I'm isfp and my husband is intp, we struggled with communication and misunderstandings the first couple years but now at 7 years of marriage we understand each other. We figured out our types last year and researching our types and each other types helped us to communicate much better. We balance eachother out really well, once you figure out the communication part the rest works perfectly, love my intp.
My boyfriend is INTP and I am ISFP. I totally can relate with the communication struggle specially because he sometimes doesn't really understand or bother to think what he feels. But he is so calm and logical that I finally found someone who I can feel calm and happy but not bored.. I love my INTP but haven´t tell him yet..
Hi, just a question, what do you think helped out the most in the relationship? I know it was about communication, but how? I'm an isfp and I'm interested in an intp guy, and I would like to know what helped you two balance the relationship well
@@cherrylaurr willingness on both our parts and having a foundation of values that we share, we don’t believe in divorce so both of us work hard at making this work, compromise is a major part because we have different interests. He tries to take an interest in my interests and talk with him about his. He tries to understand feelings and where I’m coming from and I try to understand when he’s coming from a “logical” standpoint. I’m also a logical person but he is interested in investing in our future while I want to make sure our present is good so that combo while we work together actually is a really great thing. Always keeping in mind our differences and how we can use those as a positive thing
@@cherrylaurr you’re going to judge him for being an asshole, when he’s actually who you THINK you are, and it might be a conflict for you that he upholds your values more than you do. He’s not going to realize your silence after he talks is because you can’t vocalize emotions the same way he can’t vocalize his thoughts accurately. He doesn’t care about emotions, you don’t care about facts. You will both need to accept that facts are useless without emotions, and emotions are useless without facts. He will also need to learn to validate your emotions before dissecting anything you say, and you need to learn he’s not arrogantly tearing your idea apart, he’s trying to understand it and may or may not find some things you missed, and you may or may not have missed those things because you weren’t upholding your values. He will be oblivious that you feel attacked.
@@ginnayepez4270 I don't know if this is too deep in the MBTI mechanics for you, but extroverted functions try to get validated by the other's introverted functions. That's why INTPS's stack of Ti, Ne, Si, and Fe are so compatible with ISFP's Fi, Se, Ni, and Te. The biggest danger is that your Te inferior is so weak compared to his Ti hero and he can easily hurt you if he makes you feel stupid and his Fe inferior that can make INTPs socially awkward to begin with can be crushed if you make him feel like a bad person. Appreciating the other person's weaknesses can help avoid poisoning communication.
I'm ISFP and my boyfriend is INTP. So much swoon, laughter to the heavens and I can't find any single bold reason not to be goddamn in love with him. He's so annoying and sometimes emotionally unavailable, but he allows me to be me and my fierce independence. In return, I always try to be logical, even though I know I'm not or merely talking stories and not even touching on logic. It flatters me when he engages me in an abstract discussion. He thinks I'm hot and very loveable. I don't care if he's lying or not. Lol
Lo Leeta Nice! I’m glad to hear your comment. I’m an INTP “skater dude” completely infatuated with a surfer ISFP girl. We’re in our mid 20’s and she’s a really attractive tomboy but I feel as an INTP I can connect with her on a whole different level past looks. We had a fun conversation on a camping trip before when I had an INFP gf but out of respect I didn’t get carried away. Now that I’m single, I want to reach out to her but I don’t want to mess up. Any tips to let her know I like her and want to get to know her without being just another guy “hitting her up”? Anything would help :)
@@MrBassface06 be yourself. Don't try to put on airs, or "impress", or make yourself seem bigger or smaller than you are. Also, appreciation for actions and little things you notice about them.
dannyh415 Sorry for the late reply. I’d say just engage. I’m clueless often that there are people who are interested in me, so I’d never know at all it’s the case unless they tell me. My INTP just told me directly about his interest. Also, I care foremost about things I like. They may be shallow like going to my favorite shop for a particular item to buy, but it can mean the world when I’m in it in that moment. You say she likes to surf? Maybe that’s her life in that moment. If you can engage in that moment, then live it with her, being your authentic self in it. Not impressive self, but human, flawed but willing to be open self. I hate it when people try to impress me, especially when they’re trying hard to be interesting or have interesting to say. It makes me cringe. I don’t mind being boring, having someone boring, or doing something boring. ISFPs are all about finding joy in the mundane. My INTP hates it, and refers to this as “shits” he has to do. Which is sad, but if you can pull yourself out of your mind and just let moments be, you can get along well with an ISFP. Then later you can coccoon in your own world, hopefully with good feelings from the moment spent with her.
