The Currency Of Whiteness Is Compliance - Must Watch
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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
- THE CURRENCY OF WHITENESS IS COMPLIANCE - In This Video A White Woman Talks About How White Women Feel Confronted But They Don't Realize When A Black Woman Is Present And They Feel Like The Black Woman Is Not Complying To Them And In A Way, She Also Talks About The Hierarchy Of Race In The US Compared To Where She's Originally From.
#mustwatch #racialprofiling #racialreconciliation
She is so right about them wanting blk ppl esp women to stay "in their place".
It's the only control they have. When they go home, their husbands run that household. Hell, a lot of those women don't even control their own money. White men are just as messy as the rest. They cheat on their wives, but they're discreet about it. That's how they "respect" their wives.
I honestly don't feel this is exclusive to yt women either. I hear this sentiment in the *Brown Latino community in the US as well, though we tend to be more explicitly aware of it. We have a fear of becoming the new Black people, so we have a lot of prejudice against Black people in a futile attempt to distance ourselves as much as possible. I've heard comments all my life about Black people bringing the Latinos community down, not because this is actually happening, but because we're trying to distance ourselves. And of course this is more explicit in yt Latinos attempts to distance themselves from Brown Latinos and Brown Latinos refusal to acknowledge Afro Latinos.
@@TheCakeIsALie-1yes white women. Latin women. Middle eastern women. Asian women. Indian women all do this to black women. But we're all women and in this together
Yeah, but this should not scare you from Marrying outside your race because BM will do 5x more to keep you in your place and give you no incentive or resources for your femininity.
This is insanely true. I love that a white woman came and stated this. Whiteness is a currency in this society
You love that a white woman stated something she already knew or should've known?... but you would call another black woman a bunch of labels for talking about the same thing? 😂
Yeah, very true, but this should not scare you from Marrying outside your race because BM will do 5x more to keep you in your place and give you no incentive or resources for your femininity. If you want to be elevated like Ketanji Brown Jackson or Vice President Kamala Harris, marry out and let him 🧔🏼🧔🏻👨🏼invest in you.
Maybe that’s why they age so quickly, always in other people’s business and keeping all that stuff inside😂😂😂
Black don’t crack!😂😂😂
Exactly
It’s the hatred it ages you when you are fueled on hatred of those deemed beneath you. That’s a sickness that will show eventually
@@DianaPrinceitiswhatitis Liesss, Black does crack when you tether yourself with a Black man and struggle & start having children with them and having no access to resources or medical procedures or upgraded medical treatment.
@@louisachalarca6494Black does crack though. Our mothers who were abused and misused by Black men and struggled definitely crack before their time and aged very much faster…. They even had health conditions struggling with black men.
As a white woman, I am happy that this is the conversation right now. In America, black women have been at the forefront of social progress, and their labor has built more of this country than could ever be quantified.
I have been disagreeable and noncompliant my whole life, and I don’t care what that makes me or what people think of it. I am not going to fight to keep my place as a second-class citizen. Neither should anyone.
Our labor and womb was used to create more slaves to build this country. It’s a sad state of affairs.
This is maturity.
Courage and don't give up. You are actually helping humanity ❤❤
Why are you white women always in everyone's business? that's a legit question
Every issue that I've had at the work place has been with WW. They are the only ones who can curse,scream, and shout at you when in a management role. Then they are given a pass because, "that's just how they are". I remember we all strategically interviewed with other departments, some girls just went to other places of work just to drain our manager. She was so stressed out trying to do everything on her own and build a whole new research team. It was beautiful. She was stressed out trying to interview people in a hurry and post positions. We were all leaving so fast cause we were a small research team that focused on asthma specifically. You have to dry them out!!! Can you imagine your whole staff has left over the span of 3-4 weeks including your senior staff!!
Girl this was me in medicine. One of the doctors was so bad everyone else quit even doctors. Low and behold they fired her regardless of her tears and they haven’t had anyone quite in that unit since. Just insane how the crazy ones are in the work place.
