Drinking has nothing to do with which culture you believe in. It's all personal choices. I'm not a church goer, but I don't drink. I'm fine with casual drinking, but I don't condone alcoholic addictions.
I honestly feel sorry for folks who constantly waste 70% of their life in these party gatherings drinking their life away. These are honestly unhappy people who are so dependent on gatherings and liquor to find joy. MINNESOTA has a bad reputation for bad behavior. The state where Hmong folks go to destroy their lives and relationships.
This is why God says, do not give in to temptations. Once you do, you opened the door for the enemy and he's got a good grip on you. Smh. Always wear God's armour.
I’m sorry. I don’t drink either. So when I go to gatherings and they keep forcing me to drink, I get mad too. So now I don’t even go no more. People need to understand that just because u drink, everyone will drink too. Some people just choose not to drink and the other party should understand that. And this dude did a bad mistake by moving his wife to MN. If he knew she was being influenced by her friend he should have not moved there in the 1st place.
You really have to pick and choose your friends wisely. Don’t blame the state. I have wonderful cousins there that don’t hangout with the ghetto crowd that people talk bad about and they are doing way better than most of my cousins in Sac and Seattle. It’s just that in Minnesota, the Hmong people that don’t hangout with the ghetto Hmong people don’t really like to make new friends with new Hmong people unless they know of you well lol
Hate to say how these ‘Christian’s’ keep labeling themselves as goodie. I am married into one of the most hardcore Christians drinker! 😂 My new Christians family drink way more than my none Christians family. To the brother in the story: next time just say ‘You don’t drink.’
That was god calling you back. Pray that you continue to worship the lord and remember all the good things he’s done for you. You’re so lucky and you have a great husband.
It’s okay to drink even though u believe in God. But u do need to know ur limit. If u don’t want to go church anymore, it’s fine. God is everywhere. You can be anywhere and still able to connect with Him. U both can have fun with the world, that is fine too. But u both do need to know ur limit when to have enough and when to stay grounded.
Drinking has nothing to do with going to church. It is an individual decision. You are who you hang with. Let your wife do what she likes... she's not cheating. She's enjoying her one life until her health goes down. She's lucky you didn't divorce her otherwise she wouldn't have anyone to take care of her. Wish people stop forcing others to drink.
Mus church tabsis taug kev dav dav ces tsis yog ntseeg Vajtswv. Jesus said take the narrow patch. All those that take the wide patch will end in destruction. There is no problem in occasional drink for special occasions but the bible said not to get addicted to alcohol.
In these days, alcohol has destroyed our Hmong community big time. Honestly, I do not respect those people who said they respected me so they want me to start a round of drinking and forcing people to drink along. It’s the right of each individual and no one should have the right to over-ride; demand; and forcing others to follow and drink like him or her. This is a sick to the stomach. Our Hmong community will become an alcoholic one
Tsis mloog lus li koj niag pojniam no ces mob kuv yeej tsis k k tu li os. Tawm tsam yus tshaj plaws kom nws tus phoojywg uas nws hwm thiab hlub tshaj yus tuaj tu nws xwb mas cas koj tseem hlub na brother aw. Mloog koj hais txog koj niag pojniam no kuv twb npau taws rau nws lawm
It takes a major event like stroke to make a person stop partying and drinking. Your friends are true friends if they help you when you are down. Great story
It's ok to have some liquor here n there even if u go to church, but not go over board. You don't need to drink to have fun. If people can't drink or don't want to drink DONT FORCE.
I feel you frustration uncle. My husband and his brothers/brother in laws/relatives are the same. Drinking like there's no tomorrow & overkill. It's annoying, senseless and irresponsible.
I saw a show….it tells about ppl who R addicted to alcohol, they have a demon spirit attached to them constantly follows them everywhere n gives them cravings. That’s why it’s so hard to quit. It’s hard to believe. But there R things in this world our eyes can’t see that do exist.
Yog yus tsis haus ces tsis txhob mus koom lawv xwb yog mus txog lawm ces yeej yuav tau haus me me ua ntsej muag thiab ua qhov khw khw li koj tab si luag muab rau yus ib zaug yus cia li tsis haus tsis chiv tau tej phooj ywg haus ces koj tseem npaj nauj dhau lawm
Save yourself. Do not give into temptation. She's gotten 🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮. Time to look to your health and better choice. She's no longer of importance in your life. You deserve a better woman to build your life with.
