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8 Month Post-Op Vasectomy Q&A
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Had mine done 36 years ago - childfree. The worst part of a vasectomy is the anticipation.
Ive read some people get chronic pain. Is this true?
@@edwelndiobel1567 I've read that.
@@bobmarker6812 I see you on every vasectomy video😂
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This is valuable message for those who are got Vasectomy or those who need to get it. I got Vasectomy In 2006 (12 years ago) there is no pain while getting operation or sexual and ever thing fine with me. There is no problem at all.
Some questions to you that I want to know:
1. What time it took for recovery / resume my daily normal work routine?
2. Does the fluid after ejaculation differ in anyways after you had undergone the procedure compared to before having it done?
3. It doesn't prevent STD does it? So ultimately we require the condom for std prevention isn't it?
4. What's the cost of the surgery ?An estimated amount is desired.
Binayak Banerjee You should be back to normal within about 7 days. The color and consistency is the same after a vasectomy; since sperm in the semen accounts for less than 1% of the volume, the amount is nearly identical.
No, a vasectomy does not present STDs. Thus, a condom should still be used if you’re at risk of being exposed to a partner with an STD(s). Finally, most insurance plans cover vasectomies, but otherwise, they usually cost between $800 and $1000.
Glad it's working out for you. Sharing you're experience as openly as you do helps others to get more informed/make a more informed decision, so it's much appreciated!
Good for you on your CHOICE. My husband had his when he was 28. We decided we didn't want to bring kids onto the planet and if we ever want kids we would adopt. Also I didn't have to take nasty birth control pills anymore...and those mess with your body and mental well being. The doctor that gave him his made sure I was there for the consult and he also never had nor wanted biological kids and wanted to make sure we both wanted it done as a couple.
More power to you! I just got mine today and it helps to hear the experience of others!
Thanks for your video getting mine in 3-4 hours
so how did it go?
Why
@R V Best thing ever, 20 min op no probs, saves your loved one being on toxic, cancer causing contraceptions too
Every surgery has a risk. Vasectomy is less invasive but it can have side effects, the thing is if your willing to take the risk. I took it because I didn't trust on birth controls, I am 9 days after surgery, the week was brutal for me, my left testicle got swollen real bad even with following the instructions, I am going the down hill now, I still have some pain but my swell now has a huge difference. Who ever decides to have this surgery, make sure you're willing to take the risk. Cheers.
There is no INCISION (cut) as A SCALPEL IS NOT USED. Instead, your doctor will use special instruments to make a tiny puncture in the scrotum. This hole is then widened and the blood vessels and nerves in the area are pushed aside, thus avoiding damage with a scalpel. Then the vas defetens can be cut
The whole point of getting it is not to tell women about it so you can get to keep trying.
Lol I’m sure this is a joke, but otherwise, it would be highly dishonest to lie to a partner, whom you’re supposedly close to if the intention is to impregnate her.
This is totally a ridiculous idea. If you do not want to tell a girl about this then it ll be better to do one night stands rather than having a serious relationships or choose that girl who does not want to have kids.
@@annamerchant9816 Nah women deserve it.
@@RaisonDetre96 hmmm and women aren't dishonest by saying something like , " you can cum in me the doctor said I can't get pregnant ." You not being dishonest if you dont say anything until asked .
I never wanted kids, but now being almost 8 months pregnant I couldn't be more happy and excited. It opens up a whole new world & I honestly feel like my heart has doubled in size. I know, it sounds corny af but it's true... I can help change the world by raising my lil guy "the right way."
Pyr0maniack 08 or raising a future carjacker. One of the two.
BareSkin congratulations. You will not regret it, be the best mom you can be.
@yoda8802 It was my sister.
To me one of the very few things that makes life worth living is the prospect of some day having children and a family of my own. To each his own!
to me it is the opposite, I enjoy my freedom, and kids need so much time, I would hate it
Santi Anzo That's called being a narcissist.
