My father was a Forest Ranger (Basically one of the guys that would fight forest fires and parachute out of the slurry bomber planes to fight the blaze.) and I guess having twin boys was tough because what that man just described above was basically the word for word of how my father handled bad behavior in our house. Except he didn't use a belt, having slung chainsaws for 15+ years on fire rotation his hands were like calloused iron and dear lord did they sting. You could always tell when you were in deep sh*t because his normally booming voice would get low and deliberate "Go. To. The. Bedroom. Now." I still remember his favorite turn of phrase to this day "This isn't a Democracy son, it's a benevolent Monarchy."
@@saqeebkhan3668 My grandfather was a machinist with Gates Rubber and when he helped my father get ready to go off to college he basically told him 'Get a job that can provide for yourself and your family it doesn't matter if it's glittery just so long as you put food on the table.' So my father went into forestry because in those days honest hard work paid well.
Apparently, my granddad would tell that to my mom and my uncle 😂😂 My mom didn't want us to even have that choice. You got what was within reach and if you're lucky, it wasn't made of stone. xD
There have been multiple studies showing the children who are given physical discipline have higher rates for anxiety and depression. I don't know about you, but that's not something I would consider to be down to earth and happy.
@@silg7262 yeah, but the time out generation is suffering more depression, anxiety, suicide, etc. And rates are increasing in every successive generation since.
@@NickRoman time to redefine successful. Hint: don't listen to the mainstream culture, cuz it's not money, power or fame. Help others. You'll find your happy. 😊
@@workin4alivin585 Our generation in the whole yes. But studies looking specifically at discipline methods show that children who are spanked have higher levels of anxiety then those who are disciplined using less physical methods. My generation is more depressed because of other reasons.
Had a brother who - while waiting for the spanking - added 4-6 layers of extra underwear. The resulting sound was more like a thud than a smack. Still, parents didn't think too much of it until they noticed a mix of laughter in with his fake crying.... My dad didn't acknowledge this in any way, except to then make the ensuing spankings hard enough for him to feel them. The laughing stopped immediately. Needless to say such antics did not continue. Brother is a fine gentleman and valuable member of society to this day.
I did that, once. She didn't catch me, so then I felt like I was cheating and didn't do it anymore. That wasn't too long before I was too old to spank.
figured is turned just a bit to the side... yup, she hit my hipbone hard with her hand and had to go to church the next day with her hand a glorious purple bruise and try not to tell the truth about how beating me wasn't working so good anymore. Hard to hold herself as perfect Lutheran mom when the evidence doesn't support it. I started a crisis nursery for child abuse prevention because of my parents.
Parents don't know discipline anymore. I got spanked when in my childhood, so I was straight. The only thing that these young Mom's and Dad's do is "Go to your room and think about what you did". This dude is speaking the truth.
I got spanked twice! (at least that I still remember) Sure, I'm sure there was a few dozen one-swats on the butt when I was acting up in public, but actual spankings? Two. There didn't need to be a third! (that's why I tell anti-spankers, that spanking works!)
Mom could get creative. There were 5 of us. The youngest 3 were a set of twins and a brother only 18 months older so her patience with someone whining "I'm bored" Was nonexistent. If it was good weather you were handed a large brown paper bag,you know the ones before plastic, and told to fill it with pecans. There 2 pecan trees in the backyard and you couldnt come back in the house till the bag was filled. If the weather was bad there was always housework to be done. i never got bored.
Remember those wooden toy paddles with the rubber ball on the string? My Mom ripped that ball and string off and made an instant paddle, then reverted to the wooden spoon when the paddle broke. After that as I got older, my Dad cut a homemade paddle out of pine and then cut a hole in the end....FOR LESS WIND RESISTANCE WHEN SWINGING!
@@b.9629 sure did, father is a carpenter/mechanic and mom was tougher than nails. I had one warning on everything and then the second time it was an immediate backhand, paddle, or i got grabbed by the neck and dragged out of the room! It was good for me though in hindsight. I'm 34 now with a wife and 2 kids and I constantly reflect back on my childhood with situations i encounter with my own kids.
7 Star 150 My mom used to have those wooden rulers in every bag, vehicle, and room when I was a kid. I used to just lie about everything, now they tell me all the time that they know I would never lie to them. So I’m really grateful for all those whoopings as a kid. Lol
I remember getting one of those toy paddles every Easter from the bunny. Once that ball fell off all of our names would go on the paddle. We always had a good supply of them because there were three of us.
RUclips just randomly put you in my feed and I clicked on it and I couldn’t have been more happy with your comedy routines! I am 66 years old and this is the first time in many many years that I have laughed so hard and enjoyed such clean fun! I hope you never change!
@J Dial lol! My mom used things like a brush or a spatula. But once she used that pathetic belt we would always say noooo not the white belt! So she grabbed the white belt and we would fake pain. Lol I make fun of her now and tell her about how we tricked her
My mom had a leather suitcase strap that she'd whip me with when i was little...when we were packing to move from Missouri to Arkansas, i waited till she wasn't looking, took it out of the box it had been put in and threw it behind a door in our old empty house. She never saw it again, but it didn't help. They just found other things to whip us with, lol! Belts, switches, etc.....
My parents thought that I cried because it hurt. I cried because I was laughing when it didn’t! It never ever did and my parents just figured out last week. I’m wayyyy to old for spanking now haha
My folks are still alive. I tell my spanking stories to younger couples and they get quiet, and progressively more horrified. What a bunch of wusses millenials are.
@The Gooberment-Sucks That was one of the best things I've ever read. You've displayed the perfect amount of humility in that statement. I'm sure very few people, myself included, have ever thought about it that way.
People thinking hitting your children will teach them discipline . I think it’s wrong . My dad used to hit me all the time , i remember he slapped me once in my face ,near my ear and it got damaged . I was maybe 10 years old then . And once he kicked me repeatedly when I took the car without his permission at 17 and my rib got broken because of that ,And many other times but those the ones that were stuck with me . I don’t know if this was reason that made me struggle with depression . after years my dad gave me a large amount of money to finish my studies in Europe ,it was his way to ask for forgiveness since that was my dream. Now I work abroad ,I’m kind of happy with my life . Maybe I will always struggle with making relationship with men but that’s okay . Just wanted to say it’s not okay to slap or hurt you children ,there are other ways to discipline them
That's not disciplinary spanking or a swat on the butt. That's abuse. There's a difference. When disciplining, you don't beat someone, break anything, hit the face, etc. You make sure they know what they did, and usually it doesn't take many slaps on the rear to learn. And discipline is NEVER closed fist hitting or kicking.
Spatula, wooden spoon, shoe, frying pan, hand picked switch, ping pong paddle (compliments of 4th grade music teacher) belt, HOT WHEELS TRACK...im missing a few.
