Speak With Mystery: Make People Love Listening To You

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  • Опубликовано: 28 авг 2024

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  • @KiiroSagi
    @KiiroSagi 7 лет назад +2726

    1.Take listener on same emotional journey.
    2. Constant element of mystery.
    3. Lessons at the end.
    Bonus:
    4. Make anomalies stand out.
    5. Set premise before starting journey.

    • @Evilkwiet
      @Evilkwiet 6 лет назад +24

      Thank you for this!

    • @LewisPanda14
      @LewisPanda14 6 лет назад +3

      thx

    • @Portubed
      @Portubed 6 лет назад +101

      This summary teaches almost nothing and it's pretty awkward that people looking to learn how to tell a story will willingly skip the guy telling a story... because it's too long. If you do that as the would-be storyteller, imagine how the listener will feel. There's not only things to learn in the delivery but lots of minor points not included in this summary.

    • @dannieannie
      @dannieannie 5 лет назад +2

      Thank you for this! Lol

    • @Nevturiel
      @Nevturiel 4 года назад +3

      Thank you. I was trying to take notes but I kept missing points and it was difficult to find them in the video.

  • @VarshaManoj
    @VarshaManoj 3 года назад +385

    One of the biggest problems that I face when telling a story is that I often end up starting many different mini stories 😅 and in the end forget to complete my original story. This video was amazing. I will definitely work on it!

    • @jenniferm.bonhomme7026
      @jenniferm.bonhomme7026 2 года назад +5

      Omg I relate so much to this statement 😭 😂

    • @raja-jl9os
      @raja-jl9os 2 года назад +1

      Hi cutie 😍😘

    • @StephRae
      @StephRae Год назад

      Excellent point and ditto.

    • @loseweightwithmealplanning
      @loseweightwithmealplanning Год назад +1

      LOOL me too it helped me to literally write it in the way I should tell it then if I wanted to ad-lib after that I could

    • @myerst52
      @myerst52 Год назад

      That's because you're a woman

  • @anonymouspapi2656
    @anonymouspapi2656 7 лет назад +401

    for the people in a hurry 😜
    1. you want to take the listener on the same emotional journey that you experienced
    2. every story needs a near constant element of mystery to keep the listeners engaged
    3. You need to know the purpose behind your story...What is the audience supposed to take away from your story?

    • @jasanpahaf
      @jasanpahaf 5 лет назад +5

      don't leave people hanging

    • @arshero
      @arshero Год назад

      Thanks for this

    • @kamoheloamokelani210
      @kamoheloamokelani210 Год назад +3

      Thank you so much for this I didn't come for stories I wanted to learn techniques

    • @aayushpaul6693
      @aayushpaul6693 Год назад +1

      thanks a lot i needed this

  • @cup_check_official
    @cup_check_official 7 лет назад +4267

    With the way people are today, i think we need to master story-listening

    • @romans.twelvetwo
      @romans.twelvetwo 7 лет назад +27

      Tell Me This YESSS listening 👂

    • @printdamnit
      @printdamnit 7 лет назад +190

      everyone wants to be listened but no one will listen if you can't tell a good story.

    • @AntonSlavik
      @AntonSlavik 7 лет назад +64

      Well that's just a rhetoric arms race. Millions of people with great story-telling abilities, but no great stories to tell because they never pay attention themselves. Sounds great, when do we leave?

    • @topanteon
      @topanteon 6 лет назад +15

      They'll listen if your story doesn't suck.

    • @TraciTariVlog
      @TraciTariVlog 6 лет назад +2

      This is so true!! I'd love to see a video about this!

  • @nehathejedi4962
    @nehathejedi4962 7 лет назад +264

    I'm turning 20 this week and it feels like great turning point in life. I would love to donate my birthday too. Great video!

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 лет назад +30

      ~ That's awesome! Thank you so much :-)

    • @Ogavhyros
      @Ogavhyros Год назад +19

      Happy 25th Birthday this year

    • @DawitBayulgn
      @DawitBayulgn 9 месяцев назад +2

      i,m 20 now what do u advice for me from ur experience 20-26 ?

