They were simply not a good match personality wise. Other than that, they’re very mature & poised in their way of communicating. They kept it respectful.
She is happy with her 9-5 which tells you everything that you need to know. Just take her to olive garden, clap the cheeks and watch movies with her. Rinse and repeat
That’s wild you’re watching lol shouldn’t you be making videos about rappers ? The wild thing is you’re creative and I know you wanna make big but focus on yourself king . Be creative , talking about ppl isn’t creative . Hope that don’t go over your head
Eric did everything that most women ask from a man, which is to take the initiative. Eric made plans, he applied pressure, he communicated. And she ran off 😂
Remember, he said when he takes a woman on a vacation, they really get to know each other; therefore, he got to know, that she was not for him! END OF STORY!
Easy answer, she didn’t like him. She took the gifts and dates but ultimately wasn’t feeling him. He played a part as well, doing all the spending and she clearly wasn’t the one.
@NubianKing-y3y but he still wanted to date her after that horrible vacation. She put the brakes on that, talking about she just want to be cool. Eric like, no ma'am! We're either dating or nothing at all😃
@@ShmaAdonaiEhad You are right. Because she is not his wife, she should've declined taking that kind of trip so soon because she knew she wasn't attracted to him. Nothing in life is free especially a trip like that
ya cant b this naive she was holding back bc there was no real arguments , she enjoyed the trip like the user she is and once he wanted reciprocity(loving) she started bickering about little ish so she can leave ......she knos to much info about her bs fabricated disagreements will reveal shes just a opportunist and user point blank period #blessed
@@LaidbackNarration3000 yeah cause we all know you are supposed to have sex for a free trip. Maybe she didn't want to be with a hoe that would give his money and his body up that quickly. I mean they only knew each other for a few weeks maybe she isn't into easy men, it happens. Now he is free to have sex will people after a few weeks of knowing on a reality show.
That’s not the case for everyone. Some people are more reserved. Some people were actually taught values and morals first. The affection comes way later. Some are just shy.
@@lilahoward7555 no one is saying sleeping with them but a hug shouldn’t be forced when you like someone. Doesn’t mean that you don’t have any moral or values. When you know, you know.
This is why u don’t rush going on vacation with a stranger… u should be comfortable with ya partner to the point it’s no boundaries before going on vacation
@@lilahoward7555 also they went on a whole trip together, that is not reserved or shy, but I can understand what you saying. But through experiences, chemistry doesn’t lie.
Eric seemed hurt and looked like he really hoped things would have worked out. He looked like he was trying to compose hisself, I appreciate the update and I hope Eric and Jocelynn finds theirselves lifetime partners.
That's what he gets for being so darn knit-picky. He ended up with an unintentionally non-interested poser. When he was speaking she rolled her eyes. Wow!
@@Decades-pl2klwhy are you responding to every comment saying dumb shit, stfu your honestly annoying nobody cares what your type is or what you had for dinner
@@michaelmaxwell7171no she just didn’t tell us what really happened. You can see the flags from a mile away. He seems like she didn’t want to put him on blast. He was apparently being being very passive aggressive on that trip and had different expectations.
always get the kitty first before you go anywhere, she still has a dude, the dude was probably blowing up her phone guilt tripping her, while she was away, and that is why she went to Houston...she did not want to give up the kitty......anytime a gal says she wants to go slow, another dude is involved who she still has hopes for....
To be very honest with you, I see this as not just an entertainment but a ministry. She’s helping people find Life Partners, now that’s some real deal.
@@hospitaladministrator3359I mean in conclusion that’s what it was. He was looking for something real and wanted the affection that goes along with that. She doesn’t know what she wants. Who does all that bs, leaves early, and still checks up on him? And she wants to friend zone him, probably to secure future trips as “friends” 😂
Really...had me wondering if the Love Bombing was the other way. Not with gifts, but with affection, that she suddenly withdrew. He obviously thought she was feeling him up until she told him she wasn't. She looked like she was feeling him in those videos, and some of them were in Greece.
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Hot take: she never should have accepted to go out the country with a man she didn’t know. We all know what the expectations are with getting flown out, gentleman or not. The woman always sets the pace of the relationship, don’t let a man push you to move too fast. Now you’re out the country feeling uncomfortable. That’s wasn’t wise.
why is this standard set ? "Always", what world do you live in ? I think both partners should respects each other, compromise, and set the pace together. It is much more healthier that way in my opinion. "The woman always sets the pace of the relationship, don’t let a man push you to move too fast." I think this is very toxic
Awwww, Eric seems to be such a gentleman and very masculine. I wish I had the opportunity to get to know him. I hope he finds someone who matches his selflessness and the compliments he has to offer. Very genuine, caring, thoughtful, generous, etc.... I understand that some things takes time but it sucks that he didnt receive the desired affection. You can tell he was really interested in her. He's not about the game playing. He's ready to settle down.
@@WhoaNowbrother Why? He's bold and confident enough to express authentic feelings and interest. I wouldn't have done it likely but I respect his confidence.
@@brandonclark8395 and look where it got em !!!! Plaaaaaayed !!!! He tried win her with his wallet 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏿♂️ that’s rule number 1, as man never lead with your wallet with a women who you just met. You’ll get played every time
Because what’s the point of coming on the show if you’re not gonna give us any information. They should’ve just stayed home if it was that serious that they didn’t want to talk about it.
@TIMEOUT_WITH_DERA i see bad women get good men and they screw it up all time and I'm like why would anyone screw it up with a good man but that goes the other way to good people are hard to find these days if you have someone good better keep them
@@M0DFATH3RSingle is not bad. Better to be single than in a miserable relationship. She will always do quite well regardless. With this exposure, her DMs are full and she will have the pick of the litter.
Naw, it's called dude tried to sleep with her because he paid for that trip and she had to let him know, just cause yall think black American woman are all easy I'm here to let you know thats a lie.
@@Decades-pl2klyou not letting us know anything, your just running your mouth. dude took her out the country..... are you slow. look her demeanor & the way she's coming off, she wasn't interested she just used him.
If yall go back to the reunion (its probably like 10 vids ago) you will see how argumentative Eric is. He wants to use his sweet voice here but you'll see a different Eric in that vid and i know thats the Eric that was on the trip with this lady.
Exactly! He seems like one of those people that thinks he’s the smartest in the room and he’ll argue you down to show it. All these people think he’s some kind of victim, maybe their personalities just clashed the longer they hung out🤷🏾♀️
Omg really?! That sucks I watch his RUclips channel and he seems so genuine in his training of his dogs and how he deals with people. This goes to show people aren’t the same person at home that they are at work!
Exactly Eric is a lost 40 and seems like he wants to settle down but then is interested in these way younger girls that are obviously not interested in the right reasons
not gonna lie, a long ass foreign country trip is TOOOO MUCH for people that aint even known each other a year 😭😭😭 im glad they were able to end it peacefully though
Eric is very open & good at articulating what exactly happened… which is probably the gift & curse for him in relationships. These girls can’t beat him in an argument and he is VERY straightforward.
Indeed someone who articulates their thoughts well may inadvertently dominate conversations, leaving their partner feeling marginalized and creating a competitive rather than a cooperative dynamic. But, Eric didn't come off as more focused on proving a point than finding a mutually acceptable solution. He seemed like someone with empathy who was willing to learn and adapt. However, adaptation is only feasible in a relationship where both partners are committed to mutual growth and understanding. Jocelyn did not seem to be ready for that. Furthermore, I noticed that Eric knew he tends to dominate conversations, so he was deliberating pausing to invite Jocelyn to share her thoughts in the course of the conversation.
It’s very obvious that she was not 100% attracted to him when she initially met him, but was willing to get to know him as time progressed. He moves quickly and expected the same energy from her. During the trip, it really settled that she sees him as more as a friend than a romantic partner. I think she is having a hard time admitting or telling him that she’s not that attracted to him and wants to spare his feelings. This is why it’s so important to not go on a trip with someone you’re not physically attracted to.