I grew up getting disciplined, and no one thought ill of it. My mom never raised her voice to us kids, and never used her hands to spank, she always used a spoon, or a belt; once she had us choose our own switch. We weren't defenceless, if we fought back we would be in more trouble. Being disciplined taught me that I had done something against my parents rules, and should have respect for them. It taught me to love them and to this day my mom is my best friend, and I am so glad she did not spare the rod.
@@k.h.307 I know the bible verse, i was born and raised in a Christian home and am my church piano player. I am not ignorant of the scriptures as most people think about me, i was just replying in lump of the ideas of everyone else. I am not here to judge and I prefer not to begin an argument in something we have no need to argue about.
Waiting was always the worst... "just spank me and get it over with!!!", but my parents would never spank us while they were mad, they needed that time to cool off... I didnt realize that until I had a kid if my own.
This statement you just made is what makes the difference between discipline and abuse. If you can't take a few seconds to breathe and think before you"spank" then your just acting out of anger and that is nothing except abuse and teaching your children to fear you. Children should never cower in fear from the ones given the blessing of protecting them. You were raised correctly in my opinion.
Thats why I am against spanking since there are other ways around it. A friend of mine got bitten by her son and he thought it was funny. So she took his arm and bit too. He cried of shook and because it hurt a bit and when she asked him if he would do that ever again ro someone he said "no mama I promise" and he actually stayed true to that. He also had a phase where he ould find it funny to smack our butts. So when he didnt stop after second time his Mom/my friend warned him I told him "I wont play with you abymore, I dont play with mean kids" since we were at the local pool that punishment hit him kinda hard because he loves playing with me. And if he behaves real vad he doesnt get to watch TV for around 1-4 days and depending what he did and how bad it was his sweets and desserts would get locked away from him too and tadaaa he gets the message. You dont have to be a mastermind to find other solutions which is why I am on your side.
Man I'm going to start doing this to adults. Someone acts out at work? Screw a write up. I'm just going to pull off my belt and go to town. If I time it right, I can probably make bail before lunch.
"Why don't he make any noise"🤣😭 I remember once my desperate brother suggested to attach a bell to my dad's neck while he's sleeping so that we can hear him waking up!🙈😂😂😂😂
OMG, people this is funny. Relax. There’s a difference between discipline spanking and abuse. And if you don’t know the difference then that’s sad. I was spanked, but I always knew my mom loved me. That’s the difference between people who are crying on here and people who get the joke. If you were spanked, but you knew at the end of the day your parent(s) loved you, then you get the joke and find it funny. If you had a different, traumatizing childhood, then unfortunately your parents may have left out the love part. I always knew why I was getting spanked and honestly, I can’t blame my mom. Sometimes words weren’t enough to get the point across 🤷♀️
Many parents manage to get the point across without ever laying a hand on their kids. And the way he talks about it I'm pretty sure his childhood was NOT about disciple spanking, wathever that's supposed to mean. He's still funny tough, nothing to say against that.
@@Wellensittichfreund Every kid is different. A doctor wouldn't prescribe the same medication for every illness. So you shouldn't have a blanket reasoning of don't ever spank or always spank.
There have been multiple studies showing that spanking leads to higher rates it depression and anxiety. I don't understand why hitting your child is still considered acceptable. Hitting someone cannot be done in love, the idea that it can is gross. And it leaves lasting consequences.
@@silg7262 I get what you're saying but there are some kids that need it. Once again there is no be all on this matter. It should be on a case by case scenario.
I relate to this so much. We grew up five boys and it was a gloriously unfolding chaos. So much has changed. But I was truly blessed to grow up then and this way. Relationships gave us life.
As a kid, of course I had wondered if "my mother loved me at all" and if she did "why would she spank me like that?" She would spank me and then would explain to me later that she had to do that because I was in the wrong and I need to learn my lessons and she loved me and it pained her to do that... And now that I'm older and understand things more, I appreciate what she did to me then so much now, it set me straight as a person. She taught me and made me realized a lot of things in life and I owe everything to her... Love you mama, I know you still watch over us from where you are in heaven right now.
I still remember the day us 3 kids were messing around at night with the corridor light beaming through a slightly open bedroom door. Dad must've had a tough day and was sleeping in the master bedroom right across the corridor. A few minutes in, the youngest of the three yelled for no reason whatsoever, making us all laugh, when all of a sudden, Dad entered the room and asked who the perpetrator was in a threatening, low voice. We remember that day as boxing day, because the perpetrator literally started seeing stars after a few thumps lol. Years later, this event still makes all 3 of us laugh.
I'm sorta sad for the people who normalize spanking because they faced it as children and defend it by saying "I turned out great!" There's no lesson taught in violence worth teaching. Teaching children that people with authority have the right to hurt you for your own good seems...off.
My son has ADHD I do too. When it was on my mom's last nerve she would hit and hit and hit. When his would get on my last nerve I asked him "can I have a time out please? Could you maybe go color or read for a little while?" Because after all he was not being "bad" just noisy and busy and doing "airplanes". He would say "sure mom!" And go find a space even sometimes a corner! I passed that on to several of his teachers who thought it was brilliant especially with some kind of visual screen so he was not distracting other kids. He did not feel embarrassed or demeaned or yelled at. The kids could focus with him in the classroom. Everyone benefited. I always got sent to the library.
My parents were giving time out before time out was a thing. When I got in trouble it was "go sit in your room and read a book". Years later they started getting mad when I'd put myself in time out. What started as a punishment turned into a hobby. Backfired, I suppose 😂
I fully understand the "almost touching". My sister would wind up her whole right arm like a helicopter and pretend to fly into me. This got so old that I FULLY TOUCHED HER and she never did it again. Oh, yes, she went running crying to mom but the tongue lashing I received was totally worth it. Keep up the funny childhood experience stories. I laugh until my sides ache and I listen to them over and over. WHY? I don't know......the stories are just funny.
Wow..this guy is hilarious and original. That was an era...in American history...Old fashion values. Those values matter. These things taught so many other things to survive life ahead. Cherish what you got. Not like today's world where nothin is enough for any body. Hats off. Hit like fellows!
I didn't get time out. I got grounded for months at a time. A month here 3 months there. My mom figure it out that I was Ungrounded 26 days out of the whole year. That means no talking on the phone no company no going to play at the neighbors. Most kids today don't even know what THE DANCE OF THE AGES IS. if your over 40 you know. That circle you dance in round and round watch the fingers don't need broke knuckles. Hahaha every pop I got I deserved. Yep no yelling at us either. They just appeared. I don't ever recall my mother yelling at me. She would advise you to do something or ask you. But you knew it best be done. I love my mother. Miss you so much Mom. Thanks for all the dances it helped mold me an taught me alot about respect of others.
