MY FEELINGS ABOUT MY EX (Not Clickbait) | Britt Chat #29

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  • @Angel_Mayberry
    @Angel_Mayberry 6 лет назад +506

    Disappointed is an understatement when it comes to Austin.

  • @jenbradley4728
    @jenbradley4728 6 лет назад +734

    I do not think your ex changed, I believe this is who he really is and he couldn't mask it any longer. I agree bashing exes serve no positive purpose for anyone (especially on social media) and it only keeps you in the past while their lives are moving on. I've been through this too and TRUST, Life does go on after a marriage ends. It is great you are channeling things in a healthy way because that is always best for you and when there are children involved. In the end he will have to answer for his choices, and face his kids when they are old enough to understand. You keep doing what you are doing. You are handling this situation the right way and in God's time the Right Man will find you and appreciate the goodness you bring to the table. God Bless you and your babies.

  • @medtech6758
    @medtech6758 6 лет назад +367

    I don’t think he is doing what he thinks is best for anyone except himself.

  • @sherriewhite5348
    @sherriewhite5348 6 лет назад +170

    Girl, our journeys parallel. It’s been hard to deal with the end of my 24 year marriage. But through therapy, support from family & friends and God’s tender mercy, it’s been 11 months and my 3 kids are still standing. You’re an inspiration to me girl. Keep doing what you’re doing and Hod will take care of the rest. Love you B! 😘💜

  • @thegodlover1thegodlover171
    @thegodlover1thegodlover171 6 лет назад +138

    I have to admit that when I 1st heard that you would be left raising the kids my heart sank, but then God reminded me that He would take care of you just as He always has. So, I know you will be fine!! 🙌

  • @amberc.2814
    @amberc.2814 6 лет назад +147

    Almost a year and you're doing awesome Brit! 💕

  • @atxgurl00
    @atxgurl00 6 лет назад +52

    Watching The Nive Nulls got me through college when I was super homesick and missed my family. I'm so proud of where you've taken this channel, Britt, and I enjoy keeping up with your family now that I'm in a totally different phase of my life working and living in a new city. Stay strong and all of your fans will stick behind you always!

  • @ItsBrittanyyBeach
    @ItsBrittanyyBeach 6 лет назад +75

    I met you and your family at Vidcon 4 years ago and I have to say that I can always tell your loyalties were to your faith and your family, before RUclips or anything else. That is exactly how it should be! You're doing a great job, imo.

  • @thebossmommynetworkllc
    @thebossmommynetworkllc 6 лет назад +129

    I just love your strength Britt. Praying for you and the babies 🙏🏾

  • @fabulousgirl112
    @fabulousgirl112 6 лет назад +160

    I feel extremely bad for you. I watched you guys since I was fifteen(I’m 21 now) and your channel helped me through a depressing time in my life. But as I got older, I realized that your relationship wasn’t healthy. I couldn’t watch with Austin in the videos. Now that you have the channel to yourself, it’s a much different energy and I love it. I don’t know why he would decide to move to California and leave you to raise the kids by yourself. That is messed up. One day you will feel indifferent to his decisions. I really hope that you will find someone who loves you, even if that is on the bottom of your list.

    • @ghostie7790
      @ghostie7790 6 лет назад +9

      IAmTheExperience wow did he really move to another state?? I thought he had them sometimes! He is really terrible omg!

    • @AliyaSmithh
      @AliyaSmithh 6 лет назад +12

      IAmTheExperience I have been watching them since about the same age and I’m 20. I would watch them every night when they daily vlogged and it was seriously what I looked forward to after school. Then things started changing. Austin seemed to be really extra sometimes and just annoying. And then after the “we have to talk” video I just couldn’t watch anymore. She has grown sooo much and I just don’t get his move to California. He seems to just be living it up while she is at home with their children. It is quite disgusting and selfish and the kids will grow to resent him.

    • @intuitiveself-love9513
      @intuitiveself-love9513 6 лет назад

      IAmTheExperience you are a 21 year old with so much sense ahaha

    • @aminaht5694
      @aminaht5694 6 лет назад

      IAmTheExperience same. I certainly watched since sixteen and I'm almost 22

    • @erikaw8042
      @erikaw8042 6 лет назад +3

      I'm glad he left bc I don't think she would have even though she should have 💔

  • @livewelljess
    @livewelljess 6 лет назад +92

    The way you handle yourself with such humility, grace, and strength is such an example to all women. I can’t imagine the struggles you’ve had to endure, but God clearly has a great purpose for you. ❤️

  • @colettefry4862
    @colettefry4862 6 лет назад +87

    Anyone else just want to grab some drinks and tacos with Britt and just talk about random stuff she is so humble and real. Keep being you Britt your a great mommy xx

    • @BrittsSpace
      @BrittsSpace  6 лет назад +11

      That sounds amazing! Love drinks and tacos and talking about random stuff! 😂🙌🏾🤗❤️

