Your Short Term Goals Are Causing Anxiety

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  • Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
  • You may not even realize it but the short term goals you are putting pressure on yourself to achieve could actually be causing you a ton of anxiety. You're thinking in days and weeks when you should be setting goals in months and years. The short term goals create unnecessary pressure on you and are really won't matter in the long term. Set one or two long-term goals for yourself and figure out how you can achieve those goals in the next 10 or more years.
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Комментарии • 118

  • @RobJenkinsDubTechno
    @RobJenkinsDubTechno 4 года назад +139

    "You're judging yourself in the micro, rather than macro". Great quote Gary. See the long-term picture, but take small steps every day.

  • @marquearistocrat3754
    @marquearistocrat3754 4 года назад +165

    That girl is so damn gorgeous

    • @jordanroyal9762
      @jordanroyal9762 4 года назад +1

      Mhmm.. Damn right.

    • @OmoruyiOmofonmwan
      @OmoruyiOmofonmwan 4 года назад +16

      Of course she is, she is from Barcelona.

    • @missionpupa
      @missionpupa 4 года назад +8

      Ok thirsty boy

    • @rishabhchak
      @rishabhchak 4 года назад

      @@OmoruyiOmofonmwan so Barcelona girls are the prettiest

    • @levoyageur1002
      @levoyageur1002 4 года назад +3

      Just came to see this exact comment

  • @ola3rd
    @ola3rd 4 года назад +28

    Lmao why would they leave in the part with the girl calling him out on saying 10 years 😂

  • @onedudesopinion6197
    @onedudesopinion6197 4 года назад +27

    This was really eye opening for my. I’ve suffered from anxiety for a long time now. I recently made my own video suggesting tips on what I do to manage it. I never made the correlation between the pressure I put on myself to achieve the short term goals and the anxiety I feel. Thank you Gary V for more awesome life advice.

  • @GroundbreakGames
    @GroundbreakGames 4 года назад +28

    "He who has a why can survive any how."

    • @sanjeevkushwaha4043
      @sanjeevkushwaha4043 4 года назад +2

      Copied from Victor Frankl book "Man search for meaning"

    • @GroundbreakGames
      @GroundbreakGames 4 года назад +3

      @@sanjeevkushwaha4043 Copied? That's why it's in quotes then? Lol

    • @sanjeevkushwaha4043
      @sanjeevkushwaha4043 4 года назад +1

      @@GroundbreakGameshahaha 🤣 🤣🤣 🤣🤣 🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @baboushko
    @baboushko 4 года назад +39

    X : i have a problem with my pan vegetables stick should i use olive oil ?
    Gary: it’s your mom *chewing*

  • @bagrbuckcustomhydrographic5697
    @bagrbuckcustomhydrographic5697 4 года назад +76

    Long term goals are the only reason I get up in the morning now. The belief that I will be successful will lead me towards the steps I need to take to be successful. Thank you Gary!

    • @KenTheAdventurer
      @KenTheAdventurer 4 года назад +3

      That and I get to wake up to some delicious breakfast everyday umumum

    • @infiniity5529
      @infiniity5529 4 года назад +2

      Bag R Buck Custom Hydrographics yes but sometimes you need to achieve short term goals to get to the long term ones.

  • @CaseyBurnsInvesting
    @CaseyBurnsInvesting 4 года назад +88

    Seems like he means having a long term “why” rather than only having goals/deadlines and I can see that. Great video

    • @missionpupa
      @missionpupa 4 года назад

      Hes literally talking about goals. Hard, real, concrete goals. For him, its the jets.

  • @unmiss-com
    @unmiss-com 4 года назад +4

    People are looking for good advice on how to get quick results.
    Quick results?
    They don't exist.
    Stop looking at them.
    Stop worrying that you haven't achieved success.
    Anxiety is your enemy.
    Expectation discourages you.
    Work hard and smart that you like to do.
    Don't wait for the results anymore.
    There is no particular deadline.
    Once achievements will come.

  • @easton3152
    @easton3152 4 года назад +12

    I’ve had the same problem since I was 22. I started to be ashamed for where I was in life and it gave me a lot of problems. A friend referred me to you and you helped give me perspective on how long it might take to find your way in life. I’m 25 now and I’m at peace with my goals and my future.

