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  • AITAH - My best friend's wife told him that she had an affair with me (throwaway-bf238 in r/AITAH)
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Комментарии • 90

  • @PossumLady8262
    @PossumLady8262 3 месяца назад +252

    It’s on the accuser to prove the stories she’s spreading are true. All OP has to do is defend and sue for slander. I believe it’s called burden of proof.

    • @johnbalogna803
      @johnbalogna803 3 месяца назад

      You know as well as I that lies spread faster than oil on water. Just ask any many falsely accused of rape or sexual assault. Even after the truth comes out that stench will stick to him for years. The media will spent hours covering sexual assault charges but offer a 15-30 second blurb covering how the charges were retracted after being proven false!!.

    • @nephastgweiz1022
      @nephastgweiz1022 3 месяца назад +3

      You don't decide what people around you will believe or not. If someone made the same claims in the same circumstances about my girlfriend, I would want to believe my girlfriend, but deep down, I would have a doubt. You just can't know for sure.

    • @CimmerianAssassin
      @CimmerianAssassin 3 месяца назад +4

      ​@nephastgweiz1022 this is more for a logic standpoint rather than just emotional ones. You can just sue people for slander if they had no evidence on you and they ruined your reputation especially if it hurts your business. And usually this can also sue for emotional distress and then for assault if it gets physical anyway.

    • @VRDejaVu
      @VRDejaVu 3 месяца назад +1

      Fun fact: Defamation is the only circumstance where the defendant has to to prove innocence instead of the accusation having to prove guilt.

    • @VRDejaVu
      @VRDejaVu 3 месяца назад

      ​@@CimmerianAssassin It is not that easy, at least not in the US where you need to prove actual damages to win a defamation law suit. In OP's situation it is easy because he was assaulted and that in itself is the damage, but in a situation where you can't prove damages there is nothing you can do, again in the US. Other countries allow you to "win" defamation law suits based on reputation alone. All you have to do is bring a witness who can confirm they believed the lies even if no actual damages were had.

  • @akasiadiabi
    @akasiadiabi 3 месяца назад +120

    Josh knows that his gf is a cheater at least twice, yet he married her. And make a surprise pikachu face when she cheated again. And when she said she cheated with you, instead of confronting her, he tried to punch you. And make a surprise pikachu face when you retaliate and wanted to take legal action. Got a feeling he'll take her back, then got cheated, get angry, reconcile, then she cheats again.

  • @Khasym
    @Khasym 3 месяца назад +160

    If your response to your spouse saying that your best friend cheated on you with her after you find out she cheated on you with others is to attack and insult your friend, you are NOT a friend worth keeping.

  • @MegaHarvickFan29
    @MegaHarvickFan29 3 месяца назад +202

    In the end, Josh is a doormat.

    • @firstsparkle5378
      @firstsparkle5378 3 месяца назад +32

      he is a "punching doormat"- what an irony

    • @jacksongunner7122
      @jacksongunner7122 3 месяца назад +16

      Super simp is more like it.

    • @PolemistisNAY
      @PolemistisNAY 3 месяца назад +25

      100% a complete idiot. He didn't bother to investigate. And he confronted OP the with "violence first, questions never." It's all his fault that he may have a criminal record and has to deal with his martial problems all alone.

    • @anonmouse15
      @anonmouse15 3 месяца назад +16

      Not to mention an idiot.

    • @thegreygoblin5165
      @thegreygoblin5165 3 месяца назад

      Bruh, he really did just get himself fucked

  • @randomrafi63
    @randomrafi63 3 месяца назад +62

    My guy is getting rich in the Background ☠️

  • @benjaminwoodham6682
    @benjaminwoodham6682 3 месяца назад +15

    "After he left, my wife was completely inconsolable"
    WHY? SHE JUST BELIEVED A RANDOM ACCUSATION? She's been with you 8 YEARS and doesn't understand accusations can be false?

    • @primesonic4459
      @primesonic4459 2 месяца назад +1

      She seems to completely believe him in the updates so it might have been the stress of the physical altercation.

    • @Chaoshadow-SA2
      @Chaoshadow-SA2 Месяц назад +2

      She still waited til she got the truth before considering scorched earth.

  • @MrModamanReviews
    @MrModamanReviews 3 месяца назад +18

    I would have pressed charges on Josh for coming over and attacking him.

  • @MrsSerene
    @MrsSerene 3 месяца назад +69

    We are not going to skip over the fact that OP's wife doubted him ( She acted weird ) then lied about not doubting him..

