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  • Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024

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  • @walekengwira3468
    @walekengwira3468 22 дня назад +12

    Lennie
    Am from Africa I know what African men do when they get on top
    Girl go on
    You’re a lady with integrity..you deserve better…live your life with no regrets

  • @bonfacewasike2764
    @bonfacewasike2764 2 месяца назад +274

    Maturity of highest order. Am a 57 year old Kenyan man who cannot tolerate being taken advantage of. Now that you have aired your views, kindly don't allow it to pull you down. You have a future that needs focus to be accomplished. I wish you well girl.

    • @cedarmcdaniels1538
      @cedarmcdaniels1538 2 месяца назад +24

      Thank you for speaking up for her.

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +19

      Thank you so much, we appreciate your kind words and support .

    • @bev8441
      @bev8441 2 месяца назад +33

      I’m sorry, but as per her video, she said nothing more than she wanted a seperation. They both have done each other wrong. Vin didn’t say anything bad about her more than the banking info was changed and she had changed all the passwords. Is it true or not I don’t know, because she never defended herself on such. She left her subscribers to insinuate that she was an abused woman by Vin. Now if Vin physically abused Leni it is absolutely unacceptable and in this case she was 100% right to leave him. In the other hand if he did not it is absolutely wrong to give your subscribers the impression he did.

    • @maxinehall5382
      @maxinehall5382 2 месяца назад +10

      Wow, I thank you for supporting our leni❤❤❤

    • @ItsOnlyJunie
      @ItsOnlyJunie 2 месяца назад +9

      Thanks for your encouragement & support for Leni 🙏🏽

  • @Inge508
    @Inge508 Месяц назад +61

    Almost 11k Leni! Imagine a crowd of 11000 people rooting for you and wishing you well! That’s amazing 🤩 🎉🎉🎉❤

    • @Leniweise
      @Leniweise  Месяц назад +8

      Inge you’re really the best💛

  • @user-rz1so8kl3n
    @user-rz1so8kl3n Месяц назад +32

    Hi Leni we are all missing you. Please forget about all the negative people and start sharing your beautiful videos of all those beautiful places you visited and the mouth watering dishes you prepared. Come on Leni you are almost at 11K. Please continue sharing good and uplifting content on your channel.

  • @michaeldouglas2914
    @michaeldouglas2914 2 месяца назад +69

    While Leni & Vinn business is not my business.. All I can say, I respect Leni I first came across the channel and my jaw dropped to the ground when discovered you chose to love a man who had nothing...
    You chose to live in a slum, not by choice but led by love.. Not many women from a wealthy 1st world country would give up so much comfort for the sake of love..
    As you rightly said LOVE alone cannot solve the current issues.. I don't know you, but chosing to love a man and going further to marry him and joining his struggles to make a better life proves good women still walk amongst us...
    To all the Queens out there that support their spouses and to all the the Queens with a good heart who sees a man for his WORTH AND NOT WHAT HE HAS ---> I SALUTE YOU ALL...
    This soon thall pass Leni and you will find happiness AGAIN!

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +5

      Wow THANK YOU KINDLY for such compelling words, we appreciate you sincerely.

    • @michaeldouglas2914
      @michaeldouglas2914 2 месяца назад +2

      @@1trueloveforever You are most welcome..

    • @MrsN-nc4du
      @MrsN-nc4du Месяц назад +5

      This is so beautiful coming from a man...Leni is a good woman.
      Vin lost the best here

    • @michaeldouglas2914
      @michaeldouglas2914 Месяц назад +1

      @@MrsN-nc4du Indeed she is a great woman, here I am being judged & passed up by women :-) because I risked it all to write an MBA in France at 45 and after graduating strugging to find a fulltime job.

    • @lydialiu5504
      @lydialiu5504 Месяц назад

      Very well said 👍 Likewise!?

  • @halimamuslimah
    @halimamuslimah 2 месяца назад +216

    No more commentary needed Leni. Live your life and learn from your mistakes.

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +13

      Thank you so much, we appreciate your kind words .

    • @gillianliu8662
      @gillianliu8662 2 месяца назад +31

      Thank you for being brave enough to make the decision you made. I applaud you Leni. From listening & observing some red flags, I wish to draw the conclusion that you were married to a narcissist. I see & hear the pain in your voice. Seems to me you have used up all your energy on a lost cause (Vinn).However, learn from your mistakes & take your time to heal recover fully. You seem to be a victim of narcissistic abuse. I can relate to that. It is very difficult to move on from such. Seek God for strength & courage so that your future could be brighter. Count your blessings you were not with child. You are young & have the whole world before you. So go out there and enjoy your life. Your parents are a blessing. Thank God for them. God bless you & keep you my darling. Stay sweet!

    • @dinahawouragai2701
      @dinahawouragai2701 2 месяца назад +6

      @@gillianliu8662 Amen

    • @user-mr7jo9er1h
      @user-mr7jo9er1h 2 месяца назад

      Yah

    • @duduville
      @duduville Месяц назад +9

      New sub here ..much love from kenya.

  • @Chekijoy8628
    @Chekijoy8628 2 месяца назад +155

    As a Kenyan woman, please accept my sincere apologies. On behalf of our young brother, who did not know your value, we are sorry. Please live your life in peace and happiness.

    • @ButterflyWings1900
      @ButterflyWings1900 Месяц назад +9

      That’s so beautiful ❤️❤️Australia 🇦🇺

    • @RoseMartelli-nt8ct
      @RoseMartelli-nt8ct Месяц назад +5

      @queenchebet8628 Beautiful words..

    • @denniscasely-hayford3245
      @denniscasely-hayford3245 Месяц назад +9

      @queenchebet So what exactly caused their breakup? Nothing has been said to that effect, which is causing too much speculation and putting the blame on one person. Whatever the cause of the breakup is, it takes two to tangle. Therefore, the blame should be shared and not heaped on one person.

    • @floramaya9871
      @floramaya9871 Месяц назад

      ​@@denniscasely-hayford3245exactly

    • @sofiaperry3332
      @sofiaperry3332 Месяц назад

      @@denniscasely-hayford3245 is the same thing im wondering seems as if leni called some of these people and tell them exactly what happened so they feel justified to crucified vinn ..ooh wooow

  • @debbiepryor4860
    @debbiepryor4860 2 месяца назад +40

    You are a lady of honor and beauty. Shut the door on this… God will deal with this on his own… it’s not for you to suffer anymore.
    Don’t look at the site, block everything and everyone.
    Left your family hold you while you heal. Prayers🙏🏻

  • @eileenc.5303
    @eileenc.5303 2 месяца назад +85

    You are brave! You are safe! Very beautiful video, Leni. You have spoken from your heart.

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +2

      Thank you so much, we appreciate your kind words .

  • @JJ-be2qg
    @JJ-be2qg 2 месяца назад +236

    Leni - I’m a 67 yr old woman that your RUclips channel came up one day! I watched you and Vinn and prayed for you! Vinn was less and less involved in caring and making sure you were in a good place!
    So I commend you for your brave honest talk! And may healing come quickly because of this talk! You have nothing to be ashamed of and nothing but a bright future ahead of you!
    I see you must walk through healing waters and tears and that is healthy!
    I heard you friend or family member behind the camera encouraging you and I’m grateful as all your subscribers are that you are in Germany- safe and supported!
    We all are ready to support you from around the world!
    Rumors are lies! I totally believe in you and your decision!
    God bless you as you walk away from these days … and walk toward many future victories!
    No doubt you’ve made the correct decision!💜💜💜💜💜Purple Hearts for enduring … Brave Leni!

    • @ItsOnlyJunie
      @ItsOnlyJunie 2 месяца назад +21

      Thank you. We will continue to support Leni 🙏🏽

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +16

      Thank you so much, we appreciate your kind words .

