That right there. Keep it simple. She’ll let you know. I used to wonder am I missing the signals? Well no I wasn’t. She wasn’t into me so I didn’t see any😊. Seriously. I kept complicating it but truthfully I’ve had some dates end and it’s game on. I had to do nothing. She almost kissed me first. Then some where I am looking for the signs that weren’t there cause she wasn’t interested. Doesn’t always mean you fucked it up. Although I have at times. Experience tells me she didn’t like me like that. Just keep it simple and have some fun. You in the moment is far more interesting than anything you could pre plan to impress a girl. If she don’t like you? There’s 4 billion others. That and it all happens how it’s supposed to. You be you cause there’s only one in the whole world and that makes you fricken awesome 😎
not really, or at least not always.. I've know a LOT of women who were drooling over some hot guys, but they never actually threw any choosing signals to them, because they were too intimidated.. Men are simpler, women are not. Yes, some girls are gonna be pretty obvious, but If you're hot/attractive, most girls are gonna think you are a player, unfaithful, and a jerk... thus, they won't always let you know they're into you, because they don't wanna inflate your ego. Most girls play hard to get, even MORE with hot guys, cause it's harder for her to trust him. I've seen it in other dudes, and I've experienced it first person. Also, the typicall she-friend you had for years and one day she just admits she was in love with you at college but never told you, and you never noticed, because she didn't give signals.. cause she thought you weren't gonna take her seriously.. it happens all the time.
@@Nsdus5676 not really, or at least not always.. I've know a LOT of women who were drooling over some hot guys, but they never actually threw any choosing signals to them, because they were too intimidated.. Men are simpler, women are not. Yes, some girls are gonna be pretty obvious, but If you're hot/attractive, most girls are gonna think you are a player, unfaithful, and a jerk... thus, they won't always let you know they're into you, because they don't wanna inflate your ego. Most girls play hard to get, even MORE with hot guys, cause it's harder for her to trust him. I've seen it in other dudes, and I've experienced it first person. Also, the typicall she-friend you had for years and one day she just admits she was in love with you at college but never told you, and you never noticed, because she didn't give signals.. cause she thought you weren't gonna take her seriously.. it happens all the time.
Being alone after turning 30 years old (once you dated multiple people) is the best. I get to do all the things that annoyed my partners, without having to explain myself and be miserable. No more mind reading, attitudes, having to back and forth on any decisions, people with problems that dont want real solutions. I can now work in peace, do my hobbies in peace, visit my mom and friends in peace, no more texting "ill be late", feeling bad im spending time with my friends/family, no more having to "re assure" someone, even though we are married and I dont speak with any other female. Its freeing. Once you understand that you are going to die one day, and no matter how much in put into a relationship, that person can walk away from you if they dont like one decision that you made, its real. All that time and money wasted. If you are reading this, know that you are a king to your family and you are loved, dont let them manipulate you into feeling sad, you have soooo much to give.
You never had to do any of that in the first place lol. You let your girl pimp you. It's a good thing that you're alone now though to learn how to be happy with yourself. Now get your balls back.
@@steelreserve9050 yeah I heard girls see it as a red flag if you have a relationship with your mom. stuff that's becoming normalized is not normal... its no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society
That's the same with me. I already have kids. I even ask these women what they bring to the table, and they only respond with 3 things. I have 20 things I execpt to be brought at least. I have so much to offer more than they realize.
I understand the important purpose of relationships, but if you are single long enough and nothing is working, it makes perfect sense to give up. Just focus on other relationships like friends or family, since you cannot really make others be attracted to you,at least be a good son/uncle/person. Sure, money or success will never replace such thing as relationships, but you can have a comfortable life to cope. Kind of like palliative care. I indeed prefer to be rich and depressed than depressed and poor too.
I was at the bottom and no one was interested in me so I tried my best to level up . Now people are jealous, woman get insecure around me and don’t want anything to do with me… I don’t know why but it seems like I’m cursed when it comes to dating. Or maybe it’s a blessing but I’m actually running out of patience unfortunately…
it's common.. when you become a higher value man, women start to feel insecure around you, and (specially if you get hotter and more attractive), they start thinking you're a player, a jerk, unfaithfull, and think you're not gonna take them seriously, so even if they're drooling over you, they rarely ever gonna show it.. and if you try anything, they gonna play hard to get, even MORE than with average guys.. I'm speaking from self experience.. it's lonely at the top.. I had way more sex and women when I was an average looking broke dumbass lol
The whole success with women industry is trying to do the impossible - to give value to men without any value - you have to get value or forever consume success content
Even the simple statements like "it doesnt come naturally to all guys" or "like a black belt relearning the fundamentals" is very reassuring in itself. Its a reminder that we are very relatable and part of a community. A sense that is highly lacking these days to many, especially isolated persons. This is a good thing that you are doing and this is a great channel for men.
