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Weddings are supposed to be about love and celebration 💍❤️, but sometimes, they turn into a full-blown family feud! 😳 Today, we’re diving into some AITA sister wedding drama that left everyone absolutely stunned. From sibling rivalries to entitled behavior, these Reddit wedding stories will have you shaking your head. 🤦♀️
We’ve got sisters fighting over wedding plans, guests overstepping boundaries, and drama that could rival a soap opera. Who’s really in the wrong? Who’s just being dramatic? Let’s break it all down together and see if we can figure out who the real troublemaker is.
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Story 2: time to call it all off!!! Even the FIANCÉ isn’t supporting the bride!!! Take the $$ and run!!! Eat the costs of the deposits, hand back the ring, use that $$ to move zip codes & block everyone!!!
Yeah, I’d reconsider getting married. The lack of support from the fiancé gives me pause.
FULLY agree! If he doesn't have her back now, he won't later, and "the rest of their lives" will be just like it's been here! She can do better!!
She might lose a lot of money off the vendors and such that aren't refundable but honestly? At this point I'd consider it an investment in finding out just who has my back and who doesn't. And that includes the fiance, who's a waste of air and resources and should be dumped immediately. If he won't have her back NOW he NEVER WILL. He is the ONLY PERSON who should be in her corner come heaven or hell right now and even HE is belittling her. Nope. Scorched earth.
This
Ngl, sounds like he's probably even sleeping with the sister behind the OPs back.
"You're overreacting"
"It's just a day"
"Keep the peace"
Those all tend to continue forever, if he doesn't even have her back about the wedding he never will.
Next the sister will want to name OPs kids, then move into her house, and the fiance is just going to encourage that behavior.
Second wedding should just be canceled. The groom is awful, the sister is ruining it, and the family doesn’t support the bride? This is the brides awakening to seek another path in life. She needs to run fast and far away.
Run far, run fast!
I'd just take my money and start a new life in another country. I am so disappointed, not even the friends try to help her. This is so distressing.
Sister trying to get a free Wedding
@@KimMcIntyre-c3o and all the attention.
Gotta agree honestly
Even if it was an accident to book the same day, the sister should immediately cancel. Nothing else is OK. OPs fiance not backing is a HUGE RED FLAG. She shouldnt marry him, sadly.
I agree completely. Who would want to spend the rest of their life with someone who dismisses their feelings as "silly" and "overdramatic"? It's a recipe for heartbreak, further down the line.
exactly.
Why does this one seem totally over the top and more like a CDrama plot?
I wouldn't marry him either. Basically he's saying her feelings don't matter.
@colleennikstenas4921 Its highly possible. A lot of reddit stories should be taken with a grain of salt.
I desperately need an update to story #2. I'm so invested.
Same!
I went to the original post and it's been 2 months since the last update 😩 I'm legit worried about her.
Same here! Like what a cliffhanger 😮
@@katarinadreams6955 so true. Like is she okay? Did she go through with the wedding? I so want some revenge arc against the sister and whole family..
saaame!
About the second story, either she's lying about being the first one to pick the date and she's actually really the sister who's trying to steal her sister's limelight (I mean, that would explain why everyone's being nasty to her), or she needs to pack up her life because apparently she has not a single person who cared about her enough. I understand the relatives (to some degree), but if even your best friend chooses your sister over you, happy to be a bridesmaid over being a MOH, there's something seriously fishy going on here or your life needs a complete overhaul.
Ooooooooh that's an interesting take, that the person writing this is actually the sister who didn't pick the date first? There IS something really fishy about this story
This!! The biggest red flag to me was the MOH ditching her too. Either she wasn't the first to pick the date, or she had never secured a venue in the first place and had only planned the wedding in her head.
Agreed. Something is completely off. This story is either fabricated in full, or else OP is leaving out some damning evidence
Everyone telling her she's being dramatic is a red flag for me too. The MOH left her, the family is leaning towards the sister, the fiance is trying to talk her off the ledge, she's being told from all sides that she's causing the drama... I don't know, all those things in isolation are one thing. But my gut is saying that OP may not exactly be a reliable narrator here 😬
Why would she lie? The sister has always been the golden child and that shows even now as adults. Don't be so quick to call someone a liar.
Family talking about “combining events” clearly know your sister has nothing planned and wants to piggyback on your wedding
If she decides to go through with the wedding, she should absolutely call the sister's bluff. Sister didn't plan sh$t. She just wanted a free wedding.
Exactly what I was thinking. They want her to pay for the day too.
It's a classic "let's placate the Golden child, just compromise already" kinda move... been there, done that, just not on this scale.
at that point i would be like i need half of all the deposits given back to me from the sister and if she doesn’t give it tries to argue do as someone else said and set a password for everyone coming to your wedding
I honestly think it wouldn't even matter to call the bluff. With the whole family backing the sister, they'll end up paying for everything just so they don't have to admit they were being entitled and stupid.
Dude, the MOH jumped ship too!?! AND OP's fiance is dismissing her feelings. Girl, walk away from all of that. Dump the friends. Dump the family. Even dump the fiance. Better to be out the money for a canceled wedding than a lifetime of being discarded and dismissed by everyone who is supposed to love you.
Agreed! My heart is broken for her, but this is the right course to move on from these people
Absolutely!!
Always better to view the money you're out as an investment into finding out just who is and isn't gonna have your back. You're out the money anyway, so might as well see it as a way to get rid of all the sister's toxic supporters. And the best part of the investment is seeing that her 'fiance' is a spineless coward who emotionally abuses her, BEST that she get him the hell away from her now before he can abuse her further.
This 👆
The fiance is going to be a problem down the road because if OP goes no contact with her parents, sister and extended family members that choose sister, he will go behind her back and stay in contact basically undermining OP. He will try to make her reconcile with her family. He will never back up OP on family issues or other important life issues.
Last story: huge red flag that OP's fiance isn't defending her on this! It's absolutely insane that anyone is is trying to steal their wedding day in the first place, even crazier that this dude thinks his own bride-to-be is "overdramatic" for being upset about HIS WEDDING DAY getting stolen from him! Why the hell is ge not on her side?! That's his side too!!!
I would be seriously reconsidering whether this is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with, if I were OP. It would suck to cancel, but it would be even more expensive to go through with it and then get divorced later.
I do wonder if this is even a true story. What the sister did is widely inappropriate and most folks would see and understand that. The fact that the whole family, the best friend and even the fiancé don’t have the bride’s (edit:OP’s) back seems a little too outrageous and unbelievable to me.
