What I've Learned Being An INFP (and how you can thrive in this world)

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  • Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024

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  • @kanaro
    @kanaro Год назад +39

    Communicating with an INFP as an INFP is literally like telepathy. You can sit and look into each other's eyes and understand everything a person is thinking without words. Thank you very much for the video! You are very cute and kind!

    • @Purposecomefirst
      @Purposecomefirst Месяц назад

      ruclips.net/video/aJqwSHUdETA/видео.htmlsi=rbIWk33-Yq9RY4x2
      You should get this lecture you look like INFJ not an INFP.
      ruclips.net/video/j0Xg-1C4xV8/видео.htmlsi=AUs07W5Su1de1izF

  • @gracesinnapen9666
    @gracesinnapen9666 3 года назад +38

    Fellow INFP here !!! You're not alone... I believe the world is a little bit more magical when felt by an INFP

    • @ourwakingsoul6817
      @ourwakingsoul6817  3 года назад +5

      ☺ always so happy to cross paths with another INFP 👋💜

  • @Anonymous_Anon882
    @Anonymous_Anon882 Год назад +25

    One thing I love about INFPs is their self-knowledge. Outsiders often make the mistake of thinking they know these types better than they know themselves but what they don’t realise is that all they see is a shell that tells very-little about the person. That goes for most ‘reserved’ types in-general but especially IxFPs. There’s a multitude of ideas and feelings brimming within them that they do not express to other people (it may or may-not be the result of particular resistance) and can’t be remotely-seen by anyone not in their innermost circle (and not-many people can boast of being in the A*-circle). I guarantee you that nobody knows themselves better (the real/actual them, not the shy exterior they often present to the world on-which they don’t even remotely pride themselves on as far as their authenticity goes) than an INFP does. We NFJs and STPs have the same problem (the outer image people who don’t know us very well see being very different to who we actually are) but I feel like 85% of an INFP’s personality is projected inwardly. It’s very hard to know who they actually are unless you’re super-duper close to them.

  • @tomakhokhlova4592
    @tomakhokhlova4592 2 месяца назад +4

    Thanks for the video! I am an INFP who fell into a pit of depression (often because of the fact that I work there that does not bring satisfaction), so I try to work on my cognitive distortions and fears) now I feel a little better and I hope that soon I will be able to find a job that will bring satisfaction

  • @SB1897.5
    @SB1897.5 27 дней назад +1

    Thank you for existing is the affirmation that i long to hear.. i felt like an outcast anywhere i go, like i dont have a place to be.. its difficult to fit in and i felt really lonely at times like im stuck but im still alive so i needed to thicken my skin to survive everyday.. its hard though but i accept that this is me i had flaws, i can be unlikeable, im different so hearing it is good really assuaring..
    To all struggling infp folks out their its ok your not alone its hard to live but everything will pass well be better😊😊😊

    • @audreymado7268
      @audreymado7268 2 дня назад

      It’s so hard !!
      I feel so lonely rn !! 😢

    • @SB1897.5
      @SB1897.5 2 дня назад

      @@audreymado7268 yeah its hard.. really hard but you well be used to it eventually.. till you get numb

  • @Itzel-camacho72
    @Itzel-camacho72 3 месяца назад +3

    been an infp since highschool and turning 22 this year, everything you said i relate to. Daydreaming/ escapism to forget reality and not taking action rlly feels like it holds me back sometimes. Thanks for this video ❤ much love

    • @Purposecomefirst
      @Purposecomefirst Месяц назад

      ruclips.net/video/aJqwSHUdETA/видео.htmlsi=rbIWk33-Yq9RY4x2
      You should get this lecture you look like INFJ not an INFP.
      ruclips.net/video/j0Xg-1C4xV8/видео.htmlsi=AUs07W5Su1de1izF

  • @Lehkazz
    @Lehkazz 4 месяца назад +2

    I, as INFP, have begone writing a novel. And with your words I can, or it keeps me going! Thank you!