great video...... still quit dating tho... it's just not woth my time anymore... 99% women today are worthless for a relationship, they are just a burden.. I'm so sorry for saying this. I know it sounds sexists, I know it's too sad... I refused to believe it for years.. but I just gave up. It's true, no matter how much you don't want to face the truth.. Dating is obsolete now. I'm not happy with this. I wish it wasn't like that.. I wish life could be like it was 10 or 20 years ago. But it changed. And I'm done. I'm sorry Danny.
Yeah 99% is a little high but honestly it's not worth the trauma of sifting through the duds to find the good one. Are women out here watching videos like this to learn how to get men? LOL. There's a hwhole industry dedicated to 'helping' men succeed, whereas women just kind of get to exist. It's a race to the bottom.
I am almost at the point of giving up on dating... Most women are not worth it... They don't want to be team players... What I ask for and what I get.. the juice simply just does not seem to be worth the squeeze..
@@Jays_Highway It isn’t ! I’m 43 now and I’ve been wasting my time trying to find a meaningful relationship since I was 23 !! Within that time dating has become progressively worse and seriously declined ! Most guys now feel the same way ! Concentrate on yourself to find happiness is the best advice I could give to most guys out there in these modern times . Particularly younger guys
As a 30 year old guy 5’2 who’s been rejected my entire life, I know one thing: if a girl is attracted to you physically; you don’t have to put in any extra effort. It’s a like a light switch. She’s either into you or she isn’t That means as a 5’2 guy, no woman would look at me and feel desire, and there’s nothing I can do to change that. I guess I’ve taken the black pill. I’d rather be slapped by the truth than kissed by a lie
My man there’s nothing to feel disheartened about. You’ll find your match one day. Height is insignificant for the person if you truly matter to them and there are many out there looking for a real connection. Go out and mingle, talk and make yourself seen. You’re just 30.
I disagree regarding weak competition. If you improve in any field, including dating, you will start moving in different circles, competing with those who are already good. That's why competing for the good women becomes more and more competitive and suddenly you find yourself in the position where you have to compete with the toughest competition. It is not getting easier, quite the opposite. If you move up the ladder, you will find out that it is brutal. I see it in my life. The guys I have to compete with for the women I want all have game skills, lots and lots of money (millionaires and billionaires) , status and charisma. It's brutal.
We men ain't we? We do the hard shit. We thrive in it. We do not shy away from competition. There is pie out there, and i want my piece of it God damn it!
@@davidwhite206 My experience is that there is no pie left. Wherever I went, the pie (good women) were already off the market. So, doing hart shit never solved anything for me.
@user-nb8iu5ho8p 1 million seconds is 12 days. 1 billion seconds is 31 years. There are literally 8+ _BILLION_ women here on planet Earth. Are you really going to sit here and tell me there is no pie left? Successful people bake their own fucking pie. We do not make excuses! Man up or tap out and stop taking up space. You are in the way. We got shit to do out here.
Attraction between a man and woman is either there or not there! You should both know within 5 seconds physically and 5 minutes after talking mentally if you connect
just go on... there's more to life out there than just women. Let me tell you something. 10 or 15 years ago I was a womanizer (back in college), I had lots of sex and dates, also 4 girlfriends... I felt like I was the master of dating.. Now I suck. I'm 33, still single, I hit the gym, still look young, good looking, I have a decent income, nice car and surprisingly I own a house. Still no girls. Not anymore. Maybe it's not us, and it's just the modern times.. like I said, I was a player back then, and nowadays I just can't seem to even land a date. Women became 300%+ selective and hypergamous, we can´t play this game anymore. I feel like being slightly better than the average guy it's not enough anymore. They want WAY way better. They want exceptional. And it's not worthy to try to become exceptional FOR THEM, because they´re not exceptional women. Do it for you, and you only.
@@JK-nj3bt flaking, cheating, being gold diggers, having ridiculously high expectations while bringing nothing to the table, blaming all men for all the problems in society, saying we're all rapists and murderers, etc. You get the point..