You are very inspiring! Keep up the good work :).
thank you!
Had a vasectomy this morning (12/28/24). So far minor pain but applying frozen corn bags and resting
gud analysis .I went with it and felt only needle sensation and pulling feeling. gud to go.
Thanks for sharing this! Since filming this, have you had any issues?
What about pain on and off 8 months later?? Swelling 8 months later
Thanks for great honest video👍
I’m gonna have to do it. My wife’s pregnant with our third and im throwing in the towel. I didn’t want kids until I was in my late 20s. And I was the guy who said I never wanted children. Now I don’t see any other reason for living. They are my world. I’d advise against getting one done under 30 yrs old bc things change and you don’t really understand what you want till around 30. I was the craziest fucker around and now I’m a Normal Dad that’s devoted to my children. I was blessed with slow swimmers I think bc I should have 20 kids and 3 diffrent stds but I lucked out. Even now it’s hard to do the snip. I feel that my balls are Sacrid and doing this is wrong lol.
20 kids & 3 different stds! ha, dude thank you so much for that laugh. haha
I guess i should do a video cause my experience right now is pain coming and going. Swelling on 1 side, not really the testicle but i guess the tube the cut
I'm considering one right now.
Cristian VQ make sure you are 100% sure before you make that decision and than live with it. If that’s what you want you will not regret it.
I'm doing my own as I watch this!!!
Dude. U make me laugh. Great discussion. Thanks
Thanks for the info! Question though, how much did it cost out of pocket?
So do they stab the needle in your actual ball? Or just the sac
Sack
hahaaa
Thanks for sharing your story!
4:20 We could always adopt kids?
I had a girl tell me that one time and I told her, You're missing the point of why I got a vasectomy.
You always sound so sure of who you are
i had a few important questions i wanted to ask if i may. did you have to go to a Primary care physician first to forward you to a urologist or just went to see the urologist? Did they ask you why you wanted to get one or did they just say xy and z come in on this day and we will do the surgery? And last did they give a a hard time because of your age I'm 28 going on 29 and heard all kinds of false stories that they are hard to get under the age of 30 . Main thing is unmarried never wanted kids what is the best thing to say to the doctor? Did you have to go to a few different doctors in till you found one that did it or did you hit the jack pot and the first one did not give you a hard time? thank you for your time and advice.
Getting a vesecdomy for me was the worst decision I ever made condoms don't seem bad at this point
Not saying I wanna fap for life, really don't.
But, when we do a vasectomy, what does change regarding NoFap style benefits?
And what doesn't change?
I mean, testosterone will be as stable as if we didn't fap, right?
Only thing would be emotional, due to dopamine release, and maybe the tiredness that comes from that, as well as maybe, depending on the individual... sense of guilt? Or being unmotivated due to easy access to sex material?
Heyyo! Fellow nofap/vegan here! Was it expensive? Did your insurance cover it (that is if you had insurance) And I've also heard that some guys need to release every few days? I know you do nofap, I'm on that too. I wonder if it causes any issues?
I'm in Canada and it was covered under our free health care so I paid $0 :)
I haven't noticed any changes, I did 40 days of nofap beforehand and now almost 30 days afterwards and I haven't felt any need to release at all!
oh you lucky ducks with single payer healthcare! If only the US was that way!
Didn't you change your mind and have your vasectomy reversed? How did that work out?
Great video man. I am thinking about this procedure. My wife and I do not want biological children, but we would adopt and get some needed children out of the system. ( kids would be a little older and only need more of a role model/friend) steer them along the proper path.
I'm going to get 1
Others can freeze, or use stem cells later.
Why did you beep the swear-word, Be chilled.
Gonna take a wild guess. Your Canadian!?
When I got a vasectomy, I do not tell any girl im with that I have one🤪
Hello sir
Plz help me by answering this question honestly.
