how to make people f*cking like you
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Want to be more likable? It’s all about charisma. In this video, I break down the simple yet powerful CAR formula: Contribute, Attend, Repeat. Learn how to elevate every interaction, connect on a deeper level, and genuinely understand others. Remember, not everyone will like you, and that’s okay-it’s about finding your people and being your authentic self. Watch now to start becoming the most charismatic version of you.
"Just be funny" sounds like advice to "just buy a house, if you are homeless"
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was on god gonna comment the same thing im just not funny i try making jokes and people never laugh so i dont bother no more
@@deeplikeoceans912 go on tell us a joke
@@brigadegamer9403He doesn't bother anymore
@@deeplikeoceans912this is gonna sound cliche too, but practice really does make perfect. some groups and people will find different things funny and unfunny, so you need to be able to both read the room as well as figure out what does and doesn't appear funny to people. and remember, some people just won't find you funny, and that's perfectly fine.
Bro is like the older brother who gives me helpful advice for life, which I always wanted
Glad to hear that 🤙
@@OlderBrother_ because bro is the older brother 🗿
C = Contribute (Don't be a NPC in the talk, express yourself)
A = Attend with Active listening (Give feedback while listening and summarize at the end)
R = Repeat (pratice makes perfect)
heres the secrete to charsisma, make others feel good and dont ever make them fell like you judge them and display confidence as in "you are not ashame of making mistakes"... when people see this they know THEY CANT HURT TOU AND ALSO THAT youre not gonna hurt them and they can be themselves because they are not going to offend you and youre WILL NOT make fun of them and hurt them yes you can still tease but never tease them about something they are actually ashamed of... if you get insulted tell them that you are not going to teletate that behavior (this shows you are not a pushover)…never try to have a logical conversation with women if they didnt want to. As a Woman Gets to know your Emotional Intelligence how fun you are she will eventually want to know the logical side of you and begin to ask you serious questions that’s a sign that you’ve done a great job displaying your self.
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Why can't women have logical convos? I agree with you, but why is it so hard for them
@@gamedevlol because men and women have different emotions and tend to talk about different things. I bet even the women think to themselves 'why cant men have logical convos', because we have different emotions
@@trafield22 Hmm I get it. Subjectively each gender thinks they are the more logical gender, but objectively it is obvious us men who are the logical gender. Another quote I heard "Never trust a crying woman". Obviously not in all cases, but most. What do you think?
@@gamedevlol Yea men are more logical when it come to real life situations , but even women are more logical when it come to dealing with emotions of themsleves and others(it is scientifically proven aswell), so its just that men and women have different things that they are good at and it cant be compared,and all this is subjective. Also this is just my opinion
I love that you put how not EVERYONE will like you, also, charisma really just revolves around KNOWING what you bring to the table, acknowledging what others brought and could contribute, and not taking things personally.
also, it helps to be funny.
Bro compressing a college semester into a video
Remember to stay hydrated and spread the good news of Papa Peli’s channel
True that
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The video we all needed
100 likes and I'll ask my crush out
(When schools starts, so 5 Sept)
Edit: It started as a joke but now ill do it fr (82/100)
Just do it bro trust
Do it
Good luck!
Show her that you are interested in her without saying that you are interested in her. This will boost your chances by 1000%
im not liking your comment gng but just do it
The advices in this video are good and I'd summarize it this way:
Be interested in others, listen to others and make others feel important.
It's easy.
I've watched a lot of videos regarding this cause I too struggled with speaking and I gotta say yours is one of the best I've seen do far. Keep up man👍
Glad it was helpful!
Oh no that requires actually speaking to people
One Thing I would like to add to "active listening". You can be the cool interesting guy if you offer solutions rather than just responding to the emotions of the other guy. Ideally both. For example: If somebody tells you he is into painting but lacks motivation, I would answer:" Yea, I can understand that and I think it's a common feeling. But actually, I have a tip for you what also worked for me: I always tell me, i have 3 minutes i have to sit at the table and do nothing or begin to paint. But I can do nothing else. Either do nothing or do what you want to do. After 3 minutes you are free to go but you have to at least manage to do nothing for 3 minutes just sitting there. This is no time. But I always start my thing because it's to boring. " (by the way a real tip)
And this makes you even more likable because you are actively caring about the other one, not just passively
I don’t have very many people in my life who look up to me but there was this friend of a friend who told me I seemed like a pretty confident guy. He asked me how to be more confident. I told him to just say yes more. Don’t be a pushover, don’t put yourself in life or death situations, but just turn your knee jerk reactions of no to yes. And to be genuine
2:57 this is actually huge because so many people make this mistake and then wonder why nobody likes opening up to them
Can you make a video on how to tell stories to people?
Might look into adding this to the list 👀
Checkout the Matthew dick's storyworthy, I've read the whole book, trust me it'll change your world view and helps you have infinite story content
Yes I need to know
(I used this last night, it worked really well btw) some good advice, if you guys are able to find something you have in common with that group of people, capitalise on it! For example, if someone if the group that you just met plays a certain video game that you are familiar with, talk to them about it. If they think you are likeable, it gives to a chance to get to know the whole group better.
"It's really not that hard, just be funny"
bro wtf
Best Content I have ever seen
Please make a series on SOCIAL CONVERSATION SKILLS SERIES ❤
I forgot about this channel, glad to have found it again
(Older) Bro you helped me so much!
Bro is the 🐐 this is exactly what I tried to find. His videos are such high quality too. Thanks bro
Good advice bro thanks for keeping it concise
thank you elder brother for being my older brother
Another great video!!! Entertaining and really good tips. Love your content!!!
thank you so much big bro
This is actually good advice, nice video
U make really good content, keep it up!
