Healthy Relationship 101: 7 Signs Of MATURE LOVE|Difference Between Childish Love and Mature Love

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  • Healthy Relationship 101: 7 Signs Of MATURE LOVE|Difference Between Childish Love and Mature Love
    Hey Guys Today's video is about Healthy relationships 101, 7 signs of Mature Love basically the difference between childish love and mature love, i hope you enjoy the video 💞
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Комментарии • 96

  • @desmondessil9507
    @desmondessil9507 2 года назад +56

    “When you’re in love, all you see is babies, mansion, living in a beach house…” 😂🤣 soo true. You’re great Lucy

  • @Saran-dq8hn
    @Saran-dq8hn 2 года назад +94

    My partner is overweight and for 8 years he's always been on the heavier side but it wasn't until a few months ago I decided to give him a chance and I don't regret it all. His soul captivates me, we laugh together, communicate so well, he loves on me, and wants me to always be comfortable. He's the total opposite from my ex (who has a 6 pack) but he has what my ex didn't and that makes me ❤️ him so much more! 💛✨

    • @silver_0447
      @silver_0447 Год назад +2

      Did u feel you weren’t attracted to him in the beginning because of his weight? And does the weight ever bother you now (just asking from personal experience!)

    • @VereniceBellido
      @VereniceBellido Год назад +1

      With love I tell u, Don't compare them 💛 cause everyone is unique. Leave the past in the past and ride a truck over it 😂

  • @marleedabarbie
    @marleedabarbie Год назад +6

    The dry texting thing is a gen Z thing😂we’re very expressive through text so when we do see a change from expressive to dry, we believe something is wrong

  • @latunahtarea4453
    @latunahtarea4453 Год назад +5

    My last relationship was in my twenties now I am about to be 31 and in a relationship with someone who is mature and I am trying to catch up to that ...glad I found this ❤

  • @royaltytee3177
    @royaltytee3177 Год назад +7

    Basically Lucy is telling us every relationship is different unique. Accountability, responsibility self actualization and emotional intelligence are great qualities that also shows you have quite matured

  • @Sara-bg7lt
    @Sara-bg7lt 2 года назад +19

    sis called me out on so many points but I appreciate it very much and am taking accountability for all of them. Thank you Lucy

  • @marleedabarbie
    @marleedabarbie Год назад +4

    Thank you for this video! I’m young and I’m already tired of the immature relationships and wasting my time with people that don’t matter😭. I’ve been waiting for a video to explain to me what I really should expect out of a relationship instead of what I THINK should.

  • @lungilemanungo3586
    @lungilemanungo3586 2 года назад +23

    To think I just saw this video after a disagreement with my partner and I’ve been able to pinpoint my own mistakes and tomorrow when we talk I’ll be able to rectify these errors without being childish.Thank you so much❤️

  • @246Shanti
    @246Shanti 2 года назад +10

    Yes that's Childish , We need space to develop as a person ...And grow in Love

  • @LiaDominiqque
    @LiaDominiqque 2 года назад +11

    Yes mama that is how we grow in love together. We don't have time for falling anywhere much less in love.

  • @sandrametta3408
    @sandrametta3408 2 года назад +5

    I love you Lucy Benson ❣️❣️❣️. I started practicing dealing with my Emotions, practicing the power of silence. And it's helpful 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰. With God's grace, I think I'm getting better at controlling my emotions.....

  • @JennaDiaries_
    @JennaDiaries_ 2 года назад +12

    I really liked the part about not always trying to plan y'all's entire future! 😅 I have relentless ocd and project management syndrome. So I always see me trying to do things to help us build but I think sometimes it's important to just be in the moment and enjoy where y'all are. ❤️ 💋🌼🥂

  • @winnieboateng5334
    @winnieboateng5334 2 года назад +6

    So true especially me as movie lover I thought movies goes along in reality but I can see it is not smooth as it is when it comes to Love Life and Dating. If Life is like a movie it would have been more easier.
    It really hits when when someone has never really been in a serious relationship.

  • @capybara853
    @capybara853 Год назад +1

    So, me and my partner have been together for only 2 months, we’re also both in high school. So recently our relationship got rocky, but we managed to get through it somehow, and we both mutually decided to keep going in the relationship, but not to rush it, and respect the others decisions. Thank you for sharing this video, it really helped me grasp the reality of a relationship, and I will take this with me and implement it into my life. Because I feel that if we broke up and stayed friends, it would be a lot worse, because we both truly love each other.

  • @andudontstopyo
    @andudontstopyo 2 года назад +13

    I definitely agree with all the signs. Everbody can learn from this video!!!👍🏽

  • @IntuitiveTiff
    @IntuitiveTiff 2 года назад +5

    Just found your channel and I’m addicted to your content! Love your videos. Such great reminders and tips 😍 I appreciate you for sharing your gifts with them

  • @doreenbenson2197
    @doreenbenson2197 2 года назад +4

    I literally watched this video twice ahhhh Lucy I love you.

