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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025

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  • @GangstaPerspectives
    @GangstaPerspectives  5 дней назад +115

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    • @Rudra25675
      @Rudra25675 5 дней назад +4

      Yo

    • @pranalikute1777
      @pranalikute1777 5 дней назад +1

      Thank you for your privious energy

    • @SSR9-u6i
      @SSR9-u6i 5 дней назад +1

      shwetabh bhaiya one advice you can give to a 16 year old guy

    • @thewatcher1947
      @thewatcher1947 День назад

      This haircut doesn't suit you, just an opinion

  • @aryan_p.mishra
    @aryan_p.mishra 5 дней назад +1209

    Falling down was an accident
    Staying down is a choice !

  • @rudrasharma8031
    @rudrasharma8031 5 дней назад +436

    Shwetabh, I'm not sure you're going to read this, but the legacy you are building brings me joy. I watch your videos semi-regularly, and these comments mentioning how they are improving themselves is your legacy. These are real people who you've impacted.
    I've watched the raw and real streams live and your upbringing and struggle was huge. It really motivates me to see an individual do something they had no chances of doing.
    One of the things you've mentioned once stuck with me all this time.
    "Kuch log jab marte hai, to bheed ikathhi hoti hai"
    These comments are your legacy man, more power to you.

    • @Prem-k2x1x
      @Prem-k2x1x 5 дней назад +1

      Konsi video me Bhai

    • @unknownman0009-k7i
      @unknownman0009-k7i 5 дней назад

      Which video bro i wanna know his lifestyle and background

    • @Harshvardhan_Tiwari
      @Harshvardhan_Tiwari 5 дней назад +2

      I remember those lines too man. Golden words, golden talks, golden time!

    • @manjos1108
      @manjos1108 5 дней назад

      Video btaao bhai

    • @RV-iitd25
      @RV-iitd25 4 дня назад +1

      💯🔥

  • @pritamff2911
    @pritamff2911 5 дней назад +1056

    Abhi 6 HOURS ki self study complete kari without mobile

    • @Zkrips5
      @Zkrips5 5 дней назад +13

      Kon se class me ho bhai

    • @Devilhunter69
      @Devilhunter69 5 дней назад +7

      Wow bro

    • @divyanshusingh6969
      @divyanshusingh6969 5 дней назад +4

      Congo bhai

    • @ManashMedhiManashMedhi
      @ManashMedhiManashMedhi 5 дней назад +12

      Sab pAdh hi rhe hai beh 😢

    • @pritamff2911
      @pritamff2911 5 дней назад +26

      @ManashMedhiManashMedhi NDA nikaalna hai Anyhow....... papa ARMY mei hai and retire hone wale hai AAR YA PAAR SITUATION BHAI

  • @aritradey8334
    @aritradey8334 5 дней назад +261

    At least this kid’s crying about it. Many kids (especially boys) are taught not to cry and they are made to feel bad about “losing“ but also vilified for crying about it.

  • @manishnaik8175
    @manishnaik8175 5 дней назад +577

    I didn't do any work today because i finished my exams for govt jobs and i can confidently say that i am going to clear it this time. Ive been studying for 9 hr daily for 3 years, it payed off. I can relax now for a while.

  • @FaizanUlHaq-h7l
    @FaizanUlHaq-h7l 5 дней назад +128

    I grew up underconfident but have worked hard to build my self-esteem. Yet, my father’s harsh words still break me, undoing months of progress. I sink into silent tears, feeling like I’ll never reach the greatness I long for. If your father uplifts you, consider yourself truly blessed.

    • @yourlifeisameresimulation1023
      @yourlifeisameresimulation1023 5 дней назад +5

      Connect to a greater entity, something that you believe in and everything else (including your father’s words) will be out of focus. It’s all noise trying to distract you from reaching the greatness you long for. Maybe stay away from the environment for sometime, work on yourself and come back stronger

    • @FaizanUlHaq-h7l
      @FaizanUlHaq-h7l 5 дней назад

      @@yourlifeisameresimulation1023 right

    • @Lilyyyiiii
      @Lilyyyiiii 4 дня назад +1

      I believe in your efforts !! We are proud of you 🎉

    • @zealjain3605
      @zealjain3605 4 дня назад +4

      You should learn the art of not giving a fck. It might be that your father is in a bad mental state and you end up becoming a victim. So, tell yourself it's not your fault, it's his. Don't bother with anyone's words, if you know that you are putting in the work.
      Just don't give a fck about these things as it's just a part of the process, stay strong.

    • @Lt6798
      @Lt6798 4 дня назад

      Also, adding to all the comments here, a very important thing in life is perspective. You have to understand that ultimately, you are the person you’re going to be living with 24/7 until you die. Non negotiable. Even your father won’t be around for as long as you think he will be. So the logical conclusion then is to build a relationship and a self perception that is based in how you see yourself and want yourself to be, no one else. Easier said than done, I know, but its also the most freeing thing you could ever do. Feel your feelings, cry when he’s harsh, because that will help you process it then and there, and move on rather than drag it out. Then, look at yourself in the mirror, try to shut out the adjectives and voices placed on you by other people, and ask yourself who YOU think you are. Because I promise, every human being is beautiful BECAUSE if their flaws, not inspite of them. ❤

  • @ayushmishra-ev9ws
    @ayushmishra-ev9ws 5 дней назад +65

    Starting attack mode today after loosing myself in depression and mentaly unstable position from last 6 months I had given up , finally with proper medication and exercise I m able to get up again .Starting prep of neet again ,theres only 3 months left but I don't wanna regret it again so I m gonna use every min I have abhi , not thinking about past and all. Today I studied 3 hrs which is alot given I had not picked up book from last 6 months , i promise myself to improve daily mentally physically and academically for next 3 months , and damn this man forces you to get up in the intro , really helps introspect ourself . Thank you shwetabh sir !

