How to respond to your ex when they are rebounding?
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Its pathetic... Some dignity.... Don't turn back... Fleee
Every person should respect boundaries - and have integrity - and NEVER reach out to someone who has a new relationship. In addition, how would you ever trust that person to be faithful and loyal to you? This is EMOTIONAL CHEATING.
Alexis, your ex - reaching out to you - is NOT SOMETHING that anyone should want - and you shouldn't encourage if they are now involved. It's not ethical - and would erode any future relationship possibilities. And sleeping with your ex while they are involved with someone else - is a KARMIC and FATAL mistake. It's bad for everyone.
Are you going to tell this to every relationship coach on youtube or only Alexis?
@@intoasoul I've never heard another relationship coach even hint at doing something immoral or unethical. And I don't think Alexis was intentionally doing that - but that's certainly how it came across.
What are talking about... Its not karma... Or sitting on a parallel rival... Get her out of your system... She is not the one... Sleeping after a break-up??? Screw her
your opinion! watch adrienne everheart, she is married to her ex-boyfriend for years now. it‘s not always abuse or horrible. sometimes you only know what you had, when you lose it.
Alexis, you are very insightful and you have a great demeanor for your chosen field. Caring, smart, but detached.
Alexis, I find you very connected. As an avoidant, I connect to logic and math. You speak the language that both my ex and I speak. Thank you
Thank you Alexis. I am a fearful avoidant. I have been trying to get over a breakup for 7 months. I’m in therapy and allowing myself to just feel the pain rather than choosing unhealthy coping. My DA ex is in what I think is a rebound for the past 7 months and very protective of it - as you suggested. I really want to let go and move on, but I think my attachment style is holding me in limbo. I want to let go, but I’m an afraid. I’m 51 and this is the first man I have ever really felt love for- it uncovered all my subconscious traumas but ultimately it remade me and I am healing in so many ways. I want to hope for another chance but the pain of holding on to it or at least being afraid to let go feel like it’s killing me - although admittedly I don’t feel like I’m not thriving, but I am surviving . (With that said, I have a new job, I’m working on new certifications, working out and trying to spend time with healthy friends) Any thoughts on if my attachment style is making this worse and any additional thoughts for easing the pain, accepting this or something that would be deactivating in a healthy way? I know how to deactivate- but most strategies undermine my growth. 🙂Thank you for posting! You have helped me significantly!
I live with my ex , we were together for 15 years hes got another boyfriend but hes a great guy and we all get along very well 😊
Of course DA's are most likely to rebound - because they never really CLOSE THE DOOR on past relationships - and even keep a window open for new ones - while they are "In love with you."
What we always have to work so hard and be our new version 2.0 to perhaps have a chance to get back. We grow for ourselves... On another note the dumper should work to grow as well... Being a part will put you in shell to assess the relationship as well
I'm a HUGE new fan of yours! Glad I came across your channel
I suspect my ex DA liked one of his coworkers (perfect for him).
I'm almost sure I wouldn't come back with him, but if I knew he rebounded with this woman would be the signal to a definitive goodbye.
if there wouldn't be a rebound and he goes to therapy... maybe.
What if your ex is anxious preoccupied and reaches out during a rebound?
Dont ovrrthink it. Dont take advice from this guy. Hell no. If married. Just ignore. Still single why not be friendly unless they matried them dont
What if he says and accept that he is not in love, that they are not compatible, that he is not looking for anything long term with her (it is his first relatonship after divorce and lasted 35 years with her), that the age difference is ana issue, lifestyles, their kids are in a total different age (hers are very young , his are adults), and that they have nothing in common, that he knows that won´t work out...but he didn´t get into that relationship to last