  • @jolabillions7941
    @jolabillions7941 2 года назад +5

    Lucy coming through with facts, liked the video before I even started watching

  • @divinechiamaka1246
    @divinechiamaka1246 2 года назад +5

    Nobody does it better than Lucy. Love you 😍

  • @Thekingspeace
    @Thekingspeace 2 года назад +9

    Great content girl 😊

  • @nehlin6944
    @nehlin6944 Год назад +1

    Awesome topic, and I love how u articulate it my 😍

  • @mariettekaosisonna774
    @mariettekaosisonna774 2 года назад +2

    Great. My first time of coming across your channel. Sis, you are real and sincere. Keep it up.

  • @confidencekekong3825
    @confidencekekong3825 2 года назад +5

    That’s perfectly true. Thanks Lucy for this video I love you 💕
    When a guy doesn’t call as he should always come up with stories that he’s busy at work and tiff does he loves her? Thank you

  • @simonefeliciangowasnyo997
    @simonefeliciangowasnyo997 Год назад

    Thanks for this very rich video Lucy❤

  • @_urgurl_nolo.m
    @_urgurl_nolo.m Год назад

    I am very glad that I came across your RUclips channel. You are so honest and real

  • @KanezaMac
    @KanezaMac Год назад

    I’ve been with my husband 11 years now and I concur! 👏🏽

  • @happinessalerah1809
    @happinessalerah1809 2 года назад +32

    To think I laughed same time with her when she said "that is childish" 😂😂😂😂😂😂...... can't love Lucy less ❤️.....your content's always making sense and relatable 😌👏

    • @ojoblessing7850
      @ojoblessing7850 2 года назад +3

      Those exact words made me hit the subscribe button.
      Texting everytime!
      Every seconds of the day😂😂 that's childish!
      Get a Life.
      Maturity is key.

  • @IAmTerra-Mazibuko
    @IAmTerra-Mazibuko 2 года назад +1

    you need to talk about this matured love more often on your videos sis I mean hello such grate content in here

  • @talori5417
    @talori5417 Год назад +1

    My partner kisses me like in the movies. Every single time! 💕💝✨👌🏽
    I’m in a healthy relationship. I just want to make sure it stays that way. Thanks for sharing this great information.

  • @anselaboateng487
    @anselaboateng487 Год назад

    I really enjoyed watching this! love your mindset lucy🥰

  • @adijessica1920
    @adijessica1920 Год назад

    Exactly dear, you are power packed. 🙏💞💞

  • @glorynoble6274
    @glorynoble6274 Год назад

    Number 7, I want to be sure what's mine is mine and I'm not wasting my time.
    I need to be sure before I give them my full trust. But I get your point

  • @melaniecharles7652
    @melaniecharles7652 2 года назад +9

    I love you girl! This definitely helped me to see things clearly

  • @sashakittens9742
    @sashakittens9742 Год назад

    Thank you for the tips ❤️

  • @lorilorina3442
    @lorilorina3442 Год назад

    Finding your channel has helped me in so many ways!!

  • @diamondbooker6083
    @diamondbooker6083 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for this video!!! ❤️

  • @flackoinvestments8442
    @flackoinvestments8442 Год назад

    Yeah I definitely needed this video 💯✨❤️

  • @blessedwinfred
    @blessedwinfred Год назад

    I love you my girl.i love all your content❤

  • @wanderingcucamber7082
    @wanderingcucamber7082 2 года назад +2

    I truly needed these reminders 🎯🎯🎯

  • @alexusforeman35
    @alexusforeman35 2 года назад +3

    Girl you are absolutely amazing!!! Thank you so much for your wisdom💚

  • @ainomefavour3322
    @ainomefavour3322 Год назад

    I enjoyed every bit of this

  • @shine2491
    @shine2491 2 года назад +2

    Thank you so much 🥰 Lucy ,I love this

  • @rebeccaguezerebecca2028
    @rebeccaguezerebecca2028 Год назад

    Thank you so much God bless you 😘
    I love the video

  • @246Shanti
    @246Shanti 2 года назад +1

    Wow this Lady came with facts, hummmmmmmmm, I liked everything what she said ...

  • @aswathyadarsh7134
    @aswathyadarsh7134 Год назад

    Thanku mam.. Nice video your presentation style super mam..

  • @Christoglow84
    @Christoglow84 2 года назад +1

    Lucy how do one handle having a boyfriend and yet not chasing potential men from your life and yet it not appearing like u are cheating on your current lover, I would really love to know ur view on this. By the ways am a huge fan❤️❤️

  • @EriclynMarlene
    @EriclynMarlene 2 года назад +2

    Can you make a video on long distance relationship

  • @Naiari399
    @Naiari399 2 года назад +1

    Thank you. I needed this

  • @Preshyjax
    @Preshyjax 2 года назад +3

    I love every point you made here. Thank you Lucy!

