So true. Im married, have a child, have a career and own a house before 30! Still i lack something. Don't know what. When I was feeling on top of the world, my father died leaving me shattered. Life is so uncertain. Take it as it comes
@@Akash-xb7cd obviously after my dad's demise but even before that, though I was blessed with many things, I was complaining about small small things which could be better. I never had a work life balance. I was constantly running forgetting to notice small beautiful things in the way. After literally loosing a person i started valuing life more. Now I have restricted working hours, my income has reduced I can clearly see that but I'm more of alive person now.
For me, i won't think anything as failure. When we are emotionally weak after certain time we know how to over come. Also there is no word called success. Because if we achieve something big after few months we will feel like what's next. So live the moment save something for your life and move on both in you success and failure
That's what she meant dear. Society will judge you anyways. But, if you are emotionally strong, nothing will effect you. But emotionally weak people no matter how successful they are in all aspects of life will definitely don't feel enough.
I'm 25 now and in August will turn 26. Currently studying for gov. Job. Single and don't have any plans to get married, of course family members wants me to get married and forget about doing a job and on top of that i don't have father , it's really stressful and sometimes I get scared thinking about future. But still I don't want to give up and I'll do my best to achieve my goal. Hope for a bright future
I'm 34 and a lawyer. also volunteer for a women's NGO on weekends. My goals are to establish my career, earn a lot, help those distressed women, take care of my parents, enjoy life, travel the world.. In that order. Marriage is not in my to-do list.
I was without any of these till 30 's and I choose to be happy myself , not a single human stands with me,believed me or supported me other than my mother ( pls note: I am a Lady from middle class)...now after 30 everything have happened magically...that's all about divine timing also along with hardwork... Say bye to society norms.....make your own life ... But all the failures, pains, insecurities,hardships,loneliness, hard lessons , pressures taught me so many lessons, helped me grow higher spiritually and as a human being .....I am happy now ....I learned to live happily no matter what...when you came into that state everything will just falls in place....some will get it sooner..for others it will took time...but in our lives we are always in our timeline....just don't compare yourself with others...choose to be unique because God made you unique
All these are milestones of life and need to be achieved at right time for our own peace of mind. Society is not wrong in this instance as they wish us well and are not our enemies.
This teacher say you to study at 30 prepare for exam like UPSC 😂😂😂😂😂 Meanwhile your main youth time gone After 30 not cracking UPSC you will slave in private office 😂😂😂😂😂
Im 15 yo but still worried about the future...In this generation being a teenager is so complicated...there are literally so many distractions but trying to focus on studies and avoid distraction as much as possible..... remembering that time never goes backwards....😢😢
Im 25, fresh lawyer but also preparing for Govt jobs. Gone through lot of family problems and girlfriend problems. But now after some time i have restored my mindset and at peace now. I'll keep on practicing law and at the same time study for other jobs. Lets see what the future holds. Ill focus on what i want to do and keep on doing it gracefully baki sab bhagwan ke upar chor denge
Thank you so much for your work, Doctor. I'm very sorry to see that this nation isn't paying you people what you deserve. I hope you continue to stay happy and have a positive outlook towards life ❤️
I'm 28 single woman ! Just raising bunch of animlas ! Nd you know I live in the society where girls around 25 already have kids !! I'm the only woman who's livin'like this !! ❤
@onelivingbeing090 Same here, people ask my parents when they'll marry me, luckily they are supportive and answer saying they'll know when time will arrive😊, till then im focusing on my career and investments, so life's good by God's grace...
@@srmy9339 yess even my parents tells me get married if you'll feel like you don't want to continue then get divorced 🙄 like only because of the society!!! Lile when people asks me when are you getting married I reply with: as long as I have choise , I'm never getting married 😂
Your society have kids with mother ages 25 but I Iive in such a society where girls are given marriage between the ages 15-18/20. Yes I am from West Bengal,where child marriage held the most. Do you believe this😅but it's real.
These milestones are just boundaries a person sets for himself. But life is more beyond these boundaries. Live life up to your wishes.Society in itself is suffering.
