I quit drinking when a friend called me and told me”do you want your children to remember you as a drunk”? some how that really resonated with me, I had never looked at it that way. I never drank again,I am now two years clean and life is so much better.
ELLY MU No you can tell just by his answers. In my opinion he understands the pain he has caused and as he talks he is reflecting on it. It’s painful but therapeutic at the same time. I’m sure having alcohol in front of you all the time in that industry isn’t easy. Just my opinion.
Just look at how Jenifer took care of him, drove him to rehab , got him food and told the paparazzi to leave and respect him, she did all that despite the divorce and cheating. Because he is the father of her kids. That woman is a true gem. You would be totally blind if you didn’t realise it.
I'm a dirtbag junckie and some of us wouldn't be here without people that dont give up on us.. Jennifer to me seems like a fricken saint. And yall dont know how things went.. this is why I hate social media. Yall saying that Jennifer enabled him are fucking clowns yourselves.
@P Springs2388 Like I said weak, and a bunch of excuses. You literally have the power to stop doing anything you don't want to do anymore. People make any and everything out to be an addiction. I've done drugs and smoked cigarettes and never got addicted to anything. People need to take responsibility for their lives and stop making excuses for bad judgment and poor decisions.
@@Ralph85Williams85 Oh hush, you're probably the kind of person who feels sorry for yourself and blames any problems you have on everyone else, instead of looking in the mirror at yourself. It's only a tragic component in the lives of people who allow it to be.
@@Paths2business8406 You got it right! I throw away my mask! You know everything, even without knowing a bit about my life. If You wanna know... I had a very tough life in a very abusive alcoholic family. I realized something was really wrong about my emotional response to a lot of things. I went into therapy and now i can manage almost everything within and around me. You shut the *** up!
I’ve been sober for 11 years and I can’t imagine having to go on GMA and explain my mistakes and my addiction to the world. But I would do it for my kids and my sobriety too. Takes incredible courage to do what he did.
Siva Subbu He’s an actor trying to rehabilitate his career/image. Keep that in mind before getting all weepy. Also, it’s only been a couple of months since his last tumble off the sobriety wagon. Alcoholics are very manipulative and therefore experienced at the art of deception even during brief periods of sobriety. Before giving him a standing ovation, I would wait for at least the next act.
Siva Subbu - Yes, and you can see the pain in his eyes. Can't be easy to struggle and have the spotlight on you for millions to judge him. I wish him the best.
@@laurawhitaker1797 you are a very unforgiving soul aren't you he is trying here its not about how many times you fall off the wagon its how many times you hop back on it and try again that makes you a success
@@hickokhaley I am pulling for Bennifet 2.0. But after he bashed Jennifer Garner, blaming her for him drinking is so narcissistic of him. Really low blow. I wonder how his children feel knowing their Dad is publicly insulting their Mom Jennifer Garner. Not cool.
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That’s the life of someone with addiction, it is possible a relapse, but people won’t feel empathy for someone like him, they think it’s a matter of his own will, and it isn’t. The same way if someone find out they have cancer they worry, get a treatment, go into remission. But what if they for some crazy reason find another cancer few years down the road? In my opinion it is the same thing, it is horrible. But there is hope, the same way that is hope for cancer. Same people will die, and some won’t. Hope he gets all support he can, being a celebrity doesn’t help at all.
He has a movie coming out in a month where he plays a character with the same struggles. Nothing "amazing" about this sudden honesty; it's a PR stunt for his new movie. A marketing ploy. He also did cocaine and that was the biggest 4 more so than his alcoholism, yet he's selectively keeping the coke habit a secret. So much for honesty.
Kudos to Jen for keeping it together and raising a family as she dealt with the loss of her partner/full time father figure and also continued to help him through this ordeal. I can see why he speaks so highly of her. What a woman.
@@marla591 Do you walk outside your front door, with your faults, written on your forehead.? As for Dianne Sawyer she was disgraceful in her interview with Jennifer Lopez. She would not get away with it today She would have been fired for her astrocious and belittling interview towards Jennifer Lopez. To this day she should have been reprimanded. Forgive my spelling mistakes and grammar I have zero tollerance for people who are disrespectful, Towards different Nationalities. It's about time you cop on, Human Race can procreate. We are all different culture's if you fall in love with. different Nationalities So what be happy and healthy And have beautiful children to pass on your wisdom.
I loved when he said that too. I’m a mom of two toddlers, and he is so right. The big things are big, but the little things are just as big if not greater. I love little random blurted out things and certain facial expressions because you watch their character unfold. Getting to know them is what it is. Christmas, Birthdays, sporting events shift your focus on the big picture, while everyday life gives you deeper insight to the person that they are. That moved me too when he said that.
This made me cry. I lost my dad to liver cancer a few months ago and I remember the fear I lived with growing up, seeing him struggle with alcoholism as long as I can remember. God bless mr affleck for trying so hard.
Coming from a family of alcohol addiction I understand the struggle. I really hope he keeps fighting not just for himself but for his kids. He’s a great actor and director and I really hope he’s surrounded by good people.
It’s “difficult” because you’re living in the problem, instead of the solution. From my own experience, the moment I stopped “trying not to drink”, was the moment my recovery began. Alcohol is NOT the root problem! Living differently is the solution.
Thanks once again for your support towards my career without a good fan like you I wouldn't have come this far,you're a fan indeed, how long have you been a fan of my movies? I will like to know you more you can write me on my private mail @ Benafflecksprivate.mails@gmail.com
Fame. Fortune. Everything. And still learning. He knows that and it takes humility to recognize there is still room for improving yourself even when you're a celebrity. After all, we're all human and imperfect. Really wishing the best for Ben.