I fcking love your videos man thank you for the tips 🤝🏻
Can you please consider doing a video on how to tell stories? I have a lot of interesting things I could say, but I never know how to voice these stories in an interesting and funny way, so I often just sit quietly in the group. Thanks!
I can't believe the ebook Magnetic Aura isn't a hot topic. It's an incredible read
Yeah charisma is like sparring in martial arts. You can study and study all you want but if you never spar and practice in a practical setting you'll never improve, same with charisma.
If you don't go out of your way to talk to people then you're literally never going to get better and it doesn't matter how many videos you watch.
I bet there's a lot of super charismatic people out there who never watched a single one of these videos but talked with tons of people all the time and got good at this.
bro u da GOAT
Thank you
>"be funny"
>*Instantly leaves the video*
God editing
I always wondered why I was well known or popular at all in highschool. Now I know it's because I drawed the marked toothpick
i feel called out
i wonder i go outside in kisuke urahara cosplay with my tewi fumo will everyone automatically become friends with me
The most accurate thing about the older brother persona is the the f word is in every title
Love your videos ❤ .
I have a problem, I can start conversation. How can I talk to that person or girl after I meet him again later ?
First, I'd watch my video "how to talk to anyone" then start the convo with one of these...
1. Ask them how they've been since you last saw them
2. Bring back up a topic you guys talked about last time
3. Start a fresh convo (Saying something like "Nice shoes") then transitioning that into a normal convo
@@OlderBrother_ No other youtuber could have explained so much. Thanks a lot 🙏
what a sigma
I think that we do a lot, but we don't realize about it ;)
what if you try doing this and still get pushed away even more 😭
Skibidi sigma video
ok, now we need a guide on how to find people that will not give a fuck
you need to find the banned ebook magnetic aura even if it's the last thing you do in life
easiest way to get people to like you: Don't give a sh**, do what you want to do, but don't be a jerk
48 laws of power is such a goofy book lol
Turn into car, allow people to ride inside of you, become a wealthy taxi.
Dont even bother watching this video if you're trying to impress somebody just don't
Underratest channel
I've been told im charismatic but I can never really see it
basically just level up your social links
What about making friends and being likeable online?
Hate isn't a strong enough word for Kanye
Me with autism and ADHD at 2:12💀
bro did you tick all of the above by accident when you were born
@@zynxps Well thats not all because I got severe gluten intolerance, mild lactose and soy intolerance, and also stomach inflammation. I feel less human but other people have it worse I guess.
@@Bruh86568 my gosh im so sorry
@@zynxps Don't worry im used to it🥲
@@Bruh86568gah daym my boy got everything in the book😭🙏
requires empathy? welp i guess im out. can't feel people for shit and literally don't care to.
how bro feels rn: 🥶🥶😈
If you don't have empathy for others, others won't have empathy for you. You might say you don't need empathy, you're right, you don't need it, but this way you'll miss a lot of opportunities and fun.
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2:51 yo why he js staring there
😂
Does this really work even if you're hard on the eyes?
Y'all need to understand this,
You're NOT charismatic, only few great leaders were charizmatic, Charizma comes from the need of your people to be safe and being defended from danger, when you provide that FIRST and know how to act and communicate you will become charizmatic, and yeah charizma start vanishing the moment the danger ends.
Once again y'all social media clowns stop taking advantage of these people's insecurities, hyping them with illusions then selling them a course. (I know what are you doing little man)
Hi
I read the title wayy too wrong
Lol
Why was 48 Law is Power on the thumbnail?
How to fucking make money online for countries that only accept crypto currency/ unsupported
having good humour isn't something everybody has though.
start watches comedy specials on Netflix in your spare time - i can almost guarantee you'll end up at the very least 1% more funny
dormire da me non lo so sul resto sì
why would yall listen to someone who makes nerd edits like this
can i do this if i dont have social skills?
You can, it's easy. Once you start picking up experience, it will become genuinely fun.
Brother i face a problem, all of the people i meet , most of them don't understand dark humor and thus my jokes, i try making jokes from 2020 they call me unfunny, their humor is shaped by their insta feed. I just want to have an influence but not really want to use such social media of such kind how do i identify what's "funny".
Charisma is great, but what about Charizzma?
rizz is charisma but shorter they the same ting
@@zynxps Yeah I know
@@Peter-Williams oki
Gen alpha can't spell? Yeah sounds accurate
@JUSTREGULARSCREAMINGAAHH Damn bro
Didn't even catch my misspelling 💀
I'll have you know that I'm not part of gen alpha though
I know I talk like it but I'm not, I promise
NPC means
Actually this video provides a lot of useless I formation. You need to study Patrick Bateman and embrace the sigma grindset
Just "contribute" lol like thats so easy 😂 just buy stocks n get rich lol 😂
how to be funny though, that’s not so simple 😂
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Wtf is a zyn
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Brother the problem is with unknown people I dont have (much) confidence. Even on Phenibut. Its not easy to just tell jokes and talk freely. I hate it man with my friends Im so funny im laughing im just free. How do I fix this brother please make the video about it
Can you make a video on how to tell stories to people?
Practise, no one is good at storytelling immediately when they start paying attention to it
Can you make a video on how to tell stories to people?
Can you make a video on how to tell stories to people?
Can you make a video on how to tell stories to people?
Can you make a video on how to tell stories to people?
Can you make a video on how to tell stories to people?
Can you make a video on how to tell stories to people?
Can you make a video on how to tell stories to people?
Can you make a video on how to tell stories to people?
Can you make a video on how to tell stories to people?
Can you make a video on how to tell stories to people?
literally just tell them and have emotion dummy
Can you make a video on how to tell stories to people?
@@TigerBrawl-Stars Bro shut up 💀