    • @user-ev8yv4zq1e
      @user-ev8yv4zq1e 3 месяца назад +1

      @@DawitBayulgngood question I’m 21 I’d love to know as well

  • @jasonfrank1755
    @jasonfrank1755 3 года назад +76

    I've been trying out my storytelling skills I've been learning from these videos by grabbing and holding the attention of my mom brother and wife. I have found its been really helpful to try it out on them and reviewing were I lost their attention, grabbed attention, what made them laugh. It's gonna be a fun journey to mastering storytelling

    • @parisjoy7875
      @parisjoy7875 2 года назад +3

      How has your storytelling skills changed since a year ago?
      Improved?

    • @actualogy
      @actualogy Год назад +1

      yeah tell us

    • @JamesPeiris2011
      @JamesPeiris2011 Год назад

      How about after 2 years? Any updates @jasonfrank1755

    • @blablablub5970
      @blablablub5970 3 месяца назад

      any updates after around 3 years?

  • @aadeeshjain8159
    @aadeeshjain8159 5 лет назад +70

    His story-telling skill is so amazing i always forgot i was in a video watching a lesson on story telling!

  • @Paulmazuk
    @Paulmazuk 7 лет назад +388

    Clicked as fast as I could. See, I've been told I'm a horrible storyteller so - I needed this.

  • @iamchrisgoode
    @iamchrisgoode 3 года назад +99

    This is so meta. It’s a story within a story teaching multiple things at once.

    • @valiant7999
      @valiant7999 4 месяца назад +1

      “I’m a dude playing a dude disguised as another dude!”
      - Tropic Thunder

  • @KanyeZero
    @KanyeZero 7 лет назад +11

    THANK YOU. As someone who is socially inept, when I look up "how to get better at talking" all I see online is literally "get better at listening". I genuinely have problems telling coherent stories and actually needed help with this, of course people do need to listen more but nobody tells you how to tell stories better.

  • @Kothlan
    @Kothlan 7 лет назад +1375

    "At the end of your story don't just leave people hanging." Poor choice of words. heh

    • @bigtownbiwwy509
      @bigtownbiwwy509 7 лет назад +106

      DAMN.

    • @Zankokurai
      @Zankokurai 6 лет назад +47

      savage

    • @imover9999
      @imover9999 6 лет назад +74

      I was looking for this comment. I knew someone else had to catch that.

    • @mrr7782
      @mrr7782 6 лет назад +3

      Ikr

    • @DawidDVD
      @DawidDVD 6 лет назад +38

      I'm so glad I didn't have to write this comment...

  • @kathrynstiles3509
    @kathrynstiles3509 5 лет назад +16

    I love that you highlighted Scott Harrison. The story about the young woman and her broken water vessel was so impactful on its own. But he followed it up with action which must have been amazing to the people in that community. That fullness and action is really rare and why Scott and Charity Water are exceptional.

  • @movingear23
    @movingear23 2 года назад +6

    I can't remember a RUclips video that has moved me this much. I came here for lessons in storytelling and left with all kinds of emotions. Thank You!!!!

    • @puppyupper4565
      @puppyupper4565 2 года назад

      You are easily manipulated. If you listen closely to the story he says she hung herself after walking miles while her girlfriends were with her. BS. No girl who walks miles for water carries a rope with her and no female is going to let another female kill herself in such a way.

  • @user-wx6bg3id6p
    @user-wx6bg3id6p 5 месяцев назад +1

    The world needs more storytellers who share humanity one person to another. YOU ARE IMPORTANT!!!

  • @Arizonaoutdoordaily
    @Arizonaoutdoordaily 2 года назад +15

    I also love the way Scott says “when a guy like you has a birthday” Scott’s not insecure.. he points out the greatness of who he’s speaking too without it making himself feel less! You can feel he genuinely feels that way! Makes the person he’s speaking to feel important which immediately makes you like Scott more!

    • @garfunkle37
      @garfunkle37 2 месяца назад

      Greatness? He just referenced him having a birthday...

  • @arvindwee4634
    @arvindwee4634 7 лет назад +1048

    WTF 30!!!!???? He looks like he just got out of his teens.