@@MrBassface06 If you want a relationship with her tell her why. Tell her what you value in her. They love to receive honest praise. With Fe as a demon function they have a hard time knowing others intentions so spell it out. They will appreciate that.
@@loleeta3378 This was really helpful. I still haven’t told this surfer girl my feelings for her, but that’s okay, oddly enough, the universe gifted me with an another ISFP and it’s going very smoothly. We give each other what we need and like you said with your INTP, we are full of laughs and enjoying the moment, even if it’s the mundane. Who knew INTP/ISFP were such a match? :)
I am INTP and my ex boyfriend is ISFP. I don’t even know where to get started... first of all he always agreed with me on anything which made me question if he actually has an opinion or he does it just to please me. He always helped people, was more like a life coach 😂 but on the other hand he never wanted to hurt others and was obsessed with what people think. I tried to find a pattern in his behavior because I just wanted him for once to refuse me!!! 😠😠😠 jesus, I don’t really understand why he was so reserved. I always considered him to have so much potential and I saw him as smart as I am, maybe even envious a bit because he knew how to respond to emotional needs. I called him my partner for a good reasons, we were a good team. I was the one with the rational solutions and he the one with the “Awww, lemme kiss the boo boo.”. Tbh I didn’t get over him entirely... 😞 I love this emotional guy so much but he didn’t want to work on our differences. Also, ISFPs like staying in solitude as much as we like and I found him to conform to society really well. Personally I don’t want to but with him it was like someone who was saying “Take it easy.” We were yin and yang 😂
Teddy haha! I find myself agreeing with others a lot as well. I've been working on it. I think it's because ISFPs seek a harmonious environment and don't wish to start conflict or risk being seen a stupid for having a different opinion. My sister is an INTP and we are like yin and yang as well :).
Therese Francis it’s ok to be different! It’s ok to have a different opinion 😁 trust me... even if you say something stupid, at the end of the day, everyone does 😂 including INTPs. You won’t seem stupid trust meeee 😁 Others will probably tell you why you are wrong, just, don’t take it personally 😂 cuz from my experience you guys take lots of stuff personally 😅
I cant even decide whether im an INTP or ISFP, my test result always fall between both and the description does not even help bc both fit me equally. ugh help
@@Eliane-pf5nb I guess we'll have to understand the functions for ourselves & then identify our type! Dave SuperPowers & CS Joseph have some good definitions, although slightly different than each other.
I'm ISFP and my BF is INTP. I was immediatly attracted by him, I loved the way he acted, reserved but easygoing, calm but funny. We have the same taste in music and we both love drinking beers, I guess it helped ahah. But I must say I wish he could be more focus on reality and less on his inner world. Sometimes I talk to him and he's not even listening, or I ask him what he thinks about a concrete situation I live, what I should do, and most of the time he only answers... "I don't know" (and I'm like "don't you have any opinion about it?..." and he's like "not really" or "i'd rather not share it" 😂). Makes the communication very difficult when it's about us, my feelings and worse, HIS feelings. But at the same time he helped me to care less about people around and to value more my independence. He's smart, nice and cute so... Guess he's the most perfect imperfect person I know 😁
If he'd rather not share his opinion when asked, it means that he doesn't believe that you will accept his opinion, and you've very likely made him feel devalued
As a 53-year-old INTP that seemed to keep matching with iNfps on apps and being frustrated on how well we'd got along until their Ne read non-existent motives of mine and sabotaged our relationships, my ISFP girlfriend of a year was a breath of fresh air. With Ne trickster she really can't read motives well and trusts that I am being straight forward with her. Her natural naiveté is adorable and makes me want to protect her. The first thing to know about keeping an ISFP happy is not to limit their freedom, but they in turn respect your comfort zone as well (this might have been bad if I was in my 20's, but at my age I don't need the same kick in the butt as my Ti-Si looping isn't a problem being established as it was getting going). According to CS Joseph, the best matches for an INTP are INTJ, ENTJ, ESFP and ISFP. Given I don't like as many nights on the town as an E would want or to push myself beyond the comfortable life I have now as a J would expect, an ISFP is the perfect complement to me. INTP/ISFP relationships are perfect if you respect each other's limitations. I don't expect deep insights on issues from her and she doesn't expect me to feel as deeply about some things that she does, but she respects my mind and I respect her heart and we share the same values even if we might approach living them out in different ways. As long as we give the other space to be ourselves, we shouldn't have any troubles.