    • @VINEMCKOY
      @VINEMCKOY 2 месяца назад

      IM 61....BEEN MARRIED TWICE ....NOW WITH A MAN THAT GIVE ME RESPECT ALL THE TIME YES HE,S OLD NO MATTER I STILL PRAY FOR US THERE ARE GOOD TIMES AND BAD IN LIFE .....IVE LEARNED TO TREAT A MAN LIKE HE WANT TO BE TREATED THIER IS A DIFFERENT IN A REAL MAN AND A SELFISH MAN HAVE NO RESPECT .....TO ALLWAYS MOVE ON WHEN YOU NOTICE A FOOL IS BETTER...TEAM LENA W.O.A.R SUPPORTING WOMEN ORGANIZED AGANIST RAPE ....🟣🟣🟣🟣🟣🟣

    • @bernadettejohn3055
      @bernadettejohn3055 2 месяца назад +14

      We love you Leni, stay strong, God is faithful he will keep you…..look up great things are coming your way, stay bless, we are praying for you, that to will pass ❤you are in a safe place….. love you 😍 ❤

    • @candicelawrence158
      @candicelawrence158 2 месяца назад +6

      Leni stay strong no one is perfect gossip is something I do not follow, you are a beautiful person with a beautiful sole people judge without facts but people are people you keep focusing on you you've got a lot of good people out here who understand what you're going through without saying anything. I don't subscribe to lot of youtubers out there you're my first of only 3 youtubers I subscribe to sometimes you just have to pay attention to what's not being said, hope one day we'll meet, you're better than you think you are never give anyone power over you. Keep holding your head up you are loved❤❤❤❤

  • @valeriakriger3080
    @valeriakriger3080 2 месяца назад +91

    Dear Leni, you were always the protagonist in your marriage, here as a woman I support you and admire you for the big heart that you always had for those around you and those most in need. Continue walking with your head held high. You are worth gold! God bless you

    • @claireclarkeignite8458
      @claireclarkeignite8458 Месяц назад

      And so is Vinn. If as you said she was the protagonist valerie there was no need for Vinn to be, all I know what I saw as one of the earliest subscriber is a young man who worshipped his wife. They just allowed unhappy people like you to step in and mar their lives

  • @angiemakintane1383
    @angiemakintane1383 Месяц назад +65

    Leni, i could never thank you enough for the decision that you took. I am a woman in South Africa, and I would never live under those conditions. I saw your pain in the village without you saying a word. What you had for him was true love. This proves to us that he was using you, and I saw it from the distance. All he was concerned and cared about was his family, and you were not included. That's why he continues to use your name. God will bless you abundantly, focus on your life and healing. We love and support you. " LOVE ALONE IS NOT ENOUGH." 🇿🇦 🇿🇦 ❤❤

    • @elsadatuin
      @elsadatuin Месяц назад +3

      Very well said❤❤❤❤

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever Месяц назад +2

    • @murianzi6336
      @murianzi6336 Месяц назад +1

      Not an advise from a single materialistic woman who looks for wealth than love..

    • @MrsN-nc4du
      @MrsN-nc4du Месяц назад +2

      I am a South African woman and I mudt say you are soo typical of the SA women becos all i see from this very long message is how you care about wht a person has .There are still some women like Leni ,who love wholeheartedly and do not care about material .If your problem with Vinn was how he didnt love Leni,you would be talking but it seems you hv issues with where he came from.
      This is why in SA everyone is single because Love is transactional.
      LOVE IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE ENOUGH FOR AS LONG AS BOTH PARTIES ARE IN IT,it is selfless it is kind,generous,respectfull and if these are reciprocated in a Union ,LOVE WILL ALWAYS WIN.
      Love fails only when its one sided.And if you can say this was the problem in this Union,you will be talking instead of bringing in material.
      People are sooo miserable becos of transactional love.

    • @olydnk5270
      @olydnk5270 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@MrsN-nc4du totally agree

  • @VangelaHaeufler
    @VangelaHaeufler 2 месяца назад +110

    Leni you are strong and beautiful and brave we love you and support you. Head up girl. Talk your truth it will set you free

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +4

      thank you , we appreciate you so much .

    • @carolinewright9123
      @carolinewright9123 2 месяца назад +7

      Lenni please stay safe God will protect you 🙏 ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @VangelaHaeufler
      @VangelaHaeufler 2 месяца назад +9

      @1trueloveforever leni please seek legal help with RUclips he has to be stopped.

    • @hailo121
      @hailo121 2 месяца назад +3

      @@VangelaHaeufler I agree.

    • @ligiagarcia6231
      @ligiagarcia6231 2 месяца назад

      @@laurafrancis2104 If you dont love her, what you doing in her here?

  • @leahanitareddig
    @leahanitareddig 2 месяца назад +425

    Am very sorry for what you are going through. If vinn doesn’t want to remove your name on the joint channel just contact RUclips and the channel will be blocked because it’s breach of privacy. Germany this matter is serious with privacy and data protection. So take the steps with the lawyers for your best. We love you because the sacrifice you made was huge and one day they will know the jewel they have lost. Keep your head up because we love you.❤❤❤

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +32

      Thank you for this advice , we sincerely appreciate it.

    • @ItsOnlyJunie
      @ItsOnlyJunie 2 месяца назад +34

      Absolutely! Take care of yourself Leni, we love you ❤️❤️❤️🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

    • @northernnigeria
      @northernnigeria 2 месяца назад +49

      This two can still work things out between them so let’s not be quick to take sides remember they are still legally married

    • @janetroth782
      @janetroth782 2 месяца назад +27

      Leni take care of yourself and you're a very humble beautiful soul. Wish you all the best in the future and you deserves to be happy and leave all the negative things behind you. Lass dein kopf nicht in denn Sand stecken sei stark und du hast einen sehr wundervolle familie die da sind für dich. Bitte denke mehr an dich und nicht was die andere über dich denkt ok. ❤❤❤❤

    • @daughtyveneranda7059
      @daughtyveneranda7059 2 месяца назад +44

      Leni report the matters to RUclips and the channel will be blocked then engage lawyers for divorce. We love you.

  • @mathildap.7705
    @mathildap.7705 Месяц назад +7

    Hi Leni, I am supporting you. Stay strong and focus on you. I love your maturity and how you handle this situation. The truth will always reign. You have nothing to hide, so let that be your peace. Much success 🙏🏾❤

  • @Inge508
    @Inge508 Месяц назад +21

    Sending you peace of mind dear Leni.
    After a very dark period, the sun always comes out and shines brighter then before! Hug for you ❤

  • @user-yf7rl3rl1p
    @user-yf7rl3rl1p 2 месяца назад +58

    Hello Leni, I am Heidi, have been married with my African husband for over 46 years. We do live in Germany. I was excited to see your videos from the time in Africa. Sometimes I was a bit confused about things that happened. I want to let you know, that I pray for you, for wisdom and wise decisions. I pray for healing for your soul and that you can overcome all the trauma. I have been thinking that it would be fun, if you would also have either a German channel, or more videos in German. As a young person I experienced some trauma - being in an interracial relationship did not make things easier. But we have overcome, and are able to encourage others. I believe, that, if you allow God to work in you, he will turn your pain into a testimony. He will guide your ways. As hard as it is right now, start the process of forgiveness. The faster you can let go and forgive whoever has wronged you, the faster you will heal and be free to live life to the fullest. Sorry for this long post. It comes from a caring heart❤.

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +2

      Thank you for your words of wisdom and support. We appreciate you.

    • @denniscasely-hayford3245
      @denniscasely-hayford3245 Месяц назад +2

      @user What exactly caused their breakup?

    • @nancyleon1503
      @nancyleon1503 Месяц назад

      ​@denniscasely-hayford3im 245 I'm trying to figure out that too

  • @danielaionescu9473
    @danielaionescu9473 2 месяца назад +64

    Leni, giant hugs and many blessings from Dallas, TX. We love you, and we'll stand by you, sister! You are already strong and taking the right steps for your well-being. Keep making those beautiful videos. They will be part of your healing process. It really bothers me that your name is still used on the joint channel.