  • @drew22
    @drew22 7 лет назад +1386

    Dude I thought you were like 22

    • @aegonii8471
      @aegonii8471 7 лет назад +78

      Duke Shadows This dude is hella healthy.

    • @ReplayedCo
      @ReplayedCo 7 лет назад +3

      Duke Shadows how hold is he

    • @ReplayedCo
      @ReplayedCo 7 лет назад +9

      Oh 30 he isn't

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb 6 лет назад +61

      It's crazy you said this because I said to my wife at the beginning of the video this guy knows loads for kid! But he's thirty!!! five years older than me! What anti wrinkle cream is he using!!!

    • @sionr6531
      @sionr6531 6 лет назад +88

      I bet he's using Tiege Henley...

  • @danaslx
    @danaslx 4 года назад +10

    i can't thank you enough for these videos. i'm learning social skills i never gained through formal education, my family members nor my social networks. you give such an articulate commentary that makes sense of key takeaway points and it's helping me to apply these lessons to my own life. i'm ready to secure this job!

  • @YourMonkeyGuru
    @YourMonkeyGuru 2 года назад +104

    As a psychotherapist, I can say this with authetication that "negative emotions" creates more impact on our psychology and they are far stronger emotions than the positive ones. 🔥

  • @ishbanyadav
    @ishbanyadav 7 лет назад +117

    As an upcoming RUclipsr I always aspire to learn the art of story-telling.
    Thank you for this🙏

    • @kavinpatel2748
      @kavinpatel2748 7 лет назад

      Mr IY up and coming or having you not started posting?

    • @SK-bi8hv
      @SK-bi8hv 7 лет назад +1

      Your channel is cinematic and fun best of luck to you

    • @ishbanyadav
      @ishbanyadav 7 лет назад +1

      BearYourSeoul Thank you so much. I really appreciate your kind words :)

    • @partik0724
      @partik0724 5 лет назад

      hey best luck . I am also IY!!

  • @saaaimming5992
    @saaaimming5992 7 лет назад +19

    Happy birthday Charlie! You’ve helped me be more confident in myself and this video inspired me to donate my birthday. What a great idea.

  • @DezzmanX
    @DezzmanX 6 лет назад +490

    "Don't leave people hanging"...dude. Not the best phrase to use considering the story.

    • @CassandraDarling
      @CassandraDarling 6 лет назад

      same comment

    • @TheZGALa
      @TheZGALa 6 лет назад +2

      hahaha

    • @realtalkwithjordan8026
      @realtalkwithjordan8026 6 лет назад

      Nvm watching vid, see wat u mean

    • @hydrafunding
      @hydrafunding 5 лет назад

      LOL

    • @2012XF3
      @2012XF3 5 лет назад +3

      Theres nothing wrong with the phrase. If you know story you know what he means. What he means is most of time its not good to have a ambiguous ending.

  • @markchristiansen5683
    @markchristiansen5683 5 лет назад +2

    That story at the beginning. I just woke up and was not ready to cry.

  • @emilywright9695
    @emilywright9695 3 года назад +5

    I haven't watched the video yet, but just gotta say that I loooooove that you interviewed Scott Harrison, because I also admire his storytelling abilities so much. I was really amazed when I realized I just watched a 30min ad on RUclips and it made me become a regular donator. I never watch ads. But gotta say I'd watch this all over again, because it was so well told and so charismatic from the very first seconds, and I wanna learn how to do that. He could've literally sold me anything 😂

    • @vluessky
      @vluessky Год назад

      The exact same thing happened to me!!!!!

  • @vegvideo
    @vegvideo 6 лет назад +17

    at 6:23 "Point being, at the end of your stories, don't just leave people hanging" - that's a really sick pun

  • @anduhailhack
    @anduhailhack 2 года назад +5

    Not only how to tell such a stories that I got from this video, It touched me to hear my own mother's story being told. I am Ethiopian and these types of stories are true.

  • @theroseroom980
    @theroseroom980 Год назад +1

    I heard this story a few years ago and it made me cry and I wanted to give but couldn’t but best believe after hearing it again I am going to donate

  • @Livsfitz
    @Livsfitz 7 лет назад +15

    I was so intrigued by his story I forgot I was watching another video. Great story, great lesson.

