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  • Опубликовано: 18 дек 2024

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  • @karessaochoa
    @karessaochoa 8 дней назад +22

    I have always appreciated how you film the unfiltered parts of life. The reminders of, “It’s okay to feel all the feelings of mom life, the pressures.” Lots of love to you mama. ♥️

    • @StylesHavens
      @StylesHavens 7 дней назад

      ruclips.net/user/shortsBCQ_ste4OFo?si=vptnDmt8nK1ZfpX4

  • @heidim1377
    @heidim1377 8 дней назад +13

    Doja has such human tendencies...She is such a beautiful, inquisitive girl!

  • @michelea8129
    @michelea8129 8 дней назад +4

    Same! It's waaaaay toooo much! Thank you for the self care reminder. "Sometimes managing stress is deleting tasks" 🎉 The mental load of this time is out of control. Also, no tree this year.... focusing on doing less and taking care of me more.

  • @shell7142
    @shell7142 8 дней назад +8

    You are not a mess Kasey ❤ I was still excited to see this video!! We know you are a working mom, you have duties and family. We understand!

  • @rowceo
    @rowceo 8 дней назад +11

    Realest RUclipsr in the game 🖤

  • @nicolebrianas9032
    @nicolebrianas9032 8 дней назад +3

    I truly am so grateful for you. The past week or so I have been feeling so overwhelmed and stressed about this season (Christmas mainly) that I've let it affect my everyday life. This time can be so stressful but at times so beautiful too. I needed to hear someone else say these things to help me feel grounded during this. So, thank you! ❤

  • @andrewreyna5081
    @andrewreyna5081 8 дней назад +9

    I am a desert baby like you. I spent some years in Tucson and then in the Mojave desert of Los Angeles County. I loved going for hikes in the desert. I am now disabled from long covid. I am on 24 hour oxygen and can;t walk very far without a walker because my heart rate gets to high. I almost started crying when I saw yall hiking. Seriously everyone, count your blessings. Sometimes we get so caught up in what we don't have, or haven't done we forget to remember what we do have and what we have accomplished. I can't do all the things I could do before but I am alive and none of my family got long term covid despite having caught covid. I am grateful for them and that they all recovered. Kasey I watch you with your beautiful family and the healthy relationships you have nourished with them. The time spent with your daughter at Joes crab shack was better spent that way than you in your living room decorating a tree. I don't have mine up yet either, lol.

  • @heidim1377
    @heidim1377 8 дней назад +6

    Loving your honesty on the stress of the holidays. I had a dream last night I was bitten by a shark and when I looked it up, it is anxiety related

  • @tamaradaniel9294
    @tamaradaniel9294 8 дней назад +2

    You are literally like one of my favorite RUclipsrs of all time. I have been following you for 10+ years now. Love the vibes in general. Love how you say that everything doesn’t have to be perfect!! thank you for saying that. A lot of people forget that not everything is going to be perfection every time. It’s OK to make mistakes and it’s OK to be in chaos. ❤️

  • @romana0162
    @romana0162 8 дней назад +3

    That’s so true. Holiday stress is real.
    Love your nails and family time! Doja cat is so cute looking at the computer screen 👋🏼

  • @alyssiakirkhart
    @alyssiakirkhart 7 дней назад +1

    First, dear heart, you are not a failure. You are the realest, most vulnerably beautiful RUclipsr imo and that’s why I’ve followed you the longest.The shopping, the planning, the decorating on top of having a full time job and a part-time creative entrepreneurship, at least for me, is super stressful. I beat myself up for not getting everything I want to accomplish actually accomplished, when, really, I feel like this is the time of year we need to be slowing down and reflecting. Like, if there’s any time of year to give ourselves a whole lotta grace, it’s now. Love the vlog, love the nails. You’re doing great, Kasey. Hugs. 🤗

  • @CosmicHoneyMotherShip
    @CosmicHoneyMotherShip 8 дней назад +4

    7:48 🥲needed this

  • @PrettyTime1
    @PrettyTime1 2 дня назад

    This is where I come when I need a calm vibe - thank you ☺️

  • @jenn_castillo76
    @jenn_castillo76 8 дней назад +2

    Pretty nails and the hike looked so nice, such beautiful scenery. Fellow Aquarius here we put so much pressure on ourselves & get overwhelmed.😅

  • @rosarioduenas3126
    @rosarioduenas3126 7 дней назад

    Such great advice! I agree, let’s slow down. The magic of Christmas can still exist without perfection. ♥️✨🎄

  • @carmenx5463
    @carmenx5463 8 дней назад +4

    You always have good advice for us, thank you Kasey I appreciate you so much ❤

  • @aundrea6593
    @aundrea6593 8 дней назад

    I feel exactly how you feel with the holiday stress. Also giving myself grace and trying to release the pressure.