I got intp like 6 times and isfp once on those online free tests and i stopped believing in mbti because there's too much in me and i don't know it all and i haven't been in situations that show it and the more i knew about mbti the more i saw that it's not accurate , but it made me know myself way more and know alot on my weaknesses and strength i didn't knew too much but i got happy everytime i find out how much of an intp i am because i like being categorized
@@Jane-mv4ex You need to unlearn that stuff first! It's too difficult, I know, I myself am still suffering from that (not the school part, the dichotomy part)
The online test is a joke! I have taken the test in both high school and college in Interpersonal Communications classes and came up INTP. The vague online one makes me INFP every time.
ISFPs rock when they are not under the grip of their Fi -demon (which makes them brood, think they are the persecuted isht, and then lash out at anyone): they are down to earth, funny and just radiate a smart craziness. I appreciate their unpredictability because it is more of a temporary quirk rather than an overwhelming crisis (like in the case of those INFPs). However, as a strong introvert-intuitive-thinker myself, I find it IMPOSSIBLE to lift conversations beyond what is under their artsy eyes: they pretty much score ZERO when it comes to abstraction. I know too many ISFP artists who worship Picasso and Gauguin but cannot, for the sake of Art, ever try to understand whatever Dali or Miro painted. They tend to limit their scope on purpose.
ISFPs have tertiary Ni, so they can be pretty abstract depending on how well developed they are in their tertiary function. I myself prefer Dali and Miro over Picasso and Gauguin. It's not pure black and white when it comes to abstractions.
I fully agree on the INFP part. We started out great until her overwhelming crisis became overbearing for the both of us. She moved back with her parents.
I love INTP's. My sister is an INTP, another close friend is an INTP, and a few other friends are INTJ. I know they are supposed to be uncommon, but in my area they are everywhere. I like that they tend to talk about anything and everything. I am a good listener and am one of the few people any of them know that has the patience to follow their insane thought trains, lol. I prefer to talk with thinking types because I get the intellectual stimulation I need. They tend to have well developed senses of humor as well, which is a huge plus. The only qualm I have is that they doubt themselves so much. I really care about the INTXs in my life, so it makes me sad that they don't see the potential or success that I see. In short, I love INTXs and ENTXs :).
Aww, so glad to read that! As an INTJ I conversely find a lot to admire about most ISFPs. So creative, kind, caring, down to earth, and much more! I think as an INTJ I see traits that I can relate to but at the same time some of those traits are not big strengths for me, like easily socializing with people and picking up on the nuances in the moment as your type can tend to do. Thus, I'm very appreciative of the personality :)
For Ti dominant users, Fi dominant users have the most potential to create cataclismic clashes with the INTP. Those Fi users have absolutely ZERO problems stepping on the INTPs toes for the sake of principles and values and shut the INTPs opinion off.... and the Fi dominant users are quite close minded, compared to the INTP... Fi vs Ti can create volcanoes... The Fi users are champions of subjective judgements.... except they are not rationnal, often, and almost never flexible... If you are with a Fi dominant user, make sure the perceiving functions are the same... otherwise you'll feel a huge incompatibility of character... INTP+INFP can be fine... (Ne- Si in common) ISTP+ISFP can be fine...
This seems very biased against Fi users. So here's my take on the Ti users from an Fi user. Basically all of the things you said, but the positions are swapped. Ti users have absolutely no problem thinking they're the smartest and shut off any other rationales because they're the "logical" ones. And their logic makes sense, but there's only so much sense logic can make until you step into intra-personal relationship issues. Here, the Ti is inflexible and insistent on the fact that logic rules above all else, when this is truly not the case. In this region, Ti users are quite close-minded, compared to the ISFP, who tend to accept things as they are. But yes, Fi vs Ti can create volcanoes. My best friend is a Ti while I'm an Fi. The friendship is very turbulent, but we are always quick to forget our arguments. They are never resolved and may pop up time and again, but the friendship doesn't really end.
for me when come to isfp girls I general find them tiring because when they open up they are very emotional. Since they are sensors it just adds to the drain. For ISFJ girls they are more logical so they not as drained when they talking to INTP and if they have well develop inferior ne they can be nerdy. ISFP girls even when they have degree in medical field still act like hardcore fs and zero interest in talk about nerdy things. male isfps have well develop inferior te which makes them easier to talk to.