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +5

      Oh thank you so much for your kind words.

  • @janetanyango7961
    @janetanyango7961 Месяц назад +31

    As a Kenyan woman, I can tell you for fure you have made a very good choice. Your maturity is unmatched. This is just a phase and it shall pass but thank God that your eyes were opened at the very last minute otherwise you would battle a lifetime mental breakdown. You are a gem and the one that God kept for you will definitely find you. Cheer up your fans are still with you

    • @claireclarkeignite8458
      @claireclarkeignite8458 Месяц назад +4

      Janetanyango, I thought that my countrymen were wicked to each other but I find that it is not true because nothing said by Vinn or Lenni spoke of mistreatment. Ad a matter of fact, I saw nothing but love from both sides during there journey. It is the coldness of hearts like yours laced with envy of this beautiful love that is marring their union

    • @claireclarkeignite8458
      @claireclarkeignite8458 Месяц назад +1

      Janetanyango, I thought that my countrymen were wicked to each other but I find that it is not true because nothing said by Vinn or Lenni spoke of mistreatment. Ad a matter of fact, I saw nothing but love from both sides during there journey. It is the coldness of hearts like yours laced with envy of this beautiful love that is marring their union

  • @Tarababe411
    @Tarababe411 Месяц назад +8

    It's so crazy to watch how manipulated you had been accustomed to. So glad you started to see the truth. Imagine if you had gotten pregnant🤦‍♀️

  • @ayoomariana6406
    @ayoomariana6406 2 месяца назад +149

    It's about damn time!that was not love but a narcissist -empath relationship...you were being used and abused by Vinn and his family
    Wishing you healing 🙏 in this next chapter of your life

  • @user-xq7gg2gp6e
    @user-xq7gg2gp6e 2 месяца назад +58

    Hello Leni, I am so proud of you for having the strength to make this video. I am comforted that you are now surrounded by love, family and friends on your journey to heal and move forward. Congratulations on being over 10 k subs! ❤

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +3

      Thank you so much, we appreciate your kind words .

  • @salions2327
    @salions2327 Месяц назад +6

    Leni, you are a truly admirable, genuine, and honorable young lady. Your considerate approach in communicating with your subscribers while maintaining your integrity is truly commendable.

  • @Tarababe411
    @Tarababe411 Месяц назад +20

    I just pray that you can finally fully detach yourself from all the drama and flourish on your own.

  • @Felix-sc8ku
    @Felix-sc8ku 2 месяца назад +192

    Vin lost a good woman . All the best Leni in your new chapter.

    • @claudetteswaby6305
      @claudetteswaby6305 2 месяца назад

      Exactly​@@user-mr7jo9er1h

    • @seraphinekanyeru3639
      @seraphinekanyeru3639 Месяц назад

      Kabsaaa he has lost a gem

    • @Raambu
      @Raambu Месяц назад +4

      If it wasn't meant to be, let Leni and Vinn be. Was it a must they stay married? They hurriedly got married, they're still very young. Pursue your dreams. And maybe ...who knows, love may find you.

    • @maboni3359
      @maboni3359 Месяц назад +2

      Oh pleaseeeeee

    • @tonyarios7734
      @tonyarios7734 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@maboni3359 what do you even know little girl 😂😂 , oh pleeease back atcha! Does your parents even know you all up in grown folks business 🤨😳🤨!?

  • @jenc938
    @jenc938 2 месяца назад +103

    We love you Leni, what an emotional speech. Well done! The past, is behind you! To a new chapter, peace and love all around ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Leniweise
      @Leniweise  2 месяца назад +22

      Thank you❤️

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +10

      Thank you so much, we appreciate your kind words . Keep supporting her , all will be well.

    • @joannaattakai9197
      @joannaattakai9197 2 месяца назад +6

      Safe journey and best of luck to you. You deserve better ❤ God bless you on your journey. 🙏

    • @arysucessos2014
      @arysucessos2014 2 месяца назад +13

      @@Leniweise we really believe on you since the begining, I think you should Keep vloging positve things and very soon your chanel will impact people the more and more.

    • @user-us1qv6eg6p
      @user-us1qv6eg6p 2 месяца назад

      We are here for you! God Bless you.

  • @AFYANJEMA
    @AFYANJEMA 2 месяца назад +44

    As a Kenya, we’ve lost a jewel. We’ll keep you in our prayers.❤

    • @pumpkinpiex
      @pumpkinpiex 2 месяца назад +9

      That’s beautiful, what a lovely thing to say ❤

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +2

      we appreciate this so much. Thank you for your kindness.

  • @johnkinyanjui5331
    @johnkinyanjui5331 Месяц назад +6

    Vinn, you will never get a better woman than Leni😢😢😢😢

  • @angies.4961
    @angies.4961 2 месяца назад +110

    Leni... I Know That This Video Was Hard For You To Do, But You Did An Amazing Job! Leni, We Love You So Much!! Continue To Hold On To God!! Jesus Gives Peace That Passes All Understanding!! Rest In Jesus! We ALL Support You, Back You, Love You And Most Of All We ALL Are Praying For You!! Everything IS Gonna Be Ok!!

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +3

      Thank you so much, we appreciate your kind words .

    • @vickihenry4952
      @vickihenry4952 2 месяца назад +2

      @@1trueloveforever

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +5

      @@vickihenry4952 thank you for your support , we appreciate you.

    • @ebobaya123
      @ebobaya123 2 месяца назад +2

      @@laurafrancis2104 I believe Leni.

    • @ebobaya123
      @ebobaya123 2 месяца назад

      @@laurafrancis2104 Since you said you believe Black Beauty TV, go now and watch her latest video where she said Vinn is the one who injured Leni on the head.

  • @HarmonybyCennique-2l
    @HarmonybyCennique-2l 2 месяца назад +60

    Hey Leni Life can be incredibly challenging, and sometimes it feels like the weight of the world rests upon our shoulders. But remember, you’re not alone. Even in the darkest moments, there’s a glimmer of hope waiting to guide you.
    Take a deep breath. Allow yourself to feel the pain, but also embrace the resilience within you. You’ve weathered storms before, and you’ll weather this one too. Reach out to those who care about you-they’re your anchors in the tempest.
    And when the sun rises again, as it always does, you’ll find strength in your scars. You’ll discover that healing isn’t linear-it’s a dance of progress and setbacks. Be kind to yourself during this delicate process.
    Remember, you’re not defined by your struggles; you’re defined by your courage to face them. So keep moving forward, even if it’s just a tiny step. And know that brighter days await you.
    Sending you warmth, love, and the promise of better tomorrows.🫂🫂💌

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +3

      Thank you so much for you kind words .

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      @millicenttete960 2 месяца назад

    • @ItsOnlyJunie
      @ItsOnlyJunie 2 месяца назад +2

      Thank you. Leni we love you ❤️❤️❤️🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

    • @dorcushatlane9525
      @dorcushatlane9525 2 месяца назад +4

      Thank you, well said, very encouraging words🙏🙏🙏🙏👍

    • @maxinehall5382
      @maxinehall5382 2 месяца назад +3

      Amen, Rest, enjoy your family and friends🎉🎉, you no longer carry the world on your shoulders ❤❤

  • @zikondenyirenda
    @zikondenyirenda Месяц назад +4

    You did the right thing to speak out and the way you did is even better. Wishing you sll the best in whatever the future holds

  • @user-yb2rw4if5f
    @user-yb2rw4if5f Месяц назад +21

    Tears from hearing your story, you are beautiful Queen,we love you princess.

  • @monicatheblessedone7268
    @monicatheblessedone7268 2 месяца назад +95

    Leni.. well spoken ! And very respectable! We love you ❤continue your journey my dear.

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +5

      Thank you so much for your kind words .

  • @iimbambajohanna2934
    @iimbambajohanna2934 2 месяца назад +33

    Dear Leni you have endured enough. You were respectful to him and family. What you got in return was ...........!!!!! You surely don't deserve it. Your peace, safety and humanity should be priority number one. That man doesn't deserve you . Please stay with your parents 🇳🇦

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much, we appreciate your support .