She may have grown to like him eventually with all the acts of service towards her but he would want touch in return and that would probably gross her out and he would be frustrated and impatient
Date one, she told him exactly who she was. She told him that she couldn't be bought. She chose Buffalo Wild Wings, and that impressed him. Yet somehow he still didn't get the memo. A few weeks later, he invites her on a getaway vacation to a foreign country and he clearly had the expectation that she'd sleep with him. She accepted the invitation, which she definitely should NOT have done. Then, when they arrived to Greece, she had the discussion with him about her boundaries (aka no sex). That's a conversation that probably should've been had in the beginning planning stages. But they're both to blame for that. They get to Greece, the boundaries are set, and clearly Eric wasn't happy with it. After five days of her not giving in, he got upset. He felt played. So, he resorted to childish behavior and condescendingly criticized her as being a "bad hugger". The man wanted more than a hug. But after only six weeks of getting to know each other, she definitely wasn't obligated to give him affection. He clearly felt otherwise and that she should've prostituted herself out. Again, she shouldn't have accepted the invitation. But in that same right, he shouldn't have offered it. He was disingenuous in inviting her on the trip, knowing he wanted "affection". And she was disingenuous in accepting the invitation knowing that he would want something from her that she wasn't ready to give. However, she didn't play him. He played himself. It just speaks to his lack of respect in the way he sees women that one could show him exactly who she is, and he still try to treat her otherwise. But ultimately it speaks to his lack of self-respect that he feels he has to lead with his wallet. The first lady he matched with also wasn't interested in him, and he led with materialism to get her too. At this point, it's insanity. Eric, if you're reading this, what you think you know, you clearly don't. So try a different approach. Try being honest, genuine, kind, decent and integral. How about that?!
Yep, you get it. Eric is clearly a problem and he refuses to acknowledge his issues. It seems everyone ignores his issues because he is articulate, successful and a “good” guy.
i feel so sorry for this dude, he is genuine, kind, and good spirited, he just couldnt find that one right person to reciprocate the kindness, i wish you find true love Eric, love from Nigeria
She just didn't like him. She's not attracted to him. I do think she's a simple girl who doesn't ask for much but I also think she didn't give a damn where they went on dates because she didn't see it being serious anyway. I think she said yes to the trip because she always wanted to go and I think he wanted to be a lil closer and at least hug, kiss and be romantic while they were in Greece and she was grossed out because she was there for the trip, not him. She comes off generally quiet and passive, which I think masks her personality, good or bad.
I don’t feel bad for him, they obviously have nothing in common and it seems like Eric can’t find someone cause he’s fixated on being with a baddie. I think he needs to be with someone who actually likes him for who he is and he’ll be fine. When you lead with your possessions and money you’ll attract that type of energy. 🤷🏾♀️
@@shemarroberts8686Clearly referring to my own observation of the original ep and post interview. It’s painfully obvious and common irl. Don’t lead with money period 🤷🏾♀️ That’s why it’s called comments I’m commenting ..
It takes mentally and emotionally mature individuals to build a lasting relationship. Many of these folk on this show appear to have issues that need to be sorted out before attempting to "find love."
Eric is smart because he knows that you don't truly know a person until you've traveled with them!! Eric needs someone with genuine motivation & interests, positive energy and maturity!! He even stayed positive during this interview!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@Quay-unfortunate truth is that’s what a lot of women want lol a man to blow their back out and not really care…Eric did everything a woman usually ask for and look where it got him? Should’ve took her to Olive Garden, smashed and moved on. Smh
Always be yourself, help weed them out quicker. Going above and beyond shows your character, letting a person change that will just lead you to the wrong partner.
Y’all are wild in the comments, Eric mos def got some things “off” about him. He doesn’t seem like a bad guy, but he comes off as very intense and doesn’t seem to understand social cues. His approach to relationships seems very systematic almost like solving a problem and relationships don’t necessarily work that way.
Summary: He took her to Greece and thought he was entitled to “get some”. She didn’t want to give up the box. He felt unappreciated and accused her of playing him out. She then decided to leave. Since he already paid a few racks for their trip, he is still playing her close in hopes of eventually getting his money’s worth. Moral of the story: Do not plan a romantic trip with someone you haven’t already established a romantic relationship with.
That's not the moral of the story though. Did you listen to the reason why he said he did that? He said you get to really know someone when you are traveling or living with them. And it's true. Hence why REAL conversation came up during the trip. Not just superficial ones. The fact is she A) Was never really that interested in him and B) talking to other guys. Hence why you can see her looking at someone in the background of this video at 9:46. He was looking for something serious. She wasn't feeling him and was leading him on. Defending this level of manipulation and toxicity is self snitching.
He literally spoke about respecting her physical boundaries and giving her space, I'm pretty sure any guy who invites a girl on vacation (which she agreed) would prefer for it to lead to that level of physical intimacy, there's absolutely nothing with that.
exactly she is probably a "nice' girl and don't want to put him out there but she did use terms like love bomb and delusional which is coded language for something not right went down.
I can peep the whole problem right away! Eric is doing too much, too fast. He's too nice and also a little controlling. He played himself. He said he made notes that she needs to give better hugs... Who does that??? He taking the girl on trips and hasn't even got the box yet. If relationships are in 10 stages. 1 being the first date and 10 being marriage. A international trip is a level 7 thing. Dude jumping from level 3 to level 7 and then expecting all the levels before to be there. When you do that the vibe is always gonna be off. Hes expecting the full gf experience when she's still in the dating stage. Never give too much too early. Make her work for it the same as she's making you work for it. Put your wallet down and get to know her!
I definitely agree with this. A Weekend trip to a state they’ve not been to with CLEAR ESTABLISHED BOUNDARIES (no 🐱) would have prolly yielded the same result. He prolly not hurting for the money but she kinda showed who she was leading up to the trip. They’re just incompatible.
Homeboy need to lets go of the thought of the aesthetically pleasing woman and find the women that actually like him for him and not only what he has to offer.
That’s usually the downfall of most black men, they try so hard to get the baddie, who don’t want them instead of them seeing the perfections of an imperfect girl. They don’t learn until they are 60 and lonely
It doesn’t only pertain to black men. It’s goes for people in general everybody wants to chase a unicorn when wats for them they overlook. Women do it also. But everyone will learn eventually. Hopefully not the hard way .
The way she’s making Arlette work for a direct answer is the way she made him work for affection. She is just hella guarded and I’m convinced she is not mature enough to be in a relationship. Also, eric why are you flying people out 3 weeks after meeting them???
Dating has changed so much and men need to do something different period.....Conventional dating like Hinge, or Arlette's show dating show are no longer producing results.......Men need to arranged dating or arranged marriage....That's the only thing that will work
@@cyes1156arranged marriage doesn't work either because why would you marry someone you didn't choose for yourself??? One might actually not be compatible with their arranged partner and despise them🤷🏾♀️
@maritawanazw Women are choosing for themselves today and where is it leading them🤣🤣🤣.....Arrangements are the foundation of certain religions and it keeps their family together...... Today, NOBODY is staying together because chosing for ourselves has FAILED MISERABLY
She's a runner. She wants to experience the fun and excitement that comes with relationships but not go through the disagreements and the downs that can come along the way. Why she wants to keep him as a friend. I'm glad he set the boundary as no move on.
Seems like he rushed the relationship. A month isn’t long enough to be going on a 7-day trip out of the country. Also, all this “note taking” & “testing” is odd.. like he’s trying to calculate his reactions/responses. She didn’t say love bombing for no reason. He seems nice enough but something is off. He’s a very handsome, intelligent dude but this is two women now that it didn’t work out with. He might be the problem.
Yes, narcissists 'LOVE BOMB' in the beginning, and display false charisma, before showing you their manipulativeness and true colours. He is so calculating if he needs to write everything down.
