 года назад +69

    I’m sure they were very much in love for most of their relationship. I’m sad that it ended the way it did and I can only wish the best for both of them.

  • @waynemiller6070
    @waynemiller6070 2 года назад +19

    Sorry to hear about troubling things happening to people that I have a fondness for.

  • @tammyjohnson8277
    @tammyjohnson8277 2 года назад +115

    I want these things he says to be true so badly……thoughts are with Anna-such a rough time.

  • @MsHannahFlower
    @MsHannahFlower 2 года назад +51

    I feel back for the forthcoming child tbh. Imagine them seeing that interview one day.

    • @sadem1045
      @sadem1045 2 года назад

      They probably won't..............

  • @jessicadodge444
    @jessicadodge444 2 года назад +7

    The narrative of this edit and the cuts were like so beautiful and well thought

  • @Yourmomismyotherride
    @Yourmomismyotherride 2 года назад +10

    He did her so dirty

  • @courtneycoleman6849
    @courtneycoleman6849 2 года назад +83

    What pisses me off the most is that Anna was there for him throughout his addiction….addicted have NO CLUE what it is like for the ones that love them. The ones that know they are more than their addiction and they deserve to be the best version of themselves. It’s takes so much love, so much selflessness to love an addict and stick by their side throughout their addiction & recovery. John quite literally took all of that love and effort and sacrifice Anna made to stay with an addict over the years and just shit all over it like she was absolutely nothing to him and I think that’s gotta be the saddest thing of all of this……for this reason i unfortunately think most addicts should be fully single when starting their recovery process. You have no idea who you’re going to be at the other end of recovery and it’s not fair to drag those that loved you and we’re there for you along for the ride

    • @rebecastevens8892
      @rebecastevens8892 2 года назад +6

      I wish I could thumbs up your comment more than once.

    • @PunkHime89
      @PunkHime89 2 года назад +13

      I think you are adding your own experiences to this and not actually looking at the timelines.
      1- Anne and John meet when John was years into sobriety.
      2- John didnt relapse until the pandemic.
      3- Interviews with John at the time showed a rocky marriage. She didnt go to his award show because she was certain he would lose, he was constantly doing appearances and working with seth meyers because he wanted to keep busy, etc.
      4- The first time he got out of rehab, he immediately seperated. So the second time he relapsed and went into rehab again, he was already separated from her.
      5- He's talked about one of his interventions, and hes named the friends that were there to help him get to rehab. From the sound of it, she was no longer involved in his life at that point. I don't know enough to say this was his first rehab or second visit, but he says he was unwilling to go the first time. So to me this sounds like his first intervention.
      From all this i have to imagine that their relationship was already rocky before he relapsed, and although Anne loved John, to say "she made a sacrifice over the years to stay with an addict" is a bit much because she just didnt.
      Also, im going to be honest here, she's making great use of this divorce in her career. I know it sounds incensitive now, because obviously shes an artist and shes expressing her pain through her art, but isnt this the same thing we criticize Justin Timberlake for doing with his breakup with Britney Spears?

    • @VioletEmerald
      @VioletEmerald Год назад +2

      ​@oh my lanta Thank you for this comment. I agree. So many people are projecting and assuming positive things about Anna that we have no proof she did do for John and therefore there is no proof that him wanting to get divorced is so unfair to her. We don't know either way. Honestly, all these clips imply Anna WASN'T supportive of him. There's another stand-up clip that wasn't included where she wasn't concerned he might have lung cancer and believed he could've been accused of a Me Too thing. But he never was. The way

  • @adudavacado8397
    @adudavacado8397 2 года назад +43

    I'm crying so hard why you do this to me

  • @ASimoneau
    @ASimoneau Год назад +5

    At the time of his intervention before he went to rehab, he was already living in an Airbnb, so it's not a stretch to assume his marriage might have been effectively over by that point anyway. I think people are operating under the assumption that he got out of rehab and only then made the decision to end his marriage and take up with a new girlfriend.

  • @jessecarliner7733
    @jessecarliner7733 2 года назад +38

    I saw the part where he tells Seth he is having a baby but I missed the part where Seth grabs his shoulder.

  • @kermitilluminati8972
    @kermitilluminati8972 2 года назад +38

    Yikes... his words did not age well in the slightest. The comments about his wife never knowing the real him, his complete disinterest in his wedding, saying how it's nice for someone to know the real him when he's not on drugs... So many red flags that all point to him having never cared for his ex wife to begin with. The way he talked about his wife versus the one time he talked about his girlfriend? Night and day. He never cared for that woman. He settled for someone that was in love with him but it was not reciprocated. Wasted her time and efforts and now she's hurt because of his adultery and sloppiness. What a trash man. Really thought Mulaney was a wholesome guy.
    And the way he just so casually says his ex needs to die?? He really couldn't give two shits about that poor woman, huh?