  • @PhilipJFry58598
    @PhilipJFry58598 3 месяца назад +75

    Josh is a loser simp, I don’t feel bad for him. OP needs to cut off any “friend” who sat on the sidelines and essentially those who sided against him. Honestly he is not angry enough at his wife for being an idiot.

    • @elikahnapace8668
      @elikahnapace8668 3 месяца назад +9

      totally agree about josh but how did op not see how truly effed up he really is...as for the wife the concept trust but verify springs to my mind...also agree with the wife to let the psycho narc pay for the legal fees some form on retribution is needed for the messed up lies and actions

    • @AndreNDP
      @AndreNDP 3 месяца назад

      He might as well buy a cuck chair at this point, he's being led around by the dick by some skank.

  • @nessaFernandez-pv5qf
    @nessaFernandez-pv5qf 3 месяца назад +16

    Good for them for going ahead with the lawsuit. And as for Josh, he needs to get his backbone and leave her before she really cause him harm.

  • @LoudAngryJerk
    @LoudAngryJerk 3 месяца назад +4

    "shes telling lies you should be able to prove are false" you seem awfully confident with thout cause. How exactly would he easily prove that they didnt have an affair? Saying hes home alone when it happens isnt gonna be enough

  • @Walhor
    @Walhor 3 месяца назад +38

    Crazy how she got away with it ruining so many people's lives

    • @kisstune
      @kisstune 3 месяца назад +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣You expected a female to be held accountable for their actions and words.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @gretgirl6750
      @gretgirl6750 3 месяца назад +3

      I've had to deal with people like her before. It's amazing how they can destroy lives and reputations, then end up smelling like roses themselves every time.

  • @shadowscall7758
    @shadowscall7758 3 месяца назад +6

    In situations like this, Do NOT take a polygraph. They arent even admissible in court because they are unreliable and imagine if he got a false positive that he was lying?

    • @DebTheDevastator
      @DebTheDevastator 3 месяца назад

      Polygraph machines are pseudoscience invented 1921 and are only right, maybe 50% of the time, but take that with a grain of salt as people want to prove the thing works.

  • @davidheaven2961
    @davidheaven2961 3 месяца назад +33

    To all the guys out here don’t be like Josh be a man and leave

    • @johnbalogna803
      @johnbalogna803 3 месяца назад +2

      Not before clearing your name!!! Then leave all those who believed wo proof including the wife!!!

    • @davidheaven2961
      @davidheaven2961 3 месяца назад +1

      @@johnbalogna803 facts

  • @AA-ed6ek
    @AA-ed6ek 3 месяца назад +5

    OP's wife is a problem, too.

  • @psychoairsoft7146
    @psychoairsoft7146 3 месяца назад +3

    Josh is basically screwed. he's stuck with that psycho now and the only way he can get out now is by dropping everything and moving to another state or country. he destroyed his friendships and support system just like OP said he did. no one is left to help him and he did that to HIMSELF by believing that harpy.
    it sucks, but some people just cannot be saved, and sometimes all you can do is jump off and save yourself while they drown in the pool of their own bad decisions... doesnt make it suck any less to lose a friend in such a way though

  • @travisstanley4469
    @travisstanley4469 3 месяца назад +4

    Well if the wife didn't believe you even after knowing the other woman is a cheater and liar then she is cheating on you and wanted it to be true to justify her cheating

  • @theplatinumexpo5928
    @theplatinumexpo5928 Месяц назад

    I’d get that restraining order. Would be afraid she might show up and start stuff to ruin his marriage.

  • @gehtdichnixan8561
    @gehtdichnixan8561 3 месяца назад +13

    I just don't get why "anyone" would seriously marry a on/off-partner. Assuming there was good-enough reasons to end the relationship in the past, it's not just likely but guarranteed that there'll be more of those in the future.. And a marriage's sole "benefit" in that case is to make things expensive.
    p.s.: Some reddit-commentators are one of a kind stupid...
    "Cease and desists" bear no whatsoever meaning unless signed by the adressee... "Should" be self-explanatory, interactions between equals don't empower one to command the other (eventhough there's always some Karens whose brain functions are too limitted to get that...).

  • @ASAP-ZAY
    @ASAP-ZAY 3 месяца назад +29

    🤦🏽🥴Josh a total simp no wonder she cheated on this weak man

  • @cameron765
    @cameron765 3 месяца назад +29

    I heard this Reddit story a long time ago

  • @MaximeB-hc4oz
    @MaximeB-hc4oz 3 месяца назад +2

    Shouldn't have yelled at them at the door. Never interrupt an enemy while he's making a mistake.

