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A 4-year marriage is a mistake. That means they spent their 1st year trying to get along, their 2nd year in denial, their 3rd year fighting and their 4th year regretting.
Southern Emperor: Beautiful women also want a lot more attention, if he starts to give more attention to the kids, she will be jealous. instead of making the kids number one, she still wants that status. Some of these reality shows, like housewives, some of the women have gotten multiple bags.
@@wiseupisrael5533 Agree 100% It's all about celebrating an image to impress others it appears And ones who suffer the most are the children born of these vain unions
What I don’t understand is why you criticize folks about how, or when they marry. I’ve been married 7 years, and prior to marrying, I only knew my wife 4 months. I’m not an athlete, but I do ok. My life isn’t in shambles, and my marriage is absolutely fine. My wife and I are black, both come from single parent homes, the usual community stuff, but we both have college degrees. Myself,Rutgers, my Mrs, Lincoln. I just wanted to tap in , all black marriages aren’t doomed to fail. I watch your videos, as I don’t agree with all of your ideas, some I can . Marriage is for those that have the desire to give it a chance. Regardless of how it comes together, only god can judge us.
I’m saying this with all due respect to this brother Jay and his platform/business! This content is made for a specific audience and a lot of pandering is done to that audience! I’m somewhere in the middle on marriage. When I tune into channels like this it’s with a discerning ear!
You're a funny individual to believe your situation is the same with every other person. He is commentating on the common case every day, your situation does not change that fact
Definitely frustrating. It's like most people don't even recognise the significance of marriage anymore. You're supposed to be married to 1 person in your life and here are celebrities acting like Henry viii and that's influencing the public aswell. Doesn't help when there's an ever-growing number of modern women in the west aswell that are just all about the bag.
@@darnellwilliams8783 Lmao watching anime is not a synopsis of one’s manhood or lack there of. You should stop commenting on RUclips and learn how to structure a sentence.
Did his Dad play PRO FOOTBALL??? The TIME THESE GUYS HAVE AWAY FROM HOME IS ALMOST LIKE A WOMAN BEING SINGLE.. THE TEAMS HAVE PRACTICES AND MEETINGS ETC AND IT REALLY TAKES A SPECIAL WOMAN TO EVEN BE INVOLVED WITH THESE PLAYERS…. THEY ARE GONE ( MOST OF THE TIME!!!! ) WHICH LEAVES TIME TO BE INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE ELSE… WOMEN WANT TIME!!!! That MONEY LOOKS GOOD?? BUT IF YOU REQUIRE TIME THAT MONEY AINT GOOD MONEY…
That’s the reality of the world we live in what our parents and grandparents had in marriage is extinct I feel for him women these days only value what a marriage can do for them once that marriage isn’t beneficial to them they don’t want it anymore
@@michaeljasper709 the xx chromosome individuals today aren't worth marriage, leave em dry like unseasoned chicken. Don't let them get the edge up on men just so they can take advantage of us
People don't understand marriage is a partnership not just your lover and best friend..If you don't understand partnership then marriage may not be the thing for you.
Political LiL I agree 100% with your comment. Even though I have never been married I know that you have to have compatibility, love, trust, and partnership and morals and values etc if a marriage is to workout. Marriage relationship is not to be played with. You have to make sure you know what you are getting yourself into.
People who are saying she married him for the money must not know who Chanel is. She has been one of the top paying/popular models for about a decade now. Sis has her own coinage, thank you. And this is all speculation let’s not point blame to anyone and just wish them well!
@Terrell payne the woman has been supermodeling since a teen. She also comes from an affluent family. She is GOOD y’all men are super bitter & aggressive and it shows 🥴
Two years is not a long engagement?! I wish people would stop acting like there's some rule or formula to a successful marriage! Things happen and you just never know!
@@kanagawa85 yes and i hate that shit that they have to be split between two homes without a stable household and I ultimately don't like kids going through bad shit it infuriates me
That’s who is in their vicinity most of the time. Most people date who they’re around and have access to. Also I’m sure they feel like they don’t have to worry too much about being used for finances because the other person is already successful.
She did something wrong and the only reasons I could see for requesting supervised visitation is he thinks she may hurt the children or he doesn’t want his kids around another man.
Im very interested in knowing why he wants custody and supervised visits . My goodness - marriage is just not working for so many these days .Its a shame
@jessy I hope your sons are worthy of good women and not boys who don’t become men because they have no male influences. Don’t let your boys become the man that left you a single mother
Sterling Shepard divorcing his wife after a 4 year marriage, while she ignores him publicly, brings a whole new meaning to: “Like sands through the hourglass, so are the days of our lives”...🎵🎹🎵🎹
~ A lot of athletes and entertainers are learning from Red Pill game from the Manosphere, and are starting to see right through these fake women who they are dealing with...2022 is the year to clean house...
Marriage and relationships are TUFF!!!! My prayers 🙏🏿 are for the children as they age and go forward in life. Great point that just because she's beautiful doesn't mean she's wifey material and not to say it's all her fault as it's never just one person's fault. Pray the best for all of them as it's a loss for all.
Very true..none of us know what happened in this marriage unless you know them. Too many assumptions here. People that are married usually know this. Wish them well
@@Pursuepeace0715 No such thing as choosing the wrong person; you choose not to be that person you married. Hell he or she was the right person during the dating process and marriage. You have to be the right person once you make that commitment.
Imagine if these fools actually invested their money and didn’t do the same dumb shit over and over? They could play 4-5 years and never even think about working another day in their life, they could move to a moderately populated city/town and live like a damn king with however many women they choose, instead they go out like suckers 🤦🏽♂️
Modern women are not serious women. They don't seem to understand that marriage is about duty, all of that soulmate, lovey-dovey stuff is crap. Once the relationship becomes monotonous, these modern women get bored, and start checking out.
