HOW TO KNOW A GUY NOT SERIOUS SERIOUS WITH YOU ON ONLINE DATING APPS 2023

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  • @jjdorothy7866
    @jjdorothy7866 Год назад +18

    I can't wait😢😢😢am almost giving up oooooooobut since Bella ur here am strong 💪 now

    • @ayasomercy6179
      @ayasomercy6179 Год назад

      Comeon, be strong please 🙏

    • @jjdorothy7866
      @jjdorothy7866 Год назад

      @ayasomercy6179 my dear the gosht me alot when ever I tell them am a single mother ☺️☺️☺️☺️but thanks sis.

    • @Redblack256
      @Redblack256 Год назад +1

      We are together in this bby gal let us be strong

    • @tarots270
      @tarots270 Год назад +5

      No need to give up, wait till you hear my success story then you will tell yourself if I didn’t give up then you shouldn’t

    • @jjdorothy7866
      @jjdorothy7866 Год назад +2

      @Fondrian thx darling sis,really you have given me more courage 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @riamhills11
    @riamhills11 Год назад +6

    Yes Bella, on that point of Submissive/Dominant is well presented in the movie called FIFTY SHADES OF GREY, that's when I understood it. Dear ladies, be careful

  • @nakimerajoyce9234
    @nakimerajoyce9234 Год назад +6

    God bless you so much our sister African Bella 🙏❤ on today's video I have experienced 9 % of what you talked about
    I thank God who helped me to found your channel 🙏 I love you so much sister ❤ .
    African ladies we are really blessed because our African Bella 🙏

  • @MilicentINGOS
    @MilicentINGOS 5 месяцев назад +2

    I was told last week,that I have to choose between modern and traditional marriage, traditional one,he pays the dowry but he be the king in the house,in modern,he doesn't pay the dowry but you have a say in marriage! My sister! I remembered your word!

  • @memorybanda9277
    @memorybanda9277 Год назад +4

    Our mentor is here with more tips, see you on premiere ❤

  • @cleovernebaptiste2747
    @cleovernebaptiste2747 6 месяцев назад +2

    I met three scammers pretending to be military I now know how they operate they need help not love

  • @olinesssiankule
    @olinesssiankule Год назад +3

    Those are correct points Bella am a living testmony.

  • @aileenjepkosgey8106
    @aileenjepkosgey8106 Год назад +3

    Thank you bella for more tips keep winning❤

  • @VickyGist7477
    @VickyGist7477 Год назад +1

    Nice one dear African Bella so sorry for that mother that are life is taking, thanks for sharing and i pray that God almighty will answer does that are still searching because i know is not easy may God see them through.🥰🥰🥰👍

  • @TwongyeirweAgatha-l6w
    @TwongyeirweAgatha-l6w 9 месяцев назад

    Yes, sister Bella. I have enjoyed and learnt as well, you're such an Angel, may God richly bless you dear

  • @Gladysmiss06
    @Gladysmiss06 Год назад +2

    Thank you Aunty Bella,you are really helping us African ladies from being trapped by these people ,i personally am learning alot and using your tips on them and has helped me alot

  • @rachealsimona7872
    @rachealsimona7872 Год назад +4

    thank you sister Bella for your good advice and tips you are always the best you are a good adviser indeed we are glad to have someone like you to advise us keep it up once again thank you and good night god bless you and your family🙏🙏🙏

  • @estherndinda127
    @estherndinda127 Год назад +2

    Thanks Bella,,,more love from Kenya ❤️🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @lucyanimuri9946
    @lucyanimuri9946 Год назад +2

    Bella, you are right 👍.
    I met a lot of them on dating sites. Especially Tinder.😂

  • @matsidisojulia
    @matsidisojulia 5 месяцев назад

    This video is so important to us. Bella we thank you to sharpen us. We have to avoid all this red flag. I believe the more we take time the more we will also avoid to get hurt deeply.🎉🎉 Let's use this guidance to us. Bella is the for purposes to save African women to be wiser enough.❤❤❤❤

  • @lamulugladys947
    @lamulugladys947 Год назад +4

    Thanks you Bella for the good tips i have learnt a lot today ♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬

  • @bellam7546
    @bellam7546 Год назад +4

    Thank you Bella for the video. I think a red flag for me that a guy is not serious is a guy who praises me and does not see me as a human being who is not perfect.

