YESSSS FINALLY!!! So pure, raw, down-to-earth and real as always! Love it, please keep blessing us with the chill big sister vibes forever and always ✊🏼 So excited to see more of your content!
Thank you so much for doing this!! I would love to watch the followup video you mentioned. Would you also be willing to speak a bit more about what exactly you were looking for in your SO? That might be more personal so I understand if you dont want to discuss that on RUclips. Also did you try any other avenues like through the “rishta aunty” network? If so how was that experience?
Thanks for sharing your experience. There is loads of things thats one has to consider and you put most of the key points across succintly. It takes time and practice to learn how to definer the good guys from playboys. Been on apps for while still looking but there is no resources online. This was super insighful and helpful. Thank you
Daebah X so glad it could help someone. You’re right there aren’t a lot of resources unfortunately. Hopefully as it becomes more common we can have more; in the meantime I’m happy this was useful at all!
Been following your Instagram handle for a long time now. Just adore your pics and motivated by your achievements in the field of medicine. So excited that you started your RUclips channel. Please post more videos really looking forward.
@@starlight200816 I match with some guys but they never start the conversation and when I say hi first they do t respond.. like most of them like me first though.
I thought I was a lost cause for using MM for nearly 3 years. For context, I've started the whole spouse searching thing on my late 20s, due to "strategic" reasons. Then again, I do frequently encounter the same people over and over again. Not sure if that's anyway a consolation. Because they wouldn't even want to be with you even if you're the last person on earth? I can also relate to not finding the randomness of the universe for spontaneous romantic interaction with a Muslim of the opposite gender. But at least you have a fairly high amount of Muslims in the medical profession. Not the case with Physics Academia, it's a tragedy, but that's another discussion. I don't like minder because it's too superficial. Not the sort of due who automatically swipes right without thinking on a pretty face, but that's what the app was designed for. 90% superficiality, with an added stats card, like you're some character from a fantasy RPG game. Muzmatch was a bit better in that regard, as a higher % of people tend to actually take the time to fill out a bio. I'm a dude, our experiences will be completely different. I get perhaps 1-2 likes within 2-3 months. At the plus side, I'm extremely effective in attracting my target audience. And no one ever dared to speak to me in a rude manner, or harras me. But statistically speaking, I have a worse chance of finding someone online than winning certain lotteries. So I've given up. Can't wait to move to Singapore and find someone "organically"
I did the worst thing i send my photos to some people, they were regular ones though ,no nudies or anything discusting ,do you think Thats bad on dating apps ,I have zéro experience when dating plus as muslims we are bit conservative so its hard
I think as Muslim we (myself first and foremost) need to remember our sole purpose is worship Allah SWT. We really don’t have time nor the need to do anything except with that intention as we’ll be accountable to Him SWT. May we all have the sincere intention of marriage. May Allah SWT make it easy for us all and place barakah and goodness in our lives. Ameen
Honestly i have the worst experience, all I came to know were ugly people and fuckboyes ,it was the worst or people who ghost me ,is any one here had same experience
I’m honestly thinking of ending my life due to the experience on this app. I’ve always been told I’m pretty, but due to a ten year depression I guess I surpressed myself. I’ve had several guys unmatch due to my photos. And then you hear other women are having like 90+likes over night
Naila K I’m sorry the experience has led to these feelings; I hope you let us keep getting to know you. I can’t say my experiences were great. When I think about the idea of a girl getting that many likes, I think it says less about the girl that gets likes but more about the guys... They’re either on minder looking for someone that should be on tinder, or they’re expressing interest in a lot of fish in the sea hoping even one will bite back. These aren’t the right guys for us anyway, and I don’t know a guy who’s been successful with this tactic, or girl who met their match from this, personally. Inshallah you can take a break from this route of finding a match and take time for yourself, and find another way that helps you feel empowered. ❤️
Yes but 80 percent of guys are in your boat so dont feel bad! Its a well known scientific fact that 80 percent of woman only swipe right to 20 percent of men (not saying ur part pf that 80% of woman). Anyways keep swimming
Why do you need 90+ likes, when you get that many likes as sister Saba mentioned, it means that those likes are meaningless...meaning that half the guys in the app came to your like folder, is it something to be happy about? should you be happy? I wouldn't, cause it means those guys didn't get filtered by the like button, they didn't really select you, now it's a burden on the girl's shoulder to go through all those likes and find out who's the good guys, who's a just player, who's really interested in having a lifelong relationship with you....so you see it's not an advantage to have that many likes! If you don't get that too many likes overnight, that means that you have more genuine people who like you. It's sometimes good not to be very popular, it saves us time :) I'm a guy, and we don't get that many likes as an average guy, but when we get even one, we know it's more likely genuine.
Have hope sister. Have tawakkul. Allah loves you but the shaytan wants you to lose hope. Fill your life with salat and dua and keep searching. You are so blessed to be on this earth.
I'll hang as a platonic friend with a Muslima that uses dating apps, but I would never marry one. It seems to westernized as behavior, and that's a deal breaker but I can understand why a woman would use it - everyone's human and also everyone has the right to their preferences.
