THANK YOU for saying that people shouldn’t ask couples when they are going to have kids. As someone who is struggling with fertility it can be so triggering when people ask that question so thank you for saying that, more people need to hear it. Congratulations on your baby, you guys will make great parents (:
I feel the same way!! I was like YESSS 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 thank you for voicing that ! I have been trying for 4 years and it’s sooo triggering when I get asked on the daily. My ivf makes me look pregnant and it literally destroys my day. I hope you get your blessing soon sending prayers 🙏🏻❤️
I pray you will able to have a child soon and have a beautiful testimony to tell! It sucks that people ask. Hopefully it’ll becomes general knowledge soon that it’s inappropriate to ask.
I feel you 25 endometriosis and my husband has low sperm count we don't have the means for IVF and everytime someone asks when we will be having babies it's like a rusty knife to the heart. I'm happy for the people who are able to get pregnant but sad I'll most likely never feel that joy.
I just wanted to say I am so thankful you talked about infertility and how a simple thing as telling someone they look pregnant can be hurtful to those who are having a hard time getting pregnant. My husband and I are praying for our miracle, it’s going on 4 years of us trying. I am so so thankful you two don’t have to go through this, it’s a tough road. I am so happy for you two! ❤️🙏🏻
Thank you so much for acknowledging the struggles of trying to conceive, pcos, endometriosis and miscarriages. These topics aren’t spoken enough about and it can be such a lonely thing to go through. So much respect for you guys ❤️
@@EmmaAppleBerry No. I actually wanna know. I haven't followed them in a while. And I have no idea what the reason is. I don't have a problem with it. I myself am English. And I love this couple I just wanna know what their specific reason is for chosing their baby to be Australian. Can you please elaborate on that? What is their reason?
@@EmmaAppleBerry Can you please elaborate why they chose a technological/cultural/economic/educational backwate like Australia over usa? Do they have any specific reason
cant imagine dealing with the constant questions about kids... really proud that you guys took your time and enjoyed being together as a couple before this new chapter. sorry for all the comments you must've had to read throughout the marriage, people should think before they speak.
I love it also but am very curious how that will work for the baby since won't baby need a greencard also or is it automatically American and Australian
Because Gabe is a US citizen, the baby will be considered a “citizen born abroad.” My husband’s dad is from New Zealand and his mom is from the US. He was born in NZ as a dual citizen of US and NZ. All his parents had to do to move to the US was get his passport and proof of having a US citizen parent (birth certificate)!
I think you guys have the healthiest relationships I have ever seen. I have been watching you since Gabe went to Australia to surprise Jess, and I can tell you are definition of "meant for each other" in every way possible. I am so happy for you and cant wait to see your baby.
Your baby will have an American accent with little bits and pieces of Australian! That’s how I am with my moms accent (not Australian though). Especially if you use lots of Australian terms/slang from when your child is young, they’ll pick it up
I have always said if a couple are having a baby that wasn’t exactly planned, the pregnancy is accidentally on purpose (divine timing). Congratulations and much love from a fellow Aussie 💕🙃
The way he look at jess its never change since they first marriage untill now , huhu you both make me so envy and happy in the same time , congratulation once again , im excited to see your baby
I’m so happy you both took the time to enjoy your marriage,touring, careers, and you both were not in a rush to get pregnant. It’s all in Gods timing. I’m so excited for both of you!
I’m half Australian and my mum is from Aus, when I was little I was born in the USA and growing up I did have an Australian accent until I was put into school in America. I say many words that are Aussie slang (like mum, tea, and many others not common to USA) but my accent is predominantly American!
Same here! My mom was born in South Africa so I grew up hearing the accent and saying words in the Afrikaans language or Afrikaans/South African slang. Some things people have no idea what I’m talking about and I have to consciously think about the American word every time before saying anything 😂. My whole mom’s side of the family moved to Canada when she was younger so whenever go there my cousins have a Canadian and South African accent mix. We also get a lot of cultural differences such as people saying we aren’t South African because we are white while actually a majority of the population at the time was white. But we always are able to shut it down by speaking fluent Afrikaans and other languages such as some African tribal languages my mother learned in school. It’s really cool and I love that part of my heritage and I’m so glad my mom passed it down to my brother and I.
@@litmemes8560 that's awesome! very similar to my experiences growing up too! It's funny what different cultures laugh at when they don't know it. There are some big differences between Aus and USA so sometimes I only know the word for something as Aussie slang and my mum will be talking then realize that might only be an Aussie thing
@@rebeccasimantov5476 Hey Rebecca! I do know that, it is however a word that is pronounced differently and is noticeable to people in the U.S. when I say it like that. Which is why I think of it as Aussie when talking. I know they use it in other places in the world too. It's just in my family how I think of it!
I was very sick my first 5 months of pregnancy and my husband was my saviour! He made me endless grilled cheese and fruit loops 🥰 He never complained about needing to help around the house to keep things in line while I was resting or sick.