  • @MccallonPrime
    @MccallonPrime 2 месяца назад

    what an intense video, really well-made and gripping! it's crazy how quickly trust can shatter in friendships. i can't help but wonder, though, if the friend really believed those accusations or if it was just a convenient excuse to let off steam. it seems like there might’ve been deeper issues at play. what do you all think?

  • @christaber5988
    @christaber5988 3 месяца назад +3

    He's not your best friend

  • @DarkHeartTheEmo
    @DarkHeartTheEmo 3 месяца назад +1

    The only good thing is that Josh and Mary aren't going to have kids, because Josh have no balls, if Mary get pregnant it won't be with Josh babies.

  • @franciscoj.sepulvedal.7975
    @franciscoj.sepulvedal.7975 3 месяца назад +6

    Beautiful

  • @sinbadwilliams7186
    @sinbadwilliams7186 3 месяца назад +13

    Day 79 of telling secretvoices to have a good day

    • @SecretVoices25
      @SecretVoices25  3 месяца назад +6

      Day 79 of telling you to have a great day

  • @thousandyardgavri2785
    @thousandyardgavri2785 6 дней назад

    Its weird how the mutuals don't see Mary as trash when she's cheated countless times. Id believe op instantly
    Edit: Yea i figured op was exaggerating that part😂😂

  • @tabicat.puccino7425
    @tabicat.puccino7425 Месяц назад

    im glad your wife believes you, and how both of you salvage this issue and took revenge but also Josh is a simp, he knew she is a cheater (twice) and a manipulative liar, ad still decided to believe her, and the lie was that his close friend betrayed him? with no evidence, Josh is a simp, and loser and dumb, he deserved what ever punishment he gets

  • @mizari17
    @mizari17 3 дня назад

    It ain't private matter anymore. Why still protect that pos simp friend

  • @GoldsNarrations
    @GoldsNarrations 3 месяца назад

    Very good

  • @Chaoshadow-SA2
    @Chaoshadow-SA2 Месяц назад

    Bunch of clowns in the comment section trying to implicate the wife for some reason. Did she falter, yeah but she managed to maintain her balance, that red pill should come with a warning, too much of it makes you stupid.

  • @superskullmaster
    @superskullmaster 3 месяца назад +13

    Never been this early.

  • @cover13-s8k
    @cover13-s8k 3 месяца назад

    You're one side of the story you didn't even hear a lp

  • @garystewart2355
    @garystewart2355 3 месяца назад +1

    You want forgiveness? Get religion

    • @yukikitsune7366
      @yukikitsune7366 3 месяца назад +1

      Because nothing helps more than joining a cult.

    • @Chaoshadow-SA2
      @Chaoshadow-SA2 Месяц назад

      Their forgiveness isn't worth the toilet paper it's written on.

  • @gretgirl6750
    @gretgirl6750 3 месяца назад +1

    I can't help but feel a little sorry for Josh (the puncher). It's obvious that his cheating wife Mary knows exactly which emotional buttons to push on him to get him to overreact. Everybody seems to expect him to automatically be so knowledgeable about dealing with people like her. It's not his fault that he's naive.

  • @alwaysright3943
    @alwaysright3943 3 месяца назад +3

    Most morally upstanding woman

    • @TnD_BigJax
      @TnD_BigJax 3 месяца назад +2

      Yeah, this is just the average female reaction to accountability

    • @charlottebarham7722
      @charlottebarham7722 3 месяца назад +9

      We get it, you two have not had great experiences with women and/or do not perceive women in a positive or healthy light.
      No need to project your own experiences onto 49% of the human population, however.

    • @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259
      @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 3 месяца назад

      ​@@charlottebarham7722amen

    • @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259
      @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 3 месяца назад

      ​@charlottebarham7722 when women do it to men they get so mad.

    • @alwaysright3943
      @alwaysright3943 3 месяца назад

      @@charlottebarham7722 Very few men have actually had a net positive experience with women. The rest are gaslit by society to put on rose tinted glasses when it comes to them. But hey, at least you didn’t call me a virgin or question my endowment. That’s not bad for a woman.

  • @nicknitro86
    @nicknitro86 3 месяца назад +9

    Naw, 'inconsolable' means she didn't believe her own husband.

  • @tkstories3968
    @tkstories3968 3 месяца назад +64

    Josh is a loser simp, I don’t feel bad for him. OP needs to cut off any “friend” who sat on the sidelines and essentially those who sided against him. Honestly he is not angry enough at his wife for being an idiot.

  • @StorytimeHaven3979
    @StorytimeHaven3979 3 месяца назад +7

    Never been this early.