Having personally been on the receiving end of narcissistic abuse, and knowing what it feels like to be manipulated, intimidated and devalued by a narcissist, I really admire such psychotherapists as Dr. Kernberg, who have the courage and intellectual depth to still try to help narcissists. By doing so such therapists also help targets of the narcissists and even make our society a better place. Thank you, Dr. Kernberg!
People seek out these relationships, i recommend reading a paper called "The Allure of the Bad Object" by Eleanore Armstrong-Perlman. You can find it via google. It takes two to tango as they say, people are not just helpless victims but actively seek bad relationships. Much like narcissists do.
The interesting word you choose there: ADMIRE Do you know who is obsessed with admiration? narcissists Most psychologically healthy people RESPECT...but narcissists admire and seek admiration.
What an incredible genius you are Dr Otto Kernberg! We are witnessing history in the making! Thank you from the thousands of patients and their families for hope!
Exactly, I thought it was my laptop...but 3 years after your comment, the flashing is still there. Thank you for taking the time to post because someone could have a seizure.
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Thankful for this video. DR. Kernberg is brilliant.
He has such a depth and breadth of knowledge that he has acquired. Impressive.
Having personally been on the receiving end of narcissistic abuse, and knowing what it feels like to be manipulated, intimidated and devalued by a narcissist, I really admire such psychotherapists as Dr. Kernberg, who have the courage and intellectual depth to still try to help narcissists. By doing so such therapists also help targets of the narcissists and even make our society a better place. Thank you, Dr. Kernberg!
People seek out these relationships, i recommend reading a paper called "The Allure of the Bad Object" by Eleanore Armstrong-Perlman. You can find it via google.
It takes two to tango as they say, people are not just helpless victims but actively seek bad relationships. Much like narcissists do.
This one is about pwBPD who are also quite capable of toxic behaviour.
Npd's ,in all guises, do immense damage. Hope you cut loose as they bait and target a certain type of person.
@nobody nowhere true statement. The dance of the dysfunctional. Ps..thanks for the tip. Wii order
The interesting word you choose there: ADMIRE
Do you know who is obsessed with admiration? narcissists
Most psychologically healthy people RESPECT...but narcissists admire and seek admiration.
What an incredible genius you are Dr Otto Kernberg! We are witnessing history in the making! Thank you from the thousands of patients and their families for hope!
The change of lighting makes my head feel bad but if u cover the visual the audio is enough 😍
I did exactly the same: listened without watching. The contents are golden though.
Thank you very much. Amazing work.
FLASHING IMAGES WARNING FOR EPILEPSY
Exactly, I thought it was my laptop...but 3 years after your comment, the flashing is still there. Thank you for taking the time to post because someone could have a seizure.
Once there’s abuse, leave. You can never be in love with an abuser.
The abuser is INCAPABLE OF LOVE, not the other way around.
@@le_th_u cant be in love with an abuser- after a certain point it becomes an addiction not love
Social situation triggers the disposition, positive affect libidinal and negative aggressive. He speaks of five systems, fight and flight,
This man is a genius and should be protected at all costs :). Seriously, he's still the preeminent authority on this topic.
Good lecture, more people should listen to Kernberg.. but the constant flickering makes this nearly unwatchable, it's only good to listen to.
Yep, you definitely have to cursor down and just listen...but W O W, what knowledge and wisdom he dispenses.
@@le_th_ he's spittin facts :)
Roll down to eliminate video and just listen to what he says.
“ The feelings in your brain cells bubble and collide; love hate, hate love….like for mama?”
--Dr. Pinder-Schloss (alias)
The Addams Family
; )
What's the piano piece at the end?
Have you find it out? Im wondering the same.
@@evav465 the best part about this video. mesmerising .
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The best? Otto Kernberg is quite good as well.
@@evav465 yes, he is, but, no real answers still, just descriptions.
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Yes, cluster b disorders seems genetic and they dont want to say it clearly.
Subtitles??
… c'è una buona ragione per NON sostenere il Psychiatry on line Italia.
Non tutti possono permettersi di pagare per le notizie e per una corretta informazione in questo momento. Per questo teniamo il nostro lavoro da sempre aperto alla lettura da parte di tutti.
Se sei tu, continua a leggere gratuitamente.
Ma se puoi, allora ci sono TRE buoni motivi per sostenerci oggi:
1. Il nostro lavoro on line di qualità è fondamentale per sostenere una psichiatria di qualità seria e competente
2. Siamo indipendenti e non abbiamo proprietari miliardari che tirano i fili, quindi i tuoi soldi alimentano direttamente il nostro lavoro
3. Non costa molto e richiede meno tempo di quanto ci è voluto per leggere questo messaggio
Contribuisci a potenziare il lavoro di Psychiatry on line Italia per gli anni a venire, sia con una piccola somma che con una maggiore.
Se puoi, sostienici mensilmente a partire da soli 2,99€.
Segui il link per farlo Grazie.
ruclips.net/channel/UC2PUzR2-4eTBwucYhVXuSOwjoin
All kinds of horrid behaviors
War
Phsycological war that no one deserves!