Does it hurt to bang it hard after the vasectomy.
I mean i like banging it hard till it makes clapping sound and i am afraid if i did vasectomy then the cut place will hurt when i am doing it.
Thank you so much sir.
Okay so does it emply once done vasectomy can't be reversed ?
Hi, I'm 22 and have been thinking about getting a vasectomy as well. What technique did your doctor do on you?
Don't do it dude condoms are not as bad as you think
I think i would probably have my own kids and adopt :D. Just because I'm a very maternal person and there's just something about the bond that I would form with this little person that I made that I find really awesome :)
Whatever floats your own boat, as long as its your choice and you are happy with it :) i also wanted to experience pregnancy, and i had a blessed one: never sick during the morning...;)
I love that your open to adoption! 💞
Is it normal to feel pain after two weeks? Because I don't feel huge pain but I feel that tugging/aching pain randomly like once a day and wondering if it's normal after two weeks. I had it feb 28 and it's weird because no pain immediately after vas, only pain now after two weeks. Is this feeling normal, this tugging or aching feel...kind of sensitive feeling especially sitting in a car driving, and such. Did u experience this and if so, is it ok and how long until no pain anymore? Thanks, will wait for your response and great vid!
jamal fura Yeah that's pretty normal. I was reading some post operation care and the doctor who published it said that it can take up to 17 months for all tissue to repair itself.
Hi Jamal. I had my vasectomy 3 weeks ago and I'm experiencing all the symptoms you describe about yours and I'm freaking out man. Did your tugging, dull pain go away? And if so, how long did it take? Thanks man.
Better get to massaging the sack with oils.
Have u had any side effects
Hey man i came across this vid when looking up vasectomy response vids. I went back over your previous vids to see if you addressed your consultation. I've only heard you mention it in passing.
I was wondering how the consultation was considering you're age? I hear that child free people in their twenties often get told to basically go away and come back in 10 years when they've had enough time to grow up and change their mind. Did you find that the professionals were at all dismisive of your thinking at first, or were you taken seriously from the start?
He got his vasectomy reversed & got married & had kids... 🤣
@@MrJamiez the way God intended
@@jyehoward1494 if you say so brother.
@@jyehoward1494 There are plenty of other ways to “be fruitful and multiply” besides having children. There ARE people in their 20s who don’t want kids.
Was thinking on doing it, until i read about Post Vasectomy Pain Syndrome...so i decided not to mess with it.
Hope something better comes out some day.
I was also worried about that as well but found out it only accounts for 2% of men. So glad I wasn't one of them. This is my 3rd week and I have absolutely no pain and sex is better than before.
@@deadcell1 2% might still be considerable IMHO (1 in 50)...yet what really troubled me was that that number was for extreme scenarios...mild scenarios were around 1 in 6 if i remember correctly.
At the end the lack of "main stream" discussion on the subject kept me from trying it.
Anyway best of luck friend, and great sex as well!!
You said you can still get someone pregnant in a comment?
3:58 he said, I want a girl who wants to be child free. He's with a girl who made him get a reversal & now they have kids.. 🤣
pregnant a week before my vasectomy, fuckk
I'am in line with your vegan and nofap ideas...but this time i really can't understand your motivations.
He has another video
I had mine 8 days ago, I do have pain in my balls from time to time though in the afternoon to be more specific.
How are you doing now sir?
Some questions to you that I want to know:
1. What time it took for recovery / resume my daily normal work routine?
2. Does the fluid after ejaculation differ in anyways after you had undergone the procedure compared to before having it done?
3. It doesn't prevent STD does it? So ultimately we require the condom for std prevention isn't it?
4. What's the cost of the surgery ?An estimated amount is desired.
@@binayakbanerjee4238to be honest with you , we take it for granted how much strength we use in daily basis . It took me full recovery 6 weeks , perfect timing for my sweet lady , and one thing I can say is that my sex drive is soooooo much better, like getting a new upgrade lol.