I have been preaching this for years marriage does not benefit a man only the woman reaps all the rewards such as spousal & child support. Meanwhile the man lose revenue.
Alot of guys are starting to wake up and see that ! I know I’ve realized it years ago ! Like I’m never getting married and I don’t care what a chick got to say about that . I’m at peace being single and I really enjoy that because I can focus solely on my education and my career , ain’t no better feeling .
The rewards of marriage is not spousal support nor is it child support. Maybe that's what is commonly AWARDED (by a judge) to a woman in a failed marriage. If you've never experienced a successful marriage don't try to define what the REWARDS of a marriage are. Weirdos.
@@Deniseeee84 are you a man?? if ya not you dont know what an "actual man" is and what you said made no sense to this postyou just sound like youve been played or sum
~ A lot of athletes and entertainers are learning from the manosphere, and are starting to see right through these fake women who they are dealing with...2022 is the year to clean house..
If a man gets married at this point, the man deserves everything that's coming to him. There's too much information out there on why to *NOT* get married! 👀
I would not consider Sterling a man. He's the same age as my little brother. Getting married in your twenties most of the time doesn't last. Those are the years a "Young" man is still growing into a man. Committed relationships are healthy in your twenties but marriage and kids are a big responsibility I just feel like most are not ready in their twenties. This goes for young women as well. That's my opinion but ya let me know what ya think.
I agree they are not ready for marriage in their twenties. I'm so glad that my 19 year old son told me that he wants to wait until he's 28 to have a child. He learned from watching me be a single mom raising him and his bro all by myself. I always tell him enjoy your twenties and don't have kids until you can stand on your own and take care of yourself. He has friends his age that are already a mom or dad it's such a shame.
People in NY, this was going to happen. He will get joint custody. You could tell she did not want to stay married. She will be in the streets, watch how fast she hooked up with another athlete or celebrity.
I’m sure if u go back and check, this is the Simp dude that his teammates used to tease him because when they were engaged, she wasn’t givin him nun till after they were married. She been playing this fool for a long time
Iman, and Lala, will find out how hard it is to find the type of love they want. Sterling shepherd is still young, he have maybe two or three years left in his career. He can go into television like Michael Strahan.
The fact that “he ended the divorce,” is not what’s happening here. When’s the last time you took a speech course. Your show would be great if your words were concise. He may be asking for supervised visits to win the custody case and avoid child support payments.
For many of these women its about securing the bag and then parading themselves as single mothers, because that's all that matters in this liberal society. These celeb guys need to get wise to the hustle they keep subjecting themselves too.
Wow!! These comments are disheartening and disturbing.. I know everyone is entitled their own opinion,and I absolutely respect that. AND to repeatedly read comments with such strong opinions of this couple baffles me.. esp as most of them are negative regarding the wife.. "If a man files for divorce, u know its bad"....🤔......OR he could have a side chick and decided that's where he wants to be and is no longer interested in his current marriage. "He's requesting supervised visitation for the mom, she must be horrible as a mom".... 😐... OR He's just being a Petty Paul and He's making that petition bc he knows it will hurt her and he knows that bc he has more $ than the wife, he could actually make that happen. "She didn't even include him in her her pics/social media, it was just her and the girls....and that proves she already checked out of the marriage way earlier 🤔... OR just like other celebrities(and us regular folks) keep personal things private and delay sharing it with the world, cant this apply to this situation. .meaning, we don't know how long their marriage has been struggling nor do we know what that looked like in their home.. so her not including him in the pics for Christmas could be nothing more than her efforts to move forward with her girls and adjust 2 her new role as a "single mom". Media saw Christmas pics and decided she moved on fast. Noooo... they severed b4 Christmas and media didn't know. What if they were already living as divorced people under the radar? They could've already been living and sleeping as strangers in their home and only they knew... if thats the case, why would anyone feel she was "obligated " to post with her husband when her reality was that he was no longer her husband?
Because deep down they are as attention starved as the female celebrities. He could of bagged him the baddest professional in NYC who goes to work and has family values. As a talented WR he ran a bad route
It's funny that when the woman files she ain't ish and when the husband files, she still ain't ish. Most of these men mad that no good woman will want them
🙏🏾More men divorcing women in 2022. Im With it. It’s time we stop fearing the loss of and allowing these broads to play victim all Cus they filed the divorce.
Smh this is sad, parents have to warn their kids about women like this. She was there for the money it’s clear as day and we need to start speaking out more about this. She’s shopping for another guy months before the divorce and she moved on just as fast as he did. This crap saddens me when I see this because men like Sterling Shepard weren’t taught to watch out for women like this 😔
@@mairahernandez7039 Yeah, but she was only there for the money. Marriage today is a fucking joke! The shit meant something waaaay back in the days. Don’t mean shit now.
There are parents who do advise their children, especially their sons about these image marriages, But..."parents don't know anything...this can't happen to me" Next few years, marriage's marriage's 3rd spouse, family court, enters the drama with new spoken daily legal terms: alimony, child support, visitation, custody battles I should have listened to my parents... Your parents were smarter than you could ever be...
@@fantasyhustlerz3861 One thing I learned.. if you meet somebody on these DATING APPS and you think that's your WOMAN... Sorry she's still on that DATING APP 🤣
If a parent wants supervised visitation for the other parent, it’s because they believe one parent is a danger to the children. I had to take primary guardianship best friends daughter because the father went to prison and asked me to watch his daughter because he felt the mother was a danger to the child. Upon receiving guardianship, I had to also petition to the courts that any visitation by the mother be supervised, which was granted.
People like the party but they don’t like the process. Men love stability but unfortunately you have to be stable yourself first in order to maintain a stable situation. This is on him. Marriage is for the mature.
~ Bruh...I am 100% certain that good men around him, who had his back, tried to warn him not to get married. But he fought off his own wolf-pack to go throw his life away...
