Asking anything only works if shes attracted to you. If she isnt she wont give a shit about anything you have to say nor wiil she share anything about her life with you.
True. I see guys making stupid comments about shit they do not know and the girls laughing about it because they are attracted to or friends, especially when the guy changes his mind when with a different group of people calls him out, and of course....the women will follow like a mindless idiot. No offense to opposite sex, it's just human nature. So that tells me she is stupid too and not worth it :)
Courtney you should do a vid demostration of a IRL swiping session with Hallee's dating profile. Guys would get more value from it. I feel you guys were too nice and probably would've swiped left IRL to all 3 profiles. The profiles were ok, but attractive girls, such a yourselves, that get 1000 likes/matches a day, would not spend a millisecond glancing beyond the first pic
@@Dovieandi_Se_Tovya_Sagain That's a good point actually. Women have 100% of the control when it comes to Dating Apps (even if they don't realize it). In person, even though its scarier, its a lot more equalized- even if men are the ones who do the initial approach 99.99% of the time. Women will almost never approach a guy they like in real life. Even if the guy is attractive or has money. A small minority of women might, but its extremely unlikely, no matter how good looking or how good the guy is.
I’ve had multiple takes on my profiles in the past, being honest is good, being forward is great. If they know what your intentions are, they will come or go accordingly.
Agreed. And, yet, I get women who claim they want a serious relationship, yet they treat me like a glorified booty call, lol. Not the worst problem in the world, as at least I get sex out of it, but some of them seemed like relationship potential, so it was a bit disappointing
And now you are here. Not a stellar comment on the viability of on-line dating. It will not be until guys stop signing up to be a punching bag on dating apps for women to minimize the stupid pet tricks they play on dating apps. Young and old, they all over rate themselves on a dating app. You could meet any of them in person if you bumped into them. It's like they are only trolling for sturgeon, no striped bass will do, no matter what size. They will likely die alone also.
Hey Courtney and Hallee! Thanks so much reviewing for my profile! Glad to see my voice story hit the way I wanted it to and I have already swapped out the shoe pic. Keep up the good work!
You seem like a good kid but one bit of advice if I may. Never take a woman's advice on dating, especially dating apps. The only thing that matters at the end of the day are your results. Are you getting quality matches that then convert to dates? If yes, you're doing something right (or more likely, you "are" something right). If no, no amount of asskissing and virtue signaling from women changes that fact.
@@codervince4957 Dude you are way too eager to please women. Look at the way you're responding to this video: "guys I did exactly as you asked, aren't I a good boy?" This isn't how attraction works. You are still young but you'll learn in another 10 years or so.
Dating apps & profiles can sometimes be "deceiving". Can't judge a book by it's cover. What you 👀 see isn't always what you get! You don't know who you're really dealing with unless you spend some quality time with that person! A ☕ coffee shop date initially is a great start to determine if there's a "spark". Never mention sensitive subjects like politics & religion in a bio! Always have honest communication with open- ended questions about the other person! In a person "meet 'n greet" is the best way to know who you're dealing with. There's always a " safety & security" factor in today's dating 🌎 world!... And a last bit of advice....Always know who you are & what you're looking for in a potential partner!
Thankfully i am not involved in the modern datingapp madness. Coffee shops are so underrated says someone that has been meeting his girlfriends and now wife in weird places like the bus stop or on a mountain. Either you continue that coffee in someones home or you simply drink your coffee and thanks for a nice conversation and walks home alone.
I always mention religion and politics. They are connected and they are connected to your morals and values. If we aren’t lined up on politics and religion, it’s very likely we won’t be lined up on morals and values. If we’re not lined up on those things, I’m not messaging you and I’m declining a message from you.
While I don't hold someone's religious views or political views against them, for many women I've attempted to date, it is a deal breaker, so I'd rather they specify these things in their profiles if indeed they are deal breakers, as opposed to me wasting my time and money getting to know them, to then get dumped a month or two later simply due to their non acceptance of my views
I keep my IG profile down to earth. No photoshoped picture, no selfies next to things I dont own or pretend to like. I think keeping it real is important.
I agree. However, every dude I know who plays the game online curated their pictures and profiles to get matches. The ladies say it in the video, well rounded and supposed effort. Even though few of them do the same. They also mention more options by changing a few things.. Keeping it real lowers options, but the ones you get when you do are probably better. The gamesmanship of it all is stupid.
@Anthony Manzio She has a successful youtube channel with more subscribers than Courtney doing comedy sketches. How is all she has is looks?? The red flagis if she is still single, she is obviously still holding out for some wealthy vey attractive looking dude, and her opinions on this video don't mean anything to how she really thinks
If I were to look through a profile then one photo from each category is beneficial. One closer profile face picture, one hobby, one social, one career, one fitness/physical, etc. This is a glimpse into your life and if she can see herself in it.
How do I take an up close pic without looking cringy or even worse creepy? And the camera makes you look uneven lmao. Unless you are some tiktok boy with fluffy hair.
I am a senior, retired male who has been watching your videos for weeks and enjoy your advice. New to the dating scene (after a long hiatus) and nothing seems right - dating and society in general no longer make sense to me. Not sure about authenticity of many of these sites - I've been getting slews of positive replies regarding my profile and photos, but am very cautious, as getting picked by young women from 18 to 25 seems a little too good to be true. How do I know whether to respond or not, as some of these sites lean more towards pick-up or one-night-stand sites and some women seem somewhat forward, sending very explicit photos. Have only responded to a very few, and I learned that those turned out to be computer- generated with no chance of response or meet-ups. How can a man do this without going broke ?