This is why BW need to allow ourselves to have spaces for us and ONLY us. We need to stop feeling that we need to include them in everything. They only want to be a part of what we're doing to be nosey and disruptive.
Slowly claps* beautiful.
This brings me joy . I’m glad y’all left and didn’t put up with the nonsense.👏🏿🥰😌
It has happened to me too. I had to relocate to another store they were so horrible to me. Sorry this is happening to us sister.
I have experienced that in Europe as well. I am black in Sweden. My female colleagues don't like it when I do something better than them. lol, they don't even think I can do any better.
Sounds white...
So true, although I’m black in the Netherlands.
I feel u girl. The same here smh.
What's the difference between american white people and european white people? 😂😂😂 talk about the white diaspora. Now how about that?
@@priscillaf9887Sorry for your experience, But either way you still need them. And I will suggest you to MARRY their Men as well. Marry a White Man who loves BW so dearly and will fight for you. If you find an Asian man, you can try to marry them too.... You need their resources and protection and Political Alliance.
I'm glad this was posted today on their "Independence" day. Pretending everything is perfect is how they think we all should feel. That is so far from reality.
This! Them and their FAKE Positivity and Pretending soooo out of touch!
I wish I could send this to the white women at work who claim they aren't racist but who also can not resist policing their black coworkers in different departments and trying to touch our hair.
WW here. If I hear anyone say they aren't r@cist, I know they've never once examined or tried to unpack the ingrained r@cism that they have always carried.
I call bullsh1t...
Recommending their racist favorites when not racially segregating
@@SarinaValentinaxowe've shown a lot of people protection. Baby get in line 😂❤ you're still not to be trusted. You can say all those things and still disrespect black people in the same hot breath so what's next 😂
Can we stop equating "Trying to touch our Hair" with Racism or a Fetish??? Why can't people just ADMIRE OUR HAIR? Why is it a bad think to want to touch someone's hair?? I am tired of BW thinking everyone is Racist. All white people are not racist just because they want to admire our Texture Hairstyles, our Braids, and our Cornrolls. It is a COMPLIMENT, Goodness sake.
I feel like the more we do this, the more we will end up segregating ourselves again to the point that NO ONE will want to interact with BW because we call everything racism, folks will start running away from us and just be scared to come close to us.
All of this is so spot on. Great analysis. I like that she included the perspective of white women in Ukraine and that she didn’t sugar coat their own rcism (Ukrainians treated black students horribly while they were trying to escape war and have a nasty rcyst sense of superiority towards other poc refugees and even poc volunteers that were actually trying to help them).
Chile the haters are going to delete her TikTok soon too smh
Who the hell is she? She's just one of many white woman on tiktok who have the same commentary
Having worked in Corporate for most of my career, I can attest to their micro-aggressive, throw-stones-hide-their-hands behavior. They excel at smiling in your face and simultaneously undermining you. They absolutely do not like for Black women to be smarter/slimmer/more attractive than them. They consistently weaponize their social/economic advantages…… and I trust none of them.
Same
Same here!
I'm a Canadian Afro arab woman
Also working in corporate
Everything you said is 💯 correct
BINGO!!! I agree with everything you just wrote! I trust none of them either!
This goes for other races of women for me. If one of them learns that I’m getting a degree or I’m losing weight, they start being weird.
No lies detected. It’s just sick that the “progress” we’ve made feels more like a hamster wheel because things are moving but we’re still getting nowhere. I hate when people say “change doesn’t happen overnight” because why can’t it? Change happens overnight for plenty of other things but because it’s by design, it’ll never go away.
Wholeheartedly agree. "Change doesn't happen overnight" is an excuse to justify not changing at all. As a wyt person myself, this is very on brand w/ wyt people which is infuriating.