This teacher say you to study at 30 prepare for exam like UPSC 😂😂😂😂😂 Meanwhile your main youth time gone After 30 not cracking UPSC you will slave in private office 😂😂😂😂😂
This kind of lady is shit,fake myth like system house marriage kids and all 🙅already over populated lol Reality experience the world each and everything soon because life ends soon nowadays😂this is real life world
Im 22,in my final year mbbs,,,i had my obstetrics postings going on rt now,,daily i see females aged 19,21,22 having theirs first,third babies.,,,im so thankful my parents supported my education
This is the exactly, the only and the biggest mistake of my life also......but now I have changed my mindset because we are humans and we are tend to make mistakes. As long as we are breathing, we can always start over or have new beginnings!!
I am 27, got married at the age of 20,became mother at the age of 24, passed 3 government job exam, still not required because it's West Bengal. Still can't please the society. I am done with the society 😞 not gonna please any one.
You don't need to please anyone, you're talented, it's their habit to point out no matter how good we are, they always find the bad things, keep going and focus on what you find happiness in❤️
These motivations are good to hear Ultimately Tanu Jain madam, the tragedy is UPSC CSE officer has to work under a person who doesn’t even need education qualification to enter into politics
Self satisfaction is the key. We may die anytime. These career influencers have pros and cons to pple . If we only know the aim of human life, we wouldn't run after money, career, etc. Of course we should do our duty, but not think career is only our life. After a certain age, we realise, what have we achieved by working so hard? That is what many people thought.
Im 35..did multiple jobs, engagement got failed, no house.. Just doing small comission based jobs though I am double post graduate with distinction. But right now I realised how society treats with money and without money
Who cares about society....If All that happens in society are good and people are Saint, we can respect them...if not what is the need of importance to the standards set by so called Society.
Paisa hona chahiye wo bhale 40 ke umra ke bad bhi aae wahi se izzat aa jati hai.....this is what reality of this society....aap kitne saal garib rahe aam life jiye isse farq nahi padega fark padega jab ki aap garib hi mar jae ...so effort marte rahe success bhale 40 me hi kyu na aae ....paisa aate hi sab set
They advise us to study at 30 for Exam like UPSC and other entrance exam 😂😂😂😂 So she gets money 🤑🤑🤑🤑💰💰💰🤑🤑🤑 After 30 fanicial pressure make you slave of cooperative
@@Aman13567Pehli Baat Vo corporate hota h. Doosri Baat agar 22-24 pe bhi karana shuru karo to sab generally corproate se hi start karte h unless they have anything else of their going on like a business or something.
@@bhavyjyotisharma3642 Total no. Of aspirants in entrance exam or government exam V/S total no. Of aspirants/students have best college or government Job. Percentage you can calculate by yourself UPSC or other entrance University charge us heavy amount in the hope of getting a job/seat in IIT or other entrance college. But reality a few were selected Rest, retry,retry, retry and soon on . Someone becomes 30 , and become slave of cooperative where they got less slavery but they had to because of financial buden.
@@bhavyjyotisharma3642 If someone had some skill like Video editing, photography, 3D animation, Story Telling Skill in his/her early 20s then probability to become slave of cooperative reduce. So called educater who charged high so misinformation regarding Topper list In prepare of UPSC a lakh of students waste their parents money 🤑💰💰💰 and his/her own most energetic time where he can something else
If what she says is what she abides by she wouldn't be coaching students to crack exams within a certain age. Try to do things at your pace, don't take advice from internet. Not every advice will suit every life.
Marrying at 25, Career at 27, Child before 30 and first house before 35 is not the what society expects from you but rather it is deadline. Everything should happen in time because of your body clock.