He's got the look of a sober guy now. He's got his best years ahead of him. Congratulations Ben! You can see it in his eyes and sincerity. He's got the gift.
I love Ben Affeck but HE WAS A FUCKING WHORE on the beautiful Jennifer Garner!!! . He MUCKED up that beautiful BEAUTIFUL Jennifer Garner!!!! and with children!!! WTF!!!
@@tenderheart7530 LOL. I think he's a great actor but WHORING AROUND is not on the top of my list, it's not even on the bottom! Just DON'T DO IT especially to the mother of his children.
This interview reminded me why I loved Ben. Very proud of what he has overcome. Happy to see him in his original form, same like what he used to be, in his best years. Wish him happiness and peace of mind. Love you Ben ❤
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Wow. I can relate so much to his story. Raised by and around alcoholics. It was just life for me. Had untreated depression. Grew up to become an alcoholic myself and caused pain to the ones I love most. I fought the battle and now have 7 1/2 years of sobriety. Good for you, Ben, for coming out and speaking about your struggles. You’re helping more people than you’ll ever know.
I love this guy. Always loved his work. And I felt for him when he stumbled. I've been sober 20 years and it's never an easy thing to maintain. Depression always seems to come hand and hand with addictions. I really want him to succeed.
I had an aunt that drank herself to death. It’s absolutely horrible. She lived in Alaska most all of her life. Alcoholism is very rampant up there. Almost 20% of the population has a drinking problem.
@@christinel2569 Thanks for the support. It's my out most pleasure having you here, thanks for your support you have been giving me all these years, I won't be here if not for you my lovely fan. I hope you find joy and happiness in my movies? I will have to call you My Super Fan
Maybe Diane's best interview ever. She honored Ben's boundaries and showed him respect while sharing a great story of hope that all suffering similarly, whether famous or not, can relate to. Ben's candidness on a sensitive topic was courageous. Expressing his love and respect for his family is admirable. I wish that I could have been the support his wife was to him in my experience. We live; we learn. Much love to all❤!
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Wow, he looks like his old self again. During his filming of Justice League, his face was different, more bloated. He seems to be doing much better now, good for him.
Desiree Hall not at all. that’s when he started to drink heavily and his marriage was falling apart. Nobody goes from in the best shape of their life for a role and then “puts on some pounds” for the same role, that’s just doesn’t make any sense. He wasn’t healthy in justice league. He was in a bad place in his life
Towards the end of this interview when Ben was talking about “pain” he looks like he really needed a drink right there. I’m 8 months sober from smoking THC and 6yrs sober from alcohol stay strong Batman! 👍🏽
Boogaloo Shrimp can’t do it anymore was a 30 yrs smoker, last 10 yrs I was suffering from (CHS) cannabinod hypermesis syndrome was heavy on concentrates (dabs) the last decade & chs was literally killing me slowly I’m good on that 🙅🏾♂️
Lots of respect and love to Ben for being so open about his alcohol addiction. Yes he is a very famous actor but he is human, a father and has feelings like anyone.
@@Nazaba09 Thanks for the support. It's my out most pleasure having you here, thanks for your support you have been giving me all these years, I won't be here if not for you my lovely fan. I hope you find joy and happiness in my movies? I will have to call you My Super Fan
@@Bradley2294 Thanks for the support. It's my out most pleasure having you here, thanks for your support you have been giving me all these years, I won't be here if not for you my lovely fan. I hope you find joy and happiness in my movies? I will have to call you My Super Fan
This man is so special and great!!!! I’ve worked with him with my daughter for weeks on set and I can see the hurt and love each time in his eyes🙏🏼He’s funny and down to earth and I hope he finds his true worth inside outside of Hollywood 🥰
I admire him for being very honest. It’s hard enough to go through this privately, let alone publicly. We’ve all made mistakes and I wish him the best!
He learned how to break that chain so no one has to live and grow up remembering any sort of what he remembers and that is a big big hard thing to do talking about it makes it easier though I learned or even physical fitness helps to for me
When he said the word “failure” he almost cried and the camera cut. I can see his pain and sadness as he’s trying to put a strong face. I can imagine the struggle of alcoholism in general but to also have a public career, the pressure in the entertainment industry, while trying to be a parent is a lot and I’m so happy to see he’s fighting so hard for his kids to break this generational curse. He’s so blessed to have people who love him. I understand he didn’t want to talk about his marriage and divorce in detail because he’s felt like he let Jennifer down and after everything she physically went to get him help many times for the sake of their kids, that right there is LOVE. I’m just wishing and praying so hard for anyone going through this and that they receive the help, love and second chance ❤️
I have SO much respect for Ben. He went through alot a few years ago and now, he has been able to bring himself back and stay healthy. Incredible. Well Done Ben!
Nice to see a big star being genuine, open and honest for a change and not sycophantic and over sentimental and not being guarded and defensive, full respect to the guy
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This man is so incredible, I have so much respect for him for trying to overcome his demons and generational trauma. My dad himself has battled alcoholism and he quit a few years ago. It was one of the hardest things he has done but my family is so much better now. Sure, he still has major mood swings and is prone to anger on occasion due to alcohol withdrawals - but he is improving. Alcoholism destroys families. If you see someone suffering, please get them the help they need.
