So true, the other day I came back from work and my sister and her friend were at my house, I greeted them and her friend didn’t even look at me, she was looking away and had the most uninterested face ever, I didn’t mind it and kept doing my own thing, they too were leaving to go out. As soon as they leave my friend tells my sister “ugh your brother is so cute, maybe I should just date him”. That took me completely by surprise, I didn’t even think she was looking at me at all. So many women like guys but hardly ever make it known, it’s just hard to tell, I would have never known it if my sister didn’t tell me about it.
@@DavidHernandez-dk1zs yea I feel you has happened to me as well, at the end of the day we all got busy lives, and for women to place this expectation in 2024 on men having to do all the approaching is insane! I have heard women say they were completely into a guy they thought was attractive but they did everything in their power to act like they didn't even notice him, I don't have time for those type of games anymore, plus when a man becomes focused and on his purpose, Alot of women become straight up distractions anyway
@@DavidHernandez-dk1zsbecause they know once you know they like you they wont be able to manipulate you and play games lol im telling you we really should do more studies on the female brain
@mrmillennium2697 There can be many reasons why she rejected. Theres alot of fine cougars and foxes out here, tho. And lowkey, i want one. Just gotta make a good impression.
@@mrmillennium2697Just because she’s older doesn’t mean she don’t have the right to reject you bro 🤣 maybe she do got options, maybe she just didn’t find you attractive 🤷🏾♂️ who knows just move on to the next
So true. Being insecure or unconfident is the biggest killer for a lot of men. Women will always make themselves available if they want to be. Make no mistakes, some of them be shy too. If you have to think about if she likes you or not, she probably doesn’t. You’ll know immediately when a girl is feeling you.
Yeah but some girls are feeling you but still not into you in the romantic way. Some girls hang only with guys and it's the same with dudes some of them only hang with females.
What’s worked for me since my early 20’s, is literally being you. Have good vibes, dress nice, smell good, be funny, be observant, listen more, speak less. Don’t be weird. Identify when it’s the right time to give your opinions on topics and make moves. Doing this has literally enabled more women to be attracted to me without doing too much. Don’t be all high and mighty, and act like your shit doesn’t stink. It’s all a chess game.
The problem is men give women too much power im not saying look any kind of way but just be yourself and keep it moving what's meant to come in you're space will
Or just don’t even bother with getting in a relationship in the first place. Reason being is it ain’t worth it with these kind of women. If you want to get laid just pay an escort. Better than having to waste money on a date and not get anything in return in the long run.
@@jamesb8619Embrace the process of learning to navigate the field. Just like with women, you need to have the ability to discern the good seeds from the bad, and accept responsibility when you choose incorrectly. Redpill and Feminism are two sides of the same coin.. that breed rigidity and an inability to coexist with the opposite gender.
@@BigWickEnergy_ Sure but it’s pretty easy to spot a “good” one though isn’t it? Regardless if it’s true or not upon further investigation? I let the good ones I discern be for the good guys I discern. Because im not a good guy. I’ll be the first one to tell you that escorts will hurt you, at the very least ur wallet. I’m rigid but I do have the ability to share the planet with women because it’s not their fault. Once you go to a certain point of desperation through insecurity, it’s hard to approach a woman and convince her that you are indeed a good man. I’m not a good man, but I’m not necessarily a bad man either. I try to be ethical. So the answer for me at this point is to accept it and be celibate. And learn to live like a monk or something through meditation. As red pill as that seems.
Can’t tell you how many times . I’ve been at a club and one of my buddies pointed out to me that a woman was staring me down . They’re always subtle as hell
You can definitely catch them. You have to really be in tuned with your peripheral vision . As you're walking keep looking straight but use your peripheral to see if they're looking. They usually can't see that. Sometimes you can catch them in action. The best part is when you do catch them and they're stuck. Sometimes they'll put on a straight face other times they might smile (kinda like 'busted' you caught me).
I love the double take where you meet eyes with them and y’all both look away and they look back at you to see if you were really looking at them and it wasn’t just a coincidence.
Life is an Audition, whether we like it or not. Sounds exhausting, but it is what it is. Hell, if anything it should motivate guys to put their best foot forward, and view tomorrow as a new opportunity.
"Life is an audition, whether we like it or not." I like that quote so much I'm using it from now on. We get only one chance at a good first impression (but more like 2: when they first see us/feel our energy, and when we open our mouth to talk).
Its funny when you catch them checking you out and they try and act like they werent looking or they act like it was the worse thing that you caught them looking lol
@jwill9877 Very true. It's just funny when you do catch them and sometimes they act like it's the worse thing that could happen lol women are funny sometimes
A woman’s that find u attractive make sure u see her and wll hold eye contact .. so yeah f they don’t they were just curious but not interested .. don’t why it’s funny
One of the hardest lessons I've learned is most definitely go with the woman that truly enjoys your company and actually desires you so many dudes trying to chase a female who don't even want you
Make sure you’re ultimately grooming yourself for you and not for the woman’s attention as men we have to be ok with not getting attention while looking our best that’s true mastery of discipline
You can catch em but they are suuuuuper sneaky. I only ever catch em at the gym mainly. They peek through machines. The won't look out in the open. They'll pick a machine across the whole gym. At an angle. Then they peek through the bars and plastic guards of a machine. You'd never catch em and even if you did... Theres always a sliver of doubt.
There is this cute ass cashier at the grocery outlet. She was giving me the eyes since last year. I didn’t approach because I wasn't ready. Two days ago, she inserted herself by trying to bond with me over a video she thought was funny and wanted my opinion of it. I was not ready for that either but next time I'm gonna ask for her number and see where it goes UPDATE: I folded. I was nervous. Hands were shaky and voice wasnt strong enough. I was going to push through but decided I needed to calm down. I had everything I wanted to say but couldn't say it confidently so I'll have to wait until next time. Crazy how I wasn't nervous all the other times but the moment I decide I want her I get anxious. Ugh! I will update for attempt #2.
