How To REALLY Get Over a Breakup & Find Yourself

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @ZoieMarie
    @ZoieMarie  2 года назад +34

    As I mentioned in this video I am not a love professional/doctor lol. This video is based off of my experiences. And I am so glad I found myself again in a new country throughout the process because now I am even more happy in my life AND my relationship with my bf is now so much stronger 🤎 *AFF The Book: US amzn.to/3L8NKrO / DE amzn.to/3iCqO88

  • @boiseraise
    @boiseraise 2 года назад +21

    I didn’t realize not lot of people have confidence to relocate or travel by themselves. Relocated also and people are always shocked that I travel alone.

    • @kaylaschregardus4062
      @kaylaschregardus4062 2 года назад +1

      I took a solo trip to mexico in 2021. Yeah even the tour guides were shocked I travel alone too LOL. I am now hooked on solo travel, it feels so freeing!

    • @ZoieMarie
      @ZoieMarie  2 года назад +1

      Yes I didn’t realize either. But if you look from the outside in, traveling solo is really something a lot of people are scared to do. My mom was the same until she saw me and my sisters having the best time of our lives abroad. Now she’s a traveler as well and hasn’t looked back

    • @boiseraise
      @boiseraise 2 года назад

      @@ZoieMarie OMG my mom also started traveling after seeing me travel solo😅😅

  • @kaylaschregardus4062
    @kaylaschregardus4062 2 года назад +12

    Zoie this was beautiful and soooo real and felt intimate! At the age of 33, was in a toxic relationship about 4 years ago, I can say YES finding yourself by being alone and reflecting can be the best thing for yourself! I took a solo trip myself to Mexico in spring 2021, the best decision I had made! I did a lot of reflecting at that time too, realized how much courage I have as a woman and how independent I am. I have now been at this point in life about 4 years where I DO NOT want some man ruining my peace and my lifestyle LOL. I have NOO issues now cutting off a toxic P.O.S. Glad you and him are doing good and healthy.

    • @ZoieMarie
      @ZoieMarie  2 года назад +1

      Yes solo travel is really something magical! And you make a great point with not having anyone ruin your peace. This is also something I learned in my time. Now I don’t just let anybody in my space to uproot my solidarity and peace 🤎

  • @keepinitkawaii
    @keepinitkawaii 2 года назад +4

    Oddly enough this has helped me after cutting off abusive family members. Haven't broken up with a romantic relationship partner but your advice is great for growth and moving on in general! Thanks!

  • @gretchenking5952
    @gretchenking5952 2 года назад +6

    This video was so on-point for me. I stopped seeing a guy a couple of months ago, because I was afraid of getting hurt. I regretted the decision and wanted to get back with him, but he was no longer interested. So, I moved on. Figured out what I wanted in life and enrolled in a TEFL certification course with the hope of moving abroad to Europe next summer. Thank you for you wise words of healing.

    • @gretchenking5952
      @gretchenking5952 2 года назад

      @@modupeadewale425 I did. Three times. He never responded. I have moved on.

    • @gretchenking5952
      @gretchenking5952 2 года назад

      @@modupeadewale425 Thanks, but no. I've moved on.

    • @ZoieMarie
      @ZoieMarie  2 года назад

      I think this person was a scammer. I’ve blocked them from my profile. Don’t contact them 😭

    • @gretchenking5952
      @gretchenking5952 2 года назад

      @@ZoieMarie Thanks. I won't.

  • @kamkarter8821
    @kamkarter8821 2 года назад +6

    What a sweet video perfect timing. I am dealing with a breakup and feeling very sad. Did my first solo trip and it was amazing. My second solo trip will be in 2 weeks. Just ordered the book.

    • @ZoieMarie
      @ZoieMarie  2 года назад +1

      I‘m hoping you get through it! We’ve all been there 🤎. Let me know how you like the book!

  • @JoyAdebambo
    @JoyAdebambo 2 года назад +1

    My favourite video yet. Zoie is a smart beautiful woman 😍

  • @storiedsoundscapes
    @storiedsoundscapes 2 года назад +5

    This was so enjoyable hearing about your experience and you raised so many good points. It particularly resonated when you talked about being forced to learn German for daily interactions and taking the time to solo travel. In general, I think being alone in a new city and/or country is the best way to find oneself. It forces you to be intentional with people, jobs, cultivating you own space, and getting to know oneself outside of the conditioning of one's upbringing. I loved it when you said fate brought you all back together 🙌🏾 Thanks for sharing, Zoie! ❤️

    • @ZoieMarie
      @ZoieMarie  2 года назад

      Yes, yes and yes! Being forced to learn the language was such a plus for me and it also made me more independent 🤎

  • @ML-ul2zq
    @ML-ul2zq 2 года назад +2

    I'm glad to hear you're back together and it was a growth experience.