I am simply blind to the dynamics of a man and woman, please explain ❓ Conscious awareness, experience, practice, trying to figure things out (learning) is rejection after rejection 🙄 What are the fundementals that I can become extremely good at? 🏹🏹🏹🏹 I do the vasporessin bonding, becoming a genuine friend, waiting an appropriate time for seggs, being fun/funny ect..the only thing I do not do is date multiple guys at a time (I honestly do want to be a loyal woman) ⚖ As a woman, I know when a guy wants to escalate and come back for multiple times. The post nut clarity hits and no contact begins. 🤐😶🌫😑 The post evaluation of the relationships in the past 7 months is that the men I date do truthfully like me. We both aspire to inspire. The "submission to the vision" falls thru. The vision of being in a relationship. He senses emotions/ losing his power. 🎻 I go boy sober for a couple months because being vunerable again is too much to bear. ☮
I am a woman and I follow your channel. You are a true leader. Every man should follow you and take your advice. You have a great observation and analytical skills, high social and emotional intelligence, manner and posture. Your mindset is very impressive and you are in generally a high quality man. 😇🤗
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moral of the story rear naked choke a girl if you have awkward silince
Only woman I wanted passed away 7 months ago, being good at dating was never my goal, I wanted a lifelong connection
girls die? wtf
Well, This is the universe sending you signs bro, get good at dating
If a woman is actually physically attracted to you, there’s almost nothing you have to do or not do. It’s that’s simple.
That right there. Keep it simple. She’ll let you know. I used to wonder am I missing the signals? Well no I wasn’t. She wasn’t into me so I didn’t see any😊. Seriously. I kept complicating it but truthfully I’ve had some dates end and it’s game on. I had to do nothing. She almost kissed me first. Then some where I am looking for the signs that weren’t there cause she wasn’t interested. Doesn’t always mean you fucked it up. Although I have at times. Experience tells me she didn’t like me like that. Just keep it simple and have some fun. You in the moment is far more interesting than anything you could pre plan to impress a girl. If she don’t like you? There’s 4 billion others. That and it all happens how it’s supposed to. You be you cause there’s only one in the whole world and that makes you fricken awesome 😎
@@Nsdus5676 💯 facts bro!
not really, or at least not always.. I've know a LOT of women who were drooling over some hot guys, but they never actually threw any choosing signals to them, because they were too intimidated.. Men are simpler, women are not. Yes, some girls are gonna be pretty obvious, but If you're hot/attractive, most girls are gonna think you are a player, unfaithful, and a jerk... thus, they won't always let you know they're into you, because they don't wanna inflate your ego. Most girls play hard to get, even MORE with hot guys, cause it's harder for her to trust him. I've seen it in other dudes, and I've experienced it first person. Also, the typicall she-friend you had for years and one day she just admits she was in love with you at college but never told you, and you never noticed, because she didn't give signals.. cause she thought you weren't gonna take her seriously.. it happens all the time.
@@Nsdus5676 not really, or at least not always.. I've know a LOT of women who were drooling over some hot guys, but they never actually threw any choosing signals to them, because they were too intimidated.. Men are simpler, women are not. Yes, some girls are gonna be pretty obvious, but If you're hot/attractive, most girls are gonna think you are a player, unfaithful, and a jerk... thus, they won't always let you know they're into you, because they don't wanna inflate your ego. Most girls play hard to get, even MORE with hot guys, cause it's harder for her to trust him. I've seen it in other dudes, and I've experienced it first person. Also, the typicall she-friend you had for years and one day she just admits she was in love with you at college but never told you, and you never noticed, because she didn't give signals.. cause she thought you weren't gonna take her seriously.. it happens all the time.
@@Nsdus5676😂trust me
You’d enjoy dating when you realize you have the power to make a woman like you
Being alone after turning 30 years old (once you dated multiple people) is the best. I get to do all the things that annoyed my partners, without having to explain myself and be miserable. No more mind reading, attitudes, having to back and forth on any decisions, people with problems that dont want real solutions. I can now work in peace, do my hobbies in peace, visit my mom and friends in peace, no more texting "ill be late", feeling bad im spending time with my friends/family, no more having to "re assure" someone, even though we are married and I dont speak with any other female. Its freeing. Once you understand that you are going to die one day, and no matter how much in put into a relationship, that person can walk away from you if they dont like one decision that you made, its real. All that time and money wasted. If you are reading this, know that you are a king to your family and you are loved, dont let them manipulate you into feeling sad, you have soooo much to give.
Damn dude you couldn't visit you own mom? That's crazy
Sorta sounds like u just had a bad egg sry bro
@@Ambitionmma multiple bag eggs
You never had to do any of that in the first place lol. You let your girl pimp you. It's a good thing that you're alone now though to learn how to be happy with yourself. Now get your balls back.