Excellent advice Courtney about us updating our dating profile game especially with more female perspectives. I like that we have can voice recordings on there cuz that could help our chances of getting more matches. I always see dating profile as a brief preview of what it's like to know you. I do think it's good to put what you are looking for and show yourself doing something fun in your profile. Guys don't spend all your time on these apps. Do go out and talk to women too cuz if you keep all the talking on the apps; you'll never get anywhere. I wish everyone the best. Have a lovely day Courtney 😊🤙🏽♥️
Never. I repeat NEVER listen to a woman who tells how to capture them “from a female perspective”. You would never take advice from a fish on how to fish - this is no different. If you think “has a skin care routine” will attract a woman who sees you as a real man then you deserve what you get.
OMG I could not make a serious dating profile if my life depended on it. It's so fun for me though to see what the 20 somethings are into these days, so very different from when I was that age decades ago. You are a one of a kind down to earth girl, very rare these days indeed, and I do like your content. Thanks for all the advice you give.
Great tips! I agree. If you’re going to be posting a picture or a video of yourself doing an activity - it should definitely be of something you’re into. The way if a girl is looking at your profile, chances are, if she likes what she sees - she’ll start imagining herself doing that specific activity with you. That’s what you ultimately want, you want her to start thinking what it would be like to be with you in real life, because anybody can fake their lives in the social media - you don’t want to be one of those people! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
I've been here for over a year now and she is definitely a vital channel to click the 🛎 for, to share with others, and to take notes with, if needed. RUclips's favorite big sis!
One time in break, I was sitting near female coworkers. One pulled out her fone n began to speak n show the other ladies the guys on her dating site. I was surprised. Each female that seen the guys all Disrespected and made fun of each man on her dating site. It was a real eye opener to see how women when all together Disrespect men on their looks, job, hobbies everything. It was Disgusting. They all laughed at each man and made fun of the men that wanted a date on the website. That's how women think about the men on dating sites.
Your videos with Hallee are great. She is so incredibly beautiful and charming, and your banter is entertaining. Thank you for all you do for us men, Courtney!
Andy - couldn't agree more. The sociopath losers running the vast majority of the tech firms want nothing more than to enrich themselves off of the poor mental health, isolation, depression, and coercive/manipulative platforms. Makes for mindless and malleable weak individuals, whom, happen to also be the most profitable personality types, oh oh oh, and ANDY! We'll socialize the cost by asking big DADDY gov't for "just" more "programs" / gov't spending to make up for any/all externalizes from our operations.
Great idea! If you’re serious about being serious with someone, ask them if they are. It doesn’t mean it will be you, but I bet it would filter out a bunch of game players.
I did not know Courtney was 26. I'm 37 and it feels strange taking advice from a woman 11 years younger than me. But thanks for the help and the conformation Ms. Courtney. Congratulations on getting engaged. Some people were replying to me so I added this. Go to time stamp 13:10 and wait 10 seconds. Courtny says she just turned 26.
I think the tips given in this video are invaluable and just watching these profiles through your eyes, grants perspective on how to set up a profile to attract the right women.
Based on how Courtney presents herself and the amount of good dating advice she gives I never would have thought she was 26 she is very mature for that age in today's society. A lot of girls at 26 today are still in la la land and have no clue as to what they want or what's going on in the world. She has certainly matured faster than most girls at her age so props to her!
While I agree that the political stuff is super polarizing, and it's sad that people can be so polarized, I'd rather find out off the bat that I'm not a good fit for someone based on HER political requirements, as opposed to wasting time and money getting to know her, only to then get dumped a month later simply for political views
She would already have been overwhelmed with attention regardless of this video, in person or on dating apps. Modern men have very little self restraint.
Thanks Courtney! Its interesting watching this that taking care of others is value I am looking for. The relationship between people whether it is platonic or partner, having that looking out for the other is gold. Projecting that through this channel with friends who are a like. :)
Gents, if you're spending hours and hours creating an online "persona" just to get girls to create some romantic soap opera in their own heads (something Women love to do) on who you are, it's not going to work and all your doing is setting up unrealistic, imaginary, fanciful expectations for her. Have a few respectful selfies, picture of a hobby, one family photo an honest (brief) description of your personality, traits, and the few vital broadstrokes of what your looking for and that's it. If it takes more than that to convince a girl to click on you she won't be truly into you and she is focusing on the wrong things....
The big factor nobody mentions is you should have confidence in yourself to be able to impress a woman and make her laugh in whatever video chat you would have with her if she is interested in your profile.. I would never meet a woman who doesn't video chat first just for safety reasons... It could always just be a guy on the other end...
@@Fred-zt5ky Yep, the only thing is it hurts your ego much more when getting rejected over video chat.. At least for me... Seems to hurt much more than getting rejected by cold approaching in public even though it's almost the same thing. As long as you're getting some girls to say yes, when women say no in the future, the hurt will become less and less
I'm 25, when I was 16 I was into social media like insta and stuff but right now I'm anti social media don't have any except for fb and havent got much going there. Sometimes I even get models attracted to me but it's sad to me how much people care about social media. And it's even more motivating for me to keep it that way to weed out the attention seekers.
Basically, at the end of the day, be natural, be you, show who you really are like. Do not try and upscale what cannot be upscaled. Noone likes being with a liar. So why would you start with lying about your profile and pictures.
The problem i have is that dating has become tribal. Vaccinated or unvaccinated women wont date you. Democratic or Republican the same. I could care less about these qualities and wish we could go back to where it wasn’t even part of the conversation!!!
I’ll be friends with just about anyone. But because I date to marry, I only date people who are of the same political party and religion as me because they are connected to your morals and values and how important those morals and values are to you. Because, I’m a Biblical Christian and vote Republican or conservative independent, I will only date Biblical Christian men who vote Republican or conservative independent. Christians who vote for democrats/liberals do not share in my values and morals enough for me to even consider going on a date with them. PS Great username 😂😂😂
@@michaelangst6078 I pass up all the very obvious non conservative and non Christians all time. I dumped a guy I found attractive who said he was a conservative Christian but turned out to have bad fruit that proved otherwise. I did the interfaith inter-political marriage. It was a hot mess express. NEVER AGAIN. I will die a spinster before I go through that crap again.