  • @prettylittlemissy
    @prettylittlemissy 2 года назад +2

    I love everything about this video, like the background, your brows, makeup, lashes, HAIR, attire, and, of course, your story!☺️

  • @CaribbeaNaijaGoddess
    @CaribbeaNaijaGoddess 2 года назад +3

    Would love for you to do a video on how you started a RUclips channel!!

    • @ZoieMarie
      @ZoieMarie  2 года назад +1

      You could say this video is the preface 😊

  • @Kbydfrsghusy
    @Kbydfrsghusy 2 года назад +4

    Such an amazing video! It’s really trough that the moment you start working on yourself things will start changing all around you and you will attract better people around you.

  • @NickMillerismyspiritanimal
    @NickMillerismyspiritanimal 2 года назад +5

    Thank you so much Zoie for sharing your experience. You gave really great and helpful tipp. I definitely recommend travelling by yourself. That really helped me build a connection with myself as well. I am so happy you were able to move forward with your life in a positive direction and glad that fate brought you two back together.

  • @terrytomlinson8772
    @terrytomlinson8772 2 года назад +13

    Your wardrobe is always on point

  • @aleksandrtaranda4062
    @aleksandrtaranda4062 2 года назад +5

    Удачи тебе ! С большим приветом from Belarus!!!

  • @anagrace498
    @anagrace498 2 года назад +3

    I really needed to hear this. It’s been a rough couple of months. Thank you so much Zoie ❤️

    • @ZoieMarie
      @ZoieMarie  2 года назад

      You will get through it 💪🏾🤎

  • @zamasithole8213
    @zamasithole8213 2 года назад +6

    Love you! :) you inspire me so much

  • @maggygregorio1291
    @maggygregorio1291 2 года назад +1

    I learn so much in this video. Thank you for being honest and sharing your story.🥺

    • @ZoieMarie
      @ZoieMarie  2 года назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @kemiLuv
    @kemiLuv 2 года назад +3

    Book bought 👍🏾👍🏾

  • @CaribbeaNaijaGoddess
    @CaribbeaNaijaGoddess 2 года назад +3

    Love watching your videos! I started watching them in November ♥️

  • @tradeseller6138
    @tradeseller6138 2 года назад +1

    u look so pretty n professional in this video love it

  • @babyg7796
    @babyg7796 2 года назад +1

    Just broke up with my bf this morning. Found out he cheated. Met a girl in the club, went back to the car, and the rest was downhill.

    • @ZoieMarie
      @ZoieMarie  2 года назад +2

      Oh no!! You will make it, stay strong & know your worth 🤎 You deserve better

  • @andreabrooks4569
    @andreabrooks4569 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Zoie! Always good listening to you.

    • @ZoieMarie
      @ZoieMarie  2 года назад

      You are so welcome 🤎

  • @gherisse
    @gherisse 2 года назад +1

    This was very inspiring and motivating! Thank you for sharing!😍

    • @ZoieMarie
      @ZoieMarie  2 года назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @oksaina27
    @oksaina27 2 года назад +1

    Thank you ❤️

  • @AntonsClass
    @AntonsClass 2 года назад +2

    This is random, but do you have issues getting adequate amounts of vitamin D living so far from the equator? Especially as someone, like myself, with more melanin, do you find yourself dealing with deficiency? This is one of my only concerns living that far north. Thanks!

    • @nicholecheatum3757
      @nicholecheatum3757 Год назад +1

      I dealt with this when I lived in the north of France. Just took vitamin d supplement!

  • @Lokal9248
    @Lokal9248 2 года назад +1

    I've been watching all your videos. I'm moving back to Germany next month!! And I'm going through a break up. What part of Germany are you in

    • @ZoieMarie
      @ZoieMarie  2 года назад

      Thank you for watching!! 🤎 I’m in southern DE :)

  • @Morocco-m3s
    @Morocco-m3s 2 года назад +1

    Bonne Chance et Success Continue, si Dieu le veut
    Bonne chance et success, si Dieu le veut Super vidéo

  • @agearhart1
    @agearhart1 2 года назад +2

    :)