Good luck bro i feel you on being nervous and exited i was in a similar situation but i asked her for her number without really getting to know her and she said no
@@DoomGuySlayer96 sorry to hear that. All you can do at that point is self improve and move on. She'll probably be trying to get your attention at that point
@28lproductions38 I couldn't even count to 6. I owed $5.98 and had all ones in my pocket. I was so in my head bro that I just gave her what look like 6 dollars. She probably think I'm a slow ahh ninja giving her 5 lol. That's why I'm waiting a few weeks to a month so she can forget about that 😂
Big facts Unc Rom. I’m an instructor and I’ve had female students checking me out that I didn’t even realize. Few months back, had one tell me after she graduated her and her friend saw me from day one and were locked on me. They said I carried myself very professional and liked that I have waves and kept a clean appearance whole time I didn’t even know. She sent me a Facebook request immediately after graduating and told me. It’s crazy
I feel that. A woman was just telling me that no one will know how beautiful my smile is because I never smile and look so intimidating. I’ll smile or laugh if something is funny or worth smiling about, but I can’t go around with a kool aid smile on my face. For what?
@adofominka8767 I hear you, bro. Why would I smile constantly just to make people feel comfortable? I will smile when I want, and I will have my normal facial expressions when I'm not smiling.
@@omarr44_ nothing wrong with being/looking serious. You can give a smirk or small smile. If you overdo it, that can look out of character and seem like you're trying too hard.
This is very true I remember in high school a girl told me she would see me with my friends and I was confused bc I've never seen her when I was with my friends and I would ask her where and she was like "I just see you with your friends"
This is the truth. That being said if you have some off days, not at your best... just let it go. Because you don't want to be stiff and stuck in your head. Women keep men at their best which on a metaphysical is part of the feminine gift.
Women are always checking me out. I’m 6’4, 240, Dark Mahogany, Educated, Intelligent, Handsome, Well Spoken, and I have Manners. I’m also a Therapist, so I listen to Women speak their Minds & Hearts during our sessions. Some of them feel comfortable enough to tell me how they think about our sessions between sessions. I’m very aware of how women operate from my mother schooling me about how females work as a child, the rest I figured out from experience. The Divine Feminine is Sacred & Holy, and also Nothing to Play With.
This is sooo true. The things is that us as men we forget it sometimes. Not only you should be natural but you should improve yourself and be aware of your surroundings. This is not just to attract women but your vibe can get you a new job or business opportunity
I go to two different park I got a cougar woman who walk in a group and she always asked me how is my day going I never spoke to this woman once but one day I introduce myself and just let the conversation flow. I’m not attracted to this woman at all but I pay attention when I see a woman show some type of interest in me
Yeah I understand most women I talk to aren’t gonna be my wife and I’m also serving women in our community through my job so it’s to improve my soft skills
@@garthyahudahandrews8504 you ever get that damn feeling when you see a super fine woman versus your average woman or that special woman who pulls you out of your shell, those type only come once a blue moon .
@@tyree9834 Yeah tthats very true no tthere hasnt been one since maybe College honestly i graduated 12 years ago. Maybe onee or two from work but yeah there isnt
On your job, school, parties, etcetera...If you've been around a certain female or females longer than a year and they compliment your looks or flirt all of a sudden, they've been peeping you for a while. They just finally found the courage to create an opening for you. Women do it like cats, though. Real sneaky with it. If you fumble the chance, another dude might take your spot. But if she REALLY likes you, she will make that clearly known.
@@johnrockyryanmen too bro. & what kills me is that there is just no benefit to the man. All it does it boost her ego. I have never got any pussy because I checked out a woman in public.
I’m on the autism spectrum. And my bros tell me that women check me out but I never notice. And they say that I’m good looking and when I try to look around no women look at me
Uncle Rom, Honestly, I’m serious most of the times…. I don’t really smile, unless I’m greeting a person or cracking a joke with certain people. Certain females (throughout my life) have asked:” Are you Always so serious?” To give you a better perspective….
I get that idk how to seem less serious without being completely unnatural just yet lol I’m introverted I’m always thinking about my emotions before I display them and that’s the look on my face but I do smile when taking
You should smile more. It will make you more attractive. Especially if you're just vibing with people. Just not all hyper and loud and goofy like a lot of the young guys do. You just respond like "only when I want to be" or whatever and crack a smirk. But yeah if a woman's saying that you gotta lighten up
@@TravisTheMobileBarber don’t skip leg day they be watching the calf’s bro sometimes these women be thinking about a drumstick you the drum on the stick
This is been happening the last few months at this gym I go to. I notice them noticing me, timing is very important. Most of those girls that are looking also have a boyfriend lol You just have to catch them at the right time. Thanks for wisdom Rom!! Peace and blessings
Real talk as always, Uncle Rom 💪🏽💯.... two women at a former local area casino I used to work at each said they used to check me out all the time. However, neither said anything initially at that time because both were married. Once they were no longer married (one divorced and the other unfortunately became widowed), ironically I ended up getting with both of them at different points in time.
The crazy thing is I get more women approaching when I’m looking bummy than when I’m fresh 🤦🏿 I’ve had women flirt with me hard when I look a mess but not when I’m fresh
this is definitely spot on for sure. I haven’t forgotten a few years back when I was at a relatives get together for his birthday and he invited some of his friends acquaintances to join my family in this occasion. I was enjoying myself a good smoke from a cigar just hanging out and enjoying the city at that restaurant we booked up for his birthday and all that I know there was this cute white chick was checking out from a distance. and when it was just me sitting at the table for a good while the lady came up to me to strike up a conversation we just chopped it up for a while until she had to do something. At first, I didn’t know, but she was checking me out because I was too busy having fun and notice, but that’s the name of the game You may never know for certain when or where to one will check you out because if you act a fool in and be goofy, then things won’t work out for you
Hmmm being funny and laughing around people is fine lol I could careless what they think because all my life people say I look serious or intimidating at first glance so you can’t win either way be yourself
All the guys who look for "choosing signals" never notice when women check them out. They claim they notice but in reality they don't. Most men in general even "players" don't notice unless they go talk to her
Your right you never know in my situation I’m just hurt badly going through a lot I just pray that I get through what I get through I probably have women checking me out I just don’t pay attention I’m too hurt for it 💯
You should not only be looking good but you should also be ready to engage all the hot women you run into, not just the ones who were checking you out.