  • @ajiahmiller8824
    @ajiahmiller8824 8 дней назад

    Needs to hear this. I feel I’m not kind to myself at all. Thank you for being here and on here you inspire and make me feel a lot better about a lot of things and remind me it’s ok to put myself first. Love you girl 🫶🏽🩵✨

  • @jessica.johnson1
    @jessica.johnson1 8 дней назад +3

    You’re not the only one. I don’t love the holidays. Not for a specific reason, I just think it has gotten out of control!

  • @breemacc8452
    @breemacc8452 7 дней назад

    Think most of us are in the same boat with you! Take your time. I feel it's an honor for us to even see any Vlogmas because it's such a hectic time of year for All! Please take your time...and thank U for all you do for us viewers! ❤ your channel😊

  • @martarivera2087
    @martarivera2087 8 дней назад +1

    Doja looks so cute looking at the screen 😊

  • @clowexx
    @clowexx 8 дней назад

    I love your nails! I look forward to your vlogs and loved your message about holiday stress.

  • @c.rodzzz
    @c.rodzzz 8 дней назад

    Definitely not a mess just a woman doing her best 🥰 you and your family come first just know how much we love to see your videos, girl 😜

  • @rachelx230484x
    @rachelx230484x 7 дней назад

    Overwhelmed! Hell yes!! Christmas is great but ALOT! Love it but scared for it. Loved this video Kasey ❤ mental health 1st ❤
    Hope u got a good nights sleep 🤞

  • @katucker4251
    @katucker4251 8 дней назад

    I love your vlogs, thank you for sharing your life with all of us!!! The holiday stress is very overwhelming (especially this year) although I understand gifts are not important it is too my little ones and the thought of not being able to surprise them this year has been so stressful and thank you for making me feel less alone. Happy Holidays❤

  • @lafourcade87
    @lafourcade87 8 дней назад

    You’re not the only one. I haven’t gotten a tree yet. I haven’t even started shopping for anyone. I’ve been overwhelmed as well. I hope you have a lovely day ❤

  • @valerieg6800
    @valerieg6800 8 дней назад

    Just the vlog I need !! I have my husband and son and daughters birthday at the end of December. It's always an overwhelming time of the year but we make the best of it and it doesn't gave to be perfect!!😊

  • @kellzzz1212
    @kellzzz1212 8 дней назад

    Girl, my tree isnt up yet either! 🤷‍♀️ life be life’n but thank you for reminding us that its the magic of the season that matters and our family connections and taking the small needed breaks. Sending you all love! Oh and Dolja is sooooooo freakn cuuuuuuute!!! ❤❤❤

  • @AS-rk5zz
    @AS-rk5zz 8 дней назад

    I’ve had seasonal depression and tried to take my life on too many occasions its like I’ve landed on another planet then i pop out in normal mode so seasonal depression is so real, thanks for your uploads don’t worry about missing just means we look forward to to seeing it when it does turn up xx

    • @shell7142
      @shell7142 8 дней назад +1

      I’m so sorry! I deal with it too on and off, but please know you are worth so much ❤ evilness wants us to believe we aren’t worth a thing, our stuff around us is too much for us to handle, what we’ve done will always haunt us, but it’s not true! It’s not true at all! They are all just lies. There is somebody who cares about you. Maybe more… I know I do ❤ I may be an internet stranger but I want you to know I care about you. I do also want to share that somebody more important cares about you, one Who knew you by name before you were even a thought and knitted you in your mothers womb, Jesus has peace that surpasses all understanding. But I just wanted to share you are worth so much more than whatever lies are trying to be told to you in the hard times, or whatever feelings you feel. I know when I’ve struggled depression one thing that really helped me was journaling nightly what I’m grateful for, even if it was a bad day…. I still had a roof over my head, I still ate etc. I love you friend❤ I hope you feel better this season

    • @AS-rk5zz
      @AS-rk5zz 7 дней назад +1

      @ thank you for your kind words im doing a lot better this year trying to stay busy and surrounded by people i love rather than closing down xx

  •  8 дней назад

    Thank you for the reminders, Kasey! I’m a single mama of four, working forty hours a week from home, in school for my BS in Cybersecurity. I have a fiancé who lives 45 minutes from me and he’s an HR Manager, so his work and his little farm keep him from me a lot… I’m relearning love and relationships after my last one left me with PTSD. I have a 16, 13, 11, and 9 year old, and tonight we all worked together with some Christmas music on… no one was fighting, and it was so nice. I glowed in that little moment with my (not so) babies.
    I’ve felt the push to do some kind of social media, especially watching your videos and having seen you grow over the years, but I know what that entails after watching a lot of people do it for years. I’m still healing from a lot of trauma and not sure I wanna put myself out there yet.
    Anyway. Thank you for your efforts! I love watching your videos. I have for many, many years. I feel like I’ve grown into adulthood right alongside you. You inspire and motivate me, and I’m grateful for you. ❤

