POUR MINDS Episode 243- Cant Knock My Confidence FT Shan Boodram

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  • Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024

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  • @DreaAndLex
    @DreaAndLex  Год назад +330

    Y’all be nice in the comments this week ok .. this episode was a lil tough for big mama 😭❤️

    • @Lasha.Harvey
      @Lasha.Harvey Год назад +14

      WE LOVE YOUR LEX& DREA I IM IN MY LATE 30's NO KIDS I RELATE TO THIS SHOW SO MUCH I SEE YOLL AS BIG SIS FOR SURE🙏🏾🙏🏾💞💞👑👑

    • @Lasha.Harvey
      @Lasha.Harvey Год назад +11

      GOD IS MAKING BOTH U LADYS PUSH THRU YOUR TRIALS BECAUSE THIS IS YOUR DESTINY IS TO UPLIFT OTHER WOMEN OF ALL AGE RACE& COLOR I THANK GOD FOR YOUR LADYS U TRULY HELP ME STAY CONFIDENT💪🏾💪🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💞💞👑👑

    • @unwrittensymp
      @unwrittensymp Год назад +10

      You are seen & supported 🤎

    • @AmberEverywhere
      @AmberEverywhere Год назад

      Literally!!

    • @ctheentertainercte622cluht3
      @ctheentertainercte622cluht3 Год назад +1

      💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

  • @Chrysyyyy
    @Chrysyyyy Год назад +94

    This is why I love y’all friendship, bc Drea does NOT allow Lex to downplay herself at allllll.

  • @ArabaApau
    @ArabaApau Год назад +237

    Lex, thank you so much for your transparency. I wish you would show this side more. It’s so beautiful. Vulnerability is beautiful. You are BEAUTIFUL! And we all can relate to your story as women ..

    • @DreaAndLex
      @DreaAndLex  Год назад +46

      Thank you! As the show grows it’s definitely harder to be transparent but I know what I went through could help someone going through the same❤️

    • @ArabaApau
      @ArabaApau Год назад

      @@DreaAndLex I went through something similar so I appreciate you being so honest ! Makes me know I’m not alone ❤️❤️❤️

    • @cashbaby24
      @cashbaby24 Год назад +2

      @@DreaAndLex The part about forgiving yourself for your past has been hard for me to deal with too. But hearing you talk about EXACTLY how I felt made me feel seen. Thank you LEX for gifting that to us ❤️

    • @gamerschain61
      @gamerschain61 Год назад

      Lex I love u so much ❤ I loved this whole episode thank you for always being honest and forward with your viewers and so real and non judgemental we love you lexp

    • @gamerschain61
      @gamerschain61 Год назад

      Lex had me crying because these topics esp the first one hit home with me.

  • @jmichelle979
    @jmichelle979 Год назад +37

    “Money is not everything but life is hard as hell without it!” FACTS Drea! Having money definitely makes the majority of hardships better/easier.

  • @SoRealSoReal23
    @SoRealSoReal23 Год назад +25

    To keep it a buck, it was refreshing to hear a more open and vulnerable side of you guys.

  • @lisavslisa101
    @lisavslisa101 Год назад +82

    I honestly hope to see Lex and Drea find true love and get married one day😊..to see them start from the bottom and elevate to marriage and kids would be awesome love stories😊

  • @ashleymac9730
    @ashleymac9730 Год назад +50

    Only halfway through and this is one of the best episodes ever. Wow.

  • @kayjonae218
    @kayjonae218 Год назад +28

    I’m only 22 but I still found great value in this conversation. It was so transparent, educational, and even comforting. Also, you guys picked the perfect person to have this conversation with. I love me some Shanboody! Def a collab I didn’t know I needed, and an episode I will rewatch often. Thanks for another great episode 🩷

  • @MsBlackIntrovert
    @MsBlackIntrovert Год назад +25

    As a mom the part where Shan talks about mothers having to give 'milk and honey' really spoke to me thank you!

    • @eliza2256
      @eliza2256 Год назад

      Do you know the book she’s talking about?