@Jennifer Burton It's like trying to cut out eating junk food....You have to "clean up your living environment".... you can't bring junk food [ alcoholic beverages ] into the house because you inherently know your LACK OF DISCIPLINE😏 You know you will eat ( drink ) until there is NOTHING left in the cupboard. It's as simple as that. You can't buy the illicit item when you know you STILL LACK self control.
@@AuntieSDC I would HARDLY compare addiction to a “lack of control” it’s so much more than that. Many more layers deep. I would also never compare alcoholism to “junk food” That’s just me. I have a college degree and multiple years of sobriety. What tf do I know though
@@AuntieSDC I will agree with you in cleaning up your environment. I just didn’t care for your particular analogy. I WISH it was as easy as giving up sweets or a food that I love. It’s a lifelong battle, morning to night. It’s a mental obsession. It’s years of treatment facilities and various medications. It’s growing up being raped and abused, starved. Years of being in the foster system. Years of abuse with no warmth aside from having a drink. Getting used to numbing yourself because life is so hard. To me, that’s alcoholism. Not simple a matter of “oh I can’t refrain or I have no control” it’s NOT about that, it’s about pain so deep and depression that never ends. That’s what perpetuates the vicious cycle of alcoholism.
@@jenniferburton7044 That was NOT what I meant; Please don't put words in my mouth. I am also college educated...have had to survive sexual assault etc. I know that removing those addictive subtances out of the environment, means you don't have it in your space to use it when you are vulnerable. Period. Full stop.. It's not a long-term solution, however if you don't have the subtances at your disposal, that's just a start. You still have to do the work to maintain sobriety.
This was a really good interview. It takes a! lot! of COURAGE! to come forth (and open up) about the struggles and challenges life presents us with and Ben is right when he says he takes "comfort" in knowing this is the "shared reality" of the human experience. None of us are as alone as we sometimes feel that we are:-) Everyone is in this together. Really good interview.
Ben looks so healthy and young! Good to see his life is getting back on track. Disappointed that he won't return as Batman but no role is more important than his life.
Thanks for the support. It's my out most pleasure having you here, thanks for your support you have been giving me all these years, I won't be here if not for you my lovely fan. I hope you find joy and happiness in my movies? I will have to call you My Super Fan
As the daughter of a (recovering) Alcoholic, I have complete and utter respect for his raw honesty. We're all humans at the end of the day, we're going to make mistakes and probably hurt those closest to us at some stage in our lives. But you can see his WILL and determination to be a better person, man and Father. You got this, Ben.
Thanks for the support. It's my out most pleasure having you here, thanks for your support you have been giving me all these years, I won't be here if not for you my lovely fan. I hope you find joy and happiness in my movies? I will have to call you My Super Fan
Last year summer I was living in a homeless shelter.When Ben Affleck payed a visit to determine if he should extend his generosity for donation to the shelter.I had a great opportunity to meet with him by using sense of humor.His manner,attitude and personality was very respectful and polite. He made me feel gay after giving me a hug for too long( cringey)but I got a hug from Batman.LOL.BLESS UP.
I’m a drug addict and I can totally relate to Ben! He’s so right, addiction is one of the most painful things you will ever go thru and the most painful part doesn’t even have anything to do with you! It’s your friends, your family, the people that matter the most who you are hurting day by day, that’s the most painful part of the whole thing! Knowing your hurting them so bad, but you just can’t stop
I uses to think good looking people like Ben had perfect lives, at least that's the way I use to think. life gets hard for everyone sometimes. I hope the best for him.
madeline cruz he may win another Oscar. This is real life, I am glad he is facing. As a daughter of an alcoholic that never got treatment, I am cheering for him.
If you are going to be interviewed.....Diane Sawyer is the best....OMG addiction is a struggle....so glad you got help and make the best out of every day....life is short.....wishing you and yours a beautiful life....Peace and Love.
Thanks for the support. It's my out most pleasure having you here, thanks for your support you have been giving me all these years, I won't be here if not for you my lovely fan. I hope you find joy and happiness in my movies? I will have to call you My Super Fan
Another fantastic interview by Diane S. Love how she stays on task, doesn’t allow any manipulative behavior to bubble up- no pandering - as a result his answers aren’t scripted. Healthy and refreshing. All I kept thinking about was Jennifer G. ... on top of all the struggles - she’s freaking amazing.
Good for you Ben. If you should read this I too am a 47 year old dad who is decided to stop drinking. (43 days ago to be exact.) I connect with what you said more than you know. You articulate well and I’m sure others will be blessed by what you say as much as I was.
Addiction, depression and pain are something a lot of us can relate to in one way or another. Kudos to you Ben for facing your own personal demons and rising above them. Don’t let the pain from your past consume who you are or can become today. 🙏💖🙏
I hope he gets back with his wife they seem like they can make it especially for their kids. He doesn’t look swollen and back to his old handsome self again always liked him
It’s hard to be vulnerable but that’s awesome that he’s able to show his struggles because no matter how much money you have ,everyone goes through stuff.
I quit drinking when a friend called me and told me”do you want your children to remember you as a drunk”? some how that really resonated with me, I had never looked at it that way. I never drank again,I am now two years clean and life is so much better.
Harvey7878 notice how I said it better and not grate.
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Thanks for sharing. This made me emotional and genuinely happy you made that decision.
He sounded like he was on the verge of tears throughout the whole interview. Forgiveness is available for you too, Ben.
ELLY MU He was choking up.
ELLY MU No you can tell just by his answers. In my opinion he understands the pain he has caused and as he talks he is reflecting on it. It’s painful but therapeutic at the same time. I’m sure having alcohol in front of you all the time in that industry isn’t easy. Just my opinion.