  • @kirabojoy3455
    @kirabojoy3455 Год назад +1

    Bella thanks for your advice

  • @usertopista6633
    @usertopista6633 Год назад +6

    Your advices are always helpful to many of us out here

    • @instepassessors2653
      @instepassessors2653 Год назад

      its crazy looking for love online. I met one who was looking for a submissive woman. When i asked him what does he understand by the word "submissive' he told me i must do as i am told. I remember telling him that is slavery and that was the end of us. Another man told me he is looking for a slave african woman for a wife that he can tie on the bed while have sex with and no leaving the room and you wont do any house chores because he has 2 african ladies from Ghana who were sold to him by their dad as slaves to work for him and he sends the dad monthly salary. The third man told me he shares a bed with his dog and i know what that means ..... i join him in his country i will have sex both with him and his dog. My dear African ladies lets listen to Bella. This things happen and very sad they think African ladies are naive, stupid and that we have too many problems in african. Lets be proud of our continent. I love you all. Nothing but prayers. All the best to all the ladies searching. Love from Kenya.

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  Год назад

      Thank you ❤️

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  Год назад

      Some of these guys are mentally disturbed

    • @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978
      @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978 Год назад

      @@instepassessors2653 what dear eeeeeeeeeee

    • @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978
      @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978 Год назад

      @@instepassessors2653 eeeeeeeeeee dear even me too one month back the guy came in too my in box ad we started chatting together ' ad the guy told me about his culture, u knew what he's saying about his culture ' the guy told me if we loved each other's first of all i hve too pray sex with my kids, ad his Daddy, u know what i did i just block him but ba sister's let's be very careful, any way much love from Uganda 🇺🇬🙃

  • @jabulilephungwayo890
    @jabulilephungwayo890 Год назад +1

    Thank cc Bella for your advice just let you know that you're always the best ❤

  • @peshpeshgal3796
    @peshpeshgal3796 Год назад +4

    Yes Bella I enjoyed the video and it's super good for us ladies to know all these tips you're sharing to help us not to fall into the wrong hands in the name of love.

  • @AchiroNyaPaco
    @AchiroNyaPaco Год назад +2

    No one delivers like beautiful Bella. We are grateful ❤🎉

  • @estherkaku2071
    @estherkaku2071 Год назад +1

    Thanks Bella for the message 💕

  • @mariasoledad1363
    @mariasoledad1363 7 месяцев назад +1

    thankyou Bella for everything

  • @wanjirajackfred4686
    @wanjirajackfred4686 Год назад +1

    Wow thank you Bellah your content is an eye opener to us,nowadays am very sharp matters online dating all thanks to you our African queen🥰💕❤

  • @MamiMo-ec8io
    @MamiMo-ec8io Год назад

    Am here to enjoy this message your brought for us, thanks queen

  • @aishapendo4192
    @aishapendo4192 Год назад +1

    Always love what your doing to educate us more love gal❤

  • @changes1131
    @changes1131 Год назад +2

    Thank you so much for the advice and tips Bella ❤ very helpful. A word is enough for the wise.

  • @NabbanjaAllen-lw8rg
    @NabbanjaAllen-lw8rg 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much darling, its the final information i was looking for during this period, Much love from🇺🇬 ❤

  • @Missrebecca519
    @Missrebecca519 Год назад +2

    Bell you nailed it. Some guy ever invited me to his country and he was like he will incur all expenses. I was super exited, but you know what? He told me he was too busy, and his passport was lost and that he can't make another one. He even limited me from chatting his very close friend( he had shared with me his friend's number )simply because he knew his friend would leak some information concerning him huuuuuh i thank God i blocked him after all he was soooo abusive and over insulting me. I think i was chatting someone who's mentally ill 😂

    • @mjnneka
      @mjnneka Год назад +2

      Wow! Thank God he revealed his true self. You’ll find someone better 🙏🏾

    • @Missrebecca519
      @Missrebecca519 Год назад

      Girl, he seemed serious but too vulgar.

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  Год назад

      The guy was simply toxic glad it ended earlier.

  • @mirabelasu5524
    @mirabelasu5524 Год назад +3

    Greetings to you Bella, looking gorgeous as always ❤❤❤

  • @Bfatty256.zechariah4.6
    @Bfatty256.zechariah4.6 Год назад +7

    Mhhh no matter how I am looking for a man and interested in marriage I can't marry 50's and above because I don't think that man will feel and satisfy my love as a husband 😆😆😆that brings in adultery because a young lady in her 20-30 has just started to feel the love but for an old man you are just going to be a care taker. 🏃🏃🏃🏃.
    Am a person who needs jokes and lough but an old man .