What change are you looking for exactly? Do you know what a supremacy is? It's strange that blk ppl don't get that people who want supremacy do not want equality that would defeat the purpose of a supremacy.
@blablabarb An overnight change that could happen is that the media could absolutely today start reporting on these issues accurately, as the yv edit describes, instead of white washing every news story while pretending that racism, sexism and classism aren't the causes of nearly all of our systemic issues. Until you call a spade a spade, you can't make plans or strategies to deal with the issues at hand. Since media is created all day every day, it is absolutely possible for the humans who write these pieces to frame their stories from an accurate perspective. They choose to uphold the status quo instead.
Change doesn't happen overnight because these ideals were not instilled overnight.
When a child is born, they are exposed to their parent lifestyle. They grow up with those ideals, and it gets further instilled in institutions like church. This takes years, decades even. And it took generations to get to this point.
So if it took that long to get us here, it will take at least the same amount of time to get us out.
@@snippetx1632 Slavery started fast, it started by force. Jim Crow started fast, it started by force. Mandating masks to be worn in public started fast, it started with “encouragement” that was carried out in a way that for some, felt like force. As did vaccines, which were released fast and furiously and very much forced on some, because they couldn’t feed their families if they didn’t comply. Virtual school happened overnight. It’s easy for the pigment impaired powers that be to make anything happen overnight that they desire.
I love this conversation and to tie it more into a black experience. I think it directly relates to why I find a lot of Black organizations, the Divine 9 all of them, disconcerting even black professional organizations tend to lean very conservative and tend to lean towards a messaging that eases black people into compliance. It is often about getting money so that you can buy respectability.
This! I find this to be the case as well. Great point.
Damn…🤔
Yeah, very true, but this should not scare you from Marrying outside your race because BM will do 5x more to keep you in your place and give you no incentive or resources for your femininity. If you want to be elevated like Ketanji Brown Jackson or Vice President Kamala Harris, marry out and let him 🧔🏼🧔🏻👨🏼invest in you.
There is nothing wrong with being conservative when it comes to professionalism. I’m not very conservative, I like moderate and wild entertainment as well, but if I had a corporate business 👩💼 I will have some conservative policies as well. I’m not afraid of Respectability Politics.
As a white woman in Amercia and my best friend of 22 years being a black woman, I can say that I personally do not subscribe to this stereotype but I do see other people being lost in it and it really is so unfortunate. I appreciate someone bringing attention to it. I got some shit yesterday (independence day) at my families house as we are are celebrating white peoples independence, and I was talking about the irony of how we could fight for independence while simultaneously enslaving a race and committing continuous genocide upon Indigenous Americans.
They were just baffled and offended. But it's true.
Genuine question, how do you know for a fact you don’t or have never subscribed to this thinking?
@BolU88 well I've never been intimidated by colored people in positions of leadership, nor do I find myself afraid of someone or wary because of their color. I also don't find black women particularly intimidating and I'm not jealous even though im white and id give myself a generous 7/10. It might be because I grew up poor around lots of other poor people of all colors and status.
I'm the same with other things too - it's not just color. I'm fine with homeless and wealthy people alike, I'm fine with people of different jobs and cultures. What I don't tolerate is disrespectful people. So I guess I'm just intolerant of intolerance.
Ewww. Go away and stay away from black women 😂 and how are you gonna say you're not personally like that but your family is!? yikes!
She describes Trumper women. Scary.
No, she’s describing Hwhite women.
Trump won the first time because most white women voted for him.
I’ve never felt so validated in my life. This lady is speaking the hard T!! Of course, not to generalize every white lady in the United States, but she hit the nail on the head when she talked about how duplicitous they can be. I dated a white man for the first time (I’m Caribbean btw) and my ex-bf friends, were naturally coupled up as well. I was the only ethnic person in his group. Everything this lady stated, happened to me. I never mingled with them until I was with my ex and then I started to understand why i barely had any white American friends. The white friends that I do have are not American but from Bosnia. Great friendly people, never felt excluded or disliked. I’m glad that we are finally having these uncomfortable conversations.