    • @berriesandcream85
      @berriesandcream85 6 лет назад +3

      Yes, let’s taco bout it!🤪 😬😬

    • @colettefry4862
      @colettefry4862 6 лет назад +1

      Brielle that's brilliant xxx

  • @tonyabynum1915
    @tonyabynum1915 6 лет назад +106

    Thank you Father God in advance for covering my sister Brittney! thank you for holding her hand, heart, mind, soul and her children, may abundance of flourishment of all good things forever be there's!! You most certain did not have too share with us Britt, but thank you for sharing this will help lots of people Really!!! Sending Love and Hugs from North Carolina! Blessing's

  • @TheDelaveaus
    @TheDelaveaus 6 лет назад +343

    I honestly have so much respect for you Britt, I just publish our vlog for today speaking on how I don't know how single moms does it especially with more than 1 kid, am with my son alone for a week while my husband travel for work and I really get a feel of parenting alone its no joke, hats off to you britt, keep strong and keep on, sending you strength and love.

    • @DeNichols-old
      @DeNichols-old 6 лет назад +4

      The Delaveau's I agree! So much respect.

    • @HappyCarlsonsTV
      @HappyCarlsonsTV 6 лет назад

      So true

    • @loriadams1588
      @loriadams1588 6 лет назад

      Yes💙💙

    • @lizzyandfamily7656
      @lizzyandfamily7656 6 лет назад

      The Delaveau's yesss

    • @cukara
      @cukara 6 лет назад

      Wow, I was probably one of the first subs way back when you have no more than 600-700 subs. So sad for what happened to you Britt, you married really young and damn, what scumbag Austin turned out to be to walk on this beautiful family! I feel for you, it must be so hard to care for THREE kids alone! I hope and wish only good things to you Brittney, you deserve it!

  • @DalgonaC
    @DalgonaC 6 лет назад +136

    My heart still hurts every time I think about your situation. One of my favorite things about your past videos was seeing Austin's family and you together. I loved seeing Grandpa cook his amazing dishes. And all of you guys laughing it up as a family. I always feel like this is some alternate universe that is just wrong. I will keep praying for your strength and for your kids.

    • @BrittsSpace
      @BrittsSpace  6 лет назад +80

      Me and the kids still spend tons of time with them. They’re still my family. I just don’t vlog a lot of it. But love them dearly. Thanks for the lovely comment 🤗❤️

    • @iselaacosta2832
      @iselaacosta2832 6 лет назад +11

      Britt's Space I would like for you to do a video on how to help kids when separating. Not only for parents but for relatives. For example me helping my nephews that are going through their parents separation. My brother is going through the same you did but in this case the wife is the one making bad decisions.

    • @shaedenise407
      @shaedenise407 6 лет назад +1

      Chimmy89 spot on!!!

    • @ginag8015
      @ginag8015 6 лет назад +6

      Chimmy89 Me too! I almost feel like he was faking it all and wanted out from long ago. What was his motive, how can you leave this beautiful family behind. Anyone like myself could see through it all. Austin wasn't authentic and honest. 3 kids later he makes a decision. Wow! I am also glad that Brit does not let social media into the difficult days she has dealing with this journey.

    • @xxmakeuplover05xx
      @xxmakeuplover05xx 6 лет назад +4

      That Man was truly the bad apple in his family! You can tell his family truly loves the kids, unlike him.

  • @Mahmadein
    @Mahmadein 6 лет назад +228

    That shirt looks beautiful on you!

  • @sharee6319
    @sharee6319 6 лет назад +49

    Thanks for being so honest. I can't believe he moved to another state! I have met so many men from other states in my dating journey and they would never ever leave the state because of their children. Most have it in their Divorce papers that they can't move until the children are of age. I see he posted on IG that the kids came to visit him, but that is not enough. A few times a year is nothing compared to being there every day for your children. I hope he comes to his senses soon. You can't try and live out your 20s that you missed now ...you have three mini me's that need You! Britt you are amazing and i am so happy to see you come alive on this channel. Before all of this I never really knew who YOU were. I wish you much success.

  • @lindatoliver9138
    @lindatoliver9138 6 лет назад +31

    Britt I'm not going anywhere!!! You are stuck with me!!! I'm old enough to be your mother, and I think you are strong and doing a beautiful job raising your kids. Instead of focusing on your ex and his life choices, you are focusing on yourself and your kids!!! Hell I'm looking forward to when you find Mr. Right, and believe me you will. One of your senior citizen fans. Reaching out from Las Vegas!!!!