@@spark300c I get it, but still want to know what is those "fs" literally mean? Is it a shorten word or something else? **Anyway on the topic itself; I as an intp generally find the "zen presence" of isfp are very attractive, they live in the moment and down to earth people. Moreover as I become more and more easily recognizing on of them from the streets. I also like them as they are very open minded person, and generally non judgmental toward others, usually I don't feel anxiety around an ISFP.
@@honor9lite1337 with me I am intp but Do not find ISFP attractive at all. They just too girly for me. I then relate better to infps because of intuition. You can talk about geeky things if infps are willing to come out of their shell. how ever usually can not talk nerdy things. nerd talk is ussaly nt or st talk. Then again I am 5w6. f stand for feeler and they like to talk about people things.
@@spark300c I fell that's their role, right? To keep you grounded on earth and also appreciate the current moment. But maybe that also an age thing, as an intp get older they would find an isfp as very enchanting.
I'm isfp and my husband is intp, we struggled with communication and misunderstandings the first couple years but now at 7 years of marriage we understand each other. We figured out our types last year and researching our types and each other types helped us to communicate much better. We balance eachother out really well, once you figure out the communication part the rest works perfectly, love my intp.
My boyfriend is INTP and I am ISFP. I totally can relate with the communication struggle specially because he sometimes doesn't really understand or bother to think what he feels. But he is so calm and logical that I finally found someone who I can feel calm and happy but not bored.. I love my INTP but haven´t tell him yet..
Hi, just a question, what do you think helped out the most in the relationship? I know it was about communication, but how? I'm an isfp and I'm interested in an intp guy, and I would like to know what helped you two balance the relationship well
@@cherrylaurr willingness on both our parts and having a foundation of values that we share, we don’t believe in divorce so both of us work hard at making this work, compromise is a major part because we have different interests. He tries to take an interest in my interests and talk with him about his. He tries to understand feelings and where I’m coming from and I try to understand when he’s coming from a “logical” standpoint. I’m also a logical person but he is interested in investing in our future while I want to make sure our present is good so that combo while we work together actually is a really great thing. Always keeping in mind our differences and how we can use those as a positive thing
@@cherrylaurr you’re going to judge him for being an asshole, when he’s actually who you THINK you are, and it might be a conflict for you that he upholds your values more than you do. He’s not going to realize your silence after he talks is because you can’t vocalize emotions the same way he can’t vocalize his thoughts accurately. He doesn’t care about emotions, you don’t care about facts. You will both need to accept that facts are useless without emotions, and emotions are useless without facts. He will also need to learn to validate your emotions before dissecting anything you say, and you need to learn he’s not arrogantly tearing your idea apart, he’s trying to understand it and may or may not find some things you missed, and you may or may not have missed those things because you weren’t upholding your values. He will be oblivious that you feel attacked.
@@ginnayepez4270 I don't know if this is too deep in the MBTI mechanics for you, but extroverted functions try to get validated by the other's introverted functions. That's why INTPS's stack of Ti, Ne, Si, and Fe are so compatible with ISFP's Fi, Se, Ni, and Te. The biggest danger is that your Te inferior is so weak compared to his Ti hero and he can easily hurt you if he makes you feel stupid and his Fe inferior that can make INTPs socially awkward to begin with can be crushed if you make him feel like a bad person. Appreciating the other person's weaknesses can help avoid poisoning communication.