Most people buy their house after retirement by the money they saved stop speaking for other people also take a break why rush marriage I hate it matlab bande ko aaram b chahie job k liye pareshan job mil gaya to shadi naam ka umar qaid
True words ma’am . I am 30, advocate and working with ministry. But all i hear is marriage. Society is making me feel as if i am a failure and i have crossed tht age of marrying already. We should not let anyone decide for us Nothing above our peace of mind
Don't marry women more than 27 years old simple, its mans choice we have choice also let the women's live in peace after 40 lets see what happens, iam a doctor btw superspecialist
Got job at 21yrs. Own house at 25 yrs. Married at 30 yrs. But for my Child I am an aged Mom. Cannot concentrate on the family. People got early marriage is more happier than carrier setter
Finally a logical women, who will tell all thise females that when u reach 30 ur chances of being pregnent become slimmer and ur emotional stability decreases
Do not delay more than 27 in any case and it's important for the girl herself since you are not medically fit enough to produce baby after 30. Marriage maximum by 27 and enjoy your 2 years marriage life and plan baby.
@@HK-nd9feI m 32 married lady don't want to have kids . People see me as failure because I don't have kids.. but I see the people around me as biggest failures because they had kids before 30 😂😂
Who defines failure? Society is not the one helping u getting up every morning, everyone and everything about u will be forgotten in next generation after u die , don't stress and make u r 50 plus years exhausting with hospitalization and diseases
@@Hrudayagalavishaya see it's all your personal decision and it should be respected and at the same time who have kids should not be mocked as terrible as well. If you have chosen to not have kids it's all upto you and there are millions of people who don't even want to marry so not a big deal. The only thing I disagree with your over judgemental opinion about seeing women with kids as as terrible. Imagine your mom would have thought the same way about you having their kids so please be respectful
Consider society as ur closed ones....if they advise you to do certain things, think many times before denying it. They are a lifetime wise to suggest u. Finally if one has decided to go through and learn , then be open to life and kind to yourself
First rule of Happiness Dont care about whaat others think. Live your life do what you want. marry early or late, have kids or not. It's all up to you. BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOU. NOT SOME OTHERS 2ND COPY.
None of this is failure. Whether you hsve or do not have one or more of these components in life doesn’t define your success or failure. They start to matter when either you pay heed to the society’s opinions too much or you are brought up in an unhealthy environment where your family has programmed you into thinking these conventional ideas as definitionof success. When you stop paying heed to these conventional beliefs, you stop assessing succcess and failure at every step of life, instead you get more time to actively do the things you want to. At the end of the day there will be unfulfilled dreams but still you will be relatively happier if you set your own goals and benchmarks and not give the concept of succcess or failure too much importance. Instead be a kind person and try to do something productive. This Keeps you happy and helps others too even if in small ways, so be it. Live life everyday, coz life is dynamic, accept the good and bad days whole heartedly and enjoy the small incidents of happiness. When added together, they translate to bigger happiness. I don’t much like this concept of benchmarking success and failure of a person at every step.
People got early marriage and child are successful for me. Carreer and wealth can be built any time but child is imp. And society is always biased so ignoring is best solution.
Yahan 70 ke buddhe ko pata nahi hota hai hum duniya mein kar kya rahe or humne kiya kya aaj tak bus sabko gyaan dena hai , ki shaadi jaldi kar lo beta . Kyunki bacha paida hona chahiye. Areey bache or sex ke liye shaadi reh gayi hai bas .career set karo or kothe pe bitha do. Fir ameer ladkoan ki boli lagate hai or dahej ki boli lagti hai . Ek taraf maa apna kokh bechti hai or doisri taraf baap beti. Ho gayi shaadi . Heeramandi culture hai duniya ka .
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In today's time, having peace of mind is real success
Yeah damn true 👍
Society will don't let you have that, if you are unsuccessful
@@user-ee9sj7tx4qand if by any means, you become successful as per society's standards, then congratulations! you can't have peace of mind.
Jesus Loves you so Much More than you Ever Imagine.
Becos
HE is The Prince of Peace❤
Correct
What I learned till now (age 24) is Mental Health is more important than any other things.
So true.
No bro, if u give too much importance to how ur feeling it will weaken u
Very true, same here
True true
best wishes ... stay focused ... work hard
I'm unmarried, at 30, assistant professor and clinical psychologist.