  • @ebonyrenia821
    @ebonyrenia821 6 лет назад +73

    I tell you.. The space I am in right now, your words have encouraged me and all the other videos. I'm going through a divorce which I don't won't at the moment, just moved into my own place with my 2kids. My husband decided to tell me a day before I moved out that he's moving in with another woman and her 3 kids.. 😂 now isn't that something. days I'm mad, sad, I cry, and get irritated. Through your videos you have allowed me to remember it's OK to go through my emotions. God is truly Amazing and I know God will get Us through this. I have to soon get over this because my kids are watching me and I know I must be strong for them, it isn't easy to stop a tear from falling out of nowhere sometimes, but when we are Weak, we are Strong.... Thanks Britt, God bless you 💛

  • @turnitbluex32
    @turnitbluex32 6 лет назад +22

    I am almost NEVER on the side of one person (I usually fall in the middle) but I have to say I am 1818% on your "side" and you are THE strongest person and I have always had so much respect for you and it only continued to grow. Love you, Brit

    • @422feliciano
      @422feliciano 6 лет назад +1

      Turnitblue x32 I totally agree with you.

  • @MsBrendalina
    @MsBrendalina 6 лет назад +32

    Austin was crazy to let someone as wonderful as you go. You are too good for him, Britt.
    Here's hoping that you one day find a wonderful man who can give you the love that you deserve (and give your kids a father figure that isn't a selfish piece of garbage). You deserve a supportive partner who is man enough to care for someone besides himself.

  • @jessicaoddone
    @jessicaoddone 6 лет назад +33

    I’ve been watching for a loooong time and I was so shocked when the news came out and then with the divorce. Prior to your separation I didn’t feel like I knew you but now I see it was because Austin was hogging the spotlight to himself. Now that it’s just you I like you even more because I feel like you’re being genuinely you.

  • @wwnnn16
    @wwnnn16 6 лет назад +46

    Britt, I'll be the first to tell you, NEVER bash your ex-husband on the Internet. Idc who wants to see/hear it. Your children are what's most important in this situation. So I'm with you, let's keep it PG and classy. If people want to know how you feel, they can imagine this (nonsense) happening to them, and there's their answer.

    • @pwalker9757
      @pwalker9757 6 лет назад +2

      wwnnn16 👏👏👏👏👏

    • @ruxz-ujdkr
      @ruxz-ujdkr 6 лет назад +6

      IMO she honestly didn't bash him. She spoke her truth. She can't ruin her ex's reputation anymore than he already has. Their children will see him humiliating his wife/family on the internet. She has a right to be upset and share that with her subscribers. This is a journey and knowing that this could help another family who may be going through the same thing is amazing. Some women/men have no one to talk to in these situations.

    • @wwnnn16
      @wwnnn16 6 лет назад +7

      Khalia Milton yep she's never bashed him. And we need to keep it that way. People are always trying to get her to say more than she's said. We good. We don't need to hear anymore.

  • @poojalarouxja
    @poojalarouxja 6 лет назад +84

    Britt, you are so, SO strong. I have a lot of respect for you and I’m so happy to see you growing. I’m not a mom, nor am I in a relationship, but I recently lost some close friends and a lot of the advice you gave in this video is relevant to what I’m going through. I love what you said about allowing yourself space while also living your life. Sending all my love to you and your kids! You inspire me 💛

    • @cjo4210
      @cjo4210 6 лет назад +2

      Me too! I'm not a Mom but I had to cut off my sister (who is also my best friend) and while I'm struggling she is jet setting around the world. I was angry for a while because it felt like m bully was kind of winning but it's gotten better. I've been slowly letting go of the anger I had and videos like this help me realize that it's a lot of wasted energy being angry, especially at someone you once cared deeply for.

  • @MsSoccergirl94
    @MsSoccergirl94 6 лет назад +3

    Brittany, I think the way you have handled this whole thing is so incredibly admirable. You have gone through so much in the past couple of years and yet you have never lost sight of yourself. You continue to be a genuine, kind, honest person and that is something I look up to. Keep doing you. There’s a lot of people out here rooting for you and wishing you all the best. ❤️

  • @PixelatedTwix
    @PixelatedTwix 6 лет назад +48

    Your journey is a testimony in itself. We don’t need the details to know that hurt and healing is a part of the process. 💜

  • @m.samuel6350
    @m.samuel6350 6 лет назад +92

    Thank you for being 💯 authentic!
    Life happens. Being negative towards someone will not solve any problems.
    You have your children looking up to you.
    Life is not perfect.
    It’s a journey about living and learning.
    You are healing and it takes time.
    God bless you and your children.

    • @cooley7
      @cooley7 6 лет назад

      M. Sam’uel p

  • @itsnw
    @itsnw 6 лет назад +14

    Single mother sending love and support right back to you, sister! ❤️

  • @LisaOfficiallyLive
    @LisaOfficiallyLive 6 лет назад +111

    Jeez you’re so strong Brit. Keep being strong for your kids. ❤️

  • @bluemickey23
    @bluemickey23 6 лет назад +45

    Growth is the goal. I don’t have time for anymore delays. Yes, focus on yourself. I just remind myself that God has called me to do something very special for him so he can get the glory. I’m in the season of waiting, so keep me in your prayers.