@@butterflywind999so u call him a narcissist because he chose to be kind, genuine, and thoughtful to a woman he really liked… you women are a trip… women like u are grateful and hate men so much that you try to gaslight and paint this false narrative as if he’s the bad guy… 😂 typical
Did she watch his previous interview? He is serious and ready to be in a relationship. No games. He seems genuine and transparent. Wish him all the best.
@@StacyBrown2 yes because we know women who are serious have sex after two weeks of knowing someone, crazy thing is the women who do aren't the ones that men want.
Buddy not ready for marriage at all. Zero vetting skills. They need to share the same values and time lines etc. There needs to be chemistry. He needs therapy IMO because he is just going about his dating life haphazardly smh 🤦🏽♀️.
Exactly right when they matched I knew it was never going to work. They barely had a spark or conversation on stage. Was destined to fail. He just went by looks and her career and thought he had won already. You gotta hit first before to decide to go to Greece. The chemistry must be there.
Cuz she was really trying to choose her words carefully. Instead of just saying she learned she wasn't physically attracted to him & it wouldn't work in a relationship.
The way Arlette has to dig for information 🤦🏽♀️ Y’all know why we are here, y’all know why you are here, and y’all know what we want to hear so just give us the update and hang up!
I am a girl's girl through and through, but...this is proof that women are NEVER satisfied. She has such a bored and nasty disposition. He really went out his way. This is what "women always say they want" but they dont know how to act when he comes along. Men please reserve this treatment for a woman that truly loves and values you. And dont let this break you down and keep you from finding a wife.
These comments are concerning. She very honestly said they found that they weren't compatible after spending time together. That is the entire point of dating. They are different people at different stages in life. Eric seems to be more concerned with looks and thinks he can mold a young woman. While she seems to be looking for a genuine and easy connection. It's OK that they didn't work out.
Arlette always asks the proper questions ,she know what to ask to get the proper information ,shoutout to her she’s really a great host ,she is good at what she does 👌🏾👍
I actually went on a date with Eric in June in LA and he is not really this sweet and sincere person as he represents himself to be. He was very argumentative during the date, likes to ask hypothetical black and white questions but got upset when i wouldn’t answer them without more information and insulted my character as a friend over a disagreement about picking someone up at LAX. At the end of the date he tried to invite himself over to my place, which I told him No I was not comfortable with that. He then tried to make me feel bad for not allowing him to come back to my place. So I just drove him back to his Airbnb and he was cold to me the entire time and he never even said thank you for the ride. He acted like a very arrogant fboy not this sweet and endearing person he shows on camera. He has two sides to him.
@@nadine878 Right! He definitely was manipulative and I peeped that out at the end of the date when he he tried to invite himself over to my place and when I said No I don’t allow men to come over to my place early on he then said in a frustrated voice “I just want to see your life, I’m not gonna do anything”. He really thought I was stupid enough to fall for that.
He has a type for sure. She looks like the first girl he matched with: tall, slim and light skinned. Nothing wrong with that, but he’s only focusing on the physical attraction. Like with the first girl, you can tell they have barely any chemistry and things in common. At 38, he needs to start digging deeper or I don’t see a marriage/kids anytime soon.
@@41prime_yeah that’s true, but he can do that on Tinder tbh. He’ll keep coming back on the show doing the same thing and getting the same result over and over again.
When they matched, I knew it would end this way. Eric is very particular. He like things his way. Though he states he had her make the choices, it's not something he actually likes. He's over 10 years older than she is. He purposely didn't wake up. This man totally plans everything. No way he over slept. He wanted to see what she would do
@@masculinitymatters9030 he's an adult. She said they had a conversation prior to this about not waking folks up, so why did he think she would wake him up for this. That man is very calculated.
Yeah even Arlette attested to the fact that he likes to plan. Also if I think she mentioned that they had just finished a fight, I wouldn't wake him up either.
@user-ir4fp9mq6z exactly. He didn't wake up knowing she wouldn't wake him up, then to call her "passive". He fell asleep after a 3 mile run? Lolol. Cmon now
First of all, I used to not like Eric if I’m being honest. But after watching this catch up, I have so much respect for him. Even after a break up, he is respecting her privacy, he isn’t over talking her, he is allowing her to speak her truth, and he genuinely looks disappointed that it didn’t work out. He remembers exact dates and seems very attentive and detail-oriented. That’s a plus!!! He planned this whole trip to Greece for crying out loud. Personally, I saw their episode and knew it wasn’t gonna work. I feel like she only picked him AFTER he disclosed how many acres of land he owns and what he has accomplished. I got opportunist vibes from her. I am glad Eric agreed to this interview because she was so evasive and Arlette couldn’t get her questions answered. I guess she didn’t want to look like the bad guy. I think Eric tried to make it work. She just ain’t the one. I feel badly for him. He needs a woman who is mature, not shallow, and one who doesn’t run at the first sign of conflict!!!!!! Talk it out! Smh
I know what happened!! The topic of Sex probably came up.. My theory is he was trying to move in for the nookie, and she rejected him! (scene) Eric says, "You know I'm feeling you right, and we have to make this relationship official. " Jocelynn says." I like you, but I'm not that type of girl, and I KNEW THIS WAS A SETUP! Take me home!" Eric says," I can't we are in another country and I just rented a four-wheeler!"🤣
@@niaturner2137 I watched that reunion he was nice and normal... You're a western woman who want men to be doormats, i bet you were offended by him having an opinion.
This is really hard to watch.
I know😩
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Real talk, I stopped watching and began to read the comments.
They were simply not a good match personality wise. Other than that, they’re very mature & poised in their way of communicating. They kept it respectful.
Yea, he really liked her. On the other hand, he was over confident the last two episodes and passed on a few good women so it kinda bit him in the ass
No offense but she seems boring… and feels like Arlette is having to pull info out of her.
Yes. She’s super boring! I’m holding on for dear life and trying my best not to exit the video. 🤦🏾♀️🤣
Totally Agree. Her body language shows she's completely disinterested. She comes off as a closed introvert.
Exactly, I’ve experienced this so many times before. The body language tells it all.
She is happy with her 9-5 which tells you everything that you need to know. Just take her to olive garden, clap the cheeks and watch movies with her. Rinse and repeat
@@nodaysoff2005LMAOOOOO
One thing Arlette will do is make sure she get the information out of them one way or another. I’ve never seen anyone do this so effortlessly 😭😭😭
That’s wild you’re watching lol shouldn’t you be making videos about rappers ? The wild thing is you’re creative and I know you wanna make big but focus on yourself king . Be creative , talking about ppl isn’t creative . Hope that don’t go over your head
What the heck??? HHM watches pop the balloon?? 🫡😂 Solute bro
Right ! She definitely wasn’t gonna try and answer but Arlette really gave us tea
Arlette is gifted at bringing out information for us :)
FANCY seeing Hiphop madness here
Loved Eric's personality from the start.. He seems like a thoughtful and intelligent gentleman.💕
I'm positive she didn't like his dog 😂
She appears extremely uninterested and bored.
She ain’t feeling it bro, you can tell
Facts
She got her free trips. She bailing out now
@@Ohyesss31after she got flew out. lol damn women use these simps
That's his type
Eric did everything that most women ask from a man, which is to take the initiative. Eric made plans, he applied pressure, he communicated. And she ran off 😂
No disrespect to her...I feel she has low self esteem and must have felt intimidated. Eric is really a cool person. 😊
Remember, he said when he takes a woman on a vacation, they really get to know each other; therefore, he got to know, that she was not for him! END OF STORY!
Easy answer, she didn’t like him. She took the gifts and dates but ultimately wasn’t feeling him. He played a part as well, doing all the spending and she clearly wasn’t the one.
@NubianKing-y3y but he still wanted to date her after that horrible vacation. She put the brakes on that, talking about she just want to be cool. Eric like, no ma'am! We're either dating or nothing at all😃
He needs to RUN!!!