Speaking facts bro, it’s this girl I be chilling with at my college and when we out and about she always talking about how she catches other girls checking me out. I know she can’t be lying cause she be getting mad about it but I had no idea women did cause I never seen or caught them myself.
That is crazy, just yesterday, i was taking out the trash with a weighted vest on, then i left and rode by the neighbor chick, when she was all what was you wearing when you took out the trash. Wow
Haha you just described what happened to me at the gym. I work there so there are these two ladies (cousins) who'd been talking about me. One told the other I'm a handsome dude. Funny thing is that she never talked to me or even seemed to look at me. Long story she got my number and the rest is history.
100%. Everything you’re saying dude is 100% accurate. Just step out the door and it’s on. I’m 60 and live in a 55+ complex. There are women just waiting for my ass to pop out the door. Went out with a fresh cut and shades wearing a wife beater one day and a woman damn near dropped her groceries. You’re right about being consist too. I’ve made the mistake of being a goof ball somewhere and it followed me. It’ll ruin you from getting action even at this stage of life. And like you said, people are always looking out their windows and we forget that.
True story: years ago I worked in the mall at a shoe store. Lady who worked at the mall approached me and we started dating. After a few months i asked her what attracted her to me and she said "I used to watch you straighten the shoes on the rack and i liked how you looked so focused and concentrated." Mind you I NEVER NOTICED HER WATCHING ME. They are ALWAYS watching you, so step out the house on point at all times.
Facts same here dawg…We both work at the airport & she been watching me for MONTHS but I already had something going on at the time but that shit broke off and she approached me and we been rocking ever since 💯
I legit just had something happen past Saturday, a friend of a friend slid in my DM’s. She didn’t say a word to me the whole time we were at this venue though, with mutual friends. I Never even knew she was peeping me .
I have noticed women work hard to not give eye contact when i’m in target and walmart, but when im at the checkout counter at dior or louis vuitton they go out of their way to give eye contact and will even come up and start talking
I upgraded a lot of things in my life, now i see them looking. I have to choose wisely tho. The one with a great soul and gorgeous. Juste like my mom !
I remember being at the pool with my boys, and i noticed this good lookin mom i was secretly checking her out but didn't think much about it in terms of talking to her or whatever. While i was sitting in the hot tub with my boys, i happen to look over at her and she was flat out straring at me and i caught her so hard and unexpected, it took her a second to look away! Id never had that happen to me, especially as a dad - but then again, I'm putting out different vibes out there now as a mature dad.
It's so hard to catch a woman looking, peaking or taking a quick glance. Their eyes are so quick, if you do catch them they start looking at another item in the store!
Rom is correct 💯💯 I had LOTS of women who middle school and high school back in the day LOSE interest because I was being goofy and not being smooth...they told me later on in life or some I'd just SEE the attraction levels drop over time and I KNEW why now that I know better... work in progress here even still at 39 years young 💯💯
Malcolm X while attending Muhammad Ali vs Sonny Liston made a mental note of not getting to emotionally evolved in the fight. Because he knew people were watching and didn't eanna look like an idiot
@@en.4392didn’t want to get caught being overly dramatic about the boxing match. He and Ali were really good friends so it’d be easy to get emotionally involved.
lol there’s this old white woman who has a farm on the street next to my development. One day my mom tells me that she was talking to her and she says “ Is your son the guy with the nice arms walking everyday” she figured since we are one few black folk in area I just find that funny Rom is right 😂
@@garthyahudahandrews8504 trust me the park I’ll be walking around with. It’s a lot of women with big peaches and a triple D’s cup, but they got a face of a raisin.
There's this girl who when I'm walking on campus she always be on "why are u walking fast" when I'm actually walking at a normal speed, She done said this about 2 weeks ago for the 100th time(exaggeration) and as usual i just greeted her from afar and went on and then a stranger approached me immediately and said "when u hear a woman saying that she prolly want you to go over to her and talk to her", lol, prolly its not true but who's catching that without a heads-up...
Woman are like cats there always watching.. everytime im working around the yard or walking my dog i can just feel somebody watching me its built in my sub conscious so i lead by example
Just based off the title, I can personally say this is true I had a video of me practicing for a concert and they were all behind me, and a lot of the girls there that I would look in the eye face to face they usually didn’t do the same, but when I seen how many of them staring at me it kinda caught me off gaurd cause I stay out the way, so there for guys woman are paying attention to you but they don’t make it obvious cause they aren’t men, imma repeat woman are paying attention to you but they don’t make it obvious cause they are not men
Mother nature gave women 180° field of view. They can observe without moving their eyeballs. Men have maybe 15° That's why we don't notice anything beside us 😂😂😂
that's natural . people always checkin each other out. but i think it's important to not overthink about it. i disagree a little about the wording. " as soon as u step out the door YOUR ON" it sounds almost like oh you have to go into game mode. with that mindset it can actually make you be in your head. but if your taking steps to improve yourself , have read read, re -read and underlined sentences in nice guys and playas" you should be fine. assuming your working on your confidence, body, lifestyle and not creating stress for yourself if some days your just NOT feeling it. you'll get em next time. no one is perfect. i agree though you can't be on some weird stuff or goofy or creepy stuff. But I don't associate with anyone like that anyways
Oh I know when woman checking me out. I am very observant. I also see them in my peripheral checking me out, and I pretend I don't notice. Some can get pretty creative, one example which I thought was pretty good, what they will do is approach you out in public somewhere, strike up a chat, and then lead to asking you what area you live in, then tell you that they live in this area and every morning on a Saturday at 9am they grab a coffee at such and such place. I didn't pursue since I was not single at the time, but if I was single, I would have gone and met her for coffee. For me I was impressed by that, showed intelligence, and creativity. It works because it opens the door for you, you choose if you want to proceed, simple. Others are more obvious, usually when I am on my walks and runs, woman check me out when I walk past them, but I pay them no heed anymore. Its interesting as well that men are not affected by attention, even when we get attention from woman, we still don't think anything more about it and just go on our way.