  • @audreyhamilton3502
    @audreyhamilton3502 Месяц назад +20

    I'm speechless, Leni. I recalled from time to time sending little notes that he should allow you to speak, don't leave you walking in the back, but never this. I'm so incredibly proud of you for taking a stand. It's true " love isn't enough " especially when you are constantly giving and giving. I often tell my children that love cannot be measured by how much you love someone, but love is measured by how much " they" love you. Hence, love will never make you feel the way you are feeling, but believe me, it will go away. This was just an experience that helped to bring the building of your character to a higher level. Chin up! Don't forget, misery loves company, so pay no attention to negative people. I'm so disappointed, but not dismayed because you will always be loved by people. Your gentle spirit, your captivating smile is a delight. Give your family a hug for me. Beautiful family ❤❤❤❤. Eventually he will have to remove your name, " time is the master". Have a slendiferous day!❤❤❤

    • @Leniweise
      @Leniweise  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you so much❤️

  • @RosaLee587
    @RosaLee587 2 месяца назад +24

    "Sometimes love is not enough".
    Im so glad you recognised this. 🤗Thinking of you Leni. This is very respectfully done.
    May your healing set you free💜.

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +2

      we appreciate your support 🥰🥰🥰

  • @cedarmcdaniels1538
    @cedarmcdaniels1538 2 месяца назад +90

    You did great Leni. You will heal. ❤….. very fair - and balanced video- you deserve to be nourished and loved 🥰

  • @mercykamau4360
    @mercykamau4360 2 месяца назад +50

    Be strong for you Lennie...the storm will finally pass momma ❤❤❤

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +3

      Thank you, we appreciate you so much .

  • @etrivas1
    @etrivas1 Месяц назад +14

    Lena, a dignified woman.
    "My husband, Kenya and my Kenyan family will always have a big space in my heart, but sometimes love is not enough"
    Lena, one is always expected to do the best based on his/her ability. You did your part and the world took notice.
    You cleared your conscience. As a result, your healing has begun so stay strong and healthy.
    Lena, focus on your God, yourself, family and friends who have your well-being and interests at heart.
    You are loved by many who would view, like, share and subscribe to your future videos. All blessings to you. Stay safe. Respect and blessings. ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @pumpkinpiex
      @pumpkinpiex Месяц назад +4

      Beautifully said 🙏🏼❤

    • @Inge508
      @Inge508 Месяц назад +5

      This are messages that heal Leni! Thank you ❤

    • @jeanloverme6466
      @jeanloverme6466 Месяц назад +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kennethshola2174
    @kennethshola2174 2 месяца назад +49

    When men can't see beyond their nose. What else is a man looking for when he had such peaceful natured wife. Wahala no dey finish. Leni you're a well mannered lady.

    • @obyno296
      @obyno296 Месяц назад +3

      My Naija brother. E no get where we no Dey o

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever Месяц назад +2

      Thank you for your beautiful insight , we appreciate you.

    • @blessedone4406
      @blessedone4406 Месяц назад +1

      I heard she cheated on vinn with his younger brother but don’t know how true that is. If you have noticed non of them have said what really happen between them any way let me mind my single life business 😂

  • @God.Is.My.Light.
    @God.Is.My.Light. 2 месяца назад +28

    Well done Leni. Your approach speaks volumes. Continue to be brave and graceful, God will see you through this difficult time. Your village is behind you ❤

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you, we appreciate you.

    • @user-ej7lf9hb1g
      @user-ej7lf9hb1g 2 месяца назад +2

      We are not a village we are an army and we are all behind Leni

  • @JustMya2
    @JustMya2 2 месяца назад +51

    Bless you Leni! You look destroyed lovely.😢
    I wish you all the best in Germany. Stay safe!!!

  • @waitaminute2015
    @waitaminute2015 Месяц назад +14

    I had a similar situation. For me the best thing was letting everything go, simplify the divorce, and move on. No contact with anyone associated with him. "Let go, or be dragged".

  • @Inge508
    @Inge508 Месяц назад +16

    Good morning dear Leni.
    Sending uplifting thoughts your way ❤
    Sending peaceful thoughts, and calm for this channel to create a safe environment for Leni and everyone 🌺

    • @tipsvaniris
      @tipsvaniris Месяц назад +3

      Victors with victor said in his newest video today that Vinn is stable and very very okay…you were so right Inge about this in your other comment i have seen.

    • @ebobaya123
      @ebobaya123 Месяц назад +6

      @@tipsvaniris Vinn was never sick. Do not let Victor manipulate you on youtube. Victor is a scammer like Vinn.

    • @Inge508
      @Inge508 Месяц назад +3

      @@tipsvaniris î didn’t watch it yet but I’m very happy that he is very ok. And I hope he can heal on all levels now ..I hope the bullying stops for Leni and that she can heal as well. Thanks for sharing 🤗

    • @tipsvaniris
      @tipsvaniris Месяц назад +2

      @@ebobaya123 i know, thats is why Inge was so right about that this should happen. Thanks anyway🧡

    • @Inge508
      @Inge508 Месяц назад +4

      @@ebobaya123 let’s hope the drama can stop now and everyone can heal and be happy again 🌺🙏

  • @janicecarter-e4e
    @janicecarter-e4e 2 месяца назад +58

    And YES, contact RUclips and your lawyer to get that channel shut down or have your name removed if you are not profiting from it.
    He should not be eating or profiting off your name.😊

    • @ligiagarcia6231
      @ligiagarcia6231 2 месяца назад +6

      I agree!

    • @ebobaya123
      @ebobaya123 2 месяца назад +2

      Shut down the channel will be the best solution because as she said, Vinn has refused to take down the videos with Leni's image.

    • @Barbara-er1co
      @Barbara-er1co 2 месяца назад +1

      Try to shut you tube. Somehow. He’s abusing the privilege

  • @palacinog666
    @palacinog666 2 месяца назад +15

    Since you live in Europe you may be able to exercise your right to be forgotten and request RUclips to take down the videos of you that you can no longer access. Might be worth looking into it.

  • @Thats_Right80
    @Thats_Right80 2 месяца назад +55

    1. End of this chapter now Leni
    2. Contact RUclips to remove your name and other legal stuff with your previous videos if possible.
    3. Heal, get your career and life back in Germany.

    • @thatwasantique6708
      @thatwasantique6708 2 месяца назад +2

      Or just leave all that and concentrate on herself and heal because if she does what you're advising, she will just get hurt the more. I don't know if you saw what Deemwango did🙄 she left the guy with the channel and all and she's right now one of the biggest female RUclipsrs from Africa.

    • @Uncommonconversation7220
      @Uncommonconversation7220 Месяц назад +2

      Leni, please don't bother yourself anymore about the channel. Whatever videos you both did together are part of your past which you can't erased from the online system. It is time to concentrate on your future and your channel now. Please, don't respond anymore to all the shenanigans online. Stay blessed with your family.