@@Eman14128 Yep, women who have a history of dating street dudes can't love anyone. They use these guys for babies, money, amd to build up their brand then they bail.
Y’ll talking like y’ll in their marriage and know what happened. I heard he cheated on her ! with a less attractive girl that I saw. He don’t deserve no custody, he’s trying to make him self look good talking about supervised visit. He filed for divorce because he wants to be single and do what other men do… Chanel is so low key and unproblematic comparing to others. I never once heard a bad thing about her in the blogs. I pray she finds a man worthy of her. Her kids looks so happy being with her and vice versa and she never did anything bad to her children. Stop talking shit tryna make the girl look bad!
@@SweetCake3874 reread your post. You’re the one jumping to conclusions and making assumptions perceiving her to be innocent and vindicating Sterling Shepherd. Jay De Black is simply reporting the news. You are using solipsism and misandry to play this blame game when you don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about. It’s okay you’re not the first woman on here to do that. Unless you have definite proof that he cheated or why he filed for divorce, BE QUIET. Fuck what you heard. You weren’t there nor personally know them.
@@SweetCake3874 You are part of the reason why no one wants to deal with BW. Get off the blogosphere and learn what objectivity is. JDB wasn’t assuming anything. You on the other hand is saying that this man shouldn’t have his kids and defending this woman’s character based on what you read in the blogosphere?!!! Are you slow????
When a man usually files for divorce he is just about done..there is a reason why this man had to file for divorce first..every woman that glitters is not gold
If I was a millionaire... marriage wouldn't even be a consideration until I'm in my 40s. Shhhhheeeiiiittttt I'm not a millionaire and I'm not interested in marriage b4 my 40s
“Why would a woman leave a marriage with 2 kids?” Then…”She wasn’t going to file, so he did.” When you begin to contradict yourself, you should find a new hobby.
She definitely wasn't wifey material she was too young and got too much attention physically her mind wasn't ready or family oriented..... Same thing happened to me unfortunately
Its not the millennial generation its the Young Black boys and Black men , even the older generation has this mindset. You can decide not to acknowledge this but note BM go thru this sooo much more then any other race of men.
Idk how I came across your channel, but for a year now I been tuning in.. I like how a lot of the time you have previous videos of whoever you talking about . Very insightful & entertaining; The best part is when you expose women nature without having to bash anyone in the process.. keep it up💯
Divorce deeply affect children and their perception of love🤷🏾♀️ some divorce are unavoidable but I do think that many marriage could be fixed if people were more forgiving and willing to try a little harder
He is only requesting custody of the kids because he doesn’t wanna pay child support. And he is only requesting supervised visits for his wife because he’s trying to make her seem like a bad person. All he’s trying to do is win his court case.
I know Sterling personally and his family.Pretty good family that he has from Oklahoma.However if his kids was born in New York those courts in that state are brutal towards me .
Well you 2 options. Either roll the dice and get married TO A WIFE. MEANING A WIFE BEFORE YALL ARE MARRIED . Not some random cute chick . And be right with God. Or u can be a serial fornicater and go to hell . Pick your side
Damn you giving him so much credit. It appears as if he could do know wrong, I’m curious if he did something she could no longer tolerate. Geesh you sure do know how to put a story together.
Don't you just love it, when people keep saying that they've found their solemate and saying all that stuff during the wedding ceremony(-ies)?... Most people are being dishonest in these relationship situations and going off of their feeling(s) at the moment(s), when they really know the being they are with is not who they want to be with in a marriage or long-term.
Nah y’all gotta stop speculating on people you don’t even know it honestly sounds like a vindictive man to me . She’s and industry chick and he’s an athlete so? Or are y’all just hell bent on blaming a woman without even know the details. It’s weird for a man to ask for custody of young children so that tells me he’s either being vindictive or he doesn’t want to pay child support. Watch when the details come out when men run and file its because they are trying to get the upper hand. Argue with your momma not me. Any woman who has been with a vindictive man know exactly what I mean. fun fact: just because a woman is less attractive ALSO doesn’t make her a good wife!!!ugh…. It’s the patriarchy for me smh
Marriage isn’t worth it at all anymore, it’s best to stay single and just date and have fun, then when it’ gets boring with ever whom you’re with at the time, move on to something new, this is good if you’re not one of those people whom are worried about dying alone, but don’t you die alone anyway.
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Yeah you right men don't file for divorce they just cheat and keep Mistresses on the side 👎👎👎👎
The supervised visitation is standard in divorce with kids under 5 unfortunately it makes the person sound like some unfit person 😕😢
4:58, My nicca the word is “conspicuously”. You should practice reading aloud more. Listen to smart people pronounce these words.
8:21 it’s Chrissy Teigen. You had it right the first time. 🤣 don’t be dumb. Practice your reading.
A 4-year marriage is a mistake. That means they spent their 1st year trying to get along, their 2nd year in denial, their 3rd year fighting and their 4th year regretting.
Well damn
@@simplyameeraj 😂😂😂
@@sodvine3486 🤣 the way he broke it down sounded so accurate. I wonder what 6 years is like 💀
@@simplyameeraj it's true. I wonder myself, it's like he was in the sauce, you know all the ingredients in that sauce.
Announcing Pregnancy 2 months into the marriage. That is awfully fast or the pregnancy happened before the wedding
Jaye you dropped a nugget: "Just because a woman is attractive, it doesn't mean she is wife material." You can stop the show right there.
These men and women married in most cases for all the wrong reasons.
Wym wat he said was true
Southern Emperor: Beautiful women also want a lot more attention, if he starts to give more attention to the kids, she will be jealous. instead of making the kids number one,
she still wants that status. Some of these reality shows, like housewives, some of the women have gotten multiple bags.
@@willierhone6244 Facts.