That happens to me too. Girls be checking me out when I go for walks at the park. Some look at me from head to toe. Yeah sometimes I do look at them and they give me that flirty look but I dont smile or do anything I just continue walking.
I’ll be chilling at the club rockin to my own jam the whole night, and suddenly, women show up and make random comments. I had one pull up on me and grab my face and said she loved my moustache 😂 They are usually never the ones I want though, those ones play hard to get 😤
with me some women don't even hide it. I catch them staring and they continue to stare. I don't even be interested though so I look away or I'll keep lookin until they look away but ion want them in the end even if i look back
That's true. Last sunday at 4:30 am I was with some friends talking in a park right outside my house after a party we attendend. Two chicks came up to talk to us, one of them asked us where we lived, I responded where and she tells me "I always watch you from your window" I told her I always hid because I always felt somebody was watching me and then proceeds to tell me "Don't, I like to watch" She probably has watched me for years at this point Jajaja.
tbh i dont really have time to worry if a woman likes me or not anymore , if she cant be straight up i most likely wont catch it
So true, the other day I came back from work and my sister and her friend were at my house, I greeted them and her friend didn’t even look at me, she was looking away and had the most uninterested face ever, I didn’t mind it and kept doing my own thing, they too were leaving to go out. As soon as they leave my friend tells my sister “ugh your brother is so cute, maybe I should just date him”. That took me completely by surprise, I didn’t even think she was looking at me at all. So many women like guys but hardly ever make it known, it’s just hard to tell, I would have never known it if my sister didn’t tell me about it.
@@DavidHernandez-dk1zs yea I feel you has happened to me as well, at the end of the day we all got busy lives, and for women to place this expectation in 2024 on men having to do all the approaching is insane! I have heard women say they were completely into a guy they thought was attractive but they did everything in their power to act like they didn't even notice him, I don't have time for those type of games anymore, plus when a man becomes focused and on his purpose, Alot of women become straight up distractions anyway
Exactly
@@DavidHernandez-dk1zsbecause they know once you know they like you they wont be able to manipulate you and play games lol im telling you we really should do more studies on the female brain
Ironically, it takes balls for women to even approach men most of the time
This is why it’s very important for men to observe,read,listen to,and talk with women.
Women are fickle I hollered at a 55+ year old lady and still got rejected I mean she got options like that? I'm late 20's
@mrmillennium2697 There can be many reasons why she rejected. Theres alot of fine cougars and foxes out here, tho. And lowkey, i want one. Just gotta make a good impression.
just give up on women bro
@@elbuki4006 You are the type of weak,effeminate male that needs to stay far away from Rom Wills’ Channels.
@@mrmillennium2697Just because she’s older doesn’t mean she don’t have the right to reject you bro 🤣 maybe she do got options, maybe she just didn’t find you attractive 🤷🏾♂️ who knows just move on to the next
They’ll also emulate your personality,swag, and aura if they are in love with who you are
So true. Being insecure or unconfident is the biggest killer for a lot of men. Women will always make themselves available if they want to be. Make no mistakes, some of them be shy too. If you have to think about if she likes you or not, she probably doesn’t. You’ll know immediately when a girl is feeling you.
preciate dat
Yeah but some girls are feeling you but still not into you in the romantic way. Some girls hang only with guys and it's the same with dudes some of them only hang with females.
What’s worked for me since my early 20’s, is literally being you. Have good vibes, dress nice, smell good, be funny, be observant, listen more, speak less. Don’t be weird. Identify when it’s the right time to give your opinions on topics and make moves. Doing this has literally enabled more women to be attracted to me without doing too much. Don’t be all high and mighty, and act like your shit doesn’t stink. It’s all a chess game.
Dont forget. You gotta throw in borderline disrespectful lol, but in a humorous way.
The problem is men give women too much power im not saying look any kind of way but just be yourself and keep it moving what's meant to come in you're space will
Good point man.
Or just don’t even bother with getting in a relationship in the first place. Reason being is it ain’t worth it with these kind of women. If you want to get laid just pay an escort. Better than having to waste money on a date and not get anything in return in the long run.
Real talk fellas
@@jamesb8619Embrace the process of learning to navigate the field. Just like with women, you need to have the ability to discern the good seeds from the bad, and accept responsibility when you choose incorrectly.
Redpill and Feminism are two sides of the same coin.. that breed rigidity and an inability to coexist with the opposite gender.
@@BigWickEnergy_ Sure but it’s pretty easy to spot a “good” one though isn’t it? Regardless if it’s true or not upon further investigation?
I let the good ones I discern be for the good guys I discern. Because im not a good guy. I’ll be the first one to tell you that escorts will hurt you, at the very least ur wallet. I’m rigid but I do have the ability to share the planet with women because it’s not their fault.
Once you go to a certain point of desperation through insecurity, it’s hard to approach a woman and convince her that you are indeed a good man.
I’m not a good man, but I’m not necessarily a bad man either. I try to be ethical. So the answer for me at this point is to accept it and be celibate. And learn to live like a monk or something through meditation. As red pill as that seems.