But for any casual encounter / or dating a lot.I would suggest you to always use proper protection
The vasectomy is 100% worried free from getting anybody pregnant but still would use condoms
Unless of course your merry, or have one love.
@@binayakbanerjee4238
" the fluid " lol
It's different, yes
I'm 48 at this age mine use to have a strong sperm smell,
Now no smell, not that strong anyways.
Don't know if that will help you guys ,
@@guillermomelgarejo277 so would you say that it was worth it? I've been reading a lot about Post Vasectomy Pain Syndrome. If you knew about that beforehand would you have still gone forwards aware of the risks?
I just got mine done they knocked me out
I'd really like to know what music is used at the end.
Could anyone please tell me ?
+Uboa s tears Fort Minor?
+Eli Kang I don't think that's it,
I'm talking about the one from 6:33.
@@uboastears4258 who caught the rebel by a folk band called rocks of Irish seas
Give it all ya got eh!! lol
I intend on getting vasectomy when I reach my 30s but this video lets me know, it will be worth it.
why wait that long? I had my procedure done at the age of 24. Best decision of my life :)
celest s I know I shouldn't wait but I don't want Doctors to question my decision in my 20s. Do you ever worry about meeting someone who wants kids?
no I don't. Because that decision is very personal. Having kids is a completely different lifestyle. It changes your finances too. Far too many responsibility. People should be questioned for their decision to have kids.
would you change your mind if you met someone who wants kids?
celest s Hell no! No woman can change my mind. Not even adoption. my next hurdle to face is bringing the subject up to the person i date.
You can always reverse it btw
Unfortunately, that's a bit of a myth. A good thing to read up on. It's possible, but it's major, elective surgery. Rarely covered by insurance, and unreliable.
@@juliamacmillan2457 he did get it reserved & had a child & got married. 😂
@@MrJamiez Great, I'm glad that worked out for him.
@@juliamacmillan2457 no, thats really bad.
@@MrJamiez I'm confused. Did he get his vasectomy reversed because he... didn't want kids? What?
Having kids was THE BEST thing i ever did. Did i want kids in my early 20's? No. I had kids in my late 20s eand mid 30s. If you dont have kids now i feel bad for you.
Congratulations moron, not everyone will/have feels the same with children.
He regrets it now.. lol
Some people said that after vasectomy, your energi level is rised, have great spirit& motivation and other said lost social anxiety at all.
It caused by your sperm that absorb by body, and make us more energi...
Is it true/u feel like that? Let's me know because i am interested to have vasectomy.
Sori my English is not too good
People are extremely stupid and likely to believe whatever suits them. Go into it thinking it'll be the best thing you've ever done, and it will be.
Yes, I am also hear is it true
Smart Man.
What?? He had his vasectomy undone & has kids.
I am on my second month post Vasectomy. The area is sensitive not like before. No pain, I do have some discoloration. Other than that is the same.
Dont u feel pain after intercourse since the sperms have to get stuck in small vas
@@fazeelzubair2787 Shut the hell up and go study biology. Wtf...
I heard the sensation of ejaculation isn’t the same is that true?
@@St3rlo not true. It’s been 3 years for me. The only thing I noticed is I can’t go as hard as I used too.
@@fornos123why can’t you go as hard?
Way to mime the needle haha
I've read enough about this topic to put me off I think .. I am extremely squeamish and hate needles for starters :o)
There's a no needle, no scaple, open ended vasectomy that I had. My insurance paid after my $20. Deductible, I watched the whole thing. I walked out the same as I walked in. No pain, bleeding, briusing, scab, swelling or bandage. 3 months later test results came back sterile. It's really worry free sex, VD aside.
How much did yours cost?
He had it done in Canada. It was covered under our free health care.