  • @FBDerringer
    @FBDerringer Год назад +4

    My son is an INFJ, has the channel “Dueling Personalities”. One of his latest posts is regarding INFP’s. He has taught me so much! He is very positive, like you. Good discussion!

  • @kateduncan7628
    @kateduncan7628 2 месяца назад +1

    I am so happy to hear that people finally understand what it is like. I don’t know any other person in real life that is an INFP or that understands me. I have dreams and passions but I don’t know what to do with them because our society tells you to keep them as hobbies and focus on what is important which is making money and being successful, but when I look at the “successful” people they aren’t happy and no earthy pleasure can make them happy. I truly believe that a successful life is not found in how much income you make or how conventional you are, but I believe that a truly successful life is found in the way you spend it. I want to be a musician or artist and everyone tells me to become a doctor or whatever else they think is suitable, but I cannot go down the path that so many have. I found out that the world doesn’t need more doctors and how our world has been suppressing art. All I have been taught in this world is how becoming some sort of artist is going to make me homeless and will not be able to provide for me because that is what people have made of art. But I will not listen to them if they don’t even understand the fact that I’m not wasting my life living like everyone else but I will pursue what gives me the most joy and meaning because that is what I would call living successfully.

  • @bunsatron3617
    @bunsatron3617 3 года назад +16

    This is so validating and what I needed to hear. Thank you

  • @shelleyseokim
    @shelleyseokim 2 года назад +6

    I love my fellow mediators!!!

  • @PaulaLJones
    @PaulaLJones Год назад +4

    This is so true, I can relate to everything you're saying about being afraid of being misunderstood and keeping really BIG things to myself bec of that. Ty for sharing this lovely video!

  • @kestrel09
    @kestrel09 2 месяца назад

    I have recently started pre-dawn swimming in a local ocean bath when I turned 60. It concludes with watching the rising sun. The feeling of immersing myself in the winter sea water and watching and photographing the rising sun is sublime. I share the pictures with a close ENFP along with a short poem each time I swim. My life has become very meaningful, yet sad that one day I will not be there for the start of the day. I want be there for as many as I can.

  • @FireWork-nc8ib
    @FireWork-nc8ib 9 месяцев назад +8

    INFP = THE BEST AND THE WORST Personality TYPE .

  • @1hazelx
    @1hazelx 2 года назад +5

    This was very comforting for me. Thank you. 💕

  • @SJ-ed1xo
    @SJ-ed1xo 3 года назад +7

    I really appreciate this video! Thank you 🤗

  • @moongrffn
    @moongrffn 6 месяцев назад +2

    Being a typical Infp, I'm crying right now..😅
    No but I have to get things off my chest at the moment...
    The express yourself is what I'm struggling so much with... I had a fight with my parents and since I can remember I just go silent and won't talk while they are fighting with me. I know it's not right but whenever I try to explain myself it comes out wrong and either they ask more and more questions or say "don't talk to me like that". I don't even think it's their fault, I'm a difficult person, I can't express things, heck I don't even know why I act this way... But when I try to explain they will accept it but later it's like " don't do that again, just let it out", but I can't and more and more questions are pouring in.. I don't know what to do, when I have the energy to say something back I don't think they understand what i mean. I know that's most likely only what I think but it's really hard to get out of that. I'm just afraid of what follows when I say something, I tried to express it but somehow it doesn't work. Of course there are also problems because of me being me, rather daydreaming, drawing or whatever than of productive things, which don't fit right with my parents.
    I know they want to help me fitting in and they do a lot for me and try to understand, they really do, they're not bad parents at all! I sometimes think that my mom struggles with the same things as me, and is maybe a little bad with handling emotions, I feel that... 😅They're quite emotional and have their struggles but when there slips something like this out "can't you laugh about yourself and your answers?" , "go to your room, I don't want to see you today anymore" or "don't play the victim with the evil mom" it just hurts somehow. And the worst thing, I know I'm somehow responsible for how it is. I just could have gathered all my energy to talk to them but I often go the easier way...
    But thank you so much for your video, I feel better after watching❤️

    • @Weeping_lover
      @Weeping_lover 5 месяцев назад

      God. This is so me..!!! I relate with each and every sentence of yours. My parents are quite controlling... And I live in a nation where even after being an adult, you can't make your own choices but your parents can. I am so worried about my career and future life. I want to do something creative but not commercial art. I love design and painting but I would totally hate it if it turned into something I am doing just to gain money.