At this point when it comes to WW, they're all guilty until proven innocent. I feel the same way when it comes to BM. There's too much history there for us to not generalize at this point.
@@NamasteInYourLane THIS! Absolutely agree! They are on their own now. Period.
@@NamasteInYourLaneExactly my sentiments. They are both naturally aligned.
Yea general doesn’t mean all so ..🙄
@@NamasteInYourLaneyeah with bm too…
🎀Brilliant topic.🎀
🎀I saw this at work with a collegue. She wasn’t really liked by the other women at work, she left for a period of time. Came back and had dyed her hair blonde and had a complete personality change. So she could fit in with these women who had been bullying her about her looks and everything for years.🎀
there’s a reason why intersectionality was created…. this video pretty much sums it up 🎉✨
I worked for a young woman like this…I could tell she was miserable, she had the beautiful home, the two kids, the designer bags, etc. But she had to give up being the free spirit she was because she had to do what that husband told her or else. She had to support Trump because that’s what her husband and father believed, her compliance was nauseating to me. I saw straight through this bs…and baby she was a vile and racist human being. I knew she felt threatened by me and intimidated. She thought she was the only one who should come into the office dressed nice, and of course she tried to throw me under the bus. I was so proud of myself in this moment because I stood up for myself and told her to stop faking those yt woman tears. Everything that young Ukrainian woman stated is very true.
One of the main reasons I interact with them in small doses. Especially in a work environment.
Yes be careful. You’re pretty too, so be EXTRA careful.
That was profoundly deep- it made me think about the black experience here in America, mainly how it differs from
region to region/state to state. In Florida, we have the added complexity of the Hispanic/Latin population and their histories that promoted striving for proximity to whiteness (i.e., accent reduction classes, going by anglicized names like “Joe” instead of “José,” Dominican Republic & President Trujillo’s campaign of “whiting” out the country and annihilating Haitians, colorism in Brazil, the migration of mostly White Cubans to the US after Batista, etc).
Most were considered as “White” in their own Latin/Caribbean countries and bring those same views to the US. And like white American women, they uphold the hierarchy with the hopes of maintaining their status and being “accepted” as white. They look down on black Americans and absorb all of the same stereotypical beliefs white Americans have, completely ignoring the history of slavery and systemic racism put upon black Americans (sadly, a lot of our black folks from outside of the US do it too).
It gives a better understanding as to how so many Hispanics and Latin people vote for Trump, even when they know his policies will directly hurt them. They simply believe, “well, it can't be me, I'm White.” Its not until they move away from their enclaves to other places, like North Florida, where the REAL white people live, that they get the shocked Pikachu face when they experience racism.
Exactly. I live in south Florida and second this heavily. Tall she is not lying. I can’t tell you how many of them have given me dirty looks while I’m out. This really shook me, because I wasn’t used to that, even being a black woman coming from North Florida. If anything, white people were very nice to me for the most part. But south Florida? Latinos are very…different towards me here. I’ve met a few awesome ones like my friend, and a sprinkle of others. It’s worse than how some racist white peoples are. Very bizarre.
That Ukrainian lady went off. Yass girl, we love a Ukrainian queen.
I am disgusted
No one concedes power without a fight! Kudos to this woman saying the quiet part out loud.
I'm so happy she talked about the look they give I just called it the demonic stare that comes through the vessel.
This reminds me of that video with that ww who is a primary school teacher and she was talking about how she wasn't subconsciously aware that she has internalized racism
Yes, I saw that too.
Like bitch what? 😂😮
Yeah, very true, but this should not scare you from Marrying outside your race because BM will do 5x more to keep you in your place and give you no incentive or resources for your femininity. If you want to be elevated like Ketanji Brown Jackson or Vice President Kamala Harris, marry out and let him 🧔🏼🧔🏻👨🏼invest in you.