£1,500 in the UK
@@asbestosflake5749 it's free on the NHS. Getting mine done on the 8th of December. For free
@@MrJamiez NHS wouldn’t do mines as I was ‘too young’ so paid £1,500 private
@@asbestosflake5749 damn, I'm sorry to hear that. Marie stopes are doing them for 500 quid ? Or did the prices increase?
WFF I love it !!!😅
Is there any other reason as to why you had it besides you didn't want kids?
YourPALTrent Are there other reasons into getting one besides not having kids?
to avoid the worry of ever getting somebody pregnant. and in a serious relationship the need for condoms or contraception becomes unnecessary.
That is so sad! How old are you?
+Christine Bay Why is it sad? It's his choice.
You are kinda sad
It's a great choice to me
Fuck off lol
Not having children is much happier. I am children free, and much happier than many people my age.
Yea !!! WFF!
Damn that is so true getting one and if she wants kids never getting married so bye!
Bro. He got his vasectomy reversed & married & has kids with her. 😂
How old are you?
Im getting 1 10000%
you can reverse a vasectomy I'm pretty sure
Sean Frashier There are procedures to reverse it, but they're painful, expensive, and only work about 50% of the time. So if someone is worried they may want biological children in the future they should have some sperm frozen beforehand in case.
@Chip Fisher Firstly, I wrote this a year ago. Secondly, it can not be a lie when I believed I was being truthful.
I got 50% from the information provided in my country to me (New Zealand). I just double checked and this is still what my countries websites say. Sorry if I somehow offended you by trying to help someone with the information I have.
you can still get pregnant. FYI you guys. it takes 2 to make a baby and those 2 people should both use some form of birth control.
Clear idiot.
Haha you are funny xD
Why would a man his age have a vasectomy?
There are a LOT of great reasons
He is having it reversed now 🤣
Why would you even get a vasectomy? I think it's completely unnecessary.
+far ema Let the woman take a pill and you're fine
Interrupting a natural function of the body with a poison...genius.
Exactly my concerns too! The fear of getting the girl pregnant ruins the whole moment for me, and not to mention condoms make me go soft! So vasectomy it is for my 25th birthday present! Never having kids, no regrets! Even if it means waiting for a woman for the rest of my life!
let's see,... :"if you really really don't want to have kid it makes u just focus on sex and when u r about to come it is ok just come no need to worry what if I make her pregnant and all". was his choice,.. that's ok... everyone can do what ever the fuck u want with ur body,... but something is true here,... no one can be sure to do not have children at mid 20's. Vasectomy is almost irreversible,... hope he do not regret. I bet u he will.
oreosaysb00 The pill can fail, and fails often. It's not 100%, and it can cause unwanted side effects.
Having a vasectomy makes perfect sense if someone doesn't want children.
Love WFF🤣🤣🤣🤣
U don't have to tell the girl about the vasectomy it's none of there business
What if in a serious relationship girl always wanted to have kid and you did this procedure thinking 'none of their business' then enjoy breakup/divorce along with surgery.
Yes you do tho if your thinking of settling...The women might want to bare children with your DNA
And if you don't have that is an issue but luckily not all girls are the same (:
Don't tell her anything, unless she brings it up. This way, if she does get pregnant, you know what kind of lady you got.
Edit: Also don't listen to these dumb women above. And don't get married.
WFF!!!! Hahahahaha!!!!!
Taking advice from a kid is bad
Thanks for your opinion.
From my experience, it's been taking advice from slightly older people and women in general.
Exactly... Lol, he regrets it now
bla bla bla for what? the use of condoms isnt difficult.
lohner cyclist but not using them is better
Unconventional Living Unless you get an std.
***** Pretty sure he has a girlfriend, when you are in a relationship with someone you trust, STD's aren't a worry.
lohner cyclist For what? For not having kids that's what. Condoms aren't 100% either.. only abstinence and vasectomy/tubaligation are.
@@UnconventionalLiving hahaha this comment didn’t age well