Check bhi na rakhain aur kaha gia hay k terbiyat ka sawal hum parents say ho ga especially mothers say to phir jesay sahi track pe rakhain aur social media ko use krna seekhain??? Ya bus dua krain aur woh khud seekh jain gay??? How?? Please guide!!
Tabiyt hoti Hy maa k payt sy lay k bachy k balig honey tak bad main AP ki tarbiyt hi show hoti Hy pehly 12 sal main bacha Jo seakh gya Zindagi ki her stage main show ho ga k bachy ki tarbiyt ki gai the k palla gya tha bus
I am living with a person who has never been checked by his mother and I know how it is! So I disagree with this notion that a child's privacy can't be breached.
@@areebqureshi5780some of us are severely abused by this debilitating love will disagree with you. I am a 34 year old mother of 2 kids. Still can't make even simple decisions on my own.. my intellect has proven time and time again that I'm right but I don't have enough conviction to act on them unless someone validates my decisions.. i.e. a man or my mother herself 😬
At first she said "agar unko mobile dia hai to uski restrictions bhi hain and i ask then yeh konsa link aya hai"... Then she switched to " main Uk Main rehti hu yahan ka mahol" then she switched to "main to bs arabic check krti hu" 😂😂😂 typical Desi obsessed mom
he is right but its hard for women especially mothers to admit their wrong-doings. people start believing they can control everything when they become parents.if pakistani parenting was good , we wouldn't be deteriorating in our social, economical and political lives. we have worst practices of parenting and raising children, but people find it hard to admit that they are wrong.
Why women feel hard to accept their wrong doings? Are women are not human? Or they thinks that they are queens who doesn't have any sense of accountability?
Sometimes we become judgemental to highlight an issue and the same thing happened here in this case . Nobody can make any judgment on a single word ‘check’.
Actually point is this that mother's Duas and her daily guideness to her children about Islam is to be done, alternates to create their interests should be obliged to kids to avoid media and at the same time also not to breach any other privacy,,
Behan nay start kahin say liya sahil sahab ko bolnay hi nahi dia may theek hon kahsn may check rskhti hon kay may so called parent hon baad may aww i dont even had there password wap good desi baji
She’s not like that I know her personally . So sorry for her because of being judged negatively. She’s the best mother and I don’t agree with Sahil Sir because she’s my mom.
Who is reading Quran with tafseer that person knew this Allah said to us nothing is more prior Then Allah and his Rasool nor our family our duty is just to show our kids whT we misguided in their age. or hidayat sirf Allah k pass hy
In foriegn countries it is difficult to make childs check and balance even if the parents say something harsh they they call police and especially in case of females....so Desi mothers are good and they do care a lot of child --of course these are their property and what in foreign country the parents when get older they cannot put them in the same house ......
To save a child from wrong doings, we don't need to say harsh things, beat them up, or punishing them, but instead we should have given terbiah to them right after their birth, as a baby learns alot even in when he/she is very little, and tell them about Allah more and more every now and then, and there should be islamic environment in our homes and there should be Islamic tafseer, Quranic recitation being played most of the time at our homes. So if we have developed love and fear of Allah from thier childhood, then definitely, they will automatically abstain from bad doings in their adulthood, even when there is no one watching them, just out of love and fear of their creator.
@@halimakhatoon2254 this is why the development of love and fear of Allah is very important, so that they may refrain from bad deeds even when they are alone.
To save a child from wrong doings, we don't need to say harsh things, beat them up, or punishing them, but instead we should have given terbiah to them right after their birth, as a baby learns alot even in when he/she is very little, and tell them about Allah more and more every now and then, and there should be islamic environment in our homes and there should be Islamic tafseer, Quranic recitation being played most of the time at our homes. So if we have developed love and fear of Allah from thier childhood, then definitely, they will automatically abstain from bad doings in their adulthood, even when there is no one watching them, just out of love and fear of their creator.
Total misguided person. Allah has put responsibility on parents to raise kids well and make them good Muslims… which he thinks is called obsession… 13 plus kid isn’t grown up … it’s the transition phase and gradual independence to them should be given but not like headless horsemen who is prone to make wrong decisions.
Please sister just teach them the islamic knowledge by doing conversation & educate them what are the limits in Islam .your children never distract by any thing wrong
Pakistan main to shade k baad or ziada bachy bn jaty hain...bady to hoty he nhe...phir biwi k leye azaab....aisy mrdon ka kia krain...??or han aik or ajeeb logic hy yahan pakistan main k jee mard bhe aik bacha he hy biwi ko chaheye k usko bachon ke trha treat kry...shabaaash kia hy yh?? Mtlb biwi ka or koi kaam nhe hy?