Please tell steps to become clinical psychologist, I am studying psychology
Sir please tell us how you became an assistant professor and clinical psychologist please sir guide it will help a lot
You won in life ❤
Ladko ka chal jata hai ,25 ,27 me to ladko ke according wo bacche Hain. Dikkat to ladakiyo ke sath hai
@@animasingh9654 i am 32 , architect, getting married this year. And i am a girl
So true. Im married, have a child, have a career and own a house before 30! Still i lack something. Don't know what. When I was feeling on top of the world, my father died leaving me shattered. Life is so uncertain. Take it as it comes
You lack something after your father's demise or even before that?
@@Akash-xb7cd obviously after my dad's demise but even before that, though I was blessed with many things, I was complaining about small small things which could be better. I never had a work life balance. I was constantly running forgetting to notice small beautiful things in the way. After literally loosing a person i started valuing life more. Now I have restricted working hours, my income has reduced I can clearly see that but I'm more of alive person now.
@@Dr_poornima_G_TEEM_dental_care good to know that 😊More power to you ❤
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Madam the money is from your fathers property only! He left it for you otherwise how on earth would u earn ! U live on husband’s money or father’s .
At the age of 34 😂 no marriage 😢 no Career 😅 no child 😮 and ... But stable with emotions 😊 this is positive attitude
Exactly
You are of no use for society and for your family
No this is not a positive attitude .. you need a psychologist
@@RituRout-r4v are you psychologist? If u r not psychologist then how can u say this is not positive attitude
@@akhilvarma1840 he/she is not a thing to "use"..
Never take a lesson from a successful person
- A knowledgeable person
Why?
@@Sitejx because they are successful and now days people give wrong advice to everyone because they don't want people to be successful
Well said 😅
Bcos they only set wrong standards, they think they are always right.
If u r failing as an emotional person and very successful as profession still u r failure !
This is one the most iconic line I heard !
For me, i won't think anything as failure. When we are emotionally weak after certain time we know how to over come. Also there is no word called success. Because if we achieve something big after few months we will feel like what's next. So live the moment save something for your life and move on both in you success and failure
True..
Updating life!
You defined what is life😊👏
Exactly
That's what she meant dear. Society will judge you anyways. But, if you are emotionally strong, nothing will effect you. But emotionally weak people no matter how successful they are in all aspects of life will definitely don't feel enough.
I'm 25 now and in August will turn 26. Currently studying for gov. Job. Single and don't have any plans to get married, of course family members wants me to get married and forget about doing a job and on top of that i don't have father , it's really stressful and sometimes I get scared thinking about future. But still I don't want to give up and I'll do my best to achieve my goal. Hope for a bright future
Are you a SSC CGL aspirants ??
Actually i am a ssc cgl aspirants
Best of luck girl. What are you preparing for?
@@legitguy8881 oh , no I'm not
@@jiya1933 thanks, grade-1 teacher
All the best, may you do well✌🏻
What I learned from society is dnt care about society care for ourself then we will have peace of mind
Being single is the best and can have a peaceful mind
Society will always states u as a failure untill you prove your success to them
Even if u prove they will find remarks from ur success
That is society
I'm 34 and a lawyer. also volunteer for a women's NGO on weekends.
My goals are to establish my career, earn a lot, help those distressed women, take care of my parents, enjoy life, travel the world.. In that order.
Marriage is not in my to-do list.
Beautiful I hope u can help such women in india ❤️🙏
@@AGsharonKumari i will DM you
I hope u won't be cheating ur partner.
@@Saurabh_Utter-Pradesh nonsense
@@Saurabh_Utter-Pradesh why would you assume I'll cheat?
These advices are applicable for hard working but couldn't fulfill the dreams on time... Not for the ones who sit idle and never think about goals
Everyone’s first goal should be financial stability. Everything’s else comes after
Be yourself is Real Success ☯️
41 unmarried, life is so peaceful.
Later you get ❤
Happy for you 🎉
Emotion is the most important thing for the failure person.
It's the real and the only truth..
I was without any of these till 30 's and I choose to be happy myself , not a single human stands with me,believed me or supported me other than my mother ( pls note: I am a Lady from middle class)...now after 30 everything have happened magically...that's all about divine timing also along with hardwork...