Im so happy for you guys! 😍 I feel you Jess, I was sick for 6 months with my daughter and it was the worse than the birth itself. I just wish I had that support from my buyfriend. In a way he was supportive, that he was trying to make me feel better, bring me snacks and stuff like that. But at the same time, every day he came into the bedroom, me laying in bed throwing up, asking me what I am going to cook today... Then when our baby was born, he took 2 weeks off from work, but he didnt spend much time with us. He was so focused on finishing our house, that he spend the whole 2 weeks basically outside with his dad. I felt so alone. We talked about all of this after I went through severe depression, and he apologized and seemed really genuine. Somehow I will can not get over the feeling of being let off... I dont know how i can overcome this.
Thank you both for acknowledging trying to conceive complications and everything associated with it!! Can’t even tell you how many times we were asked if we were pregnant yet or when we were going to be. My husband and I tried for 3 years, with 4 miscarriages and a ton of tests. ivf and fostering to adopt was brought into the conversation. But we’re currently 12 weeks pregnant naturally 💜 hoping this is it 🤞🏻
I got married young just like you two. I was 19 and we waited 6 years to have a baby. It was one of those things with you two especially I understood going through that part of marriage and you will be glad you had the time you did before a baby. I’m 33 now pregnant with my third and time has just flown by! Take those big moments in your marriage at your pace and don’t listen to anyone else!
So excited you're going to have an Aussie baby!!! Please let us know if you do a target or baby bunting registry etc for baby things here in Aus! With love from Melbourne ❤️
I’m so so SO excited for you both! I took a test this morning and I had a very faint line, I’m praying that it sticks and we can have our rainbow baby 🥺🤗
It makes me so unbelievably happy to see this chapter of their life!! Idk how many people can relate but I found this channel on their FIRST video together back when they were only first dating! And now they are having a baby in their beautiful home with their beautiful family, God has blessed Us with you guys and has blessed you guys so much ❤️ ❤️ love yall
thank you so much for mentioning your own struggles with the topic of pregnancy. having had a miscarriage really changed how i felt about pregnancy and really could put a damper on the conversations. It had really muddied the pure excitement i use to have and casted a shadow of worry and sadness over the topic & it’s so important for people to keep that in mind when they’re women/couples about it. I’m 18 weeks now & so cool to see your experience at the same time!
Needed this today, our family lost a very close family friend to cancer on Wednesday it all happened very quickly as she was only diagnosed a month ago, and got told it was unfortunately terminal 7 days ago, 2 days ago she lost her life to that horrible disease. I’m not a full believer in god, but I do believe he ended her suffering by allowing her to go to the afterlife so quickly.
Will you be posting a video of you telling Gabe or did you want to keep that moment just for you both? Either way I'm so excited for you guys! What a blessed baby this will be and how blessed you will feel to be parents. It's an incredible experience.
Preach Gabe, thank you for saying !!! I am very sensitive to anything pregnancy related. I am surrounded by friends who got pregnant like within the first month and my husband and I are going on 8 months trying. I get very triggered so thank you for your sensitivity on this topic. I am really happy for you guys and hopefully will get inspiration for when my husband and I do have a baby. Praying for this journey for you guys
Thank you, Gabe, for telling people NOT to ask if they’re pregnant or when are they going to have a baby. I have PCOS and if I was trying to get pregnant it would most likely be very hard. I also have a very close friend who also has PCOS, suffered a miscarriage, had her rainbow baby boy, and then her miracle little girl. Getting pregnant was very hard for her. You just never know what someone is going through.
I have been following you both since day one and I can say that I truly honestly look up to you both. Jess I look up to you in so many ways and remind myself to be as kind and sweet and as caring as you are each day!! I love coming across both of your videos and hope to have an amazing relationship that you two share. I’m so incredibly happy for the both of you and excited for the videos to come!! It still doesn’t seem real to me, but I’m so happy you both went at your own pace and are in such a happy place. Much love to the both of you!❤️
Bingo---so glad to hear you say people shouldn't ask a couple/person about when they're going to have a baby---it's no one's business. The same goes for asking a young person why they're not married---it can be upsetting and hurtful. I also love how folks think it's okay to ask a young single person about their sex life. Would you ask a married couple about their sex life?
So excited for you two! Thank you for taking us on this journey! I hope your pregnancy will go smoothly, and if it doesn’t make sure to stay with God! Everything he does for a purpose!
You can tell that the last three videos have more views than the rest they uploaded in the last year. It shows that their fan are so excited in this next chapter in their lives
I love how y’all are having your baby & still advocating for those of us whom have been trying for 8 years… I was bloated & on my 🩸 on Christmas & in my Christmas photos with my husband I looked pregnant & I deleted a lot of pics & made my mom adjust my shirt it was a whole debacle. I know babies are what people expect, but it’s not a realistic expectation!
I lived in New Zealand from age 1-4, Australia from age 4-7, Canada from age 7-38, and 38-41 in Australia again. Have American and Dutch parents. My accent is Canadian. Whatever accent you have by the time you hit your teens is what sticks.
Omg, I feel so happy for you guys! I am 6 months pregnant myself. And its so cool going through this with someone else. You guys will make a beautiful family full of love 💕
So happy for you two!! And THANK YOU for mentioning that people should be more considerate. We’ve been asked so many times when we’re going to have babies, and we can’t. It is such a triggering question, and it really does dampen the mood of the day/week. So thank you for bringing that up!