@@rissroo4325 Well, good for you I guess. I assume you think it's a double standard that the women in the video shitted on the guy in the video for not wanting to date a trump supporter? If a female had that in their profile they wouldn't blink an eye as it would just be one of the endless amount of requirements women can have for dating a man. Men apparently can't have any
I think the "no fish pics" things is also aimed at girls. Excessive pouting was a thing that looked good for a hot minute a few decades ago and it's like way too many people still haven't caught on that it looks terrible 99% unless you're doing a fashion shoot. And yes, we can all tell you've messed with the photo, and those "dirt" filters don't look like an old photo, they just make it look as if you don't take care of your phone.
Ignore her words and watch her actions. The question is, in the privacy and solidarity of her own home, would she swipe right on you. Does she truly find you sexually attractive Who cares what she says here.
While this is true, their advice was ok for having a better chance at an average woman finding more of a liking to your profile etc... That Hallee girl is successful herself, so she probably is only looking for an attractive rich man if she is still single... Men here must have a low IQ which is part of the reason why they struggle so bad if this isn't common sense to them...
Does anybody here require the woman to video chat with you? I do it for a few major reasons 1. it shows that she is serious 2. It avoids you getting cat fished 3. It's way easier to show of that you're actually funny with social skills, and you can actually stand out from the other men just sending her text messages... The harsh reality is If you're not confident in you social skills, and hate the way you look, and that's the reason you don't want to video chat, you really shouldn't be trying to date in the first place
Ive always been direct with a little lightness in my dating bio and have good luck. Cant really complain in this chaotic market. Im not looking for marriage, not looking for kids, just intimacy and fun and that doesn't mean sex. Of coarse if It leads to that awesome . I don't filter out women that want kids and a LTR though. I might be what they are looking for before they find the guy they are meant to be with.
off topic but jealous of Hallee for skydiving, was meant to be doing a solo course last year but didnt due to restrictions (i`m in the UK), this year the place near me is fully booked so i`m pre booked into a 2023 course! feel like forever away. anyways, love the reviews, you should ask someone on tinder to share their app data and go over that, doing a male and female perspective would be eye opening for many i think.
Is this your dating app chat routine exercise, dude? do you have any personality, any belives and charisma? Try to get that.. weman will love you. Your chat routine on the other hand is your inner puss trying to speak out. Shut it down and let he rbe quite. Regards
You really think she is going to come on and act shallow and superficial knowing she will get backlash? What she says on the video about a mans looks and what she truly thinks can easily be 2 entirely different things
Everyone has standards. And you’re right maybe what she says and responds to aren’t the same. But hey, pretty face, positive message, where’s the harm?
@@saskruffriders8234 Nawwww, desperate men can have no standards and may date any woman who gives them a time of day as longa s she isn't old or grotesque looking. She didn't do anything wrong in the video, but you can tell she is picky by the way she responds to Johns profile... Not that she isn't in a position to be picky. She has a RUclips channel with 350k subscribers... At the end of the day, if you want the most results on dating apps, you're better off putting pics of you by expensive cars and editing your face to look the best it can. This is the 100% truth...
@15:15 No one spells my name right in my country as well. But Hallee looks and feels like an interesting person to spend time and have a good cup of coffee with. Not gonna lie.
I find that the best relationships come from a foundation of solid friendship. In other words, know someone for a while - a long time - before getting romantically involved. The chances of these working out for the better are probably in your favor. That being said, in an "instantaneous gratification" society, this advice is probably about as hopeful as throwing a roll of toilet paper into the ocean and expecting it to absorb the ocean dry.
@@jleano609 Yep. If you end up in a girl's friend zone, who cares? That just means she ain't interested. Not every girl you meet has to be a hook-up. Sometimes, you can have actual platonic friendships with someone of the opposite sex. I don't do dating apps as they lead to "empty sex" (no emotional connection) for the most part. I like to meet people face to face and get to know them while I am working on myself: career, retirement, gym, hobbies, ROTH TSP, ROTH IRA, dividends, and mutual funds. If you end up in a girl's friend-zone, who gives a flip? If you have to "front" to stay out of it, that front won't last forever. She either likes you or she doesn't.
I understand where you’re coming from and I believe there has to be a level of friendship there but you also have to show some sexual interest bc if she likes you and you don’t show interest, she’s not gonna make the first move but will expect you to do it. I’m not saying go hook up with every woman you make friends with but if you see potential in a woman, show a bit more than just friendship.
Im a nice guy who just wants a woman that is loyal honest and is here for me when i need someone to talk to. Im a type of guy that will go out of my way to please a woman and compliment on her looks daily. Just wish i can find that special someone out there.
This is the exact reason why you're not finding women. You're giving out compliments when they haven't done anything to earn it. Compliment their actions when they do something useful like cook for you or drop you off to the airport. Don't just compliment their looks as you'll just come off as a thirsty horn dog.
@DrRobotnik You don't have to be nasty, mean, or a douchebag. You just have to stop being fake nice. Complimenting a woman on her looks all the time is not "nice", it's thirsty and shows lack of self control. There is no problem complimenting a woman when she actually does something for you that you thought was helpful or considerate, but just randomly complimenting a woman on her looks reeks of desperation.
@DrRobotnik Actually, most people don't know the difference. I sure didn't years back when I would buy my girlfriend tons of expensive things. I had always resented her back then for not appreciating what I did for her until I realized that I was essentially buying her nice things to impress her and ultimately influence her behavior towards me, when I what I really should have been doing was buying her small but symbolic things, and only when she deserved it. In other words, I was being what most would consider a "nice guy" except, everything I was doing was ultimately motivated by self-interest, I just never thought of it that way. Ultimately, being a nice person does not make you less appealing to women, it makes you MORE appealing. Being a weak person is what makes you repulsive to women. Most conflate the two.