  • @Adegail_
    @Adegail_ 6 лет назад +211

    God will see you through 🙌🏾

  • @annetteroberts8752
    @annetteroberts8752 6 лет назад +77

    I admire n applaud you for the strength you always show to us 👏👍.God will see you thru. That too shall past

  • @MsBrendalina
    @MsBrendalina 6 лет назад +13

    Divorce is painful. But it would have been worse if Austin had stayed in the home and the children witnessed him continually disrespecting you and causing you pain.
    And good on you for staying above it and not publicly trashing your ex. Nothing is more painful for a kid than feeling like their parents are forcing them to choose sides (and that they're betraying their mom if they love their dad and vice versa)
    My parents stayed in a toxic relationship when I was growing up. And I believe that living in that mess was WAY more painful than if they had just divorced. You did the right thing, Britt.

  • @YayaPamelajagga321
    @YayaPamelajagga321 6 лет назад +5

    You are amazing Britt. You don’t owe us anything but thank you for allowing us to be a part of your journey.I admire your strength ❤️❤️

  • @ksg314
    @ksg314 6 лет назад +10

    Although you may not seem as if you are saying anything profound, your gracefulness is extraordinary. You are sharing your “walk it out” and it’s clearly sincere. Thanks for being you, because you rock Britt 😍

  • @JayKylplays
    @JayKylplays 6 лет назад +12

    Dont ever let anyone make you feel like youre acting like mrs perfect.choosing to move on and remain positive is the BEST thing for you and your kids.at the end of the day life is STILL beautiful. Also. Dont give him the power.youre the only one who can make you happy!

  • @zoomie5948
    @zoomie5948 6 лет назад +24

    Britt I have been a fan of YOU since the Nive Null early days. Before Audrey was born. The reason I stayed all these years is because of YOU also. The person you are has always just shown through. When you took that mini break long ago, it was YOU people missed. I remember comments like "Where's Brittney? When's Britt coming back"...It's always been you we were drawn too. The reason for that? Because you have always been positive, real, strong, genuine, authentic and such a lovely caring person. Don't look back...look forward! YOU (and the kids) are the reason we're here. :)

    • @BrittsSpace
      @BrittsSpace  6 лет назад +1

      Thank you sooo much! Your words mean so much to me! ❤️

  • @AlexandryiaJae
    @AlexandryiaJae 6 лет назад +5

    Britt... you are just so graceful and beautiful! My husband filed for divorce last year and I felt so lonely. Coming to this channel and seeing that I am not alone, gave me so much solace! Things have changed now and we are back together but like you, I gave all of me to him and left nothing for myself. This time around I am doing things for myself and pursuing my passions. I could go on, but I just want to say thank you for transparency and honesty. You are rocking this mom thing!!

    • @dumpsonstephanie3670
      @dumpsonstephanie3670 6 лет назад +1

      Jasz years ago my husband wanted a divorce as well. We were separated for 7 months. As soon as I started to move on....he came around. We renewed our vows and we are still together.

  • @SkinnyGirlFatHair86
    @SkinnyGirlFatHair86 6 лет назад +15

    I have so much respect for you and how you’re handling everything. You’re vulnerable without putting everything out onto the internet. Your grace is showing. 💖💖

    • @vrain1820
      @vrain1820 6 лет назад

      SkinnyGirlFatHair ❤❤❤❤

  • @brittanycordero9283
    @brittanycordero9283 6 лет назад +6

    I have been watching since the very first vlog when you didn’t think anyone would watch you guys. I’ve been an avid watcher and I’m so so sad about what you’re dealing with. I don’t hate Austin. I feel so sad for him because he’s missing out on an amazing woman that was willing to give him the world. His loss! You’ll always be blessed Brittany. ❤️

  • @CherylHaurik
    @CherylHaurik 6 лет назад +12

    You are a Beautiful woman. As a Christian we are supposed to show the light of Jesus and you have done that through such a hurtful time. God Bless you Brittany. Love and Prayers.😊💜

  • @leosworld2
    @leosworld2 6 лет назад +36

    I don’t comment often but wanted you to know I’ve been watching since the beginning and I love your channel. You’re in amazing woman.

    • @BrittsSpace
      @BrittsSpace  6 лет назад

      Thank you soooo much! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @leosworld2
      @leosworld2 6 лет назад

      Britt's Space ❤️❤️❤️

  • @TheShelly14
    @TheShelly14 6 лет назад +8

    Good energy to you! You have a really good perspective on an incredibly difficult situation. I know sometimes it may seem hard to believe but from personal experience I've found it's better to be on your own journey than going it with someone that cannot see past their own needs and point of view. Thanks for being so relatable!

  • @MsLoveablechina
    @MsLoveablechina 6 лет назад +5

    Thank you so for this video. I’m actually going through a separation and I really needed to hear this. It’s been so hard lately and I’m in so much pain from everything. 10 years of always being their for him and loving him unconditionally but I felt like I was unappreciated. Your an amazing mommy I salute to you.