@@wiseupisrael5533
Agree 100%
It's all about celebrating an image to impress others it appears
And ones who suffer the most are the children born of these vain unions
“Just because a woman is attractive does not mean that she’s wife material.”
Hahaha hmm so how about just because a woman is FAT doesn’t mean she isn’t wife material.
@@yveje9720 no… just hard to look at.
Facts🎯🎯💯💯
Or a good person.
@@RARA64HUNNID
"Just hard to look at"
LMAO!
What I don’t understand is why you criticize folks about how, or when they marry. I’ve been married 7 years, and prior to marrying, I only knew my wife 4 months. I’m not an athlete, but I do ok. My life isn’t in shambles, and my marriage is absolutely fine. My wife and I are black, both come from single parent homes, the usual community stuff, but we both have college degrees. Myself,Rutgers, my Mrs, Lincoln. I just wanted to tap in , all black marriages aren’t doomed to fail. I watch your videos, as I don’t agree with all of your ideas, some I can . Marriage is for those that have the desire to give it a chance. Regardless of how it comes together, only god can judge us.
I’m saying this with all due respect to this brother Jay and his platform/business! This content is made for a specific audience and a lot of pandering is done to that audience! I’m somewhere in the middle on marriage. When I tune into channels like this it’s with a discerning ear!
He doesn’t like black women
You're a funny individual to believe your situation is the same with every other person. He is commentating on the common case every day, your situation does not change that fact
@@dickersonr6172 I noticed that
False
God gave men & women authority to be Judges over the Earth
Alot of popular sayings are incorrect tho
I hate divorce, black marriages getting a divorce I hate even more.
Definitely frustrating. It's like most people don't even recognise the significance of marriage anymore. You're supposed to be married to 1 person in your life and here are celebrities acting like Henry viii and that's influencing the public aswell. Doesn't help when there's an ever-growing number of modern women in the west aswell that are just all about the bag.
@@drippystaff5657
Love your rational reply, thank you! Nice to know this type of disgrace bothers other people.
God hate divorce too
A lot of men realize you have to spend the rest of your life making someone else happy and comfortable.
Rodney peete a human is supposed to study his age drop watching anime grown man
@@darnellwilliams8783 Lmao watching anime is not a synopsis of one’s manhood or lack there of. You should stop commenting on RUclips and learn how to structure a sentence.
@@Sbrabson04 man do watever makes u happy , as long as u still on ur grind , let that clown stay in a hs mindset
Fax
@@Sbrabson04 you totally live with mom
Sterling wanted a marriage like his mother and father had before his dad passed, but didn't get it with Chanel smh.
Did his Dad play PRO FOOTBALL??? The TIME THESE GUYS HAVE AWAY FROM HOME IS ALMOST LIKE A WOMAN BEING SINGLE.. THE TEAMS HAVE PRACTICES AND MEETINGS ETC AND IT REALLY TAKES A SPECIAL WOMAN TO EVEN BE INVOLVED WITH THESE PLAYERS…. THEY ARE GONE ( MOST OF THE TIME!!!! ) WHICH LEAVES TIME TO BE INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE ELSE… WOMEN WANT TIME!!!! That MONEY LOOKS GOOD?? BUT IF YOU REQUIRE TIME THAT MONEY AINT GOOD MONEY…
@@jeffhotfudgeshow4691 yes his dad was a pro football player he died due to heart failure.
That’s the reality of the world we live in what our parents and grandparents had in marriage is extinct I feel for him women these days only value what a marriage can do for them once that marriage isn’t beneficial to them they don’t want it anymore
@@jeffhotfudgeshow4691 Do you not work fool?
@@michaeljasper709 the xx chromosome individuals today aren't worth marriage, leave em dry like unseasoned chicken. Don't let them get the edge up on men just so they can take advantage of us
People don't understand marriage is a partnership not just your lover and best friend..If you don't understand partnership then marriage may not be the thing for you.
Facts 💯!
No partner shit
Marriage is Not a partnership. Who told you that lie?
Political LiL I agree 100% with your comment. Even though I have never been married I know that you have to have compatibility, love, trust, and partnership and morals and values etc if a marriage is to workout. Marriage relationship is not to be played with. You have to make sure you know what you are getting yourself into.
@@LuxeprivaeMedia what is it then?
These celebrity men need to prioritize the character of your children's mother over your children having lighter skin and exotic features
Right sad 😢
whoa, that's real
Word
💯
they don’t hear you
People who are saying she married him for the money must not know who Chanel is. She has been one of the top paying/popular models for about a decade now. Sis has her own coinage, thank you. And this is all speculation let’s not point blame to anyone and just wish them well!
2 side to every story!
How can you wish somebody well who went against God. I’m not doing that.
@Terrell payne no she's right and you should research before you give such an ignorant reply. She's richer than him. She is a super model
@@yacobcastro bc you’re perfect and never went against God before right? Get out of here lol
@Terrell payne the woman has been supermodeling since a teen. She also comes from an affluent family. She is GOOD y’all men are super bitter & aggressive and it shows 🥴
When a man files for divorce that means you've been unbearable for quite some time. John legend where them papers at bruh!?
Str8 Facts bruh 👊🏾👊🏾
That fool under a spell and will be for sometime longer
Illuminati shit going on there ✨🙏💞🙏✨
😂😂
that has to be an industry match, I definitely don't understand the connection.
Just remember, there are two sides to every story. 🙏 wishing those kids stability.
It’s true
The divorce rate will continue to rise in 2022
Yep
Truth!💯
Fax that's why I went out the Country to find a Wife best decision.
@@johndavis6719 yep my fiancee is Dominican
@@jeorgedavid3239 that's wutz up
Chile all these husbands filing for divorce!!???
Men are getting tired as well
Marriage means nothing these days…smh
Yeah, it really ain't for men.