Courtney you wouldn’t need dating apps for anything. Hallee is absolutely fine, so I don’t understand how/why she would be on there. They’re so artificial. I believe in real life that guys (and probably girls, too) roll up to Hallee all the time. I’m 43, so I’d be way too old for either of you, and I’m aware of my limits, but I can appreciate intelligence & beauty. Thank You both for your beauty and your insight.
Just avoid dating apps altogether. Even if you could be successful on them, the women you meet there will not be keepers. High quality women don't use dating apps. Period.
Imagine planing your free days for dates, where you dont even know whats in the cards for you. Imagine spending time in an bar, having fun with friends an randomly meet a nice girl you can talk to about whatever crosses your mind... Good old times, where dateing was something, that happend naturaly...
It's actually not that hard to attract girls on dating apps; it's the type of girl that matters, *if you're getting a pansexual overweight single mother with insane clown pose face tattoos* trying to get your attention and you're left sending strongly worded "report" messages to customer service begging for stronger content filters (that invariably go unanswered) it doesn't really matter how many great pics and funny quotes you add.
It's crazy how we have to try hard just for women to say that we're trying to hard and when we're not trying at all we get the same response. A woman could put no effort in her profile but put one hot pic and she'll get messages In a few mins
thats why its still simping to the lowest degree. Making yourself as a comodity. Like you live holistictly, you got hobbies, you got career, you got this, you got that meanwhile makig a shell of yourself. What makes a man is his convictions and his tenecity. Nothing else. All the feminized bulshit this vidoe is selling is sure way of getting a chick that wont respect you and becoming more a puss you have ever been. Its a disaster. Dont buy into it.
About Jon: He is not taking himself too seriously. He has sunglasses. He is a bro. But would Hallee date him? No! Is Hallee interested or attracted to him? No!
I think that it would be a good idea, if you haven't already, to rate women's profiles. I tried online on and off over the years and to say that the majority of women's profiles were lousy is an understatement.
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Asking anything only works if shes attracted to you. If she isnt she wont give a shit about anything you have to say nor wiil she share anything about her life with you.
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That’s the point mate. If someone doesn’t want you back move along tell someone does.
True. I see guys making stupid comments about shit they do not know and the girls laughing about it because they are attracted to or friends, especially when the guy changes his mind when with a different group of people calls him out, and of course....the women will follow like a mindless idiot. No offense to opposite sex, it's just human nature.
So that tells me she is stupid too and not worth it :)
They're teaching thirsty simps how to keep trying. Stay on the treadmill. Keep pedestaling.
Sounds like your picker needs calibrated. If none of them will talk to you, you are picking the wrong ones. It's just that simple.
Courtney you should do a vid demostration of a IRL swiping session with Hallee's dating profile. Guys would get more value from it. I feel you guys were too nice and probably would've swiped left IRL to all 3 profiles. The profiles were ok, but attractive girls, such a yourselves, that get 1000 likes/matches a day, would not spend a millisecond glancing beyond the first pic
We did that in a future video I’ll be posting soon :) stay tuned!
Exactly why you shouldn't waste your time with online dating. Just grow a pair and ask a girl irl to her face.
@@Dovieandi_Se_Tovya_Sagain when did I say I don't approach or ask a girl irl? It has nothing to do with my suggestion to CR
@@wmorenolugo the comment wasnt directed at you. Just a general statement to men in general
@@Dovieandi_Se_Tovya_Sagain That's a good point actually. Women have 100% of the control when it comes to Dating Apps (even if they don't realize it).
In person, even though its scarier, its a lot more equalized- even if men are the ones who do the initial approach 99.99% of the time.
Women will almost never approach a guy they like in real life. Even if the guy is attractive or has money. A small minority of women might, but its extremely unlikely, no matter how good looking or how good the guy is.
I’ve had multiple takes on my profiles in the past, being honest is good, being forward is great. If they know what your intentions are, they will come or go accordingly.
They keep goin😂😂
Agreed. And, yet, I get women who claim they want a serious relationship, yet they treat me like a glorified booty call, lol. Not the worst problem in the world, as at least I get sex out of it, but some of them seemed like relationship potential, so it was a bit disappointing
@@WeaponX7. Sometimes they come and they don't want to leave.
And now you are here. Not a stellar comment on the viability of on-line dating. It will not be until guys stop signing up to be a punching bag on dating apps for women to minimize the stupid pet tricks they play on dating apps. Young and old, they all over rate themselves on a dating app. You could meet any of them in person if you bumped into them. It's like they are only trolling for sturgeon, no striped bass will do, no matter what size. They will likely die alone also.
Hey Courtney and Hallee! Thanks so much reviewing for my profile! Glad to see my voice story hit the way I wanted it to and I have already swapped out the shoe pic. Keep up the good work!
Thank YOU! ❤️❤️
You seem like a good kid but one bit of advice if I may. Never take a woman's advice on dating, especially dating apps. The only thing that matters at the end of the day are your results. Are you getting quality matches that then convert to dates? If yes, you're doing something right (or more likely, you "are" something right). If no, no amount of asskissing and virtue signaling from women changes that fact.
What dating app are you using man?
@@codervince4957 Dude you are way too eager to please women. Look at the way you're responding to this video: "guys I did exactly as you asked, aren't I a good boy?" This isn't how attraction works. You are still young but you'll learn in another 10 years or so.
@@thecommenter9267 lol what? nice job showing everyone you're a troll. at least Vincent is putting in the effort which is a lot better than you
Dating apps & profiles can sometimes be "deceiving". Can't judge a book by it's cover. What you 👀 see isn't always what you get! You don't know who you're really dealing with unless you spend some quality time with that person! A ☕ coffee shop date initially is a great start to determine if there's a "spark". Never mention sensitive subjects like politics & religion in a bio! Always have honest communication with open- ended questions about the other person! In a person "meet 'n greet" is the best way to know who you're dealing with. There's always a " safety & security" factor in today's dating 🌎 world!... And a last bit of advice....Always know who you are & what you're looking for in a potential partner!
Thankfully i am not involved in the modern datingapp madness.