@ELLY MU
I was thinking the same thing but alcohol not medication.
Bindi Marc forgiveness is available to a lot of people they have just understand that it’s there.
he also sounds like he's....A LITTLE DRUNK.
Constant slurring going on!
Just look at how Jenifer took care of him, drove him to rehab , got him food and told the paparazzi to leave and respect him, she did all that despite the divorce and cheating. Because he is the father of her kids. That woman is a true gem. You would be totally blind if you didn’t realise it.
Agree!
thats major co-dependance an illness she's teaching her children now.
I'm a dirtbag junckie and some of us wouldn't be here without people that dont give up on us.. Jennifer to me seems like a fricken saint. And yall dont know how things went.. this is why I hate social media. Yall saying that Jennifer enabled him are fucking clowns yourselves.
She is
He is blind for sure .......
Drinking is a real struggle. I appreciate Ben Affleck 's honesty.
It’s really not, it’s called being weak.
@P Springs2388 Like I said weak, and a bunch of excuses. You literally have the power to stop doing anything you don't want to do anymore. People make any and everything out to be an addiction. I've done drugs and smoked cigarettes and never got addicted to anything. People need to take responsibility for their lives and stop making excuses for bad judgment and poor decisions.
@@Paths2business8406 You must be the Specialist we were looking for. A true contribution to this tragic component of so many people's lives!
@@Ralph85Williams85 Oh hush, you're probably the kind of person who feels sorry for yourself and blames any problems you have on everyone else, instead of looking in the mirror at yourself. It's only a tragic component in the lives of people who allow it to be.
@@Paths2business8406 You got it right! I throw away my mask! You know everything, even without knowing a bit about my life.
If You wanna know... I had a very tough life in a very abusive alcoholic family. I realized something was really wrong about my emotional response to a lot of things. I went into therapy and now i can manage almost everything within and around me.
You shut the *** up!
I’ve been sober for 11 years and I can’t imagine having to go on GMA and explain my mistakes and my addiction to the world. But I would do it for my kids and my sobriety too. Takes incredible courage to do what he did.
11 years sober is such an accomplishment. Hope you’re doing well kind stranger.
I was an alcoholic for 10 years, such a horrible hell I lived and my children, with Jesus I have been able to be sober for 10 months ❤️❤️❤️
Liz Lopez, I have been there and done that myself. Stay Strong and Stay Well!!! 15 year's of sobriety here in Philadelphia, Pa. I am Proud of you!👍👍👍👍
You can do it!!! Lean on to Jesus
Praise God!
Amen🙏❗With Jesus nothing is impossible!
How nice of Jesus to wait ten years
When a man opens up like that, it's real and he's hurting.
You can hear the pain in his voice for sure.
Siva Subbu He’s an actor trying to rehabilitate his career/image. Keep that in mind before getting all weepy. Also, it’s only been a couple of months since his last tumble off the sobriety wagon. Alcoholics are very manipulative and therefore experienced at the art of deception even during brief periods of sobriety. Before giving him a standing ovation, I would wait for at least the next act.
Siva Subbu - Yes, and you can see the pain in his eyes. Can't be easy to struggle and have the spotlight on you for millions to judge him. I wish him the best.
@@laurawhitaker1797 you are a very unforgiving soul aren't you he is trying here its not about how many times you fall off the wagon its how many times you hop back on it and try again that makes you a success
@@laurawhitaker1797 I want to ask you how you lost your faith in people.
proud of Ben for trying to be a better man and father, for loving his kids that much.
He’s a good guy. He just struggles with alcohol addiction like so many of us..... I feel him. I understand.
Agree, no ones perfect in this world
My Cousin struggled with addiction as well, but he never blamed his wife. He took responsibility for his struggles.
He’s not a good guy, he cheated on his wife who took care of him
@@hickokhaley I am pulling for Bennifet 2.0. But after he bashed Jennifer Garner, blaming her for him drinking is so narcissistic of him. Really low blow. I wonder how his children feel knowing their Dad is publicly insulting their Mom Jennifer Garner. Not cool.
A broken family is one of the hardest most heart-wrenching thing..
Ben Affleck, I never thought I could stop either! 15 year's of sobriety here in Philadelphia, Pa. Stay Strong and Stay Well!
Michael Gaynor
5 years for me. Well done brother.
@@kpag3030 Congrats to you
Michael Gaynor
Proud of you ,Congratulations !!!!
VERY proud of both of you! Take good care of yourself!!
Kelly Pagano and Blessed Highly Favored, Thank you so much, Stay Strong and Stay Well! I went from being a Homeless Alcoholic to a Proud Duplex Owner! Never look back at past mistakes and regrets,Believe in yourselves.👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👍
“I don’t want my kids to pay for my sins” wow, he’s at least owning his mistakes and struggles and he seems like he’s ready to start over.
Haha Ben funny
@thokozani duwinde ,one day at a time, and Never look back!
Good for him and his kids but... it's not wowing.
That’s the life of someone with addiction, it is possible a relapse, but people won’t feel empathy for someone like him, they think it’s a matter of his own will, and it isn’t. The same way if someone find out they have cancer they worry, get a treatment, go into remission. But what if they for some crazy reason find another cancer few years down the road? In my opinion it is the same thing, it is horrible. But there is hope, the same way that is hope for cancer. Same people will die, and some won’t. Hope he gets all support he can, being a celebrity doesn’t help at all.
nicola simpkins at his age it’s pretty much guarantee. Because I am sure that this is not a new problem, it’s just takes years to admit it.