  • @ssenyongashamila6274
    @ssenyongashamila6274 Год назад +1

    Thanx alot Bella this video has tought me alot❤❤❤❤

  • @essyshiku6892
    @essyshiku6892 Год назад +2

    Thanks Bella, you have really enlightened us

  • @StarlaKatinti
    @StarlaKatinti 9 месяцев назад

    God bless you
    After seeing your videos then I go back online dating again this time I have good news. Thanks very much ❤

  • @olivianangobi1746
    @olivianangobi1746 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks so much dear sister Bella for everything.May God bless you a lot.❤🙏

  • @mariambulawa2709
    @mariambulawa2709 Год назад

    Thank you so much Bella I had came across those words before and they refused to explain the mean of the words.

  • @iamsedudu5237
    @iamsedudu5237 Год назад +1

    You are such a life saver..thank you so much Bella for these great advises 💕🙏

  • @Savage-g7b
    @Savage-g7b 3 месяца назад

    Youre wise Bella...youre my mentor

  • @LorraineMwenya
    @LorraineMwenya Год назад

    It's my first time,am following your previous videos

  • @cynthyblessing9986
    @cynthyblessing9986 Год назад +1

    Thank you beautiful bella for this wonderful tips appreciated 👍

  • @tinahtaniela1613
    @tinahtaniela1613 Год назад

    Thank you so much i heard the story of being in the ship and his accounts was blocked and alot of lies

  • @KarenAzi.Desire
    @KarenAzi.Desire Год назад

    Wow Bella thank you for this
    I’ve picked some point
    I love you Bella ❤ always on point

  • @naomnatukunda449
    @naomnatukunda449 Год назад

    Beautiful Bella thanks 🙏🙏 for shining our minds God bless u❤❤❤.

  • @lovicemutua1219
    @lovicemutua1219 Год назад

    My first comment 😊
    Thanks so much Bella for the amazing advice you have been giving to us,ur such amazing and wonderful woman may God bless you abundantly and increase ur wisdom inorder to educate us, thanks once more, keep it up gal🙏🙏

  • @Evelynkizza
    @Evelynkizza Год назад

    Oh my the the African queen with tips about online dating ur such a sweet heart just know that we love you much dea be blessed ever

  • @VeraEkwa
    @VeraEkwa 11 месяцев назад

    My sisters runnnn runnn in sweet Bella’s voice 😂😂😂😂😂😂this video is well loaded love it 37:19

  • @halimahassan3031
    @halimahassan3031 Год назад

    Here wait my dear sister, to much love❤

  • @selfconsciousfinallyNA3358
    @selfconsciousfinallyNA3358 Год назад +3

    Master and misses 😂😂😂
    Thank you for your the advice and tips🙏🏾
    This so funny hey 🤣🤣
    God this life is not fair ooo.....
    Keep on going everyone ❤...

  • @lamulugladys947
    @lamulugladys947 Год назад +1

    Hi Bella good evening how was your weekend i hope it went well watching live from Saudi Arabia sending you love ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @memorybanda9277
    @memorybanda9277 Год назад +1

    Thanks Bella we are learning alot from you, the tips you give us is top notch and we love it and we apply them and it works so perfectly well, always love you and may the Almighty God keep blessing you 😘😍❤️💞

  • @vailetheanyambilile9749
    @vailetheanyambilile9749 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much Bella

  • @hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhbbbhhhhhhh
    @hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhbbbhhhhhhh Год назад

    Thanks bella.waiting silent.

  • @Mantombazane
    @Mantombazane 7 месяцев назад

    Bella tell me if a guy ghost you for like weeks or a moths and come back still want you to come to him where he is and even promise you to buy to a ticket what do I do

  • @tracyashanut2945
    @tracyashanut2945 Год назад +1

    It’s the Run ooooo bits for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @bienaherns20
    @bienaherns20 Год назад +2

    I love you Bella ❤ your avices means alot to most of us

  • @SiphiweSharon-qi8vo
    @SiphiweSharon-qi8vo Месяц назад

    You should start posting all the scammers on dating app

  • @kaishalugonvu3495
    @kaishalugonvu3495 Год назад

    Mrs Bella am writing downo😊
    Am positively believing again why not thank you dear

  • @salahchanceline2779
    @salahchanceline2779 Год назад +2

    I was told today that I'm worst than a police and boring because I asked him questions. I laughed so hard before blocking him. He knew he could not easily deceive me. We started chatting just few days and he was already telling me that he will come and in me next month. In his words he was like you're very beautiful and attractive but boring, you ask too many questions etc.