Coffee shops are so underrated says someone that has been meeting his girlfriends and now wife in weird places like the bus stop or on a mountain.
Either you continue that coffee in someones home or you simply drink your coffee and thanks for a nice conversation and walks home alone.
I always mention religion and politics. They are connected and they are connected to your morals and values. If we aren’t lined up on politics and religion, it’s very likely we won’t be lined up on morals and values. If we’re not lined up on those things, I’m not messaging you and I’m declining a message from you.
While I don't hold someone's religious views or political views against them, for many women I've attempted to date, it is a deal breaker, so I'd rather they specify these things in their profiles if indeed they are deal breakers, as opposed to me wasting my time and money getting to know them, to then get dumped a month or two later simply due to their non acceptance of my views
Religion and politics are a huge reasons and actually should be in ur bio, if u have major differences mostly likely it’s not gonna work out
I keep my IG profile down to earth. No photoshoped picture, no selfies next to things I dont own or pretend to like. I think keeping it real is important.
Me too
I agree. However, every dude I know who plays the game online curated their pictures and profiles to get matches. The ladies say it in the video, well rounded and supposed effort. Even though few of them do the same. They also mention more options by changing a few things.. Keeping it real lowers options, but the ones you get when you do are probably better. The gamesmanship of it all is stupid.
Nice to see Hallee.. Her smile warmed up my cold Sunday!
@Anthony Manzio how so?? I admit, I don't find her funny, but she has a personality that is better than 97% of women
@Anthony Manzio She has a successful youtube channel with more subscribers than Courtney doing comedy sketches. How is all she has is looks?? The red flagis if she is still single, she is obviously still holding out for some wealthy vey attractive looking dude, and her opinions on this video don't mean anything to how she really thinks
If I were to look through a profile then one photo from each category is beneficial. One closer profile face picture, one hobby, one social, one career, one fitness/physical, etc. This is a glimpse into your life and if she can see herself in it.
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How do I take an up close pic without looking cringy or even worse creepy? And the camera makes you look uneven lmao. Unless you are some tiktok boy with fluffy hair.
Then why, are most female profiles only travel, wine and skimpy clothing? =D
I am a senior, retired male who has been watching your videos for weeks and enjoy your advice. New to the dating scene (after a long hiatus) and nothing seems right - dating and society in general no longer make sense to me. Not sure about authenticity of many of these sites - I've been getting slews of positive replies regarding my profile and photos, but am very cautious, as getting picked by young women from 18 to 25 seems a little too good to be true. How do I know whether to respond or not, as some of these sites lean more towards
pick-up or one-night-stand sites and some women seem somewhat forward, sending very explicit photos. Have only responded to a very few, and I learned that those turned out to be computer- generated with no chance of response or meet-ups. How can a man do this without going broke ?
This video is so true, first impressions from photos are key. Thanks for the tip, now off to kahma to get some better shots for all my profiles!
We need more of Hallee on this channel
Its tough taking flattering photos of yourself, kahma is clutch for AI headshots so you have better pics without needing a photographer
Excellent advice Courtney about us updating our dating profile game especially with more female perspectives. I like that we have can voice recordings on there cuz that could help our chances of getting more matches. I always see dating profile as a brief preview of what it's like to know you. I do think it's good to put what you are looking for and show yourself doing something fun in your profile. Guys don't spend all your time on these apps. Do go out and talk to women too cuz if you keep all the talking on the apps; you'll never get anywhere. I wish everyone the best. Have a lovely day Courtney 😊🤙🏽♥️
🙌🏼 spot on! Thanks Georgio!
Never. I repeat NEVER listen to a woman who tells how to capture them “from a female perspective”. You would never take advice from a fish on how to fish - this is no different. If you think “has a skin care routine” will attract a woman who sees you as a real man then you deserve what you get.
I see why Hallee is a favorite ❤️
OMG I could not make a serious dating profile if my life depended on it. It's so fun for me though to see what the 20 somethings are into these days, so very different from when I was that age decades ago. You are a one of a kind down to earth girl, very rare these days indeed, and I do like your content. Thanks for all the advice you give.
Great tips! I agree. If you’re going to be posting a picture or a video of yourself doing an activity - it should definitely be of something you’re into.
The way if a girl is looking at your profile, chances are, if she likes what she sees - she’ll start imagining herself doing that specific activity with you.
That’s what you ultimately want, you want her to start thinking what it would be like to be with you in real life, because anybody can fake their lives in the social media - you don’t want to be one of those people!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
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@@CourtneyRyan 😁❤️
Good 👍🏼 tips when creating or editing a profile (without bragging or anything along the lines) with pictures.
I've only followed you for about a month and I gotta say your content is the best advice I've heard :3 thank you big sis
I've been here for over a year now and she is definitely a vital channel to click the 🛎 for, to share with others, and to take notes with, if needed. RUclips's favorite big sis!
I’m so glad to hear it! Thank you ❤️❤️🥰🥰
Good to see Hallee on again!
So whatever a woman provides for a time frame, multiply by 3. 👌
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One time in break, I was sitting near female coworkers. One pulled out her fone n began to speak n show the other ladies the guys on her dating site. I was surprised. Each female that seen the guys all Disrespected and made fun of each man on her dating site. It was a real eye opener to see how women when all together Disrespect men on their looks, job, hobbies everything. It was Disgusting. They all laughed at each man and made fun of the men that wanted a date on the website. That's how women think about the men on dating sites.
Men do this same thing to women on dating sites. My ex told me this specifically.
@@krissymarie5270 That's true. We both men or women can be really disrespectful in this kind of stuff.
I'm not on Online Dating anymore but when I was, the Review By A Friend thing was def a Bumble thing, I saw it on a lot of Female profiles
Your videos with Hallee are great. She is so incredibly beautiful and charming, and your banter is entertaining. Thank you for all you do for us men, Courtney!
Here's an idea:
No dating profiles.
Just go out there and meet people!
This is great too!