Having a muslima as a platonic friend is the most westernized behaviour you can show, people are looking for marriage, as long as they are halal about it and get the families involved early, should be fine. Even if it isnt, there’s no way opposite gender friendships are allowed 💀
HAHAHAHAHA- FINALLY!
Also I love how raw and uncensored you are! So many ppl are afraid to approach this topic.
Also- 10/10 meme usage 😂😂
Maha Elgawly thank youuuuuu 😂😂😂
Why there's nothing wrong with that
YESSSS FINALLY!!! So pure, raw, down-to-earth and real as always! Love it, please keep blessing us with the chill big sister vibes forever and always ✊🏼 So excited to see more of your content!
Anusha Abbas ❤️❤️❤️
So far the best review very honest and refreshing. ❤
JazakAllahu khair sis! May Allah continue to reward you ❤
I love how honest you are 👏
Hi
Thank you so much for doing this!! I would love to watch the followup video you mentioned. Would you also be willing to speak a bit more about what exactly you were looking for in your SO? That might be more personal so I understand if you dont want to discuss that on RUclips. Also did you try any other avenues like through the “rishta aunty” network? If so how was that experience?
Justcalmdown3 yesssss I can try to work on those!!
10 seconds in and I’m already laughing 😂 so comforting to see another Muslim sister being open with the search .. congratulations xx
السلام وعليكم
Go put hijab on please
It is difficult to find a good person..also it is easy to search..God bless everyone
Thanks for sharing your experience.
There is loads of things thats one has to consider and you put most of the key points across succintly.
It takes time and practice to learn how to definer the good guys from playboys. Been on apps for while still looking but there is no resources online. This was super insighful and helpful.
Thank you
Daebah X so glad it could help someone. You’re right there aren’t a lot of resources unfortunately. Hopefully as it becomes more common we can have more; in the meantime I’m happy this was useful at all!
Been following your Instagram handle for a long time now. Just adore your pics and motivated by your achievements in the field of medicine. So excited that you started your RUclips channel. Please post more videos really looking forward.
numera siddiqua ahhh thank you!!!!!
@@sabzeezi hi
Thank you for sharing! I have the same struggles
Thank you for your valuable feedback 😊
Where's your sofa from and the dark blue thing and the jug next to you as well as that light blue circle thing?
The dating game is the hardest game of them all.
I really appreciate this video. Thank you!!
I'm Egyptian Engineer in UAE, looking for a wife
Hi
Me too I did the same and now I'm engaged to the best man ever
Hi
How did you get to the marriage stage? Like how did it actually become serious. I'm wondering if I'm doing something wrong. Any advice
@@starlight200816 I match with some guys but they never start the conversation and when I say hi first they do t respond.. like most of them like me first though.
ماشاء الله
I am very dispoint because people only waste the time of other person to make fun and its all waste of time.... People looking for fun nothing else
Great advice! Thank you 😊
I'm Egyptian Engineer in UAE, looking for a wife
Can you talk about remaining sane and hopeful thru this process
I really appreciate this video thank you!
I really do feel like apps are the only way when ur so busy with life
Love this video. There were good guys and bad guys. Just didn't meet the right person yet. Just gotta keep trying.
Thank you so much for sharing 😊
had me on the plates thing...🤣
Asc sis what if u don't have experience in dating app or haven't talked anyone in ur life
"are you still listening?" response "No!"
did you end up with a person with the same country of origin as you? or were you open to others as well?
Thank you! I have the same struggles
Salam
I am your 353 subscriber.
Blessings
سلام عليكم .. هل تتحدثين العربية ؟ اود ان اتحدث معك بشكل ضروري عن هذا الموضوع وعندى استفسارات
I did not understand the names which apps she used and finally where she found her match, could you please write me
Me too 🤦
what was the name of the apps?😀
I def can relate. Thanks for sharing.
Hi
Bradpitt popped up 13 times exactly
I thought I was a lost cause for using MM for nearly 3 years. For context, I've started the whole spouse searching thing on my late 20s, due to "strategic" reasons. Then again, I do frequently encounter the same people over and over again. Not sure if that's anyway a consolation. Because they wouldn't even want to be with you even if you're the last person on earth?
I can also relate to not finding the randomness of the universe for spontaneous romantic interaction with a Muslim of the opposite gender. But at least you have a fairly high amount of Muslims in the medical profession. Not the case with Physics Academia, it's a tragedy, but that's another discussion.
I don't like minder because it's too superficial. Not the sort of due who automatically swipes right without thinking on a pretty face, but that's what the app was designed for. 90% superficiality, with an added stats card, like you're some character from a fantasy RPG game. Muzmatch was a bit better in that regard, as a higher % of people tend to actually take the time to fill out a bio.
I'm a dude, our experiences will be completely different. I get perhaps 1-2 likes within 2-3 months. At the plus side, I'm extremely effective in attracting my target audience. And no one ever dared to speak to me in a rude manner, or harras me. But statistically speaking, I have a worse chance of finding someone online than winning certain lotteries. So I've given up. Can't wait to move to Singapore and find someone "organically"
Saba Allah bless you soo much
WHAT THE NAME OF APK YOU USE
Salaam Alaikum
😂 the brad Pitt pics
Can you do a video on how you ended up with your husband?
