Such a small thing, but the fact jess felt comfortable enough telling us that little story she’s embarrassed about, shows how confident she’s become. They’re so real to watch, and such a good couple people can look up- not in a pressuring way, but in terms of how they treat each other etc
When I was pregnant; I’d pee myself a lot! And my mid wife told me my pelvic floor was weak. Try to exercise your pelvic floor! It helped me not pee myself when I sneaked or cough. 💖 I hope this helps Jess! I’m 24!
Confidence is key Jess, don’t be nervous for the birth, whatever will be will be! But be educated on the process. Education is empowering (Trust me I had 2 positive births!) Also I highly recommend reading Magda Gerber’s book “Dear parent: caring for infants with respect” is talks about the RIE parenting approach. I read it when I was pregnant with my first (little girl). Gave me so much confidence in being a parent and relaxing into it, enjoying more.
Yeeet... another baby-vlog. I just can't get enough of this and the house renovating. 💕 I'm smiling all the time. Thank you for blessing the start of my weekend. ❤️ God bless you two soon to be three. ❤️
Things I knew before giving birth to my son: -Have a very open mind about what your birth may look like, it’s beautiful no matter how it happens! :) -Have an open mind about what feeding might look it, fed is best! -Give yourselves a lot of grace as you learn about your new family member, it may take some time to adjust and it’s totally normal! Sending love and positive vibes!
Oh my god, I just realized that when their baby girl comes along, there will be a time where they say "peace out from Jess, Gabriel and [blank] Conte" and its so crazy because I have seen them transition from "Jess and Gabriel", "Jess and Gabriel Conte", sometimes even doing it with Milo. So excited to see them go through another phase of life
You guys should let the nurses know to especially watch out for Gabe fainting during the delivery! It's not uncommon, and the nurses keep an eye on the dad especially, but if he has such extensive trauma around that memory then it might be a good shout to let the staff in the room know that he's going to be having a tough time :P
I’m sure you and Gabe will have moments of snapping at each other during the sleepless newborn nights but honestly be encouraged because it can be such a sweet sweet time as a couple 💗 My husband and I just had SO much Grace towards each other and fell in love with each other all over again so much during that phase. God is for you two 💗
Yes to recording baby kicks! I have so many videos of my baby kicking when I was pregnant and now it's so amazing to see my daughter (15 months old now) and show her and say "this was you! You were in there." It's amazing and also totally an unreal feeling to connect seeing your baby in person with the kicks in the videos.
Hey lovelies, congratulations on your pregnancy. I (Australian, 18) and my husband (Viking/Australian, 23) just became a first time parents two weeks ago to our beautiful baby boy, Torstein. I thought it would be hard but it turns out it’s pretty easy, I mean you will get tired and a little cranky but it’s so worth it. Everything will be okay and all your doubts will wash away when you see your child for the first time. ❤️❤️❤️
I love Gabriel when he is just himself. So funny and so interactive with you Jess. He loves you so much ! He’s very patient with you, you’re both so blessed to have each-other. Y’all are doing great! Proud of you! ❤️❤️
I’m currently 32 weeks pregnant with a baby girl and have LOVED watching your pregnancy updates/videos!! It makes me feel like I have a preggo friend lol!
#1 advice I would give Jess, that I wish I would have received: set your boundaries unapologetically!!! With every loved one and no matter who it is set boundaries with love and understand anyones reactions are not your responsibility. This is such a sensitive and personal time for Mama, when it comes to who you have in your room, when you decide to let people meet baby, all your parenting decisions from the start is your guys choice and no one’s inputs opinions are what you have to do. ❤️❤️❤️
The peeing story oh my gosh 💀😂 the joys of pregnancy haha. I’m still in shock that you guys are expecting, I can’t wait to meet her😍 thank you for letting us be a part of your beautiful journey x
Hey Jess! My name’s Michaela! I’m also a Christian, my hubby and I met each other in our small local church. We met at 15, married at 18 and just had our first baby(6w old boy) at 19. But after watching this and hearing you talk about all the different ways of childbirth, I wanted to share my story with you! From before even getting married, my husband had brought up natural/home birth to my attention. And from there on I really looked into it because I’m very into doing things as natural as possible (with the idea that that’s how it was during Mary’s time), plus as a Christian, it seemed like it would be the most amazing experience to do just what God created our bodies to do, in its most original form! (I am in no way against epidural, pain medication, cesarean section, etc.