How The KIDS Feel About The DIVORCE..

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  • @micheleparker3965
    @micheleparker3965 10 месяцев назад +30

    Isaac has a real deep understanding about what's going on. You have 3 smart kids. Beautiful family ❤❤❤

    • @micheleparker3965
      @micheleparker3965 10 месяцев назад +3

      Oh yeah by the way. The hair is bouncing and behaving.

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад +1

      Ikr! Thank you so much family!! ❤️

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад +1

      ayeee haha! Thank you!!

  • @Kenwithin
    @Kenwithin 10 месяцев назад +33

    Issac is a character 😂😂 I think this is important though. Coming from someone who experienced it at a young age it is important to see this

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад +1

      Ain't heeee?! 😂 I agree! Thank you so much for watching! ❤️

  • @gabrelle2003
    @gabrelle2003 10 месяцев назад +33

    This was very eye opening for me. Like seriously I have yet to talk to my children about their dad and I getting divorced. It’s about time.. I thank you for being so generous with us and letting us see this side of you and those beautiful babies. You’re teaching us a lot by just being you. Even if it’s not done the exact way you did, it still has to be DONE. No matter how uncomfortable❤️💯🙌🏾 God bless you Tiara💫🌸

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад +1

      I know how it is!! You got this mama! It's mind blowing to see how resilient they are through it all. Thank you so much beautiful. I'm praying for you and your family! 🥹🙏🏽❤️

  • @Dontbelievemejuswatch
    @Dontbelievemejuswatch 10 месяцев назад +46

    I don’t care how much people try to normalize and downplay divorce, it is absolutely traumatizing to children

    • @HeresMyBit
      @HeresMyBit 10 месяцев назад +21

      As as a child of parents who shared your sentiment toxic togetherness is far more traumatizing.

    • @Dontbelievemejuswatch
      @Dontbelievemejuswatch 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@HeresMyBit I can believe that. Children are caught in the middle.

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад +6

      It is! 💔

  • @LolitaStClair
    @LolitaStClair 10 месяцев назад +34

    The Kids understand more than adults give them credit for in their life. Am glad you did this interview with the kids. The Good Lord is looking down and protecting y'all every day. I enjoyed your Video today. The kids did an Outstanding job answering the questions. Please have a Blessed Day.😊

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад

      They really do! AMEN. I am so thankful He is! 🙏🏽 Thank you so much!!! Be blessed! ❤️

  • @LoverCity
    @LoverCity 10 месяцев назад +9

    Zara is soo freaking pretty!!her little smile melts my heart every time🥹🥰

  • @MrsSmithsince08
    @MrsSmithsince08 10 месяцев назад +24

    This is such a valuable moment you captured. Giving them a safe space to talk about things from their point of view. Awesome! They’re getting so big!

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much for watching!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @TishTravels
    @TishTravels 10 месяцев назад +12

    Awww 😩❤️ kids do remember everything, especially the oldest, and they go through so much. I’m praying your transparency, love and involvement with them helps them heal. We all go through childhood trauma but it’s possible to help heal it before they become adults with unhealed trauma.
    I love y’all!❤

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад

      AMEN!!! I truly believe that!! Thank you soooo much sustaaa 🥹❤️

  • @lovebriana93
    @lovebriana93 10 месяцев назад +10

    I love how open you were to having this discussion with them despite their age 💛.

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you! I appreciate you watching! 🙌🏾🙏🏽

    • @lovebriana93
      @lovebriana93 10 месяцев назад

      @@ttsfamily always! You are doing an amazing job with them. You pushed the bounds to include how they feel in such an important discussion that we or I were taught we were too young for growing up and it’s something to be admired!

  • @bricbrac28
    @bricbrac28 10 месяцев назад +7

    This video was so necessary. Because I was looking at one of your old videos that you just put back up and it was when you was leaving the first time and went apartment shopping and you did a voice over and you was like I was prepared to leave but we decided to give it another chance. you just looked exhausted it was all over your face. You was done then but we as women always try to stay and fix things because we do want our fam. I rewatched it a couple weeks ago, and you just look so much more happier. Sometimes things just don't work out and this is coming from a divorcee too❤

  • @rocketowl1115
    @rocketowl1115 10 месяцев назад +9

    You are raising some amazing black children!!! Kudos Tierra ❤❤❤❤

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you sooo much 🥹❤️

  • @jamaicanbeauty1588
    @jamaicanbeauty1588 10 месяцев назад +10

    Awww.. your kids are so mature 😍❤️... loved the prayers. Issac is my dude 😂

  • @arob9815
    @arob9815 10 месяцев назад +6

    They are so sweet and adorable. I liked this for them. It’s interesting to see the babies take on being in the middle of an adult situation. With 3 different age ranges, you’re able to see 3 different levels of reactions. You’re doing an AWESOME JOB MOMMY!! Continue to be BLESSED and PROTECTED by the BLOOD of JESUS.🙏🏾❤️

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад

      Aww IKR thank you so much!!! In Jesus name, AMEN!!! Blessings to you and your family! 🥹🙏🏽

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад

      Isaac is a trippp 😂 Thank you so much for watching!! ❤️

  • @Babysista
    @Babysista 10 месяцев назад +10

    Kids take in a whole lot.

  • @sharonhunter7855
    @sharonhunter7855 10 месяцев назад +5

    Awwww such heartfelt answers, kids know when things are good and bad between their parents. Thank you for sharing your life with your RUclips family. You have been through a lot. I've been watching you for a while I think since little Al was
    a baby. You continue to stay strong and love on yourself and them babies. May God continue to bless you; until the next family vlog

  • @marjoriecoleman
    @marjoriecoleman 10 месяцев назад +7

    This was a very beautiful video where the kids can talk about their emotions. They are very smart and Zara will understand more as she grows older. Love the open conversations you have with them, great job T! ❤❤❤👏🏾

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you so much for watching! 🥹❤️

    • @marjoriecoleman
      @marjoriecoleman 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@ttsfamily 🥰

  • @queenelizabeth8020
    @queenelizabeth8020 10 месяцев назад +7

    I appreciate you doing this for them (def not for us to be in your business). I just didn’t understand my oldest brother had a different dad until I graduated high school. The family dynamic was never really explained to me. I didn’t understand why he didn’t always live with us. So, I would learn about extended families in school but didn’t know I was in one or my brother was in one. I think these are the type of conversations that help us develop real world concepts earlier and easier.

  • @Veronikabp63
    @Veronikabp63 10 месяцев назад +6

    Great questions and conversation - your a great mom with well adjusted children - blessings

  • @jenng5925
    @jenng5925 10 месяцев назад +7

    Thanks for sharing! Continue allowing and encouraging your children to share their feelings with you. Also, give them gum before the flight departs. That will help with the ear pops.

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад

      I will, thank you so much!!! ❤️

  • @princesswilliamsmommyof5
    @princesswilliamsmommyof5 10 месяцев назад +11

    Wow I'm so proud of you for even sharing this with us. I can totally relate to this whole situation and how this may make the kids feel. Everyone of those kids new exactly what they were talking about. You are doing really great don't let anyone tell you different. Stay blessed TT God is working wonders with you.

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you sooo much 🥹❤️ God bless you! 🙏🏽

  • @mzjayalwayz
    @mzjayalwayz 10 месяцев назад +6

    I swear i love these babies. Isaac my guy lol “ ok so, back to the news 😁”

  • @DiamondQuenshay
    @DiamondQuenshay 10 месяцев назад +8

    This was such a beautiful video🥺 Thank y’all for sharing. Such a great mom Tierra 🫶🏾🤎

  • @cynthialyman1319
    @cynthialyman1319 10 месяцев назад +9

    they are so smart

  • @user-zs9qs7xf5f
    @user-zs9qs7xf5f 10 месяцев назад +2

    Peace and positivity your a honest pro righteous mother wowwwww the universe loves you

  • @VersatileFemale01
    @VersatileFemale01 10 месяцев назад +6

    Issac is so funny, you have your hands full with him and Al is the total opposite a d Zaria is in the middle but more closer to Isaac's character. God bless you, friend! It's good to see you talk with them about this topic because it gives them a sense of security and they can come to you and open up to you about it. Love you for that.

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад +2

      Haha ikr!! It's so funny seeing their personalities 😂 God bless you too beautiful!! Thank you so much!

    • @VersatileFemale01
      @VersatileFemale01 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@ttsfamilyI know you just sit back some days and just watch them at their best. You're welcome and thank you.

  • @OneVegetarianMommy
    @OneVegetarianMommy 2 месяца назад

    Aww Al seem like the shy one. Issac seem like the turn up king & Baby girl is the main character of course 😂

  • @EveYvette
    @EveYvette 10 месяцев назад +4

    You’re such an awesome mom!

  • @veronicabanks5319
    @veronicabanks5319 10 месяцев назад +12

    All I know is I've been following you since the viral 4C silk press video and girl you don't age!

  • @shinew8974
    @shinew8974 10 месяцев назад +5

    ❤❤❤ omg.... although I watch your content all the time, the kids have grown up so much. Beautiful

  • @brendarobinson76
    @brendarobinson76 10 месяцев назад +5

    I know one thing kids are going to speak their minds at all times .

  • @msmini1585
    @msmini1585 9 месяцев назад +1

    I loved your conversation with the children. All parents should have these conversations and answers their kids questions. And let your kids know that you will love them and be there for them no matter what, and they can always come to you. Some of us adults need to have these conversations. ❤

  • @kellyg8445
    @kellyg8445 10 месяцев назад +3

    wow i absolutely loved this video, & your kids are soooooo intelligent.m; you can tell you’re very involved & you interact with them a lot.

  • @tanishiahicks
    @tanishiahicks 10 месяцев назад +2

    I really enjoyed this, It’s crazy how much kids know they are so wise I know I say this a lot but I commend you for being a great mom it’s so important to talk with your children even though the difficult times 💕💕

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад +1

      Ikr, it amazes me! I agree! Thank you soo much!!! 🥹🙏🏽❤️

  • @baileemarrr
    @baileemarrr 9 месяцев назад

    The fact that they know how to say how they feel! You’re such a great mom Tierra..you are raising some beautiful and emotionally intelligent children!💕🫶🏾

  • @SimplyKendrea
    @SimplyKendrea 10 месяцев назад +8

    Hey T, still rocking with yall ❤

  • @sandraporter61
    @sandraporter61 10 месяцев назад +5

    Hey family! I'm so glad to see you guys.. still a huge fan.. them babies are so big and pretty and as handsome as ever.. TFS ❤❤❤

  • @lindalewis8001
    @lindalewis8001 10 месяцев назад +3

    Hey pretty you are strong independent you handled your business listen broke my heart when Isaac Said you ex husband was fighting at police station omg he remembers that as they get older they are going tell who lot more you didn't even know praying for family thanks for sharing blessings ❤️😮

  • @rainamhs200236
    @rainamhs200236 10 месяцев назад +2

    I really enjoyed this video. You are an amazing mother and your kids are blessed to have you in their lives. This has really helped me.

  • @shawni25
    @shawni25 10 месяцев назад +5

    Love catching up with our #virtualfam #openness #ttfam

  • @tyshaenicole5766
    @tyshaenicole5766 10 месяцев назад +2

    Girl that silk press ❤️❤️ do mine

  • @cynthialyman1319
    @cynthialyman1319 10 месяцев назад +4

    your babies are so beautiful

  • @ellisawilliamson7453
    @ellisawilliamson7453 10 месяцев назад

    I absolutely loved this. Isaac is very smart and was able to tell you why he was both happy and sad. You are awesome for doing this with them!!! ❤❤ I love y'all!!! 💓

  • @BreikaRena
    @BreikaRena 10 месяцев назад +2

    Issac 😂😂 as a middle child I relate to him lol he acted like me as a child

  • @TiarreaB.Naturally
    @TiarreaB.Naturally 10 месяцев назад +3

    Such a beautiful conversation. ❤ Much love to y'all.

  • @rita0230901
    @rita0230901 10 месяцев назад +10

    This was an awesome video! People be scared to have deep conversations with their babies. Great job T! ❤ Now where’s Avery? cause my boy Issac was about to give us some tea 😂

    • @arob9815
      @arob9815 10 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад +4

      Thank you so much for watching!! ❤️ LOL not Isaac spilling the tea 😂 but no, I think he was just relating me and his dad not being together anymore to now me and Avery being together lol or he may have been talking about me and Avery going separate ways in high school. Chile he know about it all 😂

  • @roseoliver7179
    @roseoliver7179 10 месяцев назад +1

    T T Family thank you so much I really appreciate it

  • @Kat-ql9jm
    @Kat-ql9jm 10 месяцев назад

    Loved this bc I witnessed my parents divorce myself and I wasn’t allowed this space to talk and understand until I was much older

  • @lulimau8478
    @lulimau8478 10 месяцев назад +6

    Awwwww❤

  • @lillieisaac7875
    @lillieisaac7875 8 месяцев назад

    Al looks like you and Isaac, truly look like his Daddy. Zara I see you and him!! Beautiful Kids!!

    • @lillieisaac7875
      @lillieisaac7875 8 месяцев назад +1

      When Al made that face at the end, he favored your niece Lexy

  • @NayDay718
    @NayDay718 10 месяцев назад +2

    Great video! … And back to the news !

  • @fayesparrow2064
    @fayesparrow2064 9 месяцев назад

    First,your kids are freaking adorable!!!!They are growing up so fast.Issac is the truth.He seems to be just like his dad lol! Zara will be the boss of them trust me!!!Love you T you will get thru it and come out as pure gold.

  • @melissabrownlee-peterson3702
    @melissabrownlee-peterson3702 10 месяцев назад

    Wow, thank you for sharing this difficult topic.... Divorce is definitely hard on everyone, but God knows best. 🙏🏽 💞

  • @kiamarisalazar7775
    @kiamarisalazar7775 10 месяцев назад

    issac the news anchor 😂😂😂 he is something else! what we gonna do with him lol? love him❤ and thats all we can do as we love al & zara too😘

  • @laquishabryant26
    @laquishabryant26 9 месяцев назад

    Issac is so smart ❤

  • @ebonieeasterling7248
    @ebonieeasterling7248 6 месяцев назад

    Beautiful family 🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍🙂🙂🙂

  • @lelaapple4879
    @lelaapple4879 10 месяцев назад

    I can't imagine Zara with any other name other than Zara Her name fit her perfectly. Man I've been a subscriber since the boys were babies. I wished for a longtime for the return of the family channel 🤗. Glad it's finally back ❤❤❤

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад +1

      I think that all the time! lol she was just MEANT to be Zara. Aww thank you so much for rocking with us for so long, we're so happy to be back!!! 🥹🙏🏽

  • @user-bj1ez7wr7n
    @user-bj1ez7wr7n 2 месяца назад

    Mom and Avery 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @lindalewis8001
    @lindalewis8001 10 месяцев назад

    Hey beautiful family how are y'all doing I am well watching replay great topic listen what's up new boo haven't seen him are y'all still together i keep it real you are doing a great job with kid's I been through it painful i know you will always love Terrance because you have kids with him also think you move to fast with guys just relax nothing wrong being single stay forcus you will be alright we love you stay safe and strong blessings 😮

  • @allthingsbooked
    @allthingsbooked 10 месяцев назад

    Not momandavery 😂 (well Avery did say ya'll was estranged #TJTV lol) ~"oh dang he goin deep" Tierra I am cracking up and like aww at the same time. I have a blended family the oldest two kids have parents outside the home, blending is hard but Keep asking them questions and letting them know its ok to feel upset, mad, angry etc. I just wanna say, kudos to you momma you’re doing well, 'just keep swimming' 🥰👌🏾we're rooting for you.💕

  • @butta487
    @butta487 10 месяцев назад +1

    This was good ❤❤

  • @TheHelenhunter
    @TheHelenhunter 10 месяцев назад

    Hey T, there's earplugs for flying. Not sure what they're called, maybe earplanes.

  • @iamsharondarena
    @iamsharondarena 10 месяцев назад

  • @sombochiva9886
    @sombochiva9886 10 месяцев назад

    Isaac 🙂😂 very vocal. Al is so reserved or maybe the topic is too heavy for him

  • @donnahorne8973
    @donnahorne8973 10 месяцев назад +2

    I think it is great that you and your ex-husband made the children such a priority that they are not suffering much from the divorce. They just know they are loved.

    • @ttsfamily
      @ttsfamily  10 месяцев назад

      It was definitely hard trying but with God all things are possible. Thank you for watching! ❤️

  • @drizzle1977
    @drizzle1977 10 месяцев назад

    You can make me your babe Jose?

  • @sharonrenee5383
    @sharonrenee5383 9 месяцев назад

    Divorce is sin, Period. You should start with the fact that yall married unequally yoked. GOD doesn't put 2 sinners together, the devil does, it was never going to work out.