Its amazing that hes opening up like this. Shows that anyone can battle the addiction disease. Tons of respect for Ben.
He has a movie coming out in a month where he plays a character with the same struggles. Nothing "amazing" about this sudden honesty; it's a PR stunt for his new movie. A marketing ploy. He also did cocaine and that was the biggest 4 more so than his alcoholism, yet he's selectively keeping the coke habit a secret. So much for honesty.
@@zhaquiri just stfu my guy...you never know what alcohol can do to you?
“Battling” is a recipe for failure. The solution is to live differently.
@@zhaquiri Oh wow It’s almost as if actors sometimes portray people who are similar to them 🤔
Kudos to Jen for keeping it together and raising a family as she dealt with the loss of her partner/full time father figure and also continued to help him through this ordeal. I can see why he speaks so highly of her. What a woman.
Yeah, until JLo came along.
He’s got so much sadness in his eyes.
A lot of alcoholics do.
He's a sad sack.
@@marla591 Do you walk outside your front door, with your faults, written on your forehead.?
As for Dianne Sawyer she was disgraceful in her interview with Jennifer Lopez.
She would not get away with it today
She would have been fired for her astrocious and belittling interview towards Jennifer Lopez.
To this day she should have been reprimanded.
Forgive my spelling mistakes and grammar
I have zero tollerance for people who are disrespectful, Towards different Nationalities.
It's about time you cop on, Human Race can procreate.
We are all different culture's if you fall in love with. different Nationalities
So what be happy and healthy
And have beautiful children to pass on your wisdom.
@@eternalbliss5189 True
Accountability.
“It’s in the cracks ...” I was never a huge fan of his; I am now a huge supporter. What a fantastic and humble conversation.
Why do you feel the need to mention you never were a fan?
i know how that is, something about a person makes you not like them, then you hear them speak and they become "human".
I loved when he said that too. I’m a mom of two toddlers, and he is so right. The big things are big, but the little things are just as big if not greater. I love little random blurted out things and certain facial expressions because you watch their character unfold. Getting to know them is what it is. Christmas, Birthdays, sporting events shift your focus on the big picture, while everyday life gives you deeper insight to the person that they are. That moved me too when he said that.
14 Aspen Drive Why does it matter to you that much, or at all? She can say whatever she wants. Get off your soapbox, boomer.
NancyEllenB I agree
This made me cry. I lost my dad to liver cancer a few months ago and I remember the fear I lived with growing up, seeing him struggle with alcoholism as long as I can remember. God bless mr affleck for trying so hard.
Coming from a family of alcohol addiction I understand the struggle. I really hope he keeps fighting not just for himself but for his kids. He’s a great actor and director and I really hope he’s surrounded by good people.
Maria Rosales, I too came from a Family with Alcohol abuse! Myself included, now have 15 years of sobriety here in Philadelphia, Pa.
@Harvey7878 no wonder parents does'nt care about children how they wanted to educate your kid
My father was an alcoholic
I’ve been sober 15 years & it’s still difficult most days. I hope he and everyone struggling with addiction finds the strength to make it through.
It’s “difficult” because you’re living in the problem, instead of the solution. From my own experience, the moment I stopped “trying not to drink”, was the moment my recovery began. Alcohol is NOT the root problem! Living differently is the solution.
He’s a great actor and seems like a great person. Hope he gets back on his feet.
nr99 👍
Ben, “What is possible is greater than what has past”. Words to live by 🔥
Thanks my wonderful fan
Thanks once again for your support towards my career without a good fan like you I wouldn't have come this far,you're a fan indeed, how long have you been a fan of my movies? I will like to know you more you can write me on my private mail @ Benafflecksprivate.mails@gmail.com
Damn Ben has so many different accounts and time to comment in between JLo and movie roles
Fame. Fortune. Everything. And still learning. He knows that and it takes humility to recognize there is still room for improving yourself even when you're a celebrity. After all, we're all human and imperfect. Really wishing the best for Ben.
Meh that's true, dispite that cancerous divorce he had, I just don't know if I can trust Jennifer anymore.
I wish him all the luck and support in his healing journey
I pray he maintains this course and is honest with himself and learns that loving yourself is half the battle.
Thanks
He's got the look of a sober guy now. He's got his best years ahead of him. Congratulations Ben! You can see it in his eyes and sincerity. He's got the gift.
I have so much respect for him, this must have been very difficult
He's a good guy. I hope he finds his way.
@Righteous,guess your still searching!!!!
Agreed ...
I love Ben Affeck but HE WAS A FUCKING WHORE on the beautiful Jennifer Garner!!! . He MUCKED up that beautiful BEAUTIFUL Jennifer Garner!!!! and with children!!! WTF!!!
Mary T
So why do you love him?
@@tenderheart7530 LOL. I think he's a great actor but WHORING AROUND is not on the top of my list, it's not even on the bottom! Just DON'T DO IT especially to the mother of his children.
He looks so good at his age, just being humble I guess.
IceCreamDream Aw. That was nice. He does. He’s still cute
He’s 47 not 77. He isn’t old.
he didn't for a while. looks much better now. healthier.
He really does.
Tremendous respect for how honest he is! Great interview.
This was a heartfelt interview; I wish him all the best in the world!
I can hear him fighting back tears from emotion.. ♥️💪🏽. Keep fighting the good fight Ben!!
This man is underrated as an actor.
@Hazries45 nah watch the extended edition. Great movie.
