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Bro I love that video🤣
Do you have IG?@Pupcakey
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The cat one was the best but they are all so true!
we're introverts, of course, we agree with the entire video ;)
Haha yess
Same.😉
This is the comment I wish I had made😂
@@jeremycrane2005This is the one I wanted to post, but I was a little anxious about reaching out. Figured I’d do it later. 😊
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We're introverts we want friends but hate socializing
We're introverts we want to be alone but we don't want to be lonely
That is 1000% true and I am an ambivert but have some introvert traits.
Story of my life 😭
Spend your days with a person who has your ideologies and your days are golden. I know I do, lol
Dude, that’s what an ambivert is. Of course you have some introvert traits
@@nathanchisupa3960 introverts can socialize and it's not that they don't want friends they just would rather keep to themselves
This needs to be sent to all extroverts so that they know what we introverts are really thinking, it would save SO much time when deflecting their questions.
fr
Agree
I agree the petition to send it to all extroverts
I've tried that. It doesn't work. They can't relate.
Yes pls!
Yeah, I'm good with you canceling plans. Seriously. No problem. 😂
Can we be friends? It sounds like we'd get along. We could plan to meet, but you know, something always comes up.... 😊
fr, i always (try to) find excuses to cancel but they always find solutions, bro please stop are you not catching the signs 😭
My best Friends are busy people WHO don't have time for me!✌️
As an INTJ, if I plan on something for two weeks (or months) and they cancel, I'm going to be very upset because I've already worked myself up to it. I may even have been looking forward to it, since I only "do stuff" a couple of times a year.
This is so relatable for the most part. By the way, never talk to introverts, when we are recharging, because if we don't do that, we're gonna be irritated by every single word that comes out of your mouth
yup.
Truer words have never been spoken
But as an extrovert, if I notice your irritation I’m going to ask you about it until I’m sure everyone is ok. So maybe, if you calmly and patiently tell me what you’d needed, I’d actually leave you alone. But if you snap at me, now I need to fix it😂 (I had a roommate where this would always happen. We went round in circles. Took me forever to figure out what happened after. Irritation = invitation.) Seriously, if you can manage one polite sentence it might save you an entire stress argument.
To whoever wrote and then deleted: I didn’t say fix “you” I said fix “it.” If we have no respect for people’s need to recharge (acknowledged)-you have no respect for the common social space WE are constantly living in. It feels like you pour your mental garbage out into the social world and then expect other people to just-not care? Let the atmosphere be garbage? That’s where I live and I am TERRIBLE at processing it internally-it hurts. Keep it in your own space and I’ll leave you alone.
@@andianderson3017 Every introvert in the world, including me, has written a response to B.S. like yours and then deleted it. Some of us, unfortunately, then spend way too much time overthinking the response. I hope the original poster will not do this to his, her, or whatever pronouns are preferred self. I hope this reply brings them some peace.
Not me though. I'm an INTJ and I'll never give @andianderson3017 another thought after this post. I will say this. @andianderson3017 you have used a lot of words to say that YOU are the problem. It does not matter if your an extrovert. Any compassionate human that notices someone is irritated, sad, or just mad will ask if they are ok. What they will not do is dictate that they answer you "calmly and patiently." Irritation does not equal invitation. I feel sorry for anyone that has to be your roommate. Everyone deserves the space to process their emotions without you demanding that they "manage one polite sentence" and then gaslighting them about saving THEM "an entire stress argument." It's obvious that YOU have no respect for a persons need to recharge their social battery and no "respect for the common social space WE are constantly living in." It really feels like YOU are the one that is pouring out YOUR mental garbage into the social world.
"Keep it in your own space and I’ll leave you alone."
We're introverts. We ARE trying to keep to our own space.
“Doing something and wishing we’re doing nothing”
Finally, I know how to describe my Saturdays!
BIG FACTS!!! The past two or three years life has gotten noticeably busier and I don’t like it!
Looking up the menu ahead of time is just being efficient.
It just wastes so much time trying to figure out what you want when you get to the restaurant. Knowing ahead of time what you want to order is better than trying to figure it out while you’re there. That’s why I order ahead and pick up my food when I show up. If the restaurant doesn’t have an app or a way I can order ahead, I probably don’t go there😹
Waiters are creepy
Right then I can go to the restaurant and be ready to order.
I have a gf who called me to hang out and eat lunch at her local Indian restaurant. I had no time to study the menu or prepare.