  • @gabsgabbie
    @gabsgabbie 8 дней назад

    You are not the only when it comes to "being late" with Christmas decorations and stuff.
    Last time I put my Christmas tree up, I had it in my living room for almost 10 months 😅.
    Then I decided to skip last year because we were going to spend the holidays with my in-laws in Sierra Vista.
    I think I'm gonna work on that this week with my little one, hopefully it'sva fun activity for her.
    Anyway, you are doing great, just enjoy the season and prioritize your mental health,, everything else will fall into place. 🌷

  • @LalitasCreations
    @LalitasCreations 8 дней назад

    I don’t have a tree, I just decorated a circle reef type thing and put some candles out :) We have super low expectations, just happy to spend time with family. I used to get sad if I expected more from Christmas so now my moto is I just want some good food and some family time and there’s no pressure for anything extra. So my 1 Xmas decoration feels like icing on the cake rather than the lack luster tiny thing it really is lol. 😊❤

  • @sarahsmile2883
    @sarahsmile2883 8 дней назад

    Phoenix is in a horrible drought , we’ve got essentially no rain for almost a year , plant life all around is barely hanging on- even the Sahuaros are falling over it’s depressing af and I want to leave this state. The desert is killing my soul.

  • @courtneymarie8728
    @courtneymarie8728 7 дней назад

    I’m sooooooo behind 😂😂😂 ❤❤❤

  • @nancyksanghavi9281
    @nancyksanghavi9281 8 дней назад +1

    Did I just see lataffa perfume in your room?? I would be happy if you give the review of it!! Was thinking to buy one 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

  • @outlawsoul7915
    @outlawsoul7915 8 дней назад

    Same, girl!🤯😫👍

  • @adrianabeltran1427
    @adrianabeltran1427 5 дней назад

    Your nails are beautiful 😍 ❤

  • @jessicabowen4818
    @jessicabowen4818 8 дней назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @makk1433
    @makk1433 8 дней назад

    Hey friend, thank you for always being real. I really appreciated your PMDD video and would like to start tracking my cycle and being more aware of the changes of each phase, because I definitely feel the shifts and think I'm losing my mind. Is there an app/book you'd recommend?

  • @retsukittennyt
    @retsukittennyt 8 дней назад

  • @LucianaRodriguez-j1z
    @LucianaRodriguez-j1z 5 дней назад

    very interesting content, thank you

  • @elizabethr2303
    @elizabethr2303 8 дней назад

    Take is easy❤❤ yes my vlogmas vidoe not all great like others vlogger doing there thing

  • @romana0162
    @romana0162 8 дней назад +1

    Hi Mariah!

  • @marianicolel
    @marianicolel 8 дней назад +1

    Hi girlie❤

  • @Mikkipace
    @Mikkipace 8 дней назад +1

    When you started talking about Christmas being "The most stressful time of the year" part....everything you said I kept going. "Yup.....YUP.." like you can hear me. Girl Ibe been saying this for weeks now. ITS STRESSFUL and annoying. And might we say. EXSPENSIVE??? :(

    • @shell7142
      @shell7142 8 дней назад

      Expensive is right…. You know what? I stopped giving gifts out of “ I have too” …. It didn’t make sense when I gave a gift card to somebody and they gave me a different gift card back. HOW is that giving from the heart? What was even the point? My sibling and I agreed no more presents, and for my other family members I give what I know they need. If they don’t need a thing something they would really enjoy even if it’s a home made dessert because Christmas gifting was about giving from the heart and I truly hate how people have made this season about what we HAVE to do… instead of from the heart ❤ I hope you can rest and find some peace through this season because it is a beautiful season once we breathe and let go of the stress

  • @natlynn312
    @natlynn312 8 дней назад

    Girl my tree is not up either, iykyk 😅

  • @amygommel3725
    @amygommel3725 8 дней назад +1

    Hey

  • @vampyrevixxen
    @vampyrevixxen 8 дней назад

    Nah, you just had a blog-miss

  • @BeautyByBlancanieves
    @BeautyByBlancanieves 8 дней назад

    Kasey years ago you shared this video:
    ruclips.net/video/OOt992Z5qbU/видео.htmlsi=5wfpAg_RALRoa9n_
    and it shuck with me. You said this at the end “just take your time, take your time, take your time” I’ll never forget it. It HELPED me. Follow what you said, just take your time love. Many blessings.❤

    • @BeautyByBlancanieves
      @BeautyByBlancanieves 8 дней назад

      This was 3 years ago. Insane right?! You’re
      doing amazing.

  • @siskybusin3ss
    @siskybusin3ss 8 дней назад

  • @LucianaRodriguez-j1z
    @LucianaRodriguez-j1z 5 дней назад

    very interesting content, thank you