Nej cov txiv neej no ces Phil tau cov poj niam laib lino xwb nej thiaj nyob taus 2 . Tau civ niam tsev zoo mas nej heev hlo xwb. Koj niag poj niam yog ib neeg ruam tsab ntse khaub ສັງຄົມ tsis yog ua poj laib.
Poj niam ces yog nws nyiam kev lom zem ces koj hos tsis nyiam thaum kawg ces neb lub neej mus tsis taus ua kev li ib nyiam lawm ib yam ces kawg bye bye xwb
Its called alcohol withdrawal. That's the symptoms she is having, especially for an alcoholic person. She just needs help, but first she needs to admit her addiction in order to get help.
Kuv yog koj ces ua txuj qaug es muab nws niag phooj ywg xyua ces nws pom yus zoo nraug lawm mas thiab neeg quav cawv ces tso ua ntej yus piam nrog. Cov es pheej comment tsis hau ces ruam no los xuam ua tus ruam zoo dua cov ntse no neej liam nawb.
True Christians, you should know... “Do not be bound together with unbelievers,” 2 Corinthians 6:14 You have the right to turn down alcohol or distasteful hobbies!!! I guess Live and Learn...SMH
Brother, your wife is a sinner. She has found the Devil in her friend, and she's become a demon now. It's time to strengthen your faith and recycle her. Do not let her lead you astray. Remember, Eve led Adam to sin. There is nothing good left in her anymore. Dumped her and divorced her. She's not worth the effort anymore.
Church or no Church, you have control to say yes or no. No one can make you drink. They want you to drink to respect them. What about them respecting you? Drinking is to relax and socializing with family and friends catching up. Hmoob drink like they’re in a fraternity, drink until you die. Grown adult acting like un- responsibility adults and parents. Especially drinking in front of user age children. Please change… Act your age. Brother your wife look at her friends & drinking more important than you. Your wife does not know what’s more important in life. Her friend Mai is her God & her everything . Mai drop her like it’s hot, & now cripple.
Koj tus poj niam ruam xwb. Yeej tsis muaj ib tus neeg twg yuav yuas (force) tau koj haus. I live in MN for over 26 years, and I never see Hmong unless I go to Hmong store. lol I don't drink and no one can force me to drink. No need to get mad. Once they see you declined few times, they just leave you alone and that's okay.
Your life is boring brother. That’s why she left. She would rather trade her life. That’s just how boring her life is. Don’t be a square. church People can drink, you just making your own rules.
You can go to church and drink, but it’s about how much you drink and what you do. Pick your friends wisely because they will be your downfall. That is across any religion or belief
I do believe that God above meant you for me to love He picked you from all the rest because He knows I will love best I had a heart once warm and true but it's gone from me to you To prove my love is true I'll go to hell with you Our Lord works in mysterious way I'm glad you didn't go to hell with her
Koj twb pom tias koj tus poj niam ua tsis yog lawm los koj tseem mus koom ua nrog thiab ces yus yeej ruam thiab. Yog ntse ces kav tsij khiav kom deb thiaj tsis tau thab tsob thaum muaj mob xwb.
Something to think about uncle, let her do her thing, just buy insurance, n collect later, woman like this won't live long,
Drinking has nothing to do with which culture you believe in. It's all personal choices. I'm not a church goer, but I don't drink. I'm fine with casual drinking, but I don't condone alcoholic addictions.
We need to hear more stories like to one so people can realize how much alcohol can impact life
I honestly feel sorry for folks who constantly waste 70% of their life in these party gatherings drinking their life away. These are honestly unhappy people who are so dependent on gatherings and liquor to find joy.
MINNESOTA has a bad reputation for bad behavior. The state where Hmong folks go to destroy their lives and relationships.
This is why God says, do not give in to temptations. Once you do, you opened the door for the enemy and he's got a good grip on you. Smh. Always wear God's armour.
I’m sorry. I don’t drink either. So when I go to gatherings and they keep forcing me to drink, I get mad too. So now I don’t even go no more. People need to understand that just because u drink, everyone will drink too. Some people just choose not to drink and the other party should understand that.
And this dude did a bad mistake by moving his wife to MN. If he knew she was being influenced by her friend he should have not moved there in the 1st place.