As a former primary grade teacher, it was absolutely necessary to know how to control a roomful of young children, many of whom were poorly disciplined at home, and without, of course, spanking. Someday I am going to write a book but in the meantime I would simply recommend "1-2-3 Magic" by Thomas Phelan. There is a parents' version and a teachers' version and after a year of full time teaching and 8 years of subbing, I can testify it works. Of course I made a few modifications of my own, but basically, it really does work.
Truly a funny man without having to resort to swear words. Not that there is something wrong with that. But for many young comedians... that is all they have to rely on.
I'm 38 years old, an only child, and still have cold sweat, goosebumps, and crazy heart beat everytime I heard my mom call my name or knock (or threw things at) my door. She used to bit me to bleed/scar with everything stick-y she could grab for every littlest mistake I made (e.g. giggled with my cats, or left a single rice on my plate, or prayed too fast before going to bed). She doesn't beat me anymore since I'm 13 but still calling me names and made me feel ugly and guilty all the time. I used to wish I was Carrie. LoLoLoL I had to turn to comedy (especially self-deprecating jokes and sarcasm) to enjoy life. So grateful to be graced with a lil bit sense of humor and to be live in the internet era to be able to watch these comedians on RUclips. Thank you!!!
My parents never left marks on me, but the only thing their violence and emotional instability taught me that might makes right. Once I got older and physically strong enough to actually fight back, they learned that they didn't have a free punching bag anymore, and they hurt me less and less because they didn't want to get the same amount of violence that they gave me back. If they yelled, I yelled. If they slapped I slapped back, if they punched I punched back, and so on. It is sad when adults are so damaged they try to damage their children as a way to vent their anger and frustration about their own shitty daily lives. I hope you have found peace and good therapists whose style works with your needs :) Breaking the cycle and becoming better than our parents had the ability to is good.
@@Call-me-Al I think I learned to stop the cycle at the age of 24 (when I finally met the love of my life). We're divorced now after 12 years, so I'm a bit bitter again right now that I'm back living with my parents, but I have decided not to react to her anymore. I basically ignore her most of the time, but I still take care of them (they're in their 60's and 70's now, no income whatsoever), and the verbal abuse had become much, much, less...but the PTSD (I don't know if I entitled to call it that, maybe mild PTSD) still going strong, especially because I don't have my dear husband to hug and calm me down anymore. I hope you'll find your peace and happiness, too. As long as we could still laugh, I believe we're all gonna be okay. ❤
That's terrible, dear, and not the same as physical discipline. That was way beyond abuse. I don't understand how a parent could want their children to feel bad about themselves. I do everything possible to ensure the happiness and success of my daughter. Yes, hold on to humor! You're so not alone in your terror. Xoxo!
My dad used a belt, I can honestly say I never used a belt on any of my children. My voice is enough to get their attention, then I explain the way it is. It's weird, throughout their lives they've loved me, feared me, respected me, and loved me again, in that order. There's nothing funny about child abuse. Not judging, just saying.
Discipline doesn't necessarily mean punishment. My dad's discipline mean routine, stability, respect, responsibility, etc. He led by example and we also knew he sacrificed a lot for us.
My mom spanked me up until I was about 6 or 7 years old then I was deemed to old for that kinda punishment but that's besides the point I still remember the spanking i dont think I'd ever spank my child either i know 100 different ways to teach a child to behave also i think spanking is weird
You got spanked? You are soooooo LUCKY!!!! My dad was a psychologist. He would talk to us. And talk. And talk. And then charge us for it. There goes your allowance. And he wouldn't let us submit it to insurance.
I work with kids at a day care and it's easy to recognize the kids who get spanked a lot at home. They may behave when you are around but as soon as you walk away, they will let their anger out at younger, smaller kids. Also, some of them have a really hard time regulating their emotions or talking about their feelings and actions (because they don't learn to talk about things, they learn to end conflicts with violence). Some of the kids who don't get spanked struggle to understand when they've crossed a line and they will repeatedly ask for boundaries (actually, the kids who do get spanked to this as well - they push you and push you to figure out how you will react bc they expect you to hit them at some point, which is just sad imo) but in general, they are the more emotionally stable ones. Don't spank you kids.
Ok, so I don’t spank, yell, argue, plead, time-out, “go-to-your-room etc. I just give a look and turn around. At this point, one of two things happen, either preferred behavior IMMEDIATELY takes action before I get to my Verizon app or within 30 seconds somebody’s phone is shut off and I have all remotes/chargers locked in my closet until they are individually earned back. It rarely gets to that point anymore. My sons phone is off right now and he suddenly figured out how to brush his teeth and take a bath and speak respectfully lol
People like me, who grew up in an age without gadgets, would rather have been spanked, I would think. Otherwise, what "privileges" were there to take away? We had only three--food, shelter and clothing---and didn't want to lose any of those.
Got both spankings and time outs but our timeouts were to face the wall or corner with our nose touching the wall. Couldn't stand hearing the belt clank while waiting! Traumatized by that sound even when I wasn't in trouble and dad was getting ready.
This guy is really good. I love his sense of humor, the clean stand up and the joy of recollecting our past with a smile. We all who got spanked, look back at it with humor and fun... my friends and I used to compare our experiences as to who got the worst spanking for failing our exams or for the chaos that we created in our neighborhood! lol
I can not stop laughing! This is pretty much the story of my childhood. Lol. There’s 9 of us kids. Two bedrooms. We were lucky though, my dad’s knees cracked as he came up the stairs, so we had fair warning. Lol. Our favorite thing was jumping from the top bunk while doing a flip onto the double bed below. Good times. Oh incase you were wondering...Yes, we got spanked and no Time Out was not part of it. Lol. We all turned out happy, healthy and loved! God bless! Thanks for the laughs Fred!
Im a baby boomer who was told "Go to your room and don't come out until there's a smile on your face". I have been depressed and confused all my life. My sister was told to "Go to your room and count your blessings" but she didn't know what a blessing was. I think I was a sullen spoiled military brat, but I dont really remember. I mostly had a good time in my room playing and being alone, so it wasnt much of a punishment.
Every time I hear this I start laughing and I can’t stop and then it gets me thinking on who is the scariest person in my family cause....When I was little my mum would go to work and come home late so the only way my dad would get me and my sis to go to bed early was if he said “if you don’t go to bed I’ll wait till you Mum get home”...a sudden silence would creep and then 15 minutes later we are in bed and out like lightbulbs. But imma start listening to this guy, he is hysterical 😂
I tried to get my mother's attention by hitting her pregnant tummy while she was telling me not to interrupt adults talking. I was about 6. We had twin beds side by side in our room and I ran around them with my mum chasing me aiming to throw the hairbrush, so I ducked down and rolled under the 2 beds and back out the other side. Another time I was a teenager. Dad was always building MFI furniture which came with no backs in the wardrobes and were flimsy. I was being cheeky to my mum and refusing to do chores. She swiped me but I moved back quickly and knocked the wardrobe which went sideways so I caught it and held it up, shouting to Dad that his wardrobe was collapsing. He came up cursing MFI flat packed furniture, but never mind me and mum.