  • @Millieunderwood
    @Millieunderwood 5 дней назад +123

    Shwetabh bro Thank you ❤
    It's been almost 7-8 months I've been watching you.
    I deleted my Instagram account 4 months ago, on RUclips i turned off watch history and search history so it didn't suggest youtube shorts video. Just some videos from perticular subscribed channel.
    I am reading literature everyday. Meditating, cooking , preparing for exam and cleaning.
    Your advice on relationship also improved my relationship with my fiance.
    Thank you so much brother ❤

    • @Lakshyadadhich
      @Lakshyadadhich 5 дней назад +1

      Keep going brother ❤

    • @whattheheccckk
      @whattheheccckk 5 дней назад +7

      I have been looking for a solution to stop yt shorts getting recommended to me. I'll try this

    • @Millieunderwood
      @Millieunderwood 5 дней назад +1

      @whattheheccckk it will work. You'll get videos from your subscribed channel.

    • @whattheheccckk
      @whattheheccckk 5 дней назад

      @@Millieunderwood thanks :)

    • @ishantkumar5760
      @ishantkumar5760 5 дней назад +1

      Keep going brother/sir ❤ Stay strong ❤ and Very proud of you and you should also be brother/sir❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @yo_man2115
    @yo_man2115 5 дней назад +249

    Once I scored 94 percent in 4th standard and I got beaten by my tuition teacher and my dad and my parents gave me silent treatment for a week, compared me with my sibling and friends. I can still remember the scars they gave me that day. My dad always used to invalidate my extra curricular achievements. Now I'm someone who has no confidence, is scared of other people and has imposter syndrome.

    • @मृदुलशर्मा
      @मृदुलशर्मा 5 дней назад +22

      don't worry brother, most of us have been there(me included).
      Remember one thing, you are not that person anymore, become strong for yourself and that past is kinda irrelevant.

    • @cyborgsstepsis9932
      @cyborgsstepsis9932 5 дней назад +29

      Your tuition teacher beat you up because you scored 94%?
      Isn't it quite contradicting?

    • @aidentrindaderollno.4865
      @aidentrindaderollno.4865 5 дней назад +23

      @@cyborgsstepsis9932 its very common actually. I was beaten for even higher percentages. Also, people originally smarter have it worse, due to high expectations

    • @cyborgsstepsis9932
      @cyborgsstepsis9932 5 дней назад +11

      @@aidentrindaderollno.4865 oh that's just unfortunate man! Feel bad for you. :⁠-⁠(

    • @Harshvardhan_Tiwari
      @Harshvardhan_Tiwari 5 дней назад +3

      I'm so sorry man. Although I can't even image what you've been through and its definitely impacted you heavily, but I know one thing that it can be changed. Talk to other people, start with friends, make friends, talk to random strangers, about anything, can be usual daily stuff. Believe me you'll be a different person in the coming years and you'll be proud of yourself!

  • @brajesh024
    @brajesh024 5 дней назад +144

    Bhaiya please aisa thumbnail mat laalo yaar......bahut saare log dar gye honge😢

    • @Prem-k2x1x
      @Prem-k2x1x 5 дней назад +7

      Ha 😵 me bhi dar gaya 😵

    • @Mr.walki01
      @Mr.walki01 5 дней назад +2

      Ha bhai

    • @wildyato37
      @wildyato37 5 дней назад +5

      aisa lagaa ki bahoot gusse m h

    • @lareveur6094
      @lareveur6094 5 дней назад +3

      Bhaiya click bait de re

    • @Omega-dj9sh
      @Omega-dj9sh 5 дней назад +5

      😂bc wo baap admi h 2015 se dek rhe apan jo smj Jaenge

  • @Channel10-d1z1m
    @Channel10-d1z1m 5 дней назад +73

    I had such terrible self esteem and self worth issues since childhood bcoz of emotionally neglectful parents that literally 5 yrs worth of continuous inner healing and shadow work took me to become a healthy functioning adult with a good self esteem
    I'm going to be 19 this yr and I'm all set to give my best in other aspects of my life now❤

    • @manya_c09
      @manya_c09 5 дней назад +1

      all the besttt❤

    • @siddharthasrivastava567
      @siddharthasrivastava567 5 дней назад +1

      I like you hypnosis playlist, can you tell how did you heal from your past wounds cause i also have this past??

    • @architapandey3060
      @architapandey3060 5 дней назад +1

      All the best 👍

    • @Channel10-d1z1m
      @Channel10-d1z1m 5 дней назад

      @@siddharthasrivastava567
      It's going to be long..
      I went through multiple trial and errors when I started my healing journey cuz I was just a 14y/o child at that time but now that I look back I've realised it all boils down to letting all those pent up emotions and trauma out in the surface by journaling or by any other medium that way you will be able to identify and work on what exactly is bothering you for eg- by journaling daily I found out that I was never appreciated for any of my accomplishments that left a scar on me during childhood etc.. and other is one of the best things I did for myself and that was binging all of shwetabh's videos and applying it,then algorithm did its job and I saturated my mind with all of the good creators on yt so my mind was by default thinking of all the self improvement stuff that iv been consuming all day and my actions reflected that and here I am.

    • @krupahcr7049
      @krupahcr7049 4 дня назад

      What u mean by shadow work.. and isn't it good to realize this at this age, many dysfunctional adults still operate at 20s and 30s. At 14-15 u may have started healing. Did u start with any psychiatrist or online course ?

  • @Lakshyadadhich
    @Lakshyadadhich 5 дней назад +77

    🚀 Attack Mode 🚀
    Day - 439
    Task done - 11/11 ✅
    Exercise (pull+push) ✅
    Padhai (5hr) ✅
    Geeta session with Acharya Prashant ✅
    Book:- The philosophy book (Topic- Pythagoras and his philosophy) ✅
    Comeback kaafi sahi tha mera...
    Thankyou Shwetabh bhaiya..

  • @rishav-2749
    @rishav-2749 5 дней назад +100

    It's a high pressure society we live in, the aspect of winning and losing is introduced atsuch a young age to prepare students mentally for what's to come, population is high, competition is high, if you lose, there's no place in this world for you, it's the sad reality,like you said Shwetabh, "if life's a video game, then we in India are playing on the hardest level".

    • @rohituikey1522
      @rohituikey1522 5 дней назад +7

      Ye bohot hi flawed tarika hai hamesha work nahi karta, ulta bachhe ka confidence aur self esteem young age se hi kam ho jayega aur wo apne ap ko loser samajhne lagega. What shwetabh said was more effective.