You really have to pick and choose your friends wisely. Don’t blame the state. I have wonderful cousins there that don’t hangout with the ghetto crowd that people talk bad about and they are doing way better than most of my cousins in Sac and Seattle. It’s just that in Minnesota, the Hmong people that don’t hangout with the ghetto Hmong people don’t really like to make new friends with new Hmong people unless they know of you well lol
Koj thov Vaj tswv Vaj tswv hais li cas rau koj yog koj tsis pab koj ces yeej tsis muaj neeg pab koj li os
Hate to say how these ‘Christian’s’ keep labeling themselves as goodie. I am married into one of the most hardcore Christians drinker! 😂 My new Christians family drink way more than my none Christians family. To the brother in the story: next time just say ‘You don’t drink.’
That was god calling you back. Pray that you continue to worship the lord and remember all the good things he’s done for you. You’re so lucky and you have a great husband.
True friends support and protect you from risks and dangers, not ones who pressure you to drink, smoke or do drugs.
Thaub no dag tiag cov ntseeg thiaj yog cov hau cawv loj thiab tham luag tej poj niam ho
Hahha thov vajtswv los tsis pab lawm os lol
Ruam li koj ces thaum kawg poj niam muab yus nrauj xwb
Brother aw, I feel you. Ntxhub thiab dhuav cov niag neeg quav dej quav cawv tshaj plaws li os. Tsis hais txiv neej los poj niam li, ntxim ntxub ib yam nkaus li os. Dhuav siab tiag2 li. Dhuav tshaj plaws li os.
Zoo mloog heev
Haha....plab zais zis zoo li lub plab qab taub 😂😂
It’s okay to drink even though u believe in God. But u do need to know ur limit. If u don’t want to go church anymore, it’s fine. God is everywhere. You can be anywhere and still able to connect with Him. U both can have fun with the world, that is fine too. But u both do need to know ur limit when to have enough and when to stay grounded.
It's all about BALANCE. this couple has no balance. one overdo alcohol. the other overdo being boring and always bring up church
He who Do not understand the seven deadly sins will live in misery and bring down everyone down with them.
Just because you go to church doesn't mean you can't have fun?? Thaub koj txhob ruam ruam. Have fun, be open-minded. Enjoy life!
Pom dej dag siab thiaj nqig
Drinking can ruin a marriage, but it's by choice. You are who you hang out with.
Yes. St. Paul is Hmong party city. Be careful out there
Drinking has nothing to do with going to church. It is an individual decision. You are who you hang with. Let your wife do what she likes... she's not cheating. She's enjoying her one life until her health goes down. She's lucky you didn't divorce her otherwise she wouldn't have anyone to take care of her.
Wish people stop forcing others to drink.
Its has nothing to do with religion, its call common sense!! I believe in the common sense god!!
Mus church tabsis taug kev dav dav ces tsis yog ntseeg Vajtswv. Jesus said take the narrow patch. All those that take the wide patch will end in destruction. There is no problem in occasional drink for special occasions but the bible said not to get addicted to alcohol.
She learned the hard way
In these days, alcohol has destroyed our Hmong community big time. Honestly, I do not respect those people who said they respected me so they want me to start a round of drinking and forcing people to drink along. It’s the right of each individual and no one should have the right to over-ride; demand; and forcing others to follow and drink like him or her. This is a sick to the stomach. Our Hmong community will become an alcoholic one
Tsis mloog lus li koj niag pojniam no ces mob kuv yeej tsis k k tu li os. Tawm tsam yus tshaj plaws kom nws tus phoojywg uas nws hwm thiab hlub tshaj yus tuaj tu nws xwb mas cas koj tseem hlub na brother aw. Mloog koj hais txog koj niag pojniam no kuv twb npau taws rau nws lawm
It takes a major event like stroke to make a person stop partying and drinking. Your friends are true friends if they help you when you are down. Great story
Cov niag neeg quav beer quav cawv no ces cia haus kom mob stroke kiag siab thiab li nqig.
Nws mus ntxis nws lub ceb xwb..nrog hlua nraug mus ce tsi nco los hauj lwm ne, poj niam tsi txim txiaj ce tham xwb twb paub lawm
You stuck by all that wow you are a true believer in God any woman would want.
Don't blame on her entirely. U were part of her drinking club for a minute there too.