It is hard to believe that all of these cannot see how absurd this is
Exactly. Honestly, my ex would be that sort of dirtbag in the same situation. I spent two decades being told I was overreacting when anyone, including him, treated me horrifically. In reality, he was conditioning me to under react to years of emotional, psychological, and economic abuse while he taught our children to disrespect and distrust me.
If they’re not married and he takes their side against her, run like fucking hell and never look back.
Me too
@@Willow.9765 I thought the same or she's leaving out A LOT of context clues that might paint her in a not so great light. I mean if LITERALLY EVERYONE is against you even your own fiancé there's something missing. Otherwise she's living in a Lifetime original movie.
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2nd story: Often when everyone but the OP is a villian there are missing pieces of the story that show where OP wasnt actually a victim. I might be wrong, but i feel we are missing important parts of the story
yes but the central conflict is so cut and dry I can't see anything OP could have done to make sister behavior justifiable. This simply might just be a victim winding up with an SO whose just like their abusive family.
@@sfsin3380 i suspect that OP did not actually, officially have the date picked out first. It was an idea of a date. And then sisters save the date went out and she got mad. OP has very conveniently left out any timeline details about the order or events.
@@LadyOrpheus In the first post Op said she already had all the non refundable deposits down though. Which was why everyone in the comments said all the merging talk in the first post suspicious.
That not just leaving something out that would be outright lying.
How it was written OP had the date pick and booked but sister got her save the date out first then claimed it was "happy accident" when Op pionted out the day was already booked.
@@sfsin3380 she didn't though the first post OP stated that she and her fiance had "finally started planning". Started. Then she was hurt by her sister picking the same date. No mention of deposits, invitations, nada. In the first update OP says "yes I've made all the arrangements" including the non refundable deposits but doesnt say WHEN she made the arrangements or if those arrangements were in place when sister selected the date.
Im not saying that's for sure what happened, but OP is neglecting a LOT of facts that would otherwise help their case. If she had a date and invitation, venue, etc locked down before sister picked the date its an open and shut case. Leads me to suspect those facts would actually hurt OPs case and they aren't sharing them for a reason.
i was gonna say, the jump from the family still trying to come up with compromises to suddenly nobody absolutely flat out supporting her and not attending her wedding is weird. What happened in-between?? And it does seem like the sister really did have everything planned out for her wedding, but she didn't know anything? Making final plans for a wedding takes so long theres no way she did it all so quickly just to spite OP. I feel like smth happened in between that made OP an asshole which is why everyone turned on her so quickly
That last one is sad. She wanted that big wedding because she wanted to pretend for one day that her family cared about her. To pretend to have a happy normal family for one day in her life. She needs to morn the lose of that normal family she never had and cut those people out of her life. They will never carr or love her like she needs them to. She needs to rethink who she is marrying and why because it sounds like she is just marrying somebody who will continue to treat her the way her family has. Cut your loses on your money or gift that wedding stuff to another couple and leave all these people behind and go find yourself. Surround yourself with people who really love you.
This! Super sad. Needs to grieve what she never had and the loss of dreams of decent friends and family and assumed she had, and in that process learn who you really are and your worth. So much more than this crappy treatment from everyone it seems. I hope she finds peace and rest from all the drama and trauma it sounds like she's endured.
Hmm I don't buy it... I don't buy any of it. I started questioning her story when she said her CLOSEST friend who was her maid of honor switched to her sister's... family I can understand but why would someone who you claim as your closest friend end up abandoning you?? Also her own fiance isn't supporting her, most of her family isn't either.. I smell some biased story telling here. Unless everyone she knows around her is just bad or people who dont care about her then I can understand... however its unlikely that her family, closest friend and fiance are all the problem. I think she isn't telling the full story and definitely not giving all the context.
@bunnyrabi ive had friends of 12 years backstab me for no reason it happens unfortunately
@bunnyrabi I grew up with parents who devalued me and destroyed my boundaries. It took me a long time, after cutting contact with them, to realize all the "friends" I was attacting (or settling for) where the same kind of people as my parents and treated me the same as they always had... I can see how this could be a real story.
@bunnyrabi You should buy it, my closest friend did this to me on my wedding day which was about 5 months ago, and removed me from her wedding as a bridesmaid, because she didn't get her way in her sad miserable life, in my wedding and then abandoned me on my wedding.
Bride 2: Something is seriously not right here. We aren't being told something. No idea what but something. Fiance's reaction is troublesome. His wedding is 'just a day'? Whoa. What's next? Our baby's birth nothing special? Our 10th anniversary is no big deal? What is a big deal to him? My gut reaction is call a halt to everything, take the financial loss and run. Let's see if bratty sister can manage on her own and fiance finally figures out what is a big deal.
Right, even MOH is jumping. Something tells me OP didn't pick the date first. If we flipped the script and sister picked first we would be calling OP a "pick me" or copy cat.... something is just off.
I think that story is AI generated? sounds a bit similar to bride wars or whatever that movie was (Anne Hathaway-Kate Hudson)? I feel like a lot of stories from the CD Reddit tend to be stories for charlottes attention rather than genuine help.
@@chiyeahs it's not similar to bride wars at all except the fact that both brides have the same wedding day.
@@Mithra-bl7nv yeah something tells me the fiance is in some way in talks with the dark side..
There is *no way* that everyone is against OP, including their fiance and "best friend who was always there for them" if the situation is as OP described. There's some rotten fish hiding somewhere in this story because it freaking REEKS
About the "sharing wedding" story. I immediately thought "that's a whole new level of freeloading that other person was trying to do." I'm with the person whose special day it should be.
I'm so upset for her. Her whole family is basically showing her they don't care about her.
Nah imo it's 100% about taking away attention. This sister is someone who doesn't even care about their own wedding not being perfect just to ruin her sisters. She herself will be divorced sooner or later
I say we pay for our plates and go to her wedding and have a potato party🎉
@@shiannemercado If you mean OP's wedding, I am down for a good potato party! 😁🥔
I love a double wedding , but only if that was the plan from the beginning.
Story 2: There's something else going on here. When one after another friend & family member is siding with the sister, and even the fiance is telling her to get a grip, I'm starting to not feel sorry for OP myself. What is going on that she's not telling???
THANK YOU!!!! Sounds shady.
Exactly. What's actually going on? The fine details are missing.
Also, about the sister being a "golden child"... there is no evidence, not even anecdotal. Only that "everything has come easy for her" - nothing about parents favouring her, nothing about her previously trying to steal the spotlight. Plus, OP never said that she sent out the invitations before sister announced her wedding... just saying.
Yeah WHY is everyone siding with the sister, even the best friend?!? And Groom?!?! Sure this isn't a bridezilla? The devil is in the details, OP has no details.