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Andy - couldn't agree more. The sociopath losers running the vast majority of the tech firms want nothing more than to enrich themselves off of the poor mental health, isolation, depression, and coercive/manipulative platforms. Makes for mindless and malleable weak individuals, whom, happen to also be the most profitable personality types, oh oh oh, and ANDY! We'll socialize the cost by asking big DADDY gov't for "just" more "programs" / gov't spending to make up for any/all externalizes from our operations.
@@CourtneyRyan Thanks for answering, Courtney....much appreciation for what you do regardless.
Always good to get a woman's perspective.
But... People are scary.
These tips are money, gonna level up my profile for sure.
Haven’t been this early in a while. Always putting out fire content 👌🏾
Thank you my friend! ❤️
Great idea! If you’re serious about being serious with someone, ask them if they are.
It doesn’t mean it will be you, but I bet it would filter out a bunch of game players.
Just go out there and meet people! It is my advice that I can say
I got professional pictures for dating (like the third guy), but then a girl said I was trying too hard…
Tough balance.
Sounds to me that she was highly jealous, and you might have been way out of her league yet she had to say something and hope for your attention 🤣
I think it’s nice to have a mix of both!
Get semi professional photos?
To be honest, your social skills and personality must suck if you had to pay for someone to take photos of you. Maybe try working on those 2 things???
Maybe you looked too Posey in your pictures
Glad to see Hallee back on your channel :)
I loved the tips. Can you make a series out of this topic? Great content as always 🦾
I did not know Courtney was 26. I'm 37 and it feels strange taking advice from a woman 11 years younger than me. But thanks for the help and the conformation Ms. Courtney. Congratulations on getting engaged.
Some people were replying to me so I added this.
Go to time stamp 13:10 and wait 10 seconds. Courtny says she just turned 26.
I thought Courtney was in her mid 30s... honestly, Courtney and the girl next to her in this vid look like they have a 10 year age gap.
@@thecommenter9267 engagement does that!!
I'd have guessed her 23-24
Wait till you know your doctors or nurse there age.
I think the tips given in this video are invaluable and just watching these profiles through your eyes, grants perspective on how to set up a profile to attract the right women.
I see why hallee is a favorite. Good lawd🤗
Based on how Courtney presents herself and the amount of good dating
advice she gives I never would have thought she was 26 she is very mature for that
age in today's society. A lot of girls at 26 today are still in la la land and have no clue
as to what they want or what's going on in the world. She has certainly matured faster
than most girls at her age so props to her!
I love this there should be a part 2
I have a couple more videos with her coming out including a part 2 to this one 🙌🏼
Part 2 should be them using a male dating profile to judge female profiles. I'd love to see their reaction to the whales of the sea.
@@thecommenter9267 that would be a good idea
Hallee has the best smile!
While I agree that the political stuff is super polarizing, and it's sad that people can be so polarized, I'd rather find out off the bat that I'm not a good fit for someone based on HER political requirements, as opposed to wasting time and money getting to know her, only to then get dumped a month later simply for political views
That's to much cuteness overload for one picture two beautiful ladies
I think on the first profile the shoes with the Nike logo at the end. The Nike slogan was Just Do It!
I'm early Courtney, your fragrance channel is awesome much love
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Aww thank you so much! ❤️
Courtney, please bring back girls react. It was a nice segment.
Please do another one of this, would love to see more submissions for us young 20s!
She's done videos on how to optimize your profile, as well as your apartment/house, your clothing and hair style. Looooots of great content here
I hope Hallee is ready to be overwhelmed with attention on Hinge now. Keep up the great work you two!
She would already have been overwhelmed with attention regardless of this video, in person or on dating apps. Modern men have very little self restraint.
@@thecommenter9267 yupppp lol
simp
Ha! No kidding! That woman is absolutely beautiful. My gosh…
@@joshuagabrielofficial This comment is exactly why she would never date you.
Thanks Courtney! Its interesting watching this that taking care of others is value I am looking for. The relationship between people whether it is platonic or partner, having that looking out for the other is gold. Projecting that through this channel with friends who are a like. :)
Hello Hallee Smith, she’s very happy at the start 😊
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Gents, if you're spending hours and hours creating an online "persona" just to get girls to create some romantic soap opera in their own heads (something Women love to do) on who you are, it's not going to work and all your doing is setting up unrealistic, imaginary, fanciful expectations for her. Have a few respectful selfies, picture of a hobby, one family photo an honest (brief) description of your personality, traits, and the few vital broadstrokes of what your looking for and that's it. If it takes more than that to convince a girl to click on you she won't be truly into you and she is focusing on the wrong things....
The big factor nobody mentions is you should have confidence in yourself to be able to impress a woman and make her laugh in whatever video chat you would have with her if she is interested in your profile.. I would never meet a woman who doesn't video chat first just for safety reasons... It could always just be a guy on the other end...
@@michaelangst6078 agreed always video chat before meeting up
@@Fred-zt5ky Yep, the only thing is it hurts your ego much more when getting rejected over video chat.. At least for me... Seems to hurt much more than getting rejected by cold approaching in public even though it's almost the same thing. As long as you're getting some girls to say yes, when women say no in the future, the hurt will become less and less
You two are doing exactly what I imagine women do when they view my profile.
I'm 25, when I was 16 I was into social media like insta and stuff but right now I'm anti social media don't have any except for fb and havent got much going there. Sometimes I even get models attracted to me but it's sad to me how much people care about social media. And it's even more motivating for me to keep it that way to weed out the attention seekers.
Another day another video
Thanks for the knowledge Courtney ❤️💕
Jon is the goat. Don’t ever change golden boy.
Omg who else looked at the title cover and say haylee and thought omg she’s so beautiful 😍
Great job Courtney and Hallee!
Just go out and meet people lmao!!!! Not the best at pictures but in person is when everything happens so I just go out lol
Basically, at the end of the day, be natural, be you, show who you really are like. Do not try and upscale what cannot be upscaled. Noone likes being with a liar. So why would you start with lying about your profile and pictures.