    • @BoredZozo
      @BoredZozo 2 года назад +6

      The comedy routine where we wants his ex to die was made a few years back and not directed towards his ex wife at all as they had recently gotten married at that point in time, Tbh that was just a jokey “relatable” standup routine from one of his Netflix specials.
      Not defending his actions at all as I agree what he did was scummy but we don’t exactly have the full story either only bits and pieces.
      That clip was horribly edited out of context here, in my opinion.

  • @beyzanurkoymen8124
    @beyzanurkoymen8124 2 года назад +8

    that intro was brutal

  • @simonj9631
    @simonj9631 Год назад +3

    1:41 his face said so much 😭😭 had me howling

  • @MelissaNgai
    @MelissaNgai 2 года назад +12

    Top notch editing

  • @Lin-jz4jz
    @Lin-jz4jz 2 года назад +9

    I have decided to blame the real estate agent.

  • @charlotte1795
    @charlotte1795 2 года назад +16

    THE REAL ESTATE LADY DID KNOW!!!!!!

  • @kaigeoghegan2717
    @kaigeoghegan2717 2 года назад +8

    Idk where this is going but my heart broke a little when I heard his voice on late night. He sounds so unsure of what’s happening. He’s a really talented and I think good person but this could go any which way

  • @ninavalentine1300
    @ninavalentine1300 Год назад

    It’s important to keep being kind and nice to each other, and loving … awwwe the ending to this video is so nice!!!! Congratulations!

  • @jugsteve
    @jugsteve 2 года назад +4

    Such a fan of his stand up. Look forward to the next special.

  • @PoppyCorn144
    @PoppyCorn144 Год назад +3

    He got married, had a crisis, separated then got divorced.
    He’s not unique in that respect.
    People fall out of love especially when there are additional stressors like addiction to contend with.
    I do think that his addiction probably made children an impossibility for his wife to contemplate but Olivia was ready for kids and hasn’t experienced living with him when he’s under the influence.
    I sincerely hope it all works out because half of the battle in recovery is learning to live in your new reality and his has shifted A LOT.
    All that said he seems to have a fantastic support system in his friends so it looks promising.

  • @Nachoza
    @Nachoza 2 года назад +14

    I loved John mulaneys stand up but it’s hard for me to watch it anymore... my first relationship failed due to cocaine and alcohol changing the person I loved 😢 this news actually caused my heart to break again because i can empathize with Anna in a very real way. Drugs are horrible and now I’m not really able to enjoy his specials any more. 😣

  • @unagalecic1417
    @unagalecic1417 2 года назад +2

    The editing on this is brutal

  • @brightlighter
    @brightlighter Год назад +2

    This was So Well Made.

  • @MsSpider26
    @MsSpider26 Год назад +3

    Anna is a strong Jewish broad, he's said so himself. She'll be OK without him.

  • @janemarinelli2838
    @janemarinelli2838 2 года назад +37

    I feel like John is not the man I thought he was Not saying it in a bad way just different. And he seems a little bit less funny now😔

    • @wintercomesearly
      @wintercomesearly 2 года назад +4

      Yes, that's it for me too.

    • @chaitanyajain3127
      @chaitanyajain3127 2 года назад +7

      Not for me , he has gone through trouble and has always been funny, just because his marriage didn't worked out , it doesn't mean He did something wrong

  • @arjemy
    @arjemy 2 года назад +2

    This is well edited especially at the end

  • @brittanycurl
    @brittanycurl Год назад +2

    I love how the real estate agent was actually right in the end…

  • @marion_t
    @marion_t 2 года назад +11

    I'm in a dilemma about him because I used to love him but after what happened in the past year, is just hard .

  • @posypopgacha7341
    @posypopgacha7341 2 года назад +8

    Some people are saying that he cheated because of the babies timeline and birth but I checked and their divorce was finalized January 6 and the baby was born on November 24 a month after the divorce was finalized would’ve been the time of conception so based off that we don’t really have proof that he ever did. It’s perfectly normal for people to date after a divorce and sometimes accidental pregnancies happen.

  • @Eknoor_Kaur_Bawa
    @Eknoor_Kaur_Bawa 2 года назад +7

    Well i guess she really didn’t know if it was the real him…

  • @hannahpieper6301
    @hannahpieper6301 2 года назад +27

    It hurts

  • @suzygreen2612
    @suzygreen2612 2 года назад +75

    That’s really depressing. He’s a super funny stand up but she dodged a bullet and I hope my girls never meet a man like him.

    • @chaitanyajain3127
      @chaitanyajain3127 2 года назад +4

      Why what wrong did he do

    • @susansmith493
      @susansmith493 2 года назад +1

      @@chaitanyajain3127 Because parents think "their girls" are flawless princesses. These are the kinds of girls no one wants their son to meet.

    • @chaitanyajain3127
      @chaitanyajain3127 2 года назад

      @@susansmith493 but he is saying there is some problem with mulaney

    • @susansmith493
      @susansmith493 2 года назад +1

      @@chaitanyajain3127 Everyone has problems.