Can we also talk about how lighter skin friends treat you as sub par because they’re lighter. This issue runs deep
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Wow!!! This is a great breakdown. That woman needs to write a book. 📕
I love the yv edit. She's amazing. If anyone hasn't watched her stuff on Learned Helplessness you should. She has a TikTok playlist and BurbnBougie has it all as a long form RUclips video on her channel. Cannot recommend enough.
I'm so glad she's on RUclips now. I saw her on Burb's RUclips. Both are doing great work!!
@@katherines144what’s the title of the video?
When i moved to the south the WW always said they loved how I seemed “care free” 😂 alot of them were miserable being wives and working , being a mother , not looking young blah blah
That’s the reason why I think I irk some ww, wm, and other races of people in general. I think they really do believe with all that’s going on, that black people, but especially black women are supposed to look downtrodden and be angry all the time…not me. Life isn’t easy for me, but I’m always smiling, living childfree, going to school, working at a good job, raise two beautiful cats and just looking good while doing it all. I’m goofy too, and I love to laugh. I know I annoy people with my light energy, but I really dgaf 😂, I’m a happy black woman 💁🏾♀️.
Exactly how we ended up with Trump. 51% of yt women voted for that man.
Exactly. This is what I thought about, as she was talking
yup and most ww voted for the roe v wade overturn
@@Darline_oxlike it doesn’t affect them too but unfortunately it affect black women the most
And those who voted for Biden were wise?
@@angelsweet9611yup cause they can still go to their private clinics and get it done without no issues and they know their men will protect them
I am 59. I first started learning about the role white women, like me, play in the oppression of others a few years ago. It was hard to hear, and I felt defensive a lot. That's not me.
I would start to type out comments trying to defend myself. Then, I'd delete and sit with that feeling. Try to understand it. Try to learn what black women--and others--were trying to teach me.
I'm not going to act like I don't still get defensive sometimes. Internalized colonialism is difficult to undo. I had to deconstruct every lie I ever learned from American culture and education. But I mostly keep my head down and mouth shut when creators are willing to teach me.
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It’s all about survival. We do what we do to survive in a patriarchy.
That's true growth....unfortunately alot of people can't get past the indoctrination and will dig their heels in. Its not about making people feel bad it's just trying to get people to wake up to what's going on. See past what they've been led to believe their whole lives. Be okay with being uncomfortable. Growth is comfortable and sometimes it hurts but its necessary.
@@ladybug3380what does survival and patriarchy have to do with ignorance and being a bigot and a weirdo? 😂
True. They’re America’s semi precious jewel
heavy on semi 💅🏾
That's what they want you to think. Wm will sacrifice WW for "the greater good" in a heart beat.
“Semi precious” to their white male counterparts’ mediocrity is hysterical.
@@NamasteInYourLanewhat do you mean by that?? I have some similar thoughts as well. I think they have (WW) kept a “great” facade but it’s starting to fade..
Yeah, very true, but this should not scare you from Marrying outside your race because BM will do 5x more to keep you in your place and give you no incentive or resources for your femininity. If you want to be elevated like Ketanji Brown Jackson or Vice President Kamala Harris, marry out and let him 🧔🏼🧔🏻👨🏼invest in you.
This was such a good breakdown. And makes me think about, how for so long the treatment of BW by WW in workplaces. I think about how we have for so long been having this going on. Interestingly enough it makes me ask, where are those "allies" in "epic proportions" to support and advocate for the protection of BW? What about BM? Why aren't they demanding change and support for BW either? This is why I believe bw have to be selective with support on ALL FRONTS and that "you can't sit with us/gatekeep energy. Because If any of them wanted to they would --- but they don't.
When she spoke on "culture" and how they don't have one, makes me ask, if this is why they always hop from culture to culture acquiring "experiences"? Something about them speaking on and "sampling" the experiences and lifestyles of other cultures as if they are "experiences they can mesh themselves" has NEVER sat right with me. For example, I notice white men do this a lot with Japanese culture.