Can’t tell you how many times . I’ve been at a club and one of my buddies pointed out to me that a woman was staring me down . They’re always subtle as hell
Same lmao
How better u looking how more obvious.. there are levels
@@Malitubee that’s one of the advantages of a wingman
Women look but it's hard to catch them looking. They do it quickly and swiftly 😂
If you ever go outside the USA Woman will chase you down especially if you are looking good.
They always look away when you catch them they rarely lock eyes some do but rarely lol
You can definitely catch them. You have to really be in tuned with your peripheral vision . As you're walking keep looking straight but use your peripheral to see if they're looking. They usually can't see that. Sometimes you can catch them in action. The best part is when you do catch them and they're stuck. Sometimes they'll put on a straight face other times they might smile (kinda like 'busted' you caught me).
@@stevemann1299 fax
Most of them are shy and intimidated by true masculine men
I love the double take where you meet eyes with them and y’all both look away and they look back at you to see if you were really looking at them and it wasn’t just a coincidence.
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I wish I got those haha 😂
If I only I was paying that much attention
Life is an Audition, whether we like it or not. Sounds exhausting, but it is what it is. Hell, if anything it should motivate guys to put their best foot forward, and view tomorrow as a new opportunity.
"Life is an audition, whether we like it or not." I like that quote so much I'm using it from now on.
We get only one chance at a good first impression (but more like 2: when they first see us/feel our energy, and when we open our mouth to talk).
@@debonairdevil1523 Ain't that the truth 💯 Yeah, feel free to use it, brother. It was said by one of my favorite elders. (former Broadway actress)
You deserve 1k or more likes minimum. This is the mindset required to be successful as a man today.
And you're re auditioning every morning you wake up with your gf or wife. If another man is putting on a better audition, he's going to get the part.
@@rabbithole8592 ‼
Just got two numbers this past weekend. It seems the universe is throwing em at me nowadays that I got my sh*t together lol
Yessir
Nice work g keep it up man
Always assume someone's watchin'... Cuz chances are, someone is
Yep I always say women are the best actors
Yes! My grandmother always said every shut eye isn’t closed 💯
I always feel like somebody’s watching meeee
@@McCoy27-t9eI’m in your walls 👹
@@chowder7498 I’m under your 🛌
She seen you takin the trash out and knows you have your own house, she def doing detective work
At least you have trash. And taking it out shows you are clean.
Its funny when you catch them checking you out and they try and act like they werent looking or they act like it was the worse thing that you caught them looking lol
More often than not, they wanted to be caught
@jwill9877 Very true. It's just funny when you do catch them and sometimes they act like it's the worse thing that could happen lol women are funny sometimes
it sure feels good to be checked out by women.
A woman’s that find u attractive make sure u see her and wll hold eye contact .. so yeah f they don’t they were just curious but not interested .. don’t why it’s funny
One of the hardest lessons I've learned is most definitely go with the woman that truly enjoys your company and actually desires you so many dudes trying to chase a female who don't even want you
Women sure be stealthily eyeing! 👀 That’s why I’m making sure I present my best self every time I leave the crib. Peace and blessings, Uncle Rom!
always. when im closing my car door bout to get in i see them lookin in my car window lol
Honestly I’m the opposite, I’ll go hit the store with a white t. I don’t need no superficial woman
Make sure you’re ultimately grooming yourself for you and not for the woman’s attention as men we have to be ok with not getting attention while looking our best that’s true mastery of discipline
@@oahts5906facts
@@oahts5906 This
You can catch em but they are suuuuuper sneaky. I only ever catch em at the gym mainly. They peek through machines. The won't look out in the open. They'll pick a machine across the whole gym. At an angle. Then they peek through the bars and plastic guards of a machine. You'd never catch em and even if you did... Theres always a sliver of doubt.
Jeez that’s so wild. Almost like stalker behavior. Thanks for the game tho.
This message is one of the ones closest to me. I embrace all of this. You really never know.
If you stay ready, you don’t have to get ready.
Yup they r scoping you out before you scoped them. I know girls who said i have seen you around forever. I'm like, i never seen you in my life
Women check on man's congruency by observing him when he is not aware that she is watching him.
Yes
Man it’s so heartening to see how healthy and strong you are looking!!! God is good! I’m so proud of his you have taken care of yourself.
There is this cute ass cashier at the grocery outlet. She was giving me the eyes since last year. I didn’t approach because I wasn't ready. Two days ago, she inserted herself by trying to bond with me over a video she thought was funny and wanted my opinion of it. I was not ready for that either but next time I'm gonna ask for her number and see where it goes
UPDATE: I folded. I was nervous. Hands were shaky and voice wasnt strong enough. I was going to push through but decided I needed to calm down. I had everything I wanted to say but couldn't say it confidently so I'll have to wait until next time. Crazy how I wasn't nervous all the other times but the moment I decide I want her I get anxious. Ugh! I will update for attempt #2.
I wanna know what happens bro
😂 man shout out to you bro for keeping it one thousand. It be like that sometimes
Good luck bro i feel you on being nervous and exited i was in a similar situation but i asked her for her number without really getting to know her and she said no
@@DoomGuySlayer96 sorry to hear that. All you can do at that point is self improve and move on. She'll probably be trying to get your attention at that point
@28lproductions38 I couldn't even count to 6. I owed $5.98 and had all ones in my pocket. I was so in my head bro that I just gave her what look like 6 dollars. She probably think I'm a slow ahh ninja giving her 5 lol. That's why I'm waiting a few weeks to a month so she can forget about that 😂
Big facts Unc Rom. I’m an instructor and I’ve had female students checking me out that I didn’t even realize. Few months back, had one tell me after she graduated her and her friend saw me from day one and were locked on me. They said I carried myself very professional and liked that I have waves and kept a clean appearance whole time I didn’t even know. She sent me a Facebook request immediately after graduating and told me. It’s crazy
What does it mean they liked that you “have waves”?