Jess and Gabe, please always remember that the people who aren't on your side in the comments are people you would never interact with or have anything to do with in your life. I'm not in your position and can't fully understand the experience you've had with negative comments or the pregnancy comments. But, not every comment is deservng of your attention, they aren't your supporters if they don't support your views. Keep preaching kindness and thoughtfulness and the ones who support you will rise above the rest.
True. It's is hard when people tell "oh, are you pregnant?" and you are not. Last Sunday after church one person touched my belly and said "a baby?" and I just didn't know how to get out of that situation. We've been trying for a while now and it's really sad when we have to deal with those comments.
I'm so sorry if I've missed it but have you guys said anything about the gender? Just wondering if you plan to find out (or already know) or waiting to be surprised? I could never lol. So happy for you both. 🥰
Firstly Congratulations to both of you and your family. There are so many things that should be forbidden to ask. One thing people say often, once you’ve had a child or children is ‘when are you going to try for a boy/girl?’ It did my head in. I was blessed with two sons and people would constantly say this. I did my block though when my youngest son heard this one day and broke my heart when he said ‘Mum, didn’t you want me to be a boy’, he had tears in his eyes :( It’s not that it’s rude to say or meant to be hurtful but people don’t think sometimes about what they shouldn’t say or who they say it in front of. I’ve never forgotten the look on his face that day
I’m glad you mentioned about people not commenting on if you are pregnant or not. We had just experienced a miscarriage and I had a family member say to me “so it’s just about time for baby 2 right?” And it broke my heart. You have no idea what people are going through behind closed doors, and if they are pregnant and not telling you then they have good reason and will tell you when they are ready!
It’s been so long. I left RUclips some time ago. It was getting boring. But I’ve been a fan of you guys. Was always rooting for you. I just saw a notification come across my phone and had to see if it was clickbait. OMG! Congrats! Finally! I am now fully invested again. I wish you guys all the best. You guys are amazing.
Gabe, your comment about 'asking people when they will get pregnant' 'you look pregnant' etc was so lovely. It really takes a great man to say enough, say stop and stand up for women... BE KIND PEOPLE
I just found out I am pregnant on the 16th. It's super early so my husband and I are praying for this little miracle to make it to term but we had the same approach to "trying". We didn't plan the baby but I got off birth control in November er of 2020 and we weren't trying but we weren't NOT trying. Like we told my doctor "if it happens that's awesome, but not putting stress on our timeline" so it's cool to see you guys with the same kind of "plan". Definitely not an accident baby, but a wonderful blessing we were waiting on whenever God would allow. Praying for your baby and pregnancy and also praying for our little tiny seed of a miracle wonder baby haha my mom had miscarriages and PCOS so we didn't know how long it would take either. And my husband had severe lead poisoning as a toddler so he was told he may be sterile and never be able to have kids so it was just us hoping and praying God would let this happen when and if He allowed
I literally said out loud thank you Gabriel for saying that about people struggling to get pregnant, I know a lot of people that do struggle and I feel bad when people make those comments.
Not only does asking someone if they’re pregnant hurt those who are trying and not succeeding or experienced a lost, but also suggesting that you look ‘bigger’ which can really hurt someone’s feelings if they’re not pregnant or not showing. It’s basically a veiled way of saying hey you gained weight. Just don’t say anything. If they’re pregnant they’ll tell you when they’re comfortable. If they’re not they’re not. Period.
You are both absolutely right about pregnancies and the pressures of the media. It’s impact is so overlooked yet overwhelming across platforms. The idea that people can constantly send messages and comments encouraging pregnancy is unfortunately not easy and can be an extremely sensitive matter for many. Let’s be more thoughtful with our actions 🤍
It’s so awful when people comment on how ones stomach looks, women’s stomachs are different sizes depending on what they eat, time of the month, etc. I’m a nurse and I’ve had patients ask me if I’m pregnant when in fact my IBS was acting up. Can’t wait to hopefully become pregnant one day. Can’t wait to see you both become parents ❤️
Been watching since they both first started up on either RUclips and Vine, so awesome to see their journey progressing! Now we get to see baby Conte 🥺🙌🏼
I was so happy when Gabe warned people about being too pushy with the baby-question towards married couples … or I guess couples in general. It’s what I say all the time to even family and friends. It’s the most rude question even though they don’t mean to be rude - just think about what the other person could probably be struggling with and with you asking questions about when they’ll FINALLY have a baby could, as Gabe so perfectly put it, ruin their week. AMEN brother! Love you guys and excited to be on this journey with you now
I’m currently in isolation cause I sadly have corona hearing you guys talk about your pregnancy journey makes me so happy Stay safe guys Greetings from Germany
I remember when I first found out I was pregnant with my eldest son (woulda been 17 years ago 😬😱) and I didnt believe it cause I hadnt been throwing up lol, turns out I was one of the lucky ones who never gets morning sickness. Ive had 4 kids (& 8 pregnancies) and never suffered morning sickness through any of them. I read once that you tend to have whatever your mother had so I asked one of my sisters whose had 2 kids and she never had morning sickness too so then I asked my mum who never had morning sickness either. You should ask your mum Jess, I bet she had morning sickness. So glad to hear its gone now though
Im on the Journey since gabes old vines back when i was 14 and i am 21 now and i am so grateful you found each other and accomplish all these amazing things in Life!! God bless you
LOVE all the baby talk but I must say Gabe should record a lookbook or something like that because his style is just 😚🤌 I’m sure a lot of guys would appreciate it !!