You're a very intelligent woman.
A sermon on ta-day! Sis, needs to go viral.
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS! And as I dismantle my own beliefs, the patriarchy, the male-centered ideas, and my own privilege, hey ladies hey! I am here to give y'all a hand, be disobedient, loud, whatever...when do we ride? I am half Italian, grew up in New England, USA (Northeast) and I was not white enough for the white people around me and even my own mother hated that I had darker skin. I didn't understand it until I was older and why my mother was always jealous when I was successful. Yep, racism and bigotry in my own family. One of my good friends after high school (I met through an art class) was an immigrant from India. I did not realized how the hierarchy was until she came to a bbq and met my family. OMG! I feel so bad for the trauma I probably caused her, not realizing it at the time, based on hierarchy going on within my own family and community.
So interesting! A perspective that was definitely floating around in my mind but the way they broke it down, it has definitely stabilized for me.
Love hearig this from a woman that is white but has a foreign perspective. Quite interesting.
Also look at how Ukraine people treated African people in their country, now because they too are put in similar position in other countries, she is coming to rant! The double standard of some of those people🙄🤯
This is very interesting on my job I have white counterparts I enter act with. I don’t call them friends but they are decent people. But I noticed if I say something about a white male coworker no one will comment or chime in…complete silence even if I come with receipts. We all know white people stick together but this put new light on it.
Yeah, very true, but this should not scare you from Marrying outside your race because BM will do 5x more to keep you in your place and give you no incentive, no protection, or resources for your femininity. A White male will protect you and fight on your behalf. If you want to be elevated like Ketanji Brown Jackson or Vice President Kamala Harris, marry out and let him 🧔🏼🧔🏻👨🏼invest in you.
All white people do not stick together. If that were the case, we won’t have 2 opposite political parties with far liberal views. And I as a BW do have some liberal views as well.
She said a word. I needed to hear this.
WW are a danger to BW in the UK too!
Always have been!
Yes, but you still NEED THEM and you also need Asian Men too because they control, operate and built a manufacturing pipeline globally.... And it will still BENEFIT YOU to MARRY a WM who loves, respect and adores BW dearly for Political Alliance, Political Power, Protection, and Provision. BW did not build a strong infrastructure and have no control over their own resources. Even African men so business trade with BM and often sell their own resources to WM and have Asian Men building their infrastructure for them.
This is the best video! Thank you for putting these stitches together. Much love ❤
Interesting topic Destiny...
Delusions of grandeur stem from deep insecurities. That's what racism is.
Complacency or compliant?
Both
Incredible video!!!!
I've quite honestly never wanted to be a part of any system because I'd rather observe. But we ALL have to acknowledge our innate racism. It's a biological protection that was built into us and epigenetically passed down from our ancestors who lived in small villages with people who looked like them because, when a group arrived to that village who did not look like them, they were most likely a threat. What we have to do now is acknowledge that instinct so we can reject it and base our judgment instead on behavior and actions.
Also no disrespect just speaking from my experience but if you live in a very white area like the northeastern United States sometimes these white girl games don't always come from white girls. Of course one has to adapt to their environment.
I seen it with Asian women
@@SasaSasa-wy9wuyeah because they’re next in line in the hierarchy.
@@SasaSasa-wy9wuI also seen it in Black Women in Corporate or Healthcare Professional environments. Black women do these same things sometimes Passive Aggressive and sometimes Direct with it and will get you terminated. BM do the same things too….
@@Melanated483absolutely African Americans
We'll yeah there mentors are white men so yeah there's going to be that behaviour replicated
I don't trust ww.
Yeah, very true, but we still kinda need them, and this should not scare you from Marrying outside your race because BM will do 5x more to keep you in your place and give you no incentive or resources for your femininity. If you want to be elevated like Ketanji Brown Jackson or Vice President Kamala Harris, marry out and let him 🧔🏼🧔🏻👨🏼invest in you.