I agree with you 💯
Sir ap ne moh ki bat chen li
"After marriage "
😂
Shadi k badh b hamarey parents bara nai honey daitey. Mostly the parents are decision makers
Question kia he? She wants appreciation for her job?
True 100%
Brave wise person
Pakistani john wick mashahallah
Typical desi mom... never wrong.... think they are god
Wonderful topic
Amazing how the caller switched her story from "keeping the check" to "don't even have the password."
🤔
Hahaha true
Check bhi na rakhain aur kaha gia hay k terbiyat ka sawal hum parents say ho ga especially mothers say to phir jesay sahi track pe rakhain aur social media ko use krna seekhain???
Ya bus dua krain aur woh khud seekh jain gay??? How??
Please guide!!
Tabiyt hoti Hy maa k payt sy lay k bachy k balig honey tak bad main AP ki tarbiyt hi show hoti Hy pehly 12 sal main bacha Jo seakh gya Zindagi ki her stage main show ho ga k bachy ki tarbiyt ki gai the k palla gya tha bus
I am living with a person who has never been checked by his mother and I know how it is! So I disagree with this notion that a child's privacy can't be breached.
Mera beta 14 years old hy meny uspy koi restriction nahi lagai us ko btadia k right or wrong ko select ap ny khud krna hy
Nice
She is so defensive she’s not even let him talk 🫤
I feel bad for her kids xD
Yes because he presents her as a strict, rude, selfish and Obsessed Pakistani mom. It’s her right to defend herself.
@@areebqureshi5780some of us are severely abused by this debilitating love will disagree with you. I am a 34 year old mother of 2 kids. Still can't make even simple decisions on my own.. my intellect has proven time and time again that I'm right but I don't have enough conviction to act on them unless someone validates my decisions.. i.e. a man or my mother herself 😬
this was kinda amusing to watch 😂
Haha embarrassing too😂
At first she said "agar unko mobile dia hai to uski restrictions bhi hain and i ask then yeh konsa link aya hai"... Then she switched to " main Uk Main rehti hu yahan ka mahol" then she switched to "main to bs arabic check krti hu" 😂😂😂 typical Desi obsessed mom
he is right but its hard for women especially mothers to admit their wrong-doings. people start believing they can control everything when they become parents.if pakistani parenting was good , we wouldn't be deteriorating in our social, economical and political lives. we have worst practices of parenting and raising children, but people find it hard to admit that they are wrong.
Why women feel hard to accept their wrong doings?
Are women are not human?
Or they thinks that they are queens who doesn't have any sense of accountability?
Which country parenting is good?
Very true Sir g u r great 👍
Sometimes we become judgemental to highlight an issue and the same thing happened here in this case . Nobody can make any judgment on a single word ‘check’.
Why she not let him talk
Sir, you have not addressed woman's psychology why this is happening ......
Ammi changed her story afterwards 😂😂😂
Actually point is this that mother's Duas and her daily guideness to her children about Islam is to be done, alternates to create their interests should be obliged to kids to avoid media and at the same time also not to breach any other privacy,,
Bilkul fazool obsession hy mothers ko.
بسم الله
Then, thek ha mob na check kry privacy breach kr k... But need to put the children on d right path jitna mumkin ho saky
bachon ki privacy breach kerna aesay hay jesay a mother trying to help her child in the exam room. Both are equally unallowed.
G bilkul, Apky susral walu ne ap py pressure dala iska asar, Apky bachy PA par gaya 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
💯💯
Pls let him talk
Abuzar here
Behan nay start kahin say liya sahil sahab ko bolnay hi nahi dia may theek hon kahsn may check rskhti hon kay may so called parent hon baad may aww i dont even had there password wap good desi baji
It’s because of insecurity
She’s not like that I know her personally . So sorry for her because of being judged negatively. She’s the best mother and I don’t agree with Sahil Sir because she’s my mom.
He told in the end it's their teacher job to develop their interest
And msg was for other mother's as it's very common in Pakistan
But he makes her an example which is not true.
@@areebqureshi5780 chill Almost Everyone Understood Both Person Views
So Just Chill
Coz u must b brainwashed kid!