Ended up ordering one of the few Indian foods that I know and pretended I never had it before, to make it look like I am keen to explore new tastes.
I think I nailed it.
Regards, an INTJ
I’d rather stay home and eat my own food thanks.
“We’re introverts; of course we are going to stay home and watch RUclips videos instead of socializing 😅”
Edit: Thank you guys for so many likes! 😊 ❤️
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@@DarkCelestialConsciousness I was going to comment this. So true! I also love going out and shopping and walking around malls but by myself. I can take my time yet still be surrounded by people. I
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That "Can I be Frank?" Tee is genius!
The animals are always the best people at any gathering.
Introverts unite!
At a distance.
also no talking!
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@@gamingpotato7937 👍
i'm in
my house
Yes! Let’s all unite! Each in our own living room! Or if someone else is in our living room, in our own bedroom. If we share a bedroom and someone else is in there, maybe in the pantry.
I'm an introvert. I almost always go to the movies alone. I'm there to watch the movie, not get distracted by a date.
Only monsters (and idiots) talk during a movie...
Same. I want to watch a movie, not describe and discuss a movie. If you interrupt my focus on the movie, my face would either be like 😖 or like 😑. I'm an introvert as well.
You're doing better than I am, I won't go anywhere like that alone, nope, gives me too much stress, I would rather wait and catch it on another medium later.
@@JennyWinters Give it a try, it's really relaxing - just grab some dinner at your favorite restaurant, then watch as many movies as you want (and can afford).
@@JennyWintersI sometimes feel stressed about situations like these too so you're not alone 😉
It is always relieving when plans get cancelled
There were a lot of truly terrible things about 2020, but being *required* to give up social commitments was not one of them.
one of the best feelings
Yas, I am tired of lying about why we can't get together. This is total relief.
Unless they get postponed. All that energy already invested getting wasted can be annoying.
my favourite part of seeing other people is if they have a cat!!
Cats are introverted themselves. Cats understand introverts
@@bennu547 exactly :D
I volunteer at a cat rescue and shelter. I call it my cat therapy.
Awright. But I'm a dog person. Cats need control of all interaction. Dogs are happy to see you, don't manipulate you, don't need small talk. Hey Frank, have you done dog people vs cat people, yet?
@@glowormrdr6183kfjdjfj my cat forces me to carry her over my shoulder every morning and stand by the window for like 30 minutes but when i want attention she runs away smh 😑 shes still my bestie tho
we are not depressed, we don't need help, we are not anti social, we are not sick, we are not angry... we are just introverts, just accept us for who we are
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.....anti-social.
The “it’s not personal… but it is personal” is too real lol
We're introverts...
...it's taken me 2 hours of staring at this, considering all the witty possible responses, and debating whether or not I should even post at all, before giving up and hitting "comment."
I swear I could fill out a 5 subject, college spaced, spiral notebook with all the comments/responses I've thought about posting before deciding not to reply.
bless your heart your poor introvert you, welcome to the crowd, we want to live in a house with people but not interact with them at all.
I write my comments somewhere else first, my phone's note app, even on Google Docs. Then, I save the YT video I plan to leave comment on. Then, I go back and forth for days reading and editing my comment, watching the video again.
It takes me a week or two to finally get to courage to (decide) to post comment. But by that time, if I see the video and the latest comment there was posted more than a week ago, I consider (again) whether I should post comments afterall. If the latest comment is less than a week, I might (finally) post my comment. Years watching YT I can count comments I left with one hand.
@@asdinherzegovina9426 Thank you sharing your comment this time! :)
@@chigawop My pleasure, though I was dreading (still) how people would respond to my comment. Best of luck to all of us! :)
@ 1:23 is what all of us INTJ's want people to know 😂
Yup, it is!!😂
Yes!
As subtle as it can get
Haha I agree- a fellow INTJ
Awww glad I'm enfj XD it's personal!!!
Socializing is a game. Sometimes the game is boring, and sometimes I have better things to do.
😂 brilliant!
A cat’s trust is the biggest compliment though. A win is a win.
I agree. I recently had a really bad panic attack, and when I was crying on the stairs, my cat came to me from another room, rubbed against me a bunch, and put his face super close to mine with big eyes like he was saying "Hey, you okay?".
He never goes out of his way to comfort people, so I felt honoured.
@@Interestking Im glad you had your cat there to offer you comfort, they are truly serotonin in physical form.
I find it funny that the last scene where he needs to go away to recharge is at a hospital 😂.