    • @rishav-2749
      @rishav-2749 5 дней назад +6

      @rohituikey1522 Never said he's wrong, just commented the reality that is nothing like what shwetabh says should happen

    • @EsoteriaHealing
      @EsoteriaHealing 4 дня назад

      But we don't need to.

    • @rishav-2749
      @rishav-2749 4 дня назад +2

      @@EsoteriaHealing You're right,but it's just the way it is,definitely need to bring about a change

    • @miloblackmetalhate
      @miloblackmetalhate 4 дня назад

      This is also why everyone does half-assed work in this country and has no empathy or compassion. Root cause of most problems.

  • @meghabajaj45
    @meghabajaj45 5 дней назад +19

    okay so this is the first time im writing whatever i have done today, so woke up early at 5:30 am and walked with mumma for like 20 minutes and attended our first meditation class...came back took a nap and sat to study .... took a nap again and woke up to study and till now im studying..i studied chem (haloalkanes and haloarenes) attended online lectures and yeah hopefully i will be consistent with this routine... my life has been nothing less than a shithole and i am desperately trynna get it back on track...trust me its so so so difficult to break that threshold and come out of your comfort zone...but yeah this was all about it

  • @Worldsbiggestegoist
    @Worldsbiggestegoist 5 дней назад +16

    What Shwetabh is conveying is so so so true. Listen it 10 times if you have to. I have been so scared whenever i used to play football in school tournaments and also club level but once i removed my thoughts from winning or losing and just enjoyed the thing in my case football i never once had to look for motivation/discipline etc for changing my bad habits into good ones. Forget about the outcome just focus on the process of whatever you are doing( study,sports,music,art,etc.). Try to be perfect in the little details and keep a mindset that you are already there. Then all you need to do is work on your shit. Nobody can defeat you then 🙌.

  • @Chahat-w3z
    @Chahat-w3z 5 дней назад +48

    Studied for 6 hours
    And took first step towards my mental health by taking therapy felt good.

  • @gamerspride.
    @gamerspride. 5 дней назад +14

    100% true words brother.
    This teachings should be implemented in our life to become successful and it will give correct teaching about Failure and Sucess to our future childrens.
    Thank you so much brother.

  • @Ashish33556
    @Ashish33556 5 дней назад +37

    Attack Mode (Day 40)
    Went to update aadhar , so kind of messed up my schedule . But did about 80-90% of what i imagined/planned to do.
    Tasks:
    Moving charge 3 ✅
    Ketone 2 ✅
    Ketone 3 ✅
    Ketone 4 ✅
    Ketone 5 (half) ✅
    Dpp ✅
    Read a Book ✅
    Exercise (will do)
    Japanese class (added to tomorrow's work)
    🔥

  • @Thisarunk7
    @Thisarunk7 5 дней назад +16

    I can feel that when I was kid i failed in 2 nd class and i remember that my all teachers insulated me every day in prayer front of all students then I lost interest in study until that one teacher came and teach me how to learn she treat me with ampthy if she was not there I will not become from failure to topper of my classes across my life I always thank that person my guru mam it's really important how to treat children in failure I hope Indian parents and teachers improve that 😅

  • @Miss_dr.secret
    @Miss_dr.secret 5 дней назад +24

    I'm so grateful to have so supportive parents.. I'm a neet dropper student and 95 days lefts for neet exam and I'm still scoring average marks in test series then also my Father says it's ok and don't take tension just keep studying and guides me how to study and my mother always says that you have the potential to crack this exam no matter what you performed in past but you'll crack the exam this year and my both parents always say that we are always with you no matter what situation is... I'm really so thankful to god for giving me such supportive parents 🧿🧿

    • @That_Girly_Gamer
      @That_Girly_Gamer 4 дня назад +1

      I wished my dad was like that too. I my life my mom has been the only one who has helped me stay afloat in life. My dad fuc&ed my confidence. Whenever I used to ask for help, he used to scold me and that's where I learned to just bottle up my feelings and keep killing myself for it. It is only in my last semester of my college that I collected the courage to meet a psychologist over a videocall. I'm thankful I did this. Even if the world calls me weak for it.

    • @vedika6260
      @vedika6260 4 дня назад +1

      ​@@That_Girly_Gamer even my father keeps killing my confidence every now and then n unfortunately I can't do anything. Only my mother supports me

    • @Kartik_Sajwan
      @Kartik_Sajwan 2 дня назад +2

      Same dude can't relate to any childhood trauma

    • @BhumikaChauhan-q7c
      @BhumikaChauhan-q7c 9 часов назад +1

      Bro pls adopt me😞

  • @drawwithvashu8572
    @drawwithvashu8572 5 дней назад +185

    Bro is becoming ryan Reynolds day by day💀

    • @Hey_ItsSid
      @Hey_ItsSid 5 дней назад +17

      Bro's genuinely looking like Ryan Reynolds in thumbnail😂

    • @rohituikey1522
      @rohituikey1522 5 дней назад +4

      Bro is looking younger day by day

    • @MpMan-w5d
      @MpMan-w5d 5 дней назад

      ​@@rohituikey1522 it shows how messed up air quality is in india he looked like hell when he was here im not even talking about mensutra days like just when he came to maheshwari

    • @sabyasachi426
      @sabyasachi426 5 дней назад

      One more guy for whom I will be homo😅

  • @riyanirala5485
    @riyanirala5485 5 дней назад +60

    idk why
    but i cried while watching this video! thank you sir!