She's not into him. Her body language tells a lot
yup
Man she is showing disgust !!!
She's whack AF.
Go to 9:46 she got another guy in the room, sad and disgusting.
How do you know its a guy? No face was shown...@NeoMoses
Jocelynn wanted the trip as long as it came without hugs, cuddling and even kisses. She seems shallow and detached. Leave her alone Eric.
She is not his wife. She does not owe him that.
@@ShmaAdonaiEhad You are right. Because she is not his wife, she should've declined taking that kind of trip so soon because she knew she wasn't attracted to him. Nothing in life is free especially a trip like that
@@ShmaAdonaiEhad a woman gotta be your wife to get a hug or kiss...how old are we?
@@KaeBrown yes she has to be. As a man a woman that I have not committed to owes me no secxual bodily affection.
Correct @@HannahMcFarlane-jg4bu
She didn’t wanna talk about the disagreement but Arlette was like okay so anyway Eric, what happened?😂
ya cant b this naive she was holding back bc there was no real arguments , she enjoyed the trip like the user she is and once he wanted reciprocity(loving) she started bickering about little ish so she can leave ......she knos to much info about her bs fabricated disagreements will reveal shes just a opportunist and user point blank period
#blessed
@@LaidbackNarration3000bingo
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@@LaidbackNarration3000couldn’t have said it any better
@@LaidbackNarration3000 yeah cause we all know you are supposed to have sex for a free trip. Maybe she didn't want to be with a hoe that would give his money and his body up that quickly. I mean they only knew each other for a few weeks maybe she isn't into easy men, it happens. Now he is free to have sex will people after a few weeks of knowing on a reality show.
I need the type of memory that Eric has. He remembers time, dates, and words in detail. Can’t bs him!
Right! He's very thorough with everything😅
lol nahhh Fr Fr 😂
No drugs no drinking.
He came to the Catch Up prepared as he should
he seems super annoying to argue with, " on 6/16 @ 4:45 pm you said you didn't feel like talking" 😂
If someone is really feeling you, affection would be natural, not forced.
literally, no discussion would need to be made
That’s not the case for everyone. Some people are more reserved. Some people were actually taught values and morals first. The affection comes way later. Some are just shy.
@@lilahoward7555 no one is saying sleeping with them but a hug shouldn’t be forced when you like someone. Doesn’t mean that you don’t have any moral or values. When you know, you know.
This is why u don’t rush going on vacation with a stranger… u should be comfortable with ya partner to the point it’s no boundaries before going on vacation
@@lilahoward7555 also they went on a whole trip together, that is not reserved or shy, but I can understand what you saying. But through experiences, chemistry doesn’t lie.
Eric seemed hurt and looked like he really hoped things would have worked out. He looked like he was trying to compose hisself, I appreciate the update and I hope Eric and Jocelynn finds theirselves lifetime partners.
Jesus is coming back. . Please Get right with the Lord and read the Bible.
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@@kathleenmoore9534 lol 🤣🤣🤣
That was such a mature reply!! God, you're so balanced and a breath of fresh air. 😊
That's what he gets for being so darn knit-picky. He ended up with an unintentionally non-interested poser. When he was speaking she rolled her eyes. Wow!
@@kathleenmoore9534 amen. He need to hurry. These peoples are wild and out here foolin
I'm sure Arlette has learned one thing from this show... How happy she is to be married and not have to be in the dating scene anymore
You don't live with those people to be assuming her situation is perfect. Her husband is definitely not my type especially needing USA citizenship
@@Decades-pl2klwhy are you responding to every comment saying dumb shit, stfu your honestly annoying nobody cares what your type is or what you had for dinner
@@Decades-pl2klJesus is coming back. . Please Get right with the Lord and read the Bible.
@@Decades-pl2kl???
@@Decades-pl2klbro is it your husband or hers, why r u saying he’s not your type😭💀
At least he declined the classic trap "let's remain friends". Cut off completely and invest your time, money and attention on the right person.
Yes she's full of it
She never liked him, she have low interest and u noticed there was no specific reasons that she left. Just a bunch of little excuses.
@@michaelmaxwell7171 right.
@@michaelmaxwell7171no she just didn’t tell us what really happened. You can see the flags from a mile away. He seems like she didn’t want to put him on blast. He was apparently being being very passive aggressive on that trip and had different expectations.
amen sound like she wanted a friend with benefits he dodged a bullet
This is why it's stupid to take such a big and intimate trip with someone you don't know so early on
Yeah take them brods to white castle for a death burger and coffee.
Well he wanted to she how she really was
He said he wanted to see how she was based on the trip. He said this wasn’t his first trip with someone he had just started “dating” either.
Very stupid on his end but also hers for accepting the offer… too soon
always get the kitty first before you go anywhere, she still has a dude, the dude was probably blowing up her phone guilt tripping her, while she was away, and that is why she went to Houston...she did not want to give up the kitty......anytime a gal says she wants to go slow, another dude is involved who she still has hopes for....
Arlette!!! These follow ups are PURE GOLD!! Thank you for meaningful entertainment.
To be very honest with you, I see this as not just an entertainment but a ministry. She’s helping people find Life Partners, now that’s some real deal.
They wasted 30 minutes to basically say he wanted affection and she wasn’t giving it.
I’m hearing he wanted to smell her toez and she wouldn’t let him😩👃🏽🍿
That’s what you got out of this? Interesting….
@@hospitaladministrator3359I mean in conclusion that’s what it was. He was looking for something real and wanted the affection that goes along with that. She doesn’t know what she wants. Who does all that bs, leaves early, and still checks up on him? And she wants to friend zone him, probably to secure future trips as “friends” 😂
She got that trip out of my boy lol he was about to throw up. I’ve been there before. Lol
@@FullSpeedz and who's the fool?! Clearly him
Jocelyn new dude standing in the kitchen watching her being interviewed 😂😂 talking about see I knew you would come back to me.
I thought I was the only one that noticed that she was talking to someone in the room lolll
Lmaooooooo
I knew she was in there with someone else she lame to me
I think it was a friend, not a guy.
It sounds like a woman’s voice in the background.
The juxtaposition between the cute videos and their energy in the interview here is the most entertaining to me. They looked so happy 😅
Fact 😂😂😂😂 like is this the same couple?
Exactly! Like Pinterest type pics and videos that people would deem as goals 😂 and don’t even like eachother fr
I see you using big words there😂
Example of never believe social media. Just the highlight reel of life.
Really...had me wondering if the Love Bombing was the other way. Not with gifts, but with affection, that she suddenly withdrew. He obviously thought she was feeling him up until she told him she wasn't. She looked like she was feeling him in those videos, and some of them were in Greece.
He looks different from when he had his hair up.That man is fine!!!!
As hell
Yup and she was the one who turned out to be ok looking.
Her being allergic to his dog would’ve been the first sign for me that it isn’t going to work.
😂
❤
bingo... the universe sent a sign
😂
That's funny cus anytime my dog don't like a girl I already know they not gonna, work. Especially since he loves 90% of women
So this girl was comfortable enough for a free trip then couldn't work through petty problems. 😂
exactly!
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!
Social media inflates their head. It makes them think that they have infinite options. She'll learn that it's all fake.
Facts!!! She's a walking red flag with gold digger energy!!!
@@nraymond09 I thought maybe I was missing something
She doesn’t even smile at anything he says. She wants that interview to end.😂😂😂😂😂
So hard to watch
She got a new dude or something
She didnt even want it to start! 😂
She did smile...
right lol she was over it
Doesn't seem like she has much of a personality
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Hot take: she never should have accepted to go out the country with a man she didn’t know. We all know what the expectations are with getting flown out, gentleman or not. The woman always sets the pace of the relationship, don’t let a man push you to move too fast. Now you’re out the country feeling uncomfortable. That’s wasn’t wise.
Bingo!