I can't help but feel the same thing. I wonder if maybe they had chosen the date but not told anybody and the sister picked the same date by pure coincidence? I'm caught between being completely pissed on OP's behalf and kind of side-eyeing her.
21:13 idk why but I get the feeling this woman might actually be the issue. Kinda weird for a whole family and bridesmaid to abandon you for your sister's wedding. Something is totally off
This is exactly what I was thinking
Someone in another comment mentioned that the MOH is a first cousin, so maybe she's getting pressure from family, too.
Or the whole story is click-bait.
@@desert_holly If she's the only one so far who put down money for a wedding, how could she be the issue?
@@thalinororcbreaker2840 it seems like she's going bonkers and the family doesn't want to encourage it so they dip and then she's putting her sob story on Reddit. Money is no factor...she isn't worried about the money and she said so. It's her BEHAVIOR that is making everyone walk away - that's how she's the problem 🎯
@@thalinororcbreaker2840 being an asshole?
My cousin is 10days younger then I am, while i wam born 1979 but she is born 1980. But she is and always was the favorite in the family, especially favorite of my grandparents. Her family was also better off financially then mine. But then came time for our comfirmation, wich is a huge thing here. Big party and lots of presents. Quincinera type of thing. Well since I am born 1979, my comfirmation came about 1 year before hers. And then started to come suggestions from the family to make me wait 1 years and do a joint party me and her together. My parents said absolutelly NOT! They said I will get my own day and my own party. Not joined with hers and eerything to be about her and she would get bigger and more presents and it just would been her day and I would have been pushed to the side for sure. I am will always be grateful that my parents said HECK no to this idea that the family was trying to push on us and let me get my own special day. ❤
heads up to the parents. You have great parents. I wish you all good health
"My parents said absolutely not"❤ I heard Charlotte's voice saying the last two words, in her high pitched, no compromising voice😂!!! Your mom & dad must watch Charlotte's videos and practiced! Her no nonsense attitude proceeds her! People of the world, we will only have Charlotte quotes from now on!
❤Long live the potato queen👑 !
then = following
than = instead of (roughly)
Fyi
@@marshawargo7238 Well our potato queen was just a wee little 3 year old potato princess when this happened. But yes! Hahaha I am born december 1979 and comfirmations are done in the spring the year we turn 14 years old, so mine was 1993. Our amazing queen is born 1989 according to google. 👑 ❤️
@@moimeself1088 Well english is obviously not my native language, I have learned this a thousand times and a thousand times I have forgotten wich is wich. And while posting online, especially when it is anonymous..I just can’t be bothered to worry to much about this. I also always confuse together to and too. 🤣 and few other words, BUT to my defence I got there-their-they’re 100% right everytime. That’s more then many native english speakers can say! 🤣
17:09 I get the feeling that the sister wants OP to pay for her wedding. She doesn’t want to have to pay anything and since OP has already paid vendors, she thinks that she can just overtake the day.
This was my exact thought! OP has it all paid for and sister can just pop in and take it over. I doubt sister has anything planned.
this is exactly what i thought too, as soon as she said her sister didn’t know what went into planning it. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ i hope OP goes low or no contact with fam, and maybe even confront fiancé about why he didn’t have her back at all through the debacle bc i can’t believe he’s literally telling her to get over it
This is my thought or since she's "the golden child" I'll bet parents (probably mom) said oh if you do the same day as your sister you can do it all in one go! And she already paid for everything so you can get married for free and have beautiful wedding and good etc. So.e people make me genuinely sick.
The fiance not supporting the good sister is kind of a red flag of how he'll treat her in the future. If I were her, I would secretly talk to all the vendors, tell them the ordeal, and see if you can get your money back. If financially able to, I would pack all my stuff secretly and quietly leave. Ghosting everyone. Find my own place, hotel long stay for a while if need be, and start looking for my people. Leave the cruel family with no way to contact you, no way find you, no knowledge of anything. And, never look back. They don't care about you, why should you care about them?
This. They've been so awful and shown their true colours. If someone shows you who they are, believe them.
Ditch the lot of them, fiance included. Leave a message saying hasta la Vista a**holes, and leave them with no way to contact or find you.
You should find your peace in life and protect that. Anyone who isn't good for you doesn't get the privilege of being in your life, end of.
Agreed! Idea; tell mom and dad that golden child sister can have the date as long as they reimburse you for the money you've already laid out to the vendors. Agreed? Then talk to the vendors, explain there's a change in the bride & groom, but everything else stays the same. Next, leave town. A week before the wedding get your tookus outta there and leave them all behind. Fiance too. Start a new life because the old one was headed off a cliff.
real. the whole plot of bride wars sans the money grabbing heist. honestly, get a new fiancee and the whole family set.
22:58 don't marry that guy, either
Sunk cost fallacy is making this woman marry a doormat. Weddings, child birthday and funerals expose the worst of people. When they show you who they are, believe it. Cut your loses and be a free woman, free from frenemies and toxic family
My late husband and I got married 6 months after his mom died and NO ONE even considered this kind of f*ckery! Five years after losing her brother and pulling this kind of stunt was definitely a “ pick me” moment.
My cousin got merried four months after our uncle died, he even asked his father and aunts (the siblings of said uncle) if he should move his wedding day, my family said ABSOLUTELY NOT, that our uncle would have wanted him to get married and be happy with his wife. Nobody made a show and he is still married, end of the story
Crazy SIL 's daughters told OP that they tried to stop her. WHY Didn't they tell OP her plan before the wedding started? SIL could have been asked to leave Before they walked the isle! Before she made a spectacle!😢
Before OP made her decision to address the SIL & update, I thought that she might want to consult the BIL's, the brothers not SIL's husband, for their opinions. She did good in the end❤!
My sister was a golden child… I went complete no contact with her 3 yrs ago, and I’ve been SO much happier.
3sisters and 1 brother for me. My 2 sons actually did it before I did. So much happier.
What is the biggest thing I need to make sure of with my kids so they know they are loved equally? I’m an only child but was still always in competition with cousins so I just have very little positive reference material. I’ve made a point not to allow one of our four being in GT let him feel he is automatically more intelligent simply because he’s smart. I firmly believe that comparison is the thief of joy so I try to avoid that when the matter is less objective. What else can I be doing? We are no contact with my side of the family at this point (they were able to make the choice for themselves as they range in ages from 6-15).
Edit: I feel I do need to make clear that I was the favorite cousin. My mother was the favorite child and I am her only child so yeah. I intentionally fell out with them when I turned 16 because it was just so gross. My cousin a decade older than me had a kid at 16 just to get attention and then got mad when my kids got more attention 15 years later before I dropped contact. Sho openly shared this information and that’s when I said I’m out. Being jealous of someone over 3 decades younger than you is perplexing.