@@steelreserve9050 yeah I heard girls see it as a red flag if you have a relationship with your mom. stuff that's becoming normalized is not normal... its no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society
The question that I keep asking myself is, what is it for me, orwhat value do women bring to the table I don't come up with an answer
Only temporary pleasure in todays world unfortunately
That's the same with me. I already have kids. I even ask these women what they bring to the table, and they only respond with 3 things. I have 20 things I execpt to be brought at least. I have so much to offer more than they realize.
@@donaldbiden9492 Men have to put in so much work for nothing in return. That's what bothers me, while women live life in easy mode
@@zacharyball8009 I feel you bro
Lol… you don’t have to use your hand. That’s about it.
I understand the important purpose of relationships, but if you are single long enough and nothing is working, it makes perfect sense to give up. Just focus on other relationships like friends or family, since you cannot really make others be attracted to you,at least be a good son/uncle/person. Sure, money or success will never replace such thing as relationships, but you can have a comfortable life to cope. Kind of like palliative care. I indeed prefer to be rich and depressed than depressed and poor too.
*Once you get past the fear of rejection and stop trying to impress, you’ll find dating becomes more natural and enjoyable.*
I was at the bottom and no one was interested in me so I tried my best to level up . Now people are jealous, woman get insecure around me and don’t want anything to do with me… I don’t know why but it seems like I’m cursed when it comes to dating. Or maybe it’s a blessing but I’m actually running out of patience unfortunately…
it's common.. when you become a higher value man, women start to feel insecure around you, and (specially if you get hotter and more attractive), they start thinking you're a player, a jerk, unfaithfull, and think you're not gonna take them seriously, so even if they're drooling over you, they rarely ever gonna show it.. and if you try anything, they gonna play hard to get, even MORE than with average guys.. I'm speaking from self experience.. it's lonely at the top.. I had way more sex and women when I was an average looking broke dumbass lol
Bruh this is literally me, we never can win 😂
Danny is like the older brother I never had.
The whole success with women industry is trying to do the impossible - to give value to men without any value - you have to get value or forever consume success content
I don't know anything about horses and I'm a Taoist, but I appreciate Christian values, lived by an actually good person. Can't wait to hear more.
Even the simple statements like "it doesnt come naturally to all guys" or "like a black belt relearning the fundamentals" is very reassuring in itself. Its a reminder that we are very relatable and part of a community. A sense that is highly lacking these days to many, especially isolated persons. This is a good thing that you are doing and this is a great channel for men.
great video...... still quit dating tho... it's just not woth my time anymore... 99% women today are worthless for a relationship, they are just a burden.. I'm so sorry for saying this. I know it sounds sexists, I know it's too sad... I refused to believe it for years.. but I just gave up. It's true, no matter how much you don't want to face the truth.. Dating is obsolete now. I'm not happy with this. I wish it wasn't like that.. I wish life could be like it was 10 or 20 years ago. But it changed. And I'm done. I'm sorry Danny.
You're not alone bud. Been fighting this feeling for many years too. Sadly it's true.
Same ! We’ve tried guys ! They’re impossible and just not worth it
Yeah 99% is a little high but honestly it's not worth the trauma of sifting through the duds to find the good one. Are women out here watching videos like this to learn how to get men? LOL. There's a hwhole industry dedicated to 'helping' men succeed, whereas women just kind of get to exist. It's a race to the bottom.
I am almost at the point of giving up on dating... Most women are not worth it... They don't want to be team players... What I ask for and what I get.. the juice simply just does not seem to be worth the squeeze..
@@Jays_Highway It isn’t ! I’m 43 now and I’ve been wasting my time trying to find a meaningful relationship since I was 23 !! Within that time dating has become progressively worse and seriously declined ! Most guys now feel the same way !
Concentrate on yourself to find happiness is the best advice I could give to most guys out there in these modern times . Particularly younger guys
As a 30 year old guy 5’2 who’s been rejected my entire life, I know one thing: if a girl is attracted to you physically; you don’t have to put in any extra effort. It’s a like a light switch. She’s either into you or she isn’t
That means as a 5’2 guy, no woman would look at me and feel desire, and there’s nothing I can do to change that.
I guess I’ve taken the black pill. I’d rather be slapped by the truth than kissed by a lie
My man there’s nothing to feel disheartened about. You’ll find your match one day. Height is insignificant for the person if you truly matter to them and there are many out there looking for a real connection. Go out and mingle, talk and make yourself seen. You’re just 30.