You’re 100% wrong. Women sets the tone for when sex happens and who when a child gets born. A man dictates when a relationship or marriage happens
@@SoCandaceMichelle we are adults
why is this standard set ? "Always", what world do you live in ? I think both partners should respects each other, compromise, and set the pace together. It is much more healthier that way in my opinion.
"The woman always sets the pace of the relationship, don’t let a man push you to move too fast." I think this is very toxic
Hey another unaccountable human spotted!
He’s such a gentleman. I absolutely love how he handled himself in this conversation.
Facts… He deserves better 😩
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Jocelynn: “ i don’t wake people up”
Arlette: “oh that’s different“ 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Arlette is the best host I swear
😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
She knows it's. Bs😂😂
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO
😂😂😂
Awwww, Eric seems to be such a gentleman and very masculine. I wish I had the opportunity to get to know him. I hope he finds someone who matches his selflessness and the compliments he has to offer. Very genuine, caring, thoughtful, generous, etc.... I understand that some things takes time but it sucks that he didnt receive the desired affection. You can tell he was really interested in her. He's not about the game playing. He's ready to settle down.
Welp, he's attracted to women who aren't attracted to him so he'll probably be alone lol
Only 10 seconds in and the blanket already annoys me.
Wow. I felt that too
i thought it was me 😂
Why on zoom video with a blanket. Annoying
The girl is nonchalant
🤣🤣….. stop it!
some ppl are anemic
She went to Greece knowing she didn’t like this dude..
I blame him
@@WhoaNowbrother Why? He's bold and confident enough to express authentic feelings and interest. I wouldn't have done it likely but I respect his confidence.
@@brandonclark8395 and look where it got em !!!! Plaaaaaayed !!!! He tried win her with his wallet 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏿♂️ that’s rule number 1, as man never lead with your wallet with a women who you just met. You’ll get played every time
@@brandonclark8395 You don’t go on a trip out of the country with a woman you barely even know. At his age, he should know that!
@@comeatmebro8120 that method will work on another woman… there was a couple on here who literally got engaged in a matter of weeks.. yall forgot?
I love how Arlette made them talk about something they clearly said they weren’t going to talk about 😂 and I’m here for it ☕️
Okayyyyyy b/c she said “& imma leave it at that” and then the deep dive started 😂😂😂
Because what’s the point of coming on the show if you’re not gonna give us any information. They should’ve just stayed home if it was that serious that they didn’t want to talk about it.
@@lynetteforte1996❤Jesus is coming back. . Please Get right with the Lord and read the Bible.
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It’s like watching paint dry with her. She’s not into him at all. When you’re into someone hugging and touching and kissing just comes naturally.
He looks so different with his locs down.
He looks better
That’s cus his glasses is off lmao i get that a lot too
He is so handsome hair up or dwn. I think it's also because he didn't have the glasses.
This makes me want to be without my glasses a little bit because damn! It’s day and night.
True
i can feel that my man is actually trynna look for a real life partner but his dealing with ladies that are so out of that box
He picked them.
I honestly hope he finds one someday🤦♀️
This is why I'm single don't haft to deal with no bull good people are hard to find these days
@@melissaflores9471 ….yea dats true ….Buh at least dia are good people
@TIMEOUT_WITH_DERA i see bad women get good men and they screw it up all time and I'm like why would anyone screw it up with a good man but that goes the other way to good people are hard to find these days if you have someone good better keep them
Her body language speaks volume. She don’t give af. He cares more than she does by far.
that's why she's single lol
@@M0DFATH3RSingle is not bad. Better to be single than in a miserable relationship. She will always do quite well regardless. With this exposure, her DMs are full and she will have the pick of the litter.
Naw, it's called dude tried to sleep with her because he paid for that trip and she had to let him know, just cause yall think black American woman are all easy I'm here to let you know thats a lie.
@@Decades-pl2klyou not letting us know anything, your just running your mouth. dude took her out the country..... are you slow. look her demeanor & the way she's coming off, she wasn't interested she just used him.
@@imanislifestyles_ now imma dump you like she did him. It only took 1oz of common sense to know what happened and you obviously don't have none 🙄 🤡
If yall go back to the reunion (its probably like 10 vids ago) you will see how argumentative Eric is. He wants to use his sweet voice here but you'll see a different Eric in that vid and i know thats the Eric that was on the trip with this lady.
He was also on a previous episode being nasty and picky to the ladies but crazy over the young beautiful girls. I know his type
Exactly! He seems like one of those people that thinks he’s the smartest in the room and he’ll argue you down to show it. All these people think he’s some kind of victim, maybe their personalities just clashed the longer they hung out🤷🏾♀️
Omg really?! That sucks I watch his RUclips channel and he seems so genuine in his training of his dogs and how he deals with people. This goes to show people aren’t the same person at home that they are at work!
You guys are all assuming and PROJECTING
Exactly Eric is a lost 40 and seems like he wants to settle down but then is interested in these way younger girls that are obviously not interested in the right reasons
not gonna lie, a long ass foreign country trip is TOOOO MUCH for people that aint even known each other a year 😭😭😭 im glad they were able to end it peacefully though
Yeppp. Well said, I made this mistake about 2 years ago, never again. Too many moving variables into a new relationship.
@a.alphonso6193 yea he could have also chosen a mini trip closer to the states vs europe. I think he was trying to impress her, but it was a fail.
Way too much
That's the same mistake he made with Keianna. Leading with his money.
It's not a mistake for two people who actually like each other. Ask Mihke & Khe.
She soo Cold to point where Sis needed a blanket. 😂
Deadass😂😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂 fr
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that's hilarious
She's a mean girl
There was A LOT left unsaid…
He said everything that made sense, she said everything that didn't make sense
Do tell 👀
Her: Frigid
Him: Ready for Something Real
Best to you both❤
If a girl doesn't want to hug you, that's a tell-tale sign that she doesn't like you😢!!
Facts or if a woman says "I don't like touching people". Women love touching people they are actually sexually attracted too.
Right, ain’t that the first thing you do when you meet your date for the first time?
That's also a sign that you did something wrong and she lost interest
She hugged him like crazy in the video
💯
Eric took her to Greece and wanted some of that kitty and she wasn’t with it. End of story. 😂😂😂
He literally has no personality and she lacks it too.. so it’s like two dull people tryna make a connection. Just didn’t work
😂😂😂😂😂
FACTSSSS!!!!
Another simp bites the dust😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 that's exactly what happened.
Arlette be saying Whoo Chile, Thank God I'm Married! 😅💅🏾
I know she does because I say it myself 😂😂
Marriage ain’t permanent
Marriage aint always sunshine & rainbows, and you can't just opt to run away from it like Jocelyn did when it isnt..
“How you gon’ be mad on Vacation ?” - Kanye West
Eric is very open & good at articulating what exactly happened… which is probably the gift & curse for him in relationships. These girls can’t beat him in an argument and he is VERY straightforward.
Indeed someone who articulates their thoughts well may inadvertently dominate conversations, leaving their partner feeling marginalized and creating a competitive rather than a cooperative dynamic. But, Eric didn't come off as more focused on proving a point than finding a mutually acceptable solution. He seemed like someone with empathy who was willing to learn and adapt.
However, adaptation is only feasible in a relationship where both partners are committed to mutual growth and understanding. Jocelyn did not seem to be ready for that.
Furthermore, I noticed that Eric knew he tends to dominate conversations, so he was deliberating pausing to invite Jocelyn to share her thoughts in the course of the conversation.
Exactly he totally reminds me of my husband very serious guy. My husband is even a lawyer but baby when he met me, he met his match.😂
And he couldn’t get enough of it after😂
You're drinking the cool aid. He's a love bomber.
He’ll eventually find him one. To many woman on this earth not to find the perfect one.
It’s very obvious that she was not 100% attracted to him when she initially met him, but was willing to get to know him as time progressed. He moves quickly and expected the same energy from her.