@@erko78 look up waves in hair
@@erko78it’s a black hairstyle lol
I have to work on my facial expressions because I come off as allegedly “mad or too serious” by women who been watching. It’s hard to fake smiles lol.
I feel that. A woman was just telling me that no one will know how beautiful my smile is because I never smile and look so intimidating. I’ll smile or laugh if something is funny or worth smiling about, but I can’t go around with a kool aid smile on my face. For what?
@adofominka8767 I hear you, bro. Why would I smile constantly just to make people feel comfortable? I will smile when I want, and I will have my normal facial expressions when I'm not smiling.
I can't fake smiles either.
@@adofominka8767if you are happy, show that by smiling. Women love it
@@omarr44_ nothing wrong with being/looking serious. You can give a smirk or small smile. If you overdo it, that can look out of character and seem like you're trying too hard.
This is very true I remember in high school a girl told me she would see me with my friends and I was confused bc I've never seen her when I was with my friends and I would ask her where and she was like "I just see you with your friends"
This is the truth. That being said if you have some off days, not at your best... just let it go. Because you don't want to be stiff and stuck in your head. Women keep men at their best which on a metaphysical is part of the feminine gift.
fr man. this video may actually make u overthink it. just be you. even if you don't feel the best that day oh well. u get em next time.
@banderas2000 I think we as men put to much pressure on our selves as you said we should just be ourselves but it's harder than it sound lol
Yup! Eyeballs always in the lookout!
I'm need to get better at this exactly, just yesterday at work a girl was checking me out but it was my coworker who noticed and said something
Absolutely right UNC we never know unless they are bold and come right out and say it
Women are always checking me out.
I’m 6’4, 240, Dark Mahogany, Educated, Intelligent, Handsome, Well Spoken, and I have Manners.
I’m also a Therapist, so I listen to Women speak their Minds & Hearts during our sessions.
Some of them feel comfortable enough to tell me how they think about our sessions between sessions.
I’m very aware of how women operate from my mother schooling me about how females work as a child, the rest I figured out from experience.
The Divine Feminine is Sacred & Holy, and also Nothing to Play With.
Therapist? Get a real job. Therapist. Unbelievable.
Come to Atlanta, you will overlooked for pookie despite all your attributes.
This is sooo true. The things is that us as men we forget it sometimes. Not only you should be natural but you should improve yourself and be aware of your surroundings. This is not just to attract women but your vibe can get you a new job or business opportunity
I go to two different park I got a cougar woman who walk in a group and she always asked me how is my day going I never spoke to this woman once but one day I introduce myself and just let the conversation flow. I’m not attracted to this woman at all but I pay attention when I see a woman show some type of interest in me
Yeah I understand most women I talk to aren’t gonna be my wife and I’m also serving women in our community through my job so it’s to improve my soft skills
@@garthyahudahandrews8504 you ever get that damn feeling when you see a super fine woman versus your average woman or that special woman who pulls you out of your shell, those type only come once a blue moon .
@@tyree9834 Yeah tthats very true no tthere hasnt been one since maybe College honestly i graduated 12 years ago. Maybe onee or two from work but yeah there isnt
@@tyree9834im goin through that now. And all i can think is, how am i gonna take care of this woman? I ain't got it.
On your job, school, parties, etcetera...If you've been around a certain female or females longer than a year and they compliment your looks or flirt all of a sudden, they've been peeping you for a while. They just finally found the courage to create an opening for you. Women do it like cats, though. Real sneaky with it. If you fumble the chance, another dude might take your spot. But if she REALLY likes you, she will make that clearly known.
Basically make yourself proud of yourself, that will shine in how you carry yourself, and then you start thinking "makes sense she is into me".
I gotta stop looking back at every girl when walking through the mall.....
Do it all the time
I'll never stop
Bro I cannot tell you how much I can relate to this anytime I see an attractive looking female I always look its an addiction bruv
@@johnrockyryanmen too bro. & what kills me is that there is just no benefit to the man. All it does it boost her ego. I have never got any pussy because I checked out a woman in public.
I don't give women validation
I’m on the autism spectrum. And my bros tell me that women check me out but I never notice. And they say that I’m good looking and when I try to look around no women look at me
Thats why we lift. To make ourselves more likely to be seen. That and because picking up and putting back down heavy circles is relaxing
Uncle Rom, Honestly, I’m serious most of the times…. I don’t really smile, unless I’m greeting a person or cracking a joke with certain people. Certain females (throughout my life) have asked:” Are you Always so serious?” To give you a better perspective….
I get that idk how to seem less serious without being completely unnatural just yet lol I’m introverted I’m always thinking about my emotions before I display them and that’s the look on my face but I do smile when taking
You should smile more. It will make you more attractive. Especially if you're just vibing with people.
Just not all hyper and loud and goofy like a lot of the young guys do. You just respond like "only when I want to be" or whatever and crack a smirk. But yeah if a woman's saying that you gotta lighten up
@@TravisTheMobileBarber don’t skip leg day they be watching the calf’s bro sometimes these women be thinking about a drumstick you the drum on the stick
@@ShootingStarz-j4jor they are just scared because they can’t read you lol
@@tyree9834 😂
" those who are purposely hard of hearing " lorddddd you too much ..i like that 😅
This is been happening the last few months at this gym I go to. I notice them noticing me, timing is very important. Most of those girls that are looking also have a boyfriend lol You just have to catch them at the right time. Thanks for wisdom Rom!! Peace and blessings
Real talk as always, Uncle Rom 💪🏽💯.... two women at a former local area casino I used to work at each said they used to check me out all the time. However, neither said anything initially at that time because both were married. Once they were no longer married (one divorced and the other unfortunately became widowed), ironically I ended up getting with both of them at different points in time.
Recovered like it never happened good stuff rom
The crazy thing is I get more women approaching when I’m looking bummy than when I’m fresh 🤦🏿 I’ve had women flirt with me hard when I look a mess but not when I’m fresh
Because you ain't trying too hard
Women also say the same.