Halle with beautiful lush hair and great perspective from these women 👏🏾
Going on dating apps is already an L. Never online dating! Meet ppl in real life and work on your social skills!
Where? Women go to work and then home.
The problem i have is that dating has become tribal. Vaccinated or unvaccinated women wont date you. Democratic or Republican the same. I could care less about these qualities and wish we could go back to where it wasn’t even part of the conversation!!!
Agreed lol
I’ll be friends with just about anyone. But because I date to marry, I only date people who are of the same political party and religion as me because they are connected to your morals and values and how important those morals and values are to you. Because, I’m a Biblical Christian and vote Republican or conservative independent, I will only date Biblical Christian men who vote Republican or conservative independent. Christians who vote for democrats/liberals do not share in my values and morals enough for me to even consider going on a date with them.
PS Great username 😂😂😂
@@rissroo4325 I highly doubt you would pass up a very attractive dude as you age though and have less options just because of your ''morals'''
@@michaelangst6078 I pass up all the very obvious non conservative and non Christians all time. I dumped a guy I found attractive who said he was a conservative Christian but turned out to have bad fruit that proved otherwise. I did the interfaith inter-political marriage. It was a hot mess express. NEVER AGAIN. I will die a spinster before I go through that crap again.
@@rissroo4325 Well, good for you I guess. I assume you think it's a double standard that the women in the video shitted on the guy in the video for not wanting to date a trump supporter? If a female had that in their profile they wouldn't blink an eye as it would just be one of the endless amount of requirements women can have for dating a man. Men apparently can't have any
I think the "no fish pics" things is also aimed at girls. Excessive pouting was a thing that looked good for a hot minute a few decades ago and it's like way too many people still haven't caught on that it looks terrible 99% unless you're doing a fashion shoot. And yes, we can all tell you've messed with the photo, and those "dirt" filters don't look like an old photo, they just make it look as if you don't take care of your phone.
On Tinder this is a reference to actual fish… the joke is that most of the guys have pictures of themselves and the fish they’ve caught.
Ignore her words and watch her actions. The question is, in the privacy and solidarity of her own home, would she swipe right on you. Does she truly find you sexually attractive Who cares what she says here.
While this is true, their advice was ok for having a better chance at an average woman finding more of a liking to your profile etc... That Hallee girl is successful herself, so she probably is only looking for an attractive rich man if she is still single... Men here must have a low IQ which is part of the reason why they struggle so bad if this isn't common sense to them...
Good feed back I’ll jot some notes down about it thanks professor Ryan and guest
Nowadays there’s so much bull crap out there, I don’t even worry about dating anymore, I’m just working on me!
Great insight. Definitely need more of these!!
That 2nd profile it's like he made it just to prank you guys. So funny
I have a skin care routine, yet i find legday routines much much more important to me 😬😬
Ayyy, Leg Joe 💪
@@FGj-xj7rd i raise briskets and peaches on my farm 😂😂🤣
Does anybody here require the woman to video chat with you? I do it for a few major reasons 1. it shows that she is serious 2. It avoids you getting cat fished 3. It's way easier to show of that you're actually funny with social skills, and you can actually stand out from the other men just sending her text messages... The harsh reality is If you're not confident in you social skills, and hate the way you look, and that's the reason you don't want to video chat, you really shouldn't be trying to date in the first place
Makes perfect sense. Assuming all goes well seems like the perfect forum to put her on the spot and ask for a coffee date.
If someone is an hour late on a date just leave... They obviously don't respect you & not worth your time...
These are super entertaining
@Courtney Ryan love the video as always. Great advice AND two beautiful and smart ladies? Sounds like a dream come true lol I LOVE Halle's laugh
Sunday night 06 February 2022. Thanks, Courtney and Hallee. Take care and all the best.
Is it a bad idea for me to post pictures of myself with my women friends? Do they need to be pretty, or does it matter?
Great content Courtney!!
Ive always been direct with a little lightness in my dating bio and have good luck. Cant really complain in this chaotic market. Im not looking for marriage, not looking for kids, just intimacy and fun and that doesn't mean sex. Of coarse if It leads to that awesome . I don't filter out women that want kids and a LTR though. I might be what they are looking for before they find the guy they are meant to be with.
Do more of these videos. The yellow one is Bumble
off topic but jealous of Hallee for skydiving, was meant to be doing a solo course last year but didnt due to restrictions (i`m in the UK), this year the place near me is fully booked so i`m pre booked into a 2023 course! feel like forever away. anyways, love the reviews, you should ask someone on tinder to share their app data and go over that, doing a male and female perspective would be eye opening for many i think.
Is this your dating app chat routine exercise, dude? do you have any personality, any belives and charisma? Try to get that.. weman will love you. Your chat routine on the other hand is your inner puss trying to speak out. Shut it down and let he rbe quite. Regards
Jon is my spirit animal.
Hallee is back 😍, love this video and that Jon profile is hilarious
Ms. Smith is gorgeous. Doesn't seem shallow or superficial. She's low key and funny. great video!
You really think she is going to come on and act shallow and superficial knowing she will get backlash? What she says on the video about a mans looks and what she truly thinks can easily be 2 entirely different things
Everyone has standards. And you’re right maybe what she says and responds to aren’t the same. But hey, pretty face, positive message, where’s the harm?
@@saskruffriders8234 Nawwww, desperate men can have no standards and may date any woman who gives them a time of day as longa s she isn't old or grotesque looking. She didn't do anything wrong in the video, but you can tell she is picky by the way she responds to Johns profile... Not that she isn't in a position to be picky. She has a RUclips channel with 350k subscribers... At the end of the day, if you want the most results on dating apps, you're better off putting pics of you by expensive cars and editing your face to look the best it can. This is the 100% truth...
Should the first photo be a headshot/face-on photo? Or can it be slightly angeled?