My mom NAMED her (thick, leather) spanking belt. My father made that sacrifice and donated it for her use while he was at work. The belt's name was Aldo; and over 45 years ago, I hid Aldo in the wall when a workman opened it to do some work on our water pipes. I bet it's still there.
I used to have to wait. That was the worst part of the punishment. I'm glad my father did it though. I needed it and it helped shape me into a proper man.
It depends how your abused I guess. I lived this life growing up as well but I got hit for the stupidest mistakes. I now have really bad anxiety that I’m trying to overcome.
LMAO that ninja movement is necessary for my son bc it shows you're everywhere and see all! Then I have him walk to me while I'm sitting, get forehead to forehead, and explain with a sternly calm tone why I gave instructions to follow. Disappointing me gets him to break down so he learns from that.
So true. I'm the younger brother, when my sister and I got in trouble she would get it first while I had to hear it in the next room. The waiting for the spanking was worse than the spanking itself.
Steve Harloha So the time to reflect by yourself was worst that the physical assault? That’s why some parents just skips the beating part, time out is starving a social animal of its ability to socialize that’s a why better way to influence behavior.
I only received one spanking from my father. I was 18 months old and *STILL* remember it! Mom was slap happy but *never hit us when Dad was around.* Mom got creative with discipline that Dad was aware of. In third grade Mom boxed up *ALL* of my books and stored them in the attic. *MY* response? I read Mom's books. The Exorcist. The Godfather. Others as well. But my time reading children's books was *done with FOREVER!*
Looking back at it, I'm glad my parents laid hands on me and my siblings. We learned respect, something a lot of kids today dont got and which can be solved with a beautifully timed backhand to the face.
That's fear. I respect my parents because they worked hard to earn that respect. The moment they last hands on my that respect is gone. I have no respect for those who feel that physical abuse is discipline.
@@silg7262 Well I'm sorry you feel that way, but if you look at today's generation of disrespectful fuckheads, you will see the result of your line of thinking. Discipline through physical punishment is a totally different concept than abuse.
@@patriottomyself I am part the the generation you are calling a bunch of fuckheads and you are wrong about us. If you're having problems with disrespect from teenagers, maybe try doing something to earn that respect. Or not right off the bat disrespecting them.
Those metal strainer spoons with the hole oh lawdy, that wooden spoon stung with a vengeance, fly swatters, got spanked with a Disneyland lightsaber one time lol, I fear for my children I walk completely silent no matter what I walk on
the silent stare was always the scariest lol
Yeah because you knew what was coming after the stare.
Yes indeed!
We'd be lucky if all we got was the stare 😄
My father was a Forest Ranger (Basically one of the guys that would fight forest fires and parachute out of the slurry bomber planes to fight the blaze.) and I guess having twin boys was tough because what that man just described above was basically the word for word of how my father handled bad behavior in our house.
Except he didn't use a belt, having slung chainsaws for 15+ years on fire rotation his hands were like calloused iron and dear lord did they sting. You could always tell when you were in deep sh*t because his normally booming voice would get low and deliberate "Go. To. The. Bedroom. Now."
I still remember his favorite turn of phrase to this day "This isn't a Democracy son, it's a benevolent Monarchy."
Well, sir, I hope these hands blessed you.
How'd he become a forest ranger?
Your dad seem like a fun guy even tho he passed out whopping
To be fair that is an excellent turn of phrase
@@saqeebkhan3668 My grandfather was a machinist with Gates Rubber and when he helped my father get ready to go off to college he basically told him 'Get a job that can provide for yourself and your family it doesn't matter if it's glittery just so long as you put food on the table.' So my father went into forestry because in those days honest hard work paid well.
I just love the"hibiscus" shirt his wife bought him for his "job"!!🐙
Thank God he didn't combine the Hibiscus shirt with a Salmon shawl
@@kittylurks qq
@@kittylurks Exactly. My wife thought me salmon clashes with hibiscus
It looks good on him ! 👚
I now live that dream......But with Tiek over shoes......Death is coming….Sweet, Sweet death.
"Fetch me a stick!" my father would command. "And you better pick a good one or I'LL pick it myself."
Apparently, my granddad would tell that to my mom and my uncle 😂😂
My mom didn't want us to even have that choice. You got what was within reach and if you're lucky, it wasn't made of stone. xD
yesss!
Then there's the choice. Thick ,which will break something . Or thin which will sting and probably scar. Decision learning atan early age.
Yep that's how my dad was go get a switch,& it better be a good size one or he'd get a bigger one then he went to a razor strap
Mom would spank us but the scariest words ever spoken.. "Wait till you're dad gets home."
GSD fan I’m still a kid and that’s how it is 😂
Ikr lol
Can't use that one anymore...
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On God and you have to make it look like you didn't. And turn on genius and speed to just think which ones are bigger.
Well behaved, well disciplined children grow up to be down to Earth, happy, successful adults. The key is consistency, repetition and routine.
I'm neither successful nor happy. Just one of the exceptions I guess. But, I agree about consistency, repetition and routine.
There have been multiple studies showing the children who are given physical discipline have higher rates for anxiety and depression. I don't know about you, but that's not something I would consider to be down to earth and happy.
@@silg7262 yeah, but the time out generation is suffering more depression, anxiety, suicide, etc. And rates are increasing in every successive generation since.
@@NickRoman time to redefine successful. Hint: don't listen to the mainstream culture, cuz it's not money, power or fame.
Help others. You'll find your happy. 😊
@@workin4alivin585 Our generation in the whole yes. But studies looking specifically at discipline methods show that children who are spanked have higher levels of anxiety then those who are disciplined using less physical methods. My generation is more depressed because of other reasons.
I'm 38.... yet grateful for the discipline & love I received as a child. It's made me a better woman.
Ms Kay AMEN!
Absolutely agreed.
Same!
- Adam's wife
Ms Kay Same!!
That's what an abusive victim thinks. You're not ok
The lights would come on and your dad would just appear... your dad was the Undertaker! Lol
Same thought, heard the entrance music in my head😂👍
I do that to my son now lol
Lol
😂😂😂
Had a brother who - while waiting for the spanking - added 4-6 layers of extra underwear. The resulting sound was more like a thud than a smack. Still, parents didn't think too much of it until they noticed a mix of laughter in with his fake crying.... My dad didn't acknowledge this in any way, except to then make the ensuing spankings hard enough for him to feel them. The laughing stopped immediately. Needless to say such antics did not continue. Brother is a fine gentleman and valuable member of society to this day.