This interview reminded me why I loved Ben. Very proud of what he has overcome. Happy to see him in his original form, same like what he used to be, in his best years. Wish him happiness and peace of mind. Love you Ben ❤
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Wow. I can relate so much to his story. Raised by and around alcoholics. It was just life for me. Had untreated depression. Grew up to become an alcoholic myself and caused pain to the ones I love most. I fought the battle and now have 7 1/2 years of sobriety. Good for you, Ben, for coming out and speaking about your struggles. You’re helping more people than you’ll ever know.
The end of that interview really got to me. I hear and feel his pain.
I love this guy. Always loved his work. And I felt for him when he stumbled. I've been sober 20 years and it's never an easy thing to maintain. Depression always seems to come hand and hand with addictions. I really want him to succeed.
Shaun 👍
Alcoholic is a terrible word. The reality of Alcoholism is much more terrifying.
I had an aunt that drank herself to death. It’s absolutely horrible. She lived in Alaska most all of her life. Alcoholism is very rampant up there. Almost 20% of the population has a drinking problem.
@@glendaroberts5965 self treatment of mental disorders
@@glendaroberts5965 It's not just in Alaska; its prevalent in every state across the nation.
It doesn't have to define a person.
@@glendaroberts5965
Keeps them warm.
I really don’t want my child to pay for my sins. Powerful. You aren’t alone, Ben. My Father was an alcoholic, too. God’s very best to you.
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How's your father doing now?
Thanks my dear fan, you are right for what you said.
@@christinel2569 Thanks for the support. It's my out most pleasure having you here, thanks for your support you have been giving me all these years, I won't be here if not for you my lovely fan. I hope you find joy and happiness in my movies? I will have to call you My Super Fan
He needs the prayer support. God bless him. We all need it.
Maybe Diane's best interview ever. She honored Ben's boundaries and showed him respect while sharing a great story of hope that all suffering similarly, whether famous or not, can relate to. Ben's candidness on a sensitive topic was courageous. Expressing his love and respect for his family is admirable. I wish that I could have been the support his wife was to him in my experience. We live; we learn. Much love to all❤!
He seems very sincere! Good for him
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Wow, he looks like his old self again. During his filming of Justice League, his face was different, more bloated. He seems to be doing much better now, good for him.
Desiree Hall not at all. that’s when he started to drink heavily and his marriage was falling apart. Nobody goes from in the best shape of their life for a role and then “puts on some pounds” for the same role, that’s just doesn’t make any sense. He wasn’t healthy in justice league. He was in a bad place in his life
Desiree Hall I did. What’s your point?
Andy Castellanos I was thinking the same.
Being an alcoholic you get that face bloat no matter how fit you get, he doesnt have that anymore. He looks good here.
@@TheFailedmessiah how fit a person is if he is a drink huh? You cant be both
Towards the end of this interview when Ben was talking about “pain” he looks like he really needed a drink right there. I’m 8 months sober from smoking THC and 6yrs sober from alcohol stay strong Batman! 👍🏽
PMCO5,I never thought I could stop either, I now have 15 years of sobriety here in Philadelphia, Pa. Stay Strong and Stay Well!
@Anna Smith ,so true,so true! I hid the pain of being Molested by a cousin!
There's nothing wrong with marijuana dude. Smoke up
Boogaloo Shrimp can’t do it anymore was a 30 yrs smoker, last 10 yrs I was suffering from (CHS) cannabinod hypermesis syndrome was heavy on concentrates (dabs) the last decade & chs was literally killing me slowly I’m good on that 🙅🏾♂️
@@lstruggy That's your problem. Heavy dab use. Smoke flower you'll be alright
Lots of respect and love to Ben for being so open about his alcohol addiction. Yes he is a very famous actor but he is human, a father and has feelings like anyone.
I have so much respect for him to open up like that. Amazing and very helpful
Ben, despite being 47, looks like he could be in his early to Mid 30s. Good for him.
Get botox and see a Dermatologist like he does and you can look that way too.
Matthew Jay Evans lmao he looks 40 minimum
Just be Black and you won't crack!
@@Justme-fh3qi Botox, lower blepharoplasty surgery , fillers and radiofrecuency on the face.
Awe Ben 💕 You are a good person and you are not defined by your mistakes. I wish you the best.
Bradley Noth Why dont you two just get a room? 🙄
angelina angel he never cheated they were already broken up.
angelina angel I would hate for me, you or Ben Affleck to be considered bad people for one bad mistake we made throughout the course of our lives.
@@Nazaba09 Thanks for the support. It's my out most pleasure having you here, thanks for your support you have been giving me all these years, I won't be here if not for you my lovely fan. I hope you find joy and happiness in my movies? I will have to call you My Super Fan
@@Bradley2294 Thanks for the support. It's my out most pleasure having you here, thanks for your support you have been giving me all these years, I won't be here if not for you my lovely fan. I hope you find joy and happiness in my movies? I will have to call you My Super Fan
He is a beautiful person!
@Whatever you're an ass ... and he has spoken about the despicable Weinstein. Actually stuck up for Gwyneth Paltrow to him, so, STFU
Maria Lewis nope. That was Brad Pitt not Afleck
Maria Lewis uhh wasn’t that Brad Pitt? :/
@@ROFO79 ben Affleck knew all about Weinstein but didn't say anything..