  • @killaks
    @killaks Год назад +18

    Y’all gave the girls SUCH a gem this week! This conversation is so necessary & priceless. Thank you so much Lex for opening up, we know it is not easy. You both are truly living in your purpose it’s so beautiful to see! Can’t wait to see what’s next! ❤

  • @90sgyald
    @90sgyald Год назад +56

    AHHHHH OMG!! The collab I never expected 💕

  • @sparklesandcupcakes
    @sparklesandcupcakes Год назад +57

    I love this because I just became a mommy last Friday 😊

  • @itsraycoleeeee
    @itsraycoleeeee Год назад +31

    I appreciate Lex story so refreshing and very relatable

  • @keimon1493
    @keimon1493 Год назад +7

    I love Lex so much , the way she explained her dating style & the “trying to be the cool one with the idc attitude never works in the end. This episode and how she broke down her dating life is so me!!! Maybe it’s a Leo Thing because people think we are so conceited and we really humble & chill and scary 🤣

  • @Suunshineeee
    @Suunshineeee Год назад +4

    Lex, I appreciate your transparency on this episode. I think a lot of us walk around in silence, thinking that we’re all alone. And then blame ourselves for the ways we allowed people to treat us. You had me reminiscing on my own growth, and I found some more tips on how I need to be even more graceful with myself, and not downplay my past self because it took her to get to where I am now. 💜

  • @DIVINEHAJ
    @DIVINEHAJ Год назад +9

    this was such a great episode! 💗highkey wish it was longer 🥺 cus i loveee shan down. lex thank you for being so transparent about a topic that women don’t get enough grace on. dealing with insecurities after a breakup is super hard to deal with so im here for this conversation

  • @Lasha.Harvey
    @Lasha.Harvey Год назад +25

    I LOVE HOW OPEN LEX WAS IN THIS EPISODE 😎😎 WE GOT TO SEE U LADYS HAVE A LIL LIVE THERAPY 💞💞👑👑

  • @annep7602
    @annep7602 Год назад +22

    This episode almost made me cry because same lex. Also s/o to Drea for seeing lex for who she really is and guiding her to loving herself more.

  • @brittanyedwards8862
    @brittanyedwards8862 Год назад +4

    i tend to fall off of pour minds from time to time but made sure to catch this one bc (shan) and i knew it would be good. lex! your vulnerability was so amazing. remember to hug your past self and know that you can only move forward with what you know now 💓

  • @tee6384
    @tee6384 Год назад +9

    That took so much strength to admit Lex! We love and support you thru it all 🙌🏾

  • @ItsTinaB
    @ItsTinaB Год назад +2

    This episode really opened my eyes to so much that I haven’t realized, understood and/or recognized within myself and as a mother and partner. This one was so necessary. Thank you.

  • @kellabillingsley5141
    @kellabillingsley5141 Год назад +4

    GREAT EPISODE LADIES.. SHAN WAS A GREAT GUEST FOR THIS CONVERSATION I SEE THE LOVE BETWEEN LEX AND DREA AND LEX ITS GOOD TO OPEN UP WE ALL GO THRU SOMETHING AND ITS OK TO BE VULNERABLE 💗

  • @countessstevens63
    @countessstevens63 Год назад +4

    This was one of THEE BEST episodes I’ve heard ladies! You all were sooo open and I could tell you were way more relaxed than before. I love the grown woman dialogue and can relate so much with the topics. Thank you so much for this one ❤

  • @IndyDee
    @IndyDee Год назад +4

    Whew I am Lex for sure…… I struggle with expressing what I want and social anxiety. I love your transparency Lex❤❤❤.

  • @Chlojo777
    @Chlojo777 Год назад +7

    This was a GREAT episode!! Shan was a wonderful guest. Lex thank you so much for sharing your story! Happy healing💜

  • @ladyfaith7937
    @ladyfaith7937 9 месяцев назад

    *rock resident here😂*
    Just now being introduced to y’all and the movement. Whew, this is so needed in this season if my life, right now! God be working! Sending peace and love to all ✌🏾

  • @BlossomingB
    @BlossomingB Год назад +2

    We need more guests like Shan. I love her 🩷🩷

  • @laquinta91
    @laquinta91 Год назад +6

    God will place things to see & hear when u really need it in your life. I really needed this episode & Lex story. Im going through the same. Recently left a situation & gained alotta weight. Confidence took a hit, but now I'm transforming & healing back to me everyday. Thank you for this ❤️

  • @Tayrhe__
    @Tayrhe__ Год назад +2

    I am an OG listener and This is by far the best conversation y’all have had on the podcast. It was cool to see more of this side from both of you! Thanks for sharing

  • @tomeikia8372
    @tomeikia8372 Год назад +1

    The realist conversation that this podcast has ever produce ☺️

    • @RosteeveBellier
      @RosteeveBellier Год назад

      Too distracted by Andrea’s cleavage to pay attention. Respectfully.

  • @Angelssurroundme
    @Angelssurroundme Год назад +2

    Thank you for being so vulnerable, Lex. You’re so beautiful and worth it

  • @_zb6600
    @_zb6600 Год назад +2

    Lex being so transparent this episode was needed we here for you bae 💞💞💞💞🫡

  • @theeglamaz0n
    @theeglamaz0n Год назад +1

    omg I felt that in lex because im the same. being bubbly does not mean you’re comfortable in social settings.