  • @MissUnderstoodasAlways
    @MissUnderstoodasAlways 2 года назад +2

    Never fails. I rewatch your videos every couple of months or so. I always learn something new. Thank you for your thoughtful content 🙏🏽

  • @jingli4017
    @jingli4017 3 года назад +3

    Anyone can argue with your ideas, concepts, proposals. Nobody can argue with an intriguing story, well told.

  • @ASKpq
    @ASKpq 7 лет назад +1

    Our identity is a story, our nations are stories, our brands are stories, our history is a story, and so on. We instinctively edit our experiences in our minds, turn them into memories and extract meanings and emotions from them. Conventional storytelling mediums (TV, films, books, songs) are neat material packages of the same mental process we do in our heads all the time. Tell the best story, take the best meaning from it, and life becomes a whole lot rosier.

  • @chronicmango
    @chronicmango 6 лет назад +21

    I attended the church he talked about with Rachel when this happened. Amazingly inspiring.

    • @PoojaKunaparaju
      @PoojaKunaparaju 4 года назад +2

      I’m so late but omg how’s her family doing now??

    • @currently9143
      @currently9143 2 года назад

      @@PoojaKunaparaju Lol

  • @StephenHaugse
    @StephenHaugse 28 дней назад

    I use this strategy on pitch decks. Through storyboarding out a deck using whiteboard software, I'm able to identify the critical points and then organize them to ensure the story keeps the reader hooked.

  • @ingo7908
    @ingo7908 7 лет назад +28

    I'm early so maybe you will see this comment. I, as well as probably many other subscribers love to read educational books about these topics since there is mostly much more to it than can be discussed in a 10 minute video. It would be amazing if you could share some books with us at the end of every video for those that want to learn more.
    Keep up the great work!

    • @wulfwarren
      @wulfwarren 7 лет назад

      Something related is that there's a video about Charlie's recommended books! :D

    • @sexybeast7728
      @sexybeast7728 7 лет назад +1

      Gunners

    • @ingo7908
      @ingo7908 7 лет назад +1

      I'm busy reading how to win friends and influence people, brilliant book. Thanks for the recommendations.

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  7 лет назад +10

      Check this list out, they are some of my favorites :-) www.charismaoncommand.com/best-personal-development-books/

  • @dominquepresley3740
    @dominquepresley3740 6 лет назад +1

    Happy belated birthday! I'm too broke to give to charity, but I do volunteer work to give back. An added bonus is that I've gotten to meet a lot of good people.

  • @Morgantheturtleman
    @Morgantheturtleman 7 лет назад +9

    I've noticed that telling a great story is much like writing a narrative paper.
    Make a claim as to what the story is about and follow the story's main climaxes with cliffhangers in between whereas you will eventually reach a resolution/the meaning of the story.
    The only difference is hand movements and voice variations.

  • @GraeHall
    @GraeHall 7 лет назад +3

    Charisma on Command: I can't afford $30 at this point in time, but this video really reached me. So what I can do, what I have done, is my best to share it with many other people in a meaningful way, and at least a few of them will check it out, and if not contribute, then share it along themselves. It's the least I can do, so I tried to be my best as I did it.

  • @LeksiW
    @LeksiW 7 лет назад +8

    Scott Harrison's stories give me chills.

  • @justablokewithabeer7425
    @justablokewithabeer7425 5 лет назад +1

    Some of the best stories I've ever heard were at a pub having a pint. You'd be surprised how many people go just to he heard, to be listened to and I believe that sometimes that is one important service you can give to others. Lend them your ears, share a beer and you'd be surprised what amazing stories you will hear.

  • @mitchparker7763
    @mitchparker7763 7 лет назад +784

    Next video should be "3 principles to master listening"
    If you don't make it I will.

    • @brendanswords4659
      @brendanswords4659 7 лет назад +10

      Successful Minds make it!

    • @superturtle64
      @superturtle64 7 лет назад +4

      I just subscribed to you, please make that video! I'll look through your other content too

    • @clifflutz155
      @clifflutz155 7 лет назад +8

      Yes!!! Hey Charlie you hearing this?? This guy has a great Idea!