    • @unknownman0009-k7i
      @unknownman0009-k7i 5 дней назад +5

      You're very sensitive bro , its not good for this world , be mentally strong
      Just advice more power to you

    • @vedikamishra009
      @vedikamishra009 5 дней назад

      @@unknownman0009-k7i wahh, let him cry dude, already most men are emotionally stunted

    • @amvereditz5197
      @amvereditz5197 5 дней назад +7

      ​@@unknownman0009-k7i bhai don't judge anyone just by statement maybe this video hit some personal strings to him that's why he cried

    • @unknownman0009-k7i
      @unknownman0009-k7i 4 дня назад +2

      @@amvereditz5197 hmm you're right but mene ache se hi bola bhai this world is not for sensitive you have to be strong
      But yeah still sorry riyan bro

    • @Armicus334
      @Armicus334 2 дня назад

      ​@@unknownman0009-k7i she's a girl bro

  • @rahulsmusic-6932
    @rahulsmusic-6932 5 дней назад +15

    To every person, young or old, who feels defeated - Your worth isn’t measured by winning. Societies like India’s push rankings over passion, making kids fear failure and adults demand perfection. But "I lost" doesn’t mean "I failed" it means "I tried, I learned." True growth is in the effort, not applause. Celebrate showing up, not just trophies. You are enough, always. Remember - You didn’t lose, you grew.🙏

  • @mishmay9
    @mishmay9 5 дней назад +41

    Much needed this video bhai...
    I feel like giving upon people and everything. I promise I won't quit until I succeed. I will grow hard and better. I won't loose...
    Everytime I started something of my own where I was good. My father thought that it will never make me engineer or IAS. I loved coding and maths but I never wanted to do it for academics...
    I started dubbing as side option to relieve my stress but he said its all waste of time...
    Everything I did or tried new where I was good and better. He said this is not for me.
    I had given up on him and hate him now. Even my mother too...
    BECAUSE THEY SAID IT ONTO MY FACE...
    "Tumhari baatein matter hi nahi karti aur hame nahi fark padta hai tumse".

    • @shashwatmali3640
      @shashwatmali3640 5 дней назад

      @@mishmay9 bhai us , mere sath bhi same ho rha hai , Mera interest social media pe hai Ai videos create krta hu
      Per wo samjte nhi hai aur bolte ye sab kn hai , mujhe IAS officer banne ka bolte hai , mujhe 7-8 saal se bol rhe per mujhe wo banna hi nhi hai
      Jab bhi me kuch bolta mujhe ye krta hu Ai create krta hu , to wahi same chiz bolte hai "teri baate samj nhi aati bhenchod chutiya mt ban" bhot gaali dete hai
      Issi wajah se me unko jhoot bolta hu ki me pad rha hu lekin me mera productive work hi kr rha hota hu
      Aur mujhe merepe 101% trust hai mujhpe , pura din kaam krke mene bhot gaaliya suni hai mujhe kaamchor rakhdail bola lekin mene kabhi ghussa nahi kiya mera dimag mera control me rehta hai isliye mujhe khudpe 101% trust hai ki mera goal complete hoga
      But i dont blame my dad qki ab unka background hi aasa tha to jyada samaj nhi paaye isliye me samajta hu inki galti nhi qki mere papa ne bhi unki life puri kaam krte nikaal di hai business me + mene jo maanga hai mujhe diya hai per instant nahi mujhe realize hua chizo ka tab (matlab jo chahta tha mil jaata tha bhale kabhi paise na ho ❤ he loves me)

    • @Prem-k2x1x
      @Prem-k2x1x 5 дней назад

      That's sad

    • @Civilservice25
      @Civilservice25 4 дня назад +2

      Bhai all the best yr you can do it just listen to yourself because at the end the only person who stays with you is you only never give up on things which you want to do ❤

    • @moksh_00
      @moksh_00 4 дня назад +1

      Keep at it, you can do it brother, You are always stronger than you know you are .

    • @mishmay9
      @mishmay9 4 дня назад

      @@Reigns08 Yes I am

  • @Mahinkatariya
    @Mahinkatariya 5 дней назад +64

    Me clicking the video thinking koi controversy hogayi , learning parenting skills for future before leaving the video 🌚

  • @sarthakraj8577
    @sarthakraj8577 День назад +1

    Thank you sir for your videos, the way you speak, what you speak really pushes me to think and be better. The years of experience and the accumulated knowledge really broaden my paradigm or change it at a quantum level.
    I am an attacker and here are the achievements of today(4-2-25)
    Learned 2 songs on the guitar(started learning guitar 3 days ago)
    Practiced Raga Bihag for 1h and 30 mins
    Completed all practical file work
    Choreographed a dance
    Physics- chapter Waves studied
    Did Yoga and Calisthenics for 1 h 10 min
    The Placebo is real
    This community is one of a kind and the comments really push me to perform my best everyday
    Thank you everyone!

  • @sandesh_3_3
    @sandesh_3_3 5 дней назад +17

    Productivity is at the lowest peak from the past 3-4 days ,
    Studied only 1 and half hours till now .
    I am literally exhausted studying 7 - 8 hours daily from the past 2 years .
    Exam is after 3 months and I feel very helpless !!

    • @meghthakkar9651
      @meghthakkar9651 2 дня назад +1

      Comon bro you can't stop now one last time give it your best I trust in you❤

  • @jai_chauhan_
    @jai_chauhan_ 5 дней назад +16

    My favourite Indian creator is back again! Wow, just wow I had so much potential hidden inside me. Its just been a week and a half & I have been practising a variety of things be it Spoken English, or workouts, and even my focus has increased a multitude. Truly the content that should be promoted. Props to you my brother.

  • @haris50ss84
    @haris50ss84 5 дней назад +22

    Ye video kafi achha laga, bahot badhiya.
    Bhai ke concepts kafi gajab hote hai. Kyunki in chizon ka hame pata hota hai lekin jaroori ye hai na ki chizon ko ese dekhne ki and sochne ki jyada jaroorat hai.

  • @ExplorerMode07
    @ExplorerMode07 5 дней назад +7

    Conditioning plays a very important role in the development of a child. I have been curious since my childhood, and that curiosity helped me score good marks in school. However, I was bullied badly by the neighborhood boys for three or four years, which made me feel physically weaker than everyone. Although I am good at studies because I can grasp things quicker than those around me, I still can't feel confident about myself because I feel physically weak, despite having a normal physique. I am still fighting to gain confidence, which I have never truly felt.

  • @krishnasharma657
    @krishnasharma657 5 дней назад +9

    Been following u since my jee times, now I'm placed in a mnc with a decent package.
    Thank u for being the elder brother I always wanted and providing motivation, guidance n perspectives throughout my journey🙏🙏🙏
    Got ur book and will get attack mode with my first salary. Thank u for everything bhai!!!