All the prayers for you guys! I’ve followed Gabe since vine and y’all since the beginning of y’all’s public relationship. I couldn’t be happier and couldn’t think of better people to parent the future generation!
for some reason that first frame of them sat on the sofa at that angle to the wall reminded me of the old j+g vlogs in the first apartment they shared together in LA. and now they're sat talking about their baby. how crazy is life!!! i'm so excited for them
So happy for you all can’t believe that a moment ago you were married and now pregnant and expecting a baby though it’s been years but damn it felt like it went fast along the journey can’t wait to see more to what the journey hold for you two 🥺❤️🤗 best of wishes to you all
The first trimester is so hard. My princess is 5 months and i can still feel my first trimester. I was so sick it was so hard. Praying for the three of you i hope this is a healthy pregnancy and and even more healthy baby and delivery ❤️
So excited for you guys! Thank you for making the point about being mindful when wanting to ask someone about pregnancy/baby plans. It’s really hard for many of us. 💗
your conversations just sound like when your parents are teaching you how to behave good in certain situations. But in such a delicate and sensitive way.
I am so happy for you guys that international travel has opened for Australia making travel between easier for you and your family. Especially now you have a little bubba on the way 🥺
So excited to see you guys as parents!! You will both be such kind and caring parents to your gorgeous baby!🥰 Praying for a healthy pregnancy and a happy and healthy baby 🙏🙏❤️ Its all making sense why you bought the house in Australia! You guys can chill there till baby and Jess are ready to fly back to Florida !
When Gabe preached I agreed 100% and sadly people can be like that and say things that they shouldn’t. People just need to respect and keep their mouth shut goes with all ages. Think before you type or say.
Been following Gabriel since he didnt met Jess yet, this is just incredible to me. You feel like my friends, I know and love you so much 🥰 wish you all the best, will always follow you whatever you do❤
Hope your little one does call you Mum!Would be lovely to hear some wholesome Australian words being read and taught to bubba. Congrats Mumma bear. ❤️🧸 Can’t wait to watch both you and Gabe handle the bumps, challenges and triumphs of this amazing journey!
so sorry you had to go through those feelings and comments, i know i’m guilty of doing that in the past or assuming or judging. thank you so much for the reminder ❤️
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THANK YOU for saying that people shouldn’t ask couples when they are going to have kids. As someone who is struggling with fertility it can be so triggering when people ask that question so thank you for saying that, more people need to hear it. Congratulations on your baby, you guys will make great parents (:
I feel the same way!! I was like YESSS 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 thank you for voicing that ! I have been trying for 4 years and it’s sooo triggering when I get asked on the daily. My ivf makes me look pregnant and it literally destroys my day.
I hope you get your blessing soon sending prayers 🙏🏻❤️
@@rennn93 ugh IVF is no fun, I have been doing that too. Prayers to you guys as well, thank you so much! 🤍
I pray you will able to have a child soon and have a beautiful testimony to tell!
It sucks that people ask. Hopefully it’ll becomes general knowledge soon that it’s inappropriate to ask.
yes, this!!! we are always asked. it hurts and annoying. people dont understand unless they go though it themselfs
I feel you 25 endometriosis and my husband has low sperm count we don't have the means for IVF and everytime someone asks when we will be having babies it's like a rusty knife to the heart. I'm happy for the people who are able to get pregnant but sad I'll most likely never feel that joy.
Is it me or does gab look so much happier. He looks back at peace and has a glow. So happy for him.
Yeah I agree!
Gabe also has the pregnancy glow 🥰😜
@@Taylor_xo 😂😂😂
Gosh, I’m so excited for y’all. Praying that this pregnancy goes smoothly and that you have a blessed and healthy little human 🥰
followed y’all since i was 16, and at 21 this is so sweet to watch y’all welcome your first baby. love y’all so much 🤍
Same here 🥺 I’ll be 21 in oct. I love them!!
Same omg
Omg same
same!! 🥰
@@Natallz SAME!
My question: Has Milo been following Jess around closely? I know sometimes dogs and cats can get clingy to their pregnant owners!
So excited for you. I’m so glad you’re going through pregnancy before we start trying. It’s like having an older sister to look up to
Madi I 100% agree! I’m hoping to start trying later this year, and watching them go through this is just so comforting and eye-opening!
@@jacquelinem06 same here! 🤍🥰
@Lina golie seriously? stop this
I just wanted to say I am so thankful you talked about infertility and how a simple thing as telling someone they look pregnant can be hurtful to those who are having a hard time getting pregnant. My husband and I are praying for our miracle, it’s going on 4 years of us trying. I am so so thankful you two don’t have to go through this, it’s a tough road. I am so happy for you two! ❤️🙏🏻
Keep praying and trying it will happen! I got my sweet girl five years after trying. Everything in its own time!
Thank you so much for acknowledging the struggles of trying to conceive, pcos, endometriosis and miscarriages. These topics aren’t spoken enough about and it can be such a lonely thing to go through. So much respect for you guys ❤️
Can someone please tell me why they chose baby to be australian? Is there any specific reason?