    • @amiflavia8035
      @amiflavia8035 Год назад

      That guy thought you were so desperate for a white guy, it's good you stood your ground and blocked him. Just keep moving until you find the right one. I have also been experiencing the same.

    • @salahchanceline2779
      @salahchanceline2779 Год назад

      @@amiflavia8035 I'm telling you.

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  Год назад +1

      Ha ha ha when they know you are clever that's what they say🤣🤣

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  Год назад

      Exactly

    • @nakalemajacklyn3205
      @nakalemajacklyn3205 Год назад +1

      One told me that am too decent for dating apps and he can't chat with because he wants a bad girl 😂but I got one who respects me

  • @JustChidinma
    @JustChidinma Год назад +2

    My sister runnn oooo !🚴🏃🏃😂😊

    • @mariposas22
      @mariposas22 3 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂run baby run

  • @janewambui8514
    @janewambui8514 Год назад +1

    ❤❤❤ thank you bella for all this tips 🙏🙏

  • @KisakyeRobinah-ed4ek
    @KisakyeRobinah-ed4ek Год назад +1

    Thanks Bella, how do you know that a guy is really interested in you

  • @MarimaKeerah
    @MarimaKeerah Год назад +1

    Thanks Bella for highlighting us always ❤

  • @helensakala7656
    @helensakala7656 Год назад

    Thanks Bella,i was chatting with a guy who ask me if I can be a dominant woman ,i told him no.

  • @FebineAwuor
    @FebineAwuor Год назад +1

    These are important points to take home even for those dating offline. You wouldn't want to waste your time.

  • @UmuhozaDivine-e5q
    @UmuhozaDivine-e5q 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you very much Bella

  • @mmemendlovu6569
    @mmemendlovu6569 Год назад

    Thank you so much my dear sister Bella ,I love you so much,u are always there for advising it us on this journey of online dating app, God bless you and your family..

  • @annmungai4753
    @annmungai4753 Год назад

    So helpful to those searching..

  • @chipobenjaminnyahuye4165
    @chipobenjaminnyahuye4165 Год назад

    Thank you sis for the super super advice❤.

  • @ruthnjambi728
    @ruthnjambi728 10 месяцев назад

    Bella what about aman tells you that I'm simple man let's make it simple?

  • @فلورنسفلورنس-ذ2ب

    Am let in the class 🇺🇬 teacher Bella thank you so much for teaching us

  • @berylolives
    @berylolives Год назад

    Thanks for sharing this information 🙏

  • @iwutungimmaculate7371
    @iwutungimmaculate7371 Год назад +1

    Thank you Bella it was helpful😊

  • @silubokanda701
    @silubokanda701 Год назад +1

    Hello Bella, can't wait to hear from you again, but I am requesting you please talk also about men, ladies on dating site are giving us hard time.

  • @maureenatieno2876
    @maureenatieno2876 Год назад

    Hi Bella ,thanks for always reminding us, you are such an amazing lady.. have been on online dating apps and all things that you have mentioned above, have came across all of them,, you are always honest and genuine ❤.. keep up the good work dear 💗.

  • @getrudendlovu4509
    @getrudendlovu4509 Год назад

    Thankyou so much sis Bella for this educative vedio,,, you are really helping us my dear may God bless you and your family ❤❤❤❤

  • @elizabethmiller2345
    @elizabethmiller2345 Год назад

    Bella thank you for this insightful information to guide us through our journey of finding true love. Run oooo😂 well noted. God bless you.

  • @margaretatieno1137
    @margaretatieno1137 Год назад

    Thank you so much Bella for sharing this.. It's really helping some of us out here.