    • @akunbuku4954
      @akunbuku4954 4 года назад

      Thankyou for sharing this : )
      What do you do to feel peace about the future ?

  • @BrendenWalters
    @BrendenWalters 4 года назад +29

    Patience is Key! 😁

  • @ScottSwalwell
    @ScottSwalwell 4 года назад +9

    Long term goal with short term actions. For example your goal is to win a game of chess or a basketball game but there are steps/a strategy to get there

  • @timcj8375
    @timcj8375 4 года назад +20

    I think she said that you said about 10 years ago that you'd buy the Jets eventually?😂
    Think Gary misunderstood or I did lmao

  • @MichelWaldhof
    @MichelWaldhof 4 года назад +6

    Man , I can only agree, Worrying is our number one problem in our privileged society these days. I hope this year we can judge each other less so people can get a move on in their life.

  • @Gringavaitecontar
    @Gringavaitecontar 4 года назад +1

    I dont think that he acutally answered her question .......

    • @Sk_isthename
      @Sk_isthename 4 года назад

      What should be the Answer ? Share your point of View !!

  • @juhajuppi1920
    @juhajuppi1920 4 года назад +5

    man... I thought I had heard everything from Gary, but he actually gave it in a different perspective for me. wow - I love this

  • @annastayziaa
    @annastayziaa 4 года назад +1

    I really needed this reminder. Thank you🙏🏻❤️

  • @EngRazan
    @EngRazan 4 года назад +6

    I love ❤️ Gary so much I wish to meet him

  • @Mauricio44
    @Mauricio44 4 года назад +5

    Woah. I'll need to watch this a few more times to get it. Everything Gary says resonates with me instantly but this one hits hard, I mean my short term goals have always been my way of keeping up with the micro speed I plan to have. Dunno, I somehow know he's right but I need to give it some thought

    • @MoonKing-ih1pv
      @MoonKing-ih1pv 4 года назад

      Barnum effect...

    • @Mauricio44
      @Mauricio44 4 года назад

      @@MoonKing-ih1pv It's true what they say about learning something everyday, huh? I guess we are all like that after all

    • @littlemushie
      @littlemushie 4 года назад

      Yeah there's short term goals I need to accomplish before I can reach my long term ones. I need to finish school to get the job I want, meaning I need to pass my classes, meaning I need to finish these assignments. All important short term goals I need to focus on first before I get to my long term ones. I don't think that has anything to do with generalized anxiety disorder.

  • @IrvOfficial
    @IrvOfficial 4 года назад

    Anxiety is feel about something that may never take place

  • @nikosniko7092
    @nikosniko7092 4 года назад +3

    I love Barcelona...I just booked a ticket after I heard her speak....Cheers

  • @ZohirHamid
    @ZohirHamid 4 года назад

    i think you need to have Long term goal with short term actions Based goals, if not how do you know if you are on the right path or not, you can easily get distracted and boom 10 20 Years goes and you will find yourself far away from your long term goal, Judging your self or not is a Mindset for me every time i don't accomplish a short term goals, with a pen and paper i'll try to know where did i fail and how i can improve.

  • @jordantony1796
    @jordantony1796 4 года назад +1

    Same shit all the time

  • @DrAdnan
    @DrAdnan 4 года назад +1

    It’s hard to have patience and think long term

  • @pranaysawarkar5953
    @pranaysawarkar5953 4 года назад +1

    I think making short term goals is important to grow urself and push ur limits to achieve that goals certain period of time. After achieving goals then u will set more goals. This is my opinion about short term goals.

  • @thekarimsidibe
    @thekarimsidibe 4 года назад +3

    Long time since I’ve watched a video, always refreshing!

  • @rbq426
    @rbq426 4 года назад

    I have short term goals that I feel need to help get financially stable and raise my credit score. I used to think long term all the time, but I was getting no where. I was depressed because I didn't know what to do next, I didn't have any plans for money like I do now. I just want a place to live, pay my bills doing something I like, and getting my credit score up. I feel like this phase is so hard and long.

  • @TonyGastonLive
    @TonyGastonLive 4 года назад +1

    Great way to start your morning ☀️ Thanks team!

  • @littlemushie
    @littlemushie 4 года назад

    I have to disagree. There's short term goals I need to accomplish before I can reach my long term ones. I need to finish school to get the job I want, meaning I need to pass my classes, meaning I need to finish these assignments. These are all important short term goals I need to focus on first before I can reach my long term ones. I don't think that has anything to do with generalized anxiety disorder.