    • @mmulepotter6103
      @mmulepotter6103 Месяц назад

      O​@@Uncommonconversation7220

  • @mariellaryan43
    @mariellaryan43 2 месяца назад +21

    Wow this is what class looks like. Bravo Leni, you owned your mistakes and you are moving on. I thank God that you were strong enough to move on before you were used and destroyed anymore. Good luck for the future and God be with you

  • @exaltacionagolito8128
    @exaltacionagolito8128 2 месяца назад +5

    This is the nth time am watching this video. This morning i am watching this again. I memorize your message because it happened to me too. Good that you realized it earlier but me after 33 years.... only then that I realized i am that stupid.i was blinded by unconditional love for 33 years and when i looked inside my self with the help of prayers and other wise advise I came to my senses. Now I've slowly moved on.i draw my strength in God and other people who loved me. I cannot love others if i do not love myself. Slowly slowly i know i can conquer this. Hopefully i will not be tempted to self pity or playing a victim. I need to be strong for my own sanity. I am alone since my children have their own lives to live now. Everyday is a fight. Have to busy myself. So many things to do in this world. Pray.. pray..pray

  • @SheStoicForLife77
    @SheStoicForLife77 Месяц назад +4

    I have been away from your channel for quite some time until today. I noticed it’s now Vinn channel so I hunted down for you. I only subscribed to you n Vin channel but now you’re split up I’m subscribing to you instead, fellow woman. The truth is I subscribed to your Leni and Vinn channel cos of you. I thought and I still think you’re quite interesting and a unique character. Hope you’re well and keep going. There’s always a perfect match for everyone. Yours is out there too.❤

    • @Leniweise
      @Leniweise  Месяц назад

      Thank you so so much❤️

  • @caf9641
    @caf9641 Месяц назад +20

    I have followed your other channel (unsubscribed now) from the start, and you are a true pillar of strength, enduring all of the challenges you faced in Kenya. Throughout your videos, you have consistently shown respect, positivity, love, grace, kindness, empathy, and compassion - anything else stated is a false narrative. I thank God you are home safely and are now surrounded by your loving family and friends. You only deserve the best! ♥💙💚🙏🙏

    • @Leniweise
      @Leniweise  Месяц назад +3

      Wow thank you so much for your kind words🙏❤️

    • @caf9641
      @caf9641 Месяц назад

      @@Leniweise Absolutely! I'm looking forward to watching your future vlogs touring Germany and sharing your cooking recipes. God is good every day. #blessings #newbeginnings

    • @lucianawawy06
      @lucianawawy06 Месяц назад

      ​@@Leniweise❤❤❤❤🎉

  • @shanizgrace6979
    @shanizgrace6979 Месяц назад +8

    I I'm a Kenyan and I never liked that guy from day one i saw their video here but im glad now Leni can focus with her life in Germany ❤

  • @RafaelGarciaYito_7131
    @RafaelGarciaYito_7131 Месяц назад +5

    We really appreciate you doing this video. I hope it will help you heal the trauma that a bad experience caused you. You are wonderful person with big heart. Keep your head high and hope for a new opportunity to show your generosity towards others deserving people. I feel your pain, I’ve been through a similar situation. Time heals all wounds. You deserve a decent person by your side and you will get it. Take good care of yourself.✌️

  • @loryseller6450
    @loryseller6450 15 дней назад +2

    Leni just seeing this video 😢 .But thank you for your contribution to the Africa country and for the less fortunate area you have taught and showed a little bit of a better way and that little girl Maria will always remember you and one she will tell a story one day how you made a difference in her life and take a trip to visit you 🇺🇲

  • @charlottefolsted478
    @charlottefolsted478 Месяц назад +10

    Leni, you inspire me so much. ❤️ The Way you spoke up so gracefully 🌸

  • @birtesmolnig8692
    @birtesmolnig8692 2 месяца назад +98

    ❤ Liebe Leni, ihr ward so ein schönes Paar, nicht nur vom Äusseren sondern auch in eurer Art - zumindest kam das hier über due Videos so rüber. Dafür danke ich euch, es war wirklich sehr berührend... sehr schade und traurig, dass eure gemeinsame Reise nicht weitergehen konnte. Ich kann mir vorstellen, wie hart und schmerzhaft das alles für dich gerade sein muss. Nicht nur eine Trennung, sondern auch noch dazu in der vollen Öffentlichkeit. Horrible.
    Ich würde dir aus meinem Gefühl heraus raten, ziehe dich eine Weile zurück aus dem youtube Business, mach noch ein kurzes Video wo du das erklärst und dann mal Sendepause!! Und digital detox! Gib dein Handy ab und versuch auch nicht nachzuschauen, was wieder passiert und geschrieben und gesagt wurde. Das ist an diesem Punkt hier schon echt ungesund. Gib dir eine von dir selbst bestimmte Zeit ( zwei Wochen, drei Wochen, ein Monat...) in der du deine Augen und Ohren hütest und beschützt und nur Gutes und Freundliches an dich heran lässt. Ruhe, Natur, Familie, Freunde. Sommer, Sonne, Wasser. Punkt. Ohne Stress, ohne Zukunftspläne, einfach nur heilen...
    Dann kommt Schritt für Schritt eine neue Welt herein.
    Ganz herzlichste Grüsse aus Wien von einer, die deine Oma sein könnte 😉❤
    Alles alles Gute!

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +6

      Thank you for your support , we appreciate you.

    • @tinychefness3546
      @tinychefness3546 2 месяца назад +10

      Great advice

    • @user-nj1ql8mt8w
      @user-nj1ql8mt8w 2 месяца назад +9

      Good advice. I wish she can take it

    • @dorcushatlane9525
      @dorcushatlane9525 2 месяца назад +7

      Wow, powerful, I pray that she protect herself from social media, I wish her family to do that as well..never share toxic videos with her

    • @ebobaya123
      @ebobaya123 2 месяца назад +9

      While she's focussing on her healing, she should contact her lawyers immediately so that youtube can shut down that Vinn and Leni channel.

  • @jacquelinewollery1959
    @jacquelinewollery1959 2 месяца назад +13

    Men are from Mars and women from Venus, and that's why you both shared your stories in different ways. You both are humans with feelings and emotions, though. You both handled it the best way you both could.
    You both have to bear the consequences of sharing your private life with the public. May God see you both through this difficult time. ❤❤❤

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад

      Thank you for your support .

    • @maxinehall5382
      @maxinehall5382 2 месяца назад

      I watched Black beauty tv today, Leni was more restrained , she gave more details.

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever Месяц назад

      @@maxinehall5382

  • @annikakeihag4483
    @annikakeihag4483 Месяц назад +11

    You have made the best decision for you, walk in your shoes not in someone else’s shoes. Promise us that. We can walk beside you, but you are the one who have to walk . We Will be there for you. Don’t look back, look forward, don’t turn around your head because everything is already history. You can not do more than you have done. You will make it I promise you. Don’t listen to people because they don’t know anything what has happened here, and keep it on that way. Don’t go back. Stay with your parents until you can get an own and live your life ♥️♥️ you can always talk to me if you won’t , I will answer

    • @Leniweise
      @Leniweise  Месяц назад +2

      Thank you so much🙏❤️

  • @angelangela8650
    @angelangela8650 2 месяца назад +71

    Leni, we dont belive those rumours. You are nice and honest young woman.
    I saw videos..., forget and dont watch. Have a happy and safe future.

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +2

      Thank you so much . We appreciate you.

  • @pamelasmith5404
    @pamelasmith5404 2 месяца назад +15

    As a woman and a mother. I stand with you. May God send a host of angels to comfort and strengthen you during such a difficult time. You will overcome. Many blessings!

  • @ronkeanimashaun156
    @ronkeanimashaun156 Месяц назад +3

    Oh my gosh Leni I really feel for you I didn’t see the horrible video that was posted but I noticed a lot of people were upset with your husband My comment in his post was why would he say mean things about the person whom he’s supposed to love. Take care of you and although the pain feels like death trust me time is truely a healer. Don’t shed no more tears as his betrayal isnt worth your tears. Why should you be crying while he’s laughing. Get on with your whole life and concentrate on building up your RUclips channel. Remember God does not sleep he will vindicate you. Love you lots ❤️❤️❤️

  • @TimesAreChanging-d3b
    @TimesAreChanging-d3b Месяц назад +3

    Remember, he is missing out! He will never find anyone better than you!

  • @Tarababe411
    @Tarababe411 2 месяца назад +63

    Yes girl, that is one of the crucial things you were missing while in Kenya, a frind that sees thought all the bullshit! You deserved better treatment, everyone could see and they kept commenting, but your emotions were being played upon. We will support you in your new journey 🙏

    • @ItsOnlyJunie
      @ItsOnlyJunie 2 месяца назад +4

      Absolutely! Yes Leni, we are here for you ❤🙏🏽

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you, we appreciate you sincerely .