- every birth is beautiful)! But after my natural, at home, in tub, birth experience, I will never give birth in any other way, (unless necessary)! In the moment while laboring/birthing it was, of course, the hardest thing I had ever done. And if it weren’t for being at home, I know for sure that I would have gotten medication/epidural, and probably would have even told them “just numb me and cut me open!!” But I’m so glad I was home and and not the hospital because I didn’t have that temptation. And in addition, I would‘ve never experienced what it’s like to feel everything while bringing life into the world! (Which does not sound like fun, and unfortunately it’s not because one of us women decided to bite into a fruit). But!!! It God has still made it the most amazing experience any woman will ever get to experience during our time on this Earth. It’s quite literally what we were made to do! But no matter how you decide to give birth, I wish you all the love, peace, joy, and blessings there can be. And I pray that you feel God’s hand throughout your pregnancy, birth, postpartum journey, and everything that comes after! Between you and Gabe, I know you two will be just fine. But definitely make sure you continue good communication between the two of you and God- that will be the most important thing for you guys, right now, after the birth, and with whatever else life throws at you. This is all I can write/share for now because I’m a little busy with a 6 weeker. But please let me know if you would want to know more about my birth story or have any other questions! In Christ Alone, Michaela & (baby Theo)
i’ve been following you guys since before you got married and i’m sooo happy to see how far you both have come and i’ve been so excited for the time you had a baby and i’m so happy for you guys. you are beautifully amazing people and you will be great parents!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️much love!!🥰🥰
My little is 9 weeks old today and watching your pregnancy videos has brought back so many memories for me. We seem to have very similar mindsets and very similar ways of reacting etc (right down to when you told Gabe it felt like you were playing a prank on yourself, I said almost the exact same thing to my partner when I told him😅) My biggest advice regarding nerves around birth/not having control is to have a birth *preferences* list, and not a birth plan. I made sure I never referred to it as a birth plan, and I'm glad I didn't because honestly nothing went the way I wanted/expected it to, but my midwives and my fiance already knew all of my preferences and so when I was in a lot of pain and didn't want to think/talk I didn't really have to explain anything. And try as hard as possible to be open minded to anything. I had the things I did and didn't want, but I really didn't go in saying I will *definitely* do this and *definitely* NOT do this. I hoped for a reasonable length labour, I wanted to try to go as long as I could, as naturally as I could, labouring and maybe even birthing in the water, with an epidural as my last resort, and I hoped for no tearing or instruments. I had a 37 hour labour, I laboured in the bath for some time but after 20 hours I was so incredibly tired I had to move to a bed because I just had no energy left, at 25 hours I opted for an epidural because I needed to sleep, then they had to start a drip because my contractions had slowed, and when I finally was able to push, I pushed for 2 hours before her heart rate went up and wouldn't come down so they used a vacuum, which then lost suction, and ultimately she ended up being pulled out with forceps. I did get lucky and only end up with a first degree tear and a couple stitches, my DR was also a gyno so I'm still to this day, soooo thankful he didn't give me an episiotomy. It was a lot, it was nothing like I expected, but because I had been open minded and had the thought process of "whatever happens, happens, I know what I need in regards to pain control, the doctors know what I need in regards to birth" I didn't struggle as much as I may have if I'd had a rigid plan set in place. And while it may sound really scary to read, it honestly wasn't. I was comfortable with every decision made because I knew it was the right thing. My doctor was really wonderful and walked me through it all so I wasn't afraid, and the end result, there are absolutely no words. I hope I never ever forget the moment they put her on my chest. There's no preparation for that feeling at all. It's completely unbelievable that this little tiny being just grew inside of you and only you and your partner could make this little human and now they're here and they're perfect. Whether you feel the instant bond or not, because it can take time for some people and theres nothing wrong with that, it's just an incredible thing to go through, and everything with the recovery etc after that it just a smidge less horrible because you have your little baby to care for and focus on and get to know!
Hey Jess! Would definitely recommend you see a pelvic floor physio about your sneeze/pee situation! Pregnancy puts a lot of pressure on your pelvic floor and they can be really helpful through pregnancy and postpartum helping you strengthen it and getting you ready for labour too xx
When I had my son, we were told we shouldn't name him his name (a family name) because they said he would get made fun of.. He hasn't and his personality fits his name so well! You guys do what's best for y'all.
Congrats Jess and Gabriel, Hope you guys are doing well xx can't wait to see your little princess and hear her name ❤ Good luck on the rest of your journey x wish you the best! 😘💝
I can say as someone who had a ton of anxiety about becoming a mom and not having any idea how, and honestly not being great with other peoples children of any age prior, it really does come naturally! I am so excited for you all.
it's actually insane when I think about the first video I saw of you guys (I think it was actually on Gabriel's vine with Jess in it) and how far I've seen you guys grow from dating, getting married and now having a baby! I've always admired you guys as a couple and how resolute you are in your faith.. God bless you and the start of the journey with your little family!
I just can’t get over how adorable you two are as a couple and I know you both will be incredible parents! My sister just had a baby and the newborn stage is so wonderful, fast and tiring! Trust me though take and insane amount of pictures because you will want to see those little changes that happen day by day!