0:40
“Normally, if given the choice between doing something and nothing, I’d choose to do nothing. But I will do something if it helps someone else do nothing. I’d work all night, if it meant nothing got done.”
- Ron Swanson
We’re introverts. Of course we want a “Can I be Frank” tshirt ✨
No introvert makes friend, an extrovert likes them and adopts them as their friends
Strange facts I love it! XD -ENFJ
0:36 is too relatable 💀
If I'm dragged out anywhere over the weekend, I can't help but think about the decreased amount of time I'm able to be by myself
Im more of a extrovert but this helps me wonder why my friend is friends with his cat
Also because cat is cat
@@bennu547precisely! 😂❤
As an introvert this is 100% true😭💀
I have experience with this perfect example of what I have felt soooo many times in my life: “We’re introverts, of course we made those plans when we were feeling social, and now we’re regretting it.” I cannot count how many times I psyched myself into going to ie. ‘a dinner or party’, and perhaps even came to like the idea a bit, only to feeling stressed, pressured, and occasionally a little angry at the person whom pushed me to accept. All of this often would build as the day of the event approached. I mostly thought some of these feelings were just me! My home is my sanctuary, and I feel as though I can only give so much of myself at a time, and need to limit my interactions unless it is my idea to go outside of my comfort zone. Sometimes, I feel relief if another has to cancel/postpone a get together.
As an introvert, the parts of befriending the cat and browsing the menu beforehand are especially extra correct.
We’re introverts. When we say “it’s not you, it’s me,” we mean that wholly and honestly; _it’s_ *literally* _a personal thing,_ and has *_nothing_* to do with you.
You’re an amazing person, probably… s-so don’t, like, f-feel too bad or whateverz, ‘k? 😗
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The “of course we’re happy to see you, this, this is my face” bit. Relatable.
Of course we seem unsociable and of course we wished we stayed home 😂
In the immortal words of Linus Van Pelt, "I love mankind ... it's people I can't stand!"
we need the extrovert version!
As a extroverted man, I definitly agree 🎉😊😊
i was gonna say this 😂 hopefully frank sees it
and after 2 weeks we tell ourselves it's too late and it'll be weird so we just end up not answering
This is literally the entirety of my mind in a nutshell
Especially the cat part
Agreed
Dito
Were introverts, of course we are on a fantasy warfare inside our heads instead of hearing what the person talking to us is telling us
So true!
You described me so perfectly.
”Fantasy warfare,” that's so spot on! My overactive mind just won't give me a break. It's comforting to see I am not alone in this...
Dammit, Frank, you're letting our secrets out!
haha I like the 'it's nothing personal when we have to go off by ourselves & recharge. Unless we find you irritating...🤣 Yep of course I'd rather enter a hunger games tournament then do a group project anddd as an introvert I agree with the entire video! Thanks Frank :)
I don’t think EVERYONE is irritating. Just 97% of people. 🤣 And I like dogs instead of cats.
So, I have done just about everything except for talk to myself while looking in the mirror. Everything else is spot on. INTJ here married to an ENTP! Help! He never stops talking, but he will answer the phone and order the pizza. 🙂
Thanks Frank! I watch your videos before I emotionally armour myself for the working day, where I pretend to be extroverted
Big hugs to all introverts. ❤ I have to send this to my extroverted friends... because I'm not sure there are many introverts among my friends. XD
I practice socializing... in the planetarium, looking at the stars with a hundred others. But I don't have to talk to them. That's the great thing about it. :D Otherwise, life in my novels is much more exciting.
But I'm always relieved when appointments are canceled. Then my head starts: Then I can write on the weekend and finish painting, go in the tub, do some scrapbooking... and binge watching Frank's RUclips videos. 🤣🥰
Love
INFJ from Germany 😘
Oh wow I think all my friends are introverts, with an exeption. I guess it makes sense since as of current statistics us introverts are in a slight majority 🤝 but you'll notice us less cause we're hiding at home lolll
@@Kronian Yeah, that might be. :D I really can't say why, but I seem to be attracted to then somehow. One of them told me very often I'm normal. LOL My closest friends are all extroverts. With two exceptions. :D I'm always the one who likes to hide at home. 🤣
I understand the last one so well, I'm an INFJ and I always get irritated by others in some way, I'm not saying I hate them but god most people just say such stupid things XD And I'm like yeah really? Okay, I'm going back to my room, I'll see you next week
"CAN I BE FRANK" T-Shirt 13/10!!!