Thaub aw! Tiam no ib tug ntseeg tsis coj li koj, thov txhob tias koj yog ib tug ntseeg no, rhuav cov neeg ntseeg poob ntsej muag nrog koj. Mus ua mebcab yog cab lawm lauj
😂😂😂😂😂 txaus luag kawg os.
Who are those big beverage producers? 😅😅😅.
Its yr fault for moving to st paul, u already know that she have bad alcoholic friend.
Why would u leave yr kids .
Haha I don’t drink beer cus too much liquid going in my stomach but I do shots😂. But I don’t drink like this woman in this story. I have my limits.
Mloog 😊😊😊😊
Beautiful picture of you hon.
It's ok to have some liquor here n there even if u go to church, but not go over board. You don't need to drink to have fun. If people can't drink or don't want to drink DONT FORCE.
I feel you frustration uncle. My husband and his brothers/brother in laws/relatives are the same. Drinking like there's no tomorrow & overkill. It's annoying, senseless and irresponsible.
I saw a show….it tells about ppl who R addicted to alcohol, they have a demon spirit attached to them constantly follows them everywhere n gives them cravings. That’s why it’s so hard to quit. It’s hard to believe. But there R things in this world our eyes can’t see that do exist.
Thaum kawg ces raug poj niam muab nrauj pov tseg ntag mas
Oh txawm mus ntseeg vaj tswv los yeej haus tau beer los mas. Yog yus txwv mas tej zaum thiab txhob haus kom crazy li koj tus niam tsev ma.😢
Yog yus tsis haus ces tsis txhob mus koom lawv xwb yog mus txog lawm ces yeej yuav tau haus me me ua ntsej muag thiab ua qhov khw khw li koj tab si luag muab rau yus ib zaug yus cia li tsis haus tsis chiv tau tej phooj ywg haus ces koj tseem npaj nauj dhau lawm
Cov phooj ywg haus cawv haus bière li no kuv los kuj tsis nyiam thiab
I can feel the frustration of this man. I used to be there. It was the worst time of my life.
😂 haus cawv/ beer ces happy happy xwb las 😂😂😂
😆😂🍺🍻🥂🍾🍹🍸🥃😂🤣
Koj twb tseem tu tu nws ces txhob complain
Tsis txawj haus bias haus cawv kom lom zem, haus kom tsuas tuag xwb as 😅
This story is funny, just learn how to have a good balance
Ruam li koj thiab ces kawg ruam mus xwb
Save yourself. Do not give into temptation. She's gotten 🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮. Time to look to your health and better choice. She's no longer of importance in your life. You deserve a better woman to build your life with.
Nej cov txiv neej no ces Phil tau cov poj niam laib lino xwb nej thiaj nyob taus 2 . Tau civ niam tsev zoo mas nej heev hlo xwb. Koj niag poj niam yog ib neeg ruam tsab ntse khaub ສັງຄົມ tsis yog ua poj laib.
Poj niam ces yog nws nyiam kev lom zem ces koj hos tsis nyiam thaum kawg ces neb lub neej mus tsis taus ua kev li ib nyiam lawm ib yam ces kawg bye bye xwb
Tus poj niam liam li no thaum kawg ces bye bye mws xwb txoj kev uas tsis mloog luag tej hais ces thaum kawg nws mam kawm nws thiaj ua tau neeg zoo xwb
lol should never take her to Minnesota
All I know is if you are a christian we don’t drink alcohol,beer at all.
Its called alcohol withdrawal. That's the symptoms she is having, especially for an alcoholic person. She just needs help, but first she needs to admit her addiction in order to get help.
Tim koj xwb os koj yeej paub lawm tias los raws tus qub phooj ywg ces yeej yuav zoo li no. Koj twb txiav txim siab los lawm ces kav tsij yoog koj poj Niam xwb. Nws hais Yog lawm. Txhua tuas poj Niam yeej xav Li koj poj Niam.
Cov poj niam xuab qaug cawv tej lub sij hawm nws twb mag hmoob muab nws txiag tom hoob nab lawm koj twb tsis paub.
Yog muaj plus npaum niag poj laib no ces muab nws xuas kom txaus kiag xwb mas
Don’t know what this guy is talking about. I have a lot Christian friends drink.
Abbbbbb....tu txiv tsev wb ib niam txiv nyob hauv St.Paul no tau 40 xyoo lawm wb tsis mus club li as....wb nyob li normal xwb...