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +1

      @@ItsOnlyJunie

    • @user-ej7lf9hb1g
      @user-ej7lf9hb1g 2 месяца назад +6

      Just to describe the situation a bit better, it was like standing in a SWAMP, being continuously bitten by LEECHES and being unable to get them off you

  • @barbarajames7878
    @barbarajames7878 2 месяца назад +25

    Leni i respect your privacy.....i love you Leni 😍 ❤

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад

      Thank you for your support 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @doreensarah5000
    @doreensarah5000 Месяц назад +3

    When a woman finally speaks just know its the end and she is about to start a new beginning,coz most of the time they do take time to protect not until they are left with no choice but to let go😢😢😢All the best Leni,may God lead your ways always❤️🙏🙏

  • @tshelamutchilua4692
    @tshelamutchilua4692 Месяц назад +9

    Leni we stand with you in this time. All will be well, focus on yourself, healing and rebounding stronger and higher. We love you and are praying for you❤️

  • @RolfWeise
    @RolfWeise 2 месяца назад +16

    Lema das war sehr stark und mutig von dir ich bin richtig stolz auf dich niemand hat das Recht dich in jedlicher Form schlecht zu behandeln du bist ein tolles Mädchen
    Dein Papi das Ass❤

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much, we appreciate your kind words and support.

    • @andreawendel2048
      @andreawendel2048 Месяц назад +1

      Bester Vater. Respekt an so eine innige Familie. ❤

    • @AllGoodTrustTheProcess
      @AllGoodTrustTheProcess Месяц назад +1

      Thank you for standing by you daughter🙏

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever Месяц назад

      ❤️❤️🧡🧡💛💛💚💚💜💜💙💙🩵🩵🩷🩷

    • @RoseMartelli-nt8ct
      @RoseMartelli-nt8ct Месяц назад +1

      @RolfWeise Mr. Rolf Weise you are an amazeing father and your daughter Leni has such a beautiful heart and soul. Your family is so loveing and beautiful❤

  • @christinaharding5976
    @christinaharding5976 2 месяца назад +20

    Leni, you gave more than your share in your marriage. Relationships are give and take, and you were definitely the giver. Kindness is viewed as a weakness by some people, but many of us see you as a strong, compassionate person. Thank you for this video and the way you presented it! You defended yourself without attacking your estranged spouse.

  • @osike7
    @osike7 Месяц назад +29

    The decision to live with Vin alone in Kibera was more than love, I have been there myself, KEEP YOUR PEACE LENNY.

  • @Grinderfeed
    @Grinderfeed Месяц назад +8

    YOU ARE A BETTER PERSON AND I BELIEVE YOUR STORY. While he talks about God, he doesn’t live it. YOU ARE educated and smart, YOU BROUGHT an uneducated man out of the slum, helped his family and accepted them the way they were! YOU ❤HAVE A GENUINE HEART 💕 and will BE HAPPY! I noticed in your videos when the money was rolling in, he took care of his material needs AND STUPID PEOPLE just kept giving. At that point I knew that would be the end! Time will heal your wounds and I pray you would find a kind and educated person in the FUTURE. So GLAD 😊 you shared your story! 💕💕💕🙌🙏

  • @ske8254
    @ske8254 2 месяца назад +23

    Wow. This is a classy lady. My heart goes out to you dear Leni. Head high. I wish you health, strength, happiness, safety and love. 🌸❤ Du bist eine starke Frau. Viele Grüße

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much, we appreciate your kind words .

  • @Robyn_effe
    @Robyn_effe 2 месяца назад +37

    You are a strong and independent woman, you are not alone.
    You have a huge heart, and only you can know what you feel and what you are going through. You don't have to prove anything to anyone.
    Keep loving yourself, and keep being the way you are, we love you so much Leni!

    • @Leniweise
      @Leniweise  2 месяца назад +11

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +4

      Thank you so much, we appreciate your kind words .

    • @ItsOnlyJunie
      @ItsOnlyJunie 2 месяца назад +7

      Well done Leni! We love you and will continue to support this Channel ❤❤❤

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +1

      @@ItsOnlyJunie Thank you so much for your support , we appreciate it more than words can express.

    • @paulaandeben
      @paulaandeben 2 месяца назад +5

      I’ve been married to African man for the past 13 years. Vinn and his family used you and abused you. You have sacrificed so much for love! I’ve seen them as very selfish people, who cared only about themselves and believed that Muzungu was sent to them from heaven just to improve their financial situation. They talk about God and believe that everything they get is from God, but they do not have basic moral values. They are from a community where ‘survival’ matters! No matter how much you hurt another human!
      You are strong Lena, and you will be fine! The best for your marriage was for Vinn to come to Germany and experience European life! He would have learnt a lot! Maybe with time you guys will be able to make it up again. He has to grow up! He needs to stop being so selfish! He needs to go to work and be responsible for his actions.

  • @williamsakande5719
    @williamsakande5719 19 дней назад +6

    Waaaaooo Leni
    Thank you for your courage. I remember how you stood firmly with Vinn when he was living in the Slum.
    People forget quickly.
    People change quickly because of fame status and benefits.
    Don't worry, it is better to move on in life than forcing yourself onto someone that doesn't appreciate you.
    You will be fine. Time will heal. You are a beautiful young woman with a large heart. What is not for you will never appreciate you.
    Now your TIME Leni
    Focus Focus and Focus. ❤

  • @looking5050
    @looking5050 Месяц назад +20

    Leni, regardless of what you read online or what Victor posts about Vinn, do not fall for it. Stay in Germany and take the time you need to regain your strength and heal. You deserve to focus on yourself and your well-being. May God grant you abundant love, courage, and the support you need to find true happiness and fulfillment. Surround yourself with people who genuinely care for you and remember that your happiness and peace of mind are paramount. Take this opportunity to rebuild and grow stronger, and trust that better days are ahead for you.

  • @AnnaLars-dt2lr
    @AnnaLars-dt2lr 2 месяца назад +13

    Leni,you are not alone! We all care for you and support you!
    Also,you are in Germany,you can take lawyer and his YT channel will be blocked because its breach of privacy and he can't have channel on ur name and videos if you dont want it! Its law! Good luck,shine bright 🌞

    • @heikeblar7523
      @heikeblar7523 2 месяца назад

      But they are still married. I think she has to be divorced first to get her name removed of the other channel

    • @AnnaLars-dt2lr
      @AnnaLars-dt2lr 2 месяца назад +2

      @heikeblar7523 No,that is not true.He don't have right to hold her name there and videos,it's false interpretation,also breach of privacy, copyright, have many things on which she can close that YT channel

    • @vinceshons1960
      @vinceshons1960 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@AnnaLars-dt2lr they did the videos together noone was forced it was their agreement yes he can remove her name but the videos they did before it's up to him if he wants to remove them

    • @asantewaa391
      @asantewaa391 Месяц назад

      Not true. RUclips has got nothing to do with her marriage. Vinn should remove Leni's name, otherwise it is a fslse representation of the channel. He cannot use somebody's namefor profit without their perm​ission. I am unsubscribing to that channel.@heikeblar7523

  • @Inge508
    @Inge508 Месяц назад +35

    People who come here to ask for details, just know that it’s re- traumatizing the person who dealt with the trauma.
    Knowing and acknowledging the hurt of the person is REAL support for Leni❤

    • @Leniweise
      @Leniweise  Месяц назад +5

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @fabiennea6048
      @fabiennea6048 Месяц назад +2

      You can say that again

    • @eliasnestor9482
      @eliasnestor9482 Месяц назад

      Which trauma? Were you also there witnessing that trauma? so why do you go to Vinn’s comment section and ask him silly questions?