I'm Egyptian Engineer in UAE, looking for a wife
Intention to Nikah. Insha’Allah will get there.
THANKS A. LOT. GOOD INFORMATION. SISTER. 🙏
I did the worst thing i send my photos to some people, they were regular ones though ,no nudies or anything discusting ,do you think Thats bad on dating apps ,I have zéro experience when dating plus as muslims we are bit conservative so its hard
I think that’s a mistake. I hate when guys ask for additional pictures. Usually means they are not serious
@@Riveramazons i know it never work out ,you are right
@Daniel Goodman thank you daniel
I'm Egyptian Engineer in UAE, looking for a wife
Good vid
great video
Since the competition is so high on online dating apps whats your suggestion for a man who’s looking for wife?
You keep on trying your luck
You never that person might be around the corner.so never give up✌️✌️✌️✌️
Did you find anyone?
@@tazrinahmed5326 nothing yet
@@umairsaeed8657 If you are practicing Muslim, we can talk😊
@cintialynn6480 looking for a family oriented and religious woman.
you to.......smiling
salam.... thanks for sharing...
I am taken already whatever women that wants to lie about a relationship shows what she is about....period
Can you help me
Hello how are you doing am a Ugandan looking for a serious relationship thank you deear
Looooooooool
Guys like does this really work😂😂
I think as Muslim we (myself first and foremost) need to remember our sole purpose is worship Allah SWT. We really don’t have time nor the need to do anything except with that intention as we’ll be accountable to Him SWT.
May we all have the sincere intention of marriage. May Allah SWT make it easy for us all and place barakah and goodness in our lives. Ameen
She has the cabrio cover up
Honestly i have the worst experience, all I came to know were ugly people and fuckboyes ,it was the worst or people who ghost me ,is any one here had same experience
Me to
The men consum alk, cigarettes etc., or did in the past. If they don't consumd, they are toxic = my experience
I'm muslim man i born muslim I'm single i want To married a muslim woman I'm from africa I'm living in muslim country Mauritania
Wow, Mauritania is a beautiful country. Good luck!
@@tytiw516 yeah thank you sire
Less connect 😌
Assalamualaikum
I want to marry a pious Muslim woman who actually practices Islam. I practice. What is best online site for finding these kind of Muslim women?
I am interested 🇮🇳❤🍵
I really need a Muslim man
hmm difficult...
indonesia 👌👌👌👌
Asalam aleikum
cool
I’m honestly thinking of ending my life due to the experience on this app. I’ve always been told I’m pretty, but due to a ten year depression I guess I surpressed myself. I’ve had several guys unmatch due to my photos. And then you hear other women are having like 90+likes over night
Naila K I’m sorry the experience has led to these feelings; I hope you let us keep getting to know you. I can’t say my experiences were great. When I think about the idea of a girl getting that many likes, I think it says less about the girl that gets likes but more about the guys... They’re either on minder looking for someone that should be on tinder, or they’re expressing interest in a lot of fish in the sea hoping even one will bite back. These aren’t the right guys for us anyway, and I don’t know a guy who’s been successful with this tactic, or girl who met their match from this, personally. Inshallah you can take a break from this route of finding a match and take time for yourself, and find another way that helps you feel empowered. ❤️
I'm Egyptian Engineer in UAE, looking for a wife
Yes but 80 percent of guys are in your boat so dont feel bad! Its a well known scientific fact that 80 percent of woman only swipe right to 20 percent of men (not saying ur part pf that 80% of woman). Anyways keep swimming
Why do you need 90+ likes, when you get that many likes as sister Saba mentioned, it means that those likes are meaningless...meaning that half the guys in the app came to your like folder, is it something to be happy about? should you be happy? I wouldn't, cause it means those guys didn't get filtered by the like button, they didn't really select you, now it's a burden on the girl's shoulder to go through all those likes and find out who's the good guys, who's a just player, who's really interested in having a lifelong relationship with you....so you see it's not an advantage to have that many likes! If you don't get that too many likes overnight, that means that you have more genuine people who like you. It's sometimes good not to be very popular, it saves us time :) I'm a guy, and we don't get that many likes as an average guy, but when we get even one, we know it's more likely genuine.
Have hope sister. Have tawakkul. Allah loves you but the shaytan wants you to lose hope. Fill your life with salat and dua and keep searching. You are so blessed to be on this earth.
What were your intentions? Was it a stable income man
cover ur front hair too okay
Atleast they are practicing bro... Jus leave it...
So who got married using tinder? At 8:53 loll🤭
Was it a coincidence what you weren’t looking for just happened to have a picture of a black man?
Lol she was lucky
I'll hang as a platonic friend with a Muslima that uses dating apps, but I would never marry one. It seems to westernized as behavior, and that's a deal breaker but I can understand why a woman would use it - everyone's human and also everyone has the right to their preferences.
Having a muslima as a platonic friend is the most westernized behaviour you can show, people are looking for marriage, as long as they are halal about it and get the families involved early, should be fine. Even if it isnt, there’s no way opposite gender friendships are allowed 💀