@@chrislee4129 lol
@@OohGeeSilk you mens uncles who dint take commitment and vows seriously got it
@@chrislee4129 😂🤡
It has always been this way, nothing has changed 🤷🏽
Two years is not a long engagement?! I wish people would stop acting like there's some rule or formula to a successful marriage! Things happen and you just never know!
He made a quick zig route after 4yrs of marriage. He took the bag to the end zone for a touchdown
This fucked up i feel bad for the children
I see what you did there, bro. Break contact, find that window, expect the ball and make the grab.....and take as many yards as you can
@ children gonna feel the most unfortunately
@@kanagawa85 yes and i hate that shit that they have to be split between two homes without a stable household and I ultimately don't like kids going through bad shit it infuriates me
I don't know why these athletes and actors always have to be with another celebrity, it's nothing wrong with marrying a regular person.
Absolutely!!
True
it still doesn’t make a difference
Facts I don’t get it either
That’s who is in their vicinity most of the time. Most people date who they’re around and have access to. Also I’m sure they feel like they don’t have to worry too much about being used for finances because the other person is already successful.
She did something wrong and the only reasons I could see for requesting supervised visitation is he thinks she may hurt the children or he doesn’t want his kids around another man.
She probably cheated on him
@@redscorpion9325 That’s what I think also.
@@zyzzyz7035 of course you say she did something wrong take that accountability like your medicine
@@darnellwilliams8783 this is definitely a women on this account you under every video
He is correct there are wolves out there no need to leave kids unsupervised.
Im very interested in knowing why he wants custody and supervised visits . My goodness - marriage is just not working for so many these days .Its a shame
Most are sick in the head and bed I rather be dead!!! Only worry you will have is heaven or hell I thought that will ring a bell!! Oh! well.
Coke
Older single attractive women are usually single for a reason. You get in a relationship and then begin to realize exactly why they’re single.
Idk how any man over the age of 30 especially doesn't get this. She's single for a reason. Smash but don't wife!
FACTS !!!
@@anonymoususer1824
That’s absolutely 100%
Aren’t younger women single for a reason ??
@@mayebouee8099 Just choose the good guy and leave Pookie and RayRay alone.
Men have to understand beauty means nothing and we gotta teach our young brotha’s what to look for in a woman.. So many don’t know…
@jessy I hope your sons are worthy of good women and not boys who don’t become men because they have no male influences. Don’t let your boys become the man that left you a single mother
@@Jessy_06901 How when you're acting toxic? Mommy dearest
Sterling Shepard divorcing his wife after a 4 year marriage, while she ignores him publicly, brings a whole new meaning to: “Like sands through the hourglass, so are the days of our lives”...🎵🎹🎵🎹
Yo
🤣
Took it back 😂😂😂
~ A lot of athletes and entertainers are learning from Red Pill game from the Manosphere, and are starting to see right through these fake women who they are dealing with...2022 is the year to clean house...
Damn I heard the song in my head 😂😂😂. But hope he bounce back.
Marriage can be tough but divorce can be lethal
Marriage and relationships are TUFF!!!! My prayers 🙏🏿 are for the children as they age and go forward in life. Great point that just because she's beautiful doesn't mean she's wifey material and not to say it's all her fault as it's never just one person's fault. Pray the best for all of them as it's a loss for all.
Very true..none of us know what happened in this marriage unless you know them. Too many assumptions here. People that are married usually know this. Wish them well
its "tough" when you chose the wrong person! Sterling filing for divorce and requiring supervised divorce speaks volumes! hate to see a marriage end
@@Pursuepeace0715 No such thing as choosing the wrong person; you choose not to be that person you married. Hell he or she was the right person during the dating process and marriage. You have to be the right person once you make that commitment.
She going to realize that the grass ain't Greener on the other side
Why do these dudes keep making the same damn mistakes over and over? Damn💆
Never underestimate the power of the P
Ths Chi only mistake is you working at McDonalds at 32
Imagine if these fools actually invested their money and didn’t do the same dumb shit over and over?
They could play 4-5 years and never even think about working another day in their life, they could move to a moderately populated city/town and live like a damn king with however many women they choose, instead they go out like suckers 🤦🏽♂️
@@darnellwilliams8783 i said da same about yo momma 👩👈😄😄😄😄😂😂😂😄😄😁😎
@@darnellwilliams8783 Lmfaooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣😁😁😁
Modern women are not serious women.
They don't seem to understand that marriage is about duty, all of that soulmate, lovey-dovey stuff is crap. Once the relationship becomes monotonous, these modern women get bored, and start checking out.
They think more about the wedding day, than the marriage, I think woman what the status of wife more than actually to be one.
He’ll finally see who he really married during divorce proceedings.
She was a pass around and Sterling was the the one willing to put a ring on it and give her 2 babies.
Frank you didn't know her at all but ok son
@@darnellwilliams8783 no one knows anyone do they. Just going off the reports like everybody else. So i based my OPINION on that .
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Neither do you.
@@darnellwilliams8783 simps police
@@theblackdr.phillip9330 they trying to save her because she looks innocent 😇 . Lol those fools will learn soon that crap doesn’t mean anything
I have been preaching this for years marriage does not benefit a man only the woman reaps all the rewards such as spousal & child support. Meanwhile the man lose revenue.
Alot of guys are starting to wake up and see that ! I know I’ve realized it years ago ! Like I’m never getting married and I don’t care what a chick got to say about that . I’m at peace being single and I really enjoy that because I can focus solely on my education and my career , ain’t no better feeling .
same
Only if u want kids ... becuz baby momma is not fun
~ The marriage contract is the one legal document that society encourages men to sign without reading...
The rewards of marriage is not spousal support nor is it child support. Maybe that's what is commonly AWARDED (by a judge) to a woman in a failed marriage.
If you've never experienced a successful marriage don't try to define what the REWARDS of a marriage are. Weirdos.