@@kaitlanparks8061 First of all, don't hold one kid back just to make the others feel better. Instead, help them understand that they'll each go different ways in life and they each have different strengths and weaknesses and that's okay. One may be academically smarter than the others, but maybe one of the others is more artistically smarter, and maybe one is more athletic. If one kid starts sadly comparing themself to one of their siblings, reiterate that it's okay for them to not be as skilled as their sibling in that thing they're comparing, and point out some of their strengths. Your kids will likely go down different paths, and that's okay. As their parent, it's your job to support them on those paths and assist them when they need it, not hold them back. (Unless they're going down the path of being a criminal, then you should probably try to redirect them)
@kaitlanparks8061 make sure that the focus is on intrinsic rather than external motivators. You love your kids intrinsically. It has nothing to do with their external achievements, etc. What you want for them is to be safe and happy, and that looks different for everyone and has nothing to do with grades or degrees or whatever. By all means celebrate and give praise; don't downplay the achievements of one just to make the others feel better! But praise the right way. For example, if my child does something well at school I praise how hard he worked, how he persevered, or how well he paid attention. He's an only child, but if I say how smart he is and later he struggles with something, he might come to believe he's *not* smart since I've associated that only with doing well.
Proud of you for that 💜
Story 2: Maybe rethink over getting married? Her fiance not supporting her wholeheartedly and dismissing her feelings is a bad sign of things to come. If he can't stand up for her on what is supposed to be an important day for both of them, how can he stand up and protect her *AFTER* they are married?
Maybe it's a sign that her dream needs to be fulfilled with somebody else. If the deposits aren't going to financially break her, I'd take the loss, use the honeymoon trip alone to think over everything from how to go forward with her family, her turncoat supposedly closest friend, and her fiance (whether to go no contact and such).
She's being presented with an opportunity here where people have shown their true colors and she can now decide how much or how little she wants of them in her life, specially with her unsupportive fiance before she commits to a life with him.
It sounds like she has some awful people in her life. Also, I think the sister is being cheap and wants a free wedding.
@@dawnbatiste6302 EXACTLY. She wanted free stuff and no stress.
I agree. 🎶 Call the whole thing off 🎶 Get what money you can get back, go on the honeymoon alone to some place else, think about what you want moving forward, and plan your escape - whatever that maybe for you…
Hard to believe that anyone in her life is not backing up OP. Sister is a narcissistic brat.
If I had a sister and she wanted to share my wedding day and my partner wouldn't support me, I'd cancel everything quietly and leave. No one would hear from me again and believe me I know there are people wondering where I have gone.
If people can't and won't support you get rid of them period, they aren't worth your time. I have gone through life being abused in many ways and when I decide to go you will never hear from me again. I've had people contact me from my past asking why I left and I told them, even if they apologise I know they can't be trusted and I stay away, no contact.
I hope this sister finds someone that actually is willing to support her for real. I know what it feels like to be pushed aside for someone else.
For 2nd story, it's not going to be one day, it's also every anniversary for the foreseeable future. And you can bet if sister is willing to go low and steal a wedding date she will make sure it is always HER anniversary above all else.
Man, that is truly heinous behavior. I can't understand how so many people were siding with the sister. OP had everything ready to go, and sis just comes in without warning to try to have her wedding at the same time? Nah, that's a huge problem. I can't believe even her maid of honor ditched her?? Isn't the maid of honor usually your best friend or relative? I can't imagine my best friend ditching me for someone else. Man OP, I feel so bad for you.
It's truly despicable what a narc can do and how they can twist everyone around them to dance to their tune.
I’d ditch all of them, if she truly loves her fiance, go ahead with the wedding and ignore the witch. I can almost guarantee she hasn’t booked anything and is wanting to piggyback onto her sisters. The way her fiances acting though I’d probably ditch him too 😂
I’m starting to think maybe she’s not telling the whole story. Her family and friends don’t seem to like her. What is really going on. 🤨
@@meili2618 it’s why I think OP did something BAD between her updates that everyone has abandoned her and thrown their support behind her sister. Not just because the fact that her family did it, but that _OP’s best friend_ abandoned her, too.
@@Mia-dt3gl at first I was assuming MoH must have been a cousin, because why else would they be a candidate to be a bridesmaid for OOP's sister? But then she said best friend and that is definitely weird.
My dad passed when I was 14. When I got married, I wore his Navy dogtags and my mom walked me down the aisle. When she handed me off to my groom, he took the tags off of me and handed them to her, to symbolize him participating. I'm told all the veterans had sweaty eyeballs.
That is beautiful!!
That’s lovely. ❤️
My mom passed away a month before I turned 10. My dad carried her picture in his breast pocket, next to his heart. I cried so hard when I saw my wedding pictures and there was one of my dad holding the picture up.
I need an update to story #2 really bad. I'm sooooo invested.
Me too, I want an update on her fiancé. I hope she dumps him.
same here, hated when the video finished with no update!
Upppp. Hopefully we got an update soon
Update when? Sooo need it!
following incase any updates happen
One of my favorite rap lyric says: if you have problems with everyone, then maybe the problem is you. OP #2 is shady, or in fact surrounded by monsters (somewhat unlikely)
There is something missing in the second story. How could the parents just side with the sister? They were fully aware of the date and how special a wedding is. They went through their own wedding so they cannot be clueless about that. At this point, the OP bride needs to just plan her wedding, get married and move on with the people that supported her. If she focuses all her attention on who is “ruining” her day the day is already ruined and it will haunt her for the rest of her life. Make it a party to be the party of your dreams! Make it so that you end the day so happy and grateful for the love that was shown to you. Then cut ties and move on.
WOW the gloves that would be thrown if my Maid of Honour dropped out and went to my sister’s wedding …. WOW
I can’t even imagine what I’d do ….. but I’m a grand Duchess of petty . There would be a nuclear level explosion between the 2of us. Gloves off , oscillating fan on high and plenty of tea to toss into that fan .
That’s what I said !! Who in their right mind does that ? 😞 I feel so bad for OP - her fiance is trash too
I would've literally called the MOH out and gone Karen mode tbh like tf?
Nah, there's something OP isn't telling us. Think about it - EVERYONE is bailing on her wedding, so maybe not everything is as it seems. 🤔🧐
@@samanthafairweather9186OR she’s been the scapegoat all her life and the fiancé is another golden child just like her sister. Yes nobodies perfect but this family dynamic is very common and unless you’ve experienced it you can’t understand how deep this ish goes
Omg..that sister picked that day in hopes to use you to pay for venue, caterer, florist, photographer etc. She doesnt want to pay. Sbes totally hoping you will let her just use your planning.