  • @MornevanWykSubscribe
    @MornevanWykSubscribe 4 года назад +1

    I have youtube goals and i believe in them

  • @willmontgomery8843
    @willmontgomery8843 4 года назад

    people know gary better than gary knows gary...lol Check out 1:03.

  • @CodySteckRealEstateVideos
    @CodySteckRealEstateVideos 4 года назад +12

    Man is this content legit or what!! This hits hard for sure. Gary has been instrumental in establishing my mindset when it comes to business and success. It’s so important to remember this in real estate and here on RUclips with my growth.

  • @helloworld7080
    @helloworld7080 4 года назад +1

    Didn’t revise my exams yet, and 4 more days to go 😂this video is doing the opposite of what I was searching for 😂

  • @dbridgecfc9494
    @dbridgecfc9494 4 года назад

    Nice video Gary you just got a new sub you deserved it

  • @doubyseide
    @doubyseide 4 года назад

    This is such a good video. We judge ourselves too much for real. Happiness is key!

  • @cantseeshadow
    @cantseeshadow 4 года назад +4

    With this mindset many will fail.
    Heres why.
    Their Longterm goal will always be in the back of their mind throughout the day because we as humans don’t value our time until time is running out and our objective is nearing a deadline. But if one sets small daily goals, or even weekly goals towards their ultimate goal, slowly but surely, you will get there. For example, the college student who has an exam a week from now sets studying aside because he has no strict daily/weekly routine to study. He waits until the last day(s) and tries to cram everything in his brain and then wonders why he’s a thread away from failing.

  • @rayraynjny
    @rayraynjny 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Gary. Wonderful insight... Thanks for developing me.

    • @rayraynjny
      @rayraynjny 4 года назад

      What u said is echoing me... Thank you, I appreciate and value your Time

  • @MonroeSim
    @MonroeSim 4 года назад +1

    That girl is cute as hell

  • @KarimaKhan
    @KarimaKhan 4 года назад +1

    thank you, Gary. I needed to hear this.

  • @patrikpreradovic9943
    @patrikpreradovic9943 4 года назад

    aaaand she went back to her old self

  • @AndrewHedlund100
    @AndrewHedlund100 4 года назад

    Just eat some fruit and relax

  • @leoganzipschitzcoff2026
    @leoganzipschitzcoff2026 3 года назад

    Sounds like a load of s*** to me

  • @ankitkalavagunta8951
    @ankitkalavagunta8951 3 года назад

    You hit the nail on the head Gary. Shitty workplaces make you too focused on short term weekly/daily goals and cause anxiety. Screw them.

  • @rommix0
    @rommix0 4 года назад

    I agree with this somewhat. I think instead of short term goals being goals themselves, they should be short term goals toward a long term goal.

  • @janec.kowalczyk5824
    @janec.kowalczyk5824 4 года назад

    It's so true. That was #epic advice @garyvee 🙌
    I needed to hear that & be reminded.
    Thank you--I'm grateful 😊❤

  • @humaboutique2
    @humaboutique2 4 года назад

    Thank you so much, this helped me SOOOO MUCH!!!!

  • @infiniity5529
    @infiniity5529 4 года назад

    Short term goals could be anything from passing your driving to getting a job. It’s things that need to be accomplished so everyone has some sort of short term goal.

  • @Latigo
    @Latigo 4 года назад

    Mirala a la Montse hablando con el Gary.

  • @adrianorizzopt
    @adrianorizzopt 3 года назад

    This aged well for me 🤣

  • @GanggsterR
    @GanggsterR 4 года назад

    This girl looks familiar..is she frequently in your video?

  • @TARALEELive
    @TARALEELive 4 года назад +1

    DEEP wow... very deep ❤👍

  • @taruntushil
    @taruntushil 4 года назад

    most of the ppl stuck with their short terms gains & goals 💚 garyvee

  • @rudolph1899
    @rudolph1899 2 года назад

    Shes beautiful

  • @GenuineVibesOnly
    @GenuineVibesOnly 4 года назад

    You changed the way I think Gary Vee.. let's go Jets ..