Women Don’t care about keeping the household together no more 💯
Facts to many options
And men don’t care about being a actual man/ father and or proving for their families nope men are followers not leaders !
Look in the mirror you maybe the problem 🤣🤣🤣
TV is Fake keep that same energy
@@Deniseeee84 are you a man?? if ya not you dont know what an "actual man" is and what you said made no sense to this postyou just sound like youve been played or sum
~ It's spreading...Red Pills getting into the Gatorade...🤣
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Paul Bunyan res pill is incel kool aid
Taste good don’t it?
~ A lot of athletes and entertainers are learning from the manosphere, and are starting to see right through these fake women who they are dealing with...2022 is the year to clean house..
If a man gets married at this point, the man deserves everything that's coming to him.
There's too much information out there on why to *NOT* get married! 👀
Facts!!¡
Yup. Ima stay single and travel . Might have a girlfriend or two but no marriage.
The worst legal contract of all time.
Sir Yeetus not everyone wants to be alone like you .men systt familes to carry on legacy. Incel ways
@@darnellwilliams8783 🤡🤡🤡
He should’ve planned an out route before the play began.
yea, why didn't he make a prenup?
I see what you did there..... 🤣🤣🤣 Very nice
@@jondo3817 that’s what I’m saying 🤦🏽♂️
I feel bad for the children
When a man files for divorce which is hardly ever, he's got to be super Fed up.
You know it's bad when the man files.
I would not consider Sterling a man. He's the same age as my little brother. Getting married in your twenties most of the time doesn't last. Those are the years a "Young" man is still growing into a man. Committed relationships are healthy in your twenties but marriage and kids are a big responsibility I just feel like most are not ready in their twenties. This goes for young women as well. That's my opinion but ya let me know what ya think.
I agree they are not ready for marriage in their twenties. I'm so glad that my 19 year old son told me that he wants to wait until he's 28 to have a child. He learned from watching me be a single mom raising him and his bro all by myself. I always tell him enjoy your twenties and don't have kids until you can stand on your own and take care of yourself. He has friends his age that are already a mom or dad it's such a shame.
So because he’s in his 20 he isn’t a man? Please explain?
@@salpacino2148 can you read correctly? She did say that at twenty he is considered a "Young man" still growing into a man 🙄🙄🙄
I agree!
I agree especially for a guy...he has so much time to enjoy life ...seems hes is the one who really wanted marriage. Well he learnt his lesson
People in NY, this was going to happen. He will get joint custody. You could tell she did not want to stay married. She will be in the streets, watch how fast she hooked up with another athlete or celebrity.
I don’t care what anyone says, I am getting married and having children. I’m not famous and don’t ever plan on being so this is none of my concern
Tamara Dible so why are u commenting then.
Because I can?
These dudes hurt and single asf. I feel you girl they just mad good women ain't looking for them EVER
@@Tootie343 they don’t want to get married but they clown single mum’s
@@tamaracdibie right I've been saying this for the longest. But they wouldn't mind taking care of other races of women's kids
He got 2 daughters, it say supervised visits where the mom is concerned? That reads like he concerned about their mothers influence on them.
Well she's engaged to Devon now..soooo...kids on no kids some people can always bag another man and get cuffed!😂
I’m sure if u go back and check, this is the Simp dude that his teammates used to tease him because when they were engaged, she wasn’t givin him nun till after they were married. She been playing this fool for a long time
Brothers do NOT give thy soul unto a harlot...."Ecclesiasticus 9:6"....
But aren’t these the type of women men want? 🤷🏽♀️ They go after the trophies and end up with nothing. I see this pattern sooooo much lol
Maybe thats the problem
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Iman, and Lala, will find out how hard it is to find the type of love they want. Sterling shepherd is still young, he have maybe two or three years left in his career. He can go into television like Michael Strahan.
2 or 3 years he only been in the league for 4 to 4 years.
Vaughn Mitchell I dont agree sterling Shepard was never as good as Michael Strahan sonhe wont do tv and theses beautiful women will find soul mates
Not with that yarn material Achilles of his......
@@darnellwilliams8783 please leave 🤡
@@johndavis6719 dudes always injured, alot of football players are forced to retire early due to injuries.
The fact that “he ended the divorce,” is not what’s happening here. When’s the last time you took a speech course. Your show would be great if your words were concise.
He may be asking for supervised visits to win the custody case and avoid child support payments.
He should've chose better. 🤷🏿♀️
Nice username
@@iprofox3758 thx
He shouldn't have married in the first place.
@@iprofox3758 I think he was too young in the first place
Just cause he filed for divorce doesn’t mean he was not the one that’s a problem.
For many of these women its about securing the bag and then parading themselves as single mothers, because that's all that matters in this liberal society. These celeb guys need to get wise to the hustle they keep subjecting themselves too.
Men file for divorce when they are dealing with someone else
Spoken like a independent woman lol
True
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Wow!!
These comments are disheartening and disturbing.. I know everyone is entitled their own opinion,and I absolutely respect that. AND to repeatedly read comments with such strong opinions of this couple baffles me.. esp as most of them are negative regarding the wife..
"If a man files for divorce, u know its bad"....🤔......OR he could have a side chick and decided that's where he wants to be and is no longer interested in his current marriage.
"He's requesting supervised visitation for the mom, she must be horrible as a mom".... 😐...
OR He's just being a Petty Paul and He's making that petition bc he knows it will hurt her and he knows that bc he has more $ than the wife, he could actually make that happen.
"She didn't even include him in her her pics/social media, it was just her and the girls....and that proves she already checked out of the marriage way earlier 🤔...