I just kept shouting "NOOO" at the sister trying to steal the other sister's wedding date and making her merge. I was so angry I stood up 😆
It sounds not believable. Why would her own closest friend switch weddings...? Why is seemingly everyone against her? This sounds like the type of things that those who are the problem say.
@bunnyrabi I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking that. There has to be more to the story.
My worry is the sister will steal her vendors, by telling the vendors there is a venue change. What if she takes all the things she paid for and using them for herself somewhere else? I hope there is a code word so things can't be canceled or moved.
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Do what i did...a tiny tiny "theme" wedding. My chrismas cards doubled as the wedding invite. No preasure for ANYONE ELSE to follow the theme, jeans were encouraged. Hubby n I dressed in 1880's garb, bestie had a saloon girl dress, married on a day nobody else wanted needed or desired FEB 29-LEAP DAY. Married in an antique filled room in the hotel we stayed in and the town was teeny tiny and an old west gold mining town that was now 32 casinos. The mayor did the service for a donation and no formal reception either just a WHOLE LOT OF FUN criss-crossing the little main street and mingling at the different restaurants, bars and casinos all night long. 45 ppl and it was SMOOOOOTH GOIN❤❤❤ after being married for about 4 years...we moved to that town full time😊😊 25 years later...(On the 28th or march 1st) We will walk one block and go back to where we were married for a fabulous dinner and party (as long as 2 ppl in their 60s can). 😂😂❤
18:48 i can't believe that ANY of her family members, etc are trying to convince her to share the day with her sister. So so weird. Any normal person can see how ridiculous, stressful and hurtful it is.
On that last story: my wife and I paid $500 total on our wedding and most of it went to dresses for myself and my wife and child. Having an affordable wedding is very achievable. The sister wants to have a free wedding and all the attention. Cancel everything, get what refunds you can, dump the fiancé, friends, and family, then ride off into the sunset to live your best life free from people that would steal your joy.
12:57 I love that you addressed the uncensored C words 😂 we loved it too 😂❤
Yes petty potatoes feed off a good swear!!!
16:25 both these brides are AH. The sister for stealing the date, and OP for being so obsessed with the wedding that she thinks it will be the best day of her life and her ‘lifelong dream’. What about the rest of her life? OP is also giving the sister what she wants by reacting to it. OP needs therapy for her fixation on her ‘dream wedding’ and her trauma with her sister. The fact that everyone has sided with the sister means that maybe some of the issue is OP?
when you screamed "we are going to war" I had visions of mike in a gladiator outfit raising a sword and screaming a war cry
16:23 sister is trying to get a free wedding by convincing her sister to merge them
22:30 she should call off the whole wedding, dump the husband because he doesn't support her no matter how much she explains herself, when else will he not support her? Does she really think she'll have a happy life with somebody who tells her to just let people walk all over her?
I would be out, I'd explain everything to the vendors to see if I could get anything back, any items already purchased I'd see if I could get in hand to maybe resell, and everybody that canceled on my wedding would be out of my life, family included, until they grovelled for my forgiveness, I clearly wasn't important enough to them to keep the promise they made to attend my wedding and I refuse to keep people in my life that can't keep a promise
I'd also likely be petty enough when I post the whole thing as a group message to add in that mushroom cloud edit made to look like a middle finger, then block anybody whose response was not an apology
About the last story:
The future husband is proving what it will be like to be married to him and it isn't pretty. Very big red flag!
The sister just wants a free wedding. The parents going along with this is hardcore. But OP said that her sister is the golden child. So it was predictable what would happen. But that the rest of the family and the MOH go along with it... oh hell no. I recommend no contact!
And above all...please I need updates on this story. I would be really interested to see what else happens or comes.
It's a shame that some people just can't fathom that on someone else's wedding day, it's not about them. For the first one, I don't think she's the asshole because she wanted the day to be memorable in a positive way, but the sister in law just wanted to shit on it and make herself the main character. I'd be pissed too.
3:37 reminds me of this girl I had in my elementary school.
Her mom passed away from cancer. It was very sad and she was young and also was the eldest in the family (she had younger sister and brother or stg).
After few days she started coming back to school and she seemed back to her happy spirit. But lot of other students used to remark whenever she is happy words like "she's not even sad for her mother's death. Look how she playing around and laughing".
I was and still am like "WTF". It never failed to weird me out whenever someone says that.
Regarding the first post, where OP said she was Australian and resisted the urge to say the C-word -- this reminded me of an Australian comedian named Kevin Bloody Wilson who sings a song titled "You Can't Say (the C-word) in Canada". I think you would find it entertaining.
On the last story I'd set up passwords with all the vendors so she can't just take your dream over fore free. Then i'd cancel the wedding & break up with the Fiancé. That man is a huge red flag. If OP is telling the truth he hasn't supported her for ONE MINUTE during all of this. He's dismissive of her feelings and just wants to ignore her pain. He's either a complete ahole or he's in on it. If he can't be there for her when she needs him NOW he sure as hell won't be there for even bigger issues like lost jobs, pregnancy, etc. Get.Out.Now.
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That sister same wedding day story: it sounds like the sister was betting on a merged wedding and getting one for free.
OP does sound that this is eating her up. If she got there first, it should be her day, but the ideé fix of THE wedding, fuelled by childhood trauma, is burning her up. How she presents off social media we don't know, and if she is acting out to others in person, because of her distress, it is not going to help her cause. Tough situation, but I agree: cut off the people who are not supporting you, tie down your wedding to yourself and start a new life in a new direction.
Somebody is definitely manipulating the narrative in Story 2. Either the sister has been saying something to really paint the OP in a bad light (which could be as simple as “I chose the date first” to “I just thought having our weddings together would be nice” to going full nuclear with fake texts, concocted conversations, and a very nasty smear campaign based on he-said-she-said), or there’s something major the OP isn’t telling anybody on Reddit. You don’t have a turnaround that dramatic out of nowhere, and golden child siblings are often quite practiced in the art of manipulation (I had a golden child sister throughout childhood, though in our case she fortunately grew out of that mentality and our mother evened out in how she regarded us). The MoH especially, she’s normally the bride’s closest and/or most reliable friend, so for her to switch to the sister’s bridal party means something is going on that OP’s either deliberately hiding from the readers or has no idea about herself.