Dad wasn't playin no games lol. Good stuff
My dad doesn’t spank me but my mum has😅
TP worked well!
While waiting for my whooping I would add extra layers of clothes..but mama wasn't dumb.
I did that, once. She didn't catch me, so then I felt like I was cheating and didn't do it anymore. That wasn't too long before I was too old to spank.
Rolling up in the blanket and stuffing in pillows didn't help, either. Lol!
LOL
Bwaahaahaaa!
figured is turned just a bit to the side... yup, she hit my hipbone hard with her hand and had to go to church the next day with her hand a glorious purple bruise and try not to tell the truth about how beating me wasn't working so good anymore. Hard to hold herself as perfect Lutheran mom when the evidence doesn't support it. I started a crisis nursery for child abuse prevention because of my parents.
My mom always said, "Don't lie to me cause I'll find out and then you'll REALLY be in trouble"
You know what? I believed her! LOL 😄
I laughed so freaking hard at this one. thank you.
Parents don't know discipline anymore. I got spanked when in my childhood, so I was straight. The only thing that these young Mom's and Dad's do is "Go to your room and think about what you did". This dude is speaking the truth.
Same dude.
I got spanked so could you give me an age range of kids that dont get spanked?
I got spanked twice! (at least that I still remember) Sure, I'm sure there was a few dozen one-swats on the butt when I was acting up in public, but actual spankings? Two.
There didn't need to be a third!
(that's why I tell anti-spankers, that spanking works!)
@CazMatazz So you say!
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Child abuse is not disciple. Sincerely, someone raised with "disciple" who sure as hell did not turn out okay
The almost touch😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Mom could get creative. There were 5 of us. The youngest 3 were a set of twins and a brother only 18 months older so her patience with someone whining "I'm bored"
Was nonexistent. If it was good weather you were handed a large brown paper bag,you know the ones before plastic, and told to fill it with pecans. There 2 pecan trees in the backyard and you couldnt come back in the house till the bag was filled. If the weather was bad there was always housework to be done. i never got bored.
Remember those wooden toy paddles with the rubber ball on the string? My Mom ripped that ball and string off and made an instant paddle, then reverted to the wooden spoon when the paddle broke. After that as I got older, my Dad cut a homemade paddle out of pine and then cut a hole in the end....FOR LESS WIND RESISTANCE WHEN SWINGING!
7 Star 150 it sounds like you came fro a very resourceful family! Lol
@@b.9629 sure did, father is a carpenter/mechanic and mom was tougher than nails. I had one warning on everything and then the second time it was an immediate backhand, paddle, or i got grabbed by the neck and dragged out of the room! It was good for me though in hindsight. I'm 34 now with a wife and 2 kids and I constantly reflect back on my childhood with situations i encounter with my own kids.
7 Star 150 My mom used to have those wooden rulers in every bag, vehicle, and room when I was a kid. I used to just lie about everything, now they tell me all the time that they know I would never lie to them. So I’m really grateful for all those whoopings as a kid. Lol
😂😂😂did he explain the whole aerodynamics to you
I remember getting one of those toy paddles every Easter from the bunny. Once that ball fell off all of our names would go on the paddle. We always had a good supply of them because there were three of us.
RUclips just randomly put you in my feed and I clicked on it and I couldn’t have been more happy with your comedy routines! I am 66 years old and this is the first time in many many years that I have laughed so hard and enjoyed such clean fun! I hope you never change!
We tricked my mom into thinking her weakest belt was the worst and then would laugh when she was done spanking and had left the room.
That’s actually pretty smart
@J Dial lol! My mom used things like a brush or a spatula. But once she used that pathetic belt we would always say noooo not the white belt! So she grabbed the white belt and we would fake pain. Lol I make fun of her now and tell her about how we tricked her
My mom had a leather suitcase strap that she'd whip me with when i was little...when we were packing to move from Missouri to Arkansas, i waited till she wasn't looking, took it out of the box it had been put in and threw it behind a door in our old empty house. She never saw it again, but it didn't help. They just found other things to whip us with, lol! Belts, switches, etc.....
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My parents thought that I cried because it hurt. I cried because I was laughing when it didn’t! It never ever did and my parents just figured out last week. I’m wayyyy to old for spanking now haha
I earned every spanking I ever got. I sure miss my folks.
I'm lucky my folks still live. Yes, I was raised old school and I wouldn't wanted any other way, except for me being less trouble
My folks are still alive. I tell my spanking stories to younger couples and they get quiet, and progressively more horrified. What a bunch of wusses millenials are.
@The Gooberment-Sucks That was one of the best things I've ever read. You've displayed the perfect amount of humility in that statement. I'm sure very few people, myself included, have ever thought about it that way.
Amen Brother. Raising my kids the same way. Wish they could see the grandkids & tell stories about when I was the same age...man, I miss them.
That was the most adorable comment! 🤗
Fred you are my favourite comedian. Thank you for make the traumatizing parts of my childhood FUNNY this late in my life. True genius!
😂😂😂we spanked ourselves!!!
We already took care of it
I tried it and it never worked.
My siblings tried that. Didn’t work.
Didn't have Nintendo, we just poured salt on snails! (When I was your age)
I hit my siblings till they turn red they do it to me too :)
People thinking hitting your children will teach them discipline . I think it’s wrong . My dad used to hit me all the time , i remember he slapped me once in my face ,near my ear and it got damaged . I was maybe 10 years old then . And once he kicked me repeatedly when I took the car without his permission at 17 and my rib got broken because of that ,And many other times but those the ones that were stuck with me .
I don’t know if this was reason that made me struggle with depression .
after years my dad gave me a large amount of money to finish my studies in Europe ,it was his way to ask for forgiveness since that was my dream.
Now I work abroad ,I’m kind of happy with my life . Maybe I will always struggle with making relationship with men but that’s okay .
Just wanted to say it’s not okay to slap or hurt you children ,there are other ways to discipline them
That's not disciplinary spanking or a swat on the butt. That's abuse. There's a difference.
When disciplining, you don't beat someone, break anything, hit the face, etc. You make sure they know what they did, and usually it doesn't take many slaps on the rear to learn. And discipline is NEVER closed fist hitting or kicking.
Spatula, wooden spoon, shoe, frying pan, hand picked switch, ping pong paddle (compliments of 4th grade music teacher) belt, HOT WHEELS TRACK...im missing a few.
I grew up getting disciplined, and no one thought ill of it. My mom never raised her voice to us kids, and never used her hands to spank, she always used a spoon, or a belt; once she had us choose our own switch. We weren't defenceless, if we fought back we would be in more trouble.
Being disciplined taught me that I had done something against my parents rules, and should have respect for them. It taught me to love them and to this day my mom is my best friend, and I am so glad she did not spare the rod.