,,"Because she's my mother" 😂😂😂😂 good point 👍👍,
😊😊
Depression genes mae hota hai
Who is reading Quran with tafseer that person knew this Allah said to us nothing is more prior Then Allah and his Rasool nor our family our duty is just to show our kids whT we misguided in their age.
or hidayat sirf Allah k pass hy
In foriegn countries it is difficult to make childs check and balance even if the parents say something harsh they they call police and especially in case of females....so Desi mothers are good and they do care a lot of child --of course these are their property and what in foreign country the parents when get older they cannot put them in the same house ......
theek keh raha hai tu khush reh shehzaday sahil bhai toh yahan channay bechnay aye huwe hain
Children are very smart these days specially those living abroad. Do you think children don’t know how to sneak? They can easily fool desi parents.
To save a child from wrong doings, we don't need to say harsh things, beat them up, or punishing them, but instead we should have given terbiah to them right after their birth, as a baby learns alot even in when he/she is very little, and tell them about Allah more and more every now and then, and there should be islamic environment in our homes and there should be Islamic tafseer, Quranic recitation being played most of the time at our homes.
So if we have developed love and fear of Allah from thier childhood, then definitely, they will automatically abstain from bad doings in their adulthood, even when there is no one watching them, just out of love and fear of their creator.
@@halimakhatoon2254 this is why the development of love and fear of Allah is very important, so that they may refrain from bad deeds even when they are alone.
یعنی آپ کیا چاہتے ہیں بچوں کو کھلا چھوڑ دیں ؟ اُن کو روک ٹوک نہ کریں ، کسی برائی کی طرف جارہے ہوں تو منع نہ کرنا ۔ سوری مجھے آپ سے اتفاق نہیں ۔
you have to teach them till the age of 14 years. After that age treat them like you want to be treated.
To save a child from wrong doings, we don't need to say harsh things, beat them up, or punishing them, but instead we should have given terbiah to them right after their birth, as a baby learns alot even in when he/she is very little, and tell them about Allah more and more every now and then, and there should be islamic environment in our homes and there should be Islamic tafseer, Quranic recitation being played most of the time at our homes.
So if we have developed love and fear of Allah from thier childhood, then definitely, they will automatically abstain from bad doings in their adulthood, even when there is no one watching them, just out of love and fear of their creator.
Bachon ko maa sy nahi drana Allah sy drana( mohabat) dalen banda bn k rey ga
acha check na kre phone ta k dua zahra jese cases peda hon...
Wo ghar k mahol sy dua zahra bany phone sy ni
Tariq jameel's son who died accidentally was depressed since birth
Engineer sahb kuwe ke mendak ki jawab do sahil bhai
Total misguided person. Allah has put responsibility on parents to raise kids well and make them good Muslims… which he thinks is called obsession…
13 plus kid isn’t grown up … it’s the transition phase and gradual independence to them should be given but not like headless horsemen who is prone to make wrong decisions.
Aik dafa galat kry ga 2 dafa kry ga aik din bara ho jaye ga par agar le ga hi ni to bara kesy ho ga
اگر بچوں پر نظر نہ رکھیں تو آج کل جو حالات چل رھے ھیں اس میں بچے خراب ھوجاتے ھیں آپ ھم کو ڈیٹل سے بتایں ک بچوں کی تربیت کیسے کریں
Please sister just teach them the islamic knowledge by doing conversation & educate them what are the limits in Islam .your children never distract by any thing wrong
Rt
Bottom line selfish women. My way or the highway 🙄
Sahil Sb bachon ko kion bigar rahay Hain .
Not agree with sahil adeem.she is right
Yeh jo choochy hain naa yeh kabhi bary nahi hoty
Pakistan main to shade k baad or ziada bachy bn jaty hain...bady to hoty he nhe...phir biwi k leye azaab....aisy mrdon ka kia krain...??or han aik or ajeeb logic hy yahan pakistan main k jee mard bhe aik bacha he hy biwi ko chaheye k usko bachon ke trha treat kry...shabaaash kia hy yh?? Mtlb biwi ka or koi kaam nhe hy?
Sahi baat ki. Larkion ko kaafi tarbiyat ki zaroorat ha. Treat hi ni krna aata. Phr baad me mardon ko hi blame krti
Nehi
@@tallhabutt9281 oooooooo apnay destroy kardiya sister ko😂😂😂🤣🤣😆😆
Maam kisnay apko kaha mard shadi kay baad bachay banjatey hain ghar kay financial expenses social relations ko manage kya bacha karsakta hai???!!!... Please yeh pampered soch ko apnay damag say nikalen aur mature thinking apany andr develop karein.
She is right.
Sir why r u always against pakistani
Ap ko nhi pta notice krin
He is indian lover
because he has pain in himself for the Pakistani nation. He wants us to be good Muslims.
Because of our stone age typical mentality which is not coming out from roti kapra makan since our freedom.
Bcz pakistani aisay he hen kbi apna culture dekha hai