Knowing all your options and research is key to a positive birth experience! Look into water births if you can 🥰 I was nervous as heck with my first babe and did a tonne of research and was able to have a water birth with no interventions. I remember feeling scared and nervous about childbirth and all the unknowns, but once your baby is in your arms, your instincts will kick in and you’ll be whatever your little bundle of joy needs. Birth courses are also great and definitely would recommend a first aid course ☺️ tiny hearts education is a great page to follow and have a tonne of free info as well as courses to help with all the feels your feeling! Hope this helps! All the best 💕💕💕💕💕💕
My daughter had no name for the first 3 days of her life. My husband and I could not decide which names to select (there are too many to choose from). I encourage you to read as many pregnancy books as you can. Learn as much as you can about the different situations and scenarios so you have some knowledge. Babies are born every day. If you trust your Dr and the midwives they will all help you through the delivery. You will be fine xoxo
I can't get enough of you guys, we need more and more videos but yet we wanna leave you to your privacy and love listening to what you are comfortable sharing! 😍 I am sure you will raise her right because you are worried about it which means you will try your best and trying the best always brings great results.
Me and my husband kept the name we chose to ourselves and didn't tell anyone until he was born! It was so special and we will probably do that with every baby!
Jess is glowing I love it 🥺🥰 can’t believe I’ve been watching you all since you guys went on your first date and now you are having a baby. I love you guys and I am so happy for you both!!
I have been a mother for 1,5 years and there are so many things that I wish I could tell myself in the beginning of motherhood. But also i think this experience to now is so incredible. It is the craziest adventure and it's so bittersweet ❤️ every moment is precious and they never come back. Cherish everything, even when it sucks. ❤️
I am fairly new to your videos, I must say I absolutely adore your partnership/marriage. I believe the first video I watched of yours was the finding out I'm pregnant and have watched a few since. I am currently pregnant with my 4th and each pregnancy has had its similarities and differences. Some unsolicited advice I can give is 1. If you have the support which u seem to have based off other videos allow family members to help naturally we want to have full control especially when it is our first and there is nothing wrong with that but if you ever find yourself feeling overwhelmed/stressed allow loved ones to help. Not assuming you won't but I was definitely hard headed with my first and I at a lot of times felt so overwhelmed because I didn't know exactly what to do. Even when I felt like I was doing everything I didn't know about colic, etc. Also, take a parenting class if you can and birth planning class it is very informative. Also, if you do decide on pain relief epidural is the safest form of anesthesia there is. You will feel so much relief with it. Which ever you choose to do natural or not is completely your choice. Don't ever feel pressure to do something you are not personally comfortable with, with each of my pregnancies I was told I wasn't a real women if I didn't experience the pain (not the case at all) I personally wanted to be comfortable during my birth and not experience the pain of it. I cannot speak on c section since all of mine have been v but birth can be unpredictable in any case. Try to focus on the positive and talk to your doctor about your ideal birth plan either way it goes ❤. Sorry for such a lengthy comment! Congratulations on this new journey!!
Yesss love these double Vlog days!! Y’all are my favorite! 😭💕 I’m literally obsessed with your going home series when you got your residency and I’ve followed you guys for so long! 😭💕 couldn’t be happier to watch y’all grow your family!
I’m so happy to experience this with you’s. I’m a mum of 2. My biggest tip is to get as many ultrasounds as possible and sounds silly but photos while in labour and birth (not necessarily baby coming out) but in general. I wish I did, to look back x
Im watching a lot of different youtube channels and you are one of my favorite youtube couples (one of the first channels i started watching even though my English was really bad at that time i would still enjoy your videos) it's crazy. So excited for you. Thank you for bringing us along in this new chapter of your life ❤️
Thanks for answering my question 🥰 I just want to respond.. ya'll have nothing to worry about when it comes to raising your little babe the right way. Ya'll have God in your hearts and that is everything right there. 🙏🤍
Absolutely love watching this journey of you two becoming parents ❤️ I have to admit also that it was SO hard to concentrate on anything but Gabe’s shirt while you guys answered questions about future parenthood 😂🤣 #toofitting #itsthecircleoflifeeeeeee
I’m not sure if it’s common in Australia, but a doula can really help for both dad and mom emotionally and physically during childbirth, and in the preparation for childbirth!
Make sure you make time for eachother. have a date night once a month. (without the baby). make sure you remember that you're parenting on the same team. It's not a battle. Love every moment! You're going to be amazing parents!
Yes!!! Don’t tell anyone the name! We named our son Josiah because it has the same meaning as my husbands name and we really liked it and some family members kept saying they didn’t like the name… until I said “look I don’t particularly like your kids names and I also didn’t have any say in what you named them with that being said… his name is Josiah.”