OR just like other celebrities(and us regular folks) keep personal things private and delay sharing it with the world, cant this apply to this situation. .meaning, we don't know how long their marriage has been struggling nor do we know what that looked like in their home.. so her not including him in the pics for Christmas could be nothing more than her efforts to move forward with her girls and adjust 2 her new role as a "single mom". Media saw Christmas pics and decided she moved on fast. Noooo... they severed b4 Christmas and media didn't know. What if they were already living as divorced people under the radar? They could've already been living and sleeping as strangers in their home and only they knew... if thats the case, why would anyone feel she was "obligated " to post with her husband when her reality was that he was no longer her husband?
I mean, you act like all of those theories couldn't possibly potentially be true.
This makes so much sense!!
Don’t understand why these guys continue to wife up these industry broads……..
Because deep down they are as attention starved as the female celebrities.
He could of bagged him the baddest professional in NYC who goes to work and has family values.
As a talented WR he ran a bad route
Alonzo Morning > Every stupid athlete
Why not get a regular woman who has a good head on her shoulders ?
If your going to marry …marry a traditional women that simple
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You won't find that type of woman in the States.
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@@johndavis6719 depends on where you live
@@gregb1216 maybe
He was caught cheating many times though. He’s not innocent. Once again, look through the smoke screen
No!
Caught by whom?
It's funny that when the woman files she ain't ish and when the husband files, she still ain't ish. Most of these men mad that no good woman will want them
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Thank you for leaving the link in the description. Salute to you for that!!
Women are more interested in the romance of the wedding ceremony than marriage
🙏🏾More men divorcing women in 2022. Im
With it. It’s time we stop fearing the loss of and allowing these broads to play victim all
Cus they filed the divorce.
LK Thirty Fiver real men want to be with they women forgive this is the most incel thing I've read l
@@darnellwilliams8783 Rest in Jesus name
Black men and black women got shit we need to work on fr
Smh this is sad, parents have to warn their kids about women like this. She was there for the money it’s clear as day and we need to start speaking out more about this. She’s shopping for another guy months before the divorce and she moved on just as fast as he did. This crap saddens me when I see this because men like Sterling Shepard weren’t taught to watch out for women like this 😔
Facts so happy to quote on quote have a bad bih
They both moved on. What's the big deal if they both just moved on?
@@mairahernandez7039 Yeah, but she was only there for the money. Marriage today is a fucking joke! The shit meant something waaaay back in the days. Don’t mean shit now.
There are parents who do advise their children, especially their sons about these image marriages,
But..."parents don't know anything...this can't happen to me"
Next few years, marriage's marriage's 3rd spouse, family court, enters the drama with new spoken daily legal terms: alimony, child support, visitation, custody battles
I should have listened to my parents...
Your parents were smarter than you could ever be...
As I read your post I heard BBD’s “Poison” in my head. 😆
All you can do is hope that one day black men will wake TF up and see that marriage is overrated and not beneficial for us in most cases
It is …..just pick the female who’s raised traditional duh…
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Boy everybody sure sounds bitter and broken. Women o women..LAH
stop complainging about sinlge mother households then lol
These Ladies have nannies for their children. They have no problem continuing to date. Plenty of men out there Date women with children.
She never cared about him only what he could do for her and career. That relationship never really happen
Morden woman before she hits the wall over values herself
How do you know
SOCIAL MEDIA IS THE.. 👑.. IT'S DESTROYING ALL OF THESE RELATIONSHIP...🤔
Facts 💯👑
@@fantasyhustlerz3861 One thing I learned.. if you meet somebody on these DATING APPS and you think that's your WOMAN... Sorry she's still on that DATING APP 🤣
@@drb5003 all facts 🤣 💯👑
If a parent wants supervised visitation for the other parent, it’s because they believe one parent is a danger to the children. I had to take primary guardianship best friends daughter because the father went to prison and asked me to watch his daughter because he felt the mother was a danger to the child. Upon receiving guardianship, I had to also petition to the courts that any visitation by the mother be supervised, which was granted.
Some women and men are only meant to date. And some are meant to marry. Choose wisely and carefully.
People like the party but they don’t like the process. Men love stability but unfortunately you have to be stable yourself first in order to maintain a stable situation. This is on him. Marriage is for the mature.
THESE NIGGAS GONNA LEARN!
Build yourself first.
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~ Bruh...I am 100% certain that good men around him, who had his back, tried to warn him not to get married. But he fought off his own wolf-pack to go throw his life away...
@@paulbunyan9436 because I'm look at who she dated before, like asap rocky background checks are important for marriage
@@Eman14128 Yep, women who have a history of dating street dudes can't love anyone. They use these guys for babies, money, amd to build up their brand then they bail.
Why do multi million dollar pro athletes get married at a young age🤦🏿♂️
Dammit... I'm trying to figure that out as well..don't other these men see what other men going through that went before them..I mean dammm...
Y’ll talking like y’ll in their marriage and know what happened. I heard he cheated on her ! with a less attractive girl that I saw. He don’t deserve no custody, he’s trying to make him self look good talking about supervised visit. He filed for divorce because he wants to be single and do what other men do… Chanel is so low key and unproblematic comparing to others. I never once heard a bad thing about her in the blogs. I pray she finds a man worthy of her. Her kids looks so happy being with her and vice versa and she never did anything bad to her children. Stop talking shit tryna make the girl look bad!
Where’s your proof? I don’t see any links or screenshots backing up anything you’re saying. That’s called “speculation.”
@@armyjoe1984 you should be asking the one who posted this video where is the links and screenshots cause he’s speculating…
@@SweetCake3874 reread your post. You’re the one jumping to conclusions and making assumptions perceiving her to be innocent and vindicating Sterling Shepherd. Jay De Black is simply reporting the news. You are using solipsism and misandry to play this blame game when you don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about. It’s okay you’re not the first woman on here to do that. Unless you have definite proof that he cheated or why he filed for divorce, BE QUIET. Fuck what you heard. You weren’t there nor personally know them.
