I say the same thing to my close net community, we must do better less complaining and more action. Your wisdom is 🔥100 per cent hit the nail on the head. Much love and appreciation Black Queen, love one self and keep pushing for greatness!! 🙏🏿
Intelligent and Chocolate - that is a recipe for serious motivation. Sistas really have the power to speak life or death into the Brothas. Thanks for choosing life.
I have been watching your video, I can conclude we have alot of mental Health issues amongst our people dressed up as awareness. The solution here is just stop! Start with self care of ourselves, then start to build small on whatever you are trying to achieve!
Lol! Great observation of what anyone can see on social media within 'black spaces'. Black Americans lead the charge in this stuff, followed by black Brits, then maybe actual Africans after this. As a black English man in my late twenties, that's what I've seen. This may come across as problematic, and I accept others hating or having valid criticism of me. But I personally don't care if black people stop behaving like this. To me, for the most, a lot of this is entertainment (even if negative) not to be taken seriously; social media will stay being what it is! None of these repetitive arguments or discussions impact my real life for multiple reasons, some being: 1. My beliefs about remaining childfree and my growing adjacence to antinatalism. I dont care about any notions of continuing a legacy (black blood line) 2. I have zero negative experiences to ever feel animosity towards black women (BW). I also believe my understanding of history is accurate enough for me to not see BW as my enemy or think that I'm supposed to be in some sort of power struggle with them. 3. Patriarchy and masculinity are somewhat irrelevant in regards to my approach to life and how I interact with women. I don't care to control/influence what women get to do or achieve in their lives; especially as a means to protect or uplift my male ego. I'm in full support of black women doing better for self to the disadvantage of black men (men in general), who don't have their best interests in mind (this applies to me if a woman views me that way). 4. My upbringing and current experiences with different ethnic groups has resulted in me having no favourable feeling or bias towards black people over others; it feels impossible for me to be pro black or be significantly that invested in black empowerment. I have no desire to argue with other black people (strangers on social media) about my opinions on life or how others should live their own. Peace!
The anonymity of social media breeds contempt for civility. It’s not just unique to black spaces. Social media is not real life and I would recommend not treating it like it is.
@ My experience is that people generally govern themselves better around strangers when in person because of the possibility of being made to be accountable for actions and statements. Without those social guardrails, people are more likely to not self censor. Also, people tend to listen more and talk less when in person because online, it’s only the words that are seen without emotional context and intent. I would wager, most people don’t take the time to express themselves very clearly and with precision in text, leaving plenty of room for the reader to make assumptions and possibly take offense, which is why every discussion devolves into an argument after 6-7 posts. 😁 As an older person, I’m seeing how seriously younger people take social media life because it’s literally what you grew up with. Social media has its many great uses, but no doubt it has also corrupted how people engage with each-other in not so positive ways.
@ thank you this observation. I’m constantly seeing arguments but not the younger generation but within the older generations…45+ and it’s mainly around who is smarter with no real solutions. It’s so draining to watch.
@ Agreed. There is a very vocal minority of disgruntled people that have been unsuccessful at relationship in my opinion and they post and argue frequently to justify their own failures. Yes, this is definitely a thing among the middle aged. Younger people seem to be promoting some of this nonsense online as well for clicks and clout. Get offline and relate in the real world and maybe they could find more success. 🤷🏾♂️
I say the same thing to my close net community, we must do better less complaining and more action. Your wisdom is 🔥100 per cent hit the nail on the head. Much love and appreciation Black Queen, love one self and keep pushing for greatness!! 🙏🏿
@@kingnateda1st937 Thank you King 💜🌹
Intelligent and Chocolate - that is a recipe for serious motivation. Sistas really have the power to speak life or death into the Brothas. Thanks for choosing life.
@@whatshatnin4572 we all got to learn and grow eventually. You are very welcome 💜
You right we are so divided.
@@bernadettedawkins755 it’s painful too watch
This is 100 percent True!Sad but True got to do better!
I have been watching your video, I can conclude we have alot of mental Health issues amongst our people dressed up as awareness. The solution here is just stop! Start with self care of ourselves, then start to build small on whatever you are trying to achieve!
@@alexbimpeh-segu3516 yes I agree. And we are so ashamed of having mental health issues
Lol! Great observation of what anyone can see on social media within 'black spaces'. Black Americans lead the charge in this stuff, followed by black Brits, then maybe actual Africans after this. As a black English man in my late twenties, that's what I've seen. This may come across as problematic, and I accept others hating or having valid criticism of me. But I personally don't care if black people stop behaving like this. To me, for the most, a lot of this is entertainment (even if negative) not to be taken seriously; social media will stay being what it is! None of these repetitive arguments or discussions impact my real life for multiple reasons, some being: 1. My beliefs about remaining childfree and my growing adjacence to antinatalism. I dont care about any notions of continuing a legacy (black blood line) 2. I have zero negative experiences to ever feel animosity towards black women (BW). I also believe my understanding of history is accurate enough for me to not see BW as my enemy or think that I'm supposed to be in some sort of power struggle with them. 3. Patriarchy and masculinity are somewhat irrelevant in regards to my approach to life and how I interact with women. I don't care to control/influence what women get to do or achieve in their lives; especially as a means to protect or uplift my male ego. I'm in full support of black women doing better for self to the disadvantage of black men (men in general), who don't have their best interests in mind (this applies to me if a woman views me that way). 4. My upbringing and current experiences with different ethnic groups has resulted in me having no favourable feeling or bias towards black people over others; it feels impossible for me to be pro black or be significantly that invested in black empowerment. I have no desire to argue with other black people (strangers on social media) about my opinions on life or how others should live their own. Peace!
Did you make that up? PDF files! That's a good euphemism.
@@sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS no I didn’t. It was a term tik tok had to make so we don’t get banned x
The anonymity of social media breeds contempt for civility. It’s not just unique to black spaces. Social media is not real life and I would recommend not treating it like it is.
@@somertechdroid so do you feel if we didn’t have sm we would work better?
@ My experience is that people generally govern themselves better around strangers when in person because of the possibility of being made to be accountable for actions and statements.
Without those social guardrails, people are more likely to not self censor.
Also, people tend to listen more and talk less when in person because online, it’s only the words that are seen without emotional context and intent. I would wager, most people don’t take the time to express themselves very clearly and with precision in text, leaving plenty of room for the reader to make assumptions and possibly take offense, which is why every discussion devolves into an argument after 6-7 posts. 😁
As an older person, I’m seeing how seriously younger people take social media life because it’s literally what you grew up with.
Social media has its many great uses, but no doubt it has also corrupted how people engage with each-other in not so positive ways.
@ thank you this observation.
I’m constantly seeing arguments but not the younger generation but within the older generations…45+ and it’s mainly around who is smarter with no real solutions. It’s so draining to watch.
@ Agreed. There is a very vocal minority of disgruntled people that have been unsuccessful at relationship in my opinion and they post and argue frequently to justify their own failures.
Yes, this is definitely a thing among the middle aged. Younger people seem to be promoting some of this nonsense online as well for clicks and clout.
Get offline and relate in the real world and maybe they could find more success. 🤷🏾♂️
@ If I could like this 1000 times. I feel we all need to disconnect and reconnect with the real world. And utilise SM for businesses instead
Yes. All of this yes. I gave up lol
@@amac9443 no no try not to lol
I'm new to your channel and middle aged and I agree with everything you said.
@@sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS thank you so much for joining the team. I would love to hear your insight too
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