    • @abraknior
      @abraknior 7 лет назад +5

      There's a good Ted Talk on that subject I don't remember who made it

    • @SpinDoc420
      @SpinDoc420 7 лет назад +1

      Successful Minds even if he does make it, MAKE YOURS.. another voice and bits of wisdom can only help

  • @timflatus
    @timflatus 4 года назад +1

    This is why I'm sticking with you Charlie. You choose to focus on people like Scott Harrison. You're teaching more than just competence in human interaction. Story is what binds us on a real human level, it underpins every single art form and as you say, it's also relevant in business and science. What makes the difference is which stories we choose to tell.

  • @marinel.9216
    @marinel.9216 3 года назад +7

    2:30 First Topic
    2:42
    2:52
    4:10 Mystery Topic
    5:41 Lesson take away
    5:53 Purpose
    6:05

  • @chiafashionista
    @chiafashionista 9 месяцев назад

    This story does have me in tears. I do feel so connected to this organization and want to donate my next birthday 🥹🙏🏻 RIP Rachel ❤ beautiful Angel

  • @ajlavanetwork5755
    @ajlavanetwork5755 7 лет назад +4

    I love the examples of visual clips linked to the "psychology example" perfect genius

  • @melisabhebe9821
    @melisabhebe9821 11 месяцев назад

    Why did i want to cry throughout this video, i would have if i wasn't on a tight deadline and cannot risk the domino effects of it. Listening as I prepare to write a compelling story and presentation of my leadership journey. This was powerful! i love the idea of donating your birthday and I'm definitely replicating it.

  • @michaelroditis1952
    @michaelroditis1952 5 лет назад +10

    This impacted my character in a totally different way the title promised

  • @ObehiPodcast
    @ObehiPodcast 6 месяцев назад

    There is a lot to be said about "Master Storytelling". This is beautiful. Can you feel the authenticity and true emotions? The truth is that authentic stories evoke genuine emotions. When the characters and situations resonate with the audience's own experiences, it can trigger a more profound emotional response. Authenticity creates a sense of truth that enhances the emotional impact of the story.

  • @hateyouifyoukillme
    @hateyouifyoukillme 4 года назад +134

    I always feel manipulated by these story telling people. Like they’re taking advantage of my monkey brain to get money out of me.

    • @Smashachu
      @Smashachu 4 года назад +7

      Yeah it's definitely rehearsed over and over again. From my perspective his micro expressions are showing annoyance.

    • @sayrewilkin-dalby619
      @sayrewilkin-dalby619 3 года назад +6

      I totally agree, there's something about him that feels insincere. The story is certainly dramatic and moving, but something about him makes my skin crawl.

    • @investigate711
      @investigate711 3 года назад +5

      most people who don’t donate feel that same way i’m just saying

    • @ameennasar2583
      @ameennasar2583 3 года назад

      One should research after hearing these stories. It's all about acknowledgement and initiativeness

    • @1a1o
      @1a1o 3 года назад +1

      Lol it’s all about persuading

  • @PhotosVideos-bo9kk
    @PhotosVideos-bo9kk Год назад +1

    1)Don't start right from the point. Come with a background that the listener can relate to, and then give a solution.
    2)Keep a mystery element that will keep the interest and attention of the listener.
    3)When telling the story in the first person, take pauses to let the listener absorb the feeling.
    4)Keep one personal story.
    5)End with a lesson and don't keep the listener hanging.

  • @011azr
    @011azr 5 лет назад +4

    We need more people who are able to tell a great story and wants to create a wonderful impact on the world at the same time. That'd be awesome!

  • @NagendraBisht7
    @NagendraBisht7 3 года назад

    I loved the way this story was shared. It got me thinking how privileged we are and how much of a difference one act of kindness can make. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @yukitora10
    @yukitora10 7 лет назад +29

    "don't just leave people hanging"... phrasing!