Say bye to society norms.....make your own life ... But all the failures, pains, insecurities,hardships,loneliness, hard lessons , pressures taught me so many lessons, helped me grow higher spiritually and as a human being .....I am happy now ....I learned to live happily no matter what...when you came into that state everything will just falls in place....some will get it sooner..for others it will took time...but in our lives we are always in our timeline....just don't compare yourself with others...choose to be unique because God made you unique
Nice message
❤
Well Said 🙌🏼
Wish you the Best Dear :)
All these are milestones of life and need to be achieved at right time for our own peace of mind. Society is not wrong in this instance as they wish us well and are not our enemies.
Success is subjective..its is up to us..
This teacher say you to study at 30 prepare for exam like UPSC 😂😂😂😂😂
Meanwhile your main youth time gone
After 30 not cracking UPSC you will slave in private office 😂😂😂😂😂
Sahi baat hai saare slave hai
Sirf upsc ki jobs hi Raja wali hai
@@Aman13567
Defying all societal rules. Mental peace is more important. And yes, I am proud of what I have achieved in my life till date. 😊
Im 15 yo but still worried about the future...In this generation being a teenager is so complicated...there are literally so many distractions but trying to focus on studies and avoid distraction as much as possible..... remembering that time never goes backwards....😢😢
Im 25, fresh lawyer but also preparing for Govt jobs. Gone through lot of family problems and girlfriend problems. But now after some time i have restored my mindset and at peace now. I'll keep on practicing law and at the same time study for other jobs. Lets see what the future holds. Ill focus on what i want to do and keep on doing it gracefully baki sab bhagwan ke upar chor denge
Staying happy and healthy is the only success !
👍
I am doctor , 27 years , still not married but society respect me wherever i go , i dont care if i dont married , making no money but i am happy
❤❤❤
Thank you so much for your work, Doctor. I'm very sorry to see that this nation isn't paying you people what you deserve. I hope you continue to stay happy and have a positive outlook towards life ❤️
I'm 28 single woman ! Just raising bunch of animlas !
Nd you know I live in the society where girls around 25 already have kids !!
I'm the only woman who's livin'like this !! ❤
Stay strong society bullies people who don't follow them but do what makes u happy
@@Chinnu-d1n thank you so much yes im trying my best!🙂
@onelivingbeing090 Same here, people ask my parents when they'll marry me, luckily they are supportive and answer saying they'll know when time will arrive😊, till then im focusing on my career and investments, so life's good by God's grace...
@@srmy9339 yess even my parents tells me get married if you'll feel like you don't want to continue then get divorced 🙄 like only because of the society!!!
Lile when people asks me when are you getting married I reply with: as long as I have choise , I'm never getting married 😂
Your society have kids with mother ages 25 but I Iive in such a society where girls are given marriage between the ages 15-18/20.
Yes I am from West Bengal,where child marriage held the most.
Do you believe this😅but it's real.
These milestones are just boundaries a person sets for himself. But life is more beyond these boundaries. Live life up to your wishes.Society in itself is suffering.
There's No Deadline ✨️.
This teacher say you to study at 30 prepare for exam like UPSC 😂😂😂😂😂
Meanwhile your main youth time gone
After 30 not cracking UPSC you will slave in private office 😂😂😂😂😂
This kind of lady is shit,fake myth like system house marriage kids and all 🙅already over populated lol
Reality experience the world each and everything soon because life ends soon nowadays😂this is real life world
Mental and physical well-being above ANYTHING
Im 22,in my final year mbbs,,,i had my obstetrics postings going on rt now,,daily i see females aged 19,21,22 having theirs first,third babies.,,,im so thankful my parents supported my education
Bahut deep baat bole hai bade bade log par jaara sa bhi compassion and emotions nahi hota kae baar ...toh yeah unka failure hi h
The biggest mistake I ever did was suppressing myself even when I was better than the rest!
This is the exactly, the only and the biggest mistake of my life also......but now I have changed my mindset because we are humans and we are tend to make mistakes. As long as we are breathing, we can always start over or have new beginnings!!
When people are successful, people blindly listen what ever they tell.
Good character is the true success.