Just visualise birth and do just that. I said the whole way nothing other than gas and shower and try stay calm. You have the biggest connection to your child during those moments. My daughter took 36hrs from begging to end, I kept my word and her heart stayed regular, she was relaxed even when stuck and needing to move positions at the end. She came out angry but 😄 instant very very loud cry. I agree with Gabe about the mentality, my partner cried his heart out after birth and he is not an emotion person. You guys will do great
8:22 I was thinking Gabe was gonna go there, but I didn't know for sure if he was gonna go there 😂 Looking forward to what the future has for you guys, love the honesty from you guys in the Q&A :)
Being parents will come naturally. Things are basically the same. But people and couples are different. Families too. What works for one might not for another. Ask questions too from your parents who have experience. I wish you both the best 💗👶💗
I freaked out about the birth as I'm like you - I'm a planner & like to be in control so I was so nervous about it being so out of my control, but I ended up being induced (for medical reasons), which at least gave me some control back, but the birth itself wasn't as bad as I was expecting. Yeah okay the pain is next level & something I'm not sure I ever want to experience again lol, but I ended up getting an epidural & it made the whole birth 100000x better. I was able to be more present in the actual moment because I wasn't in so much pain (before the epidural, I was begging for it to end, saying I don't want to do it anymore & asking if I could go home lol). But its your birth so you do whatever you feel is best! You'll do amazing! But just remember to try & prepare yourself for when the baby is actually here - I did so much reading & research about birth, that after I gave birth, I was like oh no.. now I have no idea what to do with this living & breathing human!!! Xx
Please remember that YOU are in control of YOUR body. You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do, you can fire nurses you don’t like, you are in control of everything you can be in control of with labor and delivery. You can say no. That’s something I wish I would’ve known and realized when I had my first baby.
Question for the next q&a. What is your approach to your kid possibly being transgender or having a non-heterosexual sexual orientation? You talk a lot about faith but never about the controversial aspects of Christian faith, such as rejecting one's kid or saying that lbtqia+ kids are sinners. What's your take on that? I hope your kid is happy and free to be whoever they want to be.
That’s not really something you think ahead about especially with a kid. They have years before that’s even a concern. But based on their channel and who they are, I’m sure they’d embrace whatever choices their children make so long as they aren’t harmful.
Two things: 1- rejecting one’s kid is not a “Christian thing” 2. Kids with same sex attraction are not sinful. Being gay or lesbian is not a sin. What is sinful is the actions that proceed from that. Having sex with another person of the same gender, sexual fantasies, sex before marriage, etc. As you are well aware of, they are Christians, which gives you a good idea as to what their answer would be. It’s like asking “what would you guys do if your children have sex before marriage and end up pregnant?” Well, what they did is certainly wrong but there’s nothing to be done now other than continue to love, pray, and guide them.
@@user-qu8zs7vs1x I don’t think ahead because I’d love my son regardless of what he chose, how he felt or the way he was born. You shouldn’t have to think about it.
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Such a small thing, but the fact jess felt comfortable enough telling us that little story she’s embarrassed about, shows how confident she’s become. They’re so real to watch, and such a good couple people can look up- not in a pressuring way, but in terms of how they treat each other etc
im so glad you're letting all of us being a part of this journey !!!
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When I was pregnant; I’d pee myself a lot! And my mid wife told me my pelvic floor was weak. Try to exercise your pelvic floor! It helped me not pee myself when I sneaked or cough. 💖 I hope this helps Jess! I’m 24!
I had morning sickness quite a fair way into my pregnancy. One morning I needed to throw up and pee at the same time. Well we all know how that went
Lol!
Confidence is key Jess, don’t be nervous for the birth, whatever will be will be! But be educated on the process. Education is empowering (Trust me I had 2 positive births!)
Also I highly recommend reading Magda Gerber’s book “Dear parent: caring for infants with respect” is talks about the RIE parenting approach. I read it when I was pregnant with my first (little girl). Gave me so much confidence in being a parent and relaxing into it, enjoying more.
Yeeet... another baby-vlog. I just can't get enough of this and the house renovating. 💕 I'm smiling all the time. Thank you for blessing the start of my weekend. ❤️ God bless you two soon to be three. ❤️
the day of smiling both.....😍
jess looks extra glistening and beautiful with the pregnancy!
Things I knew before giving birth to my son:
-Have a very open mind about what your birth may look like, it’s beautiful no matter how it happens! :)
-Have an open mind about what feeding might look it, fed is best!
-Give yourselves a lot of grace as you learn about your new family member, it may take some time to adjust and it’s totally normal!
Sending love and positive vibes!
Oh my god, I just realized that when their baby girl comes along, there will be a time where they say "peace out from Jess, Gabriel and [blank] Conte" and its so crazy because I have seen them transition from "Jess and Gabriel", "Jess and Gabriel Conte", sometimes even doing it with Milo. So excited to see them go through another phase of life
jess is just absolutely stunning omg. i look up to her so much
You guys should let the nurses know to especially watch out for Gabe fainting during the delivery! It's not uncommon, and the nurses keep an eye on the dad especially, but if he has such extensive trauma around that memory then it might be a good shout to let the staff in the room know that he's going to be having a tough time :P
I’m sure you and Gabe will have moments of snapping at each other during the sleepless newborn nights but honestly be encouraged because it can be such a sweet sweet time as a couple 💗 My husband and I just had SO much Grace towards each other and fell in love with each other all over again so much during that phase. God is for you two 💗
Is it just me or is Jess looking even more gorgeous than usual? Pregnancy glow?
i know right! pregnancy looks so beautiful on her!!
Yes to recording baby kicks! I have so many videos of my baby kicking when I was pregnant and now it's so amazing to see my daughter (15 months old now) and show her and say "this was you! You were in there." It's amazing and also totally an unreal feeling to connect seeing your baby in person with the kicks in the videos.