  • @goddessavaiae
    @goddessavaiae Год назад +3

    Slow love... born to bond... go back to go forward. THESE ARE TRUE GEMS 💎💎💎

  • @freshprogressbeauty
    @freshprogressbeauty Год назад +1

    This episode was so good! If you ever need someone to talk about fertility I studied it for many years. I love how honest Shan was about motherhood.
    It reminded me of Tina Fey’s book, bossy pants!

  • @grltn07
    @grltn07 Год назад +1

    I stand with this queen I'm so glad I waited til 32 to have my daughter! I wouldn't change a thing and I'm 34 now!

  • @tiaraamethyst7869
    @tiaraamethyst7869 Год назад +1

    Lex from your transparency to the topics.....I think this was one of my favorite episodes thus far!

  • @cheriselundy415
    @cheriselundy415 Год назад

    This lady is so real about parenting/motherhood, and speaks so eloquently about her truth

  • @kailahwailah
    @kailahwailah Год назад +3

    I love this setup. It’s so bright, vibrant and clear. Please keep this!! Makes watching so much more pleasant. Great job ladies!! ❤❤

    • @superstarr2008
      @superstarr2008 Год назад

      They can’t keep it, they mentioned being in LA at the guests home ❤

  • @travellingdoctor1927
    @travellingdoctor1927 Год назад +2

    This was such an amazing episode. Thanks to Lex for your vulnerability!

  • @daniellec4035
    @daniellec4035 Год назад +2

    This is crazy y’all got my girl Shan on … I have been watching her since she started.. glad to see y’all making y’all rounds

  • @hunnyoverlorde.
    @hunnyoverlorde. Год назад +8

    Been praying for this one for a while. Lovely work, ladies! 💓

  • @Karibari808
    @Karibari808 Год назад +1

    DEF the best episode as of yet

  • @tyrag.7560
    @tyrag.7560 Год назад +2

    Great episode!
    Thanks for the transparency, Lex! ❤️

  • @Nunofyabizzzzz
    @Nunofyabizzzzz Год назад +2

    This episode is for me. I empathize with Lex. I'm so sorry Lex, I hope she sees this and sees that her vulnerability is very appreciated. I needed to hear this

  • @alexandraa.472
    @alexandraa.472 Год назад +1

    Thank you sm Lex, traumatic relationships definitely do a number on your confidence! I always been a confident person & once I was in a toxic situation I completely retreated into myself! I needed this Rn!💕💕💕💕💕

  • @TheBetterThanBrand
    @TheBetterThanBrand Год назад +1

    love this episode and appreciate the realness. its hard to practice what you preach but accountability is all that matters!

  • @therealnys
    @therealnys Год назад +1

    We love a vulnerable queen. Lex we love you. Your emotions are human and relatable. love this side of you. ( give yourself grace and forgiveness) And the Taurus in me always feels so seen and understood by DREA. Love y’all down 🫶🏾💗

  • @duckconfie
    @duckconfie 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you ladies for this episode. I appreciate your transparency and Authenticity.

  • @jessfortune9823
    @jessfortune9823 Год назад +1

    I LOVE when yall are mushy and open like this thank yall for this

  • @kiyanalowery8803
    @kiyanalowery8803 Год назад +1

    It's truly beautiful and inspiring to see two women that look like me bring their businesses/ideas to life! ⭐

  • @markmason4536
    @markmason4536 Год назад +9

    Pour Minds starting the weekend off right ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ThugDrina
    @ThugDrina Год назад

    Lex thank you for this vulnerability! Like you have no idea how much you’re helping with your testimony. That’s why we love y’all and you’re STILL a bad bitch🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @breadwinner8585
    @breadwinner8585 Год назад +1

    Best episode of the educational/informative category y’all done had 🔥 proud of y’all.

  • @briezyyy
    @briezyyy Год назад +1

    you’re not fake, lex. we can truly believe something, but as far as making it our truth or our reality is an everyday process, and the process is not linear. that is why grace exist. you were just going through something that you HAD to go through to get to where you are today, so be kind to yourself, ny love. it’s all a part of your journey.

  • @paulaa.1445
    @paulaa.1445 Год назад

    Hi Lex. This is my favorite episode so far bc the way you opened up and showed your vulnerability made me connect at a deeper level with y’alls podcast. Thank you for sharing personal things that are very difficult to talk about. When you spoke from your heart it had such a profound effect on me, and that type of honesty is what us girls need. I learned from your experience and it’s the best lesson you could ever give. Keep your head up!!