    • @christybradley9471
      @christybradley9471 2 года назад +6

      @@susansmith493 Along the same vein, no parent wants to watch their son suffer at the hands of a selfish partner either. This is not about her thinking her daughters are flawless.

  • @helloAdikhere
    @helloAdikhere 2 года назад +73

    She's very perceptive that Anna

  • @areeshahasan8665
    @areeshahasan8665 2 года назад

    This is a well edited video

  • @jowosiwa
    @jowosiwa 2 года назад +3

    Just 🚩after 🚩after 🚩after🚩.
    I hope the baby and Anna doing okay now

  • @dianasayson2846
    @dianasayson2846 2 года назад +6

    What a sad compilation ☹

  • @_mothmaam_
    @_mothmaam_ 2 года назад +56

    The coolest thing about John was his nice, guy next door kind of humor. Idk shit about their marriage but he shot himself in the foot. Imo, Anna is a better artist anyway, lol.

    • @boiimcfacto2364
      @boiimcfacto2364 2 года назад +4

      She's a painter lol. Even if Picasso made his best work today, I doubt anyone would give a damn about it as much as they'd like even a mediocre stand up routine.

    • @_mothmaam_
      @_mothmaam_ 2 года назад +13

      @@boiimcfacto2364 well art is subjective so 🤷🏼‍♀️… that was just my two cents

    • @GiselleKlara
      @GiselleKlara Год назад +2

      it's not a competition. Also I'd never heard of her except as his wife. It depends what sort of art and what sort of performance you are into. Not into contemporary visual art at all, so she may be amazing but totally off the radar for many of us

  • @JSJSpeaks
    @JSJSpeaks 2 года назад +33

    “Watch you lose” instead of “console you if it doesn’t go your way.” 😣😔

    • @cherrybullet8630
      @cherrybullet8630 2 года назад +12

      she was probably joking

    • @KN-hg2nv
      @KN-hg2nv 2 года назад +4

      and then he dragged her on national tv, and because of yt, on this international platform.
      maybe talking it out with her wouldve been a better thing than both of them continuing to be so petty.

    • @drartemisa21
      @drartemisa21 2 года назад +9

      She was very obviously joking

    • @lilacheek1394
      @lilacheek1394 2 года назад +2

      misogynistic that he’s allowed to make jokes and shes not but alright

  • @autumntaylor2533
    @autumntaylor2533 Год назад

    The editing on thos,, chefs kiss

  • @Methus3lah
    @Methus3lah Год назад +3

    He can finally get the Best Buy rewards card

  • @rezarfar
    @rezarfar 2 года назад +7

    Im sure he loved her at one point but a lot can change in 6 years, feelings especially. Some people are just not meant to be.

  • @ridiculouslynietzche7623
    @ridiculouslynietzche7623 2 года назад

    Thank you 👌🏻🥺🧚🏻‍♀️

  • @Handlethis342
    @Handlethis342 2 года назад +5

    I love John. I’m sorry to hear he’s been struggling personally. I had no idea, of course.

  • @mollipop5941
    @mollipop5941 Год назад +4

    I am well aware that they're normal people and I put too much weight on something I didn't know much about but damn did this break me to pieces.

  • @abby_appy6121
    @abby_appy6121 2 года назад +11

    Idk. I can't say I didn't lose a tiny bit of respect for him 😅 I completely understand that celebrities don't exist to please us, but also.... Dude your life is quite public... It feels like an explanation isn't an outrageous thing to ask for

  • @MrJayehawk
    @MrJayehawk Год назад +2

    Celebrities, just like anyone else, can have changes in life and move on to different things...but he had made his relationship with his wife a big part of his act. We know a lot more about his marriage than some others. I know almost nothing about Dave Chappelle's wife, for example.
    It makes it hit harder than just hearing the headline "comedian and wife split".

  • @MM-qp4pd
    @MM-qp4pd 2 года назад +7

    Maybe they just weren't soulmates.Why stay with someone not meant to be? His ex is young and pretty. She will obviously move on.

  • @giovanne2143
    @giovanne2143 2 года назад +15

    This editing is professional gold( I Just made that up)

  • @puffinpie
    @puffinpie 2 года назад +11

    May be all this time he was sending signals.

  • @smalltittypunkgf
    @smalltittypunkgf Год назад +1

    the amount of foreshadowing is crazyyy the author rly went hard

  • @princeofb7383
    @princeofb7383 Год назад +2

    Serious question about being in relationships without solving ones issues first...
    Has anyone ever actually solved their issues. Like SOLVED. Corrected. Healed. From ALL THEIR issues.
    Sincerely, guy who is in a long term relationship with the woman who saw him in addiction and now has been clean for 18 months.

    • @fineanddanya
      @fineanddanya  Год назад

      We’re all human and all in various stages of healing