  • @SavyMommyMoments
    @SavyMommyMoments 6 лет назад

    This video is EVERYTHING. From the honesty to the advice, you nailed it. Fellow single mom of 3 whose 8 year spouse walked out and I’m right there with ya! I spent last year focusing on me so that I could focus on my kids and being the mom they need. Thank you for being open and honest and real!

  • @cecilebrown21
    @cecilebrown21 6 лет назад +2

    We are here for you!! You're doing great, Queen! 💜

  • @sweetpotatoee
    @sweetpotatoee 6 лет назад +6

    I was totally thinking the same thing that "Jen Bradley" mentioned ... Your ex-husband did not change. When people fraudulently represent themselves, they can only hide their true self for so long. God is working on the perfect man for Brittney as only he can. God Bless

  • @FromSyreenaWithLove
    @FromSyreenaWithLove 6 лет назад

    actually, what you have to say IS epic and authentic, transparent, pure hearted and there aren't enough people in the world with hearts like yours 💕 life is hard and unfair in so many ways but learning to navigate through our trials with grace and wisdom is everything!!! you are a gem . Your decision to continue to share and encourage others is a blessing and you are such a BEAUTY inside and out!

  • @Evalynn
    @Evalynn 6 лет назад

    Thank you so much for continuing to post, being open, and having faith, Britt. xo It has helped me immensely to watch you heal and know you are right here with me, having gone through something extremely similar a year and a half ago. I lost my best friend when he left me for someone else the same week I miscarried our child, and I still feel like I do not know him or how it all happened or how long he was hiding under a mask, but: You make me grateful for the fact that life continues and there is more beauty and love to be found, God-willing.

  • @SakinahPalmer
    @SakinahPalmer 6 лет назад +3

    We love you Britt! You are 100% correct. I am glad you have such a great perspective. You are not alone. I am a fellow single mom and being grateful has saved me many a day. Blessings on blessings! 😘

  • @rmjmgirl8896
    @rmjmgirl8896 6 лет назад +16

    I haven't been w/ u from the beginning, but I most certainly appreciate & applaud the effort u make 2 have a positive attitude about ur situation. That's what encourages me 2 watch u & the kids. I'm excited 2 c how u will evolve as a single mom. And I say ur doing quite well. #the evolution of brit......👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿A toast 2 u!🥂

  • @denetralittle9797
    @denetralittle9797 6 лет назад +5

    I love how real this video is. No one is perfect. No life is perfect. That’s what makes us who we are. I hope you know how many lives you touch and how many single mothers (I was in your shoes 5 years ago) you’ve reached. Thank you.

  • @KittyKatKairi894
    @KittyKatKairi894 6 лет назад

    Your positivity and perseverance is so inspiring, Brittney!! I really love the new image you’ve made for you and your family on this channel and the amount of uplifting you’ve done for your peers is incredible! I’m not a mom, but of course I have my own struggles. Seeing how you handle your past relationship publicly and how you’ve evolved is truly inspiring and is a constant piece of encouragement for me to keep striving for the best in my own life. Keep doing you! We’re all in it together!

  • @MissKimani
    @MissKimani 6 лет назад +6

    Love this! It sounds terrible, but my divorce was the best thing that ever happened to me. Like you, I forgot about myself in my marriage (and I didn't have a man that catered to me like I did to him). Now that I can focus on myself I have become so much happier and it has made me a much better mother.

    • @JayKylplays
      @JayKylplays 6 лет назад +1

      Tina Kimani happy for you and may you continue to prosper

  • @2121chococat
    @2121chococat 6 лет назад +15

    Thanks for the video, Britt. I really appreciate your courage to share. Moving forward is always the best and only thing one can do in a situation such as yours. you are indeed taking the high road and I applaud you. I think your ex is a messed up individual to leave you and then basically leave the children by moving to Cali. WOW, Really. I know it's not my life, nor my business to say, but I think your ex is a real piece of work. I'm happy you're continuing this journey with us. I have always connected with your light. You are like a good friend I've never met LOL. ( hopefully, that didn't sound too crazy LOL) The light that illuminates from you is awesome. Keep doing you and the children and keep the video coming.

  • @shannonpalmore5540
    @shannonpalmore5540 6 лет назад +1

    I've been through a break-up / separation with my kids' father. I read the comments often on your videos, and I cringe when I see people bash your ex. In my situation, I realized that was the last thing I wanted to hear and the one thing that never helped. It always felt like a punch to the gut. Like a personal attack against what I loved and created. I think when your ex is your children’s father, it’s a different dynamic. Bashing an ex can be a logical way to get over a break-up because you're trying to convince your heart to think differently. But no one feels comforted thinking that they had kids with a bad/sub-par person. Life as a single mom is stressful enough. Bashing your ex only adds to that because it makes you worry, for your kids' sake, whether they'll grow up with the father they deserve.