Hey lovelies, congratulations on your pregnancy. I (Australian, 18) and my husband (Viking/Australian, 23) just became a first time parents two weeks ago to our beautiful baby boy, Torstein. I thought it would be hard but it turns out it’s pretty easy, I mean you will get tired and a little cranky but it’s so worth it. Everything will be okay and all your doubts will wash away when you see your child for the first time. ❤️❤️❤️
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You gonna be great parents. Just go with the flow and enjoy every moment of it
I love Gabriel when he is just himself. So funny and so interactive with you Jess. He loves you so much ! He’s very patient with you, you’re both so blessed to have each-other. Y’all are doing great! Proud of you! ❤️❤️
I’m currently 32 weeks pregnant with a baby girl and have LOVED watching your pregnancy updates/videos!! It makes me feel like I have a preggo friend lol!
#1 advice I would give Jess, that I wish I would have received: set your boundaries unapologetically!!! With every loved one and no matter who it is set boundaries with love and understand anyones reactions are not your responsibility. This is such a sensitive and personal time for Mama, when it comes to who you have in your room, when you decide to let people meet baby, all your parenting decisions from the start is your guys choice and no one’s inputs opinions are what you have to do.
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The peeing story oh my gosh 💀😂 the joys of pregnancy haha. I’m still in shock that you guys are expecting, I can’t wait to meet her😍 thank you for letting us be a part of your beautiful journey x
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Hey Jess! My name’s Michaela! I’m also a Christian, my hubby and I met each other in our small local church. We met at 15, married at 18 and just had our first baby(6w old boy) at 19. But after watching this and hearing you talk about all the different ways of childbirth, I wanted to share my story with you!
From before even getting married, my husband had brought up natural/home birth to my attention. And from there on I really looked into it because I’m very into doing things as natural as possible (with the idea that that’s how it was during Mary’s time), plus as a Christian, it seemed like it would be the most amazing experience to do just what God created our bodies to do, in its most original form! (I am in no way against epidural, pain medication, cesarean section, etc.- every birth is beautiful)! But after my natural, at home, in tub, birth experience, I will never give birth in any other way, (unless necessary)!
In the moment while laboring/birthing it was, of course, the hardest thing I had ever done. And if it weren’t for being at home, I know for sure that I would have gotten medication/epidural, and probably would have even told them “just numb me and cut me open!!” But I’m so glad I was home and and not the hospital because I didn’t have that temptation. And in addition, I would‘ve never experienced what it’s like to feel everything while bringing life into the world! (Which does not sound like fun, and unfortunately it’s not because one of us women decided to bite into a fruit). But!!! It God has still made it the most amazing experience any woman will ever get to experience during our time on this Earth. It’s quite literally what we were made to do!
But no matter how you decide to give birth, I wish you all the love, peace, joy, and blessings there can be. And I pray that you feel God’s hand throughout your pregnancy, birth, postpartum journey, and everything that comes after!
Between you and Gabe, I know you two will be just fine. But definitely make sure you continue good communication between the two of you and God- that will be the most important thing for you guys, right now, after the birth, and with whatever else life throws at you.
This is all I can write/share for now because I’m a little busy with a 6 weeker. But please let me know if you would want to know more about my birth story or have any other questions!
In Christ Alone,
Michaela & (baby Theo)
P.s. I Peed my pants three times from sneezing/laughing during my pregnancy! It’s not just you 😂
i’ve been following you guys since before you got married and i’m sooo happy to see how far you both have come and i’ve been so excited for the time you had a baby and i’m so happy for you guys. you are beautifully amazing people and you will be great parents!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️much love!!🥰🥰
My little is 9 weeks old today and watching your pregnancy videos has brought back so many memories for me. We seem to have very similar mindsets and very similar ways of reacting etc (right down to when you told Gabe it felt like you were playing a prank on yourself, I said almost the exact same thing to my partner when I told him😅)
My biggest advice regarding nerves around birth/not having control is to have a birth *preferences* list, and not a birth plan. I made sure I never referred to it as a birth plan, and I'm glad I didn't because honestly nothing went the way I wanted/expected it to, but my midwives and my fiance already knew all of my preferences and so when I was in a lot of pain and didn't want to think/talk I didn't really have to explain anything. And try as hard as possible to be open minded to anything. I had the things I did and didn't want, but I really didn't go in saying I will *definitely* do this and *definitely* NOT do this. I hoped for a reasonable length labour, I wanted to try to go as long as I could, as naturally as I could, labouring and maybe even birthing in the water, with an epidural as my last resort, and I hoped for no tearing or instruments. I had a 37 hour labour, I laboured in the bath for some time but after 20 hours I was so incredibly tired I had to move to a bed because I just had no energy left, at 25 hours I opted for an epidural because I needed to sleep, then they had to start a drip because my contractions had slowed, and when I finally was able to push, I pushed for 2 hours before her heart rate went up and wouldn't come down so they used a vacuum, which then lost suction, and ultimately she ended up being pulled out with forceps. I did get lucky and only end up with a first degree tear and a couple stitches, my DR was also a gyno so I'm still to this day, soooo thankful he didn't give me an episiotomy. It was a lot, it was nothing like I expected, but because I had been open minded and had the thought process of "whatever happens, happens, I know what I need in regards to pain control, the doctors know what I need in regards to birth" I didn't struggle as much as I may have if I'd had a rigid plan set in place. And while it may sound really scary to read, it honestly wasn't. I was comfortable with every decision made because I knew it was the right thing. My doctor was really wonderful and walked me through it all so I wasn't afraid, and the end result, there are absolutely no words. I hope I never ever forget the moment they put her on my chest. There's no preparation for that feeling at all. It's completely unbelievable that this little tiny being just grew inside of you and only you and your partner could make this little human and now they're here and they're perfect. Whether you feel the instant bond or not, because it can take time for some people and theres nothing wrong with that, it's just an incredible thing to go through, and everything with the recovery etc after that it just a smidge less horrible because you have your little baby to care for and focus on and get to know!