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@@larrybuchannan186 youre kidding right?
@@EmmaAppleBerry No. I actually wanna know. I haven't followed them in a while. And I have no idea what the reason is. I don't have a problem with it. I myself am English. And I love this couple
I just wanna know what their specific reason is for chosing their baby to be Australian. Can you please elaborate on that? What is their reason?
@@EmmaAppleBerry Can you please elaborate why they chose a technological/cultural/economic/educational backwate like Australia over usa?
Do they have any specific reason
@@EmmaAppleBerry Answer me please
cant imagine dealing with the constant questions about kids... really proud that you guys took your time and enjoyed being together as a couple before this new chapter. sorry for all the comments you must've had to read throughout the marriage, people should think before they speak.
Can someone please tell me why they chose baby to be australian? Is there any specific reason?
It's very sweet that you will be having the baby in Australia, a girl needs her mum when she's giving birth and your family will be so supportive!!
I love it also but am very curious how that will work for the baby since won't baby need a greencard also or is it automatically American and Australian
@@kristy681987ify the baby should be able to automatically get American citizenship bc of Gabriel :D
I’m thinking it relies on their home address anyway❤️
Because Gabe is a US citizen, the baby will be considered a “citizen born abroad.” My husband’s dad is from New Zealand and his mom is from the US. He was born in NZ as a dual citizen of US and NZ. All his parents had to do to move to the US was get his passport and proof of having a US citizen parent (birth certificate)!
I think they are doing it so the baby is automatically American and Australian
I think you guys have the healthiest relationships I have ever seen. I have been watching you since Gabe went to Australia to surprise Jess, and I can tell you are definition of "meant for each other" in every way possible. I am so happy for you and cant wait to see your baby.
Your baby will have an American accent with little bits and pieces of Australian! That’s how I am with my moms accent (not Australian though). Especially if you use lots of Australian terms/slang from when your child is young, they’ll pick it up
Everytime I see a q&a or chat-video, i love to see how attentive Gabe is to Jess. We all need more attentiveness to people around us. 💪🤗 Thank you!
I have always said if a couple are having a baby that wasn’t exactly planned, the pregnancy is accidentally on purpose (divine timing). Congratulations and much love from a fellow Aussie 💕🙃
The way he look at jess its never change since they first marriage untill now , huhu you both make me so envy and happy in the same time , congratulation once again , im excited to see your baby
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Love this 🥺
I’m so happy you both took the time to enjoy your marriage,touring, careers, and you both were not in a rush to get pregnant. It’s all in Gods timing. I’m so excited for both of you!
@Rachael Shayna Nelson I think they’ve had even more than 3 yrs which is great. I think they’re ready and excited for this 😅
I’m half Australian and my mum is from Aus, when I was little I was born in the USA and growing up I did have an Australian accent until I was put into school in America. I say many words that are Aussie slang (like mum, tea, and many others not common to USA) but my accent is predominantly American!
Same here! My mom was born in South Africa so I grew up hearing the accent and saying words in the Afrikaans language or Afrikaans/South African slang. Some things people have no idea what I’m talking about and I have to consciously think about the American word every time before saying anything 😂. My whole mom’s side of the family moved to Canada when she was younger so whenever go there my cousins have a Canadian and South African accent mix. We also get a lot of cultural differences such as people saying we aren’t South African because we are white while actually a majority of the population at the time was white. But we always are able to shut it down by speaking fluent Afrikaans and other languages such as some African tribal languages my mother learned in school. It’s really cool and I love that part of my heritage and I’m so glad my mom passed it down to my brother and I.
@@litmemes8560 that's awesome! very similar to my experiences growing up too! It's funny what different cultures laugh at when they don't know it. There are some big differences between Aus and USA so sometimes I only know the word for something as Aussie slang and my mum will be talking then realize that might only be an Aussie thing
Hi Sophia.
Mum isn't actually Aussie slang... It's just different spelling and pronunciation from the American version (mom).
@@rebeccasimantov5476 Hey Rebecca! I do know that, it is however a word that is pronounced differently and is noticeable to people in the U.S. when I say it like that. Which is why I think of it as Aussie when talking. I know they use it in other places in the world too. It's just in my family how I think of it!
@@sophiaruhl8221 Whereabouts in the States do you live?
Is it just me or does Jess and Gabriel make everyone's day ♾×'s better?
Love you guys❤
I was very sick my first 5 months of pregnancy and my husband was my saviour! He made me endless grilled cheese and fruit loops 🥰
He never complained about needing to help around the house to keep things in line while I was resting or sick.
Im so happy for you guys! 😍 I feel you Jess, I was sick for 6 months with my daughter and it was the worse than the birth itself. I just wish I had that support from my buyfriend. In a way he was supportive, that he was trying to make me feel better, bring me snacks and stuff like that. But at the same time, every day he came into the bedroom, me laying in bed throwing up, asking me what I am going to cook today... Then when our baby was born, he took 2 weeks off from work, but he didnt spend much time with us. He was so focused on finishing our house, that he spend the whole 2 weeks basically outside with his dad. I felt so alone. We talked about all of this after I went through severe depression, and he apologized and seemed really genuine. Somehow I will can not get over the feeling of being let off... I dont know how i can overcome this.