  • @blcsuperdave
    @blcsuperdave 3 года назад +1

    I hesitated on clicking this one. The word Story is SO over used in media. I'm going to tell the story of this wedding... I'm going to tell the story of how this car was made... I'm going to blah, blah, blah story this and story that and story the other thing. But this video is an exception. Stories that are truly stories, are created. They are crafted. They have parts that make up a whole and they are not simply a documentation of a time or place. True stories have purpose and momentum and twists and a payoff. Well done on this one. Thanks for illustrating true craft and construction of story.

  • @PersonalPower
    @PersonalPower 7 лет назад +75

    I always have a story that cracks people up.
    my life.

    • @sneakybasterd5319
      @sneakybasterd5319 7 лет назад +5

      you got me interested, how about a "draw my life"?

    • @PersonalPower
      @PersonalPower 7 лет назад +1

      sneaky basterd haha! maybe as a christmas special or something

    • @TheBohobemeister
      @TheBohobemeister 5 лет назад +1

      You got me. Your story cracked me up.

    • @ThyBookie
      @ThyBookie 5 лет назад

      Nice element of mystery

    • @Jolutayi
      @Jolutayi 5 лет назад

      Personal Power 😂😂😂😂

  • @Srilankanenglishteacher
    @Srilankanenglishteacher 7 месяцев назад

    I have been known for my speaking ability, however though I was never known for my storytelling ability, but ever since I came this fascinating art of storytelling, I have begun to take notes and start using the technics of storytelling.
    I must say, the results have been overwhelmingly surprising and continue to deliver amazing results.
    All I had to do was just one thing, I just had to change one thing to change the whole perspective of storytelling.

  • @TheAHShowVideosTV
    @TheAHShowVideosTV 6 лет назад +3

    I am touched, moved & inspired by your video! I have never heard of Charity Water until now and I am thrilled to dedicate my Birthday to such a beautiful cause! Thank you for not only sharing the importance of story-telling, moreover, speaking about #CharityWater.

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 лет назад

      ~ That is awesome Anne! Appreciate your generosity. :-)

  • @themis828
    @themis828 2 года назад

    With the way society is today, not only storytelling, but development of kindness and generosity need to be mastered.
    That the fundamental nugget, is what this storyteller has.

  • @itsjosephwells
    @itsjosephwells 4 года назад +3

    Definitely getting his course. I want to be a better communicator and story teller. Love these video breakdowns.

  • @nardosmekonnen952
    @nardosmekonnen952 2 года назад

    I'm from Ethiopia and never new about these stories
    It touched my heart

  • @FluffyBlueCow
    @FluffyBlueCow 7 лет назад +4

    Hi, I was so excited to get the notification that you're doing a piece on Master Story Telling. But I can you please redo one about story telling? Because I really feel that this is just extremely bias towards the water crisis. There's very little in terms of tangible concepts that I can latch onto and practice.

  • @KPOPFreakify
    @KPOPFreakify 7 лет назад +1

    story telling is important especially for me as a design student. thank you for this video because i'm learning more about good story telling than my years in school 👍

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 лет назад

      ~ Happy to hear you're finding it informative Kelly :-)

  • @nad_2536
    @nad_2536 Год назад +8

    this is a killer channel. i can't explain how much i learnt through this channel. 🤩🤩

  • @hiwottadesse9817
    @hiwottadesse9817 3 года назад

    I came to learn how to tell story's and I end up hearing the saddest facts about my country. It broke my heart so much but at the same time I am great full for your generosity.

  • @emant1337
    @emant1337 6 лет назад +53

    Gordon Ramsay charisma breakdown for charisma under pressure and problem solving !

  • @jynxkizs
    @jynxkizs 7 лет назад +1

    Much appreciate listing 3 principles in the description with jump links.

  • @dusanmelentijevic2284
    @dusanmelentijevic2284 6 лет назад +68

    Jesus, i got such goosebumps on the first girl, but the little 9yrs old just cracked me.

    • @UrSushiSenpai
      @UrSushiSenpai 3 года назад

      Same i didnt expect to cry this video

  • @aurorap.7578
    @aurorap.7578 7 лет назад +1

    Turning 21 in 2 weeks I'm totally donating my birthday. This is an awesome idea I love it. Happy early Birthday Charlie!