True
You can't be an all rounder.
You can't be perfect.
You can't have everything.
I am 27, got married at the age of 20,became mother at the age of 24, passed 3 government job exam, still not required because it's West Bengal. Still can't please the society. I am done with the society 😞 not gonna please any one.
You don't need to please anyone, you're talented, it's their habit to point out no matter how good we are, they always find the bad things, keep going and focus on what you find happiness in❤️
Mamta Banerjee ko 32 seats aapne hi di h ..... Govt job ki tayaari band kardo ....kyonki koi kuch nhi kar rha h h..
@@Study-nh8ej we belong to the 12 seats
@@tushitasarkar1132all educated person in our West Bengal should never belong to those 29 seats😢
Yeh it's a hard truth .. something comes after the other 😀
These motivations are good to hear
Ultimately Tanu Jain madam, the tragedy is UPSC CSE officer has to work under a person who doesn’t even need education qualification to enter into politics
FACTS
Self satisfaction is the key. We may die anytime. These career influencers have pros and cons to pple .
If we only know the aim of human life, we wouldn't run after money, career, etc. Of course we should do our duty, but not think career is only our life.
After a certain age, we realise, what have we achieved by working so hard? That is what many people thought.
These motivations are good to hear. Now once hear from real successful people. And experienced old people. They will tell you the reality.
Im 35..did multiple jobs, engagement got failed, no house.. Just doing small comission based jobs though I am double post graduate with distinction. But right now I realised how society treats with money and without money
Don't feel sad brother u don't know how lucky u are! U are actually leading many people's dream life..
Life is difficult bro... I hope you find your purpose for life
Who cares about society....If All that happens in society are good and people are Saint, we can respect them...if not what is the need of importance to the standards set by so called Society.
Our parents too face question from society if we do not achieve these standards
@@siddharthr4071 exactly, neighbors also thinks they can disrespect us if we couldn't achieve anything.. And relatives mental trchr is another level
Success is relative. There is only one definition of success and it lies in you.
Don't let others to define your success for you.
This doesnt imply to doctors..😂😂😂... no marriage , no home.. only books and competitive exams.. and the award for it is only infinite stress😅😅..
True 🥰😂😂😂🤣
Exactly 😢
For PhD scholars too 😅
True 😅
My inspiration ❤
Lecturing is so easy... Living make your suffer... You know this better.. philosophy is for others not for self..
Everyone's situation, everyone's destination is different.
Paisa hona chahiye wo bhale 40 ke umra ke bad bhi aae wahi se izzat aa jati hai.....this is what reality of this society....aap kitne saal garib rahe aam life jiye isse farq nahi padega fark padega jab ki aap garib hi mar jae ...so effort marte rahe success bhale 40 me hi kyu na aae ....paisa aate hi sab set
True, it's hidden pain throughout life.
Everyone should become a free spirit both boys and girls , why we have to conform these illogical societal rules?
They advise us to study at 30 for Exam like UPSC and other entrance exam 😂😂😂😂
So she gets money 🤑🤑🤑🤑💰💰💰🤑🤑🤑
After 30 fanicial pressure make you slave of cooperative
@@Aman13567Pehli Baat Vo corporate hota h. Doosri Baat agar 22-24 pe bhi karana shuru karo to sab generally corproate se hi start karte h unless they have anything else of their going on like a business or something.
@@bhavyjyotisharma3642 Total no. Of aspirants in entrance exam or government exam V/S total no. Of aspirants/students have best college or government Job.
Percentage you can calculate by yourself
UPSC or other entrance University charge us heavy amount in the hope of getting a job/seat in IIT or other entrance college.
But reality a few were selected
Rest, retry,retry, retry and soon on .
Someone becomes 30 , and become slave of cooperative where they got less slavery but they had to because of financial buden.
@@bhavyjyotisharma3642 If someone had some skill like Video editing, photography, 3D animation, Story Telling Skill in his/her early 20s then probability to become slave of cooperative reduce.
So called educater who charged high so misinformation regarding Topper list
In prepare of UPSC a lakh of students waste their parents money 🤑💰💰💰 and his/her own most energetic time where he can something else
I don't have anything in this list. I am working at my own pace.