Thank you both for acknowledging trying to conceive complications and everything associated with it!! Can’t even tell you how many times we were asked if we were pregnant yet or when we were going to be. My husband and I tried for 3 years, with 4 miscarriages and a ton of tests. ivf and fostering to adopt was brought into the conversation. But we’re currently 12 weeks pregnant naturally 💜 hoping this is it 🤞🏻
I got married young just like you two. I was 19 and we waited 6 years to have a baby. It was one of those things with you two especially I understood going through that part of marriage and you will be glad you had the time you did before a baby. I’m 33 now pregnant with my third and time has just flown by! Take those big moments in your marriage at your pace and don’t listen to anyone else!
So excited you're going to have an Aussie baby!!! Please let us know if you do a target or baby bunting registry etc for baby things here in Aus!
With love from Melbourne ❤️
I love the intro!! You guys amazing and I can’t wait for the baby!!! You both will be great parents ❤️❤️❤️
JENNY!! SICK EDITING THAT MICROPHONE 🎤😅👏
Loving the Conte Convo Corner! Wishing you all the best and so excited to see this journey unfold!!
ALSO! OMG how crazy exciting that the baby will be Australian!
I’m so so SO excited for you both! I took a test this morning and I had a very faint line, I’m praying that it sticks and we can have our rainbow baby 🥺🤗
aww, wish you all the best!
I will pray for you!
Sending you lots of love and positivity! ♥️
Praying for God's covering over you three as you enter this new season ❤
Thank you for taking us along for the ride. So excited for you!!
It makes me so unbelievably happy to see this chapter of their life!! Idk how many people can relate but I found this channel on their FIRST video together back when they were only first dating! And now they are having a baby in their beautiful home with their beautiful family, God has blessed Us with you guys and has blessed you guys so much ❤️ ❤️ love yall
thank you so much for mentioning your own struggles with the topic of pregnancy. having had a miscarriage really changed how i felt about pregnancy and really could put a damper on the conversations. It had really muddied the pure excitement i use to have and casted a shadow of worry and sadness over the topic & it’s so important for people to keep that in mind when they’re women/couples about it. I’m 18 weeks now & so cool to see your experience at the same time!
*they’re asking
When are we going to get a reaction video? I wanna see Gabe’s and everyone’s reaction to the best news! ❤️
Needed this today, our family lost a very close family friend to cancer on Wednesday it all happened very quickly as she was only diagnosed a month ago, and got told it was unfortunately terminal 7 days ago, 2 days ago she lost her life to that horrible disease. I’m not a full believer in god, but I do believe he ended her suffering by allowing her to go to the afterlife so quickly.
I love when Gabe also show his love in the very subtle way like adjusting jess's leg when he sees it being uncomfortable 🤍🤍🥰🥰
Will you be posting a video of you telling Gabe or did you want to keep that moment just for you both? Either way I'm so excited for you guys! What a blessed baby this will be and how blessed you will feel to be parents. It's an incredible experience.
Preach Gabe, thank you for saying !!! I am very sensitive to anything pregnancy related. I am surrounded by friends who got pregnant like within the first month and my husband and I are going on 8 months trying. I get very triggered so thank you for your sensitivity on this topic. I am really happy for you guys and hopefully will get inspiration for when my husband and I do have a baby. Praying for this journey for you guys
yes! the best advice really.. not asking anybody stuff like "why are you not pregnant yet".. you never know what struggles they may go through
Thank you, Gabe, for telling people NOT to ask if they’re pregnant or when are they going to have a baby. I have PCOS and if I was trying to get pregnant it would most likely be very hard. I also have a very close friend who also has PCOS, suffered a miscarriage, had her rainbow baby boy, and then her miracle little girl. Getting pregnant was very hard for her. You just never know what someone is going through.
I have been following you both since day one and I can say that I truly honestly look up to you both. Jess I look up to you in so many ways and remind myself to be as kind and sweet and as caring as you are each day!! I love coming across both of your videos and hope to have an amazing relationship that you two share. I’m so incredibly happy for the both of you and excited for the videos to come!! It still doesn’t seem real to me, but I’m so happy you both went at your own pace and are in such a happy place. Much love to the both of you!❤️
heck yeah!! i was waiting for this vlog!!!! every single of the pregnancy vlogs get me so excited i love you guys!!
Bingo---so glad to hear you say people shouldn't ask a couple/person about when they're going to have a baby---it's no one's business. The same goes for asking a young person why they're not married---it can be upsetting and hurtful. I also love how folks think it's okay to ask a young single person about their sex life. Would you ask a married couple about their sex life?
So excited for you two! Thank you for taking us on this journey! I hope your pregnancy will go smoothly, and if it doesn’t make sure to stay with God! Everything he does for a purpose!
The way gabe still looks at you 🥺💛
You can tell that the last three videos have more views than the rest they uploaded in the last year. It shows that their fan are so excited in this next chapter in their lives
I love how y’all are having your baby & still advocating for those of us whom have been trying for 8 years… I was bloated & on my 🩸 on Christmas & in my Christmas photos with my husband I looked pregnant & I deleted a lot of pics & made my mom adjust my shirt it was a whole debacle. I know babies are what people expect, but it’s not a realistic expectation!
honestly i’m just OBSESSED with how he looks at her all the time🥲🥺🥺🥺
Náuseas all THREE trimesters over here!!!!🙈 it was so bad that I took medicine. Baby came out healthy and beautiful!!!♥️☺️
I lived in New Zealand from age 1-4, Australia from age 4-7, Canada from age 7-38, and 38-41 in Australia again. Have American and Dutch parents. My accent is Canadian. Whatever accent you have by the time you hit your teens is what sticks.