Considering the lack of support from her fiancé and the la-dee-dah attitude sister’s fiancé seems to have, I think it’s time to lay all the cards on the table. Come at both guys with receipts, so to speak, so they are fully aware of the depths of this situation and just how bad it’s gotten. If they still want to ignore everything and OP’s fiancé continues to downplay her feelings, then I’d say it’s time to go scorched earth. Give back the ring, let everyone know EXACTLY what has been going on and what all this has done to her, how much this has hurt her, and then burn those bridges to the ground with truth-bombs and receipts. Get these people out of your life. Nobody needs to keep this kind of half-assed support and full negativity attached to them. Even the fortune spent on wedding stuff isn’t worth that much.
Totally agree with the emotional side of weddings. We lost my grandpa 1,5 year ago and my sister married on October. My brother -in-law gave her a medallion with a picture of her and grandpa. We attached it to her flowers bouquet. He and sis made a mention about the people that weren't there, my grandpa, and my uncle that was in the hospital with a tumour. After that my sister came to me and hugged me while she cried and I cried too. I could only comfort my lovely bride sis telling her how happy grandpa was at that same moment, because I was sure he was in between us... It was a sad yet sweet moment.
To the lady with the crazy sister and the doormat fiance. You need to drop the family that chose your crazy sister and your fiance that is more focused on everyone's happiness and not yours.
You cannot change the behavior of a narcissist. The best you can do is go no contact because any response or interaction is exactly what they were trying to provoke. The SIL doesn't understand the difference between good and bad attention.
It's ridiculous that the lady had to speak to her SIL about not making a scene at her daughters wedding. I would consider not inviting her.
My late brothers’ granddaughter had a beautiful table set up at the venue with many photos of the important people in her life and her new husband’s life who are no longer with us. It was a loving way of including the family members and friends in a beautiful celebration. I was seriously impressed with the idea, and judging by the way the guests reacted with both smiles and tears, I was not alone.
She doesn't want to pay for wedding.She wants to merge and piggyback off of what you've already done.
My cousins whole direct family died when she was 12. I watched her get married two years ago, i BAWLED. Remembering saying goodbye to her, all those years ago and having two days were we had no clue where she was, she was at the bottom of a large ravine. The only survivor. Luckily my uncle and her uncle (who they were going to visit) knew what location to look, between arizona and California, there is large mountains, it was pouring rain that night.... Her mom, brother and grandma, were with her, that was the hardest and best wedding to see 😢❤
Damn. That’s one of the roughest things I’ve ever heard!!! 💔
I am so happy she has been able to find Happiness AND has wonderful familial support from you & the rest of the family. 💕💐
@LeeLooDallas1313 💔🖤 it's even more awful than just this, the rest is not mine to tell, but she's a walking miracle and my number one supporter we just so happened to move to the same state after we had our kids, so, so glad she's here
I'm really sorry about your cousin...
@sarascarpati887 ty, were just so glad she's here. ❤️
@@deanna_8764 she sounds really strong, hurts
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High praise indeed, but I would agree.❤
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That last story is absolutely bananas 😮
My sister and I got married a week apart. My wedding was first and she was freaking out, because her centerpieces had the same flowers 😂 Like what do you mean?! It’s a seasonal flower! It’s at every wedding at that time of year 🤷♀️
Whenever I get married I'm probably going up be an absolute mess without my dad and grandpa 🥲 Still cry thinking about it and how my future kids will never get to meet their grandpa.
Story 1 - the fact that the SIL's performative grief was premeditated since it would have taken a while to put her death montage together shows she's more of a "LOOK AT ME!!!" narcissist than an actual grieving sister.
I agree.
Absolutely. There's no way she did that overnight. Very much premeditated.
The only thing performative is your anger for someone you don’t even know because you heard part of one side of a story lol. Why didn’t the mother and bride make her part of the planning for the in memoriam so she wouldn’t feel the need to do anything “extra”. The SIL probably thought she was doing something sweet for the bride showing her a picture of her father during what is traditionally a huge father daughter moment. Not everyone is constantly looking for reasons to be a victim and most people give family the BOD. Parts of the mother’s story doesn’t even add up. She says the picture was held out to the point they had to stop and sidestep (two people shoulder to shoulder and one in a wedding dress which are usually pretty big). How big is this aisle? How come everyone didn’t see it if all eyes were on the bride and the bride had to noticeably move around it? The mother is either turning nothing into a big deal or she forgot how eyes work. Not to even mention you can’t really say she “made a scene” if hardly anyone saw it.
Story # 2: Either OP did not communicate to her guests that she chose the date first and that her sister stole it, allowing the sister to direct the narrative. Or, OP is leaving out part of the story. It just does not make sense that everyone would choose the sister's side in this story as it is presented. Even her fiance seems to be somewhere between. If everyone in the story is crazy but OP; it may just be that the narrator is not trustworthy
The third option is that the parents are paying for the wedding and cant afford both. And in the family's opinion, sharing is the best option without OP paying herself. That may also make sense of why the fiance is so hesitant to rock the boat, as he does not want to be stuck paying for it themselves
Thank you! That story does indeed sound weird. Peoples reactions contradict the story a lot.
Exactly what I thought. Why would MoH turn on her? Why would the family and everyone all of a sudden turn their attention to OP's sister?? I feel like OP is leaving out important info.
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I NEED AN UPDATE ON THAT LAST STORY!! so hooked lol
Second story: As messed up and as hard as this is, I would ditch everyone who is supporting my sister including my fiance and parents. If he can't even be on your side for this, how much worse will it be in the future? I'd cancel the wedding, dump the fiance, and go no contact to everyone who supported my sister. You deserve people in your life that have your back and are your ride or die. I'd cancel the venue and everything related to it and see how quickly your sister is at cancelling hers as she most likely can't afford any of it. Personally, I'd probably move to a new city and start fresh. Too many bad memories in that city. It know its easier said than done but its healthier in the long run rather than being in a marriage where you hold resentment and being with people who don't hold you in high esteem.
A random friend of mine chose my wedding date. We were talking and he said, "Why don't you get married on September 10th?" . It suddenly hit me that it would be 9/10/11 so I said yes and scheduled it at 12 noon. I didn't have to overthink it and no one complained.
My son and his wife chose 8/08/08
Haha, cool!
Story 1: Being supported financially and emotionally by a person who isn't required to do so should be enough reason to adhere to the person's most basic request of respect. Just general human decency about another person's special day.
Charlottes off base with this one. Maybe she was just looking at the picture and just turned to watch the bride coming down? Maybe she just brought it with her for her OWN emotional support? Carrying a framed photo is hardly a huge interruption and the OP even said no one else saw? It wasn’t the big to-do OP interpreted it as, with her OWN high emotions and expectations that something bad was going to happen- she was LOOKING for something to be upset about.
Old Charlotte would have asked those questions, instead of assuming the worst. Her eps use to make me smile at the world, but I realized lately… well I’m hoping it’s not a permanent change in her approach, opinions or character. That would be sad.