    • @himself6363
      @himself6363 7 лет назад

      Do you feel los Bering 21? I'll be 21 next year and in the middle of an existential crisis?

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 лет назад

      ~ Appreciate it Aurora! Happy birthday :-)

  • @havesomegratitude
    @havesomegratitude 7 лет назад +151

    dam dude u look 10 years younger than you really are, congratulations

  • @kevinrei6623
    @kevinrei6623 6 лет назад

    That video offers so much insight about storytelling, and the best about it is it's digging deeper than small talk or flirting.

  • @accioanastasia
    @accioanastasia 7 лет назад +3

    Excellent techniques for a language classroom.
    A good cause too, loved the content.

  • @MrEnterainment
    @MrEnterainment 5 лет назад +1

    This video is great. Thank you, Charlie. This video made me cry, hearing the story that the guy told about the girl. My next birthday - which is my 24th birthday on the 23rd of July, I'm donating to Charity Water! I've never heard about this company or anyone doing anything else like this before and I wish I did hear it before because I'm incredibly grateful for everything in my life and I don't need anything else, so I'm donating my birthday so people can give money to people that will appreciate more than I would!

  • @legendaryced
    @legendaryced 6 лет назад +4

    I think my heart just broke.

  • @MarieF0ng
    @MarieF0ng 7 лет назад +1

    Hey, thanks a lot for the tips; I really appreciate that you take the time to share your insights--especially in regards to effective social interactions.
    It's taken me up to now to to notice just how much I, as well as others connected to me, have grown and benefit from your contributions. I hadn't even noticed at first, but it has been steadily gradual and it continues.
    I've run into some resentment from a lot of people. This isn't something that would normally bother me, but it's tough when it's on the behalf of superiors at work. Subtly, they have been working to take me down. They mostly resent the fact that many of the woman are fond of me. Each of my superiors have little to no experience with woman. One of them (the head supervisor), at 29 years of age, has only been with one woman ever. The others share a similar experience.
    Anyway, since they've arrived to replace the previous management, I've been getting write-up after write-up. It's a scary situation! After some years of homelessness, I have really turned my life around working this job: complete with loving and trusting family/friends. It's been wonderful to be able to be there for them; to contribute so much laughter, security, and adventure. I really don't care about the women at all! I just want to preserve and improve upon what I have/am now: for myself as well as others. So if you have any insights into and/or tips in how to navigate the workplace under such conditions (with resentments from above), I'd really appreciate a video on it specifically. I've looked through your channel to see if you had any: I may have missed it. If so, perhaps you could provide the link to me directly.
    Thanks again. Great health and great fortune to you!

  • @existinguser7788
    @existinguser7788 5 лет назад +3

    It’s actually interesting watching him in a social setting, would love to see him at a party ahah.

  • @azrielnaidoo193
    @azrielnaidoo193 6 лет назад

    Charlie you are a legend. I really admire and appreciate you teaching charisma while also exposing us to Charity: Water through the stories Scott Harrison shares. These were the most valuable 15 minutes of my day.

  • @Skippy0330
    @Skippy0330 3 года назад +57

    Imagine if we had government that could speak think and act like this. Not just tell us we should? Why do we hire bad actors?

    • @portlandgoose4727
      @portlandgoose4727 3 года назад +2

      Because those bad actors are willing to be manipulated, and to lie for money. Genuine people, such as this guy, are not willing.

  • @LifeFullofZest
    @LifeFullofZest 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for such a helpful video. It is so amazing to see and meet more people who just have the heart to help. Thanks for the helpful tips and inspiration.

  • @baronsackey7757
    @baronsackey7757 7 лет назад +20

    New video from charisma on command 😱 best birthday present ever!!

  • @janedough8997
    @janedough8997 7 лет назад

    Thank you for reminding me that I have the power to save a life today, and for putting me in touch with the ability to do it. For your birthday, you have given me a gift.

  • @PersonalPower
    @PersonalPower 7 лет назад +29

    wait what? You turn 30? you look young for your age! very very young!

  • @CourticalHoops
    @CourticalHoops 6 лет назад

    You should do one on why you're videos are so good. Seriously, having trouble capturing an audience, you guys are great

  • @toprakcemsavas3132
    @toprakcemsavas3132 6 лет назад +7

    6:26 I understood that reference!

