Never Take Back An Ex Who Betrayed You

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  • Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
  • In this video I share a monkey branching experience from a subscriber that serves as a crystal clear example of why cheating is immoral.
    Never allow a cheater back into your life, let alone let them think they can have access to you ever again.
    Keep your diginity and walk away.
    Never take back an ex who betrayed you
    If you would like to book a coaching call or share your situation with me, contact me - coachchristiankoziol@gmail.com
    @Relearning Relationships
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Комментарии • 32

  • @dlonesurvivor3604
    @dlonesurvivor3604 3 года назад +12

    This is exactly identical situation as mine now. Really identical. 2 families being broken down by 2 immature individuals (my wife being the other half of the party). Only difference is that I have 2 kids with my eldest having autism spectrum living with me now while their mother is out on her own with God knows if still with the other guy who broke his own family. Still keeping tabs on me from time to time and asking for favors even when the way we parted was quite nasty and horrible. Asking them like nothing nasty happened. Right after she left I started my home business and started working on myself, alone. Loving my own company with only the kids. My 8 yr old daughter is really close to me and respects me and I can feel her affection towards me. They're my main focus now as well as my self improvement journey for when the right woman comes along I'd surely be ready leaving my past in the shadow. Thanks again for this wonderful breakdown. Kudos!

    • @RelearningRelationships
      @RelearningRelationships  3 года назад +2

      Despite what you went through you’re being a great father to your children. You’re a good man. Keep it up! You’ll find a traditional woman once you’re fully healed up and ready to date.

    • @kiddytube3915
      @kiddytube3915 10 месяцев назад

      Same thing happened to me early in the year. Wondering whether you managed to find love again or at least enjoying your single life.
      Did she ever come back to reconcile? Not that you’d accept her back.. but it gets annoying when they always ask questions about me.. like be there for the children already, and stop bothering about who I’m seeing or what I’m up to..

  • @arkytkt2382
    @arkytkt2382 3 года назад +11

    Thabk you... I am no beta simp but i can't believe my blindness... I loved so much to forgive her once now she did it again.. No more

    • @RelearningRelationships
      @RelearningRelationships  3 года назад +8

      Never take back a cheater. they don’t love or care about you. Choose a woman with morals, character and feminine traits.

    • @mr_riley_sir
      @mr_riley_sir Год назад

      Same happened to me bro

  • @mudduck754
    @mudduck754 3 года назад +5

    The ex wife, has been calling me from the mental institution. She loves me and will do anything as long as she thinks I can get her out. Tonight I mentioned it's a little lonely sleeping without her. And she said she would never sleep with me again. She just wants out. So I hung up on her and blocked the number. I don't need her brand of insanity back in my life.

  • @JohniArmani
    @JohniArmani 2 года назад +8

    Bro I just want to say thank you, my friend honestly when my ex monkey branched I was so confused and wondering how can someone you've been with so long quickly forget about you I didn't even know what monkey branching was until I started binge watching a bunch of Love channels and I thought I knew what really happened but none of them gave me detailed explanations about exactly what I went through it was basically a generic answer or a generic quote the way you described things it's like it's customized for my relationship and it really does explain a lot why things happened and why she did what she did and how it was so easy for her to forget me and move on from me while it's so tough for me to still get over her just want to say thank you so much you're content is really helping lives.

    • @RelearningRelationships
      @RelearningRelationships  2 года назад +3

      I really appreciate this. Thank you for the support. I will keep putting out content and be of service to all of you. There’s good women out there. Once you heal you can now be on the lookout for a feminine woman with integrity. I wish you all the best :)

    • @flat4wankel
      @flat4wankel Год назад

      Did she ever try to come back to you? My girlfriend of 3 years did just this to me 1 month ago. So confuse like a light switch.

  • @yarakhasan6421
    @yarakhasan6421 Год назад +3

    This guy is unique and amazing work and insights!!!

  • @chrisanderson3875
    @chrisanderson3875 2 года назад +6

    100% accurate one of the most honest videos on joooootube. Most coaches sugar coat there videos and keep I thinking your ex will come back move the f on and live life. Most coaches or video’s are 30-40 years old but this coach is one of the youngest and has lived the social media life when it first came out and says the truth 100.

    • @RelearningRelationships
      @RelearningRelationships  2 года назад

      I really appreciate your comment. I’m very happy to see that my content had added value to your life. This motivates me to keep going!
      Thank you Chris :)

  • @nigevarndell8298
    @nigevarndell8298 2 года назад +6

    You are a very wise man for you years my friend , puts a lot of stuff into perspective

  • @c4m774
    @c4m774 2 года назад +4

    Some work you put out on here brother 👏🏼 by far the best break down on a narcissist,keep sharing your great insight and information….thank you

  • @navv739
    @navv739 3 года назад +7

    Very helpful as always and keeping me fueled. I would like to request a video on monkey-branching karma. Thanks :)

    • @crawdiddy10
      @crawdiddy10 3 года назад +4

      Speaking of monkey branch karma. My ex of 4 years just got knocked up by the dude she branched to. Didn't even take 3 months. Crazy thing is when I talked to her about it she just acted like it was totally normal. Her and the dude want to keep the kid. No emotion no remorse no apology just a normal Tuesday lol I'm totally mind blown.