That eerie fake personality throws me for a loop all of the time, most people just ignore me as a southeast Asian woman (which suits me well bc my social anxiety) which I don’t envy bc you can see and feel how deeply unhappy they are.
They love in lies.
Can you credit the TikTokers you use?
Yeah I want to follow but no clue how to find them.
Just search the currency of whitness is compliance
I never knew that. Great talk. So pretty😍
16:21 also most if not all untouchables are dark skinned so... to this day btw. this is not simply a thing of the past unfortunately. I presume it's similar to the Nigerian "untouchables" that no one seems to want to talk about for sone reason.
this will come as a surprise but there is the same reverence for foreign people in homogeneous non-African countries
This video is amazing…Im ready to rewatch Get Out just to compare this video to the movie.
All my doctors are women of color and I have never seen them as being out of place.
Do you want a cookie or something? 😒
@@foxylady6901Shutup
But if you sit down and speak to them they will likely tell you they are treated that way. There are video on this platform of blk doctors telling how badly they are treating. Many start their own practices to escape the abuse.
Great, do you feel you're the exception to the rule or that this system and its impacts don't exist?
I have worked with plenty of white people and found them to be fun to work with. I got along great with them even more so than my own people. But If you go somewhere and see white people and immediately get angry or defensive then of course there will be issues. Nobody wants to work with someone who will clearly be a problem regardless of race. I also know white people can be curious and ask questions. I had them ask me about my hair and things about my culture that they didn't understand and never took offense as I felt they just wanted to be more educated about something they didn't know about. And if someone spoke about something that was clearly a stereotype then I just corrected them and they usually responded pretty positively and even thanked me for giving them the correct information.
People complain that nobody tries to understand their culture and when people ask they scream racism and refuse to explain so they can understand it. Or refuse to correct misinformation and want to fight rather than educate.
Are there racist white people? Of course but you will also find racist Black people, Asian people, Hispanic people, Indigenous people, etc.
Ok Bojangles
@@TiondaRae I don't understand that reference, can you explain it please?
You missed the point. The point is you shouldn’t have to explain these things to grown ass ppl who have been on the planet just as long or longer than you. you didn’t listen, you just commented. She literally said “ww pretend to be your friend, then turn around and backstab you” which is what most people are saying and expressing in the comments. You know how many times I saw students tell instructors their name for an entire 6 months and the instructors (yes with an s) literally called them the wrong name repetitively? You know how many times I’ve been reprimanded for things that other ppl (white of course) do but I can’t do it. There are so many things to unpack about your comment, but let’s wait until it happens to you.
Also, not many people go places and get mad, scream and shout because they’re around white people. Usually it’s the other way around. She said white women are snakes basically. She also said that ww are this way because they don’t have much power on the hierarchy ladder.
@@joliesroom9472 Okay.
Just wondering, why don't you credit the tiktokers you use? Would be nice to follow them
Hmm interesting 🤔
Industry season 1 on HBO was so genius in illustrating this
I googled real quick the demographics of Ukraine. And while their overall % of minorities hovers at around 21%, those minorities still fall under the US label of _white:_ aside from Russians (17%), other minorities include Tatars, Belarusian, etc. Ie: more _wypippo._
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*American Extreme Capitalism*
22:23
💲Get rich first then become respectable
Trying hard as hell to recreate a feudal serfdom.
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Please share the original TikToker’s handle.
Wow! She really broke that down proper!!🙌🏽✨✨👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 anyone know her Tik Tok?
the yv edit
@@hardcandy71287 thank you!✨
The third women is literally white girl whispers lol. Must be in her dorm or have roommates. TY
what is her name?
I went to a predominantly black school and they enjoyed privileges that I got in trouble for which bummed me out. 😂😂😂
Name the privileges?
Really? Name 3.