I'm ISFP and my boyfriend is INTP. So much swoon, laughter to the heavens and I can't find any single bold reason not to be goddamn in love with him. He's so annoying and sometimes emotionally unavailable, but he allows me to be me and my fierce independence. In return, I always try to be logical, even though I know I'm not or merely talking stories and not even touching on logic. It flatters me when he engages me in an abstract discussion. He thinks I'm hot and very loveable. I don't care if he's lying or not. Lol
Lo Leeta Nice! I’m glad to hear your comment. I’m an INTP “skater dude” completely infatuated with a surfer ISFP girl. We’re in our mid 20’s and she’s a really attractive tomboy but I feel as an INTP I can connect with her on a whole different level past looks. We had a fun conversation on a camping trip before when I had an INFP gf but out of respect I didn’t get carried away. Now that I’m single, I want to reach out to her but I don’t want to mess up. Any tips to let her know I like her and want to get to know her without being just another guy “hitting her up”? Anything would help :)
@@MrBassface06 be yourself. Don't try to put on airs, or "impress", or make yourself seem bigger or smaller than you are. Also, appreciation for actions and little things you notice about them.
dannyh415 Sorry for the late reply. I’d say just engage. I’m clueless often that there are people who are interested in me, so I’d never know at all it’s the case unless they tell me. My INTP just told me directly about his interest. Also, I care foremost about things I like. They may be shallow like going to my favorite shop for a particular item to buy, but it can mean the world when I’m in it in that moment. You say she likes to surf? Maybe that’s her life in that moment. If you can engage in that moment, then live it with her, being your authentic self in it. Not impressive self, but human, flawed but willing to be open self. I hate it when people try to impress me, especially when they’re trying hard to be interesting or have interesting to say. It makes me cringe. I don’t mind being boring, having someone boring, or doing something boring. ISFPs are all about finding joy in the mundane. My INTP hates it, and refers to this as “shits” he has to do. Which is sad, but if you can pull yourself out of your mind and just let moments be, you can get along well with an ISFP. Then later you can coccoon in your own world, hopefully with good feelings from the moment spent with her.
@@MrBassface06 If you want a relationship with her tell her why. Tell her what you value in her. They love to receive honest praise. With Fe as a demon function they have a hard time knowing others intentions so spell it out. They will appreciate that.
@@loleeta3378 This was really helpful. I still haven’t told this surfer girl my feelings for her, but that’s okay, oddly enough, the universe gifted me with an another ISFP and it’s going very smoothly. We give each other what we need and like you said with your INTP, we are full of laughs and enjoying the moment, even if it’s the mundane. Who knew INTP/ISFP were such a match? :)
I am INTP and my ex boyfriend is ISFP. I don’t even know where to get started... first of all he always agreed with me on anything which made me question if he actually has an opinion or he does it just to please me. He always helped people, was more like a life coach 😂 but on the other hand he never wanted to hurt others and was obsessed with what people think. I tried to find a pattern in his behavior because I just wanted him for once to refuse me!!! 😠😠😠 jesus, I don’t really understand why he was so reserved. I always considered him to have so much potential and I saw him as smart as I am, maybe even envious a bit because he knew how to respond to emotional needs. I called him my partner for a good reasons, we were a good team. I was the one with the rational solutions and he the one with the “Awww, lemme kiss the boo boo.”. Tbh I didn’t get over him entirely... 😞 I love this emotional guy so much but he didn’t want to work on our differences. Also, ISFPs like staying in solitude as much as we like and I found him to conform to society really well. Personally I don’t want to but with him it was like someone who was saying “Take it easy.” We were yin and yang 😂
I'm sorry to hear it didn't work out! Thanks for sharing.
Teddy haha! I find myself agreeing with others a lot as well. I've been working on it. I think it's because ISFPs seek a harmonious environment and don't wish to start conflict or risk being seen a stupid for having a different opinion. My sister is an INTP and we are like yin and yang as well :).
Therese Francis it’s ok to be different! It’s ok to have a different opinion 😁 trust me... even if you say something stupid, at the end of the day, everyone does 😂 including INTPs. You won’t seem stupid trust meeee 😁 Others will probably tell you why you are wrong, just, don’t take it personally 😂 cuz from my experience you guys take lots of stuff personally 😅
Teddy What's the piece of advice would you like to give an isfp to be successful in their relationship with an intp? :)
@@veluprabhakar7335 Still in it? I'm ISFP and could give some advice.
Both of these types simulate each other. Both stubborn, but equally refreshing to each other.
I cant even decide whether im an INTP or ISFP, my test result always fall between both and the description does not even help bc both fit me equally. ugh help
Same here! Stuck between INTP, INFP & ISFP.
@@Eliane-pf5nb
I guess we'll have to understand the functions for ourselves & then identify our type! Dave SuperPowers & CS Joseph have some good definitions, although slightly different than each other.