@@AmericasMama it had been 5 yrs, there is no reason for someone to bring a framed montage of photo's & his funeral booklet to a wedding. A framed montage of photos and a booklet is no small thing, I know because we have made one for my dad who had passed away. They are not small. She also put it in the aisle and they had to SIDESTEP her and the framed montage. The reason most people didn't see it was probably because as the bride goes down the aisle everyone stands up and all are watching the bride walk down the aisle. Besides that, Who cares that most didn't see it, the bride and mother did. It was extremely upsetting to them when they had also reiterated many many times for her not to do something like that. She deliberately did this. She deliberately did not listen to her. She crossed boundaries. When I get married, I also plan to incorporate my dad into it, I'd also be extremely angry if someone did that to me when I had planned everything already. It was an attention seeking move period. Basically in her mind whatever the bride did to remember her brother was *not enough* for this sister so she made it her responsibility to interject her feelings into a wedding that had nothing to do with her.
@AmericasMama
You did not listen.
SIL reached out into the the aisle with a LARGE framed MONTAGE including the funeral booklet.
SIL was wrong and selfish! She was NOT holding a small framed photo within the confines of her person as you post suggests.
@@AmericasMama sorry - what?! lol. OP literally said that she THRUST the photo out in front of them walking and caused them to need to stop short as they were walking. And she didn’t say “no one” noticed, she just said she didn’t think anyone did “except for the people closest” and they had to SIDE STEP her in order to continue down the aisle. She can be weird on her own and carry a funeral pamphlet on a happy day, but to pull that stunt? No. Big massive AH.
@@firelady118always 2 perspectives. Psych background by the way- so I actually know a thing or two here on how people process grief
Perhaps IF it was precisely the way OP stated, however, (other than admitting no one else saw it, which should already offer doubt to her perception that hit ‘stopped’ tem down the aisle), her post had Zero insight into her own actions, she was already emotional, (she said she had just pinned on the medallion and was crying). Her post doesn’t Inc an iota of doubt into her perception? Not even the tiniest bit of doubt that maybe she took things the wrong way?
Always question when the attitude is, “IT WAS 💯 THE WAY I SAY IT WAS!” (See also: your response).
This was btw no where NEAR a ‘throw myself into the coffin moment’- a photo she could have had in her lap since OP admits no one side?
Grieving 5 years later, carrying his photo and working him into the wedding is ok for his wife and daughter but not his sister?
Daughter had a medallion with his picture on it, sister carried a photo. Why are we making assumptions on any other part of that?
How old are you? Have you ever lost an immediate family member - other than a pet?
How about losing a child? A sibling or parent while being a teen or older yourself? (Before age 15 it’s harder to hold memories, and the grief isn’t the same).
Hate to play devils advocate and I may get crap for this but…Something is off to me the story where the sister booked her wedding for the same day as the OP. There are just really not a lot of details about why her loved ones are making the decisions they are, for example the maid of honor leaving to stand by her sister. It just seems like the OP is trying to paint herself in the best light as possible but seems to be leaving something out about the golden child sister…I think the truth lies somewhere in the middle.
Clarifications needed:
DID they send our wedding invites? Or just have the date in mind? Why is the fiancé not bothered about it? How close are the maid of honor and the sister that the maid of honor literally became the maid of honor for her sister ? Why is the literal whole family turning against her? We need those things cleared up
I’m always amazed by the parents who don’t get the importance of giving each of their children their own special days: baptism, birthdays, graduations, wedding…
Story #2: IF everything the poster wrote is accurate and no details that would change the story were left out, the sister is a PoS, the family is horrible, and the fiancé isn’t attentive to her feelings AT BEST. It seems like there be more to the story, however. It may be a situation where more than one thing can be true at once - maybe her sister was hoping to dump a lot of the planning onto her, but the sister had actually already picked that date; or there’s a lot more to the ”golden child” story than she’s discussed and it’s just a perception issue; or it could even be a case of everyone acting like a-holes. When everyone - from close and extended family to all of your friends, and even your fiancé - have an issue with you, sometimes they’re all a-holes, but sometimes it’s something that you’re doing, even it’s subconsciously.
Additionally, as just an aside, I think a lot of women put too much emphasis on the wedding, as opposed to the marriage. I would rather have a wonderful marriage than a perfect wedding. ❤
Okay, see, I think the sister is also trying to get her wedding for cheap. OP has already put down deposits and booked vendors and did significant planning-which is expensive. Even if OP was amenable to sharing, is the sister going to contribute equally to the costs that have already been spent? Will she be contributing to the rest of the expenses? So the sister is not only trying to hijack a day that OP has tried to make special for her and her partner, she likely trying to piggyback and avoid spending money as well.
Edit: I’m glad some of the thread comments saw this too.
The second bride doesn't speak the whole truth imo. I don't think the whole family, even the MOH and fiancé would switch sides. Too many close ppl at the same time. If she does tell the truth, the only option I can see is to cancel the whole wedding and run away from everyone as far as possible. (no support from friends, family and soon to be husband)
Yea, I'm starting to see that, too. Either she's not telling the whole truth, or she's surrounded by actual monsters, and she needs to take what money she can and remove herself from all of them. Even fiancé. People like that aren't going to change.
Yeah why would your best friend switch unless we are missing information. My friends nevermind best friend would always back me unless I'm being crazy.
that first story, the way they paid tribute to her father, that warmed my heart, as for confronting the sister in law, nah you've tried that MANY times, so yeah time to cut and run cause she doesn't get it, as for the 2nd story, the "golden child" sister, not only is she trying to steal the thunder, shes trying to score a free wedding, thats why she wants to "share" the day, as for not knowing it was the same day, yeah thats a crock, although she may want to rethink marrying her fiance since he doesn't seem to support her like he should
My niece used her beloved grandpa's yellow tie to wrap her bouquet. Her bridesmaids wore yellow. It was very sweet.
The judge is awesome. Ive seen other videos. Hes very fair and calls cops out when they do stuff too. The4es another famous judge who's a sweetie. Fighting cancer rn too. Hes so sweet
Story 2: OP’s fiancé frustrates me the most tbh. Yeah, maybe having a big wedding that’s specific to one couple “isn’t that important in the long run,” but it’s *important to OP.* OP’s fiancé doesn’t think it’s worth fighting for what’s important to the person he’s about to marry. That is a spineless man who will NEVER take OP’s side or back her up when her family throws her under the bus. That is a hallmark for what’s to come for the rest of that marriage.
OP needs to reevaluate her relationship with her fiancé. I wouldn’t be looking at my own partner the same way after something like that.