Can we just acknowledge the fact that Jess's channel and this channel's video are both about Jess loosing control of her bladder 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hey Jess! Would definitely recommend you see a pelvic floor physio about your sneeze/pee situation! Pregnancy puts a lot of pressure on your pelvic floor and they can be really helpful through pregnancy and postpartum helping you strengthen it and getting you ready for labour too xx
omg the clip of jess backing up to the bathroom. What a memory you can treasure forever lol
I’m so excited for you guys to be parents!! I will definitely be praying for lil baby girl❤️
When I had my son, we were told we shouldn't name him his name (a family name) because they said he would get made fun of.. He hasn't and his personality fits his name so well! You guys do what's best for y'all.
Congrats Jess and Gabriel, Hope you guys are doing well xx can't wait to see your little princess and hear her name ❤ Good luck on the rest of your journey x wish you the best! 😘💝
I can say as someone who had a ton of anxiety about becoming a mom and not having any idea how, and honestly not being great with other peoples children of any age prior, it really does come naturally! I am so excited for you all.
Loving your pregnancy journey so far! Can’t wait to find out her beautiful name 😊🌸💕
it's actually insane when I think about the first video I saw of you guys (I think it was actually on Gabriel's vine with Jess in it) and how far I've seen you guys grow from dating, getting married and now having a baby! I've always admired you guys as a couple and how resolute you are in your faith.. God bless you and the start of the journey with your little family!
I’m 7 months pregnant and I can agree that everyone judges the name you want and then you start doubting it 😩
Omg jess looks GORGEOUS AS ALWAYS😍😍 pregnancy looks amazing on you two❤️❤️
She's gonna have the coolest parents ever!!!!!!
I just can’t get over how adorable you two are as a couple and I know you both will be incredible parents! My sister just had a baby and the newborn stage is so wonderful, fast and tiring! Trust me though take and insane amount of pictures because you will want to see those little changes that happen day by day!
PLEASE UPLOAD EVERY DAYY I LOVE UR VLOGS ITS SO GENUINE AND I FEEL SO CALM AND HAPPY WATCHING IT
Best advice for labour, go in with no expectations for what happens. I had my first baby last year and did drug free. What will be will be!
Knowing all your options and research is key to a positive birth experience! Look into water births if you can 🥰 I was nervous as heck with my first babe and did a tonne of research and was able to have a water birth with no interventions. I remember feeling scared and nervous about childbirth and all the unknowns, but once your baby is in your arms, your instincts will kick in and you’ll be whatever your little bundle of joy needs.
Birth courses are also great and definitely would recommend a first aid course ☺️ tiny hearts education is a great page to follow and have a tonne of free info as well as courses to help with all the feels your feeling! Hope this helps! All the best 💕💕💕💕💕💕
My daughter had no name for the first 3 days of her life. My husband and I could not decide which names to select (there are too many to choose from).
I encourage you to read as many pregnancy books as you can. Learn as much as you can about the different situations and scenarios so you have some knowledge.
Babies are born every day. If you trust your Dr and the midwives they will all help you through the delivery. You will be fine xoxo
i love them. congratulations!!!!
I can't get enough of you guys, we need more and more videos but yet we wanna leave you to your privacy and love listening to what you are comfortable sharing! 😍 I am sure you will raise her right because you are worried about it which means you will try your best and trying the best always brings great results.
I’m 20 weeks and I can’t wait to feel big kicks. I feel slight movement but nothing crazy yet
Me and my husband kept the name we chose to ourselves and didn't tell anyone until he was born! It was so special and we will probably do that with every baby!
Totally agreed with gabe it’s like an alien it’s so insane how we can grow children inside our bodies. Really trippy to wrap your head around
Jess is glowing I love it 🥺🥰 can’t believe I’ve been watching you all since you guys went on your first date and now you are having a baby. I love you guys and I am so happy for you both!!