Thanks Barbara
This man is so special and great!!!! I’ve worked with him with my daughter for weeks on set and I can see the hurt and love each time in his eyes🙏🏼He’s funny and down to earth and I hope he finds his true worth inside outside of Hollywood 🥰
Thanks crystal
I admire him for being very honest. It’s hard enough to go through this privately, let alone publicly. We’ve all made mistakes and I wish him the best!
Beautifully honest and sincere!!!Great job!!!
Diane looks so natural and gorgeous still at 74. If she has had a lot of surgery, she did it well.
janey doe-nuts that bitch def don’t look natural mad botox
Wtf you talking about she looks like she just walked out of the plastic mold.
steverico fr this guy smoking
You high bruh?
@@musicman76enator I fucking am and I still see that plastic bitch.
He learned how to break that chain so no one has to live and grow up remembering any sort of what he remembers and that is a big big hard thing to do talking about it makes it easier though I learned or even physical fitness helps to for me
When he said the word “failure” he almost cried and the camera cut. I can see his pain and sadness as he’s trying to put a strong face. I can imagine the struggle of alcoholism in general but to also have a public career, the pressure in the entertainment industry, while trying to be a parent is a lot and I’m so happy to see he’s fighting so hard for his kids to break this generational curse. He’s so blessed to have people who love him. I understand he didn’t want to talk about his marriage and divorce in detail because he’s felt like he let Jennifer down and after everything she physically went to get him help many times for the sake of their kids, that right there is LOVE. I’m just wishing and praying so hard for anyone going through this and that they receive the help, love and second chance ❤️
He should just move on. I wish him out of the hollyweird delusion and a more normal life. He is being pathetic and needs to get a grip.
All creds to Ben for opening about his addiction but can we talk about Diane Sawyer for a second? This woman is 74. Holyyy
His heart was so hurt , yes 74 shes amazing
Damn, son! She's holding it together like a champ.
Who is she ????the one in interviewing?¿
I have SO much respect for Ben. He went through alot a few years ago and now, he has been able to bring himself back and stay healthy. Incredible. Well Done Ben!
You can do it, Ben!
He truly wants to get better. I think he will 🙏
Nice to see a big star being genuine, open and honest for a change and not sycophantic and over sentimental and not being guarded and defensive, full respect to the guy
I love him so much more now. Heard he's the sweetest guy, and this is so wonderful to see. Feel so bad for him
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This man is so incredible, I have so much respect for him for trying to overcome his demons and generational trauma. My dad himself has battled alcoholism and he quit a few years ago. It was one of the hardest things he has done but my family is so much better now. Sure, he still has major mood swings and is prone to anger on occasion due to alcohol withdrawals - but he is improving. Alcoholism destroys families. If you see someone suffering, please get them the help they need.
A lot of addicts are self-medicating. It sounds like your dad could benefit from looking into that.
"I can drink like a normal person. Just wine with dinner" - every alcoholic ever
It’s never just one
@Jennifer Burton It's like trying to cut out eating junk food....You have to "clean up your living environment".... you can't bring junk food [ alcoholic beverages ] into the house because you inherently know your LACK OF DISCIPLINE😏 You know you will eat ( drink ) until there is NOTHING left in the cupboard. It's as simple as that. You can't buy the illicit item when you know you STILL LACK self control.
@@AuntieSDC I would HARDLY compare addiction to a “lack of control” it’s so much more than that. Many more layers deep. I would also never compare alcoholism to “junk food” That’s just me. I have a college degree and multiple years of sobriety. What tf do I know though
@@AuntieSDC I will agree with you in cleaning up your environment. I just didn’t care for your particular analogy. I WISH it was as easy as giving up sweets or a food that I love. It’s a lifelong battle, morning to night. It’s a mental obsession. It’s years of treatment facilities and various medications. It’s growing up being raped and abused, starved. Years of being in the foster system. Years of abuse with no warmth aside from having a drink. Getting used to numbing yourself because life is so hard. To me, that’s alcoholism. Not simple a matter of “oh I can’t refrain or I have no control” it’s NOT about that, it’s about pain so deep and depression that never ends. That’s what perpetuates the vicious cycle of alcoholism.
@@jenniferburton7044 That was NOT what I meant; Please don't put words in my mouth. I am also college educated...have had to survive sexual assault etc. I know that removing those addictive subtances out of the environment, means you don't have it in your space to use it when you are vulnerable. Period. Full stop.. It's not a long-term solution, however if you don't have the subtances at your disposal, that's just a start. You still have to do the work to maintain sobriety.
I Love the Affleck Brothers
Ben looks so sad
God Bless him
Such an honest and real interview. I hope he realizes how many people this will help.
This was a really good interview. It takes a! lot! of COURAGE! to come forth (and open up) about the struggles and challenges life presents us with and Ben is right when he says he takes "comfort" in knowing this is the "shared reality" of the human experience. None of us are as alone as we sometimes feel that we are:-) Everyone is in this together. Really good interview.
Ben looks so healthy and young! Good to see his life is getting back on track. Disappointed that he won't return as Batman but no role is more important than his life.
Alex D'souza Exactly. His health is more important than anything.
@J cvb Whatever he's doing is great cause he looked so out of shape and bloated last year. He looks fit now.
I love Diane Sawyer! I've been watching her for over twenty years. She's still super beautiful! Very happy she did another interview.
Diane is the best, to notice something subtle, such as Ben's face changing every time he says "pain."
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@@benaffleck9736 lol
It’s admirable to see these men battle their demons on a world stage and open up and be vulnerable.
Ben is a great role model as he is himself in everything he does, he's the best of Hollywood had offered us and i pray he stays humble as he is.