Approaching or flirting?Big difference.
@@LARULES100 approaching
@@LARULES100 they have to approach to flirt
this is definitely spot on for sure. I haven’t forgotten a few years back when I was at a relatives get together for his birthday and he invited some of his friends acquaintances to join my family in this occasion. I was enjoying myself a good smoke from a cigar just hanging out and enjoying the city at that restaurant we booked up for his birthday and all that I know there was this cute white chick was checking out from a distance. and when it was just me sitting at the table for a good while the lady came up to me to strike up a conversation we just chopped it up for a while until she had to do something.
At first, I didn’t know, but she was checking me out because I was too busy having fun and notice, but that’s the name of the game You may never know for certain when or where to one will check you out because if you act a fool in and be goofy, then things won’t work out for you
Hmmm being funny and laughing around people is fine lol I could careless what they think because all my life people say I look serious or intimidating at first glance so you can’t win either way be yourself
I approve that it’s just that I’m talking about specifically does that throw tantrums when things don’t go their way or if a woman rejects them?
Looking good Rom. Glad you’ve bounced back since your incident. OG holding it down
What incident? What happened? Idk much about him but I’m curious.
All the guys who look for "choosing signals" never notice when women check them out. They claim they notice but in reality they don't. Most men in general even "players" don't notice unless they go talk to her
Looking strong on the recovery mode sir. God bless.👍🏽
Your right you never know in my situation I’m just hurt badly going through a lot I just pray that I get through what I get through I probably have women checking me out I just don’t pay attention I’m too hurt for it 💯
You should not only be looking good but you should also be ready to engage all the hot women you run into, not just the ones who were checking you out.
It’s weird I was thinking of this kind of video but in terms of women checking men out in the gym. Thanks UNCLE Rom
Be ready so you don't have to get ready.
Speaking facts bro, it’s this girl I be chilling with at my college and when we out and about she always talking about how she catches other girls checking me out. I know she can’t be lying cause she be getting mad about it but I had no idea women did cause I never seen or caught them myself.
this true rom, I’ve been having girls I had no clue about or I just thought they weren’t even paying attention to me start choosing me hard 💯
That is crazy, just yesterday, i was taking out the trash with a weighted vest on, then i left and rode by the neighbor chick, when she was all what was you wearing when you took out the trash. Wow
Haha you just described what happened to me at the gym. I work there so there are these two ladies (cousins) who'd been talking about me. One told the other I'm a handsome dude. Funny thing is that she never talked to me or even seemed to look at me. Long story she got my number and the rest is history.
@ectomorphnranger5165don't go there! 😂😂😂
100%. Everything you’re saying dude is 100% accurate. Just step out the door and it’s on. I’m 60 and live in a 55+ complex. There are women just waiting for my ass to pop out the door. Went out with a fresh cut and shades wearing a wife beater one day and a woman damn near dropped her groceries. You’re right about being consist too. I’ve made the mistake of being a goof ball somewhere and it followed me. It’ll ruin you from getting action even at this stage of life. And like you said, people are always looking out their windows and we forget that.
True story: years ago I worked in the mall at a shoe store. Lady who worked at the mall approached me and we started dating.
After a few months i asked her what attracted her to me and she said "I used to watch you straighten the shoes on the rack and i liked how you looked so focused and concentrated."
Mind you I NEVER NOTICED HER WATCHING ME.
They are ALWAYS watching you, so step out the house on point at all times.
Facts same here dawg…We both work at the airport & she been watching me for MONTHS but I already had something going on at the time but that shit broke off and she approached me and we been rocking ever since 💯
“Focused and concentrated”. That gets them every time.
she was actually stalking you for months.
@@kyloren8133 yep. I had no clue. This happens to a lot of guys and we have no idea.
@@Kinglion33333 yep. They be slick with it.
I legit just had something happen past Saturday, a friend of a friend slid in my DM’s. She didn’t say a word to me the whole time we were at this venue though, with mutual friends. I Never even knew she was peeping me .
Step out, show up, confident and being charismatic just being yourself, you never know who’s looking.🤷🏿♂️
Ain’t that the truth 😂 they’re always looking out. The only problem is where you’re not aware. Most guys miss a lot of choosing signals from women.
Maybe signals aren't enough
We don’t need signals, we want them to be straight forward
Choosing signals what is this a mating ritual? 😂
@@abdulshahib5429 true
Don’t worry to miss that.. f she find your appearance to be attractive she wil do everything to get your attention , u can’t miss it
I have noticed women work hard to not give eye contact when i’m in target and walmart, but when im at the checkout counter at dior or louis vuitton they go out of their way to give eye contact and will even come up and start talking
I always go outside casual but with a fragrance on just in case anyone comes up to me. Wise words! Had to subscribe after watching this video.
I upgraded a lot of things in my life, now i see them looking. I have to choose wisely tho. The one with a great soul and gorgeous. Juste like my mom !
And women always know when a man is checking them out.
Yeah but we men are super ridiculously obvious
Listening to u with the music in back is so chill
Yep that's true
I remember being at the pool with my boys, and i noticed this good lookin mom i was secretly checking her out but didn't think much about it in terms of talking to her or whatever. While i was sitting in the hot tub with my boys, i happen to look over at her and she was flat out straring at me and i caught her so hard and unexpected, it took her a second to look away! Id never had that happen to me, especially as a dad - but then again, I'm putting out different vibes out there now as a mature dad.
What happened with your wife or mother of kids lol?
It's so hard to catch a woman looking, peaking or taking a quick glance. Their eyes are so quick, if you do catch them they start looking at another item in the store!