THE WAY THEY LOOK AT EACH OTHER WHILE TALKING 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
hearing all of your concerns with falling pregnant just makes me even more happier for you guys 😭😭😭 praying for you guys and your future family ❤️❤️
Omg, I feel so happy for you guys! I am 6 months pregnant myself. And its so cool going through this with someone else. You guys will make a beautiful family full of love 💕
So happy for you two!! And THANK YOU for mentioning that people should be more considerate. We’ve been asked so many times when we’re going to have babies, and we can’t. It is such a triggering question, and it really does dampen the mood of the day/week. So thank you for bringing that up!
Jess and Gabe, please always remember that the people who aren't on your side in the comments are people you would never interact with or have anything to do with in your life. I'm not in your position and can't fully understand the experience you've had with negative comments or the pregnancy comments. But, not every comment is deservng of your attention, they aren't your supporters if they don't support your views. Keep preaching kindness and thoughtfulness and the ones who support you will rise above the rest.
True. It's is hard when people tell "oh, are you pregnant?" and you are not. Last Sunday after church one person touched my belly and said "a baby?" and I just didn't know how to get out of that situation. We've been trying for a while now and it's really sad when we have to deal with those comments.
I'm so sorry if I've missed it but have you guys said anything about the gender? Just wondering if you plan to find out (or already know) or waiting to be surprised? I could never lol. So happy for you both. 🥰
No they haven’t revealed the gender.. yet! 😊
Firstly Congratulations to both of you and your family. There are so many things that should be forbidden to ask. One thing people say often, once you’ve had a child or children is ‘when are you going to try for a boy/girl?’ It did my head in. I was blessed with two sons and people would constantly say this. I did my block though when my youngest son heard this one day and broke my heart when he said ‘Mum, didn’t you want me to be a boy’, he had tears in his eyes :( It’s not that it’s rude to say or meant to be hurtful but people don’t think sometimes about what they shouldn’t say or who they say it in front of. I’ve never forgotten the look on his face that day
I love the baby content! I’m so happy for you guys!!
I’m glad you mentioned about people not commenting on if you are pregnant or not. We had just experienced a miscarriage and I had a family member say to me “so it’s just about time for baby 2 right?” And it broke my heart. You have no idea what people are going through behind closed doors, and if they are pregnant and not telling you then they have good reason and will tell you when they are ready!
It’s been so long. I left RUclips some time ago. It was getting boring. But I’ve been a fan of you guys. Was always rooting for you. I just saw a notification come across my phone and had to see if it was clickbait. OMG! Congrats! Finally! I am now fully invested again. I wish you guys all the best. You guys are amazing.
Gabe, your comment about 'asking people when they will get pregnant' 'you look pregnant' etc was so lovely. It really takes a great man to say enough, say stop and stand up for women... BE KIND PEOPLE
I just found out I am pregnant on the 16th. It's super early so my husband and I are praying for this little miracle to make it to term but we had the same approach to "trying". We didn't plan the baby but I got off birth control in November er of 2020 and we weren't trying but we weren't NOT trying. Like we told my doctor "if it happens that's awesome, but not putting stress on our timeline" so it's cool to see you guys with the same kind of "plan". Definitely not an accident baby, but a wonderful blessing we were waiting on whenever God would allow. Praying for your baby and pregnancy and also praying for our little tiny seed of a miracle wonder baby haha my mom had miscarriages and PCOS so we didn't know how long it would take either. And my husband had severe lead poisoning as a toddler so he was told he may be sterile and never be able to have kids so it was just us hoping and praying God would let this happen when and if He allowed
Loved this Q&A 🤩🤩
I literally said out loud thank you Gabriel for saying that about people struggling to get pregnant, I know a lot of people that do struggle and I feel bad when people make those comments.
Not only does asking someone if they’re pregnant hurt those who are trying and not succeeding or experienced a lost, but also suggesting that you look ‘bigger’ which can really hurt someone’s feelings if they’re not pregnant or not showing. It’s basically a veiled way of saying hey you gained weight. Just don’t say anything. If they’re pregnant they’ll tell you when they’re comfortable. If they’re not they’re not. Period.
You are both absolutely right about pregnancies and the pressures of the media. It’s impact is so overlooked yet overwhelming across platforms. The idea that people can constantly send messages and comments encouraging pregnancy is unfortunately not easy and can be an extremely sensitive matter for many. Let’s be more thoughtful with our actions 🤍
It’s so awful when people comment on how ones stomach looks, women’s stomachs are different sizes depending on what they eat, time of the month, etc. I’m a nurse and I’ve had patients ask me if I’m pregnant when in fact my IBS was acting up. Can’t wait to hopefully become pregnant one day. Can’t wait to see you both become parents ❤️
Just a moment of appreciation for Jenny with the mic edit, that was CLEAN
omg, I’m so early!! I can’t wait for this new journey, I’m so excited to see y’all become parents❤️ who’s been watching since 2017?🤔
I’ve been watching since like late 2016
Since the gabriel's surprise rightttttt🤩
Been watching since they both first started up on either RUclips and Vine, so awesome to see their journey progressing! Now we get to see baby Conte 🥺🙌🏼
@@hayleymikaelson5598 yess!!