You misconstrue that Bible verse, but glad things worked out well for you.
@@k.h.307 I know the bible verse, i was born and raised in a Christian home and am my church piano player. I am not ignorant of the scriptures as most people think about me, i was just replying in lump of the ideas of everyone else.
I am not here to judge and I prefer not to begin an argument in something we have no need to argue about.
Waiting was always the worst... "just spank me and get it over with!!!", but my parents would never spank us while they were mad, they needed that time to cool off... I didnt realize that until I had a kid if my own.
This statement you just made is what makes the difference between discipline and abuse. If you can't take a few seconds to breathe and think before you"spank" then your just acting out of anger and that is nothing except abuse and teaching your children to fear you. Children should never cower in fear from the ones given the blessing of protecting them. You were raised correctly in my opinion.
The sad part about this for me, my dad was like that in a bad way i'm still traumatized by my childhood.
Thats why I am against spanking since there are other ways around it. A friend of mine got bitten by her son and he thought it was funny. So she took his arm and bit too. He cried of shook and because it hurt a bit and when she asked him if he would do that ever again ro someone he said "no mama I promise" and he actually stayed true to that. He also had a phase where he ould find it funny to smack our butts. So when he didnt stop after second time his Mom/my friend warned him I told him "I wont play with you abymore, I dont play with mean kids" since we were at the local pool that punishment hit him kinda hard because he loves playing with me. And if he behaves real vad he doesnt get to watch TV for around 1-4 days and depending what he did and how bad it was his sweets and desserts would get locked away from him too and tadaaa he gets the message. You dont have to be a mastermind to find other solutions which is why I am on your side.
Me too...only it was step father...I got the buckle of the belt...I had a bad childhood!!!!
Man I'm going to start doing this to adults. Someone acts out at work? Screw a write up. I'm just going to pull off my belt and go to town. If I time it right, I can probably make bail before lunch.
"Why don't he make any noise"🤣😭
I remember once my desperate brother suggested to attach a bell to my dad's neck while he's sleeping so that we can hear him waking up!🙈😂😂😂😂
OMG, people this is funny. Relax. There’s a difference between discipline spanking and abuse. And if you don’t know the difference then that’s sad. I was spanked, but I always knew my mom loved me. That’s the difference between people who are crying on here and people who get the joke. If you were spanked, but you knew at the end of the day your parent(s) loved you, then you get the joke and find it funny. If you had a different, traumatizing childhood, then unfortunately your parents may have left out the love part. I always knew why I was getting spanked and honestly, I can’t blame my mom. Sometimes words weren’t enough to get the point across 🤷♀️
Many parents manage to get the point across without ever laying a hand on their kids. And the way he talks about it I'm pretty sure his childhood was NOT about disciple spanking, wathever that's supposed to mean. He's still funny tough, nothing to say against that.
@@Wellensittichfreund Every kid is different. A doctor wouldn't prescribe the same medication for every illness. So you shouldn't have a blanket reasoning of don't ever spank or always spank.
ahaha i dont think my sisters ever got spanked.. they always blamed us boys ahahah
There have been multiple studies showing that spanking leads to higher rates it depression and anxiety.
I don't understand why hitting your child is still considered acceptable. Hitting someone cannot be done in love, the idea that it can is gross. And it leaves lasting consequences.
@@silg7262 I get what you're saying but there are some kids that need it. Once again there is no be all on this matter. It should be on a case by case scenario.
"Well I think this is going to hurt isn't it" 😂😂😂🤣🤣 lol!!. "We already took care of it" best joke ever clean and family friendly 👍👍.
I relate to this so much. We grew up five boys and it was a gloriously unfolding chaos. So much has changed. But I was truly blessed to grow up then and this way. Relationships gave us life.
Hahah this guy is genuinely funny. Could relate
As a kid, of course I had wondered if "my mother loved me at all" and if she did "why would she spank me like that?"
She would spank me and then would explain to me later that she had to do that because I was in the wrong and I need to learn my lessons and she loved me and it pained her to do that...
And now that I'm older and understand things more, I appreciate what she did to me then so much now, it set me straight as a person. She taught me and made me realized a lot of things in life and I owe everything to her...
Love you mama, I know you still watch over us from where you are in heaven right now.
I still remember the day us 3 kids were messing around at night with the corridor light beaming through a slightly open bedroom door. Dad must've had a tough day and was sleeping in the master bedroom right across the corridor.
A few minutes in, the youngest of the three yelled for no reason whatsoever, making us all laugh, when all of a sudden, Dad entered the room and asked who the perpetrator was in a threatening, low voice.
We remember that day as boxing day, because the perpetrator literally started seeing stars after a few thumps lol. Years later, this event still makes all 3 of us laugh.
I'm sorta sad for the people who normalize spanking because they faced it as children and defend it by saying "I turned out great!" There's no lesson taught in violence worth teaching. Teaching children that people with authority have the right to hurt you for your own good seems...off.
My son has ADHD I do too. When it was on my mom's last nerve she would hit and hit and hit. When his would get on my last nerve I asked him "can I have a time out please? Could you maybe go color or read for a little while?" Because after all he was not being "bad" just noisy and busy and doing "airplanes". He would say "sure mom!" And go find a space even sometimes a corner! I passed that on to several of his teachers who thought it was brilliant especially with some kind of visual screen so he was not distracting other kids. He did not feel embarrassed or demeaned or yelled at. The kids could focus with him in the classroom. Everyone benefited. I always got sent to the library.
I do not recommend watching this while eating cereal.
I almost died. In a good way.
Still don’t recommend.
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hahahahaha. XD
How about not watching while eating noodles 😄😄😄😄😂
Ninja dad!
My parents were giving time out before time out was a thing. When I got in trouble it was "go sit in your room and read a book". Years later they started getting mad when I'd put myself in time out. What started as a punishment turned into a hobby. Backfired, I suppose 😂
I fully understand the "almost touching". My sister would wind up her whole right arm like a helicopter and pretend to fly into me. This got so old that I FULLY TOUCHED HER and she never did it again. Oh, yes, she went running crying to mom but the tongue lashing I received was totally worth it. Keep up the funny childhood experience stories. I laugh until my sides ache and I listen to them over and over. WHY? I don't know......the stories are just funny.
This is probably the most I've ever laughed in my life. 😂😂😂
Watch women know things.hilarious
Wow..this guy is hilarious and original. That was an era...in American history...Old fashion values. Those values matter. These things taught so many other things to survive life ahead. Cherish what you got. Not like today's world where nothin is enough for any body. Hats off. Hit like fellows!
Amen! Love his take on Child Discipline or lack there of.
My mom was the one who spanked me when I was little. My dad would just yell.
I have never heard of Fred Klett, this guy is Hysterical !!