This is for those girls who have real guts to achieve something,, but not meant for them who wasted their life
Inspirational speech by Tanu Madam !!!
When we face fail we respect successful and don't disrespect unsuccessful.
I'm 29 unmarried still preparing 😊
Good luck to ur future
😮😮waooo gud gud
Power of thought matters the most .. with this u get everything
This has a valid logic, rest anyone can do whatever they want.
If what she says is what she abides by she wouldn't be coaching students to crack exams within a certain age. Try to do things at your pace, don't take advice from internet. Not every advice will suit every life.
??
Right
Right
Right .don't take advise from internet
If you are taking a advice , Take advise wisely
Exactly 💯
What society sets sounds more sensible
At age 27 no house on my own no secured job no marriage just watching shorts RUclips 😂 and thinking am not failure 😂
In our society firstly carrier set at 25 , marriage at 27 😅
Marrying at 25, Career at 27, Child before 30 and first house before 35 is not the what society expects from you but rather it is deadline. Everything should happen in time because of your body clock.
That's the statement I was looking for.
A sensible comment
Life is much more precious than body
Most people buy their house after retirement by the money they saved stop speaking for other people also take a break why rush marriage I hate it matlab bande ko aaram b chahie job k liye pareshan job mil gaya to shadi naam ka umar qaid
@@swapnilkumar8861Ur body is much more precious without health we won't be happy
True words ma’am . I am 30, advocate and working with ministry. But all i hear is marriage. Society is making me feel as if i am a failure and i have crossed tht age of marrying already.
We should not let anyone decide for us
Nothing above our peace of mind
Just don't marry simple maaaaammmmm
@@comedyalbums7202 if only it was as simple as writing this comment. Also, marriage is not the problem but peeple constantly telling you about it is .
Maturity is realising what she said is actually true
Great thing can be achieved when you go beyond Normal..
My marriage and house warming function together at 34. Child at 35😊
And career?
@@Sbhatt1305why do u care
@@nsbztin why are you bothered?
The more important question is, 'are you a woman?'
@@Sbhatt1305 May b hi was settled at < 33.
With Physical and mental fitness
You can do anything and achieve anything. Take care of that both at all cost
The words I really need to hear now.... thank you mam ❤
Mental Peace is important then anything
Stay single and be happy in life. Married life is so difficult for both men and women these days.
By saying this your trying to set something of your own.. it is just life live to fullest 😊
I think your mindset will change when you will be 70🙂
Don't marry women more than 27 years old simple, its mans choice we have choice also let the women's live in peace after 40 lets see what happens, iam a doctor btw superspecialist
Peace of mind is real success in life 🧬
Wait how is that possible carrier set at 27 but marriage at 25!!
😂😂😂
It's only applicable for those woman who has supportive husband...
It's basically what you take in your mind...
Got job at 21yrs. Own house at 25 yrs. Married at 30 yrs. But for my Child I am an aged Mom. Cannot concentrate on the family. People got early marriage is more happier than carrier setter
What job you got at the age of 21?
@@alimnazehranaqvi_offcourse it sector
Finally a logical women, who will tell all thise females that when u reach 30 ur chances of being pregnent become slimmer and ur emotional stability decreases
Yep❤😊 am 26 from India now,working in Singapore ❤ proud to be a nurse
I am 24 and still studying lol only if I can find a match and have kids in 1 year I'll be settled 😂😂😂😂😂
You are only 24 these days people are getting married in 30 lol
Do not delay more than 27 in any case and it's important for the girl herself since you are not medically fit enough to produce baby after 30. Marriage maximum by 27 and enjoy your 2 years marriage life and plan baby.