During the trip, it really settled that she sees him as more as a friend than a romantic partner. I think she is having a hard time admitting or telling him that she’s not that attracted to him and wants to spare his feelings.
This is why it’s so important to not go on a trip with someone you’re not physically attracted to.
She may have grown to like him eventually with all the acts of service towards her but he would want touch in return and that would probably gross her out and he would be frustrated and impatient
Well said 👏
Too damn old to not keep it 100. It’s cowardly
I think what she really wanted was the benefits of being in a relationship with him without being in a relationship she wanted to use him
I agree
Date one, she told him exactly who she was. She told him that she couldn't be bought. She chose Buffalo Wild Wings, and that impressed him. Yet somehow he still didn't get the memo. A few weeks later, he invites her on a getaway vacation to a foreign country and he clearly had the expectation that she'd sleep with him. She accepted the invitation, which she definitely should NOT have done. Then, when they arrived to Greece, she had the discussion with him about her boundaries (aka no sex). That's a conversation that probably should've been had in the beginning planning stages. But they're both to blame for that. They get to Greece, the boundaries are set, and clearly Eric wasn't happy with it. After five days of her not giving in, he got upset. He felt played. So, he resorted to childish behavior and condescendingly criticized her as being a "bad hugger". The man wanted more than a hug. But after only six weeks of getting to know each other, she definitely wasn't obligated to give him affection. He clearly felt otherwise and that she should've prostituted herself out. Again, she shouldn't have accepted the invitation. But in that same right, he shouldn't have offered it. He was disingenuous in inviting her on the trip, knowing he wanted "affection". And she was disingenuous in accepting the invitation knowing that he would want something from her that she wasn't ready to give. However, she didn't play him. He played himself. It just speaks to his lack of respect in the way he sees women that one could show him exactly who she is, and he still try to treat her otherwise. But ultimately it speaks to his lack of self-respect that he feels he has to lead with his wallet. The first lady he matched with also wasn't interested in him, and he led with materialism to get her too. At this point, it's insanity. Eric, if you're reading this, what you think you know, you clearly don't. So try a different approach. Try being honest, genuine, kind, decent and integral. How about that?!
Finally, someone gets it. You hit the nail on the head
Yep, you get it. Eric is clearly a problem and he refuses to acknowledge his issues. It seems everyone ignores his issues because he is articulate, successful and a “good” guy.
This makes so much sense! And African men are very much like this
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Now this is it!!
i feel so sorry for this dude, he is genuine, kind, and good spirited, he just couldnt find that one right person to reciprocate the kindness, i wish you find true love Eric, love from Nigeria
She just didn't like him. She's not attracted to him.
I do think she's a simple girl who doesn't ask for much but I also think she didn't give a damn where they went on dates because she didn't see it being serious anyway.
I think she said yes to the trip because she always wanted to go and I think he wanted to be a lil closer and at least hug, kiss and be romantic while they were in Greece and she was grossed out because she was there for the trip, not him.
She comes off generally quiet and passive, which I think masks her personality, good or bad.
excellent
That’s what I think too
I’m just trying to think why she didn’t just pop her ballon? Why go on a trip with a stranger
@@pictureboi1 its 2024…. lets bfr
Best observation
I don’t feel bad for him, they obviously have nothing in common and it seems like Eric can’t find someone cause he’s fixated on being with a baddie. I think he needs to be with someone who actually likes him for who he is and he’ll be fine. When you lead with your possessions and money you’ll attract that type of energy. 🤷🏾♀️
She will be looking for an Eric in her mid to late 30’s . lol
You don't know him enough to say any of this 💀💀💀 ...the baddie part
@@shemarroberts8686Clearly referring to my own observation of the original ep and post interview. It’s painfully obvious and common irl. Don’t lead with money period 🤷🏾♀️ That’s why it’s called comments I’m commenting ..
He deserves an attractive woman and shes average
He doesn’t even give off that vibe that “he’s fixated on being with a baddie”..
Eric is someone that I can see is really looking for love. We all would love to see that happen for him.
Eric is lookin to clash some meats but shorty must not been ready to drop dem draws
@@chevyjr1862 Exactly! He wanted to have his way with her and she outsmarted him. He booked that holiday to deceive her and smash.
@@chevyjr1862😂😂😂😂😂😂
It takes mentally and emotionally mature individuals to build a lasting relationship. Many of these folk on this show appear to have issues that need to be sorted out before attempting to "find love."
I’m so glad she shows a clip from their episode because i would never remember who these people are
FR, I thought I was losing my memory
Same here!
I was just thinking the same thing when I clicked on the vid 😂😂😂
I only recognized like 2-3 couples on these follow-ups lol
He changed his fit 😂
GIRL can we use our words?! 😂 she’s lowkey irking me lol
I feel the same!!!
high key lol
I know omg
We know you’re mad, speak up!😂
I know I see what you're saying. I thought the same thing! She acts like she can't talk. Smh.
She's immature
Eric is smart because he knows that you don't truly know a person until you've traveled with them!! Eric needs someone with genuine motivation & interests, positive energy and maturity!! He even stayed positive during this interview!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
A WEEK Trip tho?! That’s overload for the 2 strangers in the initial dating phase. He’s should’ve went for 4 nights.
If she really liked him, that wouldn't be a problem.@@shiquonnewinkfield4751
Nah. He dumb and he move too fast. We’ve all done it tho. Well most of us.
A road trip of at least 6 hours is good for that. Not Santorini.
@@shiquonnewinkfield4751 i said the same thing 7 days extremely long 😂
Eric most definitely embodies emotional intelligence, attention to detail, and maturity. Her loss and a blessing in disguise for Eric!
Her boo in the room with her ...she being vague lol
Edit: ik yall seen her looking at someone lol
😂😂
Blink twice sis!
Yup I was saying the same thing she’s sitting with a man that surly isn’t ready to fly her around the world 😮
@@Quay-unfortunate truth is that’s what a lot of women want lol a man to blow their back out and not really care…Eric did everything a woman usually ask for and look where it got him? Should’ve took her to Olive Garden, smashed and moved on. Smh
@@Quay-lol😅
Brother don't ever go out of your way like that for any female, unless it's determined that you are officially in a committed relationship...period!!!
100000%.
Million percent %%%%%
Always be yourself, help weed them out quicker. Going above and beyond shows your character, letting a person change that will just lead you to the wrong partner.
Ur a misogynist lol.
@@dereklove2199he’s in the room with her
Y’all are wild in the comments, Eric mos def got some things “off” about him. He doesn’t seem like a bad guy, but he comes off as very intense and doesn’t seem to understand social cues. His approach to relationships seems very systematic almost like solving a problem and relationships don’t necessarily work that way.
This right here.
Plus, at the end of the day, they are not compatible.
Fair
But she didn’t notice this before taking the trip out to Greece?
He might be on the Autism Spectrum.
@@Radiance230it’s hard to say no to Greece 😅😅
THANK YOU
Capri was tryna give them a sign before the trip 😂😂😂
No bs 😂😂😂
Our pets be knowing 😂
Good one!!!
😂
🤣🤣🤣
Summary: He took her to Greece and thought he was entitled to “get some”. She didn’t want to give up the box. He felt unappreciated and accused her of playing him out. She then decided to leave. Since he already paid a few racks for their trip, he is still playing her close in hopes of eventually getting his money’s worth. Moral of the story: Do not plan a romantic trip with someone you haven’t already established a romantic relationship with.
This should be pinned 😂💯
That's not the moral of the story though. Did you listen to the reason why he said he did that? He said you get to really know someone when you are traveling or living with them. And it's true. Hence why REAL conversation came up during the trip. Not just superficial ones. The fact is she A) Was never really that interested in him and B) talking to other guys. Hence why you can see her looking at someone in the background of this video at 9:46. He was looking for something serious. She wasn't feeling him and was leading him on. Defending this level of manipulation and toxicity is self snitching.
RIGHT!