God can't help you buddy
Kuv yog koj ces ua txuj qaug es muab nws niag phooj ywg xyua ces nws pom yus zoo nraug lawm mas thiab neeg quav cawv ces tso ua ntej yus piam nrog. Cov es pheej comment tsis hau ces ruam no los xuam ua tus ruam zoo dua cov ntse no neej liam nawb.
True Christians, you should know... “Do not be bound together with unbelievers,” 2 Corinthians 6:14 You have the right to turn down alcohol or distasteful hobbies!!! I guess Live and Learn...SMH
Cov mus church ces cuab ntse ntse kawg li thaum kawg ces hos poob ntsej muag li yog luag hais ntau ces hos npau taws thiab koj yeej ruam dhau lawm
Npav lub thov Vaj tswv xwb es yuav ua cas tau noj na niag vwm es
this is the entire story from the secret channel....
I can't with hmong people plus alcohol. Relax and take it easy. Alcohol abuser make alcohol tau lub npe phem.
Drinking has nothing to do with religion. I don’t go to church and I don’t drink. I have friends who go to church that drink a lot of alcohol.
Brother, your wife is a sinner. She has found the Devil in her friend, and she's become a demon now. It's time to strengthen your faith and recycle her. Do not let her lead you astray. Remember, Eve led Adam to sin. There is nothing good left in her anymore. Dumped her and divorced her. She's not worth the effort anymore.
Nej cov hmoob lawb dab mas ua thaj khw khw tab si ruam heev li os
She almost water up dead
Alcoholics
Church or no Church, you have control to say yes or no. No one can make you drink. They want you to drink to respect them. What about them respecting you? Drinking is to relax and socializing with family and friends catching up. Hmoob drink like they’re in a fraternity, drink until you die. Grown adult acting like un- responsibility adults and parents. Especially drinking in front of user age children. Please change… Act your age. Brother your wife look at her friends & drinking more important than you. Your wife does not know what’s more important in life. Her friend Mai is her God & her everything . Mai drop her like it’s hot, & now cripple.
U love her but u enable her to hang out with the wrong crowd n to develop bad habits at the beginning. Should not have moved over there
Koj tus poj niam ruam xwb. Yeej tsis muaj ib tus neeg twg yuav yuas (force) tau koj haus. I live in MN for over 26 years, and I never see Hmong unless I go to Hmong store. lol I don't drink and no one can force me to drink. No need to get mad. Once they see you declined few times, they just leave you alone and that's okay.
Tsis hais poj niam los txiv neej, tus neeg ruam tsis muaj tswv yim lim hiam rau leej twg npaum li tus neeg ntse tab sis tus ntse yooj yim khom lus nrog dua tus ruam.
Time for a divorce...your kids are grown....
Koj yeej ua rhuav ntsej muag dhau lawm li koj poj niam hais lawm vim koj yog ib tug neeg txiv tsev es tseem ruam li koj ces kawg mag koj poj niam muab nrauj pov tseg xwb
CSS koj tseem tsis xuas ncaws taws rau niag poj laib no na
Your wife level of drinking is out of control lol
Koj tes mus yaim xwb lo mas
Your life is boring brother. That’s why she left. She would rather trade her life. That’s just how boring her life is. Don’t be a square. church People can drink, you just making your own rules.
He not a true believer. Jesus said to turn the other cheek.
Poj niam ruam
Sorry you have compromised your faith, your Christianity belief and your love for Jesus Christ. The story of Adam and Eve fit perfectly with your.
Mab koj pua yog thiab mas ?
You are a low cleac husband 😅
Alcoholic people. If they don't like to drink, then let them be. I guess lesson learned for this lady.
You can go to church and drink, but it’s about how much you drink and what you do.
Pick your friends wisely because they will be your downfall. That is across any religion or belief
I do believe that God above meant you for me to love
He picked you from all the rest
because He knows I will love best
I had a heart once warm and true but it's gone from me to you
To prove my love is true I'll go to hell with you
Our Lord works in mysterious way I'm glad you didn't go to hell with her
Koj twb pom tias koj tus poj niam ua tsis yog lawm los koj tseem mus koom ua nrog thiab ces yus yeej ruam thiab. Yog ntse ces kav tsij khiav kom deb thiaj tsis tau thab tsob thaum muaj mob xwb.