  • @xxmakeuplover05xx
    @xxmakeuplover05xx 6 лет назад +3

    You're so strong! You are such an amazing mother and person.
    You deserve the absolute best and That Man was NOT it!
    Love you Britt! ♥ ♥ ♥

  • @loriadams1588
    @loriadams1588 6 лет назад

    You have really shown a testimony to your faith in this heartbreaking situation. Thank you for continuing to share your journey. I have loved your channel the past year, because the best part of it all has been your loving and true heart. 💕💕

  • @jamrogers5116
    @jamrogers5116 6 лет назад +37

    I have so much respect for you.

    • @BrittsSpace
      @BrittsSpace  6 лет назад +1

      Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @MsJdennis12
    @MsJdennis12 6 лет назад

    Love you girl! I’m so inspired by your strength and how honest and graceful you’ve been through all of this! Been watching for years and I’m still here with you.

  • @Ebbers380
    @Ebbers380 6 лет назад

    I know I’ve said this before, but I love how refreshing this channel has become since you took over. Your personality shines. I know this isn’t the life you would’ve chosen for yourself, but you’re doing a great job, Britt.

  • @foxy2796
    @foxy2796 6 лет назад

    I can’t believe it’s almost been a year! It feels like yesterday but it’s been truly amazing watching you refocus after such an abrupt life change and finding the strength to continue this channel and in being a single mother of three littlest while doing it. I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again you are a bright light. I hope you continue to share with us your beautiful hectic life because we all enjoy it and you so much.

  • @devinelyDsigned
    @devinelyDsigned 6 лет назад +5

    You are doing an awesome job Brit! I pray that Austin is placed in a position that allows him to be present more than anyone expects despite his physical distance.

  • @DeNichols-old
    @DeNichols-old 6 лет назад

    I appreciate you, Britt, and your balanced openness and intentionality around how you share your journey. Thank you for continuing to welcome us to be a part of it. ✨

  • @EnoExplores
    @EnoExplores 6 лет назад +6

    Such honestly. My divorce was the hardest thing I’ve ever experienced. I’m sorry you went through this. It’s such a journey that no one else can really understand. You’re an amazing light. You’re going to be so happy in the long run. Today you’re allowed to feel how you feel. There’s no one way to heal. Love you sis!

  • @chelseaspruell5281
    @chelseaspruell5281 6 лет назад +4

    When he tries to come back... I believe he will... stay strong and say no thank you! You deserve so much better as a woman!

  • @sibzznfamily6649
    @sibzznfamily6649 6 лет назад

    My mum always says the quickest way to move on is never dwell in the past. We cant change it but we can learn from it for the future. Sometimes talking about things helps to make you feel fulfilled in a way.💞💞

  • @honeypickle39
    @honeypickle39 6 лет назад +52

    Love you Britt! I would love to hear how you are adjusting since his move to California and if your relationship with his family has changed. How has his family reacted to the break up and move. How supportive have they been towards you?

    • @ginag8015
      @ginag8015 6 лет назад +13

      honeypickle39 from what we can see, the grand parents are very supportive. Meme loves Audri and the boys. She is an amazing grandma. I am sure it is an uncomfortable situation for them all. Austin I guess was not happy and satisfied in the life he had w/Britney and decided to go elsewhere!
      I am trying my best not to dislike him....its hard, cause I know britney is hurting. I've been there, from one women to another I innerstand

    • @itsbritt9155
      @itsbritt9155 6 лет назад +7

      Gina G and he has a new girlfriend who is like 23, I believe . He did her dirty for sure .

    • @houseofbows
      @houseofbows 6 лет назад +4

      itsbritt91 one dumb girl!

    • @kimberlyjones6476
      @kimberlyjones6476 6 лет назад +4

      Well you know just like R Kelly they pick these young girls bc they're young and most of them are stupid and can be easily controlled. Most of us are far different and wiser as we get older. Hope she doesn't get pregnant from him.

    • @ginag8015
      @ginag8015 6 лет назад

      I agree!
      The grand parents are amazing and love, love, love their grand babies, who wouldn't, they are beautiful. I think, Austin is feeling himself, may have felt overwhelmed, and may want to see what else is out there....I can tell him, Nothing!. A lot of people go through this, but he should have been honest with himself, instead of playing this out like a sitcom 🎬📺. I do not dislike him, because I do not know him, and he did nothing directly to me. However; it is very hard not too when I look at the family he left behind to go on this adventure. And I so get it, ppl fall out of Love every day....but when there are children involved no sir! Also, what make its horrible is the whole controversy leading up to him separating and eventually divorcing Britney. It just did not place him in a good light. I still think he is a great long distant father, but he has some issues to work through. Just my subscripber observation! 😏

  • @tiffanyjanae04
    @tiffanyjanae04 6 лет назад +3

    You are an amazing mom. God is speaking through you.