  • @treasurecleo4657
    @treasurecleo4657 2 года назад +1

    Ur words are amazing wht a role model i did luv to have😢😊😊❤

  • @ibechiemelaprecious3134
    @ibechiemelaprecious3134 2 года назад +7

    What if hesy chatting a girl in a flirty romantic way and you found out by snooping on his phone you confront him, he calmly explains himself but his explanation is different from all the lovey dovey on the chat what should you do?

    • @daphney119
      @daphney119 2 года назад +16

      Leave

    • @ibechiemelaprecious3134
      @ibechiemelaprecious3134 2 года назад +2

      Have left the relationship and honestly it was so toxic and spiritually demonic but I never knew thank you so much 🥰💕

    • @KanezaMac
      @KanezaMac Год назад

      Leave, he wouldn’t do it in the first place is he truly loved you

  • @sandrametta3408
    @sandrametta3408 2 года назад +1

    Lucy Benson you are so mature🥰🥰🥰

  • @puseletsomanamolela2011
    @puseletsomanamolela2011 Год назад

    👌👌👌👌👌I have learnt soooooooooooo much from this video

  • @preciousfanele3345
    @preciousfanele3345 2 года назад +1

    Ithank God for coming across with this video

  • @stellasamuel3228
    @stellasamuel3228 2 года назад +1

    I love this content
    Keep it up
    I learnt alot

  • @Itsnikkij
    @Itsnikkij 2 года назад +2

    This video helped me alot. Thank you😴

  • @sabranpatienceamole6092
    @sabranpatienceamole6092 2 года назад +3

    Thank you Lucy ❤️

    • @MyLucyBenson
      @MyLucyBenson  2 года назад +2

      You are welcome love, Thanks for watching❤️

  • @VereniceBellido
    @VereniceBellido Год назад

    So smart girl ❤

  • @sther_blovy
    @sther_blovy 2 года назад +1

    I so much agree with you on every level but can I ask,if my partner don’t listen to me when I communicate to him how I will like to be loved,he says he hear but don’t listen,how do I make him listen to me because I like him with regards to his soul and personality but I feel not heard when I talk?

  • @rosemarytuzie3733
    @rosemarytuzie3733 2 года назад

    Thanks nice one. Watching you from china.

  • @mstannie
    @mstannie 2 года назад +3

    This is gold

  • @friedchicken892
    @friedchicken892 2 года назад +1

    Please more videos on narcissitc men😫Im healing but the process is taking WAY tooo long

  • @Maryclairetv
    @Maryclairetv Год назад

    I sincerely agree with you😊

  • @boredstuff8015
    @boredstuff8015 2 года назад +2

    We lost each other because of our immaturity.. I wish I can turn back time...

  • @marina6h
    @marina6h 2 года назад +1

    Absolutely love your videos, can't wait for the next one. Thank you❤️‍🩹

  • @Dee2me
    @Dee2me 2 года назад

    Best video ever ❤

  • @ComedianXTREME
    @ComedianXTREME 2 года назад +1

    Well done

  • @beckysam3722
    @beckysam3722 2 года назад +1

    Wao wao this deep gyal

  • @balogun_emily
    @balogun_emily 2 года назад +2

    I love you Lucy benson

  • @ilobekemen_ochie
    @ilobekemen_ochie 2 года назад +1

    Thank you ❤️

  • @moniqueen_diva
    @moniqueen_diva 2 года назад +1

    Love it 🥰

  • @davidchristabel4167
    @davidchristabel4167 2 года назад

    Thanks

  • @zariahlafleurpowell7028
    @zariahlafleurpowell7028 2 года назад

    I just want a break hello marriage is hard I just need a time for me I was once a individual.. I still love u

  • @tejasmehta5215
    @tejasmehta5215 Год назад +2

    I dont agree Physical looks is must in relationship. I prefer values over looks. If I want physical looks i will marry model or pornstar which might end the relationship

  • @munix9351
    @munix9351 2 года назад +4

    Hmm Lucy, this was lovely. A lady on RUclips called Salkis Re breaks this down deeper

  • @solomonvictoria5432
    @solomonvictoria5432 2 года назад +1

    You were literally talking to me .

  • @aishavogelmann5021
    @aishavogelmann5021 2 года назад

    Thanks you

  • @jessicatill4981
    @jessicatill4981 Год назад

    Relationship happy Love Jessica till

  • @jusnairy
    @jusnairy 2 года назад

    i wish i found this sooner

  • @zarrzarr9989
    @zarrzarr9989 Год назад

    The las knows what she is talking about

  • @Kakarott2023
    @Kakarott2023 2 года назад +1

    truee

  • @shalomchidi158
    @shalomchidi158 2 года назад

    I have a question for u ma on maturity

  • @doreenbenson2197
    @doreenbenson2197 2 года назад +1

    I can't love you less darling lucy

  • @latunahtarea4453
    @latunahtarea4453 Год назад

    You called me put hard 😂

  • @zahrazarrini8018
    @zahrazarrini8018 7 месяцев назад

    ماچور🗿

  • @peresampson
    @peresampson 2 года назад +1

    💋👏🏻

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 2 года назад

    Thank you 😊