  • @victoriannecastle
    @victoriannecastle 4 года назад

    Sport teams are going to be expensive as the years pass but I hope Gary will be able to buy the jets

  • @rzlb5
    @rzlb5 4 года назад

    Gary, you and we should think about life after funeral too.

  • @Idhedoj
    @Idhedoj 4 года назад

    Wow revealing

  • @65tttttttttttttttful
    @65tttttttttttttttful 4 года назад

    Fucking solid

  • @loukes116
    @loukes116 4 года назад

    Jeez that girl looks like Alessandra Mastronardi so much.

  • @Sk_isthename
    @Sk_isthename 4 года назад

    This Girl So Much Looks Like My GF 😍😘

    • @DevDevi
      @DevDevi 4 года назад

      You wish.

  • @PassiveIncomeTom
    @PassiveIncomeTom 4 года назад +7

    *Have a long term goal broken down by short term goals. Your anxiety is gone.* 😉

  • @pr5pr
    @pr5pr 4 года назад

    whats her ig

  • @rajunaidu7751
    @rajunaidu7751 4 года назад

    People overestimate the short term and underestimate the long term

  • @Sk_isthename
    @Sk_isthename 4 года назад

    I Am In Love With This Girl 😥😪

    • @Sk_isthename
      @Sk_isthename 4 года назад

      @L D Bcx She Looks Like My GF 😂

  • @theellenpham
    @theellenpham 4 года назад

    Super important to focus on your long-term vision and play the long game.

  • @hisenberghuestain5547
    @hisenberghuestain5547 4 года назад +3

    Stop stopping judgement... It's called being human .. natural

  • @Chriscrossapplesauce
    @Chriscrossapplesauce 4 года назад

    Pressure.

  • @eunlee5416
    @eunlee5416 4 года назад

    is it me or does gary looks really young in this one

  • @brandon6750
    @brandon6750 4 года назад

    2:15

  • @RyRobio
    @RyRobio 4 года назад

    Straight facts

  • @ChastityFaye1
    @ChastityFaye1 4 года назад +3

    Who else clicked fast af? ❤️❤️
    I make short comedy skits 🔥❤️🙏🏽

    • @TARALEELive
      @TARALEELive 4 года назад +1

      Lol 💯 u know it!!! 😜

    • @MichelWaldhof
      @MichelWaldhof 4 года назад +1

      Chastity Faye we’re on fire 🔥

    • @TARALEELive
      @TARALEELive 4 года назад

      @@MichelWaldhof Cheers, You Know it!!! Here's to the truth!!! 🔥🔥🔥✌

  • @YouAndImpact
    @YouAndImpact 4 года назад

    Great Video👍🏻

  • @gilbertbarrier960
    @gilbertbarrier960 4 года назад

    Great one, thank you

  • @mahmoud.3omar
    @mahmoud.3omar 4 года назад

    It will be quit 😌

  • @aspiringwellness8972
    @aspiringwellness8972 4 года назад

    This is gold* 💚

  • @adamwest5112
    @adamwest5112 4 года назад

    Very interesting

  • @TrendingTopicSeries
    @TrendingTopicSeries 4 года назад

    Excellent tip! 💪

  • @barbieg7718
    @barbieg7718 4 года назад

    True

  • @sraptes
    @sraptes 4 года назад

    Let’s execute 💎

  • @pomeroymeilleur2770
    @pomeroymeilleur2770 4 года назад

    i need help trading crypto

    • @sophiewhitehouse956
      @sophiewhitehouse956 4 года назад

      Emelia Bergman can help you

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      @josephbryson944 4 года назад

      @@sophiewhitehouse956 everyone is always talking about Emelia when it comes to trading, she must be amazing

    • @pomeroymeilleur2770
      @pomeroymeilleur2770 4 года назад

      @@sophiewhitehouse956 how can i get in touch , conatct?

    • @sophiewhitehouse956
      @sophiewhitehouse956 4 года назад

      @@pomeroymeilleur2770 her watapp *(+1(716)495-3214)*

    • @sophiewhitehouse956
      @sophiewhitehouse956 4 года назад

      @@pomeroymeilleur2770 her INSTAGRAM page official_emelia_bergman

  • @AldyPradana17
    @AldyPradana17 4 года назад

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Budhaworld
    @Budhaworld 4 года назад +1

    Beautiful mssg Gary 💯 and that girl was gorgeous !