  • @Inge508
    @Inge508 Месяц назад +25

    The most useful tip I got from a psychiatrist dealing with this shit was: stay calm, seek safety, go for divorce, don’t ever try to fix such a person, don’t fall for their drama after you leave etc..
    And if you want to hurt a narcissist ; ignore him whatever he tells about you !
    All this defending of the truth is so draining for your health !
    I have learned to ignore and move on.
    And forgive to be able to get him out of my system 🌺

  • @catherinekuria7251
    @catherinekuria7251 Месяц назад +16

    Well done leni for speaking out. Your speach was great. Thankyou leni Mum for supporting your daughter during this difficult. This is definately tough for the whole family. As a kenyan born in kenya but living abroad, i can say that you are a strong woman, you are humble and you gave alot in kenya. I saw you giving in the slum and in so many ocassions. We all make mistakes, do not beat yourself. In kenya, safety is not always there whiles things fall apart. Flying to your friend and family and to a place where you could get therapy was the best thing to you. Taking care of our mental health is a good thing. Just as you have given alot to people like you did in kenyan slum etc, i hope you will find love and support in this difficult time. Leni this will pass. May your experience in kenya bear something good in the future. Maybe it was not aloss. Maybe God wanted you to be in kenya at that time. Don't regret. As a kenyan, i apologise for any unrespectable thing that was done to you. No one need to have her name tarnished online etc. Without saying much much...please take strength and seek support so that internet bullying will not impact you. I understand your decision to remove that content that drags you behind online. That was wise. Health comes first. Take care of yourself, enjoy the nature, treat yourself, accept love and support, enjot the icecream and pamper youself. You deserve it gal. Sending you hugs and support from scandnavia 🇫🇮

    • @pumpkinpiex
      @pumpkinpiex Месяц назад +6

      Beautiful words 🙏🏼❤

    • @Inge508
      @Inge508 Месяц назад +7

      What a beautiful helpful healing message ! Thank you , beautiful soul❤

    • @Leniweise
      @Leniweise  Месяц назад +5

      Thank you for your message❤️

    • @gabyweise6544
      @gabyweise6544 Месяц назад +5

      ❤❤❤

    • @RoseMartelli-nt8ct
      @RoseMartelli-nt8ct Месяц назад +3

      @@gabyweise6544 Mrs. Gaby Weise you have such a beautiful family . We are very happy that Leni came back to such a loveing home with you and your amazeing family..She is safe now and can finally heal of this traumatic situation. God bless you and your family and God bless Leni and may God walk with Leni in every step she makes♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡

  • @JaneMwangi-
    @JaneMwangi- 2 месяца назад +26

    A vision of class and kindness. The way you've handled this very trying situation is commendable and despite so many trying to attack it, your character has not wavered.
    You're so supported and loved Leni💕

  • @Kikifriedmann
    @Kikifriedmann 2 месяца назад +20

    Leni, lieber ein Ende mit Schmerz, anstatt Schmerzen ohne Ende!!😘🙏🩷

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад

      Wow well said , thank you so much for your support . We appreciate you.

    • @sedally1060
      @sedally1060 2 месяца назад +1

      💯 percent agree.

    • @ButterflyWings1900
      @ButterflyWings1900 Месяц назад

      Agree! Australia 🇦🇺❤️

  • @pinakkoladaa
    @pinakkoladaa Месяц назад +8

    BUT SOMETIMES LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH...Exactly...It summarises everything why they broke up.People get together and think they are in love without realising that they don't even know the true meaning of love.This is exactly why marriages end. It is not love if you are with somebody who has 6 pack and pretty face or somebody who is white. These type of relationship will never last. Love is respect, sacrifice, communication, appreciation for each other, understanding, friendship, maturity FROM BOTH SIDES. When silly young people (or one is silly) get together and pretend to be in a perfect couple for views on the internet - IT'S NOT LOVE!!!! I knew immediately when saw Vinn first time that he is not serious, just a toy boy, an ordinary broken narcissist and relationship with him would take you nowhere. He just doesn't care about anything but himself and never will. Even the fact that he helped his family, he did it just because of his ego, he wanted to be a hero of the slums, to show everybody that ''he made it in life''. I saw the way he was in a suit giving money to kids outside. Such a big narcissist. This is just the way he is, a broken, damaged soul. Thank God and be happy that you didn't get pregnant and escaped on time.

    • @MrsN-nc4du
      @MrsN-nc4du Месяц назад

      Actually i am a black South Afrivan woman and I always felt something was missing on Vinn's side wbilst Leni was the epitome of love,grace and humility.I felt Vinn was full of himself .
      A man crazy inlove cannot hide ot,and i didnt see that with Vin
      Good riddance ,Lenni deserves better and I hope she finds the love she deserves

    • @sedally1060
      @sedally1060 Месяц назад +1

      💯 right. she won a lottery to get out of this Narcissistic relationship early and with out a child . Now she can completely forget about him and move on.

  • @etrivas1
    @etrivas1 Месяц назад +18

    Leni, you are safe and blessed.
    When you get stronger from your healing write a book to document your journey from Germany to Kenya and back. I will purchase five (5) copies. One (1) copy for myself and four (4) copies to giveaway as gifts.
    Leni, the Social Worker, Vlogger/Influencer and Author.
    Give God all the glory, honour, thanks and praises. Stay safe. Respect and blessings. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Inge508
    @Inge508 Месяц назад +9

    I picked up a lot of 🌹 roses 🌹 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹to make you a well deserved bouquet 💐 for a beautiful new healing day sweet Leni❤

    • @VictoriaJoy-pt7ey
      @VictoriaJoy-pt7ey Месяц назад +2

      I want to add some 🍦🍦🍦and Ritter Sport chocolate 🍫 ❤🤗.

    • @Inge508
      @Inge508 Месяц назад +3

      @@VictoriaJoy-pt7ey yess mmm great idea😃have a lovely day🌺🙋‍♀️

    • @Leniweise
      @Leniweise  Месяц назад +2

      Thank you🥰🙏

    • @Kikifriedmann
      @Kikifriedmann Месяц назад +4

      Ich glaube ihr seid Seelenschwestern( Leni und du) und solltet euch mal verabreden. Ihr habt euch bestimmt eine Menge zu erzählen!

  • @MatsPro
    @MatsPro 2 месяца назад +8

    Both of you are very kind and full of generosity that’s why you I can’t judge anyone. I wish u and ex husband good life

  • @etrivas1
    @etrivas1 Месяц назад +20

    Respect for Leni.
    Please viewers/subscribers kindly communicate by expressing your unconditional love this young beautiful lady. One just have to take into consideration his/her mother, sister, aunt, grandmother, daughter, grand daughter, step daughter or god daughter. God's blessings to all who sent positive messages to restore her peace of mind and healing. Stay safe. Respect and Blessings.
    ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Leniweise
      @Leniweise  Месяц назад +2

      Much love💛

    • @fabiennea6048
      @fabiennea6048 Месяц назад +1

      You spoke very well.

    • @Inge508
      @Inge508 Месяц назад +1

      These kind of messages are medicine for the soul ! Thank you ❤

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever Месяц назад

      💗💗💗

  • @VictoriaJoy-pt7ey
    @VictoriaJoy-pt7ey Месяц назад +11

    Thinking of you, Leni 🌞, Sending love, prayers and hugs. 🍦🇺🇸

  • @lilian_abilla2
    @lilian_abilla2 Месяц назад +13

    I now understand why your dad's face always had that compassionate face towards you.
    He loves you and wants the best for you. He wants his lovely Leni back.
    I know you will heal and you will get your vibe back. Av been there. I know how it feels. Am 44 yrs from Kibra and let me tell you, that freedom and space you get from a broken relationship, is worth it. Just work and concentrate on yourself and happiness dear.
    We love you and shall miss you.

  • @mamabearblue5622
    @mamabearblue5622 Месяц назад +25

    I saw Victor's videos & he gives me the creeps! Honestly he sounds & looks insane! He says things that make no sense.
    Vinn probably drank too much of the Tanzanian drink (forgot the name), but Vinn & Victor really seem to be making up stories.
    I'm so glad you left Leni, now leave that whole relationship in the past!
    Keep vlogging when you feel up to it. I'd love to see more of Germany too.
    There's big trouble in Kenya anyway, so it's best you are away from it, as you would not be able to count on Vinn protecting you.