He literally spoke about respecting her physical boundaries and giving her space, I'm pretty sure any guy who invites a girl on vacation (which she agreed) would prefer for it to lead to that level of physical intimacy, there's absolutely nothing with that.
exactly she is probably a "nice' girl and don't want to put him out there but she did use terms like love bomb and delusional which is coded language for something not right went down.
She don’t want him but still wants access to him. Nah shorty…bounce
Exactly that, home girl looking to have a friend with financial benefits!
She didn’t want access to too him, she was being NICE. Bffr 😂😂😂
She seems entitled
You barb? it doesn't even make sense
@@mizzmention8555 exactly!
I can peep the whole problem right away! Eric is doing too much, too fast. He's too nice and also a little controlling. He played himself. He said he made notes that she needs to give better hugs... Who does that???
He taking the girl on trips and hasn't even got the box yet. If relationships are in 10 stages. 1 being the first date and 10 being marriage. A international trip is a level 7 thing. Dude jumping from level 3 to level 7 and then expecting all the levels before to be there. When you do that the vibe is always gonna be off. Hes expecting the full gf experience when she's still in the dating stage. Never give too much too early. Make her work for it the same as she's making you work for it. Put your wallet down and get to know her!
10/10
So, he came over, wanted to help you clean/organize, he moved some shoes and that made you upset! did you even like the brother, seriously? smh.
QTNA!!! 😂
He was about to say he found something but got interrupted
He admitted to touching the items she didn’t want him to touch with out her permission
She wouldn't have been mad if Denzel, Idris or LL COOL JAY touched her stuff wo permission 😂
@@shyshy2020yeah I caught that too
That trip was too long…. 7 days with someone you barely know… cabin fever is inevitable lol
I definitely agree with this. A Weekend trip to a state they’ve not been to with CLEAR ESTABLISHED BOUNDARIES (no 🐱) would have prolly yielded the same result. He prolly not hurting for the money but she kinda showed who she was leading up to the trip. They’re just incompatible.
Shoot, a 7 day vacation is long for me and I take those with my wife.
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Especially when you don’t want to have sex with that person
@@KamikazeSP06totally agree
Homeboy need to lets go of the thought of the aesthetically pleasing woman and find the women that actually like him for him and not only what he has to offer.
That’s usually the downfall of most black men, they try so hard to get the baddie, who don’t want them instead of them seeing the perfections of an imperfect girl. They don’t learn until they are 60 and lonely
It doesn’t only pertain to black men. It’s goes for people in general everybody wants to chase a unicorn when wats for them they overlook. Women do it also. But everyone will learn eventually. Hopefully not the hard way .
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@keyunit101 yes
Something I thought she acts just like the 1st girl he picked.
That’s her loss! She’ll be screaming there’s no good man left in a few years after she is dogged out by the dusties 😂
That’s why you don’t take a girl you just met to Greece tryna be fly guy 😂
All that money wasted for an average women who finessed you. When will you clowns learn? Take her on chicken dates and keep it pushing
Facts overinvestment leads to hurt feelings. People must be vetted properly
Agree
She a 304s
He tried to trick on her & it backfired. 🤣
I honestly think that’s his lifestyle. He seems well traveled.
The way she’s making Arlette work for a direct answer is the way she made him work for affection. She is just hella guarded and I’m convinced she is not mature enough to be in a relationship. Also, eric why are you flying people out 3 weeks after meeting them???
Dating has changed so much and men need to do something different period.....Conventional dating like Hinge, or Arlette's show dating show are no longer producing results.......Men need to arranged dating or arranged marriage....That's the only thing that will work
@@cyes1156 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I was thinking the same thing!
@@cyes1156arranged marriage doesn't work either because why would you marry someone you didn't choose for yourself??? One might actually not be compatible with their arranged partner and despise them🤷🏾♀️
@maritawanazw
Women are choosing for themselves today and where is it leading them🤣🤣🤣.....Arrangements are the foundation of certain religions and it keeps their family together...... Today, NOBODY is staying together because chosing for ourselves has FAILED MISERABLY
Her : And I’ll just leave it at that.
Arlette : No the hell you won’t
😂😂😂😂
I'm fkn dead lmaoo
@@brianwashington1158 🤣😭🤣😭
Lmao 😂
Ayeee no cap, she gotta get these views 😂😂
@@brianwashington1158 soon as Arlette dug deeper, I was like unh unh, she said she'll leave it there. Chile, she then proceeded spill the milk lol
She's a runner. She wants to experience the fun and excitement that comes with relationships but not go through the disagreements and the downs that can come along the way. Why she wants to keep him as a friend. I'm glad he set the boundary as no move on.
Seems like he rushed the relationship. A month isn’t long enough to be going on a 7-day trip out of the country. Also, all this “note taking” & “testing” is odd.. like he’s trying to calculate his reactions/responses. She didn’t say love bombing for no reason. He seems nice enough but something is off. He’s a very handsome, intelligent dude but this is two women now that it didn’t work out with. He might be the problem.
True.
Yes, narcissists 'LOVE BOMB' in the beginning, and display false charisma, before showing you their manipulativeness and true colours. He is so calculating if he needs to write everything down.
@@butterflywind999so u call him a narcissist because he chose to be kind, genuine, and thoughtful to a woman he really liked… you women are a trip… women like u are grateful and hate men so much that you try to gaslight and paint this false narrative as if he’s the bad guy… 😂 typical
Definitely just on the spectrum…narcissistic is a stretch
Yes exactly! He taking notes on the conversation. What else is he taking notes on
Did she watch his previous interview? He is serious and ready to be in a relationship. No games. He seems genuine and transparent. Wish him all the best.
Yes hes not gonna find the woman he wants and needs on a show like this
@@StacyBrown2 yes because we know women who are serious have sex after two weeks of knowing someone, crazy thing is the women who do aren't the ones that men want.
@@shemgreen7774 He sure wont. He also doesn't know how to pick women. When he decided to go with her I yelled at the TV. lol.
Buddy not ready for marriage at all.
Zero vetting skills.
They need to share the same values and time lines etc.
There needs to be chemistry.
He needs therapy IMO because he is just going about his dating life haphazardly smh 🤦🏽♀️.
Exactly right when they matched I knew it was never going to work.
They barely had a spark or conversation on stage.
Was destined to fail.
He just went by looks and her career and thought he had won already.
You gotta hit first before to decide to go to Greece.
The chemistry must be there.
Body language is a voice that is never silent!
He's a very intelligent and emotionally person, he has a good head on his shoulder.
Yes he does. This woman was undeserving of his time.
Yes he does. This woman was undeserving of his time.
“Cuddling” with someone you are not feeling is torture 😩
😂😂😂😂😂😂it really is and you can’t fake it no matter how hard you try
Chile… the PTSD I just got 😂😂😂
Real shit
😅😅 def is omg
then why did you go out with him
We still need the catch up on the plumber man and his match! 😩😂
She later rejected him afterwards
@@tochivi9677other way around lol
Their relationship lasted 40 minutes!
@@tochivi9677she didn’t rejected him she gave somebody her social media or phone number he cut her off
a Weapon X interview would BEND the internet
Arlette’s face while she’s trying to listen to ole girl got me weak😂!
Died at ole girl 😂
Cuz she was really trying to choose her words carefully. Instead of just saying she learned she wasn't physically attracted to him & it wouldn't work in a relationship.
I like how Arlette Got them answers out of them!!😌
She's a bit immature... she's not ready for a relationship
Go to 9:46 she got another guy in the room, sad and disgusting.
No where near ready for one!
@@NeoMosesyou need a job
@@curleii333 I got one bum
@@NeoMoseswhy are you commenting this everywhere 😂😂😂😂
The way Arlette has to dig for information 🤦🏽♀️
Y’all know why we are here, y’all know why you are here, and y’all know what we want to hear so just give us the update and hang up!
🎯🎯🎯💪🏾😩 NAILED IT HUN🤝🏾.