I always end up usually getting infp, Isfp, intp, or infj
Me too, every time i take mbti tests i get either ISFP or ISTP
2 years later… do you know now?
I'm ISFP and my BF is INTP. I was immediatly attracted by him, I loved the way he acted, reserved but easygoing, calm but funny. We have the same taste in music and we both love drinking beers, I guess it helped ahah. But I must say I wish he could be more focus on reality and less on his inner world. Sometimes I talk to him and he's not even listening, or I ask him what he thinks about a concrete situation I live, what I should do, and most of the time he only answers... "I don't know" (and I'm like "don't you have any opinion about it?..." and he's like "not really" or "i'd rather not share it" 😂). Makes the communication very difficult when it's about us, my feelings and worse, HIS feelings. But at the same time he helped me to care less about people around and to value more my independence. He's smart, nice and cute so... Guess he's the most perfect imperfect person I know 😁
If he'd rather not share his opinion when asked, it means that he doesn't believe that you will accept his opinion, and you've very likely made him feel devalued
damn off topic but your camera quality is really good
Gagal pokus 🤣😂
I’m an INTP too and can relate to your channel. Could you do a video about INTP vs ISFJ? Thanks:)
My best friend is a intp! I have a couple videos of him and I having a little fun a few years ago on my page.
As a 53-year-old INTP that seemed to keep matching with iNfps on apps and being frustrated on how well we'd got along until their Ne read non-existent motives of mine and sabotaged our relationships, my ISFP girlfriend of a year was a breath of fresh air. With Ne trickster she really can't read motives well and trusts that I am being straight forward with her. Her natural naiveté is adorable and makes me want to protect her. The first thing to know about keeping an ISFP happy is not to limit their freedom, but they in turn respect your comfort zone as well (this might have been bad if I was in my 20's, but at my age I don't need the same kick in the butt as my Ti-Si looping isn't a problem being established as it was getting going). According to CS Joseph, the best matches for an INTP are INTJ, ENTJ, ESFP and ISFP. Given I don't like as many nights on the town as an E would want or to push myself beyond the comfortable life I have now as a J would expect, an ISFP is the perfect complement to me. INTP/ISFP relationships are perfect if you respect each other's limitations. I don't expect deep insights on issues from her and she doesn't expect me to feel as deeply about some things that she does, but she respects my mind and I respect her heart and we share the same values even if we might approach living them out in different ways. As long as we give the other space to be ourselves, we shouldn't have any troubles.
I got intp like 6 times and isfp once on those online free tests and i stopped believing in mbti because there's too much in me and i don't know it all and i haven't been in situations that show it and the more i knew about mbti the more i saw that it's not accurate , but it made me know myself way more and know alot on my weaknesses and strength i didn't knew too much but i got happy everytime i find out how much of an intp i am because i like being categorized
lol my first was esfp, second was isfp, third was infp, and now i am intp. im a walking mbti except judging part :/
@@RenoIsekai lmaoo my high school had an mbti test again and i got isfp guess im stuck there now :/
@@Jane-mv4ex
You need to unlearn that stuff first! It's too difficult, I know, I myself am still suffering from that (not the school part, the dichotomy part)
The online test is a joke! I have taken the test in both high school and college in Interpersonal Communications classes and came up INTP. The vague online one makes me INFP every time.
I can relate to ISFPs so much as an INTP. Maybe that’s because of INTP’s ISFP superego
i'm an intp and my best friend is an isfp, it's definitely interesting.
ISFPs rock when they are not under the grip of their Fi -demon (which makes them brood, think they are the persecuted isht, and then lash out at anyone): they are down to earth, funny and just radiate a smart craziness. I appreciate their unpredictability because it is more of a temporary quirk rather than an overwhelming crisis (like in the case of those INFPs).
However, as a strong introvert-intuitive-thinker myself, I find it IMPOSSIBLE to lift conversations beyond what is under their artsy eyes: they pretty much score ZERO when it comes to abstraction. I know too many ISFP artists who worship Picasso and Gauguin but cannot, for the sake of Art, ever try to understand whatever Dali or Miro painted. They tend to limit their scope on purpose.