  • @DhruvArora-d4l
    @DhruvArora-d4l 4 дня назад +2

    Shwetabh Bhai the main issue what I have personally felt is that some parents fell that scolding them, illtreating them and hurting them will make more strong, but what they forget is that it just kills the kid inside them, all they are left with is trauma, self doubt and guilt with confidence.

  • @shivanshnigam4015
    @shivanshnigam4015 4 дня назад +5

    so grateful to have parents who never cared for medals, trophies, certificates wnd just loved me for who i am and so thankful to my fathers whos very proud of me that i can solve differents kinds of rubiks cubes and supported me when i had an intrest in electronics

  • @hrshtmlng
    @hrshtmlng 5 дней назад +8

    So today was my last exm so studied for that 1hr, 2hrs of classes, 2 hrs of boxing nd other essential workouts, cooked food today as well, now will study abt LLMs before sleeping. 6hrs of productive day!!

  • @liteyagami654
    @liteyagami654 5 дней назад +7

    started working hard and taking actions (today was the first day and it was satisfactory)

  • @Abhishek17_knight
    @Abhishek17_knight 2 дня назад +1

    3rd Feb. Monday today. And i had been at hospital for a whole month. Gona start my journey yet again from today no matter what. Small steps and small increments. Let's get it. 🤘🤘

  • @notmyrealname-g8g
    @notmyrealname-g8g 5 дней назад +12

    honestly since I was a kid i got compared to my cousins a lot , because of which , I had the habit of not participating in things , because i was scared to lose (thats why I stopped playing chess when i once lost a match , stopped drawing because there was someone better than me , never ever sang in front of anyone cause I always thought that I am not good at singing , even stopped putting too much efforts in studies because someone was better than me , because of which even though I loved physics , I couldn't bring myself to put too much effort) honestly the fear of failure is very very deep rooted in me , so much that i stopped certain things , or never did certain things in front of other (anyways) 6 hours studies of Biology and Physics (for IAT exam) and 1 hour geography (for NDA) , 1 hour current affairs (for NDA) , 30 minute walk

    • @theplmotivationofficial
      @theplmotivationofficial 5 дней назад +5

      Bro. Atleast you are self aware.
      I am also a hyper self aware person. I know about my weakness, whay shaped my current behaviour. What triggers me? And I think self awareness comes from lot of overthinking.
      I think you should do positive self talk. It really helps. Think like you are a big personality.
      This kind of self persona helps a lot.

    • @notmyrealname-g8g
      @notmyrealname-g8g 4 дня назад +1

      @@theplmotivationofficial thank you for your suggestion (and also for reading my long comment) but i dont think i can do positive self talk (its something i never did) and idk i feel like i dont deserve doing that but anyways , i will try to do things bit by bit at least . All the best to you.

    • @iessdd
      @iessdd 4 дня назад

      ​@@theplmotivationofficialeven i do a lot of overthinking. I always thought i m doing right cuz it will help me to know me better but i ended up weakening myself n i messed up everything i had. I always thought taking stress/tension will give me marks n achievements as universe/god will think i think abt it a lot or i care abt it so i should get results but instead of working hard, i just remained taking stress/tension sleeping more than 10hrs a day.....

  • @yashrajgaira4644
    @yashrajgaira4644 5 дней назад +15

    Bhai essa title mat lagao mujhe lga case har gaye😂😂

  • @Bladify
    @Bladify 5 дней назад +6

    Take a break for some days after my JEE exam which went crazy good. Reward received at cost of no sleep nights and my school practicals are also going on so focused on that and studied less. Now my practicals are over, I will restart from tomorrow the 14 hour grind routine.

  • @blah4709
    @blah4709 5 дней назад +4

    Attack Mode Day 31
    -exercise
    -Prayer
    -Studied Phy
    -Studied for CS practicals
    (Attended my Phy Practical Board exam did well in it )

  • @KANISHKSAH
    @KANISHKSAH 5 дней назад +11

    5-8am maths
    9am-12pm physics
    1-3pm chemistry
    5-9pm question practice and mock tests
    studied - 12hrs today..... got distracted for a short time in the afternoon but went back to track

  • @intaellectual2401
    @intaellectual2401 5 дней назад +5

    Parents love is conditional. I learned it the hard way.

  • @OjusOk
    @OjusOk 5 дней назад +6

    7hr self study
    1.5hr of exercise
    30mins of reading something new knowledge about spirituality
    Thank you for your videos I love them 😊😊

  • @amangupta13
    @amangupta13 4 дня назад +1

    Did 1 hours of work last day just gettting started will be here update daily about my progress ,
    Still watching tutorial and making notes although hopefully will also start getting my hands dirty by applying concepts i learned

  • @Raazi64
    @Raazi64 5 дней назад +7

    Sir, i started watching you from. Since 2 months
    And i stop all the bullshit that wastes my time i started from zero and now i became atlest to make focus on myself this occur cause of you

  • @Ayesha_11122
    @Ayesha_11122 День назад

    Thank you ❤ I relate to this. You know, I think for the longest time I didn't even act like I was a "real human being". I was completely dissociated. I did have some fighter instincts that never made me BELIEVE that I didn't deserve love. I wasn't submissive. That helped to some extent. Still a lot of unlearning, and a lot of re-parenting to do to myself. I'll say to myself what you said at 6:40 ish around. Being my own parent.

  • @Mangalamkumar-z2k
    @Mangalamkumar-z2k 5 дней назад +11

    Please,kabhi bhi app ye mat sab bolna mat chodna. Yeh topic pura core mai hit hua.

    • @good_life8888
      @good_life8888 3 дня назад

      Kyu paise barbaad kar rha hai, kisi gareeb ko de de, jyada aa rhe hai to, chal chhod jo karna hai wo kar, tere paise hai

  • @prasannavaishnav2075
    @prasannavaishnav2075 3 дня назад +1

    broo you really get me, sirf aapke karan mai boost ho jata hunn apne goal ke prati sirf aapke video ke pehla 1 mmin dekh ke uffff that fuels me. just be there with me so that i can bring the best out of me. THANKS FOR EVERYTHING

  • @God_O_Lord
    @God_O_Lord 5 дней назад +8

    Loved your video today, you described super important stuff in just a few simple words. I'll revist this once a week, it us helpful.