@@armyjoe1984 lol why are you getting so mad 😂 he’s assuming like he was in the relationship with them bout reporting news 💀 what news !???
@@SweetCake3874 You are part of the reason why no one wants to deal with BW. Get off the blogosphere and learn what objectivity is. JDB wasn’t assuming anything. You on the other hand is saying that this man shouldn’t have his kids and defending this woman’s character based on what you read in the blogosphere?!!! Are you slow????
When a man usually files for divorce he is just about done..there is a reason why this man had to file for divorce first..every woman that glitters is not gold
If I was a millionaire... marriage wouldn't even be a consideration until I'm in my 40s. Shhhhheeeiiiittttt I'm not a millionaire and I'm not interested in marriage b4 my 40s
No one know what is going on in that relationship except for them. Let the courts settle it.
The most sound & sane comment throughout this section!!!
“Why would a woman leave a marriage with 2 kids?” Then…”She wasn’t going to file, so he did.” When you begin to contradict yourself, you should find a new hobby.
She definitely wasn't wifey material she was too young and got too much attention physically her mind wasn't ready or family oriented..... Same thing happened to me unfortunately
too young? shes 32
because getting attention has to do with being family oriented or mental health? Just say you cant pull or handle a bad bnitch and go 😂
That was you, she is she. Y’all are not the same.
@@AlexisMaria smh🤦♂️ did you have your father in your life because it sound like somebody has daddy issues
X odus, you are insane.
What she wanted was children ? What she wanted was money.
She has her own career! Always the assumption women have kids for money
Got married way too young and fast when he met her his first couple of years in the league
For a young Black man,you seem to have quit a bit of insight and maturity for a person of the millennial generation,”big ups to you my brother”!
Its not the millennial generation its the Young Black boys and Black men , even the older generation has this mindset. You can decide not to acknowledge this but note BM go thru this sooo much more then any other race of men.
Dam she is a Industry chick good for you young brother she's been in that mix I guarantee she's gonna get back in that circle.
Idk how I came across your channel, but for a year now I been tuning in.. I like how a lot of the time you have previous videos of whoever you talking about . Very insightful & entertaining; The best part is when you expose women nature without having to bash anyone in the process.. keep it up💯
You’re saying stay in the marriage for the kids . Nah .. love yourself . Leave . Don’t stay where you’re not appreciated
It better to act like divorce broke children hearts forever
Divorce deeply affect children and their perception of love🤷🏾♀️ some divorce are unavoidable but I do think that many marriage could be fixed if people were more forgiving and willing to try a little harder
And he had a whole child with this woman and she still playing him like a lame The Jezebel spirit is in wide effect!
Those aren’t grounds for divorce lol people need to just sit in a room and communicate. This is childish
He is only requesting custody of the kids because he doesn’t wanna pay child support. And he is only requesting supervised visits for his wife because he’s trying to make her seem like a bad person. All he’s trying to do is win his court case.
Preach....that's what they do...
And you know this 🤔 how?
EXACTLY. FAAAAAAACCCCCCTTTTSSSS!!!!
As he should
Exactly
I know Sterling personally and his family.Pretty good family that he has from Oklahoma.However if his kids was born in New York those courts in that state are brutal towards me .
classyoungman sure you do stop the cap
@@darnellwilliams8783 Don’t need to cap when it’s true!
Damn that's suck, I met him n his wife at a book signing in New Jersey, very nice person. 👌
I remember watch their wedding ceremony online it was sooo beautiful and heartfelt very sad indeed.
How do you have joint custody but want supervised visits? Should he have asked for joint physical custody with supervised visitation?
Well you 2 options. Either roll the dice and get married TO A WIFE. MEANING A WIFE BEFORE YALL ARE MARRIED . Not some random cute chick . And be right with God. Or u can be a serial fornicater and go to hell . Pick your side
Men are finally paying attention an realize that these females are not wife material
It should be a law that you can't get married unless you're 50 an older
Or you can only get married 3 times
Damn you giving him so much credit. It appears as if he could do know wrong, I’m curious if he did something she could no longer tolerate. Geesh you sure do know how to put a story together.
And you sure seem biased. Lol
@@forevernyg2906 Just like the RUclipsr giving the commentary, right rightttt
If I was a man .. I’d be Leary of any model because so many men want them.. he needed someone out of the limelight or retired
Why is it men divorcing wives after long term marriages of late??
Men get tired too
She looks very happy with her little girls, I hope she has an excellent attorney.
Why do people get up in other peoples personal business?
Don't you just love it, when people keep saying that they've found their solemate and saying all that stuff during the wedding ceremony(-ies)?... Most people are being dishonest in these relationship situations and going off of their feeling(s) at the moment(s), when they really know the being they are with is not who they want to be with in a marriage or long-term.
That's why I just cringe whenever I see someone say "you're my soul mate" then a couple years later they aren't even together anymore
Nah y’all gotta stop speculating on people you don’t even know it honestly sounds like a vindictive man to me . She’s and industry chick and he’s an athlete so? Or are y’all just hell bent on blaming a woman without even know the details. It’s weird for a man to ask for custody of young children so that tells me he’s either being vindictive or he doesn’t want to pay child support. Watch when the details come out when men run and file its because they are trying to get the upper hand. Argue with your momma not me. Any woman who has been with a vindictive man know exactly what I mean. fun fact: just because a woman is less attractive ALSO doesn’t make her a good wife!!!ugh…. It’s the patriarchy for me smh
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Marriage isn’t worth it at all anymore, it’s best to stay single and just date and have fun, then when it’ gets boring with ever whom you’re with at the time, move on to something new, this is good if you’re not one of those people whom are worried about dying alone, but don’t you die alone anyway.
Pretty much two people can't die at the same time somebody gotta go first.
@@dominicstokes8662 yea one will feel death while the other one one mourns the death