@@HK-nd9feI m 32 married lady don't want to have kids . People see me as failure because I don't have kids.. but I see the people around me as biggest failures because they had kids before 30 😂😂
Who defines failure? Society is not the one helping u getting up every morning, everyone and everything about u will be forgotten in next generation after u die , don't stress and make u r 50 plus years exhausting with hospitalization and diseases
@@Hrudayagalavishaya see it's all your personal decision and it should be respected and at the same time who have kids should not be mocked as terrible as well. If you have chosen to not have kids it's all upto you and there are millions of people who don't even want to marry so not a big deal. The only thing I disagree with your over judgemental opinion about seeing women with kids as as terrible. Imagine your mom would have thought the same way about you having their kids so please be respectful
Successful mind thank u ma'am ❤
Mere pass 25 se phele hi marrige,child,career sab ho gya but first house abi ni hai
Jitna asani se bola hai utna asani se ye sab hota nhi hai sabko life me 😢😢
Consider society as ur closed ones....if they advise you to do certain things, think many times before denying it. They are a lifetime wise to suggest u. Finally if one has decided to go through and learn , then be open to life and kind to yourself
Failure was greatest word in these world
Because, I am also failure now😊😊😊
First rule of Happiness
Dont care about whaat others think. Live your life do what you want. marry early or late, have kids or not. It's all up to you.
BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOU. NOT SOME OTHERS 2ND COPY.
Me watching at the age of 30 having 9 property with networth of Rs 5cr
Howww😮
9 property ka sirf 5cr k kaise bhai ....ajkal ek chota property hi 5cr ka hai
@@rounakdas8469 bhai meri sab maximum investment choti property me hai sabki range 35 to 60 lakhs ki hai
None of this is failure. Whether you hsve or do not have one or more of these components in life doesn’t define your success or failure. They start to matter when either you pay heed to the society’s opinions too much or you are brought up in an unhealthy environment where your family has programmed you into thinking these conventional ideas as definitionof success. When you stop paying heed to these conventional beliefs, you stop assessing succcess and failure at every step of life, instead you get more time to actively do the things you want to. At the end of the day there will be unfulfilled dreams but still you will be relatively happier if you set your own goals and benchmarks and not give the concept of succcess or failure too much importance. Instead be a kind person and try to do something productive. This Keeps you happy and helps others too even if in small ways, so be it. Live life everyday, coz life is dynamic, accept the good and bad days whole heartedly and enjoy the small incidents of happiness. When added together, they translate to bigger happiness. I don’t much like this concept of benchmarking success and failure of a person at every step.
I year for 35 no own house, career is not set upped bcz of marriage b4 24... Child at 27..... by society am failure or success...I don't know
Everyone is different, so just chill and one should mind their own life
Married at 18,first child at 22,carrier set at 26, second child at 27, now going to built my own house at 30😅
Bhut jaldi ho aap to😂😂
@@samranaaz8988 yes,now I am attending my friends wedding with both of my kids😄
@@bindiyarathore3266how u settled ur career
Same here but I am at my first baby stage can you please suggest me something
kuch jada hi jldi me thi aap toh 💀
Tanu jain ma'm + UPSC = ❤
First set career then everything wat u want , this is the ryt way , otherwise u will suffer...
If i get to break any of the so called the rules that is setted by society.
That will be my biggest success
Every life is unique and no life is successful and no life is failure we are all guests to this world and will leave this place once our time is over.
I feel for the women who think having a baby after 30 is easy
No
Girls get motivated by such speakers and end with breaking a heart of a loving guy and at last marry a old guy
😂😂😂😂 so true 🎉🎉🎉
Mainly women's should be independent
Failing emotionally is the worst feeling
People got early marriage and child are successful for me. Carreer and wealth can be built any time but child is imp. And society is always biased so ignoring is best solution.
Thank you all for sharing your thoughts... Im thankful to know that
Yahan 70 ke buddhe ko pata nahi hota hai hum duniya mein kar kya rahe or humne kiya kya aaj tak bus sabko gyaan dena hai , ki shaadi jaldi kar lo beta . Kyunki bacha paida hona chahiye. Areey bache or sex ke liye shaadi reh gayi hai bas .career set karo or kothe pe bitha do. Fir ameer ladkoan ki boli lagate hai or dahej ki boli lagti hai . Ek taraf maa apna kokh bechti hai or doisri taraf baap beti. Ho gayi shaadi . Heeramandi culture hai duniya ka .
True 💯