  • @ToriBleu
    @ToriBleu Год назад +1

    I loved this episode! And i love how Shan answers questions directly! I love Lex’s transparency and being vulnerable and Drayas honesty!!! This is the one!!

  • @cristinasmith2748
    @cristinasmith2748 Год назад +1

    This was such a great episode. Thus energy was so good. I love that Lex was personal. We're all human and go through thing. Continue to heal sis. Sending good vibes ur way

  • @HazelLuve
    @HazelLuve Год назад +3

    The way I am relating to Lex on this. I lost my grandmother 3/13/2022
    And my grandfather on her birthday 3/20/23. The depression is unreal. I feel like my ex took advantage of me in both situations in regards to knowing my emotional state. We had been on and off for 5 years. After my grandfather passed this year he was being such an ass to me that I finally just had to block him on everything cold turkey. I am still struggling with forgiving myself for allowing myself to be treated that way. Instead of leaning on family and friends I leaned on him, even though I could see he was hurting me more. It’s like I feel like lex reading my journal to y’all. I feel for her and pray for her healing. I wish I could run into her here in atl and just hug her. Life really be fucking lifing 🥺

    • @RosteeveBellier
      @RosteeveBellier Год назад

      Did u unblock him yet?

    • @HazelLuve
      @HazelLuve Год назад

      @@RosteeveBellier now why would I do that?

    • @RosteeveBellier
      @RosteeveBellier Год назад +1

      @@HazelLuve well I think you should forgive him, it sounds to me like that’s wats holding you back from fully forgiving yourself. Don’t let that man haunt you while he living his best life mmmkay. Be blessed.

    • @HazelLuve
      @HazelLuve Год назад

      @@RosteeveBellier thank you 😊🫶🏾

  • @Bakeryluv
    @Bakeryluv Год назад +1

    This has been my favorite episode thus far. I love the transparency yall 🥰❤️

  • @molicious5741
    @molicious5741 Год назад +2

    I Definitely Enjoyed This Feature Episode!!❤️‍🔥🥰

  • @drivendancer
    @drivendancer Год назад

    Beautiful episode Lex, When I was in my abusive relationship that kept me isolated from all of my friends, this podcast was actually my moments of girl time that I was missing. You all gave me laughs when it was needed the most :)

  • @shadthagod8033
    @shadthagod8033 Год назад +1

    Lex & Drea glowing thank u for being great people ❤️❤️

  • @jazzytheecreator
    @jazzytheecreator Год назад +3

    Lex got me crying. Currently trying to dig myself out of that

  • @ketaweathers1496
    @ketaweathers1496 Год назад +1

    Really needed this episode, thank you lex for all this vulnerability ❤️.

  • @Lasha.Harvey
    @Lasha.Harvey Год назад +3

    AND WE HAVE TO REMEMBER TO PRACTICE WHAT WE PREACH 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💞💞💞👑👑👑

  • @amandawise88
    @amandawise88 Год назад

    Such a great episode. I really appreciate Lex being so vulnerable. I love seeing the growth of you two on the show.

  • @dcrump1014
    @dcrump1014 Год назад +1

    Love to see the transparency 🙌 thank you for this episode!

  • @naelynn9582
    @naelynn9582 Год назад +1

    What a beautiful healing episode ❤❤❤ I loved this the elevation of the show is just everything. And also giving lex the biggest virtual hug! ❤❤

  • @briannajackson3190
    @briannajackson3190 Год назад +1

    I lovveeeddddd this episode more than anything I’ve ever watched on YT🤩 So refreshing !!!💕💕

  • @Lasha.Harvey
    @Lasha.Harvey Год назад +5

    OMG THIS EPISODE WAS SO REFRESHING 💆🏾‍♀️💆🏾‍♀️🙏🏾🙏🏾💞💞👑👑👑😎😎

  • @Dessii3
    @Dessii3 Год назад

    I absolutely loved this episode. The transparency alone was beautiful. ❤ Shan broke down so much of motherhood that I questioned and I just started 2 years ago. & now I can’t wait to see how I meet my significant other if I haven’t already.