    • @RelearningRelationships
      @RelearningRelationships  3 года назад +1

      I can definitely do a video on this topic. I have a few lined up for the next couple of weeks but I will do this one too!

    • @navv739
      @navv739 3 года назад +1

      @@RelearningRelationships I'm glad :) The hardest thing about moving on for me is the fear that karma won't hit them back. Of course, I want her to be happy and forgotten, but the betrayal and lack of remorse she has shown is something I just can't forget.

    • @navv739
      @navv739 3 года назад +1

      @@crawdiddy10 Clearly a mentally ruined person. Probably doesn't phase them because they see it as something common.

  • @t-pain3343
    @t-pain3343 6 месяцев назад

    Same thing happened to me. Daddy issues, 10 years marriage gone, except my ex 36F hooked up with a guy, then with our 22F ghetto chick daycare worker. They live together with my 2 kids in my old house

  • @thilehanguyen4055
    @thilehanguyen4055 2 года назад +2

    Great content ❤️ volume very low 🙏

  • @dwocelot6913
    @dwocelot6913 2 года назад +1

    With rare exceptions, modern women have No conception of loyalty. Fidelity is a relic of the past.

    • @RelearningRelationships
      @RelearningRelationships  2 года назад +10

      It’s quite simple. Avoid liberal women, feminists and those whom are promiscuous
      Instead, go for girls that are traditional, feminine and have Godly values.
      Stop dating modern women and instead go for traditional girls.
      Loyalty exists. You just have to raise your standard and choose a quality woman. It boils down to that, and that alone.
      This is why I’m against all this Mgtow and crybaby whining that guys do. It’s like a feminist crying that all men “ are the same” it’s total bs. There’s good ones and bad one’s. Stop leading with your lust and you will be able to see past the red flags early on and weed out damaged goods.
      Don’t go to clubs, bars expecting to find a good woman.
      Go to community events, church and find girls that have actually have dignity.

  • @poostenbrug3053
    @poostenbrug3053 2 года назад +2

    Yo Christian! Please do a video on your story, I'm really curious how your relationships went and how you handled things😉

    • @RelearningRelationships
      @RelearningRelationships  2 года назад +1

      I will do a video sharing what happened with my ex from 2017-2018. That is the relationship that really taught me about red flags and helped me grow into who I am today. You’ll see how many red flags I overlooked back then because I was in limerence and lustful.
      I will share my story at some point soon, I think it will help lots of you guys with your future relationships as well.

    • @poostenbrug3053
      @poostenbrug3053 2 года назад

      @@RelearningRelationships Great! I can't wait :D

  • @mr_riley_sir
    @mr_riley_sir Год назад +2

    You only speak facts bro💯💯💯
    My ex monkey branched after we had had 1 year of a very healthy relationship then a month of problems,she broke up with me and i found out that a day after she was already dating someone new who’s not even attractive bruh like wtf?
    I was her pillar of strength and her comfort space all along coz she comes from a very broken family where the mother and the father fight upto the point of almost killing each other ,knives and axes involved as she said….it has always been like that ever since she was born up to now!!! We had a wonderful year of things flowing then we had a month of fighting in the relationship buh i was always committed to my person ,only this other day when i fucked up then she decided we should break up ,a day after she had already been in a new relationship!!!! I was heart broken mannn i was shattered into pieces,I’ve never loved someone like that before..only to get betrayed in the end💔 when i asked her she played victim by reminding me of all my bad dids,justifying her move and acting like she doesn’t care saying “that is what is best for me” ..fast forward she came back begging for forgiveness and to my stupidity i accepted her back then a week after she went back to her monkey branch again dumping me twice lol….I discovered that it wasn’t that she was sorry but it was guilty….Last week Thursday she came back for the third time,i told her the words i am sure she never expected to come from me bcoz haaa i had felt like the dumbest person ever so i had to show her that I’ve set clear boundaries,i blocked her from all my socials coz she kinda sociopathic that girl and a true definition of a narcissist…I’m now in a better position now :) I’m actually looking foward to dating this other girl i like🤞🏾I decided to let that narcissist go coz it was becoming unhealthy for me

    • @mr_riley_sir
      @mr_riley_sir Год назад

      the story of “the father of the year” is the same as my ex’s story her father was an abuser to her mom a cheater and was always away from home and a reputation of sleeping with young girls…i felt pitty her and it felt like she needed me more, it drew me in