I didn't get time out. I got grounded for months at a time. A month here 3 months there. My mom figure it out that I was Ungrounded 26 days out of the whole year. That means no talking on the phone no company no going to play at the neighbors. Most kids today don't even know what THE DANCE OF THE AGES IS. if your over 40 you know. That circle you dance in round and round watch the fingers don't need broke knuckles. Hahaha every pop I got I deserved. Yep no yelling at us either. They just appeared. I don't ever recall my mother yelling at me. She would advise you to do something or ask you. But you knew it best be done. I love my mother. Miss you so much Mom. Thanks for all the dances it helped mold me an taught me alot about respect of others.
As a former primary grade teacher, it was absolutely necessary to know how to control a roomful of young children, many of whom were poorly disciplined at home, and without, of course, spanking. Someday I am going to write a book but in the meantime I would simply recommend "1-2-3 Magic" by Thomas Phelan. There is a parents' version and a teachers' version and after a year of full time teaching and 8 years of subbing, I can testify it works. Of course I made a few modifications of my own, but basically, it really does work.
Hands down, Fred is the funniest guy on Dry Bar Comedy.
WAIT till your father gets home! my mom loved to say this! lol
"My father was amazing at discipline"
Me: *Naptime~*
Truly a funny man without having to resort to swear words. Not that there is something wrong with that. But for many young comedians... that is all they have to rely on.
I'm 38 years old, an only child, and still have cold sweat, goosebumps, and crazy heart beat everytime I heard my mom call my name or knock (or threw things at) my door. She used to bit me to bleed/scar with everything stick-y she could grab for every littlest mistake I made (e.g. giggled with my cats, or left a single rice on my plate, or prayed too fast before going to bed). She doesn't beat me anymore since I'm 13 but still calling me names and made me feel ugly and guilty all the time. I used to wish I was Carrie. LoLoLoL
I had to turn to comedy (especially self-deprecating jokes and sarcasm) to enjoy life. So grateful to be graced with a lil bit sense of humor and to be live in the internet era to be able to watch these comedians on RUclips. Thank you!!!
My parents never left marks on me, but the only thing their violence and emotional instability taught me that might makes right. Once I got older and physically strong enough to actually fight back, they learned that they didn't have a free punching bag anymore, and they hurt me less and less because they didn't want to get the same amount of violence that they gave me back. If they yelled, I yelled. If they slapped I slapped back, if they punched I punched back, and so on. It is sad when adults are so damaged they try to damage their children as a way to vent their anger and frustration about their own shitty daily lives. I hope you have found peace and good therapists whose style works with your needs :) Breaking the cycle and becoming better than our parents had the ability to is good.
I pray yall feel better one day.
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I think I learned to stop the cycle at the age of 24 (when I finally met the love of my life). We're divorced now after 12 years, so I'm a bit bitter again right now that I'm back living with my parents, but I have decided not to react to her anymore. I basically ignore her most of the time, but I still take care of them (they're in their 60's and 70's now, no income whatsoever), and the verbal abuse had become much, much, less...but the PTSD (I don't know if I entitled to call it that, maybe mild PTSD) still going strong, especially because I don't have my dear husband to hug and calm me down anymore. I hope you'll find your peace and happiness, too. As long as we could still laugh, I believe we're all gonna be okay. ❤
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Thank you so much for your pray, you're such a sweetheart. ❤ I hope you always have happiness and laughter in your life, too...
That's terrible, dear, and not the same as physical discipline. That was way beyond abuse. I don't understand how a parent could want their children to feel bad about themselves. I do everything possible to ensure the happiness and success of my daughter. Yes, hold on to humor! You're so not alone in your terror. Xoxo!
Fred makes my day! Watched over and over to cheer me up!
This guy is genuinely great.
As a momma of 5 this is so accurate. This had me rolling
*We had to WAIT TO BE SPANKED!*
Fred is so funny It’s so sad he hasn’t done many many more comedy shows and posted them !!!
My dad used a belt, I can honestly say I never used a belt on any of my children. My voice is enough to get their attention, then I explain the way it is. It's weird, throughout their lives they've loved me, feared me, respected me, and loved me again, in that order. There's nothing funny about child abuse. Not judging, just saying.
Discipline doesn't necessarily mean punishment. My dad's discipline mean routine, stability, respect, responsibility, etc. He led by example and we also knew he sacrificed a lot for us.
@@janicep1508 i agree with you.
My mom spanked me up until I was about 6 or 7 years old then I was deemed to old for that kinda punishment but that's besides the point I still remember the spanking i dont think I'd ever spank my child either i know 100 different ways to teach a child to behave also i think spanking is weird
I just lived his childhood. I'm tramatized now. Lol.
Dachdog try living it. 🤦♀️. Builds character.
I lived it too. No trauma.
I once thought his childhood and mine are the norm, then I met the one spoiled brat.
J This
Are you part of the mass sheep of overly-sensitives? I did too, no trauma. Plenty of belts
You got spanked? You are soooooo LUCKY!!!! My dad was a psychologist. He would talk to us.
And talk.
And talk.
And then charge us for it.
There goes your allowance.
And he wouldn't let us submit it to insurance.
Angelle Guyette that's hysterical!
He is sooo great! I am so sad that his RUclips channel hasn’t been updated
Prairie dogs looking for the eagle! Brilliant!
I work with kids at a day care and it's easy to recognize the kids who get spanked a lot at home. They may behave when you are around but as soon as you walk away, they will let their anger out at younger, smaller kids. Also, some of them have a really hard time regulating their emotions or talking about their feelings and actions (because they don't learn to talk about things, they learn to end conflicts with violence). Some of the kids who don't get spanked struggle to understand when they've crossed a line and they will repeatedly ask for boundaries (actually, the kids who do get spanked to this as well - they push you and push you to figure out how you will react bc they expect you to hit them at some point, which is just sad imo) but in general, they are the more emotionally stable ones. Don't spank you kids.
LOL. You forgot to say that new parents buy a decorative chairs for time out! 😂😂😂
Well, to be fair, some people have different time out versions. For our kids, it's the corner/a chair away from everyone with no electronics.
Ok, so I don’t spank, yell, argue, plead, time-out, “go-to-your-room etc. I just give a look and turn around. At this point, one of two things happen, either preferred behavior IMMEDIATELY takes action before I get to my Verizon app or within 30 seconds somebody’s phone is shut off and I have all remotes/chargers locked in my closet until they are individually earned back. It rarely gets to that point anymore.
My sons phone is off right now and he suddenly figured out how to brush his teeth and take a bath and speak respectfully lol
People like me, who grew up in an age without gadgets, would rather have been spanked, I would think. Otherwise, what "privileges" were there to take away? We had only three--food, shelter and clothing---and didn't want to lose any of those.
Adorable! I love it! Omigosh, it brought back memories I hadn't thought about in decades!