    • @charlottefolsted478
      @charlottefolsted478 Месяц назад +13

      He gives me the creeps too.
      And scarry to se all the subscribers getting sucked right in again believing every Word.
      How easely people are manipulated by scammers.
      Its mindblowing
      🤯

    • @Inge508
      @Inge508 Месяц назад +4

      @@charlottefolsted478the comments there.. crazy!!!

    • @charlottefolsted478
      @charlottefolsted478 Месяц назад +6

      @@Inge508 They a almost praising these scammers. Calling Them “ Victor the Victorious” and “ Vincent the Conquer” 😮 Its almost like watching an online Cult Leader and his blind followers.

    • @lisademarin8369
      @lisademarin8369 Месяц назад +2

      And he said ge walked beach 44 times. Bad Vibes!​@contribution741

    • @lisademarin8369
      @lisademarin8369 Месяц назад +2

      One person just said she is bowing to Victor.
      Who are these people..what country do they come from? Do they live in some back bush?

  • @Inge508
    @Inge508 Месяц назад +34

    You know what helps people heal from narcissistic abuse? Other people that validate and believe you when you stop the relationship.
    Other people that are not after every dirty detail of your story.
    Other people that just want one thing: restore your self worth, your self- esteem.
    Other people that hold your hand while going through the deep process of grief.
    Other people that value the effort, the endless love,the sacrifices you made in order to make your relationship work.
    Other people that stand up for your Justice and tell the world the truth.
    And when the right support is given, with time we don’t need to call people a victim of abuse. We overcame abuse and become the best happiest version of ourselves.
    And we can always be a safe place for the ones that endure the same mental, emotional and physical violence.
    We are not here to enjoy DRAMA, the situation is already dramatic enough the way it is.
    Team Leni ❤❤❤

    • @PattieE-ej4yl
      @PattieE-ej4yl Месяц назад +6

      @Inge508 Beautiful words. Very good point that we are not here to enjoy the drama. I believe we are here to support Leni to heal from whatever happened. ❤I don't need details.

    • @user-pn3nr3tm9i
      @user-pn3nr3tm9i Месяц назад +4

      Leni jus keep yr head high cause u knw wat u been through...We❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ yr content jus keep on posting..U definitely need healing ..Jus do wats rite for u ..Jus ❤❤❤❤❤yrself U need dat...U are with da best parents n da best friends..Lots of ❤❤❤❤❤❤fr South Africa Durban

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever Месяц назад +3

    • @pumpkinpiex
      @pumpkinpiex Месяц назад +1

      @@user-on5lk2fl5uno one is responsible for Vinn but Vinn

    • @charlottefolsted478
      @charlottefolsted478 Месяц назад +1

      @@user-on5lk2fl5u Vinn was out partying and drinking too hard. Dont loose sleep over that.

  • @annelifestyletv68
    @annelifestyletv68 21 день назад +2

    I know what gaslighting means in a relationship and it hurts so bad…most kenyan men dont value women not until you leave and never come back

    • @NoneQuitter
      @NoneQuitter 19 дней назад

      I wish you didn’t love this comment

  • @binini4431
    @binini4431 2 месяца назад +51

    I send you a lot of hugs! Glad you are safe now! ❤❤❤

  • @user-tm9md2ty1y
    @user-tm9md2ty1y 2 месяца назад +8

    Nope, that was not love, move on and don’t look back. It’s a lesson learned. Better things ahead. Stay strong!

  • @karabelogriffiths6996
    @karabelogriffiths6996 Месяц назад +3

    Big up Leni..I'm so proud of you for finally choosing yourselves girl...sending you hugs❤❤..i saw through that guy from far that he doesn't appreciate you enough..you lived with him in those situations that we all saw n I'll tell you no woman would agree to settle for that but you did...

  • @Atelierpresence
    @Atelierpresence Месяц назад +13

    Liebe Leni,
    Ich habe es immer soooo geliebt eure Video mit Vinn und dir zu hören. Ich habe mich immer wieder gefreut zu sehen wie du sooooo viel für Kenia und deren Population gemacht hast. Ich Danke dir für deine große Hilfe und für alles wo du gegeben hast. Ich freue mich das du bei deiner Familie bist und dich die Freunde und Familie unterstützen können. Liebe Leni ich Danke dir für dein großes ❤und wisse du wirst den besten Weg finden. Ich verstehe dich sehr gut,denn ich war 19.Jahre mit einem Mann aus Westafrika verheiratet. Liebe Leni behalte den Mut und wisse dein Herz kennt den Weg und du darfst deiner Intuition folgen. Ich umarme und Danke dir für deine Wahrhaftigkeit. Alles Liebe 🥰 Herzlichst Doris

  • @carolynbalasingam1130
    @carolynbalasingam1130 Месяц назад +29

    Leni once you are feeling stronger please keep posting. I know your channel will do well. I would love to see some 'Day in my life' vlogs.
    Stay strong. We can all see you are a beautiful, genuine girl and believe in you ❤

  • @user-ez2ev5jp5u
    @user-ez2ev5jp5u 2 месяца назад +36

    Es tut mir sehr leid, dich so zu sehen. Ich wünsche dir von Herzen, dass es dir bald besser geht. Ich bin beeindruckt, wie du - trotz der Umstände - so respektvoll und wohlwollend bist. Dies spricht so sehr für dich liebe Lena!Sei gesenget!

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад +3

      Thank you so much for your kind words and support.

    • @dorcushatlane9525
      @dorcushatlane9525 2 месяца назад +1

      Very true

    • @patriciachardrenken3736
      @patriciachardrenken3736 Месяц назад

      You are a beautiful soul,you were so loving to everyone around you,that you forgot yourself.everything is going to be ok God bless,sometimes LOVE is not enough.

  • @sinelizwichiya7635
    @sinelizwichiya7635 Месяц назад +6

    ❤❤you're so beautiful, Leni, strong, and you've proven to be an amazing and supportive wife publicly. As a black person, watching what you did for your inlaws and husband/ex without even fully understanding the culture is beyond. Even me as a black person, I wouldn't do or tolerate.
    You're so selfless, unfortunately wasn't at the right place, maybe or time. I'm not sure, but I'm glad you realized that love alone is not everything, and choosing yourself was the best decision. You're everything every man out there is looking for. Focus on your healing. I can't wait to see Leni's content, I'm sure there are most interesting things about you, that is obvious!!❤❤❤

  • @marjorie490
    @marjorie490 2 месяца назад +10

    All I can say Leni, I wish you and Vinn all the best, God bless you both 🙏 ❤️ always. I put you both in God's hands ✋️.

  • @mulakosilumesii2805
    @mulakosilumesii2805 2 месяца назад +7

    Leni, you are the bigger person here because you do not want a public war. It is not worth! Focus on yourself and your healing. We will continue to support you as your subscribers. We love you, and please take your time to heal ❤❤❤❤

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever 2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much, we appreciate your kind words .

  • @Ilovecini
    @Ilovecini 2 месяца назад +25

    Leni contact RUclips and tell them the situation they will remove the VInn and Leni channel. Karma will get him, he owes you alot of money, half of the red car is yours and he needs to sell it and give you half of what its worth, same with the furniture and everything else. Get a lawyer!!

    • @floramaya9871
      @floramaya9871 Месяц назад

      Thy didn't have anything,which car??😂😂

    • @Ilovecini
      @Ilovecini Месяц назад

      @@floramaya9871 the red convertible belongs to both of them!!!

    • @murianzi6336
      @murianzi6336 Месяц назад

      A lawyer to do what? She was being fed by Vinn, Vi was the brewd winner, or you say that coz she is white?! Eben whites are homeless dont look down on my African brother!