  • @maheenminha4359
    @maheenminha4359 5 дней назад +1

    Didn't do anything today took a long awaited nap I'm feeling so refreshed btw
    (Non attack mode)
    Wrote 750 words (1 hour)
    Babysitted my cousin (1 hour)
    Will wash dishes after dinner
    I feel so motivated after watching your videos whenever my mind isn't on one place listening to you no matter what topic gives me a push i love it ❤

  • @magicalwolf4474
    @magicalwolf4474 5 дней назад +12

    Bhai muje toh video dekte dekte rona aa gya.. pr koi nhi me iesa insan bnunga...bus esa feel hota he kash mere paresnts b ese hote. But currently m detached feel krta hu ..

    • @priyamvashi2187
      @priyamvashi2187 5 дней назад +1

      Same

    • @Pakchats123
      @Pakchats123 5 дней назад +3

      this is something personal
      Something I learned ....that We are our Own parents
      Our Younger self is Broken
      hes a part of our self "those videos about kill the boy and become a man are useless"
      hes hurt
      You cant kill him, he is your part
      the only way is to face him, hug him and say "I GOT YOU, I am here"
      by combining the mans discipline and that inner childs ambition
      it will create and give boost to productivity and creativity "again"

    • @KrishnaKohli-r2u
      @KrishnaKohli-r2u 2 дня назад

      Bro isme parents ki bhi koi galti nahi hai, humare india mein mostly parents uneducated hote hai and middle class background se aate hain, woh toh humara accha hi chahte hain, agar unhe pehle se pta hota ki iss way mein parenting karni chahiye toh woh vaisa hi karte, but sadly unhe ye chizein nahi pta thi and woh bas society ke according chalte hain and lastly as shwetabh said "jo chizein ho chuki unhe nahi badal sakte but jo hone wali hai unhe badla ja sakta hai" so aap ensure karo ki aap apne bacchon ko acchi parenting doge. Dhanyawad

    • @magicalwolf4474
      @magicalwolf4474 2 дня назад

      @KrishnaKohli-r2u Haan Bhai ekdm shi bat keh rhi ho. Muje b esa he lgta h

  • @GrovesMOfficial
    @GrovesMOfficial 5 дней назад +7

    6:45 this just made me cry.... because only if my upbringing was like this i would be so better mentally and would be so ahead.. it was all reverse in my childhood lol
    also
    its been an okaish day
    designed my own business cards
    did visualizer for music - needed to do a lot of research and shit for hours
    step goal completed today
    first day of learning blender (side hobby but also going to be helpful in my main goal) - also result of researching

  • @amanverma3233
    @amanverma3233 5 дней назад +8

    9:28 Travis Head aur puri Australian cricket team ka mindset ekdam yahi hai ki performance de do har jit bad ki bat hai

  • @sumantamunda6071
    @sumantamunda6071 5 дней назад +2

    These things I had to overcome by journaling.

  • @41shauryasharma90
    @41shauryasharma90 5 дней назад +7

    Day 5 Attack mode / monk mode
    Studied 9 hours
    Read 5 chapters of who will cry when you die ? , 1 chapter of Everything is fucked , 1 chapter of grow and think rich
    Went on a jog at 5 am
    Will exercise after this.
    Things improved : 1.5 hr increase in study time reached the goal and started jogging now will continue it daily.
    Things to improve sleep schedule and concentration.

  • @DanteMcClutch
    @DanteMcClutch 5 дней назад +2

    In few months I'll graduate from visual arts and now gonna pursue UI UX design, thank you shwetabh bhai

  • @THREEMUSKETEERS-st7xh
    @THREEMUSKETEERS-st7xh 5 дней назад +8

    New pr set kia pushups me.
    Jitna goal rakha tha woh pura complete kia.
    Did well in all perspectives today.
    Consumed a healthy diet.
    Read 53 pages of a new book.
    Becoming better every day brother all thanks to you for saving me

  • @Hiimaanshhuu
    @Hiimaanshhuu 5 дней назад +6

    Attack Mode:
    9 Hours office
    3 Hours Coding
    20 Min Reading
    20 Min Chilling
    Acheived 74 percent of my weekly tasks
    Going great❤

  • @NovaStream9
    @NovaStream9 5 дней назад +6

    Much needed video for me Shwetabh.

  • @sampurakghosh.5152
    @sampurakghosh.5152 5 дней назад +6

    Attack Mode: -
    4:30 Wake up and morning mantras.
    5:15 Yoga.
    6:40 At school.
    13:05 Workout.
    14:15 Lunch and rest.
    15:20 Accounts PYQ solved.
    17:50 Tuitions.
    20:50 Statistics completed Mean deviation.
    22:20 Bedtime.

  • @i-am-not-a-bad-slime
    @i-am-not-a-bad-slime 5 дней назад +15

    thanks for the motivation :)
    however i feel even if i buy your course i would still fail and not follow up with the work I assigned myself.

    • @GangstaPerspectives
      @GangstaPerspectives  5 дней назад +10

      This video is for you.

    • @GODdank
      @GODdank 5 дней назад +6

      Perhaps you are overwieght and depressed like me. When i lost weight in the past my mood and life got a lot better but when i got fat it all went wrong again obesity heavily affects health and hormones so try and fix physical health first good luck.

    • @rajveersisodiya3076
      @rajveersisodiya3076 5 дней назад +1

      ​@@GODdank same problem for me

    • @i-am-not-a-bad-slime
      @i-am-not-a-bad-slime 5 дней назад +1

      @@GODdank well, i think I'm not obese (still got the indian uncle belly though) still i feel lost and unmotivated. most importantly, i feel lethargic. mera vit d and b12 thik hai phir bhi.

    • @i-am-not-a-bad-slime
      @i-am-not-a-bad-slime 5 дней назад +1

      ​@@GangstaPerspectives @GangstaPerspectives well, first things first, I AM REALLY HAPPY YOU REPLIED!!! i never thought our para social relationship will affect me 😂
      and yes, thank you for this perspective. however, I don't think the external motivation affects me. I think it's more like I expect high returns from my self. I gaslight myself you could say.
      How can I combat that?
      Anyways, Thank you so much. I really like your work.