I disagree regarding weak competition. If you improve in any field, including dating, you will start moving in different circles, competing with those who are already good. That's why competing for the good women becomes more and more competitive and suddenly you find yourself in the position where you have to compete with the toughest competition. It is not getting easier, quite the opposite. If you move up the ladder, you will find out that it is brutal. I see it in my life. The guys I have to compete with for the women I want all have game skills, lots and lots of money (millionaires and billionaires) , status and charisma. It's brutal.
We men ain't we?
We do the hard shit. We thrive in it. We do not shy away from competition. There is pie out there, and i want my piece of it God damn it!
@@davidwhite206 That's damn RIGHT!
@@davidwhite206 My experience is that there is no pie left. Wherever I went, the pie (good women) were already off the market. So, doing hart shit never solved anything for me.
@user-nb8iu5ho8p 1 million seconds is 12 days. 1 billion seconds is 31 years.
There are literally 8+ _BILLION_ women here on planet Earth. Are you really going to sit here and tell me there is no pie left? Successful people bake their own fucking pie. We do not make excuses! Man up or tap out and stop taking up space. You are in the way. We got shit to do out here.
@@davidwhite206 Yes we do .. but .. The juice simply doesnt seem to be worth the squeeze...
very insightful.
Thank you for sharing.
Attraction between a man and woman is either there or not there! You should both know within 5 seconds physically and 5 minutes after talking mentally if you connect
I understand this and still suck at dating. Now what?
just go on... there's more to life out there than just women. Let me tell you something. 10 or 15 years ago I was a womanizer (back in college), I had lots of sex and dates, also 4 girlfriends... I felt like I was the master of dating.. Now I suck. I'm 33, still single, I hit the gym, still look young, good looking, I have a decent income, nice car and surprisingly I own a house. Still no girls. Not anymore. Maybe it's not us, and it's just the modern times.. like I said, I was a player back then, and nowadays I just can't seem to even land a date. Women became 300%+ selective and hypergamous, we can´t play this game anymore. I feel like being slightly better than the average guy it's not enough anymore. They want WAY way better. They want exceptional. And it's not worthy to try to become exceptional FOR THEM, because they´re not exceptional women. Do it for you, and you only.
@@carlgonzalez3337 because they are flaking?
@@JK-nj3bt flaking, cheating, being gold diggers, having ridiculously high expectations while bringing nothing to the table, blaming all men for all the problems in society, saying we're all rapists and murderers, etc. You get the point..
Make money!
@@carlgonzalez3337 yeah, especially in western countries, i give up...
Ight, ill now Get into my player Phase. Good byes to the Old Me 💯
I am simply blind to the dynamics of a man and woman, please explain ❓
Conscious awareness, experience, practice, trying to figure things out (learning) is rejection after rejection 🙄
What are the fundementals that I can become extremely good at? 🏹🏹🏹🏹
I do the vasporessin bonding, becoming a genuine friend, waiting an appropriate time for seggs, being fun/funny ect..the only thing I do not do is date multiple guys at a time (I honestly do want to be a loyal woman) ⚖
As a woman, I know when a guy wants to escalate and come back for multiple times. The post nut clarity hits and no contact begins. 🤐😶🌫😑
The post evaluation of the relationships in the past 7 months is that the men I date do truthfully like me. We both aspire to inspire. The "submission to the vision" falls thru. The vision of being in a relationship. He senses emotions/ losing his power. 🎻
I go boy sober for a couple months because being vunerable again is too much to bear. ☮
Yayyyy I’m always so happy to see you post :) May God bless you
The shirt is dope brother! Summer fits on point. 🤝
I like your t-shirt Danny. Where can I find it?
As bjj blue belt i appreciate you putting in to terms i understand
I am a woman and I follow your channel. You are a true leader. Every man should follow you and take your advice. You have a great observation and analytical skills, high social and emotional intelligence, manner and posture. Your mindset is very impressive and you are in generally a high quality man. 😇🤗
the first 15 seconds intro summed up alot 👌
If she likes you it doesnt matter
good video brosef 😎
Good explanation
Danny, your surename-if you read it as it is,- literally means FAITH in russian language, and in some slavic languages too :)
Whats the instrumenal at 0:31
That's a lot of words to say absolutely nothing.
Way to show your intellect and attention span
@@jon_13 any asshole can bloviate non-stop when trying to peddle their proprietary testicle oil.
Iv
You will suck at dating until you realize these bs videos wont help you