We're introverts, of course we'd rather chat strangers online than to have conversations with them face-to-face 🤪
As an introvert with unusually strange personality traits…I have 4 moods I find very intriguing:
1: hates and loves Everyone at the same time
2: wants friends but doesn’t want to leave my house
3: “Stare first, ask questions later”
4: watching Frank James and realizing how accurate his introvert/MBTI vids are and yet still doubting my identity as an INFJ because like 80% of INFJs are mistyped
I thought I was the only one who does the staring thing! It's good to know you're out there. :)
@@Allysonbarta we’re in this together… separately lol
@@AlystraCurrentlyAFK Lol, yeah. Think you around.
@@Allysonbarta 👋
What if all INFJ's are correctly typed but they just have too much self-doubt to believe it?
This is great. Good point about cats!! Im even too introverted for my cats sometimes.
Am I allowed to embed your videos, or at least this one, on a website?
We're introverts, of course we prefer to stay home and binge FJ videos instead of making plans to hang out
Thank you, James! I feel seen and heard! 😅
Why do I find it hilarious that the last segment is set in an empty hospital room. Like there's nowhere else to be alone, so he goes to the most uncomfortable place (hospital) and sneaks into an empty room contaminating the sterile environment but so desperate for solitude that he's willing to potentially risk someone's life. Sorry, dead guy, it wasn't personal...OK, maybe a little personal.
I'm an introvert, but I love having conversations...with my dog.
I'm learning to just say no upfront, that way I don't have to make up an excuse about why I can't go. Saves me time and anxiety 👍🏽🤣
Yes! A few more friends? That would mean more cat boxes to scoop lol I do love doing stuff surrounded by people I can ignore and avoid like water parks and such.
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So accurate😂. Also, who made that song at the end and was it custom made??
Indeed. The best-laid plans of mice and men are the cancelled ones.
I've been able to help with a lot of these issues by not thinking about actual future events too much. Think about how many times you imagined a situation playing out in your head and then having the actual experience. How close was the real experience to what you planned for? There's usually a big difference and you rigidly planned your behaviors ahead of time for circumstances that didn't actually occur, making your behavior more awkward and unfitting.
Maybe you worry that if you don't plan you won't be prepared, but you've never really been able to plan ahead that well anyways since you're not psychic and you're still here. Things have more or less worked out to this point. Things will work out again. Take responsibility for the things you do have control over, let the rest take care of itself and just go out and live. It's better for people to judge you while you enjoy life than for people to judge you because you're afraid to live.
You'll still be an introvert and that's fine, but you'll be a happier healthier introvert.
when we get that dopamine/serotonin high and make plans to socialize and then immediately afterwards the feeling is gone LOL and don't you DARE uncancel a cancelled plan!
I consider myself an introvert, but never struggled with any of those.
I'm not socially awkward, just have no interest in most of people. I have enough friends, but tbh, often I just think it would be better if I didn't have any, it has no meaning anyway
We might be the personality analog of a black hole. Information is not lost, it's just sorta stuck in our event horizon swirling about and it grows and we grow but we remain unseen. Possibly a self-contained universe. Just don't run too far with it.. "Baby, I need to recharge" *saps energy*
We're introverts, of course we've thought of how to systematically disable and subdue every loud person in a room🙃🙃🙃
Cats feel i'm stressed and they don't like me
Super Introvert skill unlocked !
( INFP here, i give names to my plants, and their love is enough, don't need animals.)
We're introverts, I absolutely hate functions/events so of course I'm going to have an anxiety attack so strong that I make myself want to throw up. Then I'll sit in my truck for 20 minutes people watching (you know, like a stalker), feel sad about a fake scenario I just made up while pouting about socializing. sigh😮💨 Maybe I should have faked an injury. I could be home thinking and having gummies. Guess I'll go in.
🤣why is so relatable?
And we’re introverts. Of course we write down what we’re supposed to say when calling someone-that too only if extremely neccarcy
Yes, having to answer a text, or worse, return a phone call hangs over my head all day!
I am still wondering how can this guy i've never met know me so well 👁️👄👁️
We're Introvert's, of course were hesitating to comment. Even though I'll never meet anyone who reads this.