  • @thechimp-chimptv43
    @thechimp-chimptv43 7 лет назад +34

    Communicating in general is difficult today because of the effects of social media.

  • @tarun7j488
    @tarun7j488 4 года назад +1

    Amazing guest, amazing video, amazing story, amazing purpose, amazing content (as usual) you're doing a really fine job and you have a some razor sharp observation, I'll give you that

  • @Kainkun
    @Kainkun 7 лет назад +91

    is that the photoshop brush on the thumbnail? Might want to get rid of it

  • @rcschmidt668
    @rcschmidt668 3 года назад +1

    Giving money is nice, but it is also good to solve what problems we can fix.
    One example:
    Some volunteers from our church built a cistern by hand for a people group in the mountains of Honduras.
    If you can help, then find an outreach team and go. If you can’t go, then equip and send. Thank you!
    🙂

  • @Sam-zz5tm
    @Sam-zz5tm 7 лет назад +10

    Great video! Can you please do a breakdown on Dave Chappelle (humour)?

  • @crowmisfits
    @crowmisfits 7 лет назад +1

    Happy Birthday. Don't feel bad about turning 30, you seem to have accomplished so much already. I turned 30 last year and during that time I knew people who were younger than me griping about turning 25, 26, etc. meanwhile I was happy with what I'd accomplished so far and happy about where my life is headed. Now if I was 30 and had nothing to show for it then that would be a different story....

  • @NetiNeti25920
    @NetiNeti25920 2 года назад +6

    The length of a story for today's Tiktok generation is 15 seconds.

    • @c3c1118
      @c3c1118 4 месяца назад

      bro forgot about music

  • @caseyboudoin1948
    @caseyboudoin1948 7 лет назад +1

    For me you have to believe the story you tell. I regularly create fake stories in my head and tell them to others as though they were real to friends and family for reaction. When I cry from something that isn't real and can get others to feel the same I know I've succeeded.

  • @aveen9397
    @aveen9397 5 лет назад +15

    You should do a breakdown on (hasan minhaj)’s storytelling skills , HE’s THE BEST I PROMISE

  • @eugeniamikulan3328
    @eugeniamikulan3328 7 лет назад +1

    The story about the 9 year old girl was so touching, made me tear up a little

  • @yourglory1949
    @yourglory1949 6 лет назад +6

    I am in love with your channel and watching your videos! I should be honest with you and saying that I don't watch every video, because sometimes its can be too much of a psychology, but when I do, I understand how simply helpful and genius is your idea of this channel and the effort for every single video, that you did and continue to do! Huge thank you!
    I have a little idea and would like to share it with you: a good storytelling its always useful thing, but how about a short conversation, where you have minimum time, but you also need to tell a story or saying how are you doing. Unfortunately, almost 90 % of today conversations with people going just through "how are you doing? Good, and you? Me too". So if you could do like a few videos about short talking, i would definitely watch it !;) have a blessed day, Polli🌻

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 лет назад +1

      Appreciate the kind words! Also, thanks for the suggestion - we'll add this to the list. :-)

  • @swagmuffin1612
    @swagmuffin1612 2 года назад

    Wow I've been seeing ads for charity water, and I used to watch your channel a while ago. It's funny that when I come back I find that those two worlds collided 4 years ago.

  • @donodony3868
    @donodony3868 6 лет назад +7

    I cried

  • @benjaminkings8699
    @benjaminkings8699 6 лет назад +2

    I can't believe I underestimated how much a story could influence folks.

  • @stefanandreasson6408
    @stefanandreasson6408 7 лет назад +5

    YES exactly what need! Thank you so much! ♥️♥️

  • @sadem1045
    @sadem1045 6 месяцев назад

    I'm watching this as part of preparing for an audition. Thanks!

  • @domenicojordan16
    @domenicojordan16 7 лет назад +6

    I'd love a video on Gustavo Fring from Breaking Bad.

  • @avaceleste
    @avaceleste 2 года назад

    I love how you are telling a story about how to tell a story.
    magnífico 🌸