  • @PadhakuBhaiya
    @PadhakuBhaiya 4 дня назад +2

    I am 20 and i faced all these things,but i try that my children don't face that type of things 😔

  • @ArjunaInAction
    @ArjunaInAction 5 дней назад +3

    64% tasks was completed in January
    9% improvement from the previous month.
    Attack Mode
    • learning about finance - Done
    • chest, shoulder & triceps - Done
    • Cardio - Done
    • 90gm+ protein intake - Done
    • 8 hour sleep - Done

  • @Jadhavmayur369
    @Jadhavmayur369 4 дня назад +1

    The pain of discipline is better than pain of regret 🗿

  • @saifTHE111
    @saifTHE111 5 дней назад +10

    5 hrs study : Morphology of flowering plants ☘️. : molecular basis of inheritance NCERT ❤ 💖 Attack mode ✂️

  • @omnipotent9924
    @omnipotent9924 4 дня назад +1

    The kid is me in my childhood wish someone was there to teach me this at that time.

  • @maniksinghal2944
    @maniksinghal2944 5 дней назад +3

    Completed 72% tasks in january month, feeling pretty good
    Became one of the best player in our badminton club
    became consistent in my gym again
    Started reading again
    Started yoga again
    Focusing on enhancing money and skill
    followed my routine despite exams
    If my whole year will be like this month i will be King Kong literally

  • @imamangoo8632
    @imamangoo8632 5 дней назад +2

    Everyone watching Shwetabh is a working or studying person
    Please Work hard without distraction and than you are allowed say that "I didn't lost in the battle, i learnt from it"
    If you dont even work hard and just go there you wont learn anything and you have already lost long time ago

  • @Blamejordan97
    @Blamejordan97 5 дней назад +3

    Starting attack mode once again tomorrow morning...been sick for almost 15 days ...sorry swetabh bhaiya ....

  • @priyankamondal1769
    @priyankamondal1769 5 дней назад +3

    Shwetabh vai . I followed attack mode and fight every day with my comfort zone and I wins at the end.thank u vai.

  • @adisonmasih
    @adisonmasih 5 дней назад +3

    Attack mode day 10
    - woke up at 6:30
    - went to morning walk & drank juice (5k steps)
    - reached office at 10:15
    - worked 8 hours
    - added learning data to the "NEW ME" template
    - investigated a problem using the "Problem Solving & Solution" template
    - healthy meals
    - exercised
    Today have to stay up till 1 AM due to some urgent work, but will still try to wake up 6:30 so that the schedule doesn't get haltered.

  • @NimishAgrahari
    @NimishAgrahari 5 дней назад +42

    Becoming THE BEST day 10
    1. Physics 4hr
    2. Chemistry 2hr
    3. Workout done
    No social media, No netflix but erotism
    2hr Continuous sitting decreased by 1hr
    Screen time reduced by half ( because of no online lectures)
    Not satisfied by today
    Will try to get better tomorrow !!

    • @shivanshsharma7244
      @shivanshsharma7244 5 дней назад

      erotism?

    • @NimishAgrahari
      @NimishAgrahari 5 дней назад

      @shivanshsharma7244 kaam vasna (sexual desire) !! I'm really addicted but trying to reduce it

    • @atharvasg5418
      @atharvasg5418 5 дней назад

      @@shivanshsharma7244sexual desire

    • @awesomeanime3644
      @awesomeanime3644 5 дней назад

      Masturbation kiya kya bro 😅😅😅😂

    • @iadityajais
      @iadityajais 5 дней назад

      Erotism kya hai bhai?😂

  • @IGNOUBBA
    @IGNOUBBA 5 дней назад +14

    Bro mai 2nd class tak 95% lata tha phir downward aur tabse mei ek failure hu parents ke hisaab se.
    edit:- unke hisaab se jeet matlab "kisi se jeetna".

    • @idontknowpoppy
      @idontknowpoppy 5 дней назад

      Bhai mere bhi 96% the 12th mai pr NEET crack nhi hua 2 drop baad bhi....mai yeh nhi kehrha ki meri galti kahi nhi thi maine starting mai thodi tension ki wgh se kaam padhai kri prr last 8 mahine mai maine apni jaan lga di thi ...pr mera selection 3 number se reh gya iss saal

    • @IGNOUBBA
      @IGNOUBBA 5 дней назад +1

      @@idontknowpoppy 96% toh bahut sahi hai bhai, mere 87% aaye the(my parents were happy from me after a decade, but their joy turn into sorrow after they get to know that my bestfriend has scored 95%, we both had PCMB).

    • @IGNOUBBA
      @IGNOUBBA 5 дней назад

      @@idontknowpoppy bhai phir try kar sakte ho, mere kuchh dost 5th attempt tak try karke govt college le chuke hai (jin pr kisi ko bharosha nhi)

  • @reflectionsonthesea9
    @reflectionsonthesea9 5 дней назад +1

    This happened to me continually for years. I lived with my aunts and uncles and they kept saying I am slow, I'm a loser and I can never do well in life, as early as when I was 3. I stopped playing with other kids entirely because I had a problem in my left leg and I could not move as fast as their kids. I isolated myself from people and even my peers because they would keep saying that I am not good enough. Even when I did well in school they would compare me to their children by saying that I could be the top of my grade but still I am so slow and dumb in practical matters I will never succeed in life. When I won anything at school they would belittle me by saying that my achievements are note even worth mentioning because they are completely useless and insignificant. I never thought I would ever be successful in life, they even critisised my skin colour as I am brown and their children are white, openly joked how they will have to marry me off with a big dowry to their milkman because that is all I am worth. I hated myself becasue of them. I am 17 and with bettter gaurdians now (still a minor). They are very kind people and made me realise that I could be liked and appreciated and I am not just a burden destined to fail in life.

  • @FlixtCxR7
    @FlixtCxR7 5 дней назад +9

    Day 1 Non attack Mode
    6hr in college
    1 hr casual gaming
    2 college assignments done
    1 hr exercise
    20 min brisk walking
    30 minute relaxation
    Total Screen time 5 hours
    Sleeping at 10.30

  • @AdityaSingh-hl6pj
    @AdityaSingh-hl6pj 5 дней назад +4

    drank 4 liters of water , almond + walnuts , did 50 bicep curls & 26 conc. curls . Its quite difficult to be faithful in the initial days But at least I m enjoying my journey

  • @Naziya-911
    @Naziya-911 5 дней назад +49

    4 hours study
    1 hour workout
    2 hours assignment
    1 hour moj masti
    2 hours gaming

    • @Harsh_rajput_70
      @Harsh_rajput_70 4 дня назад

      Kon sa game ??