As the daughter of a (recovering) Alcoholic, I have complete and utter respect for his raw honesty. We're all humans at the end of the day, we're going to make mistakes and probably hurt those closest to us at some stage in our lives. But you can see his WILL and determination to be a better person, man and Father. You got this, Ben.
I don’t have any more room for failure. Wao!! God got you Ben. Just keep looking.
Suyapa Opina 👍
Hello beautiful how are you spending your day
Wow, I so admire him for being so transparent. 🙏♥️
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Hes so wise "parenting is in the cracks". Hes great.
This was a great interview. He was very raw. Addiction is no joke. Glad to see you’re doing better, Ben ❤️.
I hope he stays that way
Love these guys coming forward with their issues. I'm going through it too. God bless
Richard Kelbie 👏 you got this
Last year summer I was living in a homeless shelter.When Ben Affleck payed a visit to determine if he should extend his generosity for donation to the shelter.I had a great opportunity to meet with him
by using sense of humor.His manner,attitude and personality was very respectful and polite.
He made me feel gay after giving me a hug for too long( cringey)but I got a hug from Batman.LOL.BLESS UP.
Sefa Doe that’s beautiful!
I’m a drug addict and I can totally relate to Ben! He’s so right, addiction is one of the most painful things you will ever go thru and the most painful part doesn’t even have anything to do with you! It’s your friends, your family, the people that matter the most who you are hurting day by day, that’s the most painful part of the whole thing! Knowing your hurting them so bad, but you just can’t stop
Pain is losing a child to drugs. In this day in age, anyone that gets involved in doing drugs knows what they're doing. You play, you pay.
@@marla591 I’m sorry if you have lost your child to drugs.. that must be very painful
Big respect from Saudi Arabia to Ben Affleck ❤️
He’s a good dude and I’m
So glad he’s bc on track and moving on with his life ,happy ,sober and healthy !
I uses to think good looking people like Ben had perfect lives, at least that's the way I use to think. life gets hard for everyone sometimes. I hope the best for him.
They are celebrities but they are also just human beings. We all have ups and downs. It's life
@J cvb Oh I didn't know this video is about Weinstein. It seems you know the real story more than anyone else.
Perfection is a complete stereotyped fantasy, everything that exists has its pros and cons
Thank you so much Ben! You are a fantastic advocate for people living with alcoholism, you Sir are a survivor! 👏👏👏💙
This is going to be a great movie for him because he doesn’t have to do much research for the role. I am glad that he’s doing better.
madeline cruz he may win another Oscar. This is real life, I am glad he is facing. As a daughter of an alcoholic that never got treatment, I am cheering for him.
Lauren May same here. Like you I know what it’s like to live with an alcoholic. I wish him nothing but the best. It’s a struggle for life.
If you are going to be interviewed.....Diane Sawyer is the best....OMG addiction is a struggle....so glad you got help and make the best out of every day....life is short.....wishing you and yours a beautiful life....Peace and Love.
this is such an honest Interview . I have a lot respect for that !!
Thanks for wonderful word
I room served Diane, very sweet lady. She gave me $100 as I was leaving her room. She had ordered a salad and a glass of champagne :-)
B man that’s nice to hear!
She probably gave you 100$ in hopes you wouldn’t tell anyone what she ordered!
@@nw3998 cool
Now that's class
Still so handsome💕 happy for your sobriety 🙏🏻
Hello beautiful how are you spending your day
Where are you located most beautiful
“I’m doing my very best… it has to be… I don’t have any more room for failure.” .....that...smh
Keep movin honey, ya got this 👍
Sonya Graves that part hit me
He's human! This interview makes me love him more.
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He is so handsome 😍
I love all his movies
Another fantastic interview by Diane S. Love how she stays on task, doesn’t allow any manipulative behavior to bubble up- no pandering - as a result his answers aren’t scripted. Healthy and refreshing.
All I kept thinking about was Jennifer G. ... on top of all the struggles - she’s freaking amazing.
I am happy for him. Hopefully he does not relapse again for ever. He is with JLO now and she will keep him in check because of his love for her.
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Once an alcoholic ALWAYS an alcoholic the idea we can ever drink like normal people has to be smashed.
Nobody wants to die that young
I give him 1 year max to relapse again.
Y E S S S S
that's not true lol anyone can kick the stuff, and consume it in a responsible fashion.
Bryan Hernandez and that my friend is bullshit
he has been one of my favorites. so handsome and genuine spirit. good to hear from
him.
J cvb what does another mans actions have to do with him? you took 45 seconds out your fay to prove you a hater. ✌🏽
Good for you Ben. If you should read this I too am a 47 year old dad who is decided to stop drinking. (43 days ago to be exact.) I connect with what you said more than you know. You articulate well and I’m sure others will be blessed by what you say as much as I was.
Love this guy. Was always one of my favorite actors. Having gotten through heroin addiction alive I understand the struggle. Wish him all the best.
i wish him the best he is brave talking about his pain and suffering and helping himself to a better life I wish him well
Addiction, depression and pain are something a lot of us can relate to in one way or another. Kudos to you Ben for facing your own personal demons and rising above them. Don’t let the pain from your past consume who you are or can become today. 🙏💖🙏
I hope he gets back with his wife they seem like they can make it especially for their kids. He doesn’t look swollen and back to his old handsome self again always liked him
It’s hard to be vulnerable but that’s awesome that he’s able to show his struggles because no matter how much money you have ,everyone goes through stuff.
I appreciate his realness. His honesty. 👍💛💯