  • @bunnym196
    @bunnym196 6 лет назад +3

    This comment isn't to be negative to anybody, but it might be taken that way by some people... Britt I just wanted to let you know that I'm 35 and have watched you from the beginning. Before you ever had your separation/divorce I remember realizing what a positive, high vibrational person you were and how you weren't surrounded by that same energy in your relationship. I don't know your ex other than what we saw on camera, but he seemed like he really had a lot of growing and figuring out to do. You are just an amazing person and that resonates immediately even just on camera. I really love watching your journey and am so excited for what is to come. I feel like what is meant for you is out there coming to you soon. I seriously admire you for being such a strong, positive influence for your children. You help bring out such a creative side to them in your vlogs and I absolutely love it! You're amazing.

  • @abiokeowo2510
    @abiokeowo2510 6 лет назад

    I rarely thumbs up videos but I just have this strong desire to support you and see you successful. I'm so impressed with you Brittany and ur level of grace and class. Rooting for you.

  • @dalphine45
    @dalphine45 6 лет назад +14

    I'm glad you spoke on how your feeling. But your right you didn't have to explain everything. Because what you put on internet never goes away and we don't want the kids to see these things.

  • @cjo4210
    @cjo4210 6 лет назад +6

    Hey Britt, how about a video on the coping mechanisms you use with your children. Like, how did you talk to them about their father's decision and what are some tips other parents can use when a similar situation happens to them?

  • @rinasweetness
    @rinasweetness 6 лет назад +6

    I’m so sorry, and especially for these kids. As a child of a single mother, I noticed the big void of not having a father around, and your child will feel that unfortunately. I hope he comes around soon because those kids NEED HIM. However, my mother is a blessing, and she led me in the right path. Keep being their blessing and continue to give them love. I’m rooting for you on this journey.

  • @peaceloveGen
    @peaceloveGen 6 лет назад +2

    I’m sorry for all that’s happened recently over the last couple years especially, but I’m proud of how strong you’ve been throughout this entire situation. I’m sure it’s a difficult feat to do what you do, but I’ve love seeing how much you’ve grown throughout this experience and all your moments with the kids. Rooting for you and hope that things improve for you and the fam soon! Love your new content and your channel!

  • @ShugaAnnSpyce
    @ShugaAnnSpyce 6 лет назад +4

    Austin and many men like him will grow old and lonely if they keep their antics up. I'm just glad that I lived my 20s and know who I am and what I truly want now that I'm in my 30s.

  • @yourprincesslaya
    @yourprincesslaya 6 лет назад +1

    Brit your grace in how you deal with the separation on youtube is inspiring. I know that it's not easy for you but your children will appreciate the grace and strength of their mother someday. You are so strong and no matter what please be so proud of yourself and the way you are a mother. Those children are so lucky to have you in their lives ❤

  • @JamieLovesZacE
    @JamieLovesZacE 6 лет назад +1

    I’ve been watching you since the days of just you, Austin, and Audrey and you may not be able to see it yourself, but you’ve never looked or sounded more powerful, radiant and strong. Britt- you are so inspiring. You’re using your platform right because unfortunately there are too many people that have to deal with exactly what you are dealing with and feel alone in the process. Thank you for sharing this with us and just know that only good is coming for you because God has your back and knows just how incredible you are. ❤️

  • @freckledfacediva
    @freckledfacediva 6 лет назад +5

    I appreciate how honest and open you have been in all of your videos. It has been such a tough road for me and, I honestly get strength seeing how far God has taken you. It has been really hard for me to move forward and start my life over again, and I think I am still in the hurt and angry stage and trying to focus on bettering myself.

  • @chloerobinson2069
    @chloerobinson2069 6 лет назад

    Progression not perfection has always been my motto. Thank you for showing others the importance of focusing on the positive rather than the negative. It’s so easy to go down that negativity rabbit hole...especially on social media. I know you don’t know me...but I’m so proud of your progress this year.

  • @Diamond-xh7jl
    @Diamond-xh7jl 6 лет назад +13

    Thank you for everything you do for us. You really are my role model!

  • @ToshaMarie_01
    @ToshaMarie_01 6 лет назад

    We are in your corner Britt! Never give up. I'm a single mother as well with a son, with the grace of God I'm making it and so will the rest of us that are going through the same thing

  • @i.b.cordero2581
    @i.b.cordero2581 6 лет назад

    Brit you are an amazing individual. You are making strides in your healing. Your journey is helping so many going through the same thing.

  • @judithwilliams174
    @judithwilliams174 6 лет назад +2

    I'm single mum Brit and the important thing is focus your energies to yourself and your children. It will be a struggle sometimes but you'll be must fine👌🏽 Time softens the hurt and brings you towards joy in your life with your children.❤

  • @taylorsheepskin557
    @taylorsheepskin557 6 лет назад

    I’m so happy that you didn’t give up RUclips just cause your ex was basically the main one on the other channel you guys shared! You’re an inspiration!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼😊

  • @asktiff8873
    @asktiff8873 6 лет назад

    I think your so strong for not bashing. I think people forget how much strength it takes to do what your doing. In terms of dealing with your ex. Very classy/strong and wise of you!