    • @Naziya-911
      @Naziya-911 4 дня назад

      @Harsh_rajput_70 standoff 2
      Carxstreet
      Metalstorm

    • @ayushswain5122
      @ayushswain5122 4 дня назад

      ​@@Naziya-911 bro i also play standoff2 id bolo saath mein khelnge !

  • @anuragmahato2992
    @anuragmahato2992 4 дня назад +1

    Bro is nailing the algorithm

  • @Radhey-d9q
    @Radhey-d9q 5 дней назад +7

    shwetabh bhai luv u !!! u r such a amazing person jo sbko kaam krne ko khta hai

  • @kingsg2358
    @kingsg2358 5 дней назад +6

    let these children explore the world and make view points on thier own you'll see the world change to a better place

  • @satyam7995
    @satyam7995 5 дней назад +4

    Non Attack mode :
    Studied for 115+ hours in January.
    Yes! This month was productive for me. Will gradually increase the time🙌

  • @BhumikaChauhan-q7c
    @BhumikaChauhan-q7c 9 часов назад +1

    In the night i always think to wake up early at 5 but ended up sleeping late and waking up at 9 and then going to english classes then come at home and eat my meal and then i feel very lethargic, sleepy in noon and sleep then wake up and some study and scrolling idk whats goiton🙂

  • @Volleyvisions-00
    @Volleyvisions-00 5 дней назад +3

    Maine wbjee prep karke 3 hr...
    Then video edit ki apne channel ki football ki.....then came to your masterpiece...never miss your videos ....from West bengal

  • @faizahl
    @faizahl 5 дней назад +1

    Jan 31
    was an off day. slept, went out, watching yt

  • @danish75808
    @danish75808 5 дней назад +3

    i saw this reell today only nd it's very refreshig fr some reason... nd ur like was also there on this reel bhaiya

  • @meme_machine_1947
    @meme_machine_1947 5 дней назад +4

    Bhai i reached to an unachievable goal today , i studied for 14 hours , with 2 breaks of 30 min. Now studying for 10 hours is like Childs play.

  • @leggystudy0
    @leggystudy0 5 дней назад +6

    Bought Attack mode on 2024, destroying goals in 2025🔥✨

  • @kayharbor6
    @kayharbor6 5 дней назад +2

    I worked 85 hrs this week!
    Paid all my bills. Saved some for my home.
    Today, I cooked, spent time with my kids, got them some ice cream. Will sit down for a tutorial in some time.

  • @vikrantbhadouriya
    @vikrantbhadouriya 5 дней назад +5

    2hr physics
    Some incident happened at school so took the majority of my time
    Past two days weren't as productive but I'm glad to see my consistency come up both in terms of my work and the regularity in my sleep
    Exams too are starting soon, gotta ace them 💯
    Thanks shwetabh bhai

  • @cartoonsession7507
    @cartoonsession7507 5 дней назад +8

    3 hours study
    30 min neswpaper
    6 hours school
    2 hours study
    1 hour workout

  • @ToonX
    @ToonX 4 дня назад +2

    thank you dada

  • @rajtilak16
    @rajtilak16 5 дней назад +4

    Day 2
    1.5 hr exercise
    1 hr sketching skills practice
    2 hr study

  • @Derrytrk
    @Derrytrk 5 дней назад +2

    6 hours class and 3 hours self study and 3 hours more to go

  • @white_lie
    @white_lie 5 дней назад +3

    kitne kam kiye ho. makes my day. first time commenting. keep it up bhai. u indirectly build my confidence

  • @srilatha7273
    @srilatha7273 17 часов назад

    In Recent time children have more fear toward how will their families react towards children's failure.

  • @kushalgupta1203
    @kushalgupta1203 5 дней назад +6

    Attack Mode
    31/01/2025
    14 days left for exam
    - 3 hour PYQ
    - 3 hour mock test
    - 1 hour revision

  • @SathyaswamyS
    @SathyaswamyS 5 дней назад

    May all youngsters achieve success in their career and life.

  • @Abhi-d8d4l
    @Abhi-d8d4l 5 дней назад +49

    ATTACK MODE JANUARY UPDATE 🔥
    Parkhachhe 🦜 uda diye JANUARY 2025 ke
    195/248 tasks ✅
    1st HALF- 77.08% tasks completion 🎯
    2nd HALF- 80.01% tasks completion 🎯
    Total- 78.62% Tasks Completed⚔️💥
    Most productive month of my life ❤️
    🔴Must conclude a new law stating Success is directly proportional to the ATTACK MODE 🏹
    🔴Iss pure month ghisa, kabhi gire, kabhi uthe, par ek cheez humesha constant rhi- NEVER GIVE UP🔥
    🔴Isi month apna Syllabus Complete kara for Class 12th PCB
    🔴Isi month Bhagwad Geeta complete kari
    And many more....
    Thank you Shwetabh Bhaii ❤️

    • @thefraggers2315
      @thefraggers2315 5 дней назад +4

      Lge rho🔥

    • @Abhi-d8d4l
      @Abhi-d8d4l 5 дней назад +3

      Pin bhi kar dete bhai 📍📌

    • @raider_ffx_
      @raider_ffx_ 5 дней назад

      Bot...💀

    • @Abhi-d8d4l
      @Abhi-d8d4l 5 дней назад

      @@raider_ffx_ ghisa hai itna tab jaake itna hua, aa gye bot bolne

    • @Abhi-d8d4l
      @Abhi-d8d4l 5 дней назад

      @@raider_ffx_ maine already isey aisa banaya tha ki bhai ki nazar isi pe jaye

  • @shikhapandey242
    @shikhapandey242 2 дня назад

    Hi Shwetabh, I don't know if you will read this or not but I as a 35 year old professional and a mother would like to say that you are doing a great job. As a working mother I sometime drown in work and find it difficult to balance things but you somehow keep me grounded and focused! You don't need such captions! :)