Rom is correct 💯💯 I had LOTS of women who middle school and high school back in the day LOSE interest because I was being goofy and not being smooth...they told me later on in life or some I'd just SEE the attraction levels drop over time and I KNEW why now that I know better... work in progress here even still at 39 years young 💯💯
That polo is 🔥!!! Thanks for the game good sir
Like I heard from the great AMS: The streets are always watching
Same🫡
Malcolm X while attending Muhammad Ali vs Sonny Liston made a mental note of not getting to emotionally evolved in the fight. Because he knew people were watching and didn't eanna look like an idiot
Please Explain
@@en.4392didn’t want to get caught being overly dramatic about the boxing match. He and Ali were really good friends so it’d be easy to get emotionally involved.
@@414monii thanks
why, would malcolm x enjoying the fight make him look bad?
@@jayden-ce3dy do you see any head of states screaming like nut jobs at the Olympics?
lol there’s this old white woman who has a farm on the street next to my development. One day my mom tells me that she was talking to her and she says “ Is your son the guy with the nice arms walking everyday” she figured since we are one few black folk in area I just find that funny Rom is right 😂
@@garthyahudahandrews8504 trust me the park I’ll be walking around with. It’s a lot of women with big peaches and a triple D’s cup, but they got a face of a raisin.
@@tyree9834😂😂😂😂
You clapped didn’t you? My man!…. I’m kidding !!!
There's this girl who when I'm walking on campus she always be on "why are u walking fast" when I'm actually walking at a normal speed,
She done said this about 2 weeks ago for the 100th time(exaggeration) and as usual i just greeted her from afar and went on and then a stranger approached me immediately and said "when u hear a woman saying that she prolly want you to go over to her and talk to her", lol, prolly its not true but who's catching that without a heads-up...
Woman are like cats there always watching.. everytime im working around the yard or walking my dog i can just feel somebody watching me its built in my sub conscious so i lead by example
Just based off the title, I can personally say this is true I had a video of me practicing for a concert and they were all behind me, and a lot of the girls there that I would look in the eye face to face they usually didn’t do the same, but when I seen how many of them staring at me it kinda caught me off gaurd cause I stay out the way, so there for guys woman are paying attention to you but they don’t make it obvious cause they aren’t men, imma repeat woman are paying attention to you but they don’t make it obvious cause they are not men
Mother nature gave women 180° field of view. They can observe without moving their eyeballs. Men have maybe 15° That's why we don't notice anything beside us 😂😂😂
Brother Rom man you always speaking the truth. Straight facts🎯💯
My bro nodo ALWAYS mentions you're name and I finally found you!! #subbed
FACTS 🎯. They're watching and sneaking peeks when dudes not even aware😂💯💯💯💯💪🏾🧔🏾♂️
that's natural . people always checkin each other out. but i think it's important to not overthink about it. i disagree a little about the wording. " as soon as u step out the door YOUR ON" it sounds almost like oh you have to go into game mode. with that mindset it can actually make you be in your head.
but if your taking steps to improve yourself , have read read, re -read and underlined sentences in nice guys and playas" you should be fine. assuming your working on your confidence, body, lifestyle and not creating stress for yourself if some days your just NOT feeling it. you'll get em next time. no one is perfect. i agree though you can't be on some weird stuff or goofy or creepy stuff. But I don't associate with anyone like that anyways
Damn unc you really spittin out facts
My neighbour did this too while her husband sits at home watching Netflix and playing with their dog
Funny this pops up after I caught the cashier lookin at me 3 times and a 2 days ago I caught her again but I complimented her and got her smiling
Oh I know when woman checking me out. I am very observant. I also see them in my peripheral checking me out, and I pretend I don't notice.
Some can get pretty creative, one example which I thought was pretty good, what they will do is approach you out in public somewhere, strike up a chat, and then lead to asking you what area you live in, then tell you that they live in this area and every morning on a Saturday at 9am they grab a coffee at such and such place. I didn't pursue since I was not single at the time, but if I was single, I would have gone and met her for coffee. For me I was impressed by that, showed intelligence, and creativity. It works because it opens the door for you, you choose if you want to proceed, simple.
Others are more obvious, usually when I am on my walks and runs, woman check me out when I walk past them, but I pay them no heed anymore. Its interesting as well that men are not affected by attention, even when we get attention from woman, we still don't think anything more about it and just go on our way.
That happens to me too. Girls be checking me out when I go for walks at the park. Some look at me from head to toe. Yeah sometimes I do look at them and they give me that flirty look but I dont smile or do anything I just continue walking.
" A man chases a woman until she catches him" Never a truer word has been said!!!
I’ll be chilling at the club rockin to my own jam the whole night, and suddenly, women show up and make random comments.
I had one pull up on me and grab my face and said she loved my moustache 😂
They are usually never the ones I want though, those ones play hard to get 😤
I like the background music. It's a nice touch; makes the video seem like a conversation in a comfortable place.
Thanks unc🙏🙏 this was extremely helpful💯
Lmao shi just happened to me yesterday. Saw this girl for the first time and she telling me she’s seen me multiple times. Crazy
When I wake up in the morning it's Showtime 💪
with me some women don't even hide it. I catch them staring and they continue to stare. I don't even be interested though so I look away or I'll keep lookin until they look away but ion want them in the end even if i look back
When women are checking you out, it isn't always in admiration.
That's true. Last sunday at 4:30 am I was with some friends talking in a park right outside my house after a party we attendend. Two chicks came up to talk to us, one of them asked us where we lived, I responded where and she tells me "I always watch you from your window" I told her I always hid because I always felt somebody was watching me and then proceeds to tell me "Don't, I like to watch" She probably has watched me for years at this point Jajaja.
Those critters can get away with murder lol. You reverse the roles in that conversation and that's a federal case 😂
She a damn stalker 🤣 if she not fine im running
They've made it pretty clear they were checking me out on a lot of occasions, but not everybody is going to be that clear too.
Modern society is just giving into woman true desire, nothing wrong with that.
Thanks unc
Spot on!!
Don't ever be weak in front of her
This is deep game ✅