FROM POWERLESS TO EMPOWERED - FINDING SELF-WORTH
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- Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
- What is Self-Worth?
"Self-worth is an internal state of being that comes from self-understanding, self-love, and self-acceptance."
Oh, boy am I guilty of talking down on myself, but I'm also a fu*king boss att calling my lies and boosting myself up once I do. AWARENESS - start pay attention to your inner dialogue, and start to rebel against it. It's not you, it's just your thoughts!
Read the power of now by Eckhart Tolle to go deeper on this.
SO, another video. Another try. It's not perfect, and I don't intend it to be. I'll just go on from now and share what's on my mind, and we'll see where we land! Feel free to come with suggestions on what topics you'd like me to discuss.
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Hey! So I realize it's not the juiciest story ever, but it triggered so many emotions within and it felt like a pivoting point! Hence I shared. And since I'm not fit to run around town with the camera right now, I'm playing around with more of a talking head format. Practicing sharing some of my stories. I'd love to receive some feedback.
FEARFACING - ALSO, this thing created a mental domino effect and I've been feeling REAL strong since. Like just now, I was out on the street waiting for a guy I was going to sell an old phone to. And I saw this beautiful girl sitting parked in a car like 30 meters away from me. We exchanged some eye contact. One time. Another time... And then some more. At least that was my take on the situation! But I was waiting for this guy, and it wasn't like I could walk up and knock on the window screen to the car! that's not an option... Anyway, I waited a couple of minutes more before the Guy came along and we did our business. And was then leaving.. But then the thought popped up "what if id did? Come on, you've got nothing to lose, maybe she's interested, and if not, you'll have a laugh out of it" .
I didn't hesitate (or maybe I did for a second, it's a bit blurry) and then I walked up to her and knocked on the screen...
When you see that woman again, you should keep the conversation short and give her your number and tell her to text you when she's available to meet up for a drink or something. After that leave her be and if she's interested she'll get ahold of you.
From watching a few dating channels, I've learned that less is better in terms of approaching but also making sure the woman does the most amount of talking on the first date. I've definitely made the mistake of talking too much in the past as most of us have.
Yeah I agree on what you're saying! But I also think it's rather easy to tell if there's a connection or not within the first 30 seconds. And for me, most of the time it has to do with my "vibe" going into it. if I'm too nervous or not, or she obviously aren't interested in being flirted with because she has a boyfriend or just isn't looking to date anyone ( me ). If I can make her feel relaxed and have fun, then I open up the possibility to her even considering going on a date. When I get a bad vibe and a disconnect, I know there's no point in trying to give my number or push it further.
Thanks for sharing, keep doing it!!
If there is complete disinterest then I agree it's best to forget about it. But women are very emotional and their feelings change from moment to moment. A woman may not be blown away by you at first but might have slight interest where she can see herself with you and reach out eventually. Either way there's plenty of fish in the sea.
When you get a chance listen to this interview below. I think I've mentioned AMS to you before and this interview he has with Tripp Advice is a good summary of what he teaches. AMS can be very extreme sometimes and I don't agree with everything he says, but he gives a lot of simple practical tips which have been proven to work.
Good luck with that girl at the gym. Have a great day.
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@@makekotor3722 That's a valid point you bring up. But as you also say, there's plenty of fishes in the sea and no need to stress the ones that don't respond well. But then again, If I instantly fell in love I wouldn't quit as easy!
I'll check it out, thanks:)! Some times it's just inspiring to listen to even if the advice isn't the best, and finding that out for yourself might be a great learning. Also, I've learned that social cultures differs a ton and what works in one country may not work in another and vice versa!
Have a great evening you too!
/Alex