  • @Wakitarb1
    @Wakitarb1 6 лет назад

    Britt, I have been exactly where you are right now and I can guarantee that it does get better. My baby is now 17 1/2 and I know that he is the man that he is because of the hard work that I had to do during the time where I was so vulnerable and hurting. You are an inspiration for those who are going through these struggles. You and your babies are in my prayers...you will continue to be the awesome mother and woman that I see every time I watch your videos. Keep your eyes on the prize, you got this!!!

  • @ellabella305
    @ellabella305 6 лет назад +7

    I loveeee u Britt and your strength. You always stay classy and respectful after all he's put your family through. Your a great role model for women going through things and deciding to take the high road ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ViannaWelch
    @ViannaWelch 6 лет назад

    I appreciate you too Britt!!. Met you in NY and you're the same kind spirited person I still see in the videos. God has blessed you and your family tremendously and he'll continue to keep and guide you through this chapter in your life. 🙏🏽
    Thanks for sharing all the inspiration! 😊

  • @nikkiprincess4812
    @nikkiprincess4812 6 лет назад

    We’ve all been here for you Britt! God is going to bless you 10x more. I am so much respect for you and so proud of this positive journey you are taking. You seriously a role model!!

  • @teclaodettespringer3569
    @teclaodettespringer3569 6 лет назад +1

    Britt: One of the things that keeps me coming back & looking at your vlogs: sincerity and open.
    I knew that you have a surviving support system. It's not easy to vlog or do anything without having a shoulder or someone to cry, scream or laugh crazily.
    I'm happy & respectful of your space. Girl keep it up.
    God has you in his 👐 & in our prayers 🎹🙌🎹

  • @heatherbradford8015
    @heatherbradford8015 6 лет назад +1

    Thanks for being honest and not sugar- coating. Good bless.

  • @sandies7593
    @sandies7593 6 лет назад

    I so support you Brit. I deal with ptsd from my not great marriage that ended 10 years ago. You are in a healthier, better place than I was at the same point your are now. I have progressed, I have been in other relationships, in other places in my life since the end of my marriage. But it will always be a scar. Always be a dent on my life that will effect me forever. You are in a healthy place after a year. I hope you keep on that path. But know that it is a loss, almost like death. You will think you are "over it" but it will hit you at times and the hurt never completely goes away. Thank you for being honest about it. You are so tough, so strong and your kids will thank you someday. Keep being you ❤️

  • @Brandykay78
    @Brandykay78 6 лет назад

    Love how you choose to handle this subject and handle it in a healthy way that works for you. Your an amazing mom and strong woman, you handle it much better than many probably would. As far as him he'll eventually realize his choices have consequences and hopefully he'll learn from them and make them right.

  • @jillosborn5160
    @jillosborn5160 6 лет назад +3

    Powerful and insightful vlog. I was a single mom of a 2 yr old. I have so much admiration of you for raising 3 on your own. I definitely agree with you about not bashing your ex on social media. I never do that either because he is the father of my child and my child doesn't need to hear that. I definitely couldn't make it through this journey without God,family and friends, and therapy. BRITT YOU'RE AN INSPIRATION!

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 6 лет назад

    So glad to hear that you are going through "wholeness" process via your faith and counsel. You are one class act, Brittany.

  • @mireyac.3291
    @mireyac.3291 6 лет назад

    Girl, I too took the high road years ago in a similar situation because I wanted to heal and focus on myself and my child. At the time, I was broken and hurt, but with time and staying positive and allowing God to handle things, I can honestly tell you God is always good and always faithful. He brought me an excellent man, that's now my husband, and blessed us with a baby in my 30s. God took hold of things and blessed me and cursed my ex. I thought I'd never get over him and bescared, but after time I found myself and found happiness within myself and then my current relationship. You're doing the right thing. I prayed and wish you nothing but the best and happiness.

  • @QuesadillaQueer
    @QuesadillaQueer 6 лет назад

    I know I’m kind of late to this video, but I’ve been watching you for the past 3/4 years and to see how much you have grown as a woman and as a mother is very admiring❤️keep doing you!

  • @lovelybrown6453
    @lovelybrown6453 6 лет назад +6

    Britt it's no ones business on how you process your pain but you and your friends and family you have a right to your privacy and your time to heal as quickly or as slowly as you want dont every let anybody make you feel like you need to put your personal life on display for their entertainment. Your doing a great job and if Austin refuses to share in the joy of being a parent then thats on him one day he'll look back on this and wish he had. Yah's blessing and keep up the good work your doing a great job. I wish nothing but love peace and happiness for you and the children

  • @StephanieBogart
    @StephanieBogart 6 лет назад

    I've been through 2 divorces. I totally agree about therapy. I am a huge advocate of it. Thank you for sharing this with us. You're such a sweet person