2016!! My ex told me about them
My husband and I responded to “we’re you trying” with “we weren’t preventing it”. Because we also thought would take longer to conceive
I was so happy when Gabe warned people about being too pushy with the baby-question towards married couples … or I guess couples in general. It’s what I say all the time to even family and friends. It’s the most rude question even though they don’t mean to be rude - just think about what the other person could probably be struggling with and with you asking questions about when they’ll FINALLY have a baby could, as Gabe so perfectly put it, ruin their week. AMEN brother! Love you guys and excited to be on this journey with you now
I’m currently in isolation cause I sadly have corona hearing you guys talk about your pregnancy journey makes me so happy
Stay safe guys
Greetings from Germany
I remember when I first found out I was pregnant with my eldest son (woulda been 17 years ago 😬😱) and I didnt believe it cause I hadnt been throwing up lol, turns out I was one of the lucky ones who never gets morning sickness. Ive had 4 kids (& 8 pregnancies) and never suffered morning sickness through any of them. I read once that you tend to have whatever your mother had so I asked one of my sisters whose had 2 kids and she never had morning sickness too so then I asked my mum who never had morning sickness either. You should ask your mum Jess, I bet she had morning sickness.
So glad to hear its gone now though
Can’t wait to meet baby Conte 🥺 I hope that you Jess won’t have any sickness anymore, fingers crossed for that ❤️
Im on the Journey since gabes old vines back when i was 14 and i am 21 now and i am so grateful you found each other and accomplish all these amazing things in Life!! God bless you
LOVE all the baby talk but I must say Gabe should record a lookbook or something like that because his style is just 😚🤌 I’m sure a lot of guys would appreciate it !!
All the prayers for you guys! I’ve followed Gabe since vine and y’all since the beginning of y’all’s public relationship. I couldn’t be happier and couldn’t think of better people to parent the future generation!
I hope you move to Australia full time , Jess is so much happier there
for some reason that first frame of them sat on the sofa at that angle to the wall reminded me of the old j+g vlogs in the first apartment they shared together in LA. and now they're sat talking about their baby. how crazy is life!!! i'm so excited for them
Jess should decide she is the BOSS
Yes, you never know what someone is going through around the topic of a baby! Jess, I hope you continue to have a happy and healthy pregnancy!
your bedroom is goals
Oh my gosh the little bunny is making me emotional! I'm so so so happy for you two!
So happy for you all can’t believe that a moment ago you were married and now pregnant and expecting a baby though it’s been years but damn it felt like it went fast along the journey can’t wait to see more to what the journey hold for you two 🥺❤️🤗 best of wishes to you all
The first trimester is so hard. My princess is 5 months and i can still feel my first trimester. I was so sick it was so hard. Praying for the three of you i hope this is a healthy pregnancy and and even more healthy baby and delivery ❤️
I always said same thing about being pregnant wasn’t an accident. It’s just simply “God Given”.I even have a tattoo for my son that says “blessed”
Many blessings for a healthy pregnancy
So excited for you guys! Thank you for making the point about being mindful when wanting to ask someone about pregnancy/baby plans. It’s really hard for many of us. 💗
your conversations just sound like when your parents are teaching you how to behave good in certain situations. But in such a delicate and sensitive way.
I am so happy for you guys that international travel has opened for Australia making travel between easier for you and your family. Especially now you have a little bubba on the way 🥺
So excited to see you guys as parents!! You will both be such kind and caring parents to your gorgeous baby!🥰
Praying for a healthy pregnancy and a happy and healthy baby 🙏🙏❤️
Its all making sense why you bought the house in Australia! You guys can chill there till baby and Jess are ready to fly back to Florida !
When Gabe preached I agreed 100% and sadly people can be like that and say things that they shouldn’t. People just need to respect and keep their mouth shut goes with all ages. Think before you type or say.
PREACH, GABE!!!
Woooo Australia is open up baby and can’t wait to welcome you guys back!!!! Maybe the next time I run into will be at Nodo again
I get so excited for these videos but not going to lie I wake up every day hoping you’ve posted the “telling our family we’re pregnant” video 😆😆😆😆
Been following Gabriel since he didnt met Jess yet, this is just incredible to me. You feel like my friends, I know and love you so much 🥰 wish you all the best, will always follow you whatever you do❤
Really can’t wait for baby Conte☺️
Hope your little one does call you Mum!Would be lovely to hear some wholesome Australian words being read and taught to bubba.
Congrats Mumma bear. ❤️🧸
Can’t wait to watch both you and Gabe handle the bumps, challenges and triumphs of this amazing journey!
so sorry you had to go through those feelings and comments, i know i’m guilty of doing that in the past or assuming or judging. thank you so much for the reminder ❤️
Aww the baby being born in Australia sounds SO GREAT!!!
You will be the BEST parents in the world, your baby will be very lucky ❤️ I love you so much