Got both spankings and time outs but our timeouts were to face the wall or corner with our nose touching the wall.
Couldn't stand hearing the belt clank while waiting! Traumatized by that sound even when I wasn't in trouble and dad was getting ready.
Same
This guy is really good. I love his sense of humor, the clean stand up and the joy of recollecting our past with a smile.
We all who got spanked, look back at it with humor and fun... my friends and I used to compare our experiences as to who got the worst spanking for failing our exams or for the chaos that we created in our neighborhood! lol
I can not stop laughing! This is pretty much the story of my childhood. Lol. There’s 9 of us kids. Two bedrooms. We were lucky though, my dad’s knees cracked as he came up the stairs, so we had fair warning. Lol. Our favorite thing was jumping from the top bunk while doing a flip onto the double bed below. Good times. Oh incase you were wondering...Yes, we got spanked and no Time Out was not part of it. Lol. We all turned out happy, healthy and loved! God bless! Thanks for the laughs Fred!
Im a baby boomer who was told "Go to your room and don't come out until there's a smile on your face". I have been depressed and confused all my life. My sister was told to "Go to your room and count your blessings" but she didn't know what a blessing was. I think I was a sullen spoiled military brat, but I dont really remember. I mostly had a good time in my room playing and being alone, so it wasnt much of a punishment.
And today's kids don't know the meaning of "No". They have never heard that word.
And if they do, they practically end up with PTSD.
I’m 14 and have 2 brothers and he described my life lol
Every time I hear this I start laughing and I can’t stop and then it gets me thinking on who is the scariest person in my family cause....When I was little my mum would go to work and come home late so the only way my dad would get me and my sis to go to bed early was if he said “if you don’t go to bed I’ll wait till you Mum get home”...a sudden silence would creep and then 15 minutes later we are in bed and out like lightbulbs. But imma start listening to this guy, he is hysterical 😂
He has perfect delivery. I love his video’s
Watch the full version of this video. Aloha from Honolulu, Hawaii
I tried to get my mother's attention by hitting her pregnant tummy while she was telling me not to interrupt adults talking. I was about 6. We had twin beds side by side in our room and I ran around them with my mum chasing me aiming to throw the hairbrush, so I ducked down and rolled under the 2 beds and back out the other side.
Another time I was a teenager. Dad was always building MFI furniture which came with no backs in the wardrobes and were flimsy. I was being cheeky to my mum and refusing to do chores. She swiped me but I moved back quickly and knocked the wardrobe which went sideways so I caught it and held it up, shouting to Dad that his wardrobe was collapsing. He came up cursing MFI flat packed furniture, but never mind me and mum.
😂😂😂😂😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽you didn't look funny at first in the thumbnail but you WERE VERY FUNNY!!!!
Getting spanked as a child, horrible.
Getting spanked as an adult, oh my.
Go on....
That’s because it’s consensual as an adult.
I had to wait to be spanked too! It's the first time I'm hearing about someone else. I feel your pain bro. It works though!
I love this 😂😂 brings back good memories of my childhood
This guy made me cry! Perfect
I laughed SO HARD! Funniest clip I’ve seen all day!
My mom NAMED her (thick, leather) spanking belt. My father made that sacrifice and donated it for her use while he was at work. The belt's name was Aldo; and over 45 years ago, I hid Aldo in the wall when a workman opened it to do some work on our water pipes. I bet it's still there.
okay this one has definitely got to be my favorite!!
Words that scared me were when my mom said, "Wait until I get that wooden spoon!"
🐼 Big Bear Hugs from a 67 yr old grandma in Kirby, Texas, USA 🐼..
I used to have to wait. That was the worst part of the punishment. I'm glad my father did it though. I needed it and it helped shape me into a proper man.
It depends how your abused I guess. I lived this life growing up as well but I got hit for the stupidest mistakes. I now have really bad anxiety that I’m trying to overcome.
The most realistic things about discipline I’ve heard. That’s my childhood right there.
I just love this guy!!!
LMAO that ninja movement is necessary for my son bc it shows you're everywhere and see all! Then I have him walk to me while I'm sitting, get forehead to forehead, and explain with a sternly calm tone why I gave instructions to follow. Disappointing me gets him to break down so he learns from that.
My dad broke when he finished whatching this. hilarious...Good job
So true. I'm the younger brother, when my sister and I got in trouble she would get it first while I had to hear it in the next room. The waiting for the spanking was worse than the spanking itself.
Steve Harloha
So the time to reflect by yourself was worst that the physical assault? That’s why some parents just skips the beating part, time out is starving a social animal of its ability to socialize that’s a why better way to influence behavior.
@@Cangeltibon yes but skipping the beating part let's the kids know there's nothing to fear, so the time out really does zero discipline.
@@Harloha. shows they can get away without consecuences.
I think when you are abused by your parents it is difficult to express the trams that causes...
I only received one spanking from my father. I was 18 months old and *STILL* remember it! Mom was slap happy but *never hit us when Dad was around.* Mom got creative with discipline that Dad was aware of. In third grade Mom boxed up *ALL* of my books and stored them in the attic. *MY* response? I read Mom's books. The Exorcist. The Godfather. Others as well. But my time reading children's books was *done with FOREVER!*
I love his yell voice😅... I wish he was my dad. I would try to make trouble just to get yelled at.🤣🤣🤣
Looking back at it, I'm glad my parents laid hands on me and my siblings. We learned respect, something a lot of kids today dont got and which can be solved with a beautifully timed backhand to the face.
That's fear. I respect my parents because they worked hard to earn that respect. The moment they last hands on my that respect is gone. I have no respect for those who feel that physical abuse is discipline.
@@silg7262 Well I'm sorry you feel that way, but if you look at today's generation of disrespectful fuckheads, you will see the result of your line of thinking. Discipline through physical punishment is a totally different concept than abuse.
@@patriottomyself I am part the the generation you are calling a bunch of fuckheads and you are wrong about us. If you're having problems with disrespect from teenagers, maybe try doing something to earn that respect. Or not right off the bat disrespecting them.
@@patriottomyself also, it is abuse when it's known to have lasting physiological consequences.
Those metal strainer spoons with the hole oh lawdy, that wooden spoon stung with a vengeance, fly swatters, got spanked with a Disneyland lightsaber one time lol, I fear for my children I walk completely silent no matter what I walk on
You got the fly swatter, too. Did the plastik part fell off and still got spanked? 😰
Sydney Moore A razor strap and a section of Hot Wheels track were my worst instruments of instruction, even though a buggy whip was a close third.
Thin wooden dowels
I was spanked with a lightsaber, too, lol, it was because I abused my brother one day with a lightsaber. We were little.
OMG Thanks for the trip down memory lane. ..lmfaol 🖒🖒🖒🖒🖒🖒🖒🖒🖒🖒