Nothing in this world makes me happier than Charlotte's "Turkey Judge" voice!😂❤
For the last story, I am honestly immensely concerned about the lack of support and the flip-flopping of the husband-to-be. I really hope she is able to have a conversation with him about it, and he actually listens, cause if my husband-to-be didn't support me with MY FAMILY causing issues I would be so pissed.
When i went to my nieces quinceanera, she had just lost her grandfather who was close with her. So for one of her dances, she held a photo of him that she took off his memory table. We all cried and had a big group hug.
I think the SIL wanted them to carry the Montage and funeral book down the aisle... which makes her even douchier!
I went to a friend's wedding a couple of years back, her dad had passed over a decade prior, and she had his Navy photo in a similar medallion on her bouquet. When her mum walked her down the aisle, I cried because it should have been Jeff.. he was there in other ways, but I wish he could have been there in person for her..
Honestly with the sister that just came out with "My wedding is on the same day!" Most likely just wanted a mostly all costs paid wedding. Since she knew it would be big
Bro, the second story HAS to he fake. There isn’t an ENTIRE group of people THAT brain dead. The fiancé not caring, the MOH jumping ship, without a word, and NO ONE going to her wedding? My brain can’t believe that’s real.
I believe the OP is manipulating her story to get sympathy. They e been engaged for 5 years??? She’s the A-hole thinking everyone has to plan their lives around her.
I agree. It is near impossible that everyone would back the sister up if there is no missing context.
I rlly think it’s AI generated or faked. I feel like a lot of stories from the CD reddit are for her attention and not genuine. which is causing a major quality issue?
It’s likely fake or she’s not telling the whole story. But there is an entire group of people that think the world is flat so I think you might be over estimating people haha
Unpopular opinion: I feel like we’re missing a big chunk of the last story. There’s something about the rant where all the family abandons her, all the friends abandon her, and her fiancé doesn’t support her. Something about it rings false. Might just be my biases, but I’ve heard rants like that before and there’s always something else happening in the background that the victim doesn’t want coming to light. I feel like we’re dealing with an unreliable narrator. If that’s not the case, I apologize. I’ve just seen this too often to immediately jump on board anyone’s side.
Seriously cannot WAIT for Charlotte’s wedding! I want to see her gorgeous dress and how happy she’ll be. I’m so excited for her and her husband to be! 🥹❤️
Ugh need a part 2!!! And need your merch to come back into stock!!! Really wish there was a size 3x as well!!
Charlotte you are my guiding light thru the dating/arranged marriage pool. Bless me with your positive vibes!
I wish you the best time possible and hope that you find a wonderful and true partner !! 😊
Sister brides: You must dump the groom, leave town, cut all family ties, and go create a family that values you!!! This one pains me!!! I am so sorry for you! Most critically I am sad that even the man you have chosen does not consider you to be the priority. Be wise, realize that before you make the biggest mistake of your life!
At my nephew's wedding, they had a small table by the entrance with four framed photos of the missing grandparents. There was a small, tasteful plaque about remembering those on "The Other Side" and a candle. It was lovely.
It sounds like the sister just doesn’t want to pay for anything since she keeps on trying to insist on piggybacking on her wedding.
Charlotte!!! Your voice makes me so relaxed and calm that I doze off. Then I wake up and realize I’ve missed the video and have to watch it again because I must hear the tea!!
The more Bridezilla and wedding AITA stories you react to, the more I’m sure that if I ever get married it will be a very small ceremony at a nice city hall or something… or elope somewhere nice abroad. I’m also very shy and a small wedding is just very ideal for me lol.
I am trying to convince my bf to elope. Or have a wedding with less than 10 people.
We did it and it was the best day of my life!
No drama, no unwanted guests. Just us two.
And with all the money we saved, we had enough for a long honeymoon and then some.
10/10, can recommend 😉
Charlotte is the most amazing person here on this app, that i ever saw. Her sense of humor, opinions, reactions, style, she's just amazing and an inspiration. I wish her all the success and happiness❤
Thank you for the kind words as always Dina!
No one pointing out the red flags of the fiance in the last story? Dismissing her feelings like that? Not having her back? Family can be cut off, it's a bigger problem that the person she's marrying is acting like that. Depending on if there's other red flags in his behaviour(abused/neglected children often end up marrying people like their abusers because they've been taught certain behaviours are ok) I'd say get some serious marriage counseling or just straight up dump the guy. I wanted another update where she got rid of the fiance and the toxic family.
She needs to not marry that man!
Right?? I'm hoping this is either fake or she dumped him because he sucks just like her family
The red flag is the whole story itself... why would her own closest friend switch weddings. Family i can understand.. her fiancée maybe he is a jerk. However your closest friend?? No, that's too many people not on your side. Family, friends, lover? Heck no, unless all the people suck in your life... but i think the true story is she did something wrong herself and she isn't mentioning that.
I'm surprised more people aren't questioning why her closest friend would switch...
I love that Charlotte knows she can count of the fact that each one of us are ready to show up for the bride of the second story
Love the mom in the first story! Wow!!!! Mama Bear energy
There are 365 days in a year! Sister would choose the SAME day?!? How did she think that would go?? My little brother got married on my anniversary, Oct 10th, but 8 years after I got married And he STILL asked me if I was ok with it! I said "Great! It will be easy to remember your anniversary!" 🤣
Oh thank goodness I just sat down for lunch 😂
I hope it's delicious!
@ it’s even better now 😃
But Bestie, now you have to rise! LOL - hope it was amazing.
Literally same
Just realized the time and squealed with joy lol I'm straight up addicted to Charlotte. I'm trained to check every other day at noon
I accidentally had the play speed on 2X and the opening was extremely hilarious 😂 Charlotte is already funny but that made it even funnier especially since I wasn’t expecting it 😂
My sister got married in August of last year, and my father passed away in 2022. My brother walked her down the aisle, and it sucked. She wished he was there, as did all of us, but it was beautiful and he will always be with us.
For story #2 Most definitely reconsider marrying your S/O he’s not even supporting you at your lowest, he most definitely will not support you through other hardships. To see the obvious look of distress and disappointment in your face as you talk about how it affects you and just brush it off as “dramatic”, leads me to believe he would have that same energy for other serious events such as parenthood and financial hardships etc. As for the sister, she most definitely did this to cut costs on her own wedding seeing you plan every detail in yours, she also most likely wanted that spotlight per usual that she always had growing up and the thought of you in the spotlight getting married before her probably triggered her. I would definitely go no contact with the friends and family that switched up on you and maybe even reconsider marrying your fiancé, I’m so sorry this is happening to you, nobody deserves their special day to be taken over.