We're introverts.. It's definitely feel irritating by recharge outside.. Thats why i recharge with my phone.. 🤭
We're introverts.. So I'll definitely enjoy myself being in my room rather than hanging out with anyone.. 😅☺😝🤭
When you find ALMOST everyone annoying 🤣🤣🤣
As an introvert, I've never felt so seen 🫠😂
Me too😂it's so nice to have someone understand us introverts
Two of my best friends just asked if they could come by and visit. I said yes. I began regretting it even I typed the 'y' in yes. I
know I'll be glad to see them but until it is over, I will wish I hadn't opened up my text app.
😂 I made plans with you while I was feeling social. Now Im not! SO accurate!!
0:17 This is me to a T.
I almost always see the message right away, but don't respond because I want to think up the best way to answer (especially if it's a touchy subject that requires careful wording). But then I take so long to respond that I become more hesitant about whether it's worth responding at all. Days will pass, but I can't stop thinking about it and really feel like I need to answer, but regret having waited so long, so I wait even longer until I either finally force myself to just answer the message or I never get back to it at all.
And usually, my answer ends up being what I'd thought of saying in the first place anyway... 😅
that's why I just go with my gut feeling first. that's usually the right answer anyway.
Just trying to share this good news with as many people as possible :)
God created us to be with Him. (Genesis 1-2)
Our sins separate us from God. (Genesis 3)
Sins cannot be removed by good deeds. (Genesis 4 - Malachi 4)
Paying the price for sin, Jesus died and rose again. (Matthew - Luke)
Everyone who trusts in Him alone has eternal life. (John)
Life with Jesus starts now and lasts forever. (Acts - Revelation)
Say this prayer: Lord Jesus, I know I am a sinner. I believe You died for my sins. Right now, I turn from my sins and open the door of my heart and life. I confess You as my personal Lord and Savior. Amen.
The worst part is that other introverts are still people so we don’t wanna hang out with them either
These people are time travelers, how did they comment so early?
I think members get early access?? idrk tbh
We’re introverts of course we don’t suffer from depression sense we’re inside all day
We’re introverts: we need to own a cat to feel like we have a purpose in life
Introverts = quite and calm \ introverts after a couple of drinks = recklessly dancing on tables. It's one or the other, no in between 😂😂
I hate socialising and it’s made even worse’s when you have a stammer and can’t talk without making a fool of yourself. Or people ignoring you when you try to talk with them and forcing yourself to speak really fast so they won’t walk away mid sentence. Rude people, I never use to dislike people but I’m really getting sick of their shit, talking over me, interrupting me, ignoring me.
Ok, I don't practice my order, but ... yes, I do Google the menu for a place I've never been to before I actually go.
This sounds closer to social anxiety than introversion to me
We're introverts we stared at the RUclips page and waited for Frank to post another video when we have "productive" things to do.
I'm an extrovert, of course I question my extrovert-ivity every time I watch one of these extremely relatable videos.
0:57, as John Mulaney said, "Cancelling plans is like heroin."
or as Larry David said, "If somebody cancels on me, that is a celebration."
Who else is an introvert? Im an infj eneagramn wing 9
Hi,another amazing and relatable video.
P.S does someone know what music plays in the end?
He made it himself
I wish I could show this to my 93 year old grandmother, whom I live with and is a social butterfly and doesn’t understand that my personal boundaries mean I’m “not ok”, but she won’t understand it at all…. Just because I don’t want to interact with her 90% of the time doesn’t mean “something is wrong” or I don’t love her. 🙄 I just don’t want to interact with her because she’s overwhelming to be around.
None of you can beat me though😂😂.
I found out that I'm a Super Introvert when I got hospitalised for the first time in my life for 4 days. Irrespective, I rejected to be accompanied by any of my family members. The hospital crew were in shock to see me driving myself in and registering myself alone 😂😂😂😂. I mean, you need quietness to be able to heal right?
Why have I never felt so understood in my life?
We’re introverts, of course we are choosing to spend our time watching RUclips videos and reading books on a Friday night and we’re happy with that
We're Introverts so of course this entire video was ✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅
I'm an ADHD introvert. Totally kool all by myself in my own, peaceful, world ❤😊
I'm an introvert. My pet peeve? I don't know why extroverts seem to equate emotional health with quantity of friends. *shudder*
We're introverts, of course we're able to make have actual human friends.
We're just not going to talk with them ever again unless fate forces us to...
Commenting to push this up the algorithm
Yes to finding everyone a little irritating or maybe a lot irritating.
You mean your weekend plans include hiking alone, biking riding, and reading. Being an introvert does not make you lazy.
That’s hilarious. I know I’m in good company but it’s as if that video was made about me 😂