Dang hahaha you right thou
I am a girl's girl through and through, but...this is proof that women are NEVER satisfied. She has such a bored and nasty disposition. He really went out his way. This is what "women always say they want" but they dont know how to act when he comes along. Men please reserve this treatment for a woman that truly loves and values you. And dont let this break you down and keep you from finding a wife.
Yes!! I totally agree
Yep
Totally agree all I can say is healing both sides I understand why she’s single
Facts
I hope Eric reads this
Eric is a very awesome type of man. He just needs a sweet, affectionate and kind girl.
These comments are concerning. She very honestly said they found that they weren't compatible after spending time together. That is the entire point of dating. They are different people at different stages in life. Eric seems to be more concerned with looks and thinks he can mold a young woman. While she seems to be looking for a genuine and easy connection. It's OK that they didn't work out.
That's because a lot of people don't “date” or “court” anymore, they just hop into situationships and find after the fact they aren't compatible.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Who doesn’t want to be attracted to the person they date. This young lady is full of herself and will end up a single mother
Oh please 🙄 she’s immature, bland and not ready for a sincere connection
@@hospitaladministrator3359 I rebuke those negative words in the name of Jesus! I speak success and marriage over her life.
Jocelyn was super insufferable. I completely understand why she’s so beautiful yet single lol no one can deal with her nonchalant and petty behaviour
@Moniethemom hmm calling her beautiful that's a stretch
💯
Indeed!
Exactly
She’s immature
Arlette always asks the proper questions ,she know what to ask to get the proper information ,shoutout to her she’s really a great host ,she is good at what she does 👌🏾👍
Long story short, she wasn't feeling him from the start but she sees him as a good friend to keep around and he was like nah I'm good!
Yup and she shouldn't have gone on the trip
He basically picked the same kind of girl that he chose the first time. He thought he was doing all the right things but you chose the wrong girl.
She chose him.
@nicrenoonbeauty When u leave your balloon unpopped, you are also choosing. He could have saw she was just like the last girl and popped.
men rarely do not know how to choose in general
@@1Sakks0 She seemed different on the balloon show.
She is very different from that clout chaser.
I actually went on a date with Eric in June in LA and he is not really this sweet and sincere person as he represents himself to be. He was very argumentative during the date, likes to ask hypothetical black and white questions but got upset when i wouldn’t answer them without more information and insulted my character as a friend over a disagreement about picking someone up at LAX. At the end of the date he tried to invite himself over to my place, which I told him No I was not comfortable with that. He then tried to make me feel bad for not allowing him to come back to my place. So I just drove him back to his Airbnb and he was cold to me the entire time and he never even said thank you for the ride. He acted like a very arrogant fboy not this sweet and endearing person he shows on camera. He has two sides to him.
Wow
Knew it !
Wow not surprised! he seems very manipulative and it’s shocking to see how many people are taking his side in these comments.
@@nadine878 Right! He definitely was manipulative and I peeped that out at the end of the date when he he tried to invite himself over to my place and when I said No I don’t allow men to come over to my place early on he then said in a frustrated voice “I just want to see your life, I’m not gonna do anything”. He really thought I was stupid enough to fall for that.
👀
Pray Eric Finds someone that actually likes him
I agree, like Women are the problem
Me too he seems like a great guy
He might if he stops looking at beauty and starts looking at character.
ERIC GOTTA STOP SIMPPING FIRST
He should go to Nigeria n find a wife.😂😂😂
SO HE BASICALLY WAS TRICKING AND GOT TIRED OF TRICKING WITHOUT GETTING THE 🐱 😂
for like 3 weeks. at least commit to some shit
It’s crazy how complicated this generation made dating and getting to know ppl
Yep
Exactly
100% It's like Quantum mechanics.
It's sickening man
Amen
He has a type for sure. She looks like the first girl he matched with: tall, slim and light skinned. Nothing wrong with that, but he’s only focusing on the physical attraction. Like with the first girl, you can tell they have barely any chemistry and things in common. At 38, he needs to start digging deeper or I don’t see a marriage/kids anytime soon.
True
She is a fine light skinn lol but yeah he do seem focused on physical, but that’s every guy
Exactly this!
@@41prime_yeah that’s true, but he can do that on Tinder tbh. He’ll keep coming back on the show doing the same thing and getting the same result over and over again.
@@41prime_🧢
When they matched, I knew it would end this way. Eric is very particular. He like things his way. Though he states he had her make the choices, it's not something he actually likes. He's over 10 years older than she is. He purposely didn't wake up. This man totally plans everything. No way he over slept. He wanted to see what she would do
And she said she will never wake anyone up...pray for those kids she bears one day, they have no shot at perfect attendance.
@@masculinitymatters9030 he's an adult. She said they had a conversation prior to this about not waking folks up, so why did he think she would wake him up for this. That man is very calculated.
Yeah even Arlette attested to the fact that he likes to plan. Also if I think she mentioned that they had just finished a fight, I wouldn't wake him up either.
@user-ir4fp9mq6z exactly. He didn't wake up knowing she wouldn't wake him up, then to call her "passive". He fell asleep after a 3 mile run? Lolol. Cmon now
@@safboogie83 definitely the gives the vibes that he “tests” people by manipulating a situation and then hiding his hands and pretend he wasn’t
First of all, I used to not like Eric if I’m being honest. But after watching this catch up, I have so much respect for him. Even after a break up, he is respecting her privacy, he isn’t over talking her, he is allowing her to speak her truth, and he genuinely looks disappointed that it didn’t work out. He remembers exact dates and seems very attentive and detail-oriented. That’s a plus!!! He planned this whole trip to Greece for crying out loud. Personally, I saw their episode and knew it wasn’t gonna work. I feel like she only picked him AFTER he disclosed how many acres of land he owns and what he has accomplished. I got opportunist vibes from her. I am glad Eric agreed to this interview because she was so evasive and Arlette couldn’t get her questions answered. I guess she didn’t want to look like the bad guy. I think Eric tried to make it work. She just ain’t the one. I feel badly
for him. He needs a woman who is mature, not shallow, and one who doesn’t run at the first sign of conflict!!!!!! Talk it out! Smh
She don’t like u and used for a free vacation . and her boyfriend at her house right now and u never tell a woman u need to start giving me hugs🤦🏽♂️
Facts
Man his pimping aint piming
She has a boyfriend!? Why did she go on that trip? Wasting ppl’s time and resources
😂😂😂
His pimpin ain’t giving 😂😂😂😂😂
I know what happened!! The topic of Sex probably came up.. My theory is he was trying to move in for the nookie, and she rejected him! (scene) Eric says, "You know I'm feeling you right, and we have to make this relationship official. " Jocelynn says." I like you, but I'm not that type of girl, and I KNEW THIS WAS A SETUP! Take me home!" Eric says," I can't we are in another country and I just rented a four-wheeler!"🤣
Touch grass bro
I think they had sex before and she didn’t enjoy it but she was enjoying the money
😂
read this in his voice 😩😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Chile one thing Miss Arlette is going to do is ASK THE QUESTION 😂😂 she gunna make sure we get the details 😂😂
😂 facts!
Chile?
@@SnipesRuntheNavy a country in South America
@@MaxedUP2😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you for real ???
@@OlivePall about what? 😂🤫
When I saw them match I was like.. "Its going to end in tears". Eric is a Narcissist 😂😂
I don’t see this… how??
@@Lorob854you gotta watch how he acted on the reunion🙃he doesn’t seem very nice in my opinion😬
@@niaturner2137 I watched that reunion he was nice and normal... You're a western woman who want men to be doormats, i bet you were offended by him having an opinion.
A virtual catchup, we already kno what time it is smdh!!
😂😂😂😂
Yup yup😂
Don’t come on the show if you’re not ready to make the full commitment.. hopefully contracts are coming soon 👀
It's wild because they hung out a lot.
He did that to a lady on his first match. I’m surprised he’s there in person