@@nopeceun I had my head on my desk and my teacher asked me to do my work which I started to do. I turned to ask her a question and she walked right past a black student who was clearly sleeping on her desk and didn't say anything to her she just let her sleep. So I put my stuff away and put my head back down and she sent me out of class while the black student was still sleeping. I told my dad and when she called he asked her why students of a certain color enjoyed privileges other students couldn't and she was shocked he was siding with his daughter. 🤣🤣 They could also be openly racist and that was fine but anyone else couldn't respond otherwise they were automatically racist. A black student punched me in full view of a teacher once and the teacher didn't say anything and acted like nothing happened. I didn't even say anything to the girl and she just hit me. I mean sure you are having a bad day but why take it out on me? Lol
@@turquesa_8056 I'm having a great day actually. Thanks for assuming.
You mean the bathroom privileges you were giving up?
What's her tik tok ?
She's so smart and articulate?
the yv edit
not the currency for whiteness also happening to be something I hate and struggle to do
Anyone know her tic tok name?
American caste...
there's a lot of this i disagree with. white women hide their anger... i mean maybe. i work in an elite education inst, no one shows anger or strong negative emotions day to day because that would be kind of unhinged. it's work. if there's an issue you bring it up and talk about it, without showing emotion. men and women alike. like yeah it's control, it's self control because that's being an adult in my mind. she's talking about a specific type of woman here, probably something i dont see because im around super ambitious and successful people that don't view self control as a negative thing. self control is a white woman thing now? nobody is bothered by her saying that?
I think you're conflating showing anger and yelling screaming/Punching, that's not what she saying.She saying showing displeasure expressing unhappiness. Also , you're missing a very nuanced point about how women of color are racialized as angry so So even when we are calm in our expression we are still perceived as yelling screaming.
Also, you're conflating self-control and discipline with being calculating and suppressing emotions, which is what this woman was referring to. These women, are not controlling themselves as much as they are moving their angers and frustrations toward other people, people who are different from them and deemed 'lesser' they are finding ways to express their anger in indirect ways such as gassup and making people feel uncomfortable so that they leave their spaces.
Two book recommendations _if you really care_ to truly and fully understand:
📚 Nice Racism: How Progressive White People Perpetuate Racial Harm by Robin DiAngelo
📚 White Rage: The The Unspoken Truth of Our Racial Divide by Carol Anderson.
If you don’t want to read the books or have the time to, just look up and listen to the lectures here on RUclips.
Challenge yourself to unlearn what you _think_ you know.
@@appointedvillainy thanks. I've read these. Also read Kendi, Eddo-Lodge, Oluo, and hooks. I want to point out that the references this white woman dropped were literally a horror movie and a white conservative church. what i see through these comments is "them" "they" "white women". it's poisonous to believe all of one demographic act the same. that's all i'll say.
@@cali-ji5hd Not all but it certainly is *a lot* and *often.* There are very few white and non-black allies. Most do not posses the racial maturity to have honest conversations and understand the complex nuances to confront and unlearn their unconscious biases. Then, there are many simply just do not care and are not going to do the work to dismantle a system that benefits “them.” White women definitely play their part.
This is a load of 💩. Stereotyping and generalizing about millions of people based on race is racist.
Ooooh! 🥴🥴🥴 Imagine that. 🙄😒
How is this racist exactly? In what way is *your quality of life* being affected?
A hit dog will holler huh 😏 Either the truth will set you free or just stay mad.
@TiondaRae Who's mad?
Just pointing out the hypocrisy playing out .
If it doesn’t apply, let it fly. It’s not a load of sh*t just because youve never experienced it. That’s like telling someone, you can’t be poor because I’m not poor. Like what? That’s not your experience. She’s talking about the ww that are like this. If you’re not a ww that’s like this, then it really doesn’t matter. Stereotyping is not racism. It’s literally what it’s called. Now you can stereotype because you are racist and be biased. However, anyone can stereotype.
I don’t get it 🫤