  • @merciekhozomba9160
    @merciekhozomba9160 Год назад

    You're a life saver Bella...am learning alot from you

  • @justnakas
    @justnakas Год назад +1

    If am to add on their many men on afro looking for submissive women and if your desperate trust me you can fall for that shit.Bella i have met like 6 with same staff but once i find out how their conversations are i just block them immediately

  • @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978
    @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978 Год назад +1

    Yellow sis le me first appreciate the work u done, i real appreciating u sweet, even me too sis i need ur advise sweet, i hve a guy from UK ad i stated chatting with him from June till now i don't know him much first of all he told me that he work's at night ' the way at first he told me that he loves me but me i don't see nothing going in too sueirsly ,so sis i need ur advise dear thank you le me stay chatting with him ho i leave him 🤷‍♂️

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  Год назад

      You have to ask this guy questions to see if he is really serious with you or he is just playing games on you.

    • @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978
      @finallyjohnboscoubrokenmyh5978 Год назад

      @@africanbellatherealtalk OK mummy but u didn't tell me which question, but thanks for ur time

  • @jacklinemurangira6327
    @jacklinemurangira6327 Год назад +1

    Much love darling Bella ❤ from Uganda 🇺🇬

  • @SusanTembo-rq1ek
    @SusanTembo-rq1ek Год назад +1

    I love all this Bella

  • @giftcase
    @giftcase Год назад +1

    I have been talking to this Italian man but he disappeared into thin air and suddenly came back apologizing,and saying that he had problems with his ex,am totally confused,I don't know if I should end it or forgive him,am confused

  • @stacyawuorochari1673
    @stacyawuorochari1673 Год назад

    Thanks siz Bella,ilove your Tips ihave experience most of them,iwill not get tired untill iget my soulmate but ikeep your teachings, Thanks God bless you ❤

  • @NamuliSuzan-bz7bp
    @NamuliSuzan-bz7bp Год назад +2

    Thank you so much Bella for good lesson today I learnt alot God bless you abundantly 🙏🙏 long live,much love from 🇺🇬🇺🇬❤❤❤

  • @Rachelsstyle
    @Rachelsstyle Год назад

    Great tips and advice on online dating apps

  • @ayasomercy6179
    @ayasomercy6179 Год назад +1

    We really appreciate your help 🙏 ❤️

  • @JudithUwase-n1b
    @JudithUwase-n1b Год назад

    Bella this is the marriage l'm living 😭😭😭 your talking about me

  • @connicube2513
    @connicube2513 Год назад

    Oh my goodness Bella 😂😂😂I was a master/Queen for a day and was like this honestly isn’t for me 😂😂😂what is that even .

  • @janinaclbl
    @janinaclbl Год назад

    Hey Bella. I chat with an american man online. He is very gentle polite educated etc but he disappears during the week and comes with a recorded video of himself every sunday when he is at the gym. He claims work is very busy during the week so he doesn't have time to chat. I proposed we should have videocalls on weekends instead of recorded videos, he said ok but we never did, when I keep insisting he just ignores it. Do you think those are red flags?

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  Год назад +1

      Tell him a video call is a must if he refuses end it

    • @janinaclbl
      @janinaclbl Год назад

      @@africanbellatherealtalk okay dear I'll do that and keep you in touch. We've been talking for 8 months, I really think it's time for a call.

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  Год назад +1

      @janinaclbl whaat?all that time no video call?

    • @janinaclbl
      @janinaclbl Год назад

      @@africanbellatherealtalk no just recorded videos on weekends. Never called at all

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  Год назад +1

      @janinaclbl Please please make a video call

  • @rinahnyakato3612
    @rinahnyakato3612 Год назад

    Ooh my God Bella, thank you so much.

  • @neemamoureen219
    @neemamoureen219 Год назад +1

    Thank you very much mummy Bella

  • @SusanTembo-rq1ek
    @SusanTembo-rq1ek Год назад

    Nice bella thank you 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @nakamanyashakirah5658
    @nakamanyashakirah5658 Год назад +1

    Am late but better late than never, hi Bella hope all is well with u darling mentor

  • @dayana5513story
    @dayana5513story Год назад

    Love you Bella God bless you 💝

  • @medinaswale6872
    @medinaswale6872 Год назад +1

    Asante bella mungu akutunze

  • @ntombirhonelemogamisi2031
    @ntombirhonelemogamisi2031 7 месяцев назад

    When a guy sending photos of him and his children having 2 months chatting whats means that

  • @vivianaatukunda2499
    @vivianaatukunda2499 Год назад +1

    😂😅😂😂😂😊keep quite don't talk😂😂😂😅😅 Love you sister Bella❤

  • @namu-que
    @namu-que Год назад

    Am learning while laughing.... 😂😂😂 Run Run Run Run 😂😂😂