@15:15 No one spells my name right in my country as well. But Hallee looks and feels like an interesting person to spend time and have a good cup of coffee with. Not gonna lie.
I subscribed to Ms Courtney Ryan for relationship advice.
Not trying to hit on them.
Pretty girls.
Okay.
I find that the best relationships come from a foundation of solid friendship.
In other words, know someone for a while - a long time - before getting romantically involved.
The chances of these working out for the better are probably in your favor.
That being said, in an "instantaneous gratification" society, this advice is probably about as hopeful as throwing a roll of toilet paper into the ocean and expecting it to absorb the ocean dry.
Has this worked for you in the past? Genuinely interested as most people will say that’s a great way to end up in a girls friend zone.
Too much Disney movies
@@jleano609 that's a guaranteed way
@@jleano609 Yep.
If you end up in a girl's friend zone, who cares? That just means she ain't interested. Not every girl you meet has to be a hook-up. Sometimes, you can have actual platonic friendships with someone of the opposite sex.
I don't do dating apps as they lead to "empty sex" (no emotional connection) for the most part. I like to meet people face to face and get to know them while I am working on myself: career, retirement, gym, hobbies, ROTH TSP, ROTH IRA, dividends, and mutual funds.
If you end up in a girl's friend-zone, who gives a flip? If you have to "front" to stay out of it, that front won't last forever. She either likes you or she doesn't.
I understand where you’re coming from and I believe there has to be a level of friendship there but you also have to show some sexual interest bc if she likes you and you don’t show interest, she’s not gonna make the first move but will expect you to do it. I’m not saying go hook up with every woman you make friends with but if you see potential in a woman, show a bit more than just friendship.
Im a nice guy who just wants a woman that is loyal honest and is here for me when i need someone to talk to. Im a type of guy that will go out of my way to please a woman and compliment on her looks daily. Just wish i can find that special someone out there.
This is the exact reason why you're not finding women. You're giving out compliments when they haven't done anything to earn it. Compliment their actions when they do something useful like cook for you or drop you off to the airport. Don't just compliment their looks as you'll just come off as a thirsty horn dog.
That's the problem, you're a nice guy.
@DrRobotnik You don't have to be nasty, mean, or a douchebag. You just have to stop being fake nice. Complimenting a woman on her looks all the time is not "nice", it's thirsty and shows lack of self control. There is no problem complimenting a woman when she actually does something for you that you thought was helpful or considerate, but just randomly complimenting a woman on her looks reeks of desperation.
@DrRobotnik Actually, most people don't know the difference. I sure didn't years back when I would buy my girlfriend tons of expensive things. I had always resented her back then for not appreciating what I did for her until I realized that I was essentially buying her nice things to impress her and ultimately influence her behavior towards me, when I what I really should have been doing was buying her small but symbolic things, and only when she deserved it.
In other words, I was being what most would consider a "nice guy" except, everything I was doing was ultimately motivated by self-interest, I just never thought of it that way.
Ultimately, being a nice person does not make you less appealing to women, it makes you MORE appealing. Being a weak person is what makes you repulsive to women. Most conflate the two.
Courtney you wouldn’t need dating apps for anything.
Hallee is absolutely fine, so I don’t understand how/why she would be on there. They’re so artificial.
I believe in real life that guys (and probably girls, too) roll up to Hallee all the time.
I’m 43, so I’d be way too old for either of you, and I’m aware of my limits, but I can appreciate intelligence & beauty.
Thank You both for your beauty and your insight.
That first one got me😂😂😂
You two are so pretty
Hallee is awesome.What would Courtney recommend a guy wear in a dating app photoshoot?
A Borat thong
your simp suit
imagine living in a world where an online profile determines your dating life...
Well, i've got some bad news for you.
Just avoid dating apps altogether. Even if you could be successful on them, the women you meet there will not be keepers. High quality women don't use dating apps. Period.
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Imagine planing your free days for dates, where you dont even know whats in the cards for you. Imagine spending time in an bar, having fun with friends an randomly meet a nice girl you can talk to about whatever crosses your mind... Good old times, where dateing was something, that happend naturaly...
I'm sure about this thing that Hallee is really pretty. 👌
This was helpful!
It's actually not that hard to attract girls on dating apps; it's the type of girl that matters, *if you're getting a pansexual overweight single mother with insane clown pose face tattoos* trying to get your attention and you're left sending strongly worded "report" messages to customer service begging for stronger content filters (that invariably go unanswered) it doesn't really matter how many great pics and funny quotes you add.
Yep the yellow one is bumble
Bro when they said he could "get rid of the" parra dunks I was like bruhhh
Maybe I'm just a simp, but Haley is a gorgeous woman, and she seems to have a good personality and self respect at first glance.
Are you obsessed with all women or all pretty girls? No. I can tell you don't. So you're not a simp.
That last one was bumble!
Group pics are confusing, which one are you?!
Blew my mind when you said you're 26. I always assume I'm younger or the same age range as people... How the hell did I turn 32?!
That Jon guy looks like he will troll and mess with you but will have your back when you need him the most.
Haha accurate! He’s hilarious and a great guy. We went to high school together!
It's crazy how we have to try hard just for women to say that we're trying to hard and when we're not trying at all we get the same response. A woman could put no effort in her profile but put one hot pic and she'll get messages In a few mins
thats why its still simping to the lowest degree. Making yourself as a comodity. Like you live holistictly, you got hobbies, you got career, you got this, you got that meanwhile makig a shell of yourself. What makes a man is his convictions and his tenecity. Nothing else. All the feminized bulshit this vidoe is selling is sure way of getting a chick that wont respect you and becoming more a puss you have ever been. Its a disaster. Dont buy into it.
About Jon: He is not taking himself too seriously. He has sunglasses. He is a bro.
But would Hallee date him? No!
Is Hallee interested or attracted to him? No!
I think that it would be a good idea, if you haven't already, to rate women's profiles. I tried online on and off over the years and to say that the majority of women's profiles were lousy is an understatement.