Love being part of this new chapter!! I can see the new baby girls name as Gabriella to Match with Gabriel❤️
So happy and excited for you guys!! 💗💗
I have been a mother for 1,5 years and there are so many things that I wish I could tell myself in the beginning of motherhood. But also i think this experience to now is so incredible. It is the craziest adventure and it's so bittersweet ❤️ every moment is precious and they never come back. Cherish everything, even when it sucks. ❤️
i've been watching since 2016, i'm excited for this new journey i love u guys ❤
These videos are just so sweet. I love seeing the bump and you both just look so happy. Such an exciting and special journey you are on. 💕
you guys need to do a classic "names we love but won't use"!! so excited for this next chapter in your lives ❤️
I'm so excited for you guys! Praying for you both through the rest of your pregnancy journey.
I am fairly new to your videos, I must say I absolutely adore your partnership/marriage. I believe the first video I watched of yours was the finding out I'm pregnant and have watched a few since. I am currently pregnant with my 4th and each pregnancy has had its similarities and differences. Some unsolicited advice I can give is 1. If you have the support which u seem to have based off other videos allow family members to help naturally we want to have full control especially when it is our first and there is nothing wrong with that but if you ever find yourself feeling overwhelmed/stressed allow loved ones to help. Not assuming you won't but I was definitely hard headed with my first and I at a lot of times felt so overwhelmed because I didn't know exactly what to do. Even when I felt like I was doing everything I didn't know about colic, etc. Also, take a parenting class if you can and birth planning class it is very informative. Also, if you do decide on pain relief epidural is the safest form of anesthesia there is. You will feel so much relief with it. Which ever you choose to do natural or not is completely your choice. Don't ever feel pressure to do something you are not personally comfortable with, with each of my pregnancies I was told I wasn't a real women if I didn't experience the pain (not the case at all) I personally wanted to be comfortable during my birth and not experience the pain of it. I cannot speak on c section since all of mine have been v but birth can be unpredictable in any case. Try to focus on the positive and talk to your doctor about your ideal birth plan either way it goes ❤. Sorry for such a lengthy comment! Congratulations on this new journey!!
Love you guys & praying for you guys along this journey too I know God will be with ya every step of the way!❤️
Yesss love these double Vlog days!! Y’all are my favorite! 😭💕 I’m literally obsessed with your going home series when you got your residency and I’ve followed you guys for so long! 😭💕 couldn’t be happier to watch y’all grow your family!
you guys will be amazing parents because you’re already such amazing people it’s impossible that your baby won’t turn out as amazing as you 💛
these video’s quite literally make my day, i am so grateful for you guys. thank you, God bless your beautiful souls 🤍
i was in the middle of watching jess’ vlog when i got the notification for this haha my friday is now made! 💛
it’s okay i’m 24 weeks n im a young single mom , honestly i’m scared too but it’s very exciting to, i wish you a very happy pregnancy 🫶🏾❤️
I’m so happy to experience this with you’s. I’m a mum of 2. My biggest tip is to get as many ultrasounds as possible and sounds silly but photos while in labour and birth (not necessarily baby coming out) but in general. I wish I did, to look back x
My best advice for giving birth is learning how to breath and focus on that instead of the pain. You got this mama!!
Just started watching but wow, you’re so pretty Jess 🥺😍 maybe it’s the pregnancy glow… loving these videos lately!
You guys are going to be beautiful parents!! So happy for you both 🤍
Never clicked so fast, so happy for the both of you 😊😊
Im watching a lot of different youtube channels and you are one of my favorite youtube couples (one of the first channels i started watching even though my English was really bad at that time i would still enjoy your videos) it's crazy. So excited for you. Thank you for bringing us along in this new chapter of your life ❤️
you guys are absolutely glowing and I love that for you
Jess is getting more and more beautiful day by day ❤❤
Thanks for answering my question 🥰 I just want to respond.. ya'll have nothing to worry about when it comes to raising your little babe the right way. Ya'll have God in your hearts and that is everything right there. 🙏🤍
You two bring such light to this platform ✨ I hope God keeps blessing your pregnancy and birth 🙏🏻
Absolutely love watching this journey of you two becoming parents ❤️ I have to admit also that it was SO hard to concentrate on anything but Gabe’s shirt while you guys answered questions about future parenthood 😂🤣 #toofitting #itsthecircleoflifeeeeeee
Love from HTX ❤️ we will support you and your baby no matter the name
To be honest pregnancy honestly suits you, i cant wait for “her” to arrive
why "her" and not just her
@@alexisd8190 why?
@@alexisd8190 i have a right to say that!?
@@alexisd8190 and if you have a problem you can leave, and last time i checked i didn’t comment under ur video-
@@nathaliamwakassa5842 jeez it was just a question, don't get so defensive!
uuuuuuuuh the glowing pregnancy Jess has is amazinggggg!!! love you guys!! :)
I have been waiting for SOOO LONG for this news. Congratulations guys!!
I’m not sure if it’s common in Australia, but a doula can really help for both dad and mom emotionally and physically during childbirth, and in the preparation for childbirth!
My vote is Chloe Conte. 💕 I’m sure whatever you’re really choosing will be beautiful. So excited for your family.