ISFPs have tertiary Ni, so they can be pretty abstract depending on how well developed they are in their tertiary function. I myself prefer Dali and Miro over Picasso and Gauguin. It's not pure black and white when it comes to abstractions.
I fully agree on the INFP part. We started out great until her overwhelming crisis became overbearing for the both of us. She moved back with her parents.
What is smart craziness?
I love INTP's. My sister is an INTP, another close friend is an INTP, and a few other friends are INTJ. I know they are supposed to be uncommon, but in my area they are everywhere. I like that they tend to talk about anything and everything. I am a good listener and am one of the few people any of them know that has the patience to follow their insane thought trains, lol. I prefer to talk with thinking types because I get the intellectual stimulation I need. They tend to have well developed senses of humor as well, which is a huge plus. The only qualm I have is that they doubt themselves so much. I really care about the INTXs in my life, so it makes me sad that they don't see the potential or success that I see. In short, I love INTXs and ENTXs :).
Aww, so glad to read that! As an INTJ I conversely find a lot to admire about most ISFPs. So creative, kind, caring, down to earth, and much more! I think as an INTJ I see traits that I can relate to but at the same time some of those traits are not big strengths for me, like easily socializing with people and picking up on the nuances in the moment as your type can tend to do. Thus, I'm very appreciative of the personality :)
My sister is an isfp she wack sometimes but we get along I think
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I am an ISPF and my boyfriend is INFP. I gotta say we match pretty good. We are both honest and it really makes us stronger ❤
For Ti dominant users, Fi dominant users have the most potential to create cataclismic clashes with the INTP. Those Fi users have absolutely ZERO problems stepping on the INTPs toes for the sake of principles and values and shut the INTPs opinion off.... and the Fi dominant users are quite close minded, compared to the INTP... Fi vs Ti can create volcanoes...
The Fi users are champions of subjective judgements.... except they are not rationnal, often, and almost never flexible... If you are with a Fi dominant user, make sure the perceiving functions are the same... otherwise you'll feel a huge incompatibility of character...
INTP+INFP can be fine... (Ne- Si in common)
ISTP+ISFP can be fine...
This seems very biased against Fi users. So here's my take on the Ti users from an Fi user. Basically all of the things you said, but the positions are swapped. Ti users have absolutely no problem thinking they're the smartest and shut off any other rationales because they're the "logical" ones. And their logic makes sense, but there's only so much sense logic can make until you step into intra-personal relationship issues. Here, the Ti is inflexible and insistent on the fact that logic rules above all else, when this is truly not the case. In this region, Ti users are quite close-minded, compared to the ISFP, who tend to accept things as they are.
But yes, Fi vs Ti can create volcanoes. My best friend is a Ti while I'm an Fi. The friendship is very turbulent, but we are always quick to forget our arguments. They are never resolved and may pop up time and again, but the friendship doesn't really end.
for me when come to isfp girls I general find them tiring because when they open up they are very emotional. Since they are sensors it just adds to the drain. For ISFJ girls they are more logical so they not as drained when they talking to INTP and if they have well develop inferior ne they can be nerdy. ISFP girls even when they have degree in medical field still act like hardcore fs and zero interest in talk about nerdy things. male isfps have well develop inferior te which makes them easier to talk to.
What is "hardcore fs" mean?
@@honor9lite1337 feeler dominate. makes decision on 80 percent feeling or more
@@spark300c I get it, but still want to know what is those "fs" literally mean? Is it a shorten word or something else?
**Anyway on the topic itself; I as an intp generally find the "zen presence" of isfp are very attractive, they live in the moment and down to earth people.
Moreover as I become more and more easily recognizing on of them from the streets.
I also like them as they are very open minded person, and generally non judgmental toward others, usually I don't feel anxiety around an ISFP.
@@honor9lite1337 with me I am intp but Do not find ISFP attractive at all. They just too girly for me.
I then relate better to infps because of intuition. You can talk about geeky things if infps are willing to come out of their shell. how ever usually can not talk nerdy things. nerd talk is ussaly nt or st talk. Then again I am 5w6. f stand for feeler and they like to talk about people things.
@@spark300c I fell that's their role, right? To keep you grounded on earth and also appreciate the current moment. But maybe that also an age thing, as an intp get older they would find an isfp as very enchanting.
i put the speed to two because u talk soo much
My brother is an intp and I'm an isfp.
I love your eyes wth