    • @INFPower
      @INFPower 4 месяца назад +1

      The best you can do is to get to know yourself better - knowing you're an INFP already so early in life is such a huge advantage, believe me! Check on other INFPs who already gathered more life experience... Its just gets easier the older you get... Adult life consists mostly of compromises, finding a balance to exist in this extroverted world and be able to provide for yourself (and your loved ones) while still keeping space for your hobbies/passions and most important - CREATIVITY! As long as you add positive energy to the world, it will be all good in long term... Stay open minded and you will find your balance and a wat to be INFP-A...

  • @effinator
    @effinator 3 месяца назад

    INFP's . . . ASSEMBLE! & so true, we be feeling IT ALL, ALL THE TIME!

  • @INFPennea9hufflepuffpjoforever
    @INFPennea9hufflepuffpjoforever 13 дней назад

    Thank you this is what I needed to hear ❤

  • @anastasiialuzan7482
    @anastasiialuzan7482 Месяц назад

    Your video made me feel safe ❤

  • @SeelenTaucher
    @SeelenTaucher Год назад +3

    Gosh u are Infp, beautiful soul 🙏🏻😊✨ Thought of an intuitive introverted feeler. Love the Calm infj, infp feeling modes. Deep Souls, enjoy those souls much. Thanks sozls for being here 🌎🌟🕊️🙏🏻
    Dear, you really can express ur feelings so good, that I thought u are infj. Wow. 😊🔥
    I feel as if your soul has grown so beautiful, it feels as if there is a new being in front of us...the 4 y videos and those new ones...dear, what I vibe. 💫🌞

  • @chajzerenerdzajzer4017
    @chajzerenerdzajzer4017 Месяц назад +1

    I feel understood now

  • @happy_hearted_me
    @happy_hearted_me 8 месяцев назад +1

    I want to hug you ^^ Thank you ❤

  • @berrybliss8184
    @berrybliss8184 3 месяца назад

    Everything you’ve said is so accurate to us 😂 thank you ❤

  • @samkelly8115
    @samkelly8115 3 месяца назад

    Thank you😢

  • @JamesTaylor117
    @JamesTaylor117 Год назад +1

    This is a great video - very accurate

  • @thatladydriver
    @thatladydriver 2 года назад

    😭😭😭 so true word for wordddddd... so happy I found your channel and you ❤️

  • @SumanDangi-xp5vt
    @SumanDangi-xp5vt Месяц назад

    I am infp t i have not any hobbies and passion i am very confuse . I want to find my passion but i can not. Please make video this topic

  • @audreybelle3789
    @audreybelle3789 2 года назад +2

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @calmingbabysleep1256
    @calmingbabysleep1256 3 месяца назад

    Jesus

  • @speaklifewithboiketlo
    @speaklifewithboiketlo Год назад

    Thank you 🙏

  • @daisyc1741
    @daisyc1741 2 года назад

    What if I know what I want but it really is just impossible (immigration laws)

  • @annasvideoz
    @annasvideoz Год назад

    Thank you

  • @MultiHabo0osh
    @MultiHabo0osh Год назад +1

    this video talk to me

  • @Mindsetolympics
    @Mindsetolympics 5 месяцев назад

    😢

  • @insomniacc3667
    @insomniacc3667 2 месяца назад

    Thank you i needed this 🥲

  • @christinaross5845
    @christinaross5845 Месяц назад

    your great