Make sure you make time for eachother. have a date night once a month. (without the baby). make sure you remember that you're parenting on the same team. It's not a battle. Love every moment! You're going to be amazing parents!
„To moms belly“ aaww that was adorable
I’m so excited for you guys 💙💙
Jess, wish you the best, hope you have a healthy baby and delivery! God blessed this family!
Yes!!! Don’t tell anyone the name! We named our son Josiah because it has the same meaning as my husbands name and we really liked it and some family members kept saying they didn’t like the name… until I said “look I don’t particularly like your kids names and I also didn’t have any say in what you named them with that being said… his name is Josiah.”
Just visualise birth and do just that.
I said the whole way nothing other than gas and shower and try stay calm. You have the biggest connection to your child during those moments. My daughter took 36hrs from begging to end, I kept my word and her heart stayed regular, she was relaxed even when stuck and needing to move positions at the end. She came out angry but 😄 instant very very loud cry. I agree with Gabe about the mentality, my partner cried his heart out after birth and he is not an emotion person.
You guys will do great
Is it possible that Jess has become 10000xxxxxx more prettier after her pregnancy. Congratulations. Looking so stunning Jess. and Gabe.
You're glowing jess. Wow!! ✨
It's funny because we just saw it happened in Jess' blog (the pee incident 😂)
Loving the content 😂😂
8:22 I was thinking Gabe was gonna go there, but I didn't know for sure if he was gonna go there 😂 Looking forward to what the future has for you guys, love the honesty from you guys in the Q&A :)
Being parents will come naturally. Things are basically the same. But people and couples are different. Families too. What works for one might not for another. Ask questions too from your parents who have experience. I wish you both the best 💗👶💗
I freaked out about the birth as I'm like you - I'm a planner & like to be in control so I was so nervous about it being so out of my control, but I ended up being induced (for medical reasons), which at least gave me some control back, but the birth itself wasn't as bad as I was expecting. Yeah okay the pain is next level & something I'm not sure I ever want to experience again lol, but I ended up getting an epidural & it made the whole birth 100000x better. I was able to be more present in the actual moment because I wasn't in so much pain (before the epidural, I was begging for it to end, saying I don't want to do it anymore & asking if I could go home lol). But its your birth so you do whatever you feel is best! You'll do amazing! But just remember to try & prepare yourself for when the baby is actually here - I did so much reading & research about birth, that after I gave birth, I was like oh no.. now I have no idea what to do with this living & breathing human!!! Xx
Please remember that YOU are in control of YOUR body. You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do, you can fire nurses you don’t like, you are in control of everything you can be in control of with labor and delivery. You can say no. That’s something I wish I would’ve known and realized when I had my first baby.
I’m so excited to see you guys as parents!
it’s nice to have a plan, but at the end of the day do what is safe for you and baby girl! :)
Love how Gabe's tshirt is sooo relevant to a pregnancy QnA🥰Jess is literally glowing❤️
I am so happy for both of you and it fills me with joy to think that in a couple months you will be adding a mini to the the conte clan ❤️
jess is acting like such a mom, she’s the cutest ❤️🩹
Narrative of Self is the result of a feedback loop between “Separate Self” & Cosmos~🎈
your makeup is beYOUtiful Jess!!! I'm lovin that lip color dear. Love you bunches!!! xoxoxo
My dad slightly passed out in the delivery room when my mom was giving birth to my brother. Just eat before hand because you’ll be fine.
You make pregnancy look so great Jess😍😍😍! So happy for you guys
Jess looks more beautiful than ever!!! 🥺🥺🥰💛
Question for the next q&a. What is your approach to your kid possibly being transgender or having a non-heterosexual sexual orientation? You talk a lot about faith but never about the controversial aspects of Christian faith, such as rejecting one's kid or saying that lbtqia+ kids are sinners. What's your take on that? I hope your kid is happy and free to be whoever they want to be.
That's a great question, even I have been thinking about it lately. Would love to hear from them 👼🏼
That’s not really something you think ahead about especially with a kid. They have years before that’s even a concern. But based on their channel and who they are, I’m sure they’d embrace whatever choices their children make so long as they aren’t harmful.
@@annalt6426 you don't think ahead about whether you would accept your kid if they were not cis or hetero? Wow. Guess I know what you would do.
Two things:
1- rejecting one’s kid is not a “Christian thing”
2. Kids with same sex attraction are not sinful.
Being gay or lesbian is not a sin. What is sinful is the actions that proceed from that. Having sex with another person of the same gender, sexual fantasies, sex before marriage, etc.
As you are well aware of, they are Christians, which gives you a good idea as to what their answer would be. It’s like asking “what would you guys do if your children have sex before marriage and end up pregnant?” Well, what they did is certainly wrong but there’s nothing to be done now other than continue to love, pray, and guide them.
@@user-qu8zs7vs1x I don’t think ahead because I’d love my son regardless of what he chose, how he felt or the way he was born. You shouldn’t have to think about it.
I know you will be a good parents 👏🏻 I can’t wait to see your daughter 😍