  • @anaalijoy6951
    @anaalijoy6951 Год назад +2

    Excited for this collab!!❣️❣️

  • @mmonitx
    @mmonitx Год назад

    By far my favorite episode! Lex thank you for opening up and being vulnerable with the girls. We love you big mama 🩷

  • @anamarieexo
    @anamarieexo Год назад +2

    I’m a new listener and I love you guys and this episode was so good! I always look forward to fridays now

  • @user-bm5gc1mg4p
    @user-bm5gc1mg4p Год назад +3

    I feel like we’re growing with y’all it’s such a beautiful transition to witness in real time

  • @Lifewithnani1217
    @Lifewithnani1217 Год назад

    I LOVEDDDDDDDDDDD a this episode, and I’m glad you guess had this guest , soooo insightful

  • @lisavslisa101
    @lisavslisa101 Год назад

    Thank you for being so transparent and open to us Lex! Your healing yourself along with so many other people❤

  • @Reeses710
    @Reeses710 Год назад

    Another great episode ladies.....Shan gone always come thru with the vibes & the tea!! So proud of y'all, the growth, the support that you always have for each other is a beautiful thing; cont'd blessings!

  • @lovegabss3364
    @lovegabss3364 Год назад

    such a great episode! so relatable especially with lex’s transparency. I need a book list!

  • @lexusallen
    @lexusallen Год назад +1

    It’s the growth for me 🤌🏽 this is such a good episode, Lex’s vulnerability, Drea in love, the topics (especially kids after 30). Really needed and enjoyed this episode. And loved seeing y’all in LA 🫶🏽

  • @niaoneal1449
    @niaoneal1449 Год назад +1

    this was the therapy session I needed … thank you ladies

  • @shawnwashington1778
    @shawnwashington1778 Год назад

    This was one of my fav episodes !! Im here for the vulnerability and growth. What a great collab!

  • @thatgirlshaz
    @thatgirlshaz Год назад +2

    This episode was so dope. The chemistry was amazing. I love y’all ladies and I love Shans podcast too!! Lex your transparency was beautiful. I’m coming to see y’all in Orlando ❤

  • @Ta.ra.B.
    @Ta.ra.B. Год назад

    Thank you Lex for sharing. I know how you feel

  • @MonsieurNoir_
    @MonsieurNoir_ Год назад

    I just- this episode. 🫴🏽✨ 10’s across the board !! 🙌🏽 I’ve been waiting patiently for this link up with our gurl Shan Boodram!! Being vulnerable is something I compare next to public speaking. Mindset over fear. Give yourself Grace & Space. && friendly reminder: Give yourself a hug 🫂 I love y’all down. 🫶🏽 Until next time. 🍷 One love. 🖤

  • @viyoolacouronne6419
    @viyoolacouronne6419 Год назад +1

    I relate to Lex so much and also a Leo here

  • @peaceoyetunji4774
    @peaceoyetunji4774 Год назад

    Amazing episode! Thank you so much for your transparency Lex. I hate that you had to go through that. I pray your new partner and family and friends are pouring into you the way you deserve. Drea as always I loved your insight and you are so well spoken. ❤❤❤

  • @janienunez8853
    @janienunez8853 Год назад +2

    Lex we love you thanks for this episode and opening up 😢❤❤❤

  • @FT-lf7gs
    @FT-lf7gs Год назад

    Love the convo of following your dreams & maintaining a stable income

  • @JayDesirre30
    @JayDesirre30 Год назад +1

    Yesss omg favorite episode to date. Lex you are so strong for sharing your story ❤ sending love and mis mam was dropping gems loved it

  • @rosereign888
    @rosereign888 Год назад

    This is crazy because I just thought a few days ago how I wished Shan would go on the show and here we are! ❤

  • @cj10109
    @cj10109 Год назад

    Shan is awesome! Love that y’all got her on the show 🫶🏾

  • @AngelaElikya
    @AngelaElikya Год назад

    Thank you Lex for sharing and being vulnerable with that part of your life i'm sending you hugs and kisses ❤ you almost made me cry...

  • @nashley2
    @nashley2 Год назад

    Lex your vulnerability was beautiful to see. This episode was amazing! I’m so proud y’all!

  • @LTN9696
    @LTN9696 Год назад

    Healing and growth! I love to see it! Thank you for sharing. It’s helping us gain clarity and we’re hear for you. Great job ladies.

  • @MsButtalove
    @MsButtalove Год назад

    Lex I love you. You are beautiful inside and out. Also, I appreciate both of you ladies for being so transparent with your audience on this show. 💚

  • @tee6384
    @tee6384 Год назад

    Sorry for your loss Lex! Just know you have women around the world that support you and look up to you ! 🎈❤️

  • @Mzkhalifa259
    @Mzkhalifa259 Год назад +2

    Liked it before even watching 😂I love Shan, I know this is gonna be a dope episode ❤️

  • @daniellec4035
    @daniellec4035 Год назад

    I’m going through this now with my relationship lack of confidence also a new mom and totally losing myself and